I feel like with Simon the phrase "if you love something/someone set it/them free and if it comes back it was meant to be" applies. Took 8 years to come full circle but you had other experiences, lived your life, dated other people and now everything came together timing-wise (being single and in the same place) for you guys to get back together. You have history, a solid foundation, and friendship and he seems like a great guy! So happy for you!
I agree completely about communication. I have a very healthy marriage and never thought I would be able to say that. No jealousy, perfect communication. Nothing is off limits. NOTHING! If I gotta talk about how I have gas, he'll get me medicine. He doesn't shame me, doesn't treat me like I'm gross... He takes care of me. Also, if I feel disrespected or neglected, I tell him and we fix it right then and there. We haven't argued in over 7 years. Bicker yes, but no arguments. I trust him completely, I have zero doubts and know for a fact he wouldn't hurt me.
Your mom's outfits are always on point. Your whole family dynamic is something I wish I had with my family. Also "mystery man" seems so kind and respectful. I am so happy for you!
We Stan Simon so far! You seem incredibly content, safe and happy with his company ☺️ I think feeling safe in your relationship is one of the biggest green flags! When I met my husband the first time I didn’t get the crazy butterflies, instead I took it slow and he made me feel so calm and safe around him. Safety is your heart and mind both at peace ✨
Your parents take such good care of Brady. Please let them know as a dog groomer I truly appreciate how well groomed she always is and how obviously loved she is. It’s pet parents like them that make my day.
With vlogmas winding down just wanted to make sure I get a “Merry Christmas Tara, I hope you enjoy a lovely relaxing holiday” in there before you take a break from vlogging. You will be missed but we will be here when you get back. You deserve to relax in that new home and just simply enjoy!
Mother daughter shopping trip is my fav part in all vlogs, I used to go to the mall with my mom all the time, but I haven't seen my parents in 3 years due to covid. Your vlog brings back a lot of good memories.
I usually start Christmas shopping in August and every year I still somehow manage to forget some gifts. You'd think I'd learn from my mistake and create a list but nope. Glad I'm not the only one who does last minute shopping.
I always buy my Christmas basics like wreaths and Garland ect after Christmas on sale then during this season I'll collect a few more decorative pieces and if theres any trends I like I'll pick some of that up too.
i just want to say that as someone with a very strained relationship with a toxic mother, watching you and yours brings me a lot of joy and i really appreciate that you share that relationship with us
I wonder if you not being at the house is part of the reason little things aren’t getting done. If you’re there to point out small fixes while they’re already there it could save them from having to come back! Just a thought ❤️ we’re currently building I’ve noticed I’ve had to micromanage here and there 😅
Your three musts for a relationship (open communication, truth/trust, friendship) are SPOT ON!! With those three things you will find that person you can get through the hard stuff in life with and maybe even enjoy most if it. lol
I actually “finished” Christmas shopping early this year for the first time in years! But i still feel like I need to pick up things here & there. Lol. I just hate crowds & have no desire to go into any stores.
It's all smiles for me, when you're with your Fam. The way Bradey casually walked by, seemingly looking at the camera.Your "Dad not approving" caption; as he went on to talk jeans. Lol I love it . Thanks for sharing. Btw Vlogmas is going by quick .
Tara, you seem happy hanging out with Simon, even just as friends (or whatever you guys are to each other) you can tell there is a level of comfortability you guys have and it’s really nice to see. You’re doing great! don’t second guess yourself we…or at least I come to your channel to watch you live your life and if that means you sat on the couch all day and watched tv that’s what I want to see. I really love you and your videos❤️
“Let me know when you want it back” “by the end of the day” “I’m not talking to you sir” “They’re not comfortable!” “Why are they not comfortable?” your dad is hilarious 🤣🤣🤣
I find that most the stuff I buy is by Tara’s inspiration. HOVET mirror from IKEA, my first Christmas tree, neutral color palette & I love it all! It has made my life SO HAPPY! Thank you Tara!! 🤍🤍🤍
Hello from France ! Yes ! Your coat is 100 % ok ! It's very pretty and the good size. And yes again ! This year I do everything at last minute usually I'm pretty organized but this year.... everything is different and difficult. Thank you for all the work you do for sharing these vlogmas! Love them!
