Fighting back against online sexual harassment | STIGMA Ep 07

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  • Опубликовано: 29 ноя 2024

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  • @rainiperera6802
    @rainiperera6802 2 года назад +81

    Just got to know about her, She's such an empowering and a strong woman !! Love her attitude and how she's talking on behalf of all of us !! Lots of love and support to you girl❤️ and thanks to pulse for bringing content like this!! Well done.

  • @shanikadilini396
    @shanikadilini396 2 года назад +124

    මටත් ඔහොම උනා අක්කි ඒ එක දෙයින් එයාට ඕනි විදියට පාවිච්චි කරන තත්ත්වයට මාව වැටණා ඒත් එහෙම වෙන්න මං දුන්නෙ නෑ...එහෙම දෙයක් වෙයි කරයි කියල ගෙදර යාලුවො සමාජය මතක් වෙද්දිත් ඇඟම වෙව්ලන වචන වලින් කියා ගන්න බැරි බයක් ඒක 🙂 තාමත් දැනෙනව.අනෙ ඔයාලටත් එහෙම දෙයක් උනොත් එතනින් එහාට ඔයාලව පාවිච්චි නොවෙන විදියට කොහොම හරි මුහුණ දෙන්න.එදා කියා ගන්න තරම් හරියට යාලුවෙක්වත් නැතිව අද මං මේ ඉන්න විදිය ගැන ඒකට fight කරපු විදිය ගැන මතක් වෙද්දිත් මං කොච්චර ශක්තිමත්ද කියලා හිතෙනවා.දුක කීවා නෙවෙයි ගන්න දෙයක් තියෙනවා නම් ගන්න(දෙයක් උනා වෙන්න පුළුවන් ඒත් ආයි කීයටවත්ම එතනින් එහාට ඔයාව නටවන්න දෙන්න එපා ආහ් තව එකක් කිසිම වෙලාවක ඔයා දුර්වලයි කියල පෙන්නන්න යන්න එපා ඒ අය ඉස්සරහ අඬ අඬ එහෙම දෙයක් වචනෙකින් හරි කිව්ව මනුස්සයෙක් ඉස්සරහ කඳුළු පෙන්නන්න තරම් මෝඩ වෙන්න එපා ❤️)

    • @amandawickramarachchi3545
      @amandawickramarachchi3545 2 года назад +1

      You're very brave and strong!

    • @wasanafonseka1161
      @wasanafonseka1161 2 года назад +6

      Brave girl ♥️ඔයාට කියන්න පුලුවන් නම් කොහොමද ඒක විසදගත්තේ කියලා ඒක ගොඩක් අයට වැදගත් වෙයි💐

  • @usherperera
    @usherperera 2 года назад +23

    I don't know why most Sri Lankan men are frustrated in sex, older a person gets they are more frustrated (this includes all professionals). Cyber crime division should consist of people who have travelled the world and learned from advance cyber crime systems.
    And politicans should not influence the police crime investigations.
    Every human has feelings, controlling your feelings is the skill or being a better human.
    Well said and well done Chethana!

  • @sonalisamarakoon8209
    @sonalisamarakoon8209 2 года назад +29

    Chethana, t hank you for sharing your experience for everyone to hear. People like you give hope to this country & empowerment to other women..💚 Aritha, you are doing a wonderful job too. These may seem like small things but I’d like to believe that one day all these small steps would help create change in our country

  • @natasha.m22
    @natasha.m22 2 года назад +12

    This is a program the whole community should watch. This is the the literal reality here. Well said chethana akki 💕

  • @umeshaekanayake6432
    @umeshaekanayake6432 2 года назад +5

    When I'm watching this programme its remembering a suicided child's news, one year ago. His parents believing as he was suicided due to addicted to video games but after checking the child's Facebook profile his father found that there was a sexual harassment went against to that child. It was only one story but there are lot of cases like this in our country which still not solved fairly. Laws and justice should never be broken because of culture. I really appreciate this program. These things should be discussed openly in our country.

