Most Hurtful Thing You’ve Accidentally Overheard About Yourself? (r/AskReddit)
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"Nobody has ever loved him anyway"
I know that feeling
Det._Hoffman I thought that was pretty rich of her to say considering she just got dumped as well, and (per her logic) hasn’t been loved by anyone either. 🤷🏻♀️
@@coolguyrye ikr
Girl I love you, you know I do boo. How could you say that in front of me?
the chick who said that sounds like a world class b*tch. no wonder she got dumped
M. Hoffman I can't escape it
The first guy said it best “ I don’t need people like that in my life”
Period 😌
People who can deal with things like that instead of raging and going crazy you know are the best kind of people
For sure! Once you learn how to accept reality, life gets a hell of a lot easier!
Damn straight!
Exactly that’s why u can’t trust no onw
"She takes after her mother". A joke my dad made to his coworkers at a house party referencing her stupidity. My mom is a diagnosed schizophrenic. That shit hurted.
Where's your dad's address, I just wanna talk 😡
@@tilttrip210 wtf???
Send his ass to a nursing home.
@@thelvadam8811Then when he’s old and wrinkled, barely alive, just “accidentally” trip on his life support
@@princerose1470 What did he say? His comment seems to be deleted.
One thing I’ve learned is you could be the sweetest peach on the tree. There’s still going to be people that just don’t Like peaches.
Good quote
Imma take that quote
I heard this quote before. Peaches aren’t one of my favorite fruits though. That’s life, not everyone has to like you.
@@HawaiiYou88 Doesn't mean they have to treat someone like shit.
@@thelvadam8811 Yeah!
It really hurts when you know your “friends” talk about you behind your back.
Those are friends
Those are 👏🏻FAKE👏🏻ASS👏🏻BITCHES👏🏻
Oh I already know my friends fake. But I still love her
that’s so unhealthy for you !! pleaseee let her go
katie rose are you talking to me?
High Pitched idk
''I must've gotten the wrong child at the hospital.''
- My Mom.
That's what my grandma told my mother too
Glitchy Error wow, I’ve got no words. That‘s just awful, nobody deserves to be treated that way. I hope you‘re doing ok though.
That's messed up. It's really hard to find love in this world. Also my mom also says that to me but it's because I don't got any traits from both of my parents lol.
what the fuck, that’s awful. i hope she doesnt mean that. no one deserves to have that said to them :(
Just reply "more like I got the wrong parent"
It's so cruel to make someone feel unloved and unwanted, to any random strangers who might be reading this, I love you :) So much xx
Thank you and right back at you ^_^
Loving is easy in theory but no one loves for no reason in practice.
I love you too
No, you do not.
@@brigadierbraveheart3173 what?? Lmfao you make no sense .. ppl love ppl all the time for no reason. Do you love animals? Why! Lol no reason you just do. Stop this nonsense pseudo wisdom
"Hannah is a financial burden on mom and dad, it doesn't matter that she has mental health problems, she did it to herself and should be paying for herself; I wouldn't be surprised if she faked her suicide attempts."
My older brother
That sounds genuinely awful :( he needs to know that mental health problems are not a choice! I hope you are in a better place now, or will get there soon. And I hope that your brother will stop saying or thinking these things but if he doesn't, I hope you will be free of him someday.
Edit: I forgot to add, best wishes to you.
I'm really sorry you had to go through that. You're valuable and deserve all the best in the world. Be strong
That's so sick of him.......i love you... don't listen to people like him ...no matter what the relationship is some people are just toxic and not worth staying around
That kid has issues. He's like those "being gay is a choice" guys.
Fuck. So sorry you had to experience that.
“I don’t need friends they disappoint me”
Yasmin Gonzalez *stomp*
Honey, you've got a big storm coming.
**snaps fingers**
**transitions into majestic pose**
A whole mood
as someone with social anxiety, *these hurt me on an emotional level*
adriana reese yessssssss
Or HSP
If you have social anxiety then why do you have urself as ur pfp
Internet dump people with the disorder are different so having myself as a PROFILE picture doesn’t make me nervous, but it might someone else. it really just depends on who you are. for me it’s more talking to people and worrying what they think in person, not over the internet. i hope that makes sense
Is it supposed to hurt on another level?
Slept round my mates house with 5 other lasses, was watching a movie and i guess they all thought I was asleep. This girl who just started hanging out in our group started commenting on how stupid I looked all the time and how I was fat and ugly, then she started laughing to herself, but no one else laughed thankfully and told her that she was being sly.
I swear I felt my heart drop when I heard that come from sumn1 who just gained my trust so I turned around and just stared at her for like 10 seconds. She defo knew I heard and it was awkward the rest of the night
We dropped her a few weeks after that happened cos she started spreading rumours abt me for no reason. Idk wht her problem was against me, I was always nice to her and included her in things. Wht hurt me so much abt this was I literally just got over body dysmorphia and bulimia, those few comments catapulted me right back into that for a while. Don’t even get me started on the shitty things my dad would say before I got taken off him
Sorry for the essay, i just vent a lot to random strangers haha
C’mon there’s nothing to be sorry about, we’re all ears!! I hope you’re doing well🙌🏻✨
Fortunately sometimes friends can end up being more family than your actual birth family.
Judging by ur PFP ur actually leng so it doesn't even matter
She probably did it out of jealousy.
"why are you so terrified of people?" THIS. THIS is why I'm terrified of meeting new people or even talking to someone, and also why I have trust issues with EVERYONE.
Man this is awful but people who do this are cowards that don't deserve your attention, if they mean what they say they would tell you to your face.
People do this because everyone is doing it and they don't want to be the one who's talked behind their back so they join the mob.
Don't be terrified of this, it's a pathetic behaviour and you can easily find people that are at least decent enough to not do it.
smh same!
I'm an introvert and I dont really like people so I could relate
I just don't trust anyone. Even my best friend. And it's for this exact reason.
You are terrified of people because someone asked you why your are terrified of people?
But you would have to be terrified BEFORE they asked why you are terrified, why would they ask if you weren’t already terrified.
Maybe look deeper- I think you have things mixed upz
A girl said that she "didn't like people that are like me", I just leaned forward and when she saw me she said "Not in a bad way"
Casper Karlsen F
F in the chat bois
How the hell is that 'not in a bad way'? That's a straight up insult. "Bro, you're a real piece of shit to me, but I don;t mean it in a bad way"
lmao
Shoot her.
@@jackmarentette1302 I second this man
"and who are you?"~ A few people at my dad's funeral. It really made me feel like I wasn't even supposed to be there.
Lola Gray That’s awful!!! I’m so sorry. Of course you’re supposed to be there! Hope your doing well... 🥺
sometimes i feel like my other relatives forgets that i exist my other siblings always get praised or asked about their whereabouts and would only remember me if someone actually brought up my name which was rare
Ouch, are you okay? Whoever that was, they probably didn't know your dad very well.
I was always that sibling who was compared to my sisters every time. Me and my second sister seek a similar career in art and one day, I did this drawing which everyone claimed as hers. She didn’t even deny it so that’s horrible. Slightly hated my aunts and cousins sook after
Lola Gray i don’t blame them
"she's so skinny she could die, look at her bones." my aunt to my uncle at the beach when I was a kid. I was super skinny not anorexic or anything but enough to make me feel insecure about my weight. Never forgot. Still remember it to this day.
I feel this sooo much I'm super skinny and my two "friends" kept making sly comments about my weight. So don't feel alone I know the pain.
Weird, I always loved those comments. They were so endearing to me and I didn’t want to be fat. we find pleasure and pain in different things, but sorry it happened to you.
@@noirwashere same. I heard one of my "friends" say that I should eat many food (my appetite prevents me from eating too much) because I look like a stick that's about to break in half and that I look anorexic.
I know your pain. I'm skinny as well and my friends are always making jokes about that. It honestly hurts but I don't have the guts to tell them to quit it.
