4 Signs People SECRETLY Find You Attractive
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- Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
- One of the biggest problems that people face is thinking that they are less attractive than they really are, and when we believe this, it sets up our mind to look for evidence to confirm this belief.
Thinking you're not attractive when you REALLY ARE can cause you to miss out on so many opportunities and experiences that you deserve to have, so the sooner you know the signs that other people find you attractive -- the sooner you can realize you really are FAR better looking than you think, and you can enjoy the massive boost in confidence that comes along with knowing this.
When you genuinely believe in yourself and your ability, others will believe in you, respect you and find you attractive
thats right
@@kc270352 💪
Julian u dikhead make videos for business secrets channel
Getting to that point of genuine self-belief is easier said than done, though.
@@edge3220 Definitely takes time but well worth it
Everyone in the comment section: suddenly a 10/10
Man this channel is my lolcow, the comments are always hilarious.
😂😂
Moochbag okay but... you still had to actively search for both this channel and its content soo.. you’re laughing at yourself bro.
@@GHOST13500 i just stumbled upon it
Everyone besides YOU. 😂🤣😂🤣
I've put myself down most of my 37 years. Missed lots of opportunities. Have been my own worst enemy.
No PMO - do that coupled with tough workouts where you push yourself and you'll be the best you've ever felt in your life.
Many people have been their own worst enemy unfortunately
We only get to see those people once, twice, every day or every year but at least we don't get to see those same people for 37 years :)
Stop holding back, 5 years doing that and I'm not just tired of it, I'm exhausted from it. Nothing new brings onto the table if people keep holding themselves back from newer/better opportunities.
Me too
You are enough as you are. The right people will build you up, and not tear you down. Your character, and how you treat others, makes a difference.😇
When i started when i started feeling good in my life, everything comes off to me automatically. Being carefree and having a good mindset, people perceives you as attractive not only because of ur apperance, but because of your aura that gives of positivity and confidence.
Harish Kumar hell yeah yeah I was thinking the same thing
this is everything, vibes are some real shit
Attraction is not always looks, they just have great intellect, confidence and are authentic and that makes them handsome
Ken: True, but confidence goes a long way.
Anyone who doubts that should hit up UnbreakableConfidence, com..
If u can approach girls without hesitating or showing any sign of insecurity, it'll make a big difference - regardless of your looks.
But physical good looks is still a real thing, only 10% of people are the top 10%. They are good looking on the outside even if they are stupid or bad and repulsive. While some of the ugliest people, the few bottom 10%, are super attractive because they are rich and have big brains and good luck, like Stephen Hawking was retarded but still a genius and smarter than all other peoples.
@Kenneth Cass ask any girl she will tell you she'll go for the funny guy instead of the handsome one. Then ask her to choose between Brad Pitt and Mr. Bean...
and a fat paycheck. That makes them really secretly attractive.
The thing is that confidence, sense of humor, brains, they all play a factor, that is true. However, they can only be discovered and appreciated AFTER approaching an getting to know someone. In most cases, better looking people are more likely to be approached or to not be rejected.
"When you want to succeed as bad as you want to breathe, then you'll be successful" -Eric Thomas
Read same in "Think and Grow Rich"
I guess I'll be success real soon
Breathing is normal. Yes the quote is correct only if u are struggling for air or gasping for air. Then yes we can agree.
But Breathing is like eating. The only difference is we breathe every sec.
So I think the only thing i can take out motivation from Breathing is " Discipline and consistency and maintaining the flow " .. But not struggling for Air. Only applies if u have asthma or getting drowned
I'm 45. I got told once when I was 25 that I was hot af. I never believed it. One of my friends who is a girl finally said after 4 years of being friends said "you very good looking dude, wtf are u doing hanging with me". Lol.
🤣🤣
😂and the u accept it,👍
Do u ever wish u was younger again
@@blackairforceenergy2127 yep
RUclips is like going to free college to learn various things. The exception is that you do not get an expensive piece of official paper with a seal on it.
Lowkey
Or any of the multitudinous life experiences and lessons that actually supersede the academics of college. College is one big test of a persons character. You’ll forget a lot of the textbook material but that goes for anything that you don’t actively use in every day life. But interacting with people from different walks of life and cultures is one of the best things about a great college campus.