  • @christinefernando4124
    @christinefernando4124 2 года назад +22

    Thank you so much for this video. Honestly I didn't care about those cybercrimes, may be because I'm not that active on social media but now I know how deep, and dangerous they are. Grateful for your story and for your advices.

  • @janithjanith8954
    @janithjanith8954 2 года назад +3

    චේතනා ඔයාට ආව ඒ හැගීම තේරුම් ගන්න පුලුවන් . ඔබ තව ශක්තිමත් වෙන්න. 🙏💖

  • @kumariwijedasa6637
    @kumariwijedasa6637 2 года назад +7

    Great and so inspiring interview Chethana!!!! 💖💖💖💖I am so proud of you. You are my favourite social media influencer 💞💞💞💞. As I feel we must legalise death penalty for people who are harassing women mentally, physically and verbally 💪💪💪. Actually I have seen there are private companies and offices indirectly divert and convert many young women into prostitution. SO DEAR FOLKS BE AWARE THESE THINGS ARE HAPPENING IN THIS SO CALLED DARMADVIPAYA. Please kindly investigate on these matter.

  • @nivedhaabiramy4858
    @nivedhaabiramy4858 2 года назад +7

    You are really a iron woman...most of our girls are facing these same issues by having wrong relationship....but some woman they will supposed to express their problems to society without any fear..but some...they will used to end their life as well...thank you for your valuable message to our girls....mam...love you🌹

  • @Amzlog
    @Amzlog 2 года назад +6

    I have no words to express my feelings after watching this video ! Thank you for sharing this !

  • @janithjanith8954
    @janithjanith8954 2 года назад +6

    ඇත්තටම මේ කාන්තාවන් ට අපහස කරන අයට අනිවාර්යයෙන්ම නඩු දාන්න ඕන . 🙏😪

  • @maleesharajakaruna9740
    @maleesharajakaruna9740 2 года назад +13

    Great ♥️ Proud of you as such a straight forward woman

  • @aruniweddagala4317
    @aruniweddagala4317 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much sharing this program
    I aslo facing such a insident these dsys & im expecting legal assistant against it ......

  • @NetITGeeks
    @NetITGeeks 2 года назад +10

    Agian, thank you Pluse for standing up for what is right and providing a platform for those who like to speak up.

  • @ushaninawanjana3856
    @ushaninawanjana3856 2 года назад +3

    Gothrika manasak tiyana minissu inna ratak ithin kohe diyunu karannada! Really disgusted by our people! Leddu inne me rate!!! Hats off to you Chethana ❤️

  • @preethikahewapathirana1645
    @preethikahewapathirana1645 2 года назад +1

    Great program ...❤️❤️❤️ yes...we deal with fake people ...

  • @dilinirodrigo6085
    @dilinirodrigo6085 2 года назад

    While listening I understand it's not very easy to remind that situation for you but Miss Chethana Kathagoda it's very useful thing which you shared the ideas what should to do if someone face for that such situation one-day. Appreciate your confidence

  • @sonaliindeewari6921
    @sonaliindeewari6921 2 года назад +6

    Wow chethana. U r such an inspiring person. I’ve been going through the same. But I still survive 😍 that’s the best satisfaction I have. I really love how u survived.

  • @warunitennakoon3238
    @warunitennakoon3238 2 года назад +11

    Such a strong & amazing girl ❤...Great talk Chethana! I can't even imagine the courage it requires to talk about such a matter in a show like this..

    • @Johngunasekera
      @Johngunasekera 2 года назад

      Rubbish. What a joke . The reason for crime and prevention needs different professionals like Psychologists, Spiritual leaders, community services and Buddhist temple and other religions as culture needs uplifting. This kind of legal BITCHES need to be stopped

  • @NadeeshaniMulleriyawa
    @NadeeshaniMulleriyawa 2 года назад

    Great discussion. Thank you for sharing this.

