It's better to stay single than to marry under society's pressure. APJ Abdul Kalam was single, so is our prime minister. If you find love then marry by all means, but if you don't then it's okay to be single
So Single women who are finding it difficult to find a house can say that their mother or sister will be living along with them. After 1 or 2 weeks of stay, the mother or sister can go back.. I tried this and it worked for me..
@@vinnyvinny2654 Do you understand the struggles women have that are rejected in house? So why do you blame women who want to get a house? Just because she is sihngle, she does not have a right for house according to youh
@@bogdananedavnya2528 Yes, most(or all) single mothers come with a baggage of bitchy attitude, arrogance and many negative implications on people around them, even if the woman is widowed. I'm writing here with regard to my personal experience. I don't rent my house out for single mothers or even single women for that matter
@@vinnyvinny2654 your experience does not define everything. You do not know every single women and her situation. What about plenty of them Who really went through mental cruelty?
@@bogdananedavnya2528 It's none of my business to be sympathetic towards somebody who may turn up to be toxic later on. Like how the original commenter of this thread clearly has no motive to be honest and instead deluding others to believe she is 'fine'. The most safe and peace loving customer gets the house
Then they should not take help from men in regards to anything else. they should not collect alimony and should take help from male police /military and not demand reservations
@@MegaBaddog did you males understand that govt is the one who have to takecare of everyone? Did you understand that there is prenup for alimony? Police whole station is build to protect its citizen. Did you know that?
According to statistics women marry men who are up in the hierarchy (high salary). Even in male dominated society you can't find one man then the problem is with you.
According to the statistics, single women above 35 are most unhappy and are using antidepressant drugs.While single men above 35 are more happy than married men
@Capt Ranvijay Rana yeah 371000 kids born on new year's day. World fertility rate is 2.5. population is increasing. Will reach 10 billion by 2050. Yeah I see mgtow.
Marriage and motherhood have their trials and tribulations, but what lifestyle doesn't? If you look upon your home as a cage, you will find yourself just as imprisoned in an office or a factory. The flight from the home is a flight from self, from responsibility, from the nature of woman, in pursuit of false hopes and fading fantasies. If you complain about servitude to a husband, servitude to a boss will be more intolerable. Everyone in the world has a boss of some kind. It is easier for most women to achieve a harmonious working relationship with a husband than with a foreman, supervisor or office manager
bharat ke logoko bharat ki garibi, bhrashtachar, anpadh, gawar, juthe, gunde logose itni nafrat nhi hoti he, ki jitni nafrat ek akeli ladki ke paise, khushi & azadi se hoti he !!
a loving man/woman you will never bump into in life. Whether you remain single or married , it hardly matters . Married or unmarried , be Alone . Not loneliness . Be loving . Be courageous . Always remember , we are all Alone in this world . That is all.
life is not mathematics, life is itself,every single person have different vision of life,then how marriage is perfect solution of better society,you must know poverty and population explosion is the result of strong marriage institution.All problems of india are superficialy different but they come out from one origin that is strong marriage institution.
sexual liberty is the answer to all questions and problems.not only sexual liberty but beyond this i mean porn industry,the daughter or son of a rickshaw puller or country side girl or boy can become a celebrity no unemployment no poverty.same health is wealth consider my sexuality is my wealth.this is enough to wipe out poverty.accept the mother nature,make whole country as one family.
Our society has become so more accepting in the recent past.. just be thick skinned and remarks won't matter so much as for most of these women it's the regressive mindset that is the bigger issue. It's a progressive society, not progressed. Let's not keep calling ourselves regressive in all media channels.
@Cosmic Goat So avoid them further. Good decision, you do not spoil nervous system of women who mayby underwent lots of abuse. But please stop blaming women, because India are full of females who really went through much cruelty and suffering.u
@@bogdananedavnya2528 Bruh, women aren't the only ones suffering from abuse. Even men suffer abuse from their wives. But the law does not recognise it as a crime.
Dying alone for both sexes is the truth now, best is to accept the acerbic enmity between the two, since everything in the world is transactional, heck our arranged marriage spouse hunt regime made material and emotional transaction legal. The Muslims were right about female pair bonding problem in her 30's. Let's not play the game anymore, that's one transaction we can relieve our stress and life away from.
i m single male every sunday i married new one why women can not i support single life more adventure free of burden and more holding money and better life style,i m very happy.
Actually we need to empower the society and the men. They are so much dependent on women that if she wants to get her own life and tell the man to be self-sufficient, he just howls, fights, threatens, harasses woman. We all experience it in our life.
Ha no men will always be men- i am from the US- its worse here, they expect women to earn, work full time, pay half the bills, give birth, do chores and childcare without much rest or holidays and get back to work immediately,. Women are stuck initially thinking they got equality but men still want the submissive beautiful young earning women that doesnt argue.
