None of our business how much you are spending on this project, I am just here to enjoy what you are comfortable with sharing about your lives with us!! Watched your channel for years and have enjoyed all your adventures!
Don’t agree. This is part of their life and shows they are comfortable with their viewers. It’s not your place to tell them what to say. I’ve been with them from day one. So excited to hear all.
I have really loved Matt and Guess, all the way through every Episode, but,I must be Naive, I just thought they were really good friends until a private question was put to them Both, " When did you first Kiss, and when will you be Bride and Groom ?. I have never seen any the smallest hint of Gayness or Homer sexual tendencies. What a terrible waste of dreamy looking young men.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.But I still admire them, and any person man or woman who cares so much for Horses, dogs etc have hearts of pure Gold , and deserve to have each other in their lives. Happy Christmas Guesse and Matt.❤❤.
There are many pages on youtube to be miserable,go on and go be miserable there,dont bring your negativity to this young men just living their best life @phyllisbennett9950
Yes, please keep the finances private-none of our business! It doesn't matter at all. I love to hear about the process both renovation, design and construction. Keep up the great work!
Impossible not to get really fond of this kind, sensitive and wise pair. Real role models. Articulate and empathetic. And, of course, the absolute proof of their goodness is in the relationships they have with their horses and the reciprocating love. Heartwarming stuff in a dark world.
Guard your privacy!!! You are vulnerable to fraud & trolling as you probably well know. Just focus on the educational & entertainment aspects of your content!!! Bless you both for sharing wonderful & responsible animal husbandry!!! ❤❤❤
I'm a 67 yo women. I really enjoy enjoy your channel. I think anyone asking about your finances is in very bad taste . It is none of their business. You should only share what you are comfortable sharing. You have a right to your own privacy. I'm looking forward to following you on your journey. 😊🐴😊
I wholeheartedly agree and i am not even interested, actually i'd love to see more Horse content. Anyway, there are some Horse Channels I follow and no one would dare to ask them about their finances. Don't know why is it for Matt and Jesses Follower interesting.
@@billiebergmann8835This is Just a Guess here... Possibly because there are alot of other Horse owners (who have an educated guess) how much things Cost to have Horses. It maybe curious about Local Prices where they live in comparison. Not that is an Excuse for Private information from them to share Online with the World.
I really dont have to know what you exactly share in your relationship, but as a (married and elder) gay man I enjoy the way you are together, react and act together, even try to dream together. Its a comforting example to everyone what real friendship and companionship can be in whatever way you relate. Thanx for that and I love following your tremendous project and hope to see you soon reunited with all the horses.
I don't care what you spent on this project. It's your money and your vision, and ultimately your future. I am just here along for the ride, and living vicariously through you. I, don't know you personally, (of course) but I am proud of what you two have and continue to accomplish and love that you are willing to share what you do share with us. Don't worry, I'll continue to bear with the two of you because good things come to those who wait, and I know this stuff takes time.
Okay I have seen a couple comments that I just can’t let go of and keep writing replies to in my head, and that is keeping me up. I just want to state that for some, how they see others’ interactions, is often colored by their own life experiences, and that makes it hard to see what the truth of the matter is. I see two individuals that have grown a lot in their time together, helped both through therapy and life being lived. I see mutual respect, and an understanding of who they are as individuals and as partners. I see strengths acknowledged and embraced, letting the other shine when it is the other’s passion for something that is the strongest in that moment. I see the effort being taken to stop themselves to listen to their partner, and the effort to speak up and search within for a true response. These are not simple things. This is a true partnership and a commitment to communication. You two are simply a joy to watch at this point in your journey. Yes I got spoiled by the spate of a video every Wednesday for a while, to feel bereft when this month has changed that some. You two are real, and so authentic in your videos that I feel honored to be invited into your lives for whatever you are comfortable sharing. Though at this point I feel like you’d be quite successful with you own “Clarkson’s farm” type show, but I also feel that could simply be too intrusive as well. Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us.
No one is entitled to your personal financial information, or any other personal information for that matter. You have both graciously offered insights into your lives and it is all appreciated! I would LOVE to see in depth videos in any style of the renovation and stable/equestrian setup. It would be so interesting as you are basically starting from scratch!! Thanks for sharing your lives with us!
100% behind you on keeping private matters private. Additionally, things like house prices and other costs (even your reno's) are different in every country so not sure why it would be relevant to others outside of the country you're in. More relevant to me is how you would plan something like that through to seeing the end result - particularly the horse related aspects. All the best to you and yours over the season - waves from Australia (39C here today).
Renovating a historic property is always so interesting!! For me, I’d love to see how you blend historic materials with modern finishes! So exciting to see everything that goes into this project
Finally, I have been waiting for news. Thank you ❤ Remember to take a Good break from heavy renovation work 👍 some nice holidays for example in Italy ☺️ Be safe 👼🏼👼🏻
No need to share your personal finances that’s not why I watch your channel. I am patiently waiting to see more about your new home, renovation, horses, life etc. ❤
btw, matt, your parents are incredbile for taking on the task of managing the renovation project full-time while you're both away handling your individual businesses.
Jesse is right, you don't need to share everything... costs are none of our business! I will say, some may have a genuine interest in the costs along the way as they are planning something similar, but there will always be a few that are just nosey. When Matt said he realises how lucky you are to own this property, I thought this is why I enjoy watching... you are both so normal and very likeable... this is your reward for all the hard work and dedication. I'm looking forward to the renovations, the design and decorating... also Jesse's veggie garden... Have to say I was stunned at the cost of new fencing but not the property prices, I would have said higher. Congratulations on the new horse, couldn't be coming to a better home! 🦘
Matt, I had to stop the video at the 9:39 minute mark write this comment to let you know that reno vlogs are my most favorite of ALL! I want to see all of it, starting with the design process, then demolition, the clean up, the walls going up, insulation, the wall board, primer and even choosing the paint colors. Also, the mistakes, the fixes, disappointments and successes. The costs are interesting sometimes too, I watch a couple of great reno vlogs happening in France and they give the costs of a lot of the purchases, not the cost of personal labor to the workers but the cost of maybe paint if it's something special that others might want to buy or the cost of a hand made window if it's something special that adds character. These vlogs are the most fun to watch for me. Please make it a series and then make your normal vlogs along with the reno vlogs. I'd LOVE to see your parents working on projects and their insights if possible. They don't have to speak, a time lapse is great too. Many of the reno vlogs are huge with hundreds and hundreds of followers. People will even watch 20 minutes of tearing down a wall and then sweeping up the rubble because it is so satisfying to see work that they can't do themselves plus it inspires people to make changes in their home. Right now I'm sitting here thinking that you need to get over there and film so I don't miss anything, lol! I'm SO EXCITED!
I do believe your finances are your business and none of ours but I’m 😊😊not going to lie and say I’m not curious about some of your purchases or the fencing. I guess I’m used to American makeover shows with a budget. I absolutely love your new home and your vision. Congratulations
I love seeing the routine ... making breakfast, visiting the horses with the dogs, showing the surroundings on the day, the barn routine, the training, the liberty work, the horses in the fields, the birds and bunnies and even the bats, just lovely. Of course, when your families visit it is fun for us! 🐞
Your personal finances are exactly that. Personal. Any person asking for such detail, in my opinion, lack decent manners and good taste. Simple. Keep us with you through good and bad with as much detail as you feel happy. A detailed version of your renovations would be brilliant as a document for posterity and your own life story. ❤
Maybe it would be good for you to learn the cultures and norms of other countries. Saying people who discuss money have bad manners, when in some countries it is completely normal and open to do so. Just because some cultural norms differ from yours don't mean they're wrong, or the people are rude. That is quite an ignorant outlook.