Your mind is in the right place when it comes to a relationship. Passion is important but fleeting. Once someone lies to you; they will always lie. The relationship-built on friendship is one that will endure. They are your bestie, confidant, and most of all your partner in ups and downs. How can you not be passionate with them? Merry Christmas!!!
Omg I also had a traumatic ski experience at 12! I was learning how to ski and kept falling so my instructor took my skis away then told me to walk down 😤 I cried the whole way down 20 years later and I still have never skied since
Your mom and dad are so sweet! It’s so nice to hear your mom and you chat. Love! 🎄❤️ also, when your mom made the comment about leggings versus jeans… AMEN!!!
So agree with the friendship and honesty things (relationship musts)- my husband and I were best friends first, and it became more 😉😂 and that building block is such a game changer! We have our moments where one of us is grumpy but if you have good communication it's never a big thing. We have never had an actual fight and we trust each other completely... It's the easiest and most fulfilling relationship ever. We both had some real doozies in the past, so we both say we found each other when we were ready and would know what we had lol!! 😂❤️💗😊 You and Simon are so cute together. Happy for ya!! ETA: I just got back from last minute shopping too 🙄😂
I have been rewatching your vlogmas vlogs all vlogmas lol but I just wanted to say that thing you do with putting vinaigrette on half of your chipotle, I do that with beans on rice lol for the same exact reason. I want both experiences!
I’m living in Canada while my family live in Australia. And feeling very homesick as it’s Christmas time. They are all with family in summer. I’m here in Canada in winter. So watching your vlogs making my day better. ❤️❤️❤️
I, coincidently, got my booster shot the same day you did. I too was feeling sluggish most of the day yesterday. I couldn't find any other way to describe it. I didn't feel "sick", but wasn't myself either. I did end up having a mild fever for a little while as well, but it wasn't a big deal. BTW, I love the vibes between you and Simon! I'm rooting for this to develope into more!!! :)
Me too. Got a little fever took a nap. On break so I can just be lazy. I hope SHIT doesn't hit the fan after the holidays but I have been food storing. Little by little so as not to horde but be prepared. What about you?
i agree with your mom. leggings are so much more comfy. i dont wear my jeans anymore either lol also i wish your besty jill a safe speedy recovery from her positive case of the virus. hopefully she has no lasting effects.
Loved this Tara, so lovely seeing your parents (hilarious), your home (gorgeous) Simon (midsection and voice, perfect amount of sharing not oversharing lol) , shopping and snow...... :)
Its hilarious because its like oo “mystery man” but its not even a mystery nor is she hiding him, hes just hella tall and we dont see his face often LOL
Can we see your parents utensil holder!! Also, for anyone who likes eggnog I suggest getting the vanilla sweet cream cold foam at Starbucks with a pump of chai and a pump or caramel in the foam! It's so good on cold brew.
You have to get the Our Place steam bamboo basket. It’s perfect for cooking them and you can steam other veggies at the same time. Also, the soup dumplings I learned you out it on a large spoon, use a chopstick to poke a hole and let the soup drain out. Then you eat the dumpling. Be careful because sometimes the soup can be really hot if you eat it in one bite.
I think for what you’re going for, the jacket is a bit too oversized. Abercrombie has some really cute “dad coats” that come in petite and I bet would look amazing on you!
I love that Mitch says he's the accountant, and you say you're not talking to him. He makes you eggs every time you go over there!!! How could you not?😊
If the house stuff is little bitty things you don't even really notice and aren't super concerned about you could always just tell them we're good, thanks anyway :) esp if you're still paying them by the hour sometimes contractors can be known for milking that pay for as long as they can. Obv different story if they're already paid in full! One year I did all my Christmas shopping on the night of Dec 23 at Walgreens...I was broke, working two jobs including a Christmas retail job, cranky and not having it any more with the holidays lmao My grinchy self did not care :p peope were gonna get their cute fuzzy socks, blankets, gift cards and chocolates and they were gonna like it! My gift giving has improved drastically since then LOL
I think the jacket might look better fitted if you’re wearing a sweater or layers underneath. It’s super cute! Wish I wasn’t so tall and lanky so I could shop in store for jackets
Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays Tara!! Hope you have the best time celebrating with those you love!! Btw where did you get that big pink thing you wear??