Self-sufficient..? Words coming from the mouth of those who registers falls rape cases to live on alimony, Those who shortlist their partner on salary. Those who want reserve seats, jobs to get by, Those who want no consequences for their actions, The world and everything you see around you is created by men. Live with it.
🤔🤔🤔 IF THERE IS INEQUALITY IN THE ROOT OF SOCIETY (IN OUR RITUALS/BY OWN PARENTS/FATER) SO HOW CAN U FIGHT /DISCUSS FOR THE EQUALITY AT THE TOP /LEVELS OF ITS BRANCHES????? ...we have families where the mom is the one who had to leave their own basic parental house +family & the wife /son's wife is the householder, not the daughter, Always the daughter has to leave their parents for roof on her head (for a son this reason is not in his list to leave to the house )...SO WHY to BLAME SOCIETY ???? 1st we should blame to the PARENTS because they can give the world's best facilities to their daughter but she will be always a guest for them, a visitor who has to go one day, to somebody/somewhere else for a permanent roof over their head. IF A FATHER CAN'T FAVOUR HIS OWN DAUGHTER OVER HIS TRADITIONS, SO HOW CAN A SOCIETY ?????
Let's hope we get better results, I am a woman using this account, and our parents have stated a true fact that women aren't geared for single life, let's prove it wrong ...many beautiful things to do in life, wanting companionship although wired since the dawn of our species can be tested out now
In fact nowadays male or female both fight to chase their dreams... Around the clock they work... Once they enter in professional life.its hard to fell in love... And they are surrounded with information mostly negative so they prefer to stay single rather then looking for problems... Everything about the time...
If somebody is strong-minded, then they might have a hard time working with a spouse. Marriage is working together in good and bad times, so you have to give and take. If you don't have time for family, then don't get married.
Getting a degree from Harvard is brave not living single and according to jorden Peterson these women are going to understand the cost of family in later life
One cause of singlehood is that Indian parents don't allow girls and boys to date or get to know each other better in early age. At an early age they learn to communicate with the opposite gender. It's just considered awkward and unacceptable.
@@PriyaCreationsFun These girls ask for too much in their 20s and then since they cannot their prince charming that does not exist and when they reach 30+ and are not as desirable and their biological clock is ticking then they start to realize they are screwed. Many have very unrealistic expectations and wonder why they are still single. No one cares about your high power career, no one cares about your phd, intellect, or success. She looks like the hunchback of notre dame's sister. We go by looks first, if you are smart, funny,etc that helps a lot. And most 30 something women want a guy in his 30s as well , sometimes 40s but guess what? These dudes are going for the 20 somethings because they can, they have decent education, success, etc to attract those girls. It does not work both ways girlfriend no matter how much your feminist friends say you are fabulous. Education, high powered job and cash attract women, you could be a very average dude and it still applies. But if you are an average or ugly girl there is no amount of wealth, education or success that will make you sexy. I am sorry but those are the facts.?
Now question is was it wrong for 90 s parents to have liberally educated their daughters who grew up to be career oriented and now they can't find suitable matches for them... women earning more and unable to find suitable husband
Overall a thought provoking discussion. However, I strongly disagree with the undertones that people in "abroad" (I am assuming Western countries) have more liberal mindset and Indian society is backward. In USA still equal pay to men and women is not the norm. Women are often projected as object of desire and someone whose main responsibility is becoming mother and raising family (You can refer to tones of literature available in the form of books and films). Very poor percentage of women in workforce and that too in science and technology. Also, in USA women were granted right to vote in 1920 and USA got independence in 1775. So, while projecting that Indian society has problem we do not need to say that everything is rosy in "abroad".
We are not saying that marriage is bad for society. Whoever chooses to marry is good. Better actually. But why force or discriminate people who are single. They are also human. Treat them as part of society unless they create any mishaps.
@@aashayj - WHEN Did An Educated, Professionally Successful, Career Oriented, Feminist Woman MARRIED A Man who is EARNING LESS Than Her , who is Poor , Jobless , NonAmbitious , Less Qualified Than Her Or Less Resourceful Than Her Socio-Economic Status ?? 😄😄😁😁😆😆 Well if U Reverse The Gender ..... Men Does Happily Embrace, Love, Care & Marry - Poor, Unemployed, Vulnerable, Broken, Uneducated, None Ambitious Women ..... and We Men Will Proudly Continue To Do So Till The End of Humanity . 😎😎✊🏻✊🏻💪🏻💪🏻 Even The Highly Qualified, Highly Educated, Professionally Successful & Financially Established Women Seeks Men who r MORE Than Her Socio-Financial Status, Earning MORE Than Her Or Enjoying A Higher Standard of Living . Being Always into Materialistic Persuits, Subtle GoldDigging, Being Hypergamous Or Marrying High is Female Subconscious Programming . The Fact Also is U Women CAN'T Help Or Comeout of it Nomatter How Extreme U Try - To CHANGE That Psyche ..... As it is Naturally & Programmed Within U Being The Weaker, Softer, Motherly, Feminine & Emotional Gender . That's So Coz - Only Resourceful, Secured, Successful, High Value Men Can Lay His Intellectually Advanced & Physically Strong Seeds ..... and Pass On His Better Gene's To Your Womb & Fertilise Your Eggs To Give BIRTH To New Life of Future ..... and Yeah - Also TakeCare of The Child & Mother and Provide The BEST Resources He is Earning Or Had Earned . That's Evolutionary Biology SweetHeart !!