Pull an uno reverse and break them in half, see how that feels
When I was little, I didn't have that many friends. So when a group of girls asked me to hang out with them, I said yes. It made me so happy. But one day when I came back from using the bathroom, I heard them saying, "Why do we even hang out with her? She doesn't fit in, she's weird, and doesn't seem to do anything normally. No wonder nobody likes her."
It broke my heart, and my trust issues zoomed up.
i was in a group like thatnin middle school, except after I heard their disrespect,, they had me do "initiation" which was snorting a pixi stick in the showers. So I picked the red one, snorted it, And scared the ever loving fuck out of them and a burst out "bleeding" and screaming that my brain was fizzing and my vision was blurry. They all screamed and ran while I chuckled and washed my face. Never ever spoke to me again, and one of rhem was absolutely dumb founded that I was still nice and kind to them all. I hope they learned their lesson
My GF referred to me as her stalker as she was talking with her friends. Broke up a week after.
She’s an ass
Good for you! You shouldn’t have to deal with a person who goes around telling people that their boyfriend is their stalker! Especially if you are the boyfriend in question!
Bruh 😔
What a bitch! Sorry to hear that! Glad you broke up with her.
Lmao, that was an ass-y move she did. You saved yourself. Good job.
I once overheard someone calling me an idiot for getting my foot stuck in a dishwasher. It’s not my fault google’s instructions were unclear
I-
Thought this was something serious 😂😂
Lol
I was waiting for this one comment
I think I found my long lost twin
Very grateful for all your likes and comments, thank you!
When I was sick, my mom told me that she wanted me to die because I was being a normal 12 year old and complained
❤️
Same happened to me
Hmm that’s so dumb I would have said well your a normal mom so stfu
Fucking hell she has no chill🤣🤣🤣
Ok so this really needs more context. Was she sorry about what she said? Sometimes people say things they don't mean. My mom has said extremely mean things to me but she feels very bad whenever she remembers that. Anger does stuff to you
“Take your art and leave.”
This isn’t the most hurtful thing ever, but I’m a lifetime artist and I’ve been drawing ever since I was at the age of 4, so I fairly know my way around art. One day I decided to draw out my favorite character doing a different scenario, and my supportive friend suggested, “Yknow, your art is really good… you should really post it online.” I take her advice and finally post my first piece of art online, which was that one and I was very proud of it. It had taken me the entire week and didn’t look like much, but it was exhausting to figure out.
I don’t look at it for a few hours but I check back and see that there’s 400+ likes, so my hopes are lifted up. I then look at the comments section, and out of 67 comments there are 2 nice comments saying “Guys, they probably really working hard on this, can you leave them alone?” as 90% of the comments were, “That doesn’t look like him at all,” “Get this out of my eyes,” and “Take your art and leave.”
To me, it’s the equality of saying that anything I do to prove a talent is worthless to me. I was especially hurt because I had two close friends who thankfully were supportive of everything I did.
Ever since that day, I’ve always refused to post my art up again.
when it comes to art social media can be very toxic. I am glad that you put your mental health first. What others think of your art doesn't take away all the hard work and the skill that you have. You have good friends
Well... my advice! Do more Post more!! I know you are upset but don't backdown for those bitches!! If its bother them than let them be bothered imagine yourself as a rebellious Hero and slay those little villains they cant even do half of your work ( worked for me )
Let them scream until their heads are explode and they exist no more
Start a political party
When I commission an artist I always wondered how they can work with so many people being art is very subjective, but one told me it's about the community you can form around it and the honest people who stick around that matters rather than the jerks who throw in an insult and scram, because art really is subjective and it's very important to the people who make it, hence why you really learn to brush off rude comments and trust wanted criticism from those you ask from, and stream to the people who want to join to watch rather than make a nasty comment for that small pointless moment of self gratification due to their own insecurities.
When I was in school a teacher accused me of stealing the notebooks of 3 students and ordered (yes, ordered) me to rewrite their entire notes and give it to them. But in reality the teacher kept their notebooks with her and blamed it on me. I know this because during recess I saw her giving back the notes to the students and overheard her say to them to tell everyone that no one should ever talk to me again because I "don't deserve to have friends". I don't know what she had against me. I was mostly quiet,and did things correctly,never did anything to anger anyone... What she said wounded me.
But then I informed the matter to the principal and got her kicked out of the school. She got rekt
She is the worst kind of teacher ever. Any teacher who just simply hates a student for no reason whatsoever doesn't deserve to be a teacher
@@imapenguinandsoisniall2782 I had a lot of hate towards her for many,many years. Then I realized that doing that won't change the past.
@@Hmm_yoyo were I you I would just randomly text her and say "Hey remember when you (did what you said in ur comment) and I got u kicked out of the school? Yeah that felt good
@@imapenguinandsoisniall2782 If I do that ,how does that make me any better than her? You have to make peace with your enemies. If I ever meet her again,I'm gonna say that I forgive her for what she did to me. Whatever happened happened. Nothing that we do now will change the past. All we can do now is make sure the future is bright.
@@Hmm_yoyo dude you're a very humble, forgiving and nobel person. I hold grudges for so long and Idk why I do that cuz I know I shouldn't.
All of these stories are sad as shit and I want to give every single person in this video a hug. people can be so awful. if you’re reading this, just know that you’re more than worthy of love and a beautiful life. you deserve it all.
Moody Slvt you’re a good apple 😊
thanks, i needed it
baby yoda 💚💚💚
Thanks
Thank u very much! You just made my day %3
That story at 11:43 is so shitty. Tf do you mean your child, that you yourself chose to have, ruined your life? YOU ruined your life! It pisses me off so much when parents do this.. just DON'T HAVE THE CHILD THEN!?! USE BIRTH CONTROL!?!?
That was so fucking awful
i was bullied by this group of girls one year in high school. i was special ed (still am haha) and shy and they called me the R word a lot. i heard one of them making fun of me with friends in front of her mom, and her mom slapped the back of her head and yelled at her for making fun of special needs people.
at that time i didnt realize how 'special' i was. now im proud of who i am. im just a little slow is all lol.
There's nothing wrong with being in special ed if anyone ever says something like that again ignore them they're not worth ur time lmao
Yea, if I was u, I'd either report to the school or beat the fuck out of them.
Now thats a real mother who know how to raise a child
Good mom
RETARD SCREEECH
The wife that kept the secret because she didn't want her husband's feelings hurt...😢
Narcissists do that though. They'll lie about your friends to turn you against them and isolate you from anyone who loves you. Not saying she's a narc but I'd be suspicious if I was the husband.
I'm glad I'm not the only suspicious one here.
And it did 😂😂
@@Squidlark yeah, my grandparents are narcissistic, well my grandpa is, and yeah, he is infact, the reason I am homeless. He doesn't see that him doing this,is bad.
yellow goose wait so you’re homeless? Or were homeless?
The wife who left the husband's friend group is a *REAL* keeper
Not really. She should have told him so he didn't waste his time spending time with fake friends and looking like a moron.
@@1TopGunPaintballer still, she was inaccurate but loyal. That's what that counts. She's a keeper, inaccuacies can be fixed but disloyalty couldn't.
@@xsupremeyx9923 nicely said
Honestly i wouldve been too blown away how awesome shed been to care about them acting like that. Who needs friends when you got an SO like that anyway
Kind of seemed like a manipulation move on her part tbh to try get them to no longer be friends cause she didn't like them?
When I was in elementary school I never really had any friends, so during lunch time I would just read a book or something to pass the time. One time during lunch I over heard two of my classmates talking about how i "pretended to read" because I wanted to seem different.
These are the same classmates who never wanted to include me in anything and would make fun of my hairstyles and talk about how I was one of the ugliest girls in class.
So I thought to myself "wow I cant even be alone in peace."
This seemed way too relatable. Hope everything's fine and ur okay.
As a general rule of thumb, I never say something about a person that I wouldn't tell them straight to their face, good or bad.
That is a good rule👍
same i hate when people talk badly about others when their not present to defend themselves
Didn't worked.
That's why I'm an outcast.
