MY LIFE STORY | Who Is Raven Elyse?

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  • Опубликовано: 27 авг 2024
  • Hey guys, today I'm sharing my backstory! This is a little "get to know me" video about who I really am, and how I got to where I am today. I'm talking about my pregnancy, single motherhood, how my youtube career got started, and why co-parenting is challenging. My OG subscribers probably already know most of this story, but maybe this will help everyone get to know me a little better! I also hope you guys find this helpful and maybe get a little advice from it!
    Psych Hospital Story: • Dealing with Depressio...
    Labor and Delivery Story: • My Labor & Delivery St...
    Draw My Life (Early Life Story/middle and high school): • Draw My Life!
    ---CONNECT WITH ME---
    My Blog: www.RavenElyseT...
    Instagram: @RavenElyse / ravenelyse
    Twitter: @RavenElyseTV / ravenelysetv
    Snapchat: ravenelysetv
    ---FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS---
    -MY CAMERAS: Canon 70D for beauty videos & Canon G7X Mark II for vlogging
    -EDITING SOFTWARE: Final Cut Pro & Adobe Photoshop
    -LOCATION: Texas (From Austin, to Denton, to Dallas, & now back in Austin!)
    -AGE: 24 years old
    -ETHNICITY: African American
    -HEIGHT: 5'11
    DAUGHTER: Named Ziya, turns 2 years old April 2018
    ---HELPFUL VIDEOS---
    STARTING A RUclips CHANNEL: • How to Start a RUclips...
    HOW I EDIT INSTAGRAM PHOTOS: • Selfie101| Instagram P...
    SAVING & MAKING MONEY: • Tips for Earning & Sav...
    MAKE A LACE WIG LOOK NATURAL: • HAIR| Tweeze & Customi...
    FILMING EQUIPMENT: • Cameras, Lighting & Mi...

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  • @rudelipz
    @rudelipz 6 лет назад +264

    I love your chatty vids. Difficult times help us bloom. That quote that says "When you think you're being buried, you're being planted... Bloom.🌹"

    • @phitk2000
      @phitk2000 6 лет назад +8

      Krystal Bunting -- Wow!! I've never heard/read that quote but I LOVE IT!! Definitely a mantra and so, so TRUE. Thank you.

    • @rudelipz
      @rudelipz 6 лет назад +4

      phitk2000 you're welcome. We all need encouragement at times.

    • @harperlee1442
      @harperlee1442 6 лет назад

      Stealing!

  • @123SmithJamie
    @123SmithJamie 6 лет назад +570

    Only youtuber I'll watch a 40 minute video for plus the ad at the end. I love you Raven ❤️

    • @berishaxo
      @berishaxo 6 лет назад +3

      sameeee

    • @rayanatucker9073
      @rayanatucker9073 6 лет назад +2

      We Can't All Be Everything me too !!!!

    • @daniellesibiya9826
      @daniellesibiya9826 6 лет назад +5

      We Can't All Be Everything so true..I don't even watch 20min vids from other people 😂😂

    • @bihalice
      @bihalice 6 лет назад

      We Can't All Be Everything

    • @nubianquirk
      @nubianquirk 6 лет назад +1

      seriously and watch like a show

  • @asiaa9834
    @asiaa9834 6 лет назад +403

    Who else just scrolls down the comments while the video is playing?

  • @chanelemm
    @chanelemm 6 лет назад +86

    One thing my mom taught me & i've never forgot is no-one can make you happy. Happiness is found first within yourself. So I'm glad you've made that realization because toxic-ness can really come from relying on others to make you feel whole when its yourself who needs to make you feel whole. Your an inspiration and I've been watching since you were in college. Love how you've grown and keep doing you.

  • @hazelsophie2814
    @hazelsophie2814 6 лет назад +84

    Came across a random video of yours and have been binge watching ever since trying to catch up. THIS answered so many random questions that I had and it's refreshing for a RUclipsr to be so upfront and honest. Loving the realness of your channel.

  • @tysalaidlow3773
    @tysalaidlow3773 6 лет назад +104

    I feel like I have a short attention span and can never really sit through long videos, but Raven Elyse is a whole different story! I have no problem sitting through her chit chat videos and after watching this I feel like she’s my friend and I love it. Raven, your a huge inspiration and I love you and Ziya so much!!

  • @kestra2244
    @kestra2244 6 лет назад +368

    I appreciate how open and honest you are on your channel and wish you nothing but success in the future to come

  • @jordanm5103
    @jordanm5103 6 лет назад +148

    I think everyone can learn from you. Your dedication to Ziya and your career is astounding. And you don't hide the rough times from the camera. Which is why I tell everyone and anyone about your channel!