Love your videos ❤I am 62 yrs woman from Ireland looking forward to all the new videos to come . Both of you are very nice polite young men . You should keep your finances to yourself in my opinion. Best of luck with all the renovations . 😊
I think Jesse is a high sensitive person: people pleasing, difficulty with change, empathy, good sense of what an animal needs, sensitive to atmosphere, needs clarity. I am also highly sensitive myself and I like to see an equal 😊 I am excited to see the new horse!
My first video of yours was flying Chase to the Netherlands. Haven't missed an episode since. I know this is an overwhelming period of your lives, but I am so excited to see every crumb of information you can share. At 72, I just hope I can see the horses arrive and be turned out in their new pasture and contented in their new stalls. You both bring me so much joy, and I love how you show your love and devotion to everything you touch. Well done. Just do some vlog videos with the phone to tide us over till your usual polished videos come out. You can put those phone vids in their own category 'bear with us' in the playlist. It would be a fun look back at 'quick memo timestamps', of this awesome time in your lives.❤🐎🪚🔨🪣
I am 64. Same as you, I started by watching the Chase flight video. Just love watching these awesome guys. I can't get out much now, so I thoroughly appreciate their vlogs & the hard work this involves. As a massive horse fan, this channel makes me feel part of their equestrian journey. ❤
@@annejarvis7002 I'm housebound as well and loved horses all my life. It's so exciting to watch...after they have been in a waiting limbo for so long, to finally making the perfect home for them & their horses. What a journey it will be.
@kathleenmcginley4827 I hope you have a great Christmas. Through adversity, I now take pleasure in the smaller things in life: a good cup of tea; an interesting film; horsey vlogs, and kind people who respond to my comments. Best wishes, Kathleen & may your Christmas be full of lots of smaller things that bring you great joy🤗🐴☕️❤️
I wouldn't ask family what they paid for something, certainly not going to ask two strangers. It's just rude. You're where you are because you've worked hard and obviously been financially successful and competent. Well done, nothing else to say on that. The property is beautiful and anything you share is appreciated. How about a potager garden? Raised beds in a small area interspersed with flowers, very picturesque, would tick both of your boxes.
As an architect and equestrian, who lived in NL for 5 years…I am so enjoying watching this journey. We purchased a piece of land, built a house and barn. It took years and was overwhelming at times, but has been so worth it. My advice is document everything, and keep moving forward, even if it’s section by section, the plan will come together! We use reality capture with photogrammetry and LiDAR, in our renovation projects, I highly recommend it and virtual reality for your planning process! Enjoy creating your dream property together!
These two are adorable. Such mutual respect and affection is obvious. Wishing you all the best. With Matt’s vision and his perfectionism, the property will be amazing. Good luck boys 🇦🇺
I love how Jesse is the dreamer and Matt is the reality check guy. lol! You guys balance each other. I cannot wait to see which horse you purchased, you said he was perfect 👌
I'm reading comments while watching. Maybe its because I was brought up that there are some things that you never ask about. Personal finances are at the top of the list. Clearly you both have several income sources. Multiple businesses, etc. The point is you're both extremely driven. I'm embarrassed its a topic you need to address. I'm simply proud of both of you for having the hussle to make your dreams a reality. Congrats! ❤
Yes, Matt, you are "lucky" to be where you are, ready to enjoy your new home. But luck means Preparation-Meets-Opportunity. You have shown exceptional skill at life planning and managing a complex set of ventures. This renovation will be a huge challenge, and I believe you both will have what it takes to pull it off. And I agree it will take many months to accomplish your short-term goals for the property.
Yes, Jesse and Matt balance each other. Jesse is a sentimental, creative visionary, but Matt is stylish, practical and perfectionistic so the end result should be great.
We totally don't care how much you spent! The best part for us is following your journey. Congratulations, and I wish you many years of happy memories in your new home!❤🎉❤
Matt, you can have a simple kitchen garden this year to determine sun and best areas. It's not challenging to have a couple tall pots along with smaller features. I would suggest raised beds to keep tidy. Very easy to build. Review southeast options... When things grow, your home is nurtured. I'm with Jesse
If I was Jesse I would either buy or have some raised beds built. You could always relocate them later. When Matt notices them I would just say I bought them, what a great Christmas present!😂
Honestly, my husband and I used to say “Divide and conquer!” This is exactly how a relationship works. People have different strengths. No one does anything in a vacuum! You guys do you. Share what you can and we will gobble up the content!! I think you will absolutely love your new place. The wildlife and beauty of your home is stunning. I don’t know about predators in your area- maybe just foxes, but you may consider a livestock guardian dog. I know the health and welfare of your animals is top priority. I cannot wait to see the process and the final reveal. So happy for you both.
The large dogs are great! They can be aggressive (just doing their job!) and may have shorter lifespans. If the very large breed dogs is too much dog, one of my Dalmatians loved horses and was fiercely protective! She saved me from a snake! She lived 16.5 years! Also, my fearless Dutch Shepherd is at least 15 now -- she has saved me several times from trespassing creeps. Both breeds love humans, too. They calm down the people and the animals with their loyal and confident presence. They are so intelligent! Even my Golden Retriever saved me from another creepy hiker. Mine never attacked any human -- their awareness and alerts (communication) take care of you. 🐾
Agree 100% about a Guardian dog'(s)...My Anatolian/Phyeres cross fiercely protected the mares and foals. One mare was older and he slept along side the mare & her foal. He would even curl up with the baby. We didn't worry about fox, coyote, mountain lion or bears. They never came on the property with the dogs around. The dogs also give warning when predators came close to property...which is a huge plus.
@ I have a half Great Pyrenees. We don’t have a farm so she guards our pug and the family! Love Frenchies to but they might have the courage bit can’t quite back it up with power.
@@Bell-b9r9q All these are fine choices! I do have a Dals and there connection with horses. Give them a job and room to do and they are tireless companions and quite capable of doing guard work. Not side of it’s too cold in the Netherlands. I do sleep a little more soundly knowing my girl is keeping watch
I agree with Jesse...ALL of your personal life and what you spend is none of their business. You are gracious enough including so much of your life and horses with us, and I for one, thank you.😊
Hi Matt & Jesse, I only discovered you both last weekend I have no idea how, but I’m so glad I did. Let me tell you I’ve not watched a single housewives show or reality show except yours. Your videos have better storylines than those shows. I think I’ve almost watched every video of Matt’s and I’m almost done watching all of Jesse’s. I have eight dogs and they love watching the horses on the big TV. All this to say. I think you both are awesome people. You’re so funny, loving, caring, inspiring and vulnerable to share your lives with us. I’m so excited to watch whatever you both feel comfortable sharing. I wish you all the luck and love in the world. ❤❤ Question: I didn’t hit the 👍🏼like button on every video I watched because I didn’t want to spam your notifications or freak you both out with my binge watching. Does it make a difference hitting the like button? I can go back and do it for you both.
I grew up in the south in the US. It is terribly rude and improper to discuss money issues. I am amazed how many people have no idea of proper étiquette.