This anti-intellectualism or just anti-college is asinine petulant behavior and usually comes from people who could not get into their university of choice due to poor grades. The money excuse is a poor one…. People want you to go to school, there’s countless grants and scholarships out there, you just have to do the work of finding them. If you’re too lazy to do that then stick with your armchair internet opinions.
@@queenhenryviii People are not against college learning, but against unemployment after spending $10000s plus of university expenses or be still stuck at their high school level jobs with university level school loan debts. Nobody needs higher education to get rich if everyone were taught money & investment knowledge as children. Starting stock market investing at 15, 16 with first jobs would make someone a multimillionaire or more in 20, 30, 40 years and be work free. Then you can buy other knowledge instead of personally stuffing them into your own head and have to chase other's pay, schedules.
You only need that scrap of paper, to work for someone else
People act weird around us not because is something wrong with us, but there is something RIGHT with us...that shit hits different😳
Right..people are intimated by attractive people so they do weird shit lol
I just think I'm average looking. As a guy, I'm personally satisfied with the way I look, good enough for Monday. I do get incredulous when women send me signs they are into me. I see it, but somehow I don't believe it. My brain can't accept it so it doesn't process it. It's like I find myself in Twilight Zone. The possibility is wildly exciting and at the same time scary. I end up compartmentalizing it. I find it more comforting to ignore the signs. I'm single.
Challenge yourself to approach or capatalize on these women. If you are wrong and thry say no, then thats part of the game. You have to play it my friend. I use to be EXTREMELY shy. Now Im far from it. Challenge yourself to interact with people of both genders in a non sexual way. Keep the convos going as long as you can, and be enthusiastic. I have passed up beautiful women in fear, and the ones when i was turned down by them after devoloping confidence still made me feel good that i made the approach. Its ok to be awkward sometimes. At the end of the day, your opinion on yourself trumps all.
@@dx180 FANTASTIC comment,bro.✊👌🔥
Deon X have an indifferent attitude to insults and girls hitting on you. That drives them crazy.
And with girls you gotta talk more with a lot of emotion attached to everything you say and escalate the tension by touching and flirting with her. Sounds hard but practice it on girls you like and you’ll see them all over you in no time
Not good mostly
@@isaackakarot4314 Thanks a lot, bro. I really appreciate the compliment.
3rd: 4:21 other people being rude, is also very much true. Jealous people often do this to attractive people.
Thx
Seriously man! That sucks. I face this lot.
@@vishagh7352 Get over it and become confident then your life will change!!!
Another easy one is if you've never been asked to model or if you've been asked if you're a model
That's an easy way to know if you're an 8, 9 or 10/10 in terms of attractiveness
If you're a girl, look at the type of guys that you've dated or have approached you to flirt with you and ask you out on a date
If the men are very attractive and/or very rich and successful
There's a good chance (90% chance) that you're an 8, 9 or 10 in terms of attractiveness
Those are 2 super easy ones
As a guy or girl, if you get free stuff or people acting super nice to you like he said in the video... You're not a 7 or below
You're basically a supermodel type in terms of looks lol
If you can blend into exam halls, classes, work, zoom meetings, shopping mall centres and so on without people noticing
Either you're super short or you're a 6/10 or below in terms of attractiveness
Even a 7/10 will turn some heads or attract a little bit of attention when they enter a room or even just walk in the park
So when I go running I normally smile and wave at a person and I find that attractive women tend to maintain eye contact smile and wave back but less attractive women tend to not want to interact. Moral of the story, smiling and being confident no matter how attractive you are instantly makes you more attractive 😍
Moral of your story: don't make eye contact with less attractive women cuz they won't make it with you anyway.
Smiling is contagious my friend
Creepy
This is probably one of your most powerful videos ever...
Recognizing others' negativity towards us as self affirmation of our GOODNESS is an awesome mindset. The next steps is responding to these acts of bullying in a way that reaffirms our own sense of attractiveness, AND puts the loser in their place.
Could you examine these ideas in future videos?
It can be damaging as well
1 2 and 4 are pretty obvious when you think about it. and number 3 is just false
@@timmenhoff no its right. Sometimes people actually hate you but a lot of the time they are just jealous. I have had coworkers be rude with me for no reason and when I took a step back and asked around to other coworkers, the conclusion is that they are envious. Iike one guy I have to instruct at my job, its obvious that he is insecure and doesnt make any effort to be attractive, well he hates me for no reason. I act cool with him just like I do with everyone else but he seems to have something against me.