LOL I did most everything for Christmas in a timely manner. Then yesterday, I spent the day baking cookies because my family expects it. I kinda like doing it last minute. I can make less and I am not overloaded on sugar by the time Christmas comes!
please tell me im not the only one who does all their christmas shopping as last minute as possible!!!???? 😂😂
You aren't (ADHD be like)😂
You aren’t the only one! I always Christmas shop last minute 😂
first, happy vlogmas! and your family!! I'm the same way tara! lol!❤❤❤ waits the last minute!!❤❤❤❤ love to dog brady!!! hugs and kisses!! ✌out!!❤
Lol im totally gonna pretend that im not gonna go christmas shopping this afternoon (but i totally am!) So you're def not alone.
I just got home from Target. Finally done! Lol and your dad is hilarious. Is he a Scorpio? Sometimes his remarks have a bit of a sting to them. Lol
I feel like with Simon the phrase "if you love something/someone set it/them free and if it comes back it was meant to be" applies. Took 8 years to come full circle but you had other experiences, lived your life, dated other people and now everything came together timing-wise (being single and in the same place) for you guys to get back together. You have history, a solid foundation, and friendship and he seems like a great guy! So happy for you!
wait stop this was so freaking cute 🥺
This is such a lovely comment! 🥺
Beautiful. And can we talk about how cute of a pocket girlfriend Tara is! Like look how small she is compared to him 🥰☺️
It’s so fun seeing Mitch be goofy, he’s so serious but you can tell he’s such an amazing dad and husband! Your family dynamic is the best
I love that Simon is a headless man when you record yourself, it’s so funny to me. Really adds to the “mystery man” vibe
Yes exactly this!😂 Wasn't there also like a cartoon of some sort like that?
Wizard kelly from the proud family lol
Your mom is always looking so GOOD. That bag the coat she killed that outfit!
She has the best style!
I agree completely about communication. I have a very healthy marriage and never thought I would be able to say that. No jealousy, perfect communication. Nothing is off limits. NOTHING! If I gotta talk about how I have gas, he'll get me medicine. He doesn't shame me, doesn't treat me like I'm gross... He takes care of me.
Also, if I feel disrespected or neglected, I tell him and we fix it right then and there. We haven't argued in over 7 years. Bicker yes, but no arguments. I trust him completely, I have zero doubts and know for a fact he wouldn't hurt me.
This!! And people who have never had it believe it cannot exist. And people who have/had it, will never settle for anything different.
Your mom's outfits are always on point. Your whole family dynamic is something I wish I had with my family. Also "mystery man" seems so kind and respectful. I am so happy for you!
We Stan Simon so far! You seem incredibly content, safe and happy with his company ☺️ I think feeling safe in your relationship is one of the biggest green flags! When I met my husband the first time I didn’t get the crazy butterflies, instead I took it slow and he made me feel so calm and safe around him. Safety is your heart and mind both at peace ✨
your dad asking so much about what you’re doing and why you’re doing it shows so much of his never-stop-learning mentality. it’s so cool seeing it!!!!
He is so tall. Whenever I see you together, I could imagine a younger version of your mom and dad! This could be it Tara! :-)
I thought so too, hadn't seen them side by side and was like whoa he's so tall
I’m so glad I’m not the only one behind on Christmas shopping. My gifts are still at the store 🥲🥲🥲
This made me chuckle😂😂 but it’s okay girl I think we’re all a little behind this year haha
I love how Mitch casually tries to hide from the vlog when having the bag talk lol
HAHAH I know
Your parents take such good care of Brady. Please let them know as a dog groomer I truly appreciate how well groomed she always is and how obviously loved she is. It’s pet parents like them that make my day.