Really felt for the first one.
I’ve never actually been in a serious relationship, but just felt his feels. Ya dig?
He's a fool for putting himself in that situation from the start. "Went out to a bar for a birthday party for my ex girlfriend". In what dimension is this a good idea?
@@Shade84 some people stay friends after a break up I guess.
Jack never works but still xD
@@Shade84 exactly especially when he followed that sentence up with "she really messed me up like really bad" like then why tf are you going idiot🙄 at that point I was sitting here like "cool story, bro"
Shade personally I wouldn’t go out with anyone that’s a recipe for disaster
my crush told his friend that he’d rather be gay than dance with me
Well look @ ur pfp
Lia Bee what’s wrong with accepting a dare?
Bangtan Babe what
Lia Bee i mean... look at yours... just saying.
@@quesobee I'd rather date her than you judging from your profile pictures, just saying. 😂
I've heard a lot of hurtful things.. by accident, on purpose and also directly on the face. What I've learnt is
1. Sometimes it's less about "what was said" and more about "who it was said by"
2. I noticed that the truth is more hurtful so their insults started pushing me towards working on myself.
3. Learnt the difference between constructive criticism and trash talk.
4. Learnt to decide who to keep and who to cut off.
5. Also realised I had some of the same toxic qualities.
A random kid came up to me and said “Nobody likes you, you know.” Tried to snatch my hearing aid device proceeded to chase me and kick me in the back. I lost any trust and happiness of strangers and going out in public that day. I thought every single stranger hated me and that maybe my parents were lying to me when they say they love me. I was 8 and literally just at around 14 I started I grow out of it.
Someone woke up and chose violence
I remember at my school, I never really hanged out with people. I was lonely and to some extent desperate for friends. These girl that I didn't like came up to me and asked if I wanted to play tag. I said sure. Played like two rounds, didn't catch anybody, I wasn't the fastest, and then came up to me and said that nobody wants to play with me. I didn't mind cause I didn't want to play with them anyways. But now I'm realising that I should've said something like " you guys are stupid anyways" or smthg. God, there's a reason I don't want friends anymore.
“He always talks to me and it’s like so annoying” that’s my biggest insecurity so it really hurt that someone was mentioning it
same. thats the reason I dont date anymore. too much drama.
Yeah i had that happen when i was younger. Happened so much i grew up socially awkward and quiet.
@@beastmastergaming8039 that shouldn't ruin your experience on dating. There is a lot of drama, but maybe you haven't found the right person?
@@emmarose5953 that’s probably the case.
Omg THAT. I'm a damn chatterbox so I get that a lot...
Once from a good friend of mine. Didn't know until after I stopped talking to her (a crazy story) but kept in touch with her ex (who she said she recently dumped). He said that when we first met, she had warned him that "she talks a lot, so prepare yourself" in a really negative tone.
Bitch why are you inviting me over for coffee if you didn't want to socialize? I helped that bitch with so many errands. After the friendship ended I realized 90% of the time we hung out we were absolutely just running her errands 🤦
,,She is so ugly" I heard my mom say about me from the other room. And right after that I heard my dad quietly, angerly scold her.
Broke my heart that she sayed that since she always tells me how im beautyfull and that she was lieing to me all that time. TT
said*
beautifull* NVM THIS ONE- 💀
lying*
i just said this bc when i was learning english ppl didn't tell me my mistakes /genuine
@@cheeseycheezy it's actually beautiful oof
@@dullasparagus6369 OOF-
@@cheeseycheezy i thought it was disrespectful to correct other on their writing/spelling in other country lol
my mom and aunt were just casually talking in front of me, knowing that i was listening, about how my younger sister is slimmer, taller and the more attractive one out of us and i was just like 😐 and continued to do my work
"Man, how would her life be when she get married?" "I know right, poor her future husband has to smell her terrible odor all his life!" Not really overheard, more like they knew I would hear them.
I go to a boarding school and was washing my clothes in the bathroom. Two seniors came in and gave each other that 'look' when they saw me. Was also struggling with body issues, people say my body smells terrible all the time, no matter how much soap I use, how many times I use deodorants a day, and how much perfume I use. I've heard others say worse things behind my back, but that incident broke me so much since they said it loudly, knowing I would hear. Just shows that no one in that school respects me as a human. I never washed my clothes in the bathroom whenever there's other people using it ever again.
I moved to a better school this year and I don't have to wash clothes as much cuz this school has a self-serving washing machine. The students and teachers are also nice and supportive. A month in this new school is better and happier than the three years I spent in my old school.
Edit : spelling errors
My mom once said "Kitten Tea does nothing to help around the house!" Behind my back to my dad. I regularly wash laundry and dishes, cook meals for my dad, feed and take care of our cats, bought all the groceries when I worked in a supermarket, and maintain a straight A GPA and a spot in my school's honor program. She said this almost two years ago, I haven't forgotten it
that one sounds like she has issues she's trying to pin on literally anyone else, if it makes you feel better I highly doubt there is any actual sentiment behind that
Same here, but my mom says stuff like this almost everyday without a care to recognize thr fact that I do actually do chores
@@incrediman3793 yeah that is unfair! I hope you find a way to make her realize she's being rude/manage to communicate with her so you both have the same expectations! (like maybe you do the dishes but she wants you to do all these other chores but you don't know that, or like apparently many housewives who have to do all the chores expect family members to do things if they need doing without being asked because the housewife doesn't always think to ask because too much brainpower is taken up by actually doing all the chores or something...)
I just "love" all these parents who use their children as an excuse for the "horrible" way their life is. The thing is, if they didn't have kids they'd find someone or something else to blame because they are incapable of taking responsibility for their own actions.
That’s the thing about cowards, it’s always somebody else’s fault, never their own.
Litterly im so happy my mom and dad are really hard working to keep my brothers and me comfortable
Fr, when I was 5 I was told to lie to the police and say my mom hit me, since I was small I was gullible and I ended up getting my mom in prison, every chance she gets she tells me that I am the reason she can't be a nurse, it may be true but I was small and didn't know what I was doing, it used to hurt me but now I just feel as if she just over uses it now, like if I forget to do the dishes and we argue she brings it up for no reason at all.
@@negsgachalife8427 I am so sorry that this happened to you. You are not the reason why she can’t be a nurse at all. Whoever told you to lie to the police said that knowing you would do it and wanted her in prison. Please don’t blame yourself because it’s not your fault. We are all gullible when uwe’re small. I’m glad it doesn’t hurt you anymore, but I just want to say keep your head up and stay strong. You deserve nothing but happiness. Have a great day.
@@negsgachalife8427 bruh what's worse than a child accidentally, unknowingly crushing a lazy procrastinating old witches dream? Crushing an innocent child and intentionally causing their feelings to be hurt because your incapable of taking responsibility for actions
When I was in High School and auditioned for a play. Got a minor speaking role.
One of my classmates was sh*t talking about me with another classmate on FB (which I didn't have at the time so my friend showed me) saying "How does HE get a part and I don't? I'm a senior choir student and he's a loser." for reference he was still in the play but a minor role.
The next day was play practice and he congratulated me with a big fake smile, and I said, "Yeah not bad for a loser, am I right?" The look on his face was priceless..
He didn't speak to me after that.
Freaking awesome.
hahahahaha nice
THIS... I'm loving your confidence man
The mirio pfp makes this comment better
@@yourcommentgota2146 that is exactly what I was thinking 🥺
My parents sent me to Canada to study while I was in elementary. Due to some financial conditions my parents couldn't move with me and pay for my tuition at the same time so they decided that I should move in with my aunt. At that time, it seemed like the best idea as my aunt was the sweetest and caring person I knew, and had always looked up to her in every way. But just after a few days of moving in, I heard her over a call with my teacher calling me fat, incompetent, and a dramatic kid! Plus, the whole conversation on the speaker where the teacher seemed to disagree but sadly my aunt didn't. Needless to say, it crushed me.