I dont let it get to my head because I know Its all about him and his insecurity and not me and my attitude
Lack of female attention tells me otherwise 😅
When people see you glow they want to dull your shine. Happens all the time.
They have this problem because of toxic enviroment.. toxic parents, friends etc..
That's the origin of most of lack of self confidence
@@ciaran6309 Can attest to that. Toxic bigoted bullies at elementary and having immigrant parents to culture clash with nearly every childhood moment. Could've accomplished so much more like the video mentioned.
Toxic friends must be true. My friends are demotivating me a lot. A friend of mine has a sister that fell in love with me, and when I told him that, he started talking shit about me and saying that her sister is stupid for falling in love with an ugly idiot like me. My friends look down at me and compare me to extremely bad-looking people on the internet like TikTok, Instagram, etc. Every time they see someone they find ugly on Instagram for instance, they always say "Damn he looks like you".
I can't stand out with myself anymore. I try to avoid mirrors because they remind me of my ugliness.
@@swegamerhdlandbergt677 you NEED to drop them.
I agree with #1 and #4; when I go places with others we get stares, people stop their conversations, and we get good tables and excellent service at restaurants.
I've gotten free food and coupons 🫠.
I can’t take my eyes off myself...Couldn’t care less about what others think
I’m very aggressive and unemotional person. I stop caring about people think of me.
Dang
Thats the way to go!
Then why you watching this video 💀
You dont care but your telling people the fact you dont care
I have a toxic mother at made me this way. I’m slow changing myself.
Now this is the type of content i was searching for, thanks a lot Julian
Is his name Julian?
Who tf is JULIAN??? his name is FarFromAverage.
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I like this video because it points out some of the difficulties of being attractive. Jealous people actively trying to do harm to a person. This a life long phenomenon with potentially crippling consequences.
Which is why alot of attractive people will only want to be around those of the opposite sex
It's a real curse to be more attractive than those around you. It's best to be average looking and blend in.
I've seen 6 factors in attraction: personality (including behavior), appearance/hygiene, wavelength (differing IQ levels can share the same wavelength), financial (can make up for lack of looks), pheromones and ideology. If someone has been brainwashed with an ideology, the other factors might not matter.
I must have been gorgeous when I was younger because people tended to react in this way. They either hated me or loved me. It was embarrassing and unpleasant for me.
I cannot think of many things more attractive than a beautiful person whose beauty is not actually what attracts you. Intelligence can make us really attractive. By the way, a Smile is the best outfit 🖖
I been attracted to couple of women who werent phisically atractive but for their personality
@@mujtab8siddiqu1 ok what does that mean?
@@greygiant9646 google it “growth mindset” it’ll help you a lot 😃
@@greygiant9646 please lemme know when you googled it I really want you to do that
@@mujtab8siddiqu1 i googled it way before you replied to me
I knew this and that's how I know I'm not attractive because everyone is comfortable as hell around me 😂
😭😂😭😂😭
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Women fix or mess with their hair a lot when i walk up
absolute unconscious sign they find you attractive
They probably have bad dandruff
Same for me as well
That is definitely a sign especially if they flip it over their ear, also if a woman is all of a sudden clumsy and drops something when you walk up to her, makes a fool of herself while looking down and looking up at you with a submissive (girly)look in her eyes.
Noice
This video couldn't have applied more to where I'm at right now in my life. I'm thankful that after 31 years though, I;m starting to see my value and realize that it's not me who's the problem and there's nothing I did wrong, but people have a funny way of showing their interest in you whether it be sexually, friendly, or just plain curiosity. Thanks so much for posting this!
Totally agree with you im 32 and im starting to see everything different around me
@@sergiotorres9279 Way to go man!
@@kemsolid That’s funny you say that, because I had that same experience at my job. At first was lively and goofy and then I noticed things went left so I begin to stay to my self. What bugged me the most was that men and women constantly stared and would ask me indirect personal questions, harassing and smirking at me when I walk and giving me dirty looks. Tbh most of the time I’m low key fearful!
Literally
You just have to be very observant & pin point details
It took numerous girls telling me before i believed i wasn't ugly.
Same brother.