With vlogmas winding down just wanted to make sure I get a “Merry Christmas Tara, I hope you enjoy a lovely relaxing holiday” in there before you take a break from vlogging. You will be missed but we will be here when you get back. You deserve to relax in that new home and just simply enjoy!
Thanks for taking us along in the relationship. When it’s a good relationship you don’t want to hide it. ❤️
Mother daughter shopping trip is my fav part in all vlogs, I used to go to the mall with my mom all the time, but I haven't seen my parents in 3 years due to covid. Your vlog brings back a lot of good memories.
I usually start Christmas shopping in August and every year I still somehow manage to forget some gifts. You'd think I'd learn from my mistake and create a list but nope. Glad I'm not the only one who does last minute shopping.
I just love your parents. Your mom is the sweetest and your dad's comical breaks crack me up everytime.
I looooove Marcy’s style!! and the way your dad did not approve of you taking the Chanel, I died 😂😂
I always buy my Christmas basics like wreaths and Garland ect after Christmas on sale then during this season I'll collect a few more decorative pieces and if theres any trends I like I'll pick some of that up too.
I noticed across all your vlogs your mom has an amazing bag collection 😍 but she doesn’t make a big deal about her bags. Love that
You're so gorgeous, Tara! And you always look sooo happy when Simon is around :)
The realness in the coffee montage was EVERYTHING 😂😂😂😂
Your mom is so sweet! she reminds me of my mom. Haven't been able to see her in 5 years since moving to Canada. I miss her so much.
i just want to say that as someone with a very strained relationship with a toxic mother, watching you and yours brings me a lot of joy and i really appreciate that you share that relationship with us
Oh my, the more I see you with Simon the absolute more I LOVE you guys together 🤗 Merry Christmas honey ❤️
Simon feels like the grown ups you see on old cartoons cause you never see his face 😄❤
18:37 Brady double checking herself out in the camera as she strolls by🤣 “ I hope this got my good side”
The new post notifications make my day 1928392 times better✨❤️😩
I wonder if you not being at the house is part of the reason little things aren’t getting done. If you’re there to point out small fixes while they’re already there it could save them from having to come back! Just a thought ❤️ we’re currently building I’ve noticed I’ve had to micromanage here and there 😅
Your three musts for a relationship (open communication, truth/trust, friendship) are SPOT ON!! With those three things you will find that person you can get through the hard stuff in life with and maybe even enjoy most if it. lol
I actually “finished” Christmas shopping early this year for the first time in years! But i still feel like I need to pick up things here & there. Lol. I just hate crowds & have no desire to go into any stores.
5:05 Bradey’s chair trick for eggs is one of my favorite moments from Tara’s vlogs 🥹
omg this is my favorite vlog so far!! the wholesomeness is everything!! Baby Boo Boo Bradey is everything
It's all smiles for me,
when you're with your Fam.
The way Bradey casually walked
by, seemingly looking at the
camera.Your "Dad not approving" caption; as he went on to talk jeans.
Lol I love it . Thanks for sharing.
Btw Vlogmas is going by quick .
Tara, you seem happy hanging out with Simon, even just as friends (or whatever you guys are to each other) you can tell there is a level of comfortability you guys have and it’s really nice to see.
You’re doing great! don’t second guess yourself we…or at least I come to your channel to watch you live your life and if that means you sat on the couch all day and watched tv that’s what I want to see. I really love you and your videos❤️
You look so happy talking and cooking with Simon.
If you like soup dumplings, when you go back to LA, go try Din Tai Fung and make sure to order their spicy wontons as well (they’re not spicy at all)!
“Let me know when you want it back” “by the end of the day” “I’m not talking to you sir”
“They’re not comfortable!” “Why are they not comfortable?” your dad is hilarious 🤣🤣🤣
I find that most the stuff I buy is by Tara’s inspiration. HOVET mirror from IKEA, my first Christmas tree, neutral color palette & I love it all! It has made my life SO HAPPY! Thank you Tara!! 🤍🤍🤍
Marcy is serving lewks!