I too face the issue for people thinking tht just bec i m single i m available. But i m like just go to hell . At the same time I m so grateful to people who supports me .
71 million single women in india! May be there are 95 million single recluse(Sadhu,sanyasi)men, who abandoned their natural life in order to achieve enlightenment. Because they don't bother about marriage rather focus they ultimate target of life
The very fact that marriage and reproduction is morally wrong in Jainism, Hinduism, and Buddhism. When the ultimate goal is Moksh or liberation, why get into the bondage of marriage? Giving birth to children is also morally wrong because you enslaving the Soul [divine element] into matter [body]. The ancient religions of India taught on attaining liberation and giving up all these horrible wordly bondage.
@@snehavora3507 those great saintly persons never stepped into that so called marriage bondage. Because they knew that marriage is a 'lifetime imprisonment'. It does not provide the eternal peace. So they went out in search of peace and took a life of recluse which is the most hard task in the world. If you want to become a Doctor or Scientist or Engineer you can definitely achieve that feat because it needs a certain time to achieve it but for a recluse it may take almost the entire life to become enlightenment. Even many great personalities had embraced those holy religious teachings at end of their life, like B.R Ambedkar Who embraced Buddhism. Because they realised the ultimate goal in their life. In Vedic period polygamy was present because most saintly persons left their house so most women became unmarried. So according to Vedic rule, a man may be unmarried but a woman must be married. So at that time, one man got married with multiple women and used to live their life smoothly.
@@abhisekdas1580: I do not believe in Vedic rules. Vedic religion is very cruel that destroyed India and promoted Caste System. Look at Manusmriti, which is very bad. Vedic religion is just bad. Jainism is even older than Vedic religion. I believe in Freedom. Men and women can divorce and marry how are many times they want. Men and Women can also remain unmarried if they want to.
@@snehavora3507The Manusmriti was changed by the British govt to "Hindu code of Law" to exploit Indians in the name of religious based casteism. The real Manusmriti was not a book of law rather a book of human life of Vedic age. It described how the people of that time used to live & they traded with different people like Meluha, Mesopotamia, Sumerian, Egyptian and the South eastern countries like Combodia, Indonesia etc. Even it contains the ancient "Gandhrva Vivah". And this different types of people have been changed to different Castes by the British in 1776 when this book was translated from Sanskrit to English by Sir W. Jones. Dr Romila Thapar, Dayanand Saraswati and even Annie Besant complained against this new and modified Manusmriti which Was intentionally distorted by the British government to exploit & gain superiority over Indians. The real book of Manusmriti does not contain any of the cast system. This came to light when B.R Ambedkar burnt the modified Manusmriti against Untouchability. If you had read details about this holy book then you would not have complained about it. Read more.
@@abhisekdas1580: This is typical for India to always blame British. Any religion that has laws on marriage is a false and bad religion. You said that women had to marry and men did not have to marry. This is a bad religion. A true religion has no Marriage Laws. Jainism and the Buddhism, but first Jainism, are the only true religions. Vedic religion is false.
Young people in 20 to 30s don't come under influence of these biased discussions. They already saw enough world and enjoyed. You will repent when it reaches boiling point and surroundings become out of your control.
U wanted to be empowered, u wanted to be financially stable and u choosed to be single.. then whats u r problem?? Everything is happening according ur wish.. then what the hell do u want?? 🥴
Kanika is saying Bhopal a small town, she is definetly unaware of Bhopal..It is capital of Madhya Pradesh and considered a metro city.. She should have some awareness about her city..
not only a big city one of the most beautifull city i have seen and clean also i dont know how they have such mindset i live in lucknow and kanpur both are my home town and they are also big citites but all this people have this mindset that mumbai and delhi and will rant on it.
Oh god the biological clock isn't twenty five. But depends on who you are. It's usually between forty to fifty. Genetics play a role. But there are good herbs to keep women's hormones more balanced. But ya I hope one day there is research that can have us have children even naturally lol like Sara in the bible to eighty.