So, I decided to starve myself and limited myself to have some bread and water for all of my meals for some weeks until I passed out during class, was then taken to a hospital and one of the nurses tried to call my aunt and on the fifth call she picked up to scream at her not to disturb her as she was sleeping.
My aunt was the only one who lived in the country and I was passed out so they call the police and they went to my aunt's house and found her wasted in the apartment. Somehow, my parents were called and explained the whole situation. The problem almost got to the court but somehow my parents handled it and the next thing I knew my aunt was disowned, in jail and I was flying back to India.
It was later found out that the bread I was having as my meals had something which caused me to survive on it for weeks and made me lose weight fast.
So, a huge thanks to my aunt to give me anxiety and a hormonal imbalance due to which I got my periods at 10, now stand at 4'11, and can't gain weight for the rest of my life. How lovely🙃
WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK
absolutely terrible.
Damn...
That's messed up.
“If she doesn’t give a shit about herself, how can she expect any of us to give a shit about her?” - My dad, to my stepbrother
I was a minor struggling with then-undiagnosed autism and severe PTSD that my dad wouldn’t pay to get therapy for because he believed I was making it up for attention. I had recently expressed suicidal feelings to my family because I didn’t feel loved or welcome around them, and my stepmom’s response was to ask me “why do you always ruin everyone else’s good time?” So it was logically self consistent if nothing else.
Pretty sure most of us here are in the scapegoat crew lol
I hope you feel better now
Hope u are doing alright love, some parents really don't deserve to be parents. But i hope yk ur worth.
The 'lol' in the end is the saddest part of this whole comment
I hope you are doing well now dear
OMG 🥺
“her fake trauma isn’t even that bad anyways” something like that was overheard from my mum talking to my brother, i had told her about what her ex did to me and she brushed it off almost like it was nothing. i couldn’t stop crying.
That's really disgusting. I hope you are alright. You don't need these people in your life to be honest.
u r not alone 🙂
That unfortunate
@Bacon & Edge you’d be surprised
@Bacon & Edge this is true
Coming out of the toilet I passed by my parents bedroom and heard my dad saying " let's disown her, we don't need a failure in the family..." I literally heard my heart Crack but then my mom replied " I'm disappointed. *You're* acting like some failures, next time you talk shit about my baby you'll be the one disowned!" It was a relief and the first time I heard my mom say shit but still my father's words left me awake all nights for month!
S A M S A R A
This is why moms are better than dads 90% of the time.
@@aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa4932 are you sure about that?
Damn that's horrible, he shouldn't say shit like that about his own child. Glad that you have an amazing mom at least.
@@JamesBond-gx5fn thank you so much
@@samsara743 no problem :). Also, remember that even if he called you a failure, that does not mean you are one. Don't let other people's words bring you down.
I was 14, heard the "popular" kids doing like q&a between them. One of them asked the others if they would rather kiss me or my friend A. I remember seeing their faces of disgust, only then to realize I was kinda near and probably listened to it. They quickly changed my name to one of my other friends, maintaining friend A. That really changed my perspective of how I seemed to them, I never treated them poorly but they still thought of me as less.
My only friend at the time talked behind my back with her other friends about how annoying I was and that I never shut up. I found this really weird since I was known as a quiet kid and people were often asking why I don’t talk more. Hearing this made me feel like all my efforts to be more social was for nothing. I barely spoke for the rest of the school year after that but it took me a few years to stop being friends with her since I didn’t want to deal with the confrontation, and all her old friends stopped talking to her because she would shit talk them too which made her contact me more. She ended up moving schools and I blocked her number immediately.
These actually make me feel grateful for my isolation and detachment issues.
Me too. It really saved me from this pain😅😭
@@kanieraliapeng724 that’s alright, we deserve to reward ourselves all the time and energy we have. Hope you’re having kick ass day.
@Hendryka Williams that’s so cool. I wish I could have pets. One day..but it must be nice to be loved so intensely. Hah
@Hendryka Williams thank you friend. I’m happy to hear they help you out a lot. I can see how they can help keep one grounded and feel a warmth. That’s something that’s difficult for me to feel when interacting with people. 🙌🏾🙏🏾
honestly, why bother reaching out when you're just gonna be mocked and laughed at especially when you're trying to be genuine and open, one of my biggest fears and why i have social anxiety, people i'd work with say " what do you do for fun if you don't go to parties or clubs?" id say " sometimes me and friends get together and have a few beers and watch movies or play video games", they'd just answer with" that sounds so sad" its like... okay well.. fuck you, thats how we have fun.
friend told me i was being “manipulative” for asking to be included in the group activities they kept having without me. She said something along the lines of I shouldn’t expect to always be invited. I decided to wait for them to ask me first like she said and haven’t seen any of them since...it’s absolutely crushing
Its good you haven't seen them since. They are negative people so for them to disappear from your life, makes yours better. Don't keep people like them around because it shows they are using you and aren't your proper friends.
Proper friends don't leave others out. Proper friend don't disclude one person because they feel like it.
They were never your friends. As hard as it is to find new friends, I believe you should. :)
Don't wait for them too. They don't deserve your friendship at all. Leave them be.
Instead of focusing on them, focus on yourself, on how you can make yourself better and your life better.
Dopey Wan Kenobi sorry man, I hope you’re doing better
she’s the manipulative one, you’ll be better off when she ends up screwing over the other friends even worse or something
Trust me friends are fake.
Dude, I'm 32 and I went through the same thing 10 years ago and I can promise you, you'll come to realise they weren't good friends, what they did was expedite the process of you surrounding yourself with people who care about you
I really hate how I have experienced so much stuff similar to this. I feel so much sympathy and empathy towards these people
I had a school play in my senior year, I was dating this girl named Alayna. She was in the changing room with her friends and I was in the other putting on some clothes. I listened to their conversation as they didn't know I was in the room next to them. I heard her friend ask "How are you and (my name)?" and my girlfriend at the time replies with, "I'm gonna break up with him tomorrow so I guess not so good." I didn't get it, I left the building and sat outside on the curb waiting for my mom to pick me up. In the car ride home I felt lost and useless, I never argued with Alayna. I didn't know what I did wrong, guess she just lost feelings.
Plot twist: I've been dating her sister for 3 months now
I overheard people talking about how big my feet are when they saw my footprints
Way to go bullies: you're the reason why Bigfoot went into hiding!
you know what they say about big feet
@@soltrice "damn they got some big feet"
@@soltrice big feet small meat
Just Some Bigfoot With Internet Access
I just saw you on another Reddit video lmao
My family speaks Arabic, and I'm the only one who doesn't understand it. Or so they thought. I can understand them well, and my mom trash talks me right in front of me, not expecting me to understand. She usually talks about how bad I am at things because I fail a single part of a simple task. I still haven't told her, and it's a secret I'm gonna keep for a long time. To this day it makes me paranoid about how others think and talk about me when I'm not there. Kinda sucks, but you just gotta pog through the pain.
Edit: Holy crap this blew up, thanks for your kind words everyone! I guess I should at least give an update on what I want to do about this. Most of you guys suggested that when I graduate/move out I should confront them in Arabic. This is actually what I've been planning to do for a while, but I just want the perfect moment to drop that bomb on them. I'm probably going to tell them right before I move out, just to avoid that very awkward time after the conversation. If anything new happens, I'll try to remember to put an update here.
Not wanting to tell you what to do by any means, by consider telling her that you have always understood every insult she's thrown in your face like the day you move out or something
Just tell her every insult you remember she spit at you
One night, at random just start to speak Arabic and if you now how to say "I understood" or along those lines. Pls do it
Pog through the pain lol
Just think of the future. Get as advanced in the language as you can between now and when you can legally move out. The day you move out, with your final bag in hand, turn to your parents and tell them in perfect Arabic what they did, how you felt, that you've been fluent this entire time (name examples she said so she knows you're honest) and then leave. Never look back.
i overheard my mom and my school’s gymnastics teacher talking about how I didn’t have “the right body” and should not do gymnastics. i was in 3rd grade and was not overweight at all i was normal and it was in my genes to be a little bit curvy. i started practicing with my friends in the gymnastics team anyway but whenever i ate something i got scolded by the teacher for it and whenever i didn’t i also got scolded by another teacher. i was still in 3rd grade so 9 at the time.