  • @taylerrbennett
    @taylerrbennett 6 лет назад +24

    No one will ever understand the struggles of a single mom but a single mom..period. What we really do daily is inconceivable to some. Don’t listen to anyone else. You’re clearly killing it at motherhood, Ziya is so smart and happy. Keep your head up and stay true to you. Thank you for sharing and always being so real and relatable 💗

  • @thepaulingfamily8187
    @thepaulingfamily8187 6 лет назад +48

    The pregnancy part hit home with being pregnant with unplanned pregnancy... Especially with a person that is not long term.. I had my daughter at 24 and I'm a single mother also... My daughter father was abusive. But ziya is a blessing girl and she gonna have your back no matter what

  • @nathalied5879
    @nathalied5879 6 лет назад +85

    I can't WAITTTT for someone to just come into your life and show you how special you really are! & just LOVE ON UUUUUU UGH 😩😩😩😩

    • @jewelledestanie9335
      @jewelledestanie9335 6 лет назад +1

      Nathalie G. Right omg!

    • @nathalied5879
      @nathalied5879 6 лет назад

      Jewelle Destanie sisssss yessss & ziya low key needs a step dad now 👀👀👀👀😩😩😩 lmao she getting older she need da poppin Christmas gifts 🎁

    • @deaira529
      @deaira529 5 лет назад +1

      Well your wish came true lol

  • @antonisha.l
    @antonisha.l 6 лет назад +180

    Also ... thank you so much for shining the light on mental health. It’s so important in black people and black communities. And we need more people to encourage therapy and self love & family bonds.

    • @shurekkiah3976
      @shurekkiah3976 6 лет назад +1

      Antonisha Lane THIS!!! I’m so proud of her for this!! ❤️❤️

  • @staranicole4468
    @staranicole4468 6 лет назад +83

    I haven’t watched his video yet, so I am not sure what it’s about. But I’d like to tell you I LOVE your channel and your videos. I am pregnant with my first child, I’m 22, I am still in school until May when I graduate. I’m still with the father so that’s good. But watching you daily with Ziya is so inspiring. Like you’re young, talented, beautiful and an amazing mother and I really hope to be the same. I just went back recently and watched old videos and it’s so amazing to see Ziya grow and grow. I started a channel to document my pregnancy and my baby boys growth and some memories for me and my boyfriend to have. As well as makeup and wigs and things I love. I had no idea what I was doing post grad. Now I know I’m taking time off to raise my boy. Basically, to not be a Chatty Cathy, you are helping me. A lot. Just watching you makes me so happy. I have a group with other moms on Insta and we all watch you. Like I don’t know how often you’re told that you have an impact on someone. But you have an impact on me. I’m just a simple girl, and I swear we have so much in common. Not a bunch of friends, I’ve got that Summer class too, all that. Watching you makes me feel like it will all work out. Which I’m sure it will. I just want to say thank you. For years, before Ziya, before you graduated, I’ve been watching. And you’ve been inspiring me. So thank you!

  • @TreasureBijon
    @TreasureBijon 6 лет назад +33

    Believe it or not but God has his hands on your life. You’ve been transparent before but not in this way, you were led to make this video for a reason! This is just me speaking life over you, but you are going to reach A LOT of young single moms. Not just on RUclips but on a lot of other platforms. Don’t shy away from transparency and sharing your journey. People appreciate it even though sometimes they are scared to speak up and say that relate. You are breaking out of your shell and it’s such a beautiful thing to see. Love you Raven ❤️

    • @dezziefbby
      @dezziefbby 6 лет назад

      Treasure Bijon totally agree!

  • @alexandrialturner
    @alexandrialturner 6 лет назад +76

    Raven you have a way about you that draws people in and make them want to listen to u which is truly a gift...U are a smart, strong and talented mom of a 2 year who just happens to be beautiful thank you for sharing alittle bit of your life with us... we are all rooting for u

  • @bisouselle
    @bisouselle 6 лет назад +120

    I’ve watched your past vlogs, so I knew your story. But to hear you sum it all up in one video was...whew. 💜 You’re a BEAUTIFUL, resilient woman who deserves all the happiness in the world. I hope you know that.
    I really enjoyed watching this.

  • @LaurenXO
    @LaurenXO 6 лет назад +63

    Your story will help someone else, that’s what makes this video so amazing! People rarely speak about mental health. People are also rarely genuine. You’re awesome! I’ve been watching you since you were in that college apartment! Love your channel.