  • @sunildissanayake
    @sunildissanayake 2 года назад +1

    Thanks you very much
    That’s the true one you are deeply truly loving and trusting situation.
    As a result of that your community has been strong enough to defeat this circumstances overall diversity.
    But it’s as our local community what she can do and she wants to support from you to hear.
    Community service support and keep our women safe flat form lived in secure life.
    Good to hear from you all the way best regards.

  • @rsmfernando
    @rsmfernando 2 года назад

    Chethana...hats off to ur courage for standing up to such bullying and talking about it on this platform, so that so many Individuals who are the victims of such harassment and are suffering in silence as a result of such cowardly acts can draw from ur experience.

  • @justforfunr
    @justforfunr 2 года назад +1

    I didn’t like her as a social media person until now this is very brave ❤️

  • @kavindyasandeepani7557
    @kavindyasandeepani7557 2 года назад +2

    Thank u so much sharing this expirence akka ❤️ really appreciate ur confidence

  • @tharindunanayakkara6665
    @tharindunanayakkara6665 2 года назад +9

    Such a wonderful conversation ❤

  • @ravindradesilva811
    @ravindradesilva811 2 года назад +1

    Well said Chathana.
    Please educate society by doing this type of programs.

  • @snlsnl2897
    @snlsnl2897 2 года назад +5

    Great discussion. We need better police training in this issue. Cyber crime unit need to recognise this is problem and do more.Pulse you need to put subtitles in singhala +tamil when they speak in English pls so everyone can understand

  • @lakshipiyu2734
    @lakshipiyu2734 2 года назад +1

    It's a pleasure to be a batch mate of her..and so proud of you chethana..❤️❤️❤️

  • @poornimaedirithilake5799
    @poornimaedirithilake5799 2 года назад +21

    A queen indeed ❤️

  • @ExplorePhysics
    @ExplorePhysics 2 года назад

    I didn't know about you and I wasn't interested on you before. But now I know that you've got a really amazing personality and I love it ❤🔥

  • @sayurishashikala9470
    @sayurishashikala9470 2 года назад +1

    Hats off Chethi for your courage and really appreciate that gut. ❤

  • @yashodawijekoon
    @yashodawijekoon 2 года назад +2

    I love her confidence. Every single person of sri lanka should watch this

  • @evan_theunstoppable
    @evan_theunstoppable 2 года назад +8

    Love her personality ❤️

  • @ktlawanya1203
    @ktlawanya1203 2 года назад

    This is amazing 🔥 nice to see these types informative facts…

  • @kingsexploits
    @kingsexploits 2 года назад +8

    Yes, it is your right and your body but you should have been careful. Why අහක යන නයි රෙද්ද අස්සේ දාගන්නේ?

    • @MalJay-qf9mb
      @MalJay-qf9mb 2 дня назад

      Absolutely - I just can't understand why some women are foolish enough to send out these kind of photos or videos to someone whom they think they can trust! We all know what happens next when the affair is over and they broke up!

  • @ishitharu206
    @ishitharu206 2 года назад +18

    Love her confidence ♥️

    • @gimhanrandika4460
      @gimhanrandika4460 2 года назад

      Yeee she is over confident that’s why she ended up in that shot hole

  • @anyak233
    @anyak233 2 года назад +4

    Yaaas queen! and thank you both of you ❤️

  • @rudyrude1883
    @rudyrude1883 2 года назад +5

    Brave women...... Your body your wish. Love your ur self.

  • @amandabandara8048
    @amandabandara8048 2 года назад +5

    Akki i know u are bravee🥺❤️✨️
    Lottt tooo learn from uuu akki🥺❤️✨️
    Lv u always

  • @P0WERS7
    @P0WERS7 2 года назад +8

    Time to grow up people. We should not be sending things like this. People are not what they seem until you go trough the worse together. There’s a video on RUclips (Era of Vijay) where a guy makes a fake profile on Facebook. Should see the messages he receives from these random people.