Lost my father last year and was crying for straight-up days constantly, heard my aunt ( my father's biological sister) saying that I was just acting and doesn't feel anything, it was just to show the people that I'm grieving. Now I cry in the bathroom.
Over the past years, I've often overheard people saying mean things about me behind my back but never actually admitting it to me. Now I'm paranoid that everyone secretly hates me.
I feel the same way even in college!
i have had so many people that disliked me trough my whole life for no reason that i see now everyone as useless/expendable , that includes me too
Or they are insecure about themselves and their own lives.
Dont listen to what people say behind your back, they are there for a reason
Im pretty sure youre an awesome human being
Y: Same
“You know we talk shit about you behind your back right?”
This wasn’t even overheard. It was said to me. Which made it a lot less hurtful.
What was your reply?
I never had this said to me but my reply would be “you know we talk shit behind your back too 😂😂” I mean theres no way to prove you wrong
@@louyki It would probably be true. Everybody be talkin mad shit
@@leeham6230 yeah I feel like I’m the only one who doesn’t talk shit behind anyone’s back like what’s the point in that?
@@louyki because we're insecure about something, and putting others down is a coping mechanism to make us feel better about it.
i was helping out at a poor area feeding people in need with an organization and as we were serving food I saw this guy i knew at school. and we started having a conversation and stuff and I considered us friends. i didn’t tell anyone that i saw him there because I knew that it would have probably been embarrassing for him. a couple days later i heard him talking trash about me in school, calling me a haole(hawaiian term for foreigner, used offensively mostly towards white people).
Ok, I had a crush on this girl and the whole school knew it. She kindly rejected me and it was fine until I over heard her talking shit about me lmao. “He is ugly and short af” yeaaaaa.. then one of her friends told me everything she said and it cut deep lol. Anyways, I’m glad this happened cuz I learned to be stronger, smarter and more aware.
"Study hard and go to college. That way you won't end up like Becca." My uncle to my cousin when he started high school.
I’m sure you’re so smart and amazing! Don’t let anybody tell you that you’re not! If it help, I used to he treated as the stupid one in my classroom in high school and that didn’t stop me, so don’t let anybody stop you!!
Lol
@@CS-to2lk bruh
College isn't for everyone!!!! There are LOTS of things you can do outside of college, AND you don't have any deadlines for It! The opportunity never goes away
My name is Becca too
I overheard humans saying how stupid it is to believe that nessies are real. It just simply broke my heart...
Just Some Nessie With Internet Access yeah I know how it feels for people to not know you exist
I feel ashamed at how hard i laughed at this....
In my opinion, "Nessie" is a Greenland Shark
Just Some Nessie With Internet Access Oh my God. There's a second monster! Yes! 🤘🏽
Hey u know bigfoot with internet access?
Asking who my mother and I were at my brother's funeral (we live in Texas, he lived in Ohio). Even worse was when I overheard my father telling my mother that if my mother and I were in danger, he wouldn't even think twice about saving her and letting me die.
Damn... That father needs to reconsider whether he deserves children or not
I’m terribly sorry to everyone who has heard bad stuff about them!! Keep your heads up high and keep on going!!!!
Damn, I feel bad for the guy (OR GIRL) that hates THEIR family and calls them toxic.
I related to that story too much. Even down to the whole idea of moving out of state to get away from everybody. I haven't done that, yet. But I'm more planning on moving to Australia just to make extra special sure that nobody ever tracks me down for any reason.
Damn I feel really sorry for you guys :(
It's the other way around, he loves them, but the feeling isn't mutual.
KroneYT I had a buddy who almost followed through with the idea of going to Australia on a work visa for a year. He had a pretty fucked up life. Got kicked out, went crazy got pit in the ward and had to sign a legal document to take pills for life since he was diagnosed with bi polar. Another one my friends got kicked out and had to live out of his car for 6 months and nearly committed suicide and his parents were selfish and didn’t care about him
A couple years ago my dad, me and my friend keenan were setting up a big tent for my dad and mum's wedding reception.
Anyway, I went inside for a few minutes (I can't remember why) but when I came back outside I heard them talking. For some reason I decided not to say anything and I slowly crept behind them. I then realise they were talking about me and I then hear my dad say something along the lines of "he's brain dead" I understand that he was obviously stressed about his big night but what he said was really hurtful. That was the first time my sister saw me cry properly. Mine and my dad's relationship is the best it's ever been now and I am thankful to have him in my life.
I see people actually struggling with insults then I realized I've been insulted so much I got used to it
I know the feeling.
@Trollin 4 lolz I'd rather brag about being able to take an insult than not.
Your not the only one. I'm sorry.
My friends actually criticize me and say it to my face, which is what I like. Better that then behind my back.
*me laughs at the worst insult to me and realizing i've been insulted more than the shells fired on the KMS Bismarck trying to sink him*
SAME
Tw// talking about body image, anxiety..
I was 16 at the time. I had never felt any kind of major insicurities about myself even tho my dad was constantly picking at some of my imperfections , but I still was trying to figure out what kind of person I was, and I was also really naive about my surroundings.
One day, I heard one of my school friends talking to another boy, asking him if in his opinion, I was fat. I heard him answering 'she's fucking obese'. I wasn't and I still am not even slightly overweight, and even if at the time I might have had 5 plus kgs or something like that, it had never been such a problem for me. Hearing that, completely destroyed me that day. I remember crying until the end of school and even the whole day at home. A lot of my classmates tried to comfort me, they all told me not to listen to him and many other complimented my body saying that he was just a jerk. But I couldn't listen to them. This basically led me to developing some kind of body dysmorphia, I hadn't been able to look at my body properly for years. He probably wasn't at fault for everything that happened next in my brain, but t was definitely the starting point. I couldn't go out or look at my own self in the mirror, or on the other side, I would obsess over my looks, body checking everytime I could, going on diets I couldn't keep up or extreme workouts routines I wasn't prepared for.
I even started losing weight at some point, but I couldn't see it, and everytime someone made me notice it, I thought they were just lying to me to make me shut up and stop complaining about my looks.
I also came to know that my ex best friend had said to my current best friend 'I'm tired of her always repeating the same fucking stuff, it's just annoying' (not literally, she said it in Italian lol, but that's the point). She was the only person I relied on at the time, and i used to vent with her hoping to feel better, so that also had a huge impact on me. Years later, I have figured out I have really bad anxiety and I tend to hyper fixate on random things because of that, and I'm currently getting help from a psychologist. I am definitely doing better even tho I was going back in that spiral last year, but the pain I feel looking back and remembering how this all started is still here, and will take a lot of time to go away..
Writing this, I realized how much words can hurt. I've been told many times by my dad that I'm good at nothing, that I will never find love, that my behavior sucks and that it's 'no wonder I have no friends' (which... Is not true at all? I'm actually very friendly and lovable towards people I care about. It's rare for me to dump people, I often get used instead because of how much I attach myself to others).... Soo, all of that just to say, please be kind to people. Words really do hurt, and if you say them to the wrong person, you don't know how many things it could ruin in their life, while you're probably out there living your happy life, not realizing how much the other one is struggling.
I'm kind of late, but I hope you're getting better. Just know that there are people who love you ❤
I hope you gained confidence and mental stability. It feels like you are filtering things you wanted to hear or people you wanted to hear it from.
Ex: like you wanted the boy who insulted you take back what he said after your effort to change. And as you said the positive things said to comfort you just don't do it.
Your friend might reach her limit from repetitive scenario.
Just know there is no single answer and there is always negative ones.
Try to believe what your friend said, some people don't like your looks and to some you are normal
I was diagnosed autistic when I was ten years old. Come to find out years later that I was most likely misdiagnosed because autistic traits manifest as a byproduct of unaddressed childhood trauma. Currently 19 and living with my grandparents, I have a good paying job at a restaurant and a car that my grandfather helped me buy. However despite this most of my family, including my piece of shit father mock me for it. Never to my face though.