  • @ladyk1796
    @ladyk1796 6 лет назад +65

    I already knew all of this... and i knew I knew all of it when I clicked on the video lol but even though I already knew your story I just enjoy your content and there’s nothing wrong with a little refresher. If it means anything to you, you’re like my good mythical morning. I get excited when you post and I rewatch the same video over and over again. Like when it’s time to for me to eat dinner, I take my food, plop down on my bed and find a good video of yours that I haven’t seen in a while. I’m so glad you decided to do RUclips full because I don’t know what else I’d do with my day if you hadn’t. 😂

    • @ChrisBHoni
      @ChrisBHoni 6 лет назад

      Me too lol i swear i’ve watched all her vlogs at least 5xs each

  • @ladonnapatterson8712
    @ladonnapatterson8712 6 лет назад +56

    I am so glad you're speaking on your experience with the mental health system. I had a similar experience. I also went there voluntary and was locked up. Absolutely the lowest point in my life! The staff told my mom the doctor would keep me until my insurance ran out. Thank God my mom is a nurse and knew she could break me out after the 48 hour mandatory hold. ..I still struggle with depression but family support is key. ❤

  • @amybethea6187
    @amybethea6187 6 лет назад +289

    Wow- what a story. Thank you for sharing. You are a strong young woman, Raven. I am also prone to panic attacks ... in fact, I had my first one, on my wedding day!! Too much for words ... but I literally thought I was going to die. Could not breathe, hyperventilating, could not be still, it was awful. I still suffer panic attacks - the last one I had was a month after my mom was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer - I could not handle that news. What I find that amazingly works and wanted to share- essential oil of lavender. It works like a drug. It has literally stopped my panic attacks mid-stream. Just thought I would pass that info along .... I now live on essential oils ... lavender, bergamot, clary sage - these all keep me calm and feeling in a good mood. :-)

    • @NaNasE93Newmoon
      @NaNasE93Newmoon 6 лет назад

      This is off topic, Amy, but what state are you from? Lol you have the same last name as me!

    • @amybethea6187
      @amybethea6187 6 лет назад

      NC. :-)

    • @NaNasE93Newmoon
      @NaNasE93Newmoon 6 лет назад

      Amy Bethea I'm from Baltimore, MD. Who knows, maybe we are related. :D

    • @elyshaisamazing
      @elyshaisamazing 6 лет назад

      Bethea I

    • @ladiepink
      @ladiepink 6 лет назад +2

      Thank you for sharing too. I will try these I do know lavender is calming I've never tried it for anxiety.

  • @SabrinaMorenike
    @SabrinaMorenike 6 лет назад +77

    Dang Raven, you are a strong, amazing, brilliant young woman! I am definitely one of those people who started watching your channel when you started doing the mom vlogs, and The traveling sisterhood vlogs, and I can say that I have seen such a change in you! I didn’t even know half of these things so it was really cool to learn so much about you from this video and I appreciate you filming it. We are the same exact age, I turn 25 in about a week. So even though I don’t have any children, I still feel like I can relate to you, we both graduated at the same time and struggled in school & had toxic relationships. And overall I just love to see your growth and the direction your channel is taking. So thank you I really appreciate this video!

  • @oliviareann
    @oliviareann 6 лет назад +111

    Perfect example of the pain and suffering you have to go through to get to where you want to be. I know you’ll continue to do bigger and better things for yourself and Ziya💕 I’ve watched your videos for years and I hope you have been enjoying the process of your success like I have. Know you’ll get where you want to be and just be patient and enjoy the process. Try not to stress yourself out and make sure to give yourself credit, look where you are!You got yourself here 👏 You’ve always made me want a RUclips channel and I’ve decided to make one this year so I’m fa sho mentioning you in my first video lol I’m wishing you peace love happiness health and wealth foreverr keep doing ya thing Queen👑

    • @VitaminV29
      @VitaminV29 6 лет назад

      Olivia Huffman awe this is so sweet and I agree

  • @Nayayh
    @Nayayh 6 лет назад +208

    I love your mom vlogs even though im like 15 😂😂but Ziya is so gorgeous and so are you. I applaud you for doing everything you do at a young age....single parenting and doing youtube has to be super duper difficult. You are literally my biggest inspiration.❤❤Gonna get some ice cream and watch this. I love you and your channel 👑❤

    • @annecuthers5723
      @annecuthers5723 6 лет назад +3

      Princess Naya right lol I'm 16 and I watch like all of her videos

  • @haleyturner8149
    @haleyturner8149 6 лет назад +46

    I loved this video! The fact that you can come on to RUclips and share about all the tough stuff you have been through is so empowering. I look at you now, and it is hard to believe that you were ever in a very dark spot in you life because of how strong and confident you are. Thanks for being vulnerable and showing us that life goes on!!

    • @anniebanana3698
      @anniebanana3698 6 лет назад

      Amen to this. I was thinking the exact same thing. It definitely gives me hope and motivation/inspiration.

  • @aishat420
    @aishat420 6 лет назад +29

    I have been watching you since your college days. I admire how much you have grown as a person. You literally are so inspiring. You can handle any situation with grace and independence. Love you Raven. Keep making us proud. Ziya has someone great to look up to.