  • @olive1355
    @olive1355 2 года назад +4

    If anyone who's going through the comments section has done any mistake and at heart ache now because of fear and guilt, don't be ashamed of yourself. It's human nature to make mistakes. After all we are not angels. But you can always correct yourself, repent and not do that mistake again. The moment you correct yourself you'll be innocent as a newborn baby. You're precious and your life and emotions matter. You are not you your mistake. You're more than that and your happiness is more important. Don't go for suicide or anything. Seek help. 😘😘🧡🧡

  • @cruiseai
    @cruiseai 2 года назад +1

    This🥺 I found this video from my girl friend 😌 Anyway this is a best video ♥ chethana akki wooh♥

  • @sashsan7027
    @sashsan7027 2 года назад +4

    I had the same problem, but I went Cyber Crime Unit and tried to fill a complaint. It is true, that there's no right law for these kinds of causes. But one lady officer helped me to handle that person without filing a complaint.

    • @niroshabandara4541
      @niroshabandara4541 2 года назад

      Hi can you give the that lady officees number please

  • @ChathumDulara
    @ChathumDulara 2 года назад +4

    Great content!

  • @pushpakumarajayawardane5463
    @pushpakumarajayawardane5463 2 года назад

    That personality shows how strong women should be.

  • @rushikanadeeshani1086
    @rushikanadeeshani1086 Год назад

    New laws should be implemented through the parliament. But these ministers and so-called ministries are not implementing any laws or endorsing the current ones that need amendment. We have to go through hell because the law enforcement has no laws to enforce.

  • @maleeshapanangala4361
    @maleeshapanangala4361 2 года назад +3

    A beautiful episode 👌🔥

  • @sssssssssuv
    @sssssssssuv 2 года назад +4

    She thinks having a loud mouth is empowering.

  • @gamithawanasinghe4096
    @gamithawanasinghe4096 2 года назад +2

    Hodai,Sinhalenma karanam godak hodai,Bage bage nathuwa...

  • @MilindaWickramasingheMustang
    @MilindaWickramasingheMustang 2 года назад +1

    As a former member who used to handle cyber-bullying and cybercrime cases in the Sri Lankan context, I 100% agree that, it is next to impossible to crack down on perpetrators with the existing laws. However, the lack of much-needed legal reforms and the lack of know-how among law enforcement officers on social media related technicalities is something even the UK is struggling with.. not sure? here's a similar case ruclips.net/video/3MgCUdAUhc8/видео.html ..
    Anyhow, appreciate for sharing this unpleasant story and hope you'd get justice served..
    on a side note, what happened to prevention is better than cure? as cybersecurity specialists we always advise not to share or post or capture something that could cause embarrassment, cuz it is always a swim upstream when it comes to battling cybercrime/cyberbullying

  • @chathukasanu2375
    @chathukasanu2375 2 года назад +8

    Strong hearted gurl ❤️

  • @mausikahaleeb151
    @mausikahaleeb151 2 года назад

    My fav TikTok star
    With lochi
    Fav mother in law
    Video 🙇🏿🙇🏿🙇🏿🙇🏿

  • @jaydewage793
    @jaydewage793 2 года назад

    Same as my story
    Still not yet completely sorted

  • @diayanathresha361
    @diayanathresha361 2 года назад

    Love to woman for her guts ♥️

  • @saumyageeganage7470
    @saumyageeganage7470 2 года назад +1

    Love the confidence

  • @eelonalose8051
    @eelonalose8051 2 года назад

    Great conversation!

  • @mayomiwijesinghe2717
    @mayomiwijesinghe2717 2 года назад +1

    Valuable speech

  • @hirushiabeysekara4875
    @hirushiabeysekara4875 2 года назад +2

    Such a strong girl 🔥

  • @NikluvLei6111
    @NikluvLei6111 2 года назад +1

    What is a traditional quincinera?

    • @acommonman7950
      @acommonman7950 2 года назад

      A what?

    • @nivimanchanayaka5552
      @nivimanchanayaka5552 2 года назад +1

      its like a celebration mexican ppl do for like a girl's 15th birthday basically to celebrate her becoming a young adult

    • @acommonman7950
      @acommonman7950 2 года назад

      @@nivimanchanayaka5552 Huh?