It doesn't help the society..it just puts a toll on the society by them having kids and consuming more resources.. being single is a boon to the society and the planet as a whole
Unmarried Socially not accepted . How richand successful u become, a avg earning and having 2 kids isore respectful ... u r single bcoz they dd not got any one. 😅
dear single women of edcation power and position, request u to open ur heart how and what u expect from man in ur life-me canot live without u and some cannot live with u-we have now to think about next generation to be happy-plz open ur heart how to bring fulcrum in social life -i wish all next generation should be happy
Single mother hood and single fatherhood is an option. There are many men who should be single sas well, cause not men are able to understand and care for their wives. Harmonious marriage requires everyday willpower and stress resistance which many people lack.
How good Sara.... You take a dig on this Takla.... So you think premarital counseling is the solution to everything. Yes , it's time to stop...this thoda aur sehlo..thoda aur adjust kr lo
Potato narrating story.😂😂..she is 38 I think..so.. 32-33 is deadline age for getting married for both male and female.she entered 34 nd started facing all devil's hinding in our society..I mean..it's not possible to guess a girl is married or unmarried these days..but when she takes her step out of her room random people arround strt asking her why she is not married..😂😂 kaun hai ye log..kaha se aate hai ye log..my supervisor is 48 nd single..nd I showed her this video..I asked her if she can relate any single piece of sht from her story..her reply - I hv to go to foreign countries to meet project clients but I never faced suck kind of problems..only my parents and some of relatives used to pressurized me to gt married..I crossed 36 nd now no one even care abt me either I am married or single..they are happy to see me happy..
Just note that a woman can be happy as a homely wife with her in laws and children and husband, a house wife role is as nice as being a career woman handling all the responsibilities and deadlines and the task of being inspired for the next salary upgrade. I have met many women who regret staying home their whole lives with family as well as women who found it hard in the office work place to even continue along, staying single makes it even more lonely, but many such women like the video promotes are happy staying single as well. It's all your mannerisms of how you dictate you live your life, everything isn't wrong neither is everything right. Choose your life wisely.
Excuse me, you are indirectly insulting against about the single women.. Its her choice.. The reality is.. You Don't want to see the success of women.. Women are not puppet...
@@juhigautam9874 I read your comment thrice I suggest you read mine atleast four times to understand you and me mean the same thing, the lash out that I am insulting is also unfair, online arguments shouldn't be so negative,let's make it a great platform for healthy debate.
Dude, do you make meals for 3 times a day? Do you clean up after the meals? Do you do laundry? Do you sweep and mop all the rooms of your house? Do you dust the window panes? Do you clean the refrigerator? Do you clean the toilet? Do you clean the ceiling fans and fancy lights ? Do you water the plants? Do you arrange the utensils in the kitchen? Do you clean the gas stove? Do you scrub the kitchen walls to keep them from smelling? Dude if you haven't answered yes to some of these questions you are not a servant but a privileged Male.
most married men in my acquaintance do half of the chores in my work, my father helped out my mother and I have no issues helping out my wife either sometimes.@@elva136
@@elva136 do you till the soil for crops, fight in wars, build roads , bridges and canals. men even constitute 99% of all inventions in the west after 3 generations of affirmative actions
Ofcourse it is, if a single women's society life is compared with a man's society life. But if compare what could have been her life if she were in a toxic relationship, she is much better off.
That why single women called warrior than single men. She has guts to fight.. If we change our view nothing will happen. Its time to change the view society.
Something everyone surprisingly missed out is the norm or order of the society is marriage, which is an institution in itself serving functions, because it regulates sexual relationship while fulfilling the basic task of procreation. While personal rights and liberties to not get married have to be respected , while at this point, if all the people say that they no more will procreate or even if they do, it will be outside familial ties/marriages, civilization will drop back to the times of apes. Hence the creation of the norm. But does it justify or legitimize gender stereotyping or terming being single as 'deviant' ? NO!
U can’t changed this world rule who create god. Wife is incomplete without men and men is incomplete without women . Kash in sab Ke ma baap ne Single ka socha Hota to ye sab bewkoof aaj is duniya m na hote. We are overthinking that’s why we are changed. Don’t be so modern otherwise u go to in depression and lost of ur life. End of ur life is death if u enjoy ur life then complete everything otherwise u think beyond of this creation by god.
@@ChiragNagpal-co9vp ek baat hai jis shaadi me god ka naam nahi wo teek nahi sakti hai. Naa jyada darao. Na jyada samjhao. Chhode to jane do rahe to aane do. Samjhana chahe to samjh lo. Par usko seh lo. Bas ek cheez mat saho - insab me aadhe se zyada tinder par hai, pregnant honahi paati, aur baad me aadmi ko gaali deti hai.
@somali Chakraborty no one is judgemental. Every one is fundamental. But we are not listening to people with open views. Our views are closed. You must say everything to the man who want to live with you as trust.