My dad and mom were talking about us and I overheard my dad say, "(my name) is ugly if you look closely at her." I wanted to scream, because I literally get called everyday.
Edit: I kind of find it funny because someone told me I look like my dad lol
ʚ anqeli ɞ Ouch. Sorry that sucks. Nothing hurts more that your parents insulting you, I know from experience. Good luck!
No offense, but it was from his genes tho
Your dad must be insecure asf to say that shit. I’m sorry you have to deal with that.
Gene's play thier part
My dad always insults me constantly for being ugly and he would pick out minor details.It hurts. :(
“ Why don’t you hang out with people” Here’s why I don’t. Don’t blame me.
facts. people are always astonished when i tell them i only go to work, the store, my barber and family places then back home. i hate parties and clubs and all that crap, reminds me of the shitty fake people from my school years, at least when im a lone i know i can't get hurt(too much)
Yeah I never liked parties because they were always loud and often a general waste of time
When I was in high school. My "friends" would tell people that I'm stupid right in front of my face. I had anxiety issues and was awkward.
exactly
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one night i was camping in the woods with my scout troupe. i was in the tent with my 3 closest friends from the group (we were all 14 & 15). so, a few months before that camping trip, one of the girls in our friend group had committed suicide. it was hard on the whole troop, but especially us three because we were VERY close to her for many years. anyway, that night, some other girls were sitting at the campfire, talking about the situation, thinking we were all asleep. i was asleep, but my friends heard one of them talking about how my friends & i “definitely could have done something to prevent it”. then she said more horrible things along those lines that i can’t remember. i know it’s not true at all, but it still messed with my head a lot when i was younger. losing a close friend in that way at 14 is terrible. but knowing a group of people are showing sympathy to your face, yet putting blame on you for it behind your back? that really adds to the overall sorrow...
I was a freshman in high school and overheard this girl who had a crush on my friend Sean say that he had a crush on me, that she didn’t know why because I looked like a bitch and that she hoped I caught AIDS.
For context, my uncle had died in 1994 to AIDS (though, I hadn’t told any of my friends that because it was twelve years later and he’d died eight days before my first birthday- so it wasn’t important for them to know). He was left to get bed sores and sob, constantly in pain, because back then AIDS was seen as the “gays disease”. There wasn’t an affordable cure so his only option was death. And before that would end his suffering, he would drop from a healthy athletic man of 153lbs to 82lbs, have a tube put in his throat without anesthetic (not even local to numb) because all of his veins had failed from blood and water loss but they needed the tube in so he could breathe, and worse, he was starved and dehydrated before his heart finally gave out.
To her, it was just a petty jealous insult but for me it was the cruelest thing you could put out and into the universe. I lost an uncle to it, his wife was now sick and living with it (thankfully she’s alive today because of the timing of her catching it), and their son was born with it and fought it off. It was fucking sick.
But I never told Sean what she said and guess what? He still didn’t want her. To this day she has a crush on him and tries to convince him into a date. Over ten years later and she still isn’t good enough. So fuck you, Sara.
That's a horrible thing to hear! I hope you're doing well.
Also, take a big L, Sara.
"Why won't you get any friends ?"
Because I'm afraid that they will not be real . So I only have 2 friends whom I can trust .
Ur lucky that u even have friends
Same
I only have one
Same
Wise choice
My mom one time said to me " that's why nobody loves you" when I was 14. It really hurt
Paris Camacho wth that’t really messed up! i hope you’re doing fine now. that must’ve hurt a lot. but remember that just because she said it, it doesn’t mean it’s true.
I love you
@@mel5282 gay
Grooble no u
I was 14 brushing my hair my fucking mothetfucker of a not much of a uncle said
I look like the devil
I dont look in a mirror anymore i will not let people take pictures of me either
My best friend in high school was making fun of me when he thought I wasn't around to overhear. He was the kind of guy who would want to hang out only when everyone else was busy, (which I was unaware of at the time.) After HS graduation, I was in a bar, and he came in with a group of his friends. (They didn't see me.) I came over to their table just in time to hear him say terrible things about me. I didn't confront him and left. A week later, he called me and wanted to know if I wanted to hang out. I told him I was busy. Afterwards, I was always "busy" when he called. It sucks when you find out that someone who you regard as a friend, is two faced. I wasn't even the low man on the totem pole to him. I was the part that was stuck in the ground.
People on the internet be giving me more love and support than my parents has in 10+ years
Thank you for all the people who took the time out of their day, I may not reply but I appreciate every single reply and I'm sure the person who made the comment also appreciates it greatly.
My mom literally said it on my face i'm not her daughter anymore and that me and my siblings are all mistakes. It's because she cheated on my dad and I was furious that I ran away from home and my siblings followed me. Like, whose fault at first?! I forgive her, but I can't forget about it.
nsbma uwu i hope you are ok now :)
Hah you ran fast and furious away from home? Yeah ok ill go
When i was about 12, I overheard my brother saying to my mother that i was fat and disgusting and no one would ever love me. My mom just said "I know".
Still hurts me to this day
Edit: (i'm a girl) when this happened i wasn't overwight nor obese. I was at a healthy weight, a bit on the thicker side. I started skipping some meals and eventually i got really skinny. My whole family started praising me about how good i looked and my brother started being nice to me. I confronted my brother about it years later and he apologized. I don't hate my brother or my mother, but I don't trust them and I always feel paranoid because i think people won't like me because they'll think I'm ugly.
Thank you so much for all the nice comments and the support
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My grandmother on my fathers side has always been narcissistic in the way she speaks to/with others. I had helped my Grandmother with a ton of work restoring her house. She had guests over one of the days when I was changing the outer doors of her house. I overheard her complaining to the guests about how "NOBODY ever wants to help her with anything" (even though I had been there for MONTHS helping her on my free time after work). This did not just like a punch in my gut. But I became genually angry. The way she said it, made it sound so real, it truly hurt. I have only been truly angry a couple of times in my entire life. My Grandmother has always been a master at saying thing that hurt. She never seems happy about anything. Anyone reading this might think, "well that might be because she is old and old people hurt alot" but no. She has been like this her entire life, according to all her children and ex husband (My grandfather)
My grandfather who had dementia called me God ugly, I wasn't too offended because I knew he couldn't help it, but it still hurts to hear a family member say something like that about you.
This guy I was seeing at the time brought me over to meet all of his friends and when he introduced me as "his girl" one of his friends looked at me and then looked at him and said with a disgusted look "seriously?"
It hurt hearing that from his friend because I already felt like I wasnt good enough for him and that he could do better. My man looked at him dead in the face and said "the hell is that supposed to mean?" And his friend shut his mouth real quick. Him sticking up for me made me feel better but the look on his friends face when he saw me is permanently burned in the back of my mind.
@Diamond Frieza Seriously, shut up.
@Diamond Frieza dude, why you gotta make shit out of nothing? Don't act like some girls don't say "my man". It's just a term. Stfu
@Diamond Frieza feminazi bitch alert.
Focus more on your boyfriend defending you instead of his friends' reaction, regardless of how hard it may be!
@Diamond Frieza the fuck is wrong with you-
It really sucks when you hear people talk about you behind your back. It happens to me quite a lot in school but I just ignore it and pretend I didn't hear it
Same
I've been there but i'm now 20 and all thats history now, i'm more positive, more confident and you bet i'll not allow anyone to put me down again!
Sorry to hear that bruh, I'm sure you're a great person
Don’t listen to them just keep on with your life
It happened to me when i was in school, but at a certain age this ugly duckling became a swan and it will happen to you too. This time will someday pass. Dont give up!!
"Did she really expect us not to leave her after all she did?" -an old friend in a dm thread to my then best friend I saw over her shoulder, after venting about how I was venting in a public server about how I didn't know what to do with my life now that all but one person had turned their backs on me. Still hurts to think about.