Never seek validation
I’m speechless. Throughout the years as a married & now a single man many many fine women have gotten nervous for no absolute reason while talking to me face to face. I’ve caught women staring as well. I honored my marriage but as a single man in his early 40’s the missed opportunities is what I’m currently thinking. DAMN. Whether at work or out and about I always chalked it up as them just getting caught up with their words but never ever because they liked me. Insecurity was to blame. This has truly opened my eyes. In 2018 five women at different occasions told me that I resembled or reminded them of Vince Vaughn. I was confused. Maybe it was the slick black hair with sideburns. I don’t know. Whatever it was I truly believe it was a sign along with this video to make me realize that I’ve been selling myself short. I’m far better than average. Beyond it.
Is it not funny how these young men have figured out this stuff. I have learned more from him than I ever learned on my own .
I never thought myself to be attractive but I can remember the amount of times I have had women that don’t know tell me I have beautiful eyes. I never thought anything about it. Until I saw this video a while back. But as with men all women don’t find every attractive man attractive. My wife does not like Richard Gere. But does like Jason Statham.. I think it is one is more masculine than the other.
Anyway enjoy our gifts in life
so THATS why girls dont want to talk to me and I cant get laid..im too good looking.
Kaleeb Wilson Aint no such thing as too good looking to get laid🤣🤣
Kaleeb Wilson Bro😂 this is not always the case. Women love players
Bro, you extra funny. 😂😂😂
That's absolutely it bro. 😊 Just make the first move with the mindset that they're the ones nervous to be talking to YOU.
Is getting laid really your overall goal?
For me honesty and politeness and funny also being confident is what makes a person so attractive
Once in a Church a boy whisper to another kid, he feels like spitting at my face. I was around 12 years old. I thought I must be very repulsive. As a teen onward girls were staring at me and were very friendly to me and lot of boys and some girls were rude and obnoxious to me. Later in life in my mid forties, I started camming and chatting with a lot of women from far away countries online. It was only then I started getting compliments on how good looking I am, and this really surprised me.
It sucks doesn’t it.I myself can relate.I’m in my early forties and get hit on by women wherever I go and complemented.
Now I Know Why I Have No Male Friends And Why My Cousins And Coworkers Hate Me
Faraz same broooo like fr, all they do is talk shit everyday 😂🤣🤣
YES BRO EXACTLY ITS HARD BEING SEXY
Because you are HIGHER status than them .So it attract haters .
Lol mine too
It might be your personality bro no looks at all
I do get nervous around attractive people and often I act like I don’t care or rude to them just to hide the attraction or avoid them. So yeah.
I'm almost 33 now and Ive robbed myself of so many experiences by looking for confirmation of my fears and insecurities. I'd like to start fresh now but it feels too late to play the field
33 is very young! enjoy your life, make the most of it!
You have so much time
Appreciated these comments. I'm lifting weights now and intermittent fasting to transform my body. It's not too late : )
@Kevin Wright- A whole lot can happen in just a couple of years brother, our mindset one year ago, may not be the same as it is this year or the next year. The fact that we keep going is enough to give inspiration to other people who may not feel like living anymore, and seeing how we adapt and change, might show them that life can get better and things can be accomplished. ✊🏼
@@jerrym1218 Very true. Just like fighting through the perception of weakness in yourself when you work out. A lot of it is mindset. Youll always impress yourself if you just focus on a goal and stick to it. As long as I do that, I'll always be different or better than before.
My dude, you always drop some direct, simple knowledge that is easy for us to overlook because it is so brilliantly simple! Some of the most beautiful things we discover in this life are simple things that are not hidden, but overlooked because many were programmed to think things are more complex. Accepting reality over our complex brains is a wonderful skill you have helped me with over time.
Facts
All of these signs of someone being mean because you're ugly has actually turned out true for me but I can care less because life has more meaning to me then looks
Self confidence and a sense of joy and contentment is attractive to anyone. As long as it's not arrogant or narcissistic.
Thanks I m 74 and look 50 I’m just figuring this out 🤗... never too late I hope 🤞
Generally speaking, people will look at the person they find the most attractive in the vicinity. Whether that person is attractive, or not, is a comparative matter.
That's not always the case, in a group of guy friends for example. People would prioritize the person that is most intimidating and seems capable. Not the prettiest guy
@@bernapas9020 The intimidation is the attraction...