  • @nathalied5879
    @nathalied5879 6 лет назад +10

    "It's hard to explain without actually explaining it" ...Ray! Jus explain it your truth honestly will help other young women who are going to through the exact same thing.....it's not easy being a single mom & your story is special to ALOT of us cause we can all relate! 😰😰😰💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽 I watched you when I was pregnant. Pretty much the exact same situation & the depression IS REALLLLLLL. I love the transparency in this video btw! Thank you!

  • @marie_h8497
    @marie_h8497 6 лет назад +12

    I’m a Virgo as well. Also introverted . I can relate to you on so many levels,girl! Also a single mom of a two year old ! Lol keep up the great work

  • @layaridrigue9791
    @layaridrigue9791 6 лет назад +37

    Thank you for having this RUclips channel and being so open with your subscribers.! I love the fact that you’re so humble and true to yourself. I feel so happy watching you and it makes me happy because we have a lot of stuff in common. I pray for you that your RUclips channel will continue to grow and I will always support you, you’re a great and genuine person.

  • @berinana2966
    @berinana2966 6 лет назад +19

    This is a quality video which can help a lot of people who relate. I celebrate your bravery and strength Raven. This is just too good. ❤️

  • @itssmebri
    @itssmebri 6 лет назад +11

    I can definitely relate to your college story Raven! I was supposed to graduate December 2017, but I failed a class and had to retake it. I was devastated but I pulled through, and I will be graduating in a couple of weeks!

  • @briannah9344
    @briannah9344 6 лет назад +37

    You’re an amazing mother and always come through with the realness! Life isn’t always perfect and being a mother isn’t always easy. I’ve been subscribed from the beginning and have always loved your videos. I love how you keep your videos raw and real unlike some other RUclipsrs who make it seem like life is easy. Keep up the good work and love seeing your channel grow 💗

  • @Brielle.Renee_
    @Brielle.Renee_ 6 лет назад +23

    Love the long video! I’ve been having a stressful day, well stressful week and just being able to sit and just listen to you talk for 40 minutes feels like I’m just sitting talking to a best friend 🤗

  • @AmariHetep
    @AmariHetep 6 лет назад +5

    Oh wow, I remember when you made the video in your parents’ backyard while holding Ziya, and you were giving a recap of your panic attack, but for whatever reason, I was under the impression that you had had that “breakdown” AFTER you had already had Ziya. To now here that you were actually pregnant during that time...all I can say is wow. I’m genuinely so glad that you received the love and support from your family that you needed, and that you were able to overcome that traumatic time.

  • @akli728
    @akli728 6 лет назад +53

    I love your channel! I found you this year only, and i spent nights to watch it all from the beginning! And im 22, got pregnant in toxic relationship, decided that i need to end it too and that i need to take full responsibility of what is coming!!! Watching your videos just gives me hope and love back to myself and whats about to come!!! Thank you and i hope that life for you just get better and better!!!!! All the best!!!!

  • @breannev749
    @breannev749 6 лет назад +23

    I’ve watched all your stuff. Yet still I sat and watched this because now I’m a parent and I relate so much. Like you said PARENTING is hard in general. I relate to that so much because although my partner and I parent together. We are still individuals and have different parenting techniques & also everyday is new for us we are learning as parents, we ain’t got all the answers but you my friend are a SUPERMOM!

  • @awsomekrys
    @awsomekrys 6 лет назад +55

    I love your personality I love the way you overcome certain things that could derail someone so young. love how you're so blunt and to the point. you're a great mom and I will alway support you.

  • @symonebryant
    @symonebryant 6 лет назад +21

    i’ve been watching you since before you were pregnant and i have fallen more in love with how your channel is growing and growth in your videos, uploads etc i’m not a mom but love your content and you. my favorite youtuber so chill and down to earth and your channel caters to so many different people makeup, lifestyle/volgs, acne prone, hair you are a one stop shop. can’t wait to see your channel grow more! 🌸

  • @ShakiraKGardner
    @ShakiraKGardner 6 лет назад +13

    This a huge struggle with most young girls and women. It’s my mission to help women find their strength and to know that they are fearfully and wonderfully made and the beloved of God. Staring young, help young girls avoid the struggle of seeking love and acceptance in the wrong damaging places. So happy for your growth, for all our growth. We definitely all struggle with these issues at some time in our lives! Ur still young and there is so much left to see! Blessings!

  • @kendraxmcleod
    @kendraxmcleod 6 лет назад +2

    You have a testimony. Ziya is your angel & you’re strong for sharing your story. I’ve been falling you for years (college says) & you’ve always been open but secure. I’m proud of you. You’re an amazing mother. Lord you’re doing an awesome job. I pray I’m half the mother you are. I love you Raven though you don’t know me, you are loved & appreciated.

  • @vivianreginalds
    @vivianreginalds 6 лет назад +4

    I think you're an amazing mum,
    you'd find love,
    you'd find more happiness
    above all, Ziya would be a blessing to your world.
    You really deserve the best.