Two friends were talking, A was giving advice and support to B, who has got severe depression and a lot of mental issues. I still consider B my best and only friend. I've got few colleagues at school, but he's the only one I can call friend, even though we live hundreds of kilometers away.
As they were talking on our group chat, I heard A saying "well, you know, maybe Dante is a complete failure, but not everyone is like this. Maybe you will find a friend you need some day, there is plenty of beautiful people out there". I have no idea if he was thinking I won't see this, but yeah, I did and it hurt like hell. Especially when B agreed later on to me that he thinks I'm not really interesting and he would never talk to me by himself. He didn't mean to say that he regrets that, he admitted that I'm a great friend, he just honestly said that I don't look like an interesting person and I should work on that. At that point I didn't know this and these two sentences just crashed me totally
Hey random stranger. Only true friends stab you in the front. Remember that.
Then I've never had a true friend.
Sounds smart but real friends don't stab you in the first place
I got stabbed in the side, what kinda friends do I have
@Steve he's pranking u bro
@Steve lmaoooo
I’m a mixed girl, my parents are interracial so I have curly hair. It’s important. I was spending the night at my grandma’s, she was my world and we were so close. Because I grew up with the white side of my family, I didn’t know anything about maintaining curly hair. I didn’t know I was so supposed to wrap it or put it in a bonet at night, and when I did my mom would laugh at me and call me ghetto. So I didn’t do anything with my hair at night and just slept. This caused my hair to knot and get nappy the same night because you’re supposed to wrap ya hair 👏🏽 well, my nana is a heavy drinker every night and I woke up to go pee. As I was walking back to bed she literally screams at me to take a shower. Calling me nappy headed and saying I’m disgusting like my fathers side of the family. She literally screamed it at me the whole way back to the couch in the other room. I was humiliated and cried my eyes out. It’s been a year and two and despite what anyone says I wrap my hair because I educated myself on caring for it. Me and my grandma don’t have same inseparable bond that we used to have. I’m a bit distant. I do forgive her though, but that did hurt me. I was around 13 when it happened... I took showers ofc, it’s just the fact that my hair was nappy at night that disgusted her I’m guessing... I have 3c/3b hair so it’s pretty curly. White parents, educate yourselves on curly hair and how to properly deal with it so you don’t have confused children. Thank you.
Dream sweetheart I'm sure your hair is absolutely gorgeous. you have a gift people wish for! be curly and proud hun 💗
Not to downplay your experience, but white people also have curly hair too?
BRBingeDrinker White hair is usually different from other types of curly hair
+Shinnie Maybe, but I'm still pretty sure the methods to take care of it are the same.
BRBingeDrinker I think so. I have curly hair myself, although I do know they have hair products specifically for poc people
“She’s so ugly,skinny”
-my fake friend (who I stopped being bffs with and started being normal friends because she was fake)
“She’s so skinny”
“Does she even eat?”
“You look like a stick”
“Be careful you might float away”
Like dude why are you so concerned about me?
First look at yourselves before talking about others.
You don’t need to be concerned about others body be concerned about your words-
@amanda
I actually stopped being her friend 2 years ago
Few years ago I heard my childhood friend tell her friends how hanging out with me was an embarrassment to her that she would purposely lie to me about being busy just to avoid me. I had terrible social anxiety, adhd & depression at that time so it left a huge scar on my mental being now can no longer trust anyone anymore.
My father straight up said, “No I’m not going to do that, she’s not worth it,” in regards to me in front of the financial counselor(who stared at him in horror after he said it)when I needed a co signer for my loan, when I was 18 and going off to school. It was his name that he didn’t want to risk and I’m fine with that, however I didn’t deserve that, now I could care less about him, he’s not worth it...after all I learned from the best
H20fanatic20
Send him to an old people home or don’t go to his funeral
My dad also refused to co-sign for me when I was trying to get housing freshman year.
Sara Trejo are you guys close?
Tatey Totz 😂😂🤦♀️ probably the latter
@@H20fanatic20 Not at all.
I'm 153cm tall and I heard a little girl repeatedly screaming "that guy's a gnome" while I was at work at the supermarket as if my life could be any worse
Goodness gracious me that is horrendousu
Dude, you are smoking hot. Tom Cruise is not tall and he was considered very hot. Don’t be discouraged
@@Conebrije Life experience would beg to differ. Always been looked down upon (ha ha), always interrupted, always ignored when trying to talk, never had anyone remotely interested in me. Life has replaced all my joy and happiness with pessimism, sorrow, self hatred and loneliness.
@@PzDallas 5 foot
@@PzDallas 5.01ft
I have many, many stories for this prompt. But I think the worst one was when I was 14, and I overheard my therapist telling my parents I was suicidal and self harming for attention.
These were things I was trying desperately to hide at the time. It was in regards to a pretty bad relapse, that they only found out about because my school nurse did a surprise search. I already didn't trust my therapist as she threatened to hospitalize me several times, but after hearing her tell my parents that my biggest secret was a ploy for attention, because "there isn't anything that bad" happening in my life? Really fucked me up for awhile.
I'm 21 now, and haven't been back to therapy since, despite the fact I desperately need it.
I was about 13 and I was in a changing locker for P.E. Some of the girls who I wasn’t friends with but talked to occasionally were right outside the door. They started talking about how they could tell I’m on my period because my acne was worse than usual. It shocked me, not only because they would say that, but because I didn’t think anyone payed attention to me. I waited until they left to come out.
Something about how I should have just died in my car wreck, because with my injuries I was never going to amount to anything and just got in the way...
This was less than a year after a deadly wreck where I shattered my spine(they had to piece it together like Humpty Dumpty LITERALLY), broke both legs and lost all my memories....
I didn't even know my own name for days.
Because she wanted to sit her bag on my desk, and when I made it to school still in a turtle shell(as the glue on that vertebrae I shattered was still settling) and a wheelchair, well it just upset her day so much to have to put the bag on the floor.
Everyone took it personally that I couldn't remember them.
Began acting like I didn't WANT to, and that's what my problem was.
And the nurse wondered why she kept having ppl come in for ice packs due to a cane.
Prank me?
Steal my stuff?
Make it that much harder to make it to school?
Ha.
Once I started getting mems back they started regretting.
They had been taking my bag and putting it on a high shelf(teachers let them and even egged it on)...
The second someone went for my bag I start whipping my cane over their knuckles.
When they tried to flip my wheelchair as I rolled between classes, I made sure to protect myself.
One got a cane to the ribs, the other had a swollen jaw that whole week.
I knew who did it, could see the injuries.
Even told the principal who they were and what injuries to look for.
Nothing.
I feel no regrets for defending myself, despite having broke one guys tooth and prolly fracturing the others rib with how hard I hit.
No one tried to flip me again tho.
That's horrible and I hope you are doing okay now. If you are still in school I hope you find a way to change schools or maybe do online school. Good luck with the life that luckily wasn't taken from you in that wreck and I hope you become a wonderful person.
@@sophiescalzitti
I graduated ^-^
Despite their attempts otherwise.
Doing better?
A bit.
I'm mentally better, but my body is still healing since we found my first surgeon was a jerk.
Have had a couple more spine surgeries, one lined up and figuring out seizures....
But it's manageable.
I mainly work with dogs, so short spurts of energy work well when training them.
With my SD we manage decently XD
But thank you, it's been a while and my first post was right before bed since I had trouble falling asleep lol.
The angst is heavy when I have my filter powered down XD
@@wildlifesymphony I'm having trouble falling asleep now as I'm fighting tonsillitis. Thank you for sharing your story. The courage and resilience you've shown is inspiring. May God/the Universe bless you ten fold on your recovery🙌🏿
@@duchesseebene1273
The fight for sleep is real man, lol.
Sorry about ur tonsillitis!!!!
My sister was miserable with hers.
Ty!
I'm glad you didn't just see this comment as a pity party invite XD
It's been tough that's for sure...
But I know how lucky I am to be here.
The guy that died had a brain defect that the wreck triggered.