Just love this channel, don’t tell anyone what you are spending, it is nobody’s business but yours. People will always be jealous, I for one just love seeing you both getting your dream home and being able to style it to suit yourselves and have the horses at home. Love that Matt’s parents are over and can’t wait to see Matt’s mum on a video, she’s just fabulous and hilarious. Just so pleased for you both that your dreams are coming true ❤❤
I really appreciate the way you guys interact with each other. I enjoy watching these podcasts even just for the sake of observing the warm, caring and authentic humaneness with a twist of humour. Thank you for posting these long, basically uncut, podcasts. Thank you for all the other content as well. I wish all the best to you! ❤
THE HORSE HAS BEEN PURCHASED!! So exciting and wonderful! Look forward so learning more.... Also, your new home is enchanting, best of luck with your reno.
So glad to see the Unstable Podcast is back, been missing these podcast style videos of yours. Also I'm really happy to see you both looking so well and all the exciting news from the new house. Have a great Christmas and here's hope to a fab 2025 for you both. xxx
Idea, would you two be into documenting the whole process for renovating the kitchen, bedrooms and living space? I love Matt’s style and would love to get inspiration for my own home renovation. P.s No need for money talk. For one, it’s so crass to ask people how much money they make/have or spend on items. Two, everyone is on a different financial level. You should never compare where you are in life. Three, it’s all relative. Your ‘expensive’ might not be my ‘expensive’ or vice-versa.
I'm not sure why anyone would think your financial situation was their business.That you were willing to answer is very...what's the word I'm looking for? I'm not sure.Accomodating? Maybe.That you don't show any sense of entitlement,acknowledge that you're very fortunate,is something I respect.I'm just enjoying what you choose to share.
I’d l love to hear as much as you are comfortable with. There’s no need to share your finances or the cost. It’s just fun to go through this with you, and watch the progress on your beautiful home.
Man I just love this couple.. These podcast episode are probably my favorite. Im so excited to see the outcome of your new home. With both of your style and taste, I just know that this house is about to look spectacular.. and im so happy that yall decided to keep the budget private. That is none of our business lol.
I love couple therapy vlogs! You two are so refreshingly real. Love what you do and all your adventures. Can't wait to hear about the new horse and the house renovations 😊❤
1. Yes to in-depth, detailed vlogs about the renovation! 2. Your finances are no one's business but your own. 3. That said, I agree that sharing some of the costs associated with the barn, fields, indoor, etc., could be really insightful and helpful to others looking to do something similar! 4. What's Steve's website?! And we never heard how his date went after his Unstable appearance! 5. Jesse, at 44:20 you said, "I can't believe you just put it in there like that... I'm climaxed!" You can't say things like that! Lololol! You even made Matt blush! Lolol. 6. So happy for you both! What an exciting time in your lives. You have both worked so hard and earned everything you have. Enjoy it!
Finances are nobody’s business! I love love loved my vinyl horse fencing,three boards across ,strong,safe no splinters beautiful white, no maintenance. Gates were easy to use, stayed level. I had it for 15 years with no problems. Good luck with your adventure,can’t wait to meet your new horse and find out what you name him😊
I actually love my New Zealand fencing 5 strand white poly covered. It is safe for animals crossing and if a tree falls on it, it pops back up once removed. I love the look of vinyl, but where I live not practical due to rolling pastures.
As for the details in the renovations, please Matt, very very detailed. Mood boards, color scheme, thought process, everything everything. Following this renovation project will be so much fun. The planning and the process is as much fun as the result which I’m sure will be amazing due to your impeccable taste.
My daughter and I follow you both. We were discussing one of properties when another daughter said oh I’ve started watching them - because of the house renovation. I definitely think your audience will grow if you do share the property journey.
Happy for your new home ! Only reveal details that you both are comfortable sharing ! I have children your ages , that is my advice. You both are entitled to your privacy ,especially as you share much of daily life with us. Peace and all Good!!
Firstly, I just love the two of you. Your interaction is adorable. I just recently found your channels, and I am grateful. As far as the renovation, as much as you feel comfortable sharing, I am up for watching. I am not interested in your finances. Can't wait to watch the process. Thank you so much for sharing this with us. 👏👏👏
I would be happy seeing an hour long vlog style video each week, with all the details of the renovation progress 🎉 whatever you are comfortable sharing, no need to worry the video being too long 😂
You should share as much or little as you are comfortable with sharing. Your financial status is neither our focus or our business. We follow & watch your channel because we like your content. Very happy for you both. ✌🏾🇦🇺
Matt is correct that for a vege garden to properly feed a few people you need a decent size, some infrastructure and planning etc, but also it is true that a garden no matter how small or basic can give just as much in a therapeutic way, even if the yield is very small. it can be great for mental health to do things like tending a garden and just enjoying it. And for a beginner you dont want to overwhelm yourself, maybe just start with a couple of garden beds but have room to expand later. Your flower gardens at the old house were stunning, both the structured ones and the meadow/ wild areas, so im sure you will create something lovely. Look forward to seeing this new adventure with the buildings and farm land unfold!
I am happy to know all about the renovations. We get the pleasure of getting the job done while sitting on our butts in front of the computer! It is very satisfying to see a job getting done from the beginning to the end.
I think a couple of livestock guardian dogs for the animals would be a great idea, and a great investment. They are FANTASTIC at protecting their 'herd'.
Yes, at least larger than the Frenchies. Dalmatians, Dutch Shepherds, Rhodesian Ridgebacks, Rottweilers, Border Collies, ... so many choices. However, I just don't see Matt and Jesse handling an aggressive dog. My Dutch Shepherd is amazing. I vote for a Dutchie and a Dal. 😁
I think people would love to see the details about you renovating the house & grounds but the financial aspect is your own business, that should be kept private. Maybe it would be fun to see an episode where you both discuss the interior details especially as Jesse always claims he leaves it all up to you but it would interesting to see his opinions & reactions as well & how they differ from yours. It was sweet to see you Matt being affectionate to Jesse, I know you keep that side of your life private yet it was still a lovely surprise. Looking forward to watching your ongoing renovations, best wishes.
I really loved when Matt said,"How did I get so lucky in life?", because you both are very, very lucky, and smart. You were both born beautiful, you found each other and you complement each other, you do communicate so well and it's fun to watch. You got "discovered" into a profession that pays very well, and has allowed you to pursue your goals, and yes, I know you work hard.. There are hundreds of thousands of us out here who weren't so fortunate, and to hear someone who was, acknowledge that fact is really refreshing. It makes us want to cheer you on even more.
Jesse, you are lovely just as you are ... reforming people pleaser, vegetarian, Jacuzzi fan! There is an unending, contagious joy and compassion from you! You both have excellent visions for your new home. I miss seeing your pups and horses. 🌱
I love following your journey, the nitty gritty is part of that and would love to watch anything you’re willing to share! I also love how raw and real you are with us. You share only what you want and we’ll support it ❤️
You got so lucky because you two are beautiful pure souls that shine and give great examples for a lot of people in the horse world. You are both honoust, taking responsibility for your actions, pure, loving, work hard on yourselves, you are reflective etc etc and that's the kind of energy that the universe supports ... so you two definitely deserve evertyhing that you are receiving! You planted the seeds and now it's time to harvest. Enjoy it and keep shining and posting cause I love watching the both of you!