  • @alexisjones784
    @alexisjones784 6 лет назад +27

    RAVEN! Idk if you know how inspiring you are. Despite your struggles you still keep pushing and you don’t make excuses for yourself and that’s a place I wish to be. You’re beautiful and you’re a wonderful mom and you’re very successful and I know you’ll go even further and just watching you makes me want to be a better me 💕

  • @catburgy5538
    @catburgy5538 6 лет назад +3

    You make such a huge impact in my life! thank you so so much for making me smile after watching ur videos. Im 12 years old turning 14 in august and i struggle with separation anxiety and I'm always super insecure about my weight because the medicine i am on makes me really hungry when i just ate. I am also going through stuff with my bff hopefully we can make up though! Thank you so much for making me feel that it will get better. Your story will help so many people including me! Love you and Ziya so much!

  • @ayekeleigh6324
    @ayekeleigh6324 6 лет назад +55

    I've been subbed since before you graduated college and I have loved watching you become the woman you are now ❤ Successful entrepreneur and a wonderful mom. You make Shambles look good 😊

  • @MyFullFiguredLife
    @MyFullFiguredLife 6 лет назад +6

    Great video! Im honored you felt comfortable to share all of this with us. Youre an amazing woman, never forget that.

  • @tramesiyah.3960
    @tramesiyah.3960 6 лет назад +38

    I absolutely loved this video! So open and honest. It felt like I was sitting down talking to my best friend. Thank you for being you.❤️

  • @Chicsavvyreese
    @Chicsavvyreese 6 лет назад +10

    It’s hard to parent period . I grew up with parents that co-parented , and I’m married and it can be hard . I understand at least being the kid in that situation. Being a parent is hard point blank . I think your doing an AWSOME JOB . Keep up the good work love ❤️

  • @asapkaila
    @asapkaila 6 лет назад +23

    Maybe it’s the fact that we’re birthday twins, but I’ve always felt as though I could really relate to you. There’s very few creators that I watch all where I enjoy all of their content but I don’t think I’ve missed a Mom vlog.

  • @pothosivity
    @pothosivity 6 лет назад +3

    your story is honestly the ultimate come up. you only need yourself to be strong and successful. bravo to you, queen👏🏽👏🏽💕
    i have been watching your videos for about a year and to see you, Ziya, and even ur channel thrive is so inspiring to me❤️

  • @chelseabignall6842
    @chelseabignall6842 6 лет назад +34

    I’m SO here for this video,your voice is surprisingly relaxing 🖤

  • @ddstyl3
    @ddstyl3 6 лет назад +17

    Thank you for telling your story. You are so inspiring. I started watching your channel right before you graduated from college which was the same year I graduated from college. I feel like I kinda grew up with you and learned a lot about life with you and because of you. Keep doing what you’re doing, but most importantly, keep being real.

  • @MatildaZuria
    @MatildaZuria 6 лет назад +2

    This is a prime example why you should never judge someone right off the back. Everyone has a story and their own 'Come Up'. Love you girly !!!!!

  • @hazeleanne2991
    @hazeleanne2991 6 лет назад +33

    I’m in the nail salon watching this 😩🙌🏽 #RavenElyse over everything

  • @terrenceluvsu
    @terrenceluvsu 6 лет назад +28

    Your so inspiring and it was really nice to hear this from you. The struggle of co-parenting is hard, but your a great mother and Ziyah is so lucky to have you as a mom.

  • @Brielle.Renee_
    @Brielle.Renee_ 6 лет назад +7

    It’s crazy how much we have in common with being a single mom from the very beginning, I’ve been on my own since I found out I was pregnant at the age of 17 and now I’m 23 with a 6 year old STILL SINGLE lol but it makes us and our child stronger and sometimes I like not having the extra headache then other times I wish I had that person I could go to when it comes to raising my daughter, at the end of the day that just proves how strong we are to be able to raise our children and not just giving up on life

  • @natcat6713
    @natcat6713 6 лет назад +1

    I love you, Raven. You’re so strong to go through that on your own and push through your whole life with people always judging you and you having anxiety and depression. I’m so glad I stumbled upon your channel, im like extremely grateful for that. I now look up to you, you are now my new idol. I truly, with all my heart, love you Raven ❤️💕

  • @mariahg9944
    @mariahg9944 6 лет назад

    i love how transparent you are. some youtubers are so quick to say that they are real people too, but don’t show us that they are. we don’t need people to spill every detail but we do require some form of transparency. we desire to connect and identify in real life and online. thanks for sharing your story Raven!! I really enjoyed listening.

  • @anniebanana3698
    @anniebanana3698 6 лет назад +6

    Raven, I truly love you and Ziya so much and want nothing but the absolute best for you both. I feel like we've been virtual homies for quite some time. You are such an incredible, strong woman and I can relate to so much of what you have been through. I was in a difficult space when I first found your channel and you helped me get through by giving me an outlet to just enjoy your creative content and to not think about my own issues in life. I appreciate that so much and I truly admire your ability to navigate through these incredibly challenging changes in your life with such grace and fortitude.