@@tsme7733 cute guys are less intimidating. Unless they are hot, it depends
So true...but when you add money on top of it (nice car, big house..) ...Ouchhh!! You will really experience pure envy and jealousy with no reason at all ...and its not pretty!
So true sometimes I get people who stare&some are mean to me but I'm locked and loaded on confidence especially when I wear a outfit that ass kicking sharp lol
As far as physical traits go, aside from acne, im guiltily proud of my looks, and i have a tad bit of extra weight to work off, but Im working hard to get into better shape
Im guiltily proud yet really humble at the same time... its a crippling combination. Working on confidence.
Search up anabolic French toast, eat that every morning and watch you lose weight easily 🙏🏾
I see this around my own blood and it just makes me feel I’m invisible. I’ll talk and they’ll switch the convo or they’ll be on their phone and reply with a yea. I’ve been seeing it a lot more since I’ve been %200 focused on my goal. I work hard and gym hard and grind for my future career hard. I slowly started to understand that it’s them. Not me.
This is sooo true.. but the only part is that I don’t have “many” friends... I only have 3 real friends. This is the first time I see a video that explains my life and my problems
Mido nothin wrong with that! At this point in my life, I have no close friends. And that’s okay for now for me. But don’t take those few that you have for granted! Few close friends is a much better scenario than having a hundred shallow friendships! Stay strong, Mido
@@TylerGregory1998 Thanks!
I think having three real friends is more than most people have. I have too and I feel very lucky.
Keep those 3 near to you and don't let them go, I don't have any right now and that is fine with me for now
@@TylerGregory1998 same, its kinda sad that my friends randomly try to put me down because they are jelous.
Okay but I’ve been wearing a mask?
My grandma calls me handsome so that’s all I need :,)
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Take that chin diaper off and show yourself..its no wonder people like wearing them so much..bc they're ashamed of how they look so it covers their face up..to hell with that..im showing my face and i dont care..we were not meant to wear these things on our face
People staring at me
Me: hell yeah
*notices that my fly is down*
Me: 👁👄👁
🤣😂
i have all these thing happening to me at school i actually wonder why the whole world doesnt subscribe to this channel
The 1 percent
No matter how much you try to convince yourselves that outer beauty is not important and the inner beauty is what that should be valued.. but its hardwired into our system just like when we look at a dirty road and feel unpleasant just like that when we look at a nice clean road we instantly feel positive or just good.. we appreciate beauty naturally no matter what
Unconscious bias hurts us all.
Wdym?
I had an accidental experience when I was 15 that boosted my confidence. I was nominated for an office against my will, but sure I would lose, I went along with it. Well I got every female vote...
The first sign comes @ 2:15 ur welcome
Being confortable in yourself makes you inevitably attractive and you will be like this precious treasure that everyone wants but not anyone can have
I work in the public and customers are always staring at me i Can feel it. I also almost always have random customers bringing me gifts
I've been watching videos from this channel for the past few months, and I must say that the content of these videos are life changing and beneficial to anyone looking to enhance their mind, relationships, and life. God bless to all, and God bless who is creating these videos filled with priceless knowledge. Thankyou.
Looks: The exterior look of a high quality car.
Personality/Character: The engine and speed of the car.
So people who think they aren't attractive are sleeper cars
I’m Glad I found this, Ive been feeling this way since young, since I was fucking born, I’m just so so so Glad man, imma sub just because of this single video.
This is absolutely spot on I’ve been a student of non verbal communication for years and I had a lot of guys hate me but girls were nearly always glad when I was chatting to them and one distinction was that because I have a confident presence around people (not because I think I’m brad Pitt or awesome but I prefer female company) and because I don’t care anymore what others think of me there has been a greater divide in males vs female interaction.guys tend to try to bully me but I stick up for myself then when they see me talking to the same girl that they were talking to it’s hate time !! so much so that I’ve been threatened with violence on several occasions but the guys didn’t realise that there behaviour turned the girls off ....big time!! and the girls would defend me when they were slinging sarcastic remarks ect then guys started realising that it just wasn’t working for them and the enjoyment of watching there confused faces is priceless.
That’s good, stand tall and carry on . Jealousy/envy. Showing decency or not putting down those kind of people also earns girls respect.