Matt, just decide between you on an area for the vegetable garden, then the raised beds can be easily constructed and soil added to a few of them ready for the Spring sowing of vegetables. Don't need to develop the whole area all at once, even one raised bed would provide gardening pleasure and a little food for the first year. Gardening is a great way to unwind when you have a busy life. 🙂
I agree. Your finances are your own business. I think we are all excited to follow your journey as you convert this house and property into the home of your dreams. Best wishes!
Jesse, you could start small on the veggie garden already this year. There is so many vegetables you don't have to make a huge land for, and still get plenty of veggies! Tomatos, cucumber and pepper can be planted in medium/larger pots and stand along side a wall that gets a lot of sun. You could also get a pallet collar for lettuce and simillar, then you could always move it if you want to for next season 🥬🍅
some ready painted galvanised raised beds look good easy to assemble and easy to cover to keep birds off. Great for herbs, salad, leaves to start with.
A couple of raised planter boxes would be a good start this year until you decide on a permanent location where a fence is needed to keep rabbits and other critters out.
Guys your finances are entirely your own business, so only share what you wish to, l will watch regardless. Details about the renovations and the new designs would be great. Love your longer hair Jesse, particularly the great quiff! and please don't shave the sexy stubble Matt, we all need cheering up when the weather's so grim! ❤❤
Wow! Thought I was the only one nagging Jesse to keep his hair longer & IMO, the sexiest pics of Matt are with the rough stubble, longer hair, curly & wavy & some hair IN HIS FACE! Egads, he's so dang handsome!!! ❤❤❤
Thanks for sharing your love for horses , travel , your new dream 'palace'. No need to share financial info with us, this world you can't trust. Merry Christmas to you and your loved ones 🌲❤ Big hug from Belgium 🤗
I know I do not care what your finances are or how you spend YOUR money. Quite frankly, I am living vicariously through your life and to be able to be on this journey with you is a privilege and I know that I am grateful to be included. You are so incredibly kind to share your lives with us and if you do not share any details you do not want to, I am 1000% okay with that.
Jesse, you put that veggie garden in as soon as you want! It’s therapy.. 💁🏼♀️ tending a garden has been amazing for my mental health so I always highly suggest it. Plus, clean organic food doesn’t hurt
Progress with ideas, design, construction. Thank you for sharing, but agree with everyone, finances are private. The both of you and all your animals are like family. ❤
The most important thing when buying furniture is whether it is comfortable. I have been in many high-end homes with sofas or chairs that are never used because they are very uncomfortable.
Don’t share cost! It’s no one’s business! It’s amazing that you’ve created a life you dream of! I do think people probably don’t realise how much work you guys have to do to be able to have this dream! Good on you both for making your dreams a reality! It’s so exciting!
Love the video and it’s so good to have Unstable back! Also nothing about your life is owed to us - you get to set those limits, because viewer curiosity is limitless. We’ll enjoy whatever you choose to post ❤
I think i commented this on another video but o well, adding to your engagement 😂. Thank you for including us in your lives, in whatever amount youre comfortable doing. I have loved watching your entire journey from chicken shopping to horse world tv to this new journey. You seem like great, incredibly hard working people.
Jesse....yessss! "I don't really need to share these things, and I don't feel bad about it!" Tell it like it is...none of anyone's business. I had to giggle because Jesse is the diplomates diplomate! 😅😂😅
I love these guys! Jesse cracks me up when he jumps in with a comment after Matt says something. They have difference of opinions but meet in the middle. Opposites attract. Well done boys. Looking forward to the detailed renovations. 😊
I love your own blend of openness & privacy... Whatever you choose to share, I am grateful for.. I'm looking forward to the next videos: seeing the new horse and the renovations on the property and everything else...
One person is always more proactive in a relationship. I've been married 50 years and still struggle with saying no to things when my husband comes up with different ideas! I am finally discovering I am a stubborn woman, haha.
❤❤ I'm sending so much love and encouragement to you both. I love seeing people making their dreams come true. I would never ask what you paid for your property. It just isn't anyone's business. Jesse is right when he said he didn't feel badly about being open about everything. It just isn't in good taste for anyone to ask private questions. Your supporters truly will understand. Merry Christmas.🎄🎁
Thank you for sharing what you have! Please, don't feel like you need to share your finances with anyone. That's private information. Very excited for you both, and can't wait to see your new horse, Matt!
I am so excited for you guys! I'm looking forward to seeing you transform your new home and property. Your horses will be extremely happy grazing on that beautiful land. ❤
Maybe my mind is in the gutter, but I couldn’t help but laugh at Jesse when he said “I’m climaxed” and how Matt looked at him like “you didn’t just say that did you?😅” 😂 I laugh like a maniac every time I watch your videos with each other
I’m happy to listen to everything you’re willing to share. I’ve watched you both for years and since I can’t own horses anymore, I live vicariously through you both. Thank you.
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None of our business how much you are spending on this project, I am just here to enjoy what you are comfortable with sharing about your lives with us!! Watched your channel for years and have enjoyed all your adventures!
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Don’t agree. This is part of their life and shows they are comfortable with their viewers. It’s not your place to tell them what to say. I’ve been with them from day one. So excited to hear all.
@@Marmamia1942 Yes, but if they decide not to share this part, we should accept that. We don't have to decide what they share and what they don't.
It definitely is not any of your business. I think they are doing great explaining as much as they are
I have never seen Matt being so affectionate towards Jesse before and I love it. Made my heart melt. ❤ You two are awesome. 😌
I have really loved Matt and Guess, all the way through every Episode, but,I must be Naive, I just thought they were really good friends until a private question was put to them Both, " When did you first Kiss, and when will you be Bride and Groom ?. I have never seen any the smallest hint of Gayness or Homer sexual tendencies. What a terrible waste of dreamy looking young men.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.But I still admire them, and any person man or woman who cares so much for Horses, dogs etc have hearts of pure Gold , and deserve to have each other in their lives. Happy Christmas Guesse and Matt.❤❤.
There are many pages on youtube to be miserable,go on and go be miserable there,dont bring your negativity to this young men just living their best life @phyllisbennett9950
Thisss!!!! Loved to see the affection towards each other🥹😍
@@phyllisbennett9950 what an odd thing to say.
"what a terrible waste..."
@@phyllisbennett9950love is love. Trust me, nothing is wasted.
Matt and Jesse, you guys don’t need to explain your finances to anybody. That is private information. Thank you for sharing as much as you have!
Agree❤
@ Every comment I’ve read agrees with us. Finances are private and should remain so.
Couldn’t believe it, when finances were mentioned. That question speaks volumes as to whoever asked it. Did they honestly expect an answer.
Yes, please keep the finances private-none of our business! It doesn't matter at all. I love to hear about the process both renovation, design and construction. Keep up the great work!
Impossible not to get really fond of this kind, sensitive and wise pair. Real role models. Articulate and empathetic. And, of course, the absolute proof of their goodness is in the relationships they have with their horses and the reciprocating love. Heartwarming stuff in a dark world.
Guard your privacy!!! You are vulnerable to fraud & trolling as you probably well know. Just focus on the educational & entertainment aspects of your content!!! Bless you both for sharing wonderful & responsible animal husbandry!!!