Its a creeping trend copied from west, A Western style feminism is shattering indian Dream.....Men r changing , y cant women help men change instead of Women women and Women only..........
Nobody is responsible for changing anybody else.. We are talking about fully grown adults here, it's their responsibility to change for the better.. And what exactly is this 'Indian dream' you're talking about? A population of 40 billion?
I'll tell you what's wrong. After glancing at the group on the show, all were not attractive so that's why they're single. Get a cat ladies, thank me later...
You blame feminists, what about misogynist& What about women in India who are really forced to marry, faced cruelty, especially in rural areas? Why are you persuaded that women should sacrifice themselves and marry if they do not want to marry?.
@@bogdananedavnya2528 then don't Marry simple. Men are also forces to marry and have to deal with bigger responsibility financial and also handel and have to take care that his women is happy cause if something happens men will lose everything. Money ,child and everything he earned so marriage is far greater risk for men. And people will force you if you let them force Try to say no and live on your own thats all. The problem is that most of the women who get forced dont have the strength and courage to respond and they live life depending on husband or parents if they choose to stay independent like many women are there so no way she can get forced.
@@mypackmypower1996 some families beat, starve daughter, lick them in rooms so they even can it leave, can not call the Police. And single other are blamed and shamed as sluts. What about it?
@@juhigautam9874 ask them how they live. they are most frustrated lady, their only work is bashing men for everything in their life. ladies shouldn't marry to men, there are many species on the earth
It's better to stay single than to marry under society's pressure. APJ Abdul Kalam was single, so is our prime minister. If you find love then marry by all means, but if you don't then it's okay to be single
Even love also comes to an end. All relationships end in tragedy, either through death or through break up.
Rightly said..
@@snehavora3507 hurt but true.
What are talking about fair skinned or dark skinned man(love)
Your ans will show your true colors 🤣
Those two guys are dead ugly for women to marry them
if u have money then u r happy, even u r single or married
Better to be single than to be with wrong person
Please come back when you turn 35.
@@rajeshmishra6852 shut up
@@rajeshmishra6852 😂😂
But how would you know, that you are with the wrong person if you are single...
Indian Halle Barry is looking fine as expected.
Hahaha... dudeeeeee .....
Andarovin hahaha what a comment boy.
Relax Mr.Handsome😒
More power to single ladies. I can totally relate to these wonderful women.
JUST SAID IT RIGHT!!!
So Single women who are finding it difficult to find a house can say that their mother or sister will be living along with them. After 1 or 2 weeks of stay, the mother or sister can go back.. I tried this and it worked for me..
Typical female manipulation
@@vinnyvinny2654 Do you understand the struggles women have that are rejected in house? So why do you blame women who want to get a house? Just because she is sihngle, she does not have a right for house according to youh
@@bogdananedavnya2528 Yes, most(or all) single mothers come with a baggage of bitchy attitude, arrogance and many negative implications on people around them, even if the woman is widowed. I'm writing here with regard to my personal experience. I don't rent my house out for single mothers or even single women for that matter
@@vinnyvinny2654 your experience does not define everything. You do not know every single women and her situation. What about plenty of them Who really went through mental cruelty?
@@bogdananedavnya2528 It's none of my business to be sympathetic towards somebody who may turn up to be toxic later on. Like how the original commenter of this thread clearly has no motive to be honest and instead deluding others to believe she is 'fine'. The most safe and peace loving customer gets the house
Women for women! Women should do whatever dey want!
Then they should not take help from men in regards to anything else. they should not collect alimony and should take help from male police /military and not demand reservations
@somali Chakraborty why are you arsepicking me? what's your boggle?
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@@MegaBaddog did you males understand that govt is the one who have to takecare of everyone? Did you understand that there is prenup for alimony? Police whole station is build to protect its citizen. Did you know that?
Good discussion .... People need to change their behaviour ....
According to statistics single woman is more happy than married woman.
From where do you bring these statics do some more research in finding such research don't go by word of mouth promotions.
According to statistics women marry men who are up in the hierarchy (high salary). Even in male dominated society you can't find one man then the problem is with you.
An unmarried woman means that there is a single happy dude somewhere with his wallet intact 😁😁😁
According to the statistics, single women above 35 are most unhappy and are using antidepressant drugs.While single men above 35 are more happy than married men
@@Zim-B00B-Cacording to men right
sarah jacob is a good host, had there been barkha instead,she would have interrupted the guests 1000 times.
bebo _0121 is she married
Where can I find a man like Sanjay who doesn't want to get married and doesn't want kids?
well.. i kinda agree with sanjay
@@vaibhavraj5560 lol :D
you would have gotten , had you been good looking. but you have hit the wall and very few men want you
@@MegaBaddog tum mgtow ho kya
Tabhi to itni nafrat karte ho
@Capt Ranvijay Rana yeah 371000 kids born on new year's day.