  • @YanaSoYana
    @YanaSoYana 6 лет назад +3

    I could relate to this so much! I'm in my last semester at UNT and I'm finishing a year late. I keep telling myself it's a marathon, not a sprint! Been watching you for so long, since back in the RayBabyRay days and you have grown so much! You have always been a light that is full of inspiration! Your growth and progression as a youtuber, mom and person in general is amazing, I love it! Happy early birthday to Ziya! Thanks for sharing your story! Praying for many more blessings and progression your way!

  • @yolandagroves3084
    @yolandagroves3084 6 лет назад +2

    Let me just simply say thank you for sharing your story in more detail because it probably wasn't the "easiest" thing to do being that you are a private person and you also have to protect your Ziya Bear. But mother to mother....you are amazing and Ziya is so blessed to have you as a mommy. I've been a subscriber since your college vlogs and I see so much growth...that's why I've been following for so long; and we were also pregnant around the same time. I can't tell you how much your vlogs have helped me thus far. Keep going Raven...you can't imagine how many of us look up to you. I send love, prosperity and many hugs to you and Ziya.

  • @couturegalx3
    @couturegalx3 6 лет назад +2

    I've been going through so much with college at the moment but your content is seriously helping me stay sane.

  • @audriannaberegszaszi4280
    @audriannaberegszaszi4280 6 лет назад +5

    I’ve been watching since before you got pregnant and then found out I was pregnant like two months after you. My baby was a preemie so our kids birthday days are days apart (4/4/16). I was stuck in the hospital for over a month while he was in the nicu and your videos, along with others, really helped me get through that time without losing my mind. It’s awesome to see you do such great things. Continue to be great! 😘

  • @LavishlyBritt
    @LavishlyBritt 6 лет назад +109

    Raven...let me tell you this! I am so extremely proud of you. I have been watching you forever. Although our personal stories are different. I am happy to see where you are today. I’ve been following you since your college days and you have grown so much. So as a fellow mom with a daughter who is almost two years old and a RUclipsr, if you ever want to give a friendship a try, I would totally be down for it. And I’m definitely not saying that to collab or anything because that’s not what I’m looking for. I just love how you pushed past all obstacles thrown your way. You are stronger than you know. And I would just love to have a dope friend like that. So don’t be afraid to hit my inbox on IG if you are interested in my offer. No hard feelings if you don’t. ☺️

  • @t.b.5553
    @t.b.5553 6 лет назад +2

    AWESOME RAY!!! I’ve been a subscriber since ‘13-‘14. So it’s been amazing to see your transition into motherhood. I had my daughter in ‘13 & like you I’ve been hustling to provide for her ever since (by myself). You’re doing very well for yourself & your daughter. Keep working hard & you’ll get everything you need

  • @bronzebabe1950
    @bronzebabe1950 6 лет назад

    I’ve been following you on RUclips for a longggg time now . I’ve seen the beginning of your acne videos , the re-designs of big T-shirt’s to dresses, from your super short hair cut, etc. So to watch you grow in each area and being honest about how you feel and where you are on your life , makes it feel like we’ve built a relationship. Like a friendship with us . I’m so appreciative for your content and who you are as a person. You’re amazing and such a great example of what woman and other people go through and making us feel that we’re not alone . I’ve struggled with anxiety and lit depression so I understand how heavy it can be so you really inspire me to keep going and now allow obstacles to stop my process and the purpose I’m meant to walk in. So thank you ❤️❤️

  • @Justme_247
    @Justme_247 6 лет назад +4

    I found you while you were going through all that and I've never left. Glad I did!

  • @dejapeel8552
    @dejapeel8552 6 лет назад +5

    I needed this video at this moment. I’m a sophomore in college and a fashion major and I’m just so lost in the world. Because I don’t know exactly what I wanna do and just like you said the major isn’t a easy major and school period isn’t easy and I’m just barely making it. With all that I have been experiencing down moments with depression and anxiety and unhappiness which isn’t me. My friendships are becoming more distant bc our paths are different.. etc etc.. basically it’s inspiring to see that there is hope at the end of the tunnel. Keep it up 💕

    • @aleialaw
      @aleialaw 6 лет назад +1

      Deja Shaw there's always hope. I'm way older than you. Life changes your dreams change. Just follow your heart. Don't be afraid to start over. What matters is that you keep moving! Be blessed.

  • @ketimes3
    @ketimes3 6 лет назад +1

    Hey Raven! I usually don’t comment, but I have been a subscriber of yours for a while not. I began watching your pregnancy videos because I was pregnant the same time you were my daughter has turned two in February. I absolutely LOVE your channel and I try and watch every time you upload. You are so real and authentic and very relatable. Thanks for sharing your life and your story. I look forward to more videos! You are so inspiring. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @jusjasss
    @jusjasss 6 лет назад

    I love how real & transparent you are with the things you go through. Of course it’s not easy to talk about and you don’t want people all up in your business but the insight you do give is relatable.