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I'm a 67 yo women. I really enjoy enjoy your channel. I think anyone asking about your finances is in very bad taste . It is none of their business. You should only share what you are comfortable sharing. You have a right to your own privacy. I'm looking forward to following you on your journey. 😊🐴😊
I wholeheartedly agree and i am not even interested, actually i'd love to see more Horse content.
Anyway, there are some Horse Channels I follow and no one would dare to ask them about their finances. Don't know why is it for Matt and Jesses Follower interesting.
@@billiebergmann8835This is Just a Guess here... Possibly because there are alot of other Horse owners (who have an educated guess) how much things Cost to have Horses. It maybe curious about Local Prices where they live in comparison. Not that is an Excuse for Private information from them to share Online with the World.
Exactly
Absolutely.
Exactly
I really dont have to know what you exactly share in your relationship, but as a (married and elder) gay man I enjoy the way you are together, react and act together, even try to dream together. Its a comforting example to everyone what real friendship and companionship can be in whatever way you relate. Thanx for that and I love following your tremendous project and hope to see you soon reunited with all the horses.
They do act like a happy married couple I agree. To each their own is how I feel. Is a wonderful show
I don't care what you spent on this project. It's your money and your vision, and ultimately your future. I am just here along for the ride, and living vicariously through you. I, don't know you personally, (of course) but I am proud of what you two have and continue to accomplish and love that you are willing to share what you do share with us. Don't worry, I'll continue to bear with the two of you because good things come to those who wait, and I know this stuff takes time.
Totally agree. Great comment👍
Okay I have seen a couple comments that I just can’t let go of and keep writing replies to in my head, and that is keeping me up. I just want to state that for some, how they see others’ interactions, is often colored by their own life experiences, and that makes it hard to see what the truth of the matter is. I see two individuals that have grown a lot in their time together, helped both through therapy and life being lived. I see mutual respect, and an understanding of who they are as individuals and as partners. I see strengths acknowledged and embraced, letting the other shine when it is the other’s passion for something that is the strongest in that moment. I see the effort being taken to stop themselves to listen to their partner, and the effort to speak up and search within for a true response. These are not simple things. This is a true partnership and a commitment to communication. You two are simply a joy to watch at this point in your journey. Yes I got spoiled by the spate of a video every Wednesday for a while, to feel bereft when this month has changed that some. You two are real, and so authentic in your videos that I feel honored to be invited into your lives for whatever you are comfortable sharing. Though at this point I feel like you’d be quite successful with you own “Clarkson’s farm” type show, but I also feel that could simply be too intrusive as well. Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us.
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No one is entitled to your personal financial information, or any other personal information for that matter. You have both graciously offered insights into your lives and it is all appreciated!
I would LOVE to see in depth videos in any style of the renovation and stable/equestrian setup. It would be so interesting as you are basically starting from scratch!!
Thanks for sharing your lives with us!
So spot on! Privacy is essential. ☺️
Absolutely. Agree totally @@Bell-b9r9q
I agree - I am not interested in their private affairs - I just love the House Project and Horse Content 👍🙂
Matt and Jesse seem more in sync and happier together these last few months
I notice it too, no wonder since their dreams are coming true finally!
100% behind you on keeping private matters private. Additionally, things like house prices and other costs (even your reno's) are different in every country so not sure why it would be relevant to others outside of the country you're in. More relevant to me is how you would plan something like that through to seeing the end result - particularly the horse related aspects.
All the best to you and yours over the season - waves from Australia (39C here today).
I love the honest communication between these two. And they don't get mad- they good naturedly work it out. Very compatible.
Yes, great chemistry and all in. 💜
ALL the nitty gritty please! All the highs and lows of a reno 😊
Renovating a historic property is always so interesting!! For me, I’d love to see how you blend historic materials with modern finishes! So exciting to see everything that goes into this project
Me too, I can't wait to see what they do.
Did I mention to bear with us 😅😂
Just a couple of times lol 😂
Or thank you so Macho for Bear-ing with us :)
Okay so, you literally have a pony named Bear. Maybe he could be on the podcast sometimes as the mascot lol.
Finally, I have been waiting for news.
Thank you ❤
Remember to take a Good break from heavy renovation work 👍 some nice holidays for example in Italy ☺️
Be safe 👼🏼👼🏻
No need to share your personal finances that’s not why I watch your channel. I am patiently waiting to see more about your new home, renovation, horses, life etc. ❤
btw, matt, your parents are incredbile for taking on the task of managing the renovation project full-time while you're both away handling your individual businesses.
Jesse is right, you don't need to share everything... costs are none of our business! I will say, some may have a genuine interest in the costs along the way as they are planning something similar, but there will always be a few that are just nosey. When Matt said he realises how lucky you are to own this property, I thought this is why I enjoy watching... you are both so normal and very likeable... this is your reward for all the hard work and dedication. I'm looking forward to the renovations, the design and decorating... also Jesse's veggie garden...
Have to say I was stunned at the cost of new fencing but not the property prices, I would have said higher.
Congratulations on the new horse, couldn't be coming to a better home! 🦘
4:09 as Jesse points out, Matt doesn't share his showers with us either. good point and interesting comparison. though only a few would actually mind.
Your relationship is refreshing. You actually talk and listen to each other.
Matt, I had to stop the video at the 9:39 minute mark write this comment to let you know that reno vlogs are my most favorite of ALL! I want to see all of it, starting with the design process, then demolition, the clean up, the walls going up, insulation, the wall board, primer and even choosing the paint colors. Also, the mistakes, the fixes, disappointments and successes. The costs are interesting sometimes too, I watch a couple of great reno vlogs happening in France and they give the costs of a lot of the purchases, not the cost of personal labor to the workers but the cost of maybe paint if it's something special that others might want to buy or the cost of a hand made window if it's something special that adds character. These vlogs are the most fun to watch for me. Please make it a series and then make your normal vlogs along with the reno vlogs. I'd LOVE to see your parents working on projects and their insights if possible. They don't have to speak, a time lapse is great too. Many of the reno vlogs are huge with hundreds and hundreds of followers. People will even watch 20 minutes of tearing down a wall and then sweeping up the rubble because it is so satisfying to see work that they can't do themselves plus it inspires people to make changes in their home. Right now I'm sitting here thinking that you need to get over there and film so I don't miss anything, lol! I'm SO EXCITED!
Yes, yes, yes! Perfectly said. Reno Vlog would be awesome. Hire a videographer!!!! Yesssss
I do believe your finances are your business and none of ours but I’m 😊😊not going to lie and say I’m not curious about some of your purchases or the fencing. I guess I’m used to American makeover shows with a budget. I absolutely love your new home and your vision. Congratulations
Perfect post….I second this!!!
I love seeing the routine ... making breakfast, visiting the horses with the dogs, showing the surroundings on the day, the barn routine, the training, the liberty work, the horses in the fields, the birds and bunnies and even the bats, just lovely. Of course, when your families visit it is fun for us! 🐞
I can't wait to see the horse Matt fell for at the expo in Spain. Oh the suspense! I hope it's the black stallion with the weave.
I loved him too!
Your personal finances are exactly that. Personal. Any person asking for such detail, in my opinion, lack decent manners and good taste. Simple.
Keep us with you through good and bad with as much detail as you feel happy.
A detailed version of your renovations would be brilliant as a document for posterity and your own life story. ❤
Maybe it would be good for you to learn the cultures and norms of other countries. Saying people who discuss money have bad manners, when in some countries it is completely normal and open to do so.