ALWAYS hahaha
I love your dad. He so funny but very informative as well.
I’ve LOVED your Vlogmas! ESP seeing Simon, Mitch, and Marcy! :) Hope you get to rest up for a little bit after Vlogmas!
When you film next to Simon I think of those cartoon characters who’s faces were always above the frame, like the lady in Powerpuff Girls
My husband and I are vibing every morning with the intro to the vlogmas vlogs👌💖
Hello from France ! Yes ! Your coat is 100 % ok ! It's very pretty and the good size. And yes again ! This year I do everything at last minute usually I'm pretty organized but this year.... everything is different and difficult. Thank you for all the work you do for sharing these vlogmas! Love them!
Your mind is in the right place when it comes to a relationship. Passion is important but fleeting. Once someone lies to you; they will always lie. The relationship-built on friendship is one that will endure. They are your bestie, confidant, and most of all your partner in ups and downs. How can you not be passionate with them? Merry Christmas!!!
Omg I also had a traumatic ski experience at 12! I was learning how to ski and kept falling so my instructor took my skis away then told me to walk down 😤 I cried the whole way down 20 years later and I still have never skied since
Yessss my favorite part of the day!! Definitely going to miss your vlogmas but also excited for you that it's coming to an end!
You look tiny little angel near Simon so cute and i appreciate sharing your christmas season and your dating moment :) Merry Christmas Tara!
Your mom and dad are so sweet! It’s so nice to hear your mom and you chat. Love! 🎄❤️ also, when your mom made the comment about leggings versus jeans… AMEN!!!
So agree with the friendship and honesty things (relationship musts)- my husband and I were best friends first, and it became more 😉😂 and that building block is such a game changer! We have our moments where one of us is grumpy but if you have good communication it's never a big thing. We have never had an actual fight and we trust each other completely... It's the easiest and most fulfilling relationship ever. We both had some real doozies in the past, so we both say we found each other when we were ready and would know what we had lol!! 😂❤️💗😊 You and Simon are so cute together. Happy for ya!! ETA: I just got back from last minute shopping too 🙄😂
I love that your mom’s style is just so effortlessly chic!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽☺️
I have been rewatching your vlogmas vlogs all vlogmas lol but I just wanted to say that thing you do with putting vinaigrette on half of your chipotle, I do that with beans on rice lol for the same exact reason. I want both experiences!
I’m living in Canada while my family live in Australia. And feeling very homesick as it’s Christmas time. They are all with family in summer. I’m here in Canada in winter. So watching your vlogs making my day better. ❤️❤️❤️
I, coincidently, got my booster shot the same day you did. I too was feeling sluggish most of the day yesterday. I couldn't find any other way to describe it. I didn't feel "sick", but wasn't myself either. I did end up having a mild fever for a little while as well, but it wasn't a big deal.
BTW, I love the vibes between you and Simon! I'm rooting for this to develope into more!!! :)
Me too. Got a little fever took a nap. On break so I can just be lazy. I hope SHIT doesn't hit the fan after the holidays but I have been food storing. Little by little so as not to horde but be prepared. What about you?
@@lorimoghadam3054 lol. Same as me in a week ago. Now feel fine!
Hello from Texas!!! I always look forward to your videos. Your kitchen is SO bright and beautiful!💖
Your parents are so cool with you. They have a mentality of what's mine is yours, and treasure your moments with each other. ☺️
The highlight of my day!!! I live for these vlogs, love you tara!
i agree with your mom. leggings are so much more comfy. i dont wear my jeans anymore either lol also i wish your besty jill a safe speedy recovery from her positive case of the virus. hopefully she has no lasting effects.
Loved this Tara, so lovely seeing your parents (hilarious), your home (gorgeous) Simon (midsection and voice, perfect amount of sharing not oversharing lol) , shopping and snow...... :)
Watching today’s video made me so happy. Thank you Tara ♥️🎄
Get more decorations on the 26th... when they're super marked down
I caught the part when you said “ what I WAS looking for” 😉 looks like Simon has all those qualities! So happy for you!!