Chile •. anyways so. It’s “their***” hun, in the last sentence you wrote out☺️ I hope you at least know about you’re and your. If not, RIGHT “write” it down 😭😭😭😭😭
I honestly hate there confused faces
This is kind of misleading. Looks matter in life, but it doesn't determine your success. Alot of successful people in life are not very attractive. But one thing they have, is confidence and a strong work ethic
Thanks for the video. You shattered my world. I just realized I'm ugly AF. 😭😂😂😂
Same
that’s probably why the girl next door who I spy on looks at me a lot. I think I saw her pick up the phone to call me, but I didn’t even give her my number...idk boys maybe I have a chance.
i wish these videos were around in my early 20s
Growing up, around 50% of really ugly people have always been huge jerks to me. Males and females. It made me mad because I didn’t know why they disliked me so much 😂
But you look cute in your dp though
I felt this in my soul
For me I never had friends like that ik most of it has to do with my posture and body language I tried everything but as you can see in my profile I look mad/envious hateful ,jealous .( I don’t do it on purpose my posture is just really shit)I don’t know what I’m doing wrong but ik it’s my posture because people always hate me and ik im not that Goodlooking
This Covid-19 is a blessing to me. I now hide my ugly face under mask. I can now easily go outside not worrying about my ugliness.
4:39...bruh this pisses me off, it happens all the time. I don't even talk to half of these people but they are always spreading lies or talking to everyone behind my back. A lot of the girls at my school find me attractive, and I get a lot of stares in public. But is it normal to get stares from both girls and guys, cause for some reason I get stares from both genders a lot(I'm straight tho....) and the guys well at least at my school like girls too. Another weird thing I noticed is that the people who seem to talk behind my back always seem to want to be around me or associate with me, or even go to the lengths of following me on social media.
I'm 21 years old, a lot of my so-called "friends" spread rumours about me why? They feel it's okay to talk shit about someone they find superior and it wouldn't be ok if that someone were to be ugly, since logically they have it worst than them. People idolize me they copy my hairstyle, fashion, what I post on social media, etc. And they're not ashamed by it, they're envious and they're secretly our biggest fan. Just be the better person
The whole “people are mean to you because they find you attractive” thing is funny... but i can see it.
Its so hard for me to tell if someone thinks im cute or weird looking when they stare. Long blue hair problems lol
Well I do get stared at, especially by girls, after a haircut, I've made one girl nervous. Ppl get rude to me to bully me lol I must admit tho that I've had a lot of really attractive women and people in general who were just nice to me for no clear reason but I just assumed it's because I'm really charismatic and diplomatic
It is better to not think what so many strangers are thinking about you whom you will have nothing to do ..rather work on urself build confidence have self belief positive attitude
I saw myself in a true mirror once, and I thought I looked much better than I though. I didnt get confident with my looks but at least Im no longer insecure about my face
I Do it all the time. . I Look back and just Say Hi😊It makes them say Hi back and Relax. .😊
So if someone is really attractive, can it also make really ugly people mean and really hostile towards you out of jealousy?
Not just ugly people, also insecure people, or people who think you're a "player" who always gets what they want.
@@EhurtAfy Well, jokes on them. I'm good looking, but that hardly means I always get what I want. Not by a long shot.
@@PouchMaster People literally will judge you without even knowing you at all, happened to me in school.
@@grievous5243 I always thought people just did a lot of judging. But some of this video really hit home Being good looking does mean not so good looking, aggressive types will always try to put you down. School is a terrible place and I'm sorry if you had a hard time there. My school years were a living nightmare, and it took a long time to repair most of the damage it caused and stop hating myself so much.
This video fits me 100%. All throughout my 20's, I used to get compliments all the time, Oh your hair is amazing, you have a beautiful smile, you have a sharp jawline etc. I used to think people are just being nice to me, because in my head I thought of myself as an average person. It all changed when I got married at 30 and realized that people genuinely find me attractive and are not shy to compliment me in front of their husband, boyfriend or even in front of my wife 😊. I am 44 now and I believe I am at the prime of my magnetism, enjoying all the attention. I think being born with great genetics is a great thing. Now all you have to do is talk less, talk slow, smile every once in a while and most importantly just be yourself. It works almost all the time.