Just because some cultural norms differ from yours don't mean they're wrong, or the people are rude.
That is quite an ignorant outlook.
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Not interested in your opinions. They have already stated they do not wish to discuss/divulge personal finance details and that’s the end of it.
Love your videos ❤I am 62 yrs woman from Ireland looking forward to all the new videos to come . Both of you are very nice polite young men . You should keep your finances to yourself in my opinion. Best of luck with all the renovations . 😊
I think Jesse is a high sensitive person: people pleasing, difficulty with change, empathy, good sense of what an animal needs, sensitive to atmosphere, needs clarity. I am also highly sensitive myself and I like to see an equal 😊 I am excited to see the new horse!
I bet he is a lovely friend
Love how Matt can be very intense and serious and Jesse challenges him and uses humor. Great couple indeed. ❤ 🐎
My first video of yours was flying Chase to the Netherlands. Haven't missed an episode since. I know this is an overwhelming period of your lives, but I am so excited to see every crumb of information you can share. At 72, I just hope I can see the horses arrive and be turned out in their new pasture and contented in their new stalls. You both bring me so much joy, and I love how you show your love and devotion to everything you touch. Well done. Just do some vlog videos with the phone to tide us over till your usual polished videos come out. You can put those phone vids in their own category 'bear with us' in the playlist. It would be a fun look back at 'quick memo timestamps', of this awesome time in your lives.❤🐎🪚🔨🪣
I am 64. Same as you, I started by watching the Chase flight video. Just love watching these awesome guys. I can't get out much now, so I thoroughly appreciate their vlogs & the hard work this involves. As a massive horse fan, this channel makes me feel part of their equestrian journey. ❤
@@annejarvis7002 I'm housebound as well and loved horses all my life. It's so exciting to watch...after they have been in a waiting limbo for so long, to finally making the perfect home for them & their horses. What a journey it will be.
@kathleenmcginley4827 I hope you have a great Christmas. Through adversity, I now take pleasure in the smaller things in life: a good cup of tea; an interesting film; horsey vlogs, and kind people who respond to my comments. Best wishes, Kathleen & may your Christmas be full of lots of smaller things that bring you great joy🤗🐴☕️❤️
I wouldn't ask family what they paid for something, certainly not going to ask two strangers. It's just rude.
You're where you are because you've worked hard and obviously been financially successful and competent. Well done, nothing else to say on that.
The property is beautiful and anything you share is appreciated.
How about a potager garden? Raised beds in a small area interspersed with flowers, very picturesque, would tick both of your boxes.
As an architect and equestrian, who lived in NL for 5 years…I am so enjoying watching this journey. We purchased a piece of land, built a house and barn. It took years and was overwhelming at times, but has been so worth it. My advice is document everything, and keep moving forward, even if it’s section by section, the plan will come together! We use reality capture with photogrammetry and LiDAR, in our renovation projects, I highly recommend it and virtual reality for your planning process! Enjoy creating your dream property together!
right! i do spatial planning here in NL and i cannot wait to see what they do with this land!
These two are adorable. Such mutual respect and affection is obvious. Wishing you all the best. With Matt’s vision and his perfectionism, the property will be amazing.
Good luck boys 🇦🇺
I love how Jesse is the dreamer and Matt is the reality check guy. lol! You guys balance each other. I cannot wait to see which horse you purchased, you said he was perfect 👌
I'm reading comments while watching. Maybe its because I was brought up that there are some things that you never ask about. Personal finances are at the top of the list. Clearly you both have several income sources. Multiple businesses, etc. The point is you're both extremely driven. I'm embarrassed its a topic you need to address. I'm simply proud of both of you for having the hussle to make your dreams a reality. Congrats! ❤
I was told growing up to never discuss money, religion and politics with anyone you wish to maintain a friendship with.
Honestly, I love watching people fulfill their (and my) dreams
Yes, Matt, you are "lucky" to be where you are, ready to enjoy your new home. But luck means Preparation-Meets-Opportunity. You have shown exceptional skill at life planning and managing a complex set of ventures. This renovation will be a huge challenge, and I believe you both will have what it takes to pull it off. And I agree it will take many months to accomplish your short-term goals for the property.
Yes, Jesse and Matt balance each other. Jesse is a sentimental, creative visionary, but Matt is stylish, practical and perfectionistic so the end result should be great.
We totally don't care how much you spent! The best part for us is following your journey. Congratulations, and I wish you many years of happy memories in your new home!❤🎉❤
Matt, you can have a simple kitchen garden this year to determine sun and best areas. It's not challenging to have a couple tall pots along with smaller features.
I would suggest raised beds to keep tidy. Very easy to build. Review southeast options...
When things grow, your home is nurtured. I'm with Jesse
Steve is very handy and would be able to build beautiful raised garden beds
If I was Jesse I would either buy or have some raised beds built. You could always relocate them later. When Matt notices them I would just say I bought them, what a great Christmas present!😂
100% on raised beds! Also, a nice little greenhouse to get things started.
Keep the finances private, but please share the renovations. Both of you have such helpful parents so it would be nice to see something of them, too!
Very detailed vlogs please! ❤
Noted!
Es detailed as you are comfortable sharing, we will watch it all.
I completely agree. 💞
Detailed yes but not regarding finances that's none of our business. Detailed in the sense of the horses and the renovations etc. ❤
Honestly, my husband and I used to say “Divide and conquer!” This is exactly how a relationship works. People have different strengths. No one does anything in a vacuum! You guys do you. Share what you can and we will gobble up the content!! I think you will absolutely love your new place. The wildlife and beauty of your home is stunning. I don’t know about predators in your area- maybe just foxes, but you may consider a livestock guardian dog. I know the health and welfare of your animals is top priority. I cannot wait to see the process and the final reveal. So happy for you both.
The large dogs are great! They can be aggressive (just doing their job!) and may have shorter lifespans. If the very large breed dogs is too much dog, one of my Dalmatians loved horses and was fiercely protective! She saved me from a snake! She lived 16.5 years! Also, my fearless Dutch Shepherd is at least 15 now -- she has saved me several times from trespassing creeps. Both breeds love humans, too. They calm down the people and the animals with their loyal and confident presence. They are so intelligent! Even my Golden Retriever saved me from another creepy hiker. Mine never attacked any human -- their awareness and alerts (communication) take care of you. 🐾
Good recommendation especially to keep with the ponies...Karackashans are great protectors of everything that belongs on their property.
Agree 100% about a Guardian dog'(s)...My Anatolian/Phyeres cross fiercely protected the mares and foals. One mare was older and he slept along side the mare & her foal. He would even curl up with the baby.
We didn't worry about fox, coyote, mountain lion or bears. They never came on the property with the dogs around. The dogs also give warning when predators came close to property...which is a huge plus.
@ I have a half Great Pyrenees. We don’t have a farm so she guards our pug and the family! Love Frenchies to but they might have the courage bit can’t quite back it up with power.
@@Bell-b9r9q All these are fine choices! I do have a Dals and there connection with horses. Give them a job and room to do and they are tireless companions and quite capable of doing guard work. Not side of it’s too cold in the Netherlands. I do sleep a little more soundly knowing my girl is keeping watch
I just love watching you two talk about anything.😊
I feel the same way!
Ditto for ME (Maine)
This is Your Channel(s), Your Lives. Share Only what you wish. The Net is Forever. Curiosity is fleeting. I'm just happy to watch the Journey.