  • @msjackson5658
    @msjackson5658 6 лет назад +6

    From one virgo to another....we are strong as women we find strength from within...stay strong and keep the videos coming u doing really good...

    • @aleialaw
      @aleialaw 6 лет назад

      Ms Jackson you are right about that! #virgosrock

  • @TheNailEntertainment
    @TheNailEntertainment 6 лет назад +12

    I will always support you similar situation found out I was pregnant January 2016 babies father cheated on me February 2016 Got fired from my job that I worked for 2 years at in March 2016 and couldn’t renew my lease April 2016 had to move in with a family member for a whole year it’s crazy how bad a situation could be but the outcome will be amazing and couldn’t renew my lease April 2016 had to move in with a family member for a whole year it’s crazy how bad a situation could be but the outcome will be amazing I had a breakdown wanted to have an abortion and I think God that I didn’t single mother to a amazing little girl back on my feet with the great job and doing it all by myself my next goal is to be RUclipsr and making that a career in the future you’re a big inspiration !

  • @ellssss13
    @ellssss13 6 лет назад

    I had my first really bad experience with depression recently and i’ve always watched your videos but when the depression really hit I kept thinking about your struggle and I look at you like a big sister- that might be really weird idk. but when you started uploading a lot it felt like we were talking and it helped me through it. Thank you Raven 😭😭😭. You’re really one of the reasons I’ve gotten myself back in track. 💓💓💓

  • @1zcbm11
    @1zcbm11 6 лет назад +1

    Hey Raven. Thanks so much for sharing. I’ve been with you since your college days and really appreciate your transparency cause I relate to so much. I’m struggling with school + my anxiety/depression rn. Hearing you share reassures me that 1) I’m not alone and 2) that even tho it may not be easy imma get through!!! You are amazing and so damn strong. I’m so grateful to be able to follow you along your journey. You are truly a gift to this world. ❤️

  • @brownro48
    @brownro48 6 лет назад +136

    Who was here before the thumbnail got updated 🙋🏽‍♀️

  • @ThildaWorld
    @ThildaWorld 6 лет назад +6

    🇫🇷🇫🇷🇫🇷🇫🇷🇫🇷🇫🇷You are so humble it's really a pleasure to watch your videos they are so inspiring ... I'm french and despite the distance that separates you are one of the few people to whom I totally identify ... you will go far you are a true person and his is seen. kisses from 🇫🇷💕

  • @FRESHOFFDIPLANE
    @FRESHOFFDIPLANE 6 лет назад +1

    Man “Me Too”!!! Life is a struggle sometimes and I thank God for people like you who remind me that I am not alone! Xoxo

  • @michellebrooks7282
    @michellebrooks7282 6 лет назад +1

    Raven, I want to say you are so brave to put your story out. I too struggle with the same thing you are not alone. You are touching hearts with the new move you have took with your channel. This is more you&authentic. I love your vlogs. 👑

  • @Justme_247
    @Justme_247 6 лет назад +3

    If I'm watching something else on RUclips and your notification pops up, bye to what I was watching, I'll get to it later,Raven is on!

  • @andreakcraig
    @andreakcraig 6 лет назад +9

    I’ve been watching you since you were in college, and its been so amazing to see how far you have come. you inspire me everyday 💗💗

    • @genesisstevens10
      @genesisstevens10 6 лет назад

      yes i hve been watching back since college times i love her videos

  • @BowWowBabez
    @BowWowBabez 6 лет назад

    I’m just at awe with your success story and the struggles you had to encounter to get to where you are today. This is your life story & you are still writing it. You are AMAZING. You don’t know how much of a role model you are to so many women & with just your story that you told, you have given some many women the access in their minds to exit from toxic relationships and to open themselves up to their own story. This is why I subscribed to you. I thought you were darn funny, pretty, and a amazing mom & watching you for the past year and half I have seen so much growth.

  • @yelleyw
    @yelleyw 6 лет назад +1

    So crazy watching this video and thinking back of old videos with your ex and ppl saying relationship goals and what not. You never really know what someone else is going through. You are stronger than you know.

  • @AdelaideAnn
    @AdelaideAnn 6 лет назад +6

    I absolutely love your personality and your realness! You’re such an amazing mom and so motivated 💕 your comment section is full of positivity and love, and it’s truly a reflection of who you are and what you project. God bless you!