I was scrolling for this comment!! Yes she said “WAS” 😉🥰
Its hilarious because its like oo “mystery man” but its not even a mystery nor is she hiding him, hes just hella tall and we dont see his face often LOL
Your vlogs give me all the cozy Christmas-y vibes! Puppies, cozy clothes, cozy house, sweet family- love it! 🥰😭
Can we see your parents utensil holder!! Also, for anyone who likes eggnog I suggest getting the vanilla sweet cream cold foam at Starbucks with a pump of chai and a pump or caramel in the foam! It's so good on cold brew.
I love you guys together already. Wishing for the best for you two 🥰♥️
The coat is super cute, I think the sleeves could be tailored just a little. ❤️
Your parents crack me up! They are such bad influences when it comes to shopping! 😂
AHHH I am just so happy for you! You are truly radiating happiness ☺️
Girl I was so last minute this year with shopping as well 😂❤️
You have to get the Our Place steam bamboo basket. It’s perfect for cooking them and you can steam other veggies at the same time.
Also, the soup dumplings I learned you out it on a large spoon, use a chopstick to poke a hole and let the soup drain out. Then you eat the dumpling. Be careful because sometimes the soup can be really hot if you eat it in one bite.
I think for what you’re going for, the jacket is a bit too oversized. Abercrombie has some really cute “dad coats” that come in petite and I bet would look amazing on you!
I love that Mitch says he's the accountant, and you say you're not talking to him. He makes you eggs every time you go over there!!! How could you not?😊
Simon's energy reminds me of your dad...just calm and solid.
Love the way Brady did a double take in the camera! Merry Christmas!
I wanna see your Mums bag collection so bad! She has the best style 😍
Hadn’t you taken the boost yesterday? It was prolly that what was making you feel sluggish
Add lemon pepper to the soup dumplings once they are cooked! So good!
I love that we can never see simons face in the shot. 😂 I think it’s funny and great
If the house stuff is little bitty things you don't even really notice and aren't super concerned about you could always just tell them we're good, thanks anyway :) esp if you're still paying them by the hour sometimes contractors can be known for milking that pay for as long as they can. Obv different story if they're already paid in full!
One year I did all my Christmas shopping on the night of Dec 23 at Walgreens...I was broke, working two jobs including a Christmas retail job, cranky and not having it any more with the holidays lmao My grinchy self did not care :p peope were gonna get their cute fuzzy socks, blankets, gift cards and chocolates and they were gonna like it! My gift giving has improved drastically since then LOL
I think the jacket might look better fitted if you’re wearing a sweater or layers underneath. It’s super cute! Wish I wasn’t so tall and lanky so I could shop in store for jackets
As a short person, it’s hard to find a coat that fits the way you want, I’d recommend you get the sleeves tailored
I think the coat your mom let you borrow in England was amazing on you
Bradey's little happy whines make me MELT.
My Daughter has ‘stolen’ quite a few of my handbags , it’s a perk of having a stylish Mom , if I do say so myself 😉
Your parents home is absolutely gorgeous!
Moms outfit was everything
“Because they not comfortable “😂😂 your mom is the best lol
Only RUclipsr I can watch from start to finish!!
I really like the mini q&a part in the vlog
Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays Tara!! Hope you have the best time celebrating with those you love!! Btw where did you get that big pink thing you wear??
would loveeee to hear more about your dad's side of the family ❤
Keep both! Duh! Just get some small alterations done and it will fit just the way you like.
I'm 50 years old and so enjoy ur videos and I love ur parents.
I live for your shopping vlogs!
LOL I did most everything for Christmas in a timely manner. Then yesterday, I spent the day baking cookies because my family expects it. I kinda like doing it last minute. I can make less and I am not overloaded on sugar by the time Christmas comes!
The Aritiza one I like is the cocoon style one. I am 27 and 4’8” a short gal so it is not too long and perfect
your parents are freaking hilarious! I love your family 🤍