I agree with Jesse...ALL of your personal life and what you spend is none of their business. You are gracious enough including so much of your life and horses with us, and I for one, thank you.😊
Oh men the love between you guys is everything! Wishing you a great Christmas and a calm new year before everything is going chaosly unstable 😂❤
Hi Matt & Jesse, I only discovered you both last weekend I have no idea how, but I’m so glad I did. Let me tell you I’ve not watched a single housewives show or reality show except yours. Your videos have better storylines than those shows. I think I’ve almost watched every video of Matt’s and I’m almost done watching all of Jesse’s. I have eight dogs and they love watching the horses on the big TV. All this to say. I think you both are awesome people. You’re so funny, loving, caring, inspiring and vulnerable to share your lives with us. I’m so excited to watch whatever you both feel comfortable sharing. I wish you all the luck and love in the world. ❤❤
Question: I didn’t hit the 👍🏼like button on every video I watched because I didn’t want to spam your notifications or freak you both out with my binge watching. Does it make a difference hitting the like button? I can go back and do it for you both.
Good question. I would like to know that too.
RUclips doesn't pay for likes but it does push the video higher up on the algorithm for hopefully more views (which are paid)
I grew up in the south in the US. It is terribly rude and improper to discuss money issues. I am amazed how many people have no idea of proper étiquette.
Just love this channel, don’t tell anyone what you are spending, it is nobody’s business but yours. People will always be jealous, I for one just love seeing you both getting your dream home and being able to style it to suit yourselves and have the horses at home. Love that Matt’s parents are over and can’t wait to see Matt’s mum on a video, she’s just fabulous and hilarious. Just so pleased for you both that your dreams are coming true ❤❤
I really appreciate the way you guys interact with each other. I enjoy watching these podcasts even just for the sake of observing the warm, caring and authentic humaneness with a twist of humour. Thank you for posting these long, basically uncut, podcasts. Thank you for all the other content as well. I wish all the best to you! ❤
THE HORSE HAS BEEN PURCHASED!! So exciting and wonderful! Look forward so learning more.... Also, your new home is enchanting, best of luck with your reno.
You shouldn’t feel obligated to discuss your finances or any private information love your channel ❤
So glad to see the Unstable Podcast is back, been missing these podcast style videos of yours. Also I'm really happy to see you both looking so well and all the exciting news from the new house. Have a great Christmas and here's hope to a fab 2025 for you both. xxx
Idea, would you two be into documenting the whole process for renovating the kitchen, bedrooms and living space? I love Matt’s style and would love to get inspiration for my own home renovation.
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No need for money talk.
For one, it’s so crass to ask people how much money they make/have or spend on items.
Two, everyone is on a different financial level. You should never compare where you are in life.
Three, it’s all relative. Your ‘expensive’ might not be my ‘expensive’ or vice-versa.
I'm not sure why anyone would think your financial situation was their business.That you were willing to answer is very...what's the word I'm looking for? I'm not sure.Accomodating? Maybe.That you don't show any sense of entitlement,acknowledge that you're very fortunate,is something I respect.I'm just enjoying what you choose to share.
I’d l love to hear as much as you are comfortable with. There’s no need to share your finances or the cost. It’s just fun to go through this with you, and watch the progress on your beautiful home.
Man I just love this couple.. These podcast episode are probably my favorite. Im so excited to see the outcome of your new home. With both of your style and taste, I just know that this house is about to look spectacular.. and im so happy that yall decided to keep the budget private. That is none of our business lol.
I love couple therapy vlogs! You two are so refreshingly real. Love what you do and all your adventures. Can't wait to hear about the new horse and the house renovations 😊❤
1. Yes to in-depth, detailed vlogs about the renovation!
2. Your finances are no one's business but your own.
3. That said, I agree that sharing some of the costs associated with the barn, fields, indoor, etc., could be really insightful and helpful to others looking to do something similar!
4. What's Steve's website?! And we never heard how his date went after his Unstable appearance!
5. Jesse, at 44:20 you said, "I can't believe you just put it in there like that... I'm climaxed!" You can't say things like that! Lololol! You even made Matt blush! Lolol.
6. So happy for you both! What an exciting time in your lives. You have both worked so hard and earned everything you have. Enjoy it!
You guys have a lovely rhythm of communication together. It facinatng to watch.
Finances are nobody’s business! I love love loved my vinyl horse fencing,three boards across ,strong,safe no splinters beautiful white, no maintenance. Gates were easy to use, stayed level. I had it for 15 years with no problems. Good luck with your adventure,can’t wait to meet your new horse and find out what you name him😊
I actually love my New Zealand fencing 5 strand white poly covered. It is safe for animals crossing and if a tree falls on it, it pops back up once removed. I love the look of vinyl, but where I live not practical due to rolling pastures.
I agree! The vinyl lasts forever and looks great.
As for the details in the renovations, please Matt, very very detailed. Mood boards, color scheme, thought process, everything everything. Following this renovation project will be so much fun. The planning and the process is as much fun as the result which I’m sure will be amazing due to your impeccable taste.
My daughter and I follow you both. We were discussing one of properties when another daughter said oh I’ve started watching them - because of the house renovation. I definitely think your audience will grow if you do share the property journey.
Happy for your new home ! Only reveal details that you both are comfortable sharing ! I have children your ages , that is my advice. You both are entitled to your privacy ,especially as you share much of daily life with us. Peace and all Good!!
Firstly, I just love the two of you. Your interaction is adorable. I just recently found your channels, and I am grateful.
As far as the renovation, as much as you feel comfortable sharing, I am up for watching. I am not interested in your finances. Can't wait to watch the process. Thank you so much for sharing this with us. 👏👏👏
I would be happy seeing an hour long vlog style video each week, with all the details of the renovation progress 🎉 whatever you are comfortable sharing, no need to worry the video being too long 😂
Yes! I would love that!
You should share as much or little as you are comfortable with sharing. Your financial status is neither our focus or our business. We follow & watch your channel because we like your content. Very happy for you both. ✌🏾🇦🇺
Funny to hear you talk of fans in their 20s. I am 71 to be 72 on the 23rd. I have loved and followed you from the beginning.❤
Also maybe Jesse could name the horse barn? That would be special. ❤❤❤
Matt is correct that for a vege garden to properly feed a few people you need a decent size, some infrastructure and planning etc, but also it is true that a garden no matter how small or basic can give just as much in a therapeutic way, even if the yield is very small. it can be great for mental health to do things like tending a garden and just enjoying it. And for a beginner you dont want to overwhelm yourself, maybe just start with a couple of garden beds but have room to expand later. Your flower gardens at the old house were stunning, both the structured ones and the meadow/ wild areas, so im sure you will create something lovely. Look forward to seeing this new adventure with the buildings and farm land unfold!
There a lovely expression ‘pay cheap - pay twice!’ So true!
I am happy to know all about the renovations. We get the pleasure of getting the job done while sitting on our butts in front of the computer! It is very satisfying to see a job getting done from the beginning to the end.
I think a couple of livestock guardian dogs for the animals would be a great idea, and a great investment. They are FANTASTIC at protecting their 'herd'.