  • @maroyce
    @maroyce 6 лет назад +3

    You are a strong women for making this video! This is deeply personal and it’s amazing that you shared this with us. ❤️

  • @respect1133
    @respect1133 6 лет назад

    Rewatching this. Continued to be amazed and proud of you! So rare to find REAL influencers who are true to who they are instead of doing what’s popular! 💛

  • @SB-rx3rc
    @SB-rx3rc 6 лет назад

    I'm sure enough people have said this to you Raven, but you honestly do not know how much you help people by being so open with your subscribers... Been watching you for so long and I've never missed a video even with the time difference (I'm from London). You are so amazing x

  • @brianbaby45
    @brianbaby45 6 лет назад +6

    I know this video was all deep and whatnot BUT all I could I think of was Ziya magically popping up in the back yelling “Barbie Schnacks” 😂

  • @bookishgworl
    @bookishgworl 6 лет назад +5

    Wow, I can relate so much to how you were feeling your senior year of college. I’m 19, will be 20 in May and I just had a baby (he’ll be 3 months on the 8th of April) I’m in cosmetology school but I’m not satisfied and don’t see myself doing hair as a career. I feel lost and like I’m failing in life, I don’t know what I want to do and I’m scared I’m going to disappoint the people around me. I feel like the 18-23 ages are tough. You want to have it all together but you’re still young. I wish my RUclips would grow but I’m not dedicated and I’m scared to give it my all and fail, GIRL IM STRUGGLING 😩😩😂

  • @cashanaseals189
    @cashanaseals189 6 лет назад

    I appreciate how candid your are. I watched you without subscribing until the video you did in 2015 about your panic attack. I knew then you were different and truly relatable. You have grown, but you continue to remain relatable. Thank you for sharing content and your life with us.

  • @sexycedshawna
    @sexycedshawna 6 лет назад

    This whole video is sooo touching 😭😭😭 cause I can relate besides the whole pregnancy part but the toxic relationship and wanting to be away from your family but end up needing them for love and support . This takes so much to share 💕 Thank You💕

  • @keshewilliams9963
    @keshewilliams9963 6 лет назад +3

    Lol I already knew almost all of this because I swear bff’s 😜💕 but I’m so happy that you took the time to actually sit and record this video for your viewers who might be going through something similar and giving them a little advice as well as just opening up to us more 💜😘

  • @honeyfunny4
    @honeyfunny4 6 лет назад +9

    I like this video I have been following you for a long time, so I know most of this stuff but it’s nice to hear this story all together. The first video of yours I watched is when you had box braids and you did a tutorial on like baby hairs and what not. It’s nice to see you grow and come this far. 💕

  • @mommyonabudget2554
    @mommyonabudget2554 6 лет назад

    I'm crying not out of sadness but as a single mother of a two year old who was single and pregnant. I see your beauty within and your such an amazing mother ! You inspire me to keep going ! Love your videos and you ❤️

  • @amireerbaker6541
    @amireerbaker6541 6 лет назад +1

    Been a subbie since 2014 and Raven I've got nothing but love and respect for you. I've been inspired because of all that you share and I appreciate it. All of us do! Your strength is a blessing and your story is an example of why we should all keep going. You've grown so much Raven. Blessings.

  • @haileygamba
    @haileygamba 6 лет назад +32

    Let me just grab a snack real quick! You are a true inspiration can't wait to hear your story

  • @joiflower3412
    @joiflower3412 6 лет назад +3

    Raven your skin is GLOWING!

  • @Thecourtneymarlene
    @Thecourtneymarlene 6 лет назад

    Raven I’ve never felt something so relatable, it’s literally like hearing half of exactly what I’ve been going through. Like I mean even little things you said it’s like listening to my own thoughts, I feel really connected to you. ❤️ love you girl, stay strong ❤️

  • @brip0091
    @brip0091 6 лет назад

    I don’t have any kids but I commend you on stepping up and being the best mother you can be despite your situation with her dad. I’ve watched you since my own college days. Growth is beautiful! Embrace it. Proud of you Rae!

  • @SsKaiiLar
    @SsKaiiLar 6 лет назад +5

    Thanks raven!
    Excellent advice, I love how open you were

  • @prettyinpink9893
    @prettyinpink9893 6 лет назад +5

    The first video I watched of yours was something about being tall and confident.

  • @mostylestv708
    @mostylestv708 6 лет назад +1

    I love this. The first video of yours that I ever watched of yours popped up on my suggestions the other day and then I saw that it was THREE YEARS OLD. I was like "we are basically best friends" lmao. It's so fun being able to follow along with your story and learning things from hair tips to life advice. You motivate me (and I'm sure many others) to continue forth no matter what. I feel like I can relate to you more than any other youtuber and it is so refreshing to have this space to come to whether I'm happy or depressed. Thank you love and keep hustling.

  • @HeyyyHR
    @HeyyyHR 6 лет назад

    Thanks so much for being open & transparent. More RUclipsrs need to do the same! We only see the nice part of life from them like the free stuff they receive or the new stuff that they've bought or were they are now. Sometimes seeing the struggle is more motivating than seeing the end result.