World fertility rate is 2.5. population is increasing. Will reach 10 billion by 2050. Yeah I see mgtow.
You should also call married women of India and ask them about how their life is ...
Marriage and motherhood have their trials and tribulations, but what lifestyle doesn't? If you look upon your home as a cage, you will find yourself just as imprisoned in an office or a factory. The flight from the home is a flight from self, from responsibility, from the nature of woman, in pursuit of false hopes and fading fantasies. If you complain about servitude to a husband, servitude to a boss will be more intolerable. Everyone in the world has a boss of some kind. It is easier for most women to achieve a harmonious working relationship with a husband than with a foreman, supervisor or office manager
Really but there is one married woman
There were 2 married women in there
@@MegaBaddog Tell that to all of the women who are abused by their husbands.
@@MegaBaddog That is for the women to decide how she wants to live her life.
bharat ke logoko bharat ki garibi, bhrashtachar, anpadh, gawar, juthe, gunde logose itni nafrat nhi hoti he, ki jitni nafrat ek akeli ladki ke paise, khushi & azadi se hoti he !!
a loving man/woman you will never bump into in life.
Whether you remain single or married , it hardly matters .
Married or unmarried , be Alone .
Not loneliness .
Be loving .
Be courageous .
Always remember , we are all Alone in this world .
That is all.
Right...
I appreciate media for raising the issue.
I am single men and very happy 😊
I love sushmita
One thing i have experienced that men are ok if women is single but women have more problem from single women
We need more such discussion. Thanks for the video
life is not mathematics, life is itself,every single person have different vision of life,then how marriage is perfect solution of better society,you must know poverty and population explosion is the result of strong marriage institution.All problems of india are superficialy different but they come out from one origin that is strong marriage institution.
sexual liberty is the answer to all questions and problems.not only sexual liberty but beyond this i mean porn industry,the daughter or son of a rickshaw puller or country side girl or boy can become a celebrity no unemployment no poverty.same health is wealth consider my sexuality is my wealth.this is enough to wipe out poverty.accept the mother nature,make whole country as one family.
loving these free spirited status quo challenging women, respect to all my indian sisters
Our society has become so more accepting in the recent past.. just be thick skinned and remarks won't matter so much as for most of these women it's the regressive mindset that is the bigger issue. It's a progressive society, not progressed. Let's not keep calling ourselves regressive in all media channels.
@Cosmic Goat hero complex is what turns young boys into magina men.
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@the last Jedi What about women, especially in rural societies who are really abused by men?
@Cosmic Goat So avoid them further. Good decision, you do not spoil nervous system of women who mayby underwent lots of abuse. But please stop blaming women, because India are full of females who really went through much cruelty and suffering.u
@@bogdananedavnya2528 Bruh, women aren't the only ones suffering from abuse. Even men suffer abuse from their wives. But the law does not recognise it as a crime.
As a MGTOWer man I am happy to read comments down below.
You go girl 👍.
Singlehood is awesome 😎.
Is this sarcasm ?? 😅
@@pratikshatiwari7011 no
Dying alone for both sexes is the truth now, best is to accept the acerbic enmity between the two, since everything in the world is transactional, heck our arranged marriage spouse hunt regime made material and emotional transaction legal. The Muslims were right about female pair bonding problem in her 30's. Let's not play the game anymore, that's one transaction we can relieve our stress and life away from.
i m single male every sunday i married new one why women can not i support single life more adventure free of burden and more holding money and better life style,i m very happy.
maninder singh me too brother
Good.if u r hapoy
That blue saree half blouse woman has a wonderfull voice...
Why ladies need alimony from husband first of all ?
Free enjoy ?
Great women
I too went thru it
Actually we need to empower the society and the men. They are so much dependent on women that if she wants to get her own life and tell the man to be self-sufficient, he just howls, fights, threatens, harasses woman. We all experience it in our life.
Bruh, is this fiction or what. No man ever dies that. He won't care if you don't want to marry him. There will will be another woman who does want to.
@@gammaphoenix5893 good for him.
Ha no men will always be men- i am from the US- its worse here, they expect women to earn, work full time, pay half the bills, give birth, do chores and childcare without much rest or holidays and get back to work immediately,. Women are stuck initially thinking they got equality but men still want the submissive beautiful young earning women that doesnt argue.
Self-sufficient..? Words coming from the mouth of those who registers falls rape cases to live on alimony, Those who shortlist their partner on salary. Those who want reserve seats, jobs to get by, Those who want no consequences for their actions,
The world and everything you see around you is created by men. Live with it.
@@hashh2019 to tumne kya socha tha ki equality sirf maze lati ha zimmedari kya tumhare papa uthayeinge ?
There are jerks around.True.There is so low quality wen it comes to a partner.People r so messed up nowadays
We have same opinion about women
So there you go, can't make a wife out of a hoe
Insightful! I think if the man could speak in his native language, it would help me get a perspective on what he was saying.