  • @nuwanbandara5008
    @nuwanbandara5008 2 года назад +1

    This story isn't balanced until we hear the side of the husband.

  • @asankaudayakumara3680
    @asankaudayakumara3680 2 года назад +2

    When the people are not following the religious practices stated in respective religions, anyone has to face these type of issues. The solution is developing your own spirituality.

  • @poornimadunusingha975
    @poornimadunusingha975 2 года назад +2

    Woow great words

  • @TheMrgoodboy2
    @TheMrgoodboy2 2 года назад +3

    Being responsible is the best thing. Sending nude pics of your self could be your RIGHT but facing consequences is also your responsibility then. It is like having unprotected sex with a HIV positive person willingly could be your right, but if you contract HIV from that person, you cannot say it is that persons fault. You have to face the consequences of your irresponsible acts, even engaging in those irresponsible act is your RIGHT !!!!

  • @poornimafernando8517
    @poornimafernando8517 2 года назад

    This kind of personality ! 💕🫂

  • @taniacumine3545
    @taniacumine3545 2 года назад +1

    I had the similar situation...it was bad...

  • @dil7667
    @dil7667 2 года назад +1

    Great ♥

  • @janithaperera8393
    @janithaperera8393 2 года назад

    Great 👌

  • @RoshWeerasinghe
    @RoshWeerasinghe 2 года назад +1

    First is your fault ... To trust others !!! Never blame others... 😁🤘

  • @savindamdhushan7364
    @savindamdhushan7364 2 года назад

    what a strong woman !!

  • @wasanamihirangani8468
    @wasanamihirangani8468 2 года назад

    Confident ❤️

  • @cheatmeal2393
    @cheatmeal2393 2 года назад +1

    You go girl 💖

  • @user-by6ox3ny2c
    @user-by6ox3ny2c 2 года назад +1

    There are laws protecting children , youth, women and men from online , phone and other forms of exploitation including sexual abuse in developed world. I hope SL create laws and implement these laws in the country.

  • @dancelankadiliranga1755
    @dancelankadiliranga1755 2 года назад

    Love you chethi ❤

  • @sayuri5222
    @sayuri5222 2 года назад

    💯

  • @chulakapitigala5147
    @chulakapitigala5147 2 года назад +2

    I think as a host, before invite a guest should know him or her name properly and their professional background.. it's very rude to misspell same thing twice..

  • @toroapps1897
    @toroapps1897 2 года назад +1

    👑

  • @shabeerlafir8043
    @shabeerlafir8043 2 года назад

    ❤️‍🔥

  • @bhagyapremarathna92
    @bhagyapremarathna92 2 года назад

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @purnimamanohary1828
    @purnimamanohary1828 2 года назад

    Mokakda ban me wela තියෙන්නේ නොදන්නා අහිංසක man..🤔🤔🙄..danna kenk kiwa nam mata.plz...boyfriend mokakda karala තියෙන්නේ ..ai ban සිංහල video karanna bari ....

  • @hiranyamunasinghe4885
    @hiranyamunasinghe4885 2 года назад

    i really like brо, thank you

  • @wasanafonseka1161
    @wasanafonseka1161 2 года назад +1

    Women☕😌♥️💐

  • @shaheliwaduge3109
    @shaheliwaduge3109 2 года назад +3

    Love your personality akki...im also got/getting those kind of harressment (sending d** pics )from even very known persons.they thought that wearing some kind of swim wear , bikini etc means that ,we want to do sex,or we are in a horny mood.🤣 totally its not boys!its your mentality not ours !

    • @harinjayalath
      @harinjayalath 2 года назад

      I read the story of a girl who turned an unsolicited di*k pic into an NFT, some others said they send it to that guy's mother, another one said they send another one in return eventually starting a d*ck pic contest 🤣

  • @dinushidayananda7607
    @dinushidayananda7607 2 года назад

    හරිත මහත්තයා මටත් ලොකු කරදරයක් වෙලා තියෙනවා දැනටමත් මං ඒ අය නිසා ප්‍රශ්ණේට මුණ දෙනවා මටත් අදහස් සහ උදව්වක් ගන්න පුළුවන්ද...