Yeah, I wish people did this stuff around me, but I never even get noticed by anyone, guys or girls, it's just like I'm not even there or I don't even exist, even though I smile at girls all the time, but none of them ever smile back, they all just totally ignore me and go on about their business like I never even looked at them or smiled at them at all, just like I wasn't even in the same vicinity as them... It's very frustrating that even though I always try to put out positive energy and a friendly vibe towards everyone, no-one ever seems to even notice me!... Or IF they ever do look at me, (which is rare), then I'm always looked at like I'm just a "creep" or whatever, always in disgust, even when I smile at them!... :(
That's how I know I'm physically ugly, but at least I can see the truth, I'm not totally delerious like some people are, when they *think* they're "hot stuff" but they're really ugly AF, they just can't accept it! Lol!...
And yes; I know that true ugliness comes from within too, if you're a bitchy, mean spirited soul, but some people can't see that either, and still think they're hot, but at least I know better than that within myself! Lol!...
Luckily I guess, I'm only ugly on the outside, physically, but my spirit and soul actually IS beautiful... It's just too bad that literally almost no-one can see that at first glance because of my physical looks, because if anyone actually takes the time to really know me on the inside, then it becomes obvious that I'm a good person with a beautiful Spirit, but since most people, especially women, can't seem to see past my physical appearance, most are just missing out!
How would u describe your appearence?
Have a sense of style. Dress in your own style. Boost attraction.
Go to a dentist.. that's probably it
Exactly most are missing out on you keep that mindset
Strangely enough, I have had really beautiful girls stealing glances at me and some of them staring. The guys completely respect me too. To add, yeah I've met up with many rude people who thought they could shoot me down successfully with "hate" comments. None of them ever won because all of it was weak subjective opinions. They were all the "mainstream folks" and I would say envious unfruitful immature idiots who thought they could pull one off by messing with my confidence. I can proudly say, they all failed because the *truth* is, they were all ugly and so they proceeded to have an ugly attitude towards me.
As a kid I always felt like the ugly duckling . So I would always dim my light to try to fit in . Fuck that shit I'm a man I don't need to dim my light just because my light out shines everyones .
Most people are motivating fat people to exercise, but really trained people often get, that they use use unfair supplements and so on. The same goes for beauty, if you're really hot, no one will praise you because everyone is either jealous or thinks, OK, he's so hot, I don't have to tell him.
Its hard when you have felt lonely your whole life
People stare at me a lot everywhere. And people I’m with notice it too.
Same here, all it does, is make me paranoid.
Thank you so much for the priceless things that you put on your channel. I sincerely appreciate all your efforts to provide this. This channel completely changed my life in a lot of ways. I am from Iran with the closed religious background, where a lot of wrong beliefs from your childhood till you die constantly get dictated to you and hacked in your mind in such a way that finding the truth and accepting the truth sometimes gets impossible. But you really helped me to know my real mysel, to know my real values and the most important thing exercising being myself and enjoy that. God bless you.
Yes Fundamentalism. Is crazy
Nobody gets rude, overly nice or rude to me because nobody ever approaches me. And if anyone ever stares at me, I don't see it.
Been that way so long, I don't know what I'd do if somebody did approach me.
I don't know if this is just me, but I'm finding women in public a lot more flirtatious and willing to make eye contact recently, a few months into the Covid-19 pandemic, than ever used to be the case.
I feel like maybe the recent trauma and loneliness of lockdown has made people a lot more bold. Also, maybe everyone having to wear masks a lot of the time adds an air of mystery, and forces us to focus more on eye contact. It's like the whole world has turned into one big masked ball.
Yes same
Trauma 😂
I have NEVER been perceived as being attractive. I know that I am the blueprint to humanity, so I know that I’m FIRST in Existence. This ENERGY makes me attractive, because I know I’m “The Walking, Talking, Living Embodiment of The Cosmos. This ENERGY makes me Scary to along with my intimidating looks.
I'm a 21 year old guy with a decent physique but nothing special. I notice that I get a lot of other dudes looking at me at the gym. Its kinda weird, any thoughts?...
I wish I'd had this vid when I was younger I'm 41 and went through this and it took till sadly till 35 to figure it out and believe it.
Mom :" you're an attractive boi"
Me:"No!"
Random girl:"You're hot!"