Good for population decrease.More of this please.
Idk why so many ppl mad at this , it very good for a country to keep its population in control!
🤔🤔🤔 IF THERE IS INEQUALITY IN THE ROOT OF SOCIETY (IN OUR RITUALS/BY OWN PARENTS/FATER) SO HOW CAN U FIGHT /DISCUSS FOR THE EQUALITY AT THE TOP /LEVELS OF ITS BRANCHES????? ...we have families where the mom is the one who had to leave their own basic parental house +family & the wife /son's wife is the householder, not the daughter, Always the daughter has to leave their parents for roof on her head (for a son this reason is not in his list to leave to the house )...SO WHY to BLAME SOCIETY ???? 1st we should blame to the PARENTS because they can give the world's best facilities to their daughter but she will be always a guest for them, a visitor who has to go one day, to somebody/somewhere else for a permanent roof over their head. IF A FATHER CAN'T FAVOUR HIS OWN DAUGHTER OVER HIS TRADITIONS, SO HOW CAN A SOCIETY ?????
Very thought provoking and insightful
Let's hope we get better results, I am a woman using this account, and our parents have stated a true fact that women aren't geared for single life, let's prove it wrong ...many beautiful things to do in life, wanting companionship although wired since the dawn of our species can be tested out now
In fact nowadays male or female both fight to chase their dreams... Around the clock they work... Once they enter in professional life.its hard to fell in love... And they are surrounded with information mostly negative so they prefer to stay single rather then looking for problems... Everything about the time...
If somebody is strong-minded, then they might have a hard time working with a spouse. Marriage is working together in good and bad times, so you have to give and take. If you don't have time for family, then don't get married.
Getting a degree from Harvard is brave not living single and according to jorden Peterson these women are going to understand the cost of family in later life
Mamata Banerjee is a single woman, just like Mayawati and just as was Jayalalithaa
One cause of singlehood is that Indian parents don't allow girls and boys to date or get to know each other better in early age. At an early age they learn to communicate with the opposite gender. It's just considered awkward and unacceptable.
are you really a muslim? shia or sunni
Aapne toh mere munh ki baat chin li
85 % of love marriages end in divorce in western countries.
@@MegaBaddog and 90% of arranged marriages in india are loveless and unhappy
@@PriyaCreationsFun These girls ask for too much in their 20s and then since they cannot their prince charming that does not exist and when they reach 30+ and are not as desirable and their biological clock is ticking then they start to realize they are screwed. Many have very unrealistic expectations and wonder why they are still single. No one cares about your high power career, no one cares about your phd, intellect, or success. She looks like the hunchback of notre dame's sister. We go by looks first, if you are smart, funny,etc that helps a lot. And most 30 something women want a guy in his 30s as well , sometimes 40s but guess what? These dudes are going for the 20 somethings because they can, they have decent education, success, etc to attract those girls. It does not work both ways girlfriend no matter how much your feminist friends say you are fabulous. Education, high powered job and cash attract women, you could be a very average dude and it still applies. But if you are an average or ugly girl there is no amount of wealth, education or success that will make you sexy. I am sorry but those are the facts.?
Human bring should stop producing kids.Wow.mujhe sur jimmedarian h ni jo faltu ki jimmebariyan lu.wow.this man is amazing.very rare such men are seen
Wow. We need more discussions like this. However I didn’t get what that bald gentleman wanted to say. Apart from it,it’s really insightful.
Now question is was it wrong for 90 s parents to have liberally educated their daughters who grew up to be career oriented and now they can't find suitable matches for them... women earning more and unable to find suitable husband
Overall a thought provoking discussion. However, I strongly disagree with the undertones that people in "abroad" (I am assuming Western countries) have more liberal mindset and Indian society is backward. In USA still equal pay to men and women is not the norm. Women are often projected as object of desire and someone whose main responsibility is becoming mother and raising family (You can refer to tones of literature available in the form of books and films). Very poor percentage of women in workforce and that too in science and technology. Also, in USA women were granted right to vote in 1920 and USA got independence in 1775. So, while projecting that Indian society has problem we do not need to say that everything is rosy in "abroad".
There are many variables.
Work time.
Over time.
More quality if work done
Less sick leaves.
Etc.
@@gammaphoenix5893 this appies to everyone. But what about maternity leave? Males doesn't care about their own kids.
We are not saying that marriage is bad for society. Whoever chooses to marry is good. Better actually. But why force or discriminate people who are single. They are also human. Treat them as part of society unless they create any mishaps.
An unmarried woman means somewhere , there is a single happy dude with his wallet intact .
Copied comment , but it is true !
@@aashayj wait women shares her money with husband? My dad and Uncle would like to disagree.