    • @harinjayalath
      @harinjayalath 2 года назад

      www.cert.gov.lk/
      naththam wishwasai kiyala hithena female police inspector kenekta kiyanna. Goodluck!

    • @dinushidayananda7607
      @dinushidayananda7607 2 года назад

      @@harinjayalath මට ලොයර් කෙනෙක්ගෙන් උපදෙස් ගන්න ඔනේ ප්‍රශ්නේ සම්බන්ධයෙන් සර්ට පුළුවන්ද.

    • @harinjayalath
      @harinjayalath 2 года назад

      @@dinushidayananda7607 Sorry for the late reply. Sure. Instagram innawada? Mata message ekak danna :) Mama promise karanna ba eth puluwan widiyata help ekak karanna balannam

  • @sandunifernando2419
    @sandunifernando2419 2 года назад

    dn kale gani tamai ganunwama amaruwe wattanne

  • @yashodhawanniarachchi7387
    @yashodhawanniarachchi7387 2 года назад

    ❤️

  • @indrajitghosh4415
    @indrajitghosh4415 2 года назад

    why the hell you change languages???

  • @lakshithafernando8658
    @lakshithafernando8658 2 года назад +1

    Yes cyber bullying is wrong but th contents ppl publish is horrible too. Now every individual is becoming social media hero by showing some crap video.

  • @m4singhe221
    @m4singhe221 2 года назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @කදුල
    @කදුල 2 года назад

    තේරෙන්නේ..

  • @clementshockman7413
    @clementshockman7413 2 года назад +1

    Chetana min passewath padamak igena ganna kohomada minissu visvasa karala ohoma photos denne loyer kenek unata hariyata buddiya pavichchi karanna nathan vadak na

  • @JeramineAlexander
    @JeramineAlexander 2 года назад

    As a tiktoker, I get all those words,, like for no reason. Scolds me, my parents and my friends 😂 but I KNOW IM STRONG TO DEFEND AND BLOCK THEM 😝
    GO GET A LIFE HATERS

  • @mydrg3921
    @mydrg3921 2 года назад

    mekige heluwa dakapu gaman aruge paka bahin nathi 🐶🐈🦊🐈🐽🐽🐽🐗🐗🐗

  • @samansuranga8677
    @samansuranga8677 2 года назад

    නිවේදකයා ලොල්ලෙක්ද?🧐

  • @randikanadishan5909
    @randikanadishan5909 2 года назад

    Your looks like a mia kalifa

  • @batman_1111-FACK
    @batman_1111-FACK 2 года назад

    Mewa gonn kali bn, end of the day they just need the publicity.

  • @annephilipiah1455
    @annephilipiah1455 2 года назад +5

    Aritha if you are girl why aren't you wearing dress

    • @snlsnl2897
      @snlsnl2897 2 года назад +28

      Aritha is not a girl , he is gay. Besides women wear trousers , so why should clothes have a gender. Pls educate yourself on this topic

    • @annephilipiah1455
      @annephilipiah1455 2 года назад

      @@snlsnl2897 Very confusing

    • @snlsnl2897
      @snlsnl2897 2 года назад +20

      @@annephilipiah1455 it's not confusing. People should wear what they want and what they feel comfortable in. Our society tries to stereotype people which is wrong

    • @annephilipiah1455
      @annephilipiah1455 2 года назад +1

      @@snlsnl2897 Don't spoil people

    • @Yash-lm7bq
      @Yash-lm7bq 2 года назад +20

      If you have homophobia keep it yourself. Don’t show off in this platforms this is 2022,not 1922. Grow up.

  • @sulonilhan4558
    @sulonilhan4558 2 года назад

    Good program.Strong lady ..❤️‍🩹

  • @Chanu75
    @Chanu75 3 дня назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @hashinikaushalya269
    @hashinikaushalya269 2 года назад

    💯