I was the one they were worried about.
Because of how bad my injuries were, while he was a day from being discharged when he died.
I've made friends since this accident that I really bonded with, and we grew together...
And I've lost many of them sadly...
But they were always so happy that I listened to them, that I didn't judge them for being young with health issues...
But that's something that keeps me going when low, that even when I was at my lowest I was able to help people...
Anyway, thanks for that comment!
Fucking with a wheelchairbound amnesiac, damn if I was the teacher i'd slap the shit out of those brats
I worked in a chicken plant for 4 years and the majority of the people were Hispanic. I was at one time the ONLY white person on my line. All of them spoke Spanish and I could understand alot of it, but not all. Anyway, I ended up meeting my best friend when she was hired on. She spoke fluid Spanish, so she began to translate what all the women on my line were saying. Apparently, they all made fun of my makeup, and pretty much everything about me. Here I was smiling and nodding, while they looked at me, and were talking shit about me. I thought they were my friends. Thank God for my bestie though. Lol.
I'm sorry you had to meet the toxic side of my people. I'm well aware of the way Hispanics treat people that are not one us as I've lived around people that talk trash behind people's back knowing that they won't be able to defend themselves because of the language barrier that protect those cowards, they act like immature kids, but not all of us are like that. I hope you're not around them anymore.
@@danielcardenas8520 no. ALL people are messy. I was not singling out Hispanic people as a whole. I promise. In that environment, most of the women were like that. I also had several friends who were Hispanic. I think it was just that department. I actually moved to a different department and had no issues. Please don't think that I was trashing your people! When I put this comment, I was hoping it wasn't rude.
@@nessagorr8908 I never said you were trashing nobody, you're perfectly fine and I apologize.
People show their true colors when they think they can get away with it.
Yes! Ive had a similar experience when working a fast food job years ago. The majority of my co workers were Hispanic and i was one of the only three black people. They all were bilingual but spoke in Spanish to each other. I had a feeling they were saying shady stuff in Spanish.
i've overheard other people (both family and "friends") insult me behind my back many times so i kinda got used to it but a few months ago i found out that my mom was secretly opening and reading my mail and that she was planning on kicking me out of the house behind my back. she had been shit talking me to my sister, grandparents and other relatives and told them how horrible i was and that i was destroying her life. meanwhile she was acting like nothing was going on and always reassured me how much she loves and cares for me. my relatives didn't tell me anything either.
knowing that i've been lied to over weeks and months (and not even noticing it) broke my heart and destroyed my trust
I’ve always had a hard time expressing emotion, comforting people and reading the room, but I try so hard with it. I once over heard a friend that I had thought understood me say ‘She doesn’t even seem to feel anything, even when she does show emotion it’s always so out of place. I wish she’d just piss off and get a clue.’
That shit hurt, I thought I was starting to finally improve too. Those words have stuck in my mind for the past 4 years and I don’t think I’ll ever forget them. I cut ties with that person, I don’t think she knew why but I think she’ll be happy I’m gone. I don’t need people like that around me anyway.
I have the same problem with expressing emotions & comforting people. And i'm so private i'm not comfortable with telling anybody my feelings & my problems. Just few weeks ago the person I used to call my ^best friend^ yelled at me saying I have no feelings, I don't care about my friends & I'm just an insensitive selfish feelingless person. She told me more stuff but imma just put the relevant stuff here... Just wanted to tell you that you are not alone. Your personality is completely normal, there are more people like you.. just because you struggle showing emotions doesn't make you a bad person. Don't change who you are, change who you keep around ❤️
"I've never wanted someone to kill them self more than him" - a kid at a card shop. Moved far away from there a year later.
idk if you have ever felt like killing yourself but if you have please don't. you're loved and I want you to be alive. I'm sorry you had to hear that.
@@mel5282 around 2 years ago I downed a fuck ton a pills and slit my wrists but that was after this and I'm past that now. Thanks for being concerned though :) we need more people like you here in the world.
@@mel5282 tbh, I've thought about it once but I just cant! I cant imagining just... stabbing myself. I still have a whole life to live and a loving family.
baby, your amazing. It’s just the fact that your better then them. It makes me mad. I don’t know you but know that your a sweety🥺
To where?
A while back, when my parents were still together, they got into a really large argument.
I was in romantic relationship with my best friend and I heard my dad yell, “I don’t understand how (BF’s Name) can love that disgrace of a girl!”
I felt so hurt and then later on my bf cheated on me.
I could care less about my ex at this point, he barely crosses my mind now but, it’s what my father said that really did hurt.
I'm really sorry for you.I can't imagine how much that hurt.... I'm really lucky to have parents that care for me. It's so hurting to be called like that from your loved ones, specially your parents.
How are you doing? I hope everything's okay now
I don't blame him since you like K-pop.
Oh man If i Were ( at this Time Your Bf)I Should Hit Your Dad 😑 Safe you are Really Cute But The Problem Is: Im To ugly So I Can’t be your Bf 🤷🏻♂️
Grooble what does liking kpop have anything abt that situation?? tf dumbass
Grooble took it too far man
I think the worst thing I've overheard from my parents, was that I was a lost cause and I won't make it in life. I've heard alot terrible shit from them in the past, but for some reason this one hit me hard the most.
I hear that quite a bit too. it hurts. I'm sorry
Oh man,that hits hard. I have been there but probably not even as bad as yours. It stings so bad when you try to do your best but it's still not enough. I can still remember my dad complaining about me being an incompetent useless kid that never does anything right and his wife calling me an absolute failure. Makes my sense of self-worth plummet down even more.
“She’s turning into her grandmother” I overheard my brother say to my mom once. At that time, I had undiagnosed autism, anxiety, adhd, and dyslexia. My grandmother has bipolar and hated my mom, treated her like shit, and only wanted her to get married so she could leave her house. Hearing my brother compare me to my psychopath of a grandma scared me, and I never had bipolar, me and my brother just have that sibling dynamic, always fighting over stupid shit but then apologizing afterwards and laughing it off.
"I'd rather have your cousin as my son than you." She said this in front of my cousin and a few other family members. I forgive her but it's something I won't ever forget. We still hate each other but I try to love her to whatever extent I can cuz she's my mom.
Ashhar Kausar she was a fucking bitch sorry to say that.A good mother should love her son no matter what.I wish to you all the good in the world
Goodness. That's the kind of hardened evil that sounds too much even in one of my novels.
@@johnnywalker3862 ty
@@ashharkausar413
Ashhar Kausar UGH I REALLY HATE IT WHEN PARENTS PUBLICLY HUMILIATE THEIR CHILD! IT MAKES ME SO SICK 😡 i hope you’re doing okay now
“Her opinion doesn’t matter and it won’t matter anywhere because she’s a kid”
I keep hearing this to this day
And I'm 20 years old
my parents say that to me whenever i have a valid point in an argument and they don’t want to be wrong
When was this?
My mum says that I am back chatting, when she doesn't like what I am saying/doing. She never actually listens to what I say. I am 23 and she still expects me to ask her for permission to go out, and if I don't, I basically live in hell. I pointed out that it was draining and that I shouldn't have to ask for permission. She said that I was back chatting and then, since that started a trend of her not liking what I was doing, she said she hated me a few days later
@@CrennyCanon fuck him
One time my mother got fired from a job in a private hospital because she was giving out to nurses since they didn’t help her save someone’s life… they were just watching her…😑
I remember going over to an in-laws house of my boyfriends. Weird because in an Asian family you're always expected to "help" cook, which I'm okay with at times, but not someone who I'm not close with. I was already feeling awkward. Right after the vist my boyfriend sent me home and we talked on the phone for a bit. He was still at his in-laws and the mother of the family said "why are you dating a girl like that?" Something along those lines in hmong. It hurt. My boyfriend asked if I heard what she said and I lied to him that I didn't hear it.
I always think to myself that they aren't really close family, but my boyfriend is friends with all of them. To this day, I still didn't tell him, I'm just insecure all the time...