Yes, at least larger than the Frenchies. Dalmatians, Dutch Shepherds, Rhodesian Ridgebacks, Rottweilers, Border Collies, ... so many choices. However, I just don't see Matt and Jesse handling an aggressive dog. My Dutch Shepherd is amazing. I vote for a Dutchie and a Dal. 😁
I think people would love to see the details about you renovating the house & grounds but the financial aspect is your own business, that should be kept private.
Maybe it would be fun to see an episode where you both discuss the interior details especially as Jesse always claims he leaves it all up to you but it would interesting to see his opinions & reactions as well & how they differ from yours.
It was sweet to see you Matt being affectionate to Jesse, I know you keep that side of your life private yet it was still a lovely surprise.
Looking forward to watching your ongoing renovations, best wishes.
I really loved when Matt said,"How did I get so lucky in life?", because you both are very, very lucky, and smart. You were both born beautiful, you found each other and you complement each other, you do communicate so well and it's fun to watch. You got "discovered" into a profession that pays very well, and has allowed you to pursue your goals, and yes, I know you work hard.. There are hundreds of thousands of us out here who weren't so fortunate, and to hear someone who was, acknowledge that fact is really refreshing. It makes us want to cheer you on even more.
Jesse, you are lovely just as you are ... reforming people pleaser, vegetarian, Jacuzzi fan! There is an unending, contagious joy and compassion from you! You both have excellent visions for your new home. I miss seeing your pups and horses. 🌱
I want to see and hear from your Mom, Matteo! She is such a joy!❤
I love following your journey, the nitty gritty is part of that and would love to watch anything you’re willing to share! I also love how raw and real you are with us. You share only what you want and we’ll support it ❤️
You got so lucky because you two are beautiful pure souls that shine and give great examples for a lot of people in the horse world. You are both honoust, taking responsibility for your actions, pure, loving, work hard on yourselves, you are reflective etc etc and that's the kind of energy that the universe supports ... so you two definitely deserve evertyhing that you are receiving! You planted the seeds and now it's time to harvest. Enjoy it and keep shining and posting cause I love watching the both of you!
Matt, just decide between you on an area for the vegetable garden, then the raised beds can be easily constructed and soil added to a few of them ready for the Spring sowing of vegetables. Don't need to develop the whole area all at once, even one raised bed would provide gardening pleasure and a little food for the first year. Gardening is a great way to unwind when you have a busy life. 🙂
I’m so excited for the new place
It’s a dream come true, I can’t wait to share the journey
I agree. Your finances are your own business. I think we are all excited to follow your journey as you convert this house and property into the home of your dreams. Best wishes!
Jesse, you could start small on the veggie garden already this year. There is so many vegetables you don't have to make a huge land for, and still get plenty of veggies! Tomatos, cucumber and pepper can be planted in medium/larger pots and stand along side a wall that gets a lot of sun. You could also get a pallet collar for lettuce and simillar, then you could always move it if you want to for next season 🥬🍅
some ready painted galvanised raised beds look good easy to assemble and easy to cover to keep birds off.
Great for herbs, salad, leaves to start with.
A couple of raised planter boxes would be a good start this year until you decide on a permanent location where a fence is needed to keep rabbits and other critters out.
Guys your finances are entirely your own business, so only share what you wish to, l will watch regardless. Details about the renovations and the new designs would be great. Love your longer hair Jesse, particularly the great quiff! and please don't shave the sexy stubble Matt, we all need cheering up when the weather's so grim! ❤❤
Wow! Thought I was the only one nagging Jesse to keep his hair longer & IMO, the sexiest pics of Matt are with the rough stubble, longer hair, curly & wavy & some hair IN HIS FACE! Egads, he's so dang handsome!!! ❤❤❤
Thanks for sharing your love for horses , travel , your new dream 'palace'. No need to share financial info with us, this world you can't trust. Merry Christmas to you and your loved ones 🌲❤ Big hug from Belgium 🤗
I know I do not care what your finances are or how you spend YOUR money. Quite frankly, I am living vicariously through your life and to be able to be on this journey with you is a privilege and I know that I am grateful to be included. You are so incredibly kind to share your lives with us and if you do not share any details you do not want to, I am 1000% okay with that.
Jesse, you put that veggie garden in as soon as you want! It’s therapy.. 💁🏼♀️ tending a garden has been amazing for my mental health so I always highly suggest it. Plus, clean organic food doesn’t hurt
Progress with ideas, design, construction. Thank you for sharing, but agree with everyone, finances are private. The both of you and all your animals are like family. ❤
The most important thing when buying furniture is whether it is comfortable. I have been in many high-end homes with sofas or chairs that are never used because they are very uncomfortable.
Don’t share cost! It’s no one’s business! It’s amazing that you’ve created a life you dream of! I do think people probably don’t realise how much work you guys have to do to be able to have this dream! Good on you both for making your dreams a reality! It’s so exciting!
Love the video and it’s so good to have Unstable back! Also nothing about your life is owed to us - you get to set those limits, because viewer curiosity is limitless. We’ll enjoy whatever you choose to post ❤
I think i commented this on another video but o well, adding to your engagement 😂. Thank you for including us in your lives, in whatever amount youre comfortable doing. I have loved watching your entire journey from chicken shopping to horse world tv to this new journey. You seem like great, incredibly hard working people.
Would love to have longer vods :)
I’m working on the next video of our first weekend at the property and it’s over 1 hour long. I’m trying to edit it down just a little 😅
@matt_harnacke nice ty 😊
@@matt_harnackemake it over an hour long matt we will watch it,all the love and blessings to you and Jesse😍😍
@@matt_harnacke Don't worry about the length, a lot of people would like to see the long videos!❤
@@matt_harnackelonger than an hour is perfect 😂👍🏻
Jesse....yessss! "I don't really need to share these things, and I don't feel bad about it!" Tell it like it is...none of anyone's business. I had to giggle because Jesse is the diplomates diplomate! 😅😂😅
I love these guys! Jesse cracks me up when he jumps in with a comment after Matt says something. They have difference of opinions but meet in the middle. Opposites attract. Well done boys. Looking forward to the detailed renovations. 😊
I love your own blend of openness & privacy... Whatever you choose to share, I am grateful for.. I'm looking forward to the next videos: seeing the new horse and the renovations on the property and everything else...
One person is always more proactive in a relationship. I've been married 50 years and still struggle with saying no to things when my husband comes up with different ideas! I am finally discovering I am a stubborn woman, haha.
❤❤ I'm sending so much love and encouragement to you both. I love seeing people making their dreams come true. I would never ask what you paid for your property. It just isn't anyone's business. Jesse is right when he said he didn't feel badly about being open about everything. It just isn't in good taste for anyone to ask private questions. Your supporters truly will understand. Merry Christmas.🎄🎁
Thank you for sharing what you have! Please, don't feel like you need to share your finances with anyone. That's private information. Very excited for you both, and can't wait to see your new horse, Matt!
it is nice to hear you talking about all your plan. with details about what you consider important.
I am so excited for you guys! I'm looking forward to seeing you transform your new home and property. Your horses will be extremely happy grazing on that beautiful land. ❤
Maybe my mind is in the gutter, but I couldn’t help but laugh at Jesse when he said “I’m climaxed” and how Matt looked at him like “you didn’t just say that did you?😅”
😂 I laugh like a maniac every time I watch your videos with each other
I’m happy to listen to everything you’re willing to share. I’ve watched you both for years and since I can’t own horses anymore, I live vicariously through you both. Thank you.