Me:*Blushing "Nooo :3"
Random Guy:"You're good looking"
Me:"Say NoHomo"
🤣🤣😂
I always thought I had to be the funny guy all the time to get dates, even though at 16 I was surfing professionally in the men division. And I always had a guitar around the house, and drums. So at 24 starting gigging and several bands later got signed toured and all this time my best friend since 4th grade (a girl ) was like, “ why are you so bummed when you’ve been so fortunate? I explained to her how I felt inside and she explained quite a few things I never would have thought. Thank you Melody. Life is great and I’m so very lucky to have a best friend like her. 🥁🤙
75% cried because thats was me and is me (not joking) and the 4th well sometimes... it depends on my awereness tbh 🤷🏽
I'm going through the same thing actually. Thanks for helping, huge fan
Though how in the world can someone think they are not good looking when they are. When beauty is very objective and clear, it takes a fraction of second to see is someone attractive or not. There is not a lot of searching here, you're ether attractive or not.
Most people who think they are unattractive, it's cus they are unattractive. And they got treated that way all their life, so it's pretty clear. But I guess there are a very few confused good looking people who are unaware, but that's a small number.
Also, when people are rude to you for no reason... it's 95% cus you are unattractive, and they naturally feel repulsed. And yes, in 5% of cases they can be rude cus they are envious, that's rare again.
Everyone is unique. A person can be attractive based on their attitude, aura, intelligence, energy, and many other things. In a world where many are not aware of their own self worth, a 'so called' unattractive guy can steal the girl of a 'so called' handsome guy, if the 'so called' unattractive guy is a strong believer in himself. In a person truly believing in oneself, they begin to respect themselves, educate themselves, set higher standards for themselves in life. This trancends to the characteristics of the Alpha. An alpha can actually be unattractive in your eyes physically, but can command attention, from both male and female. A person's attitude and aura can make their presence so much more attractive.
These videos are mostly geared towards people from the age of 16-25 (give or take). A lot of people when they’re young are very insecure especially in terms of their looks and such. Social media also takes a huge tole on peoples confidence in terms of looks. I’ve met MANY girls who actually are very attractive but also very insecure and doubt it constantly. Your comment is actually very ignorant especially for today’s standards of our youth.
I hear compliments every once in a while and even being depressed as f*ck I know im good looking tbh. Its much about your state of mind tbh, sometimes when I feel great, I can easily attract and hang out with women. And when im down like my current state of mind, I will not talk with any woman with sexual interest at all...
Holy shit... I experince all of these things and assumed there was something wrong with me, but I try my best to carry myself as well as possible. This has shown me so much.
If I was ever insecure in my teens and early 20's, it was never really my appearance for the most part, I had enough reassurance from both females and males to not really worry about it. Not saying I thought I was a 10/10 or anything, I was just comfortable in my own skin.
Any insecurities I had was from the fact I never fully mastered my social skills, I'm kind of introverted, and my head was in a weird place at the time, I had a lot going on that messed with me.
Needless to say, my potential body count would probably have been doubled if I hadn't missed the opportunities I had. The funny part, when I first met my now ex-girlfriend, she said "I bet you f*cked an insane amount of hot chicks, haven't you?" - She was partially right, but it wasn't an insane amount.
This reminds me of one of the good old FFA videos back in 2017, absolutely enjoyed it
Funny all these qualities I find true, free stuff, people staring, people hating for no reason. I realized this long ago, on top of that being self assured and confident plays a big roll. Another barometer I find is Little babies staring at you, that's the best form because it's untainted and a child has no life experience.
This guy is creating a new pill not black, blue, or red, a whole another level pill
People always stare me dead in the eyes always, all the time, maybe I’m just intimidating
@saitama3795 3 years ago bro, idgaf!
I make people happy. They are happy because at least they are not me.
Yo, I read something that said we see ourselves as more attractive than we actually are.. i've been second guessing it ever since. 😂😂😂😂
It's the other way around
No it's not, I hear all the time we think we are more attractive than what others perceive us as, especially women.
Man, You would not beleive how helpful Your videos are. Thank You.
I have experienced all four some in a good way,some in a disgusting way. My mother told me about things like this when I was a young girl. I really feel like the Holy Spirit was speaking through her,like now with this video thank you.
Most of the topics that you discussed here is what I’ve start to realised since when I was 16 years old going on a holiday to another country.