@@aashayj - WHEN Did An Educated, Professionally Successful, Career Oriented, Feminist Woman MARRIED A Man who is EARNING LESS Than Her , who is Poor , Jobless , NonAmbitious , Less Qualified Than Her Or Less Resourceful Than Her Socio-Economic Status ?? 😄😄😁😁😆😆 Well if U Reverse The Gender ..... Men Does Happily Embrace, Love, Care & Marry - Poor, Unemployed, Vulnerable, Broken, Uneducated, None Ambitious Women ..... and We Men Will Proudly Continue To Do So Till The End of Humanity . 😎😎✊🏻✊🏻💪🏻💪🏻
Even The Highly Qualified, Highly Educated, Professionally Successful & Financially Established Women Seeks Men who r MORE Than Her Socio-Financial Status, Earning MORE Than Her Or Enjoying A Higher Standard of Living . Being Always into Materialistic Persuits, Subtle GoldDigging, Being Hypergamous Or Marrying High is Female Subconscious Programming . The Fact Also is U Women CAN'T Help Or Comeout of it Nomatter How Extreme U Try - To CHANGE That Psyche ..... As it is Naturally & Programmed Within U Being The Weaker, Softer, Motherly, Feminine & Emotional Gender . That's So Coz - Only Resourceful, Secured, Successful, High Value Men Can Lay His Intellectually Advanced & Physically Strong Seeds ..... and Pass On His Better Gene's To Your Womb & Fertilise Your Eggs To Give BIRTH To New Life of Future ..... and Yeah - Also TakeCare of The Child & Mother and Provide The BEST Resources He is Earning Or Had Earned .
That's Evolutionary Biology SweetHeart !!
These all are sudo feminist
I too face the issue for people thinking tht just bec i m single i m available. But i m like just go to hell . At the same time I m so grateful to people who supports me .
71 million single women in india! May be there are 95 million single recluse(Sadhu,sanyasi)men, who abandoned their natural life in order to achieve enlightenment. Because they don't bother about marriage rather focus they ultimate target of life
The very fact that marriage and reproduction is morally wrong in Jainism, Hinduism, and Buddhism. When the ultimate goal is Moksh or liberation, why get into the bondage of marriage? Giving birth to children is also morally wrong because you enslaving the Soul [divine element] into matter [body]. The ancient religions of India taught on attaining liberation and giving up all these horrible wordly bondage.
@@snehavora3507 those great saintly persons never stepped into that so called marriage bondage. Because they knew that marriage is a 'lifetime imprisonment'. It does not provide the eternal peace. So they went out in search of peace and took a life of recluse which is the most hard task in the world. If you want to become a Doctor or Scientist or Engineer you can definitely achieve that feat because it needs a certain time to achieve it but for a recluse it may take almost the entire life to become enlightenment. Even many great personalities had embraced those holy religious teachings at end of their life, like B.R Ambedkar Who embraced Buddhism. Because they realised the ultimate goal in their life. In Vedic period polygamy was present because most saintly persons left their house so most women became unmarried. So according to Vedic rule, a man may be unmarried but a woman must be married. So at that time, one man got married with multiple women and used to live their life smoothly.
@@abhisekdas1580: I do not believe in Vedic rules. Vedic religion is very cruel that destroyed India and promoted Caste System. Look at Manusmriti, which is very bad. Vedic religion is just bad. Jainism is even older than Vedic religion. I believe in Freedom. Men and women can divorce and marry how are many times they want. Men and Women can also remain unmarried if they want to.
@@snehavora3507The Manusmriti was changed by the British govt to "Hindu code of Law" to exploit Indians in the name of religious based casteism. The real Manusmriti was not a book of law rather a book of human life of Vedic age. It described how the people of that time used to live & they traded with different people like Meluha, Mesopotamia, Sumerian, Egyptian and the South eastern countries like Combodia, Indonesia etc. Even it contains the ancient "Gandhrva Vivah". And this different types of people have been changed to different Castes by the British in 1776 when this book was translated from Sanskrit to English by Sir W. Jones.
Dr Romila Thapar, Dayanand Saraswati and even Annie Besant complained against this new and modified Manusmriti which Was intentionally distorted by the British government to exploit & gain superiority over Indians. The real book of Manusmriti does not contain any of the cast system. This came to light when B.R Ambedkar burnt the modified Manusmriti against Untouchability. If you had read details about this holy book then you would not have complained about it. Read more.
@@abhisekdas1580: This is typical for India to always blame British. Any religion that has laws on marriage is a false and bad religion. You said that women had to marry and men did not have to marry. This is a bad religion. A true religion has no Marriage Laws. Jainism and the Buddhism, but first Jainism, are the only true religions. Vedic religion is false.
Please do something for single women. A law where they can stay peacefully in society.
See their faces you know the difference..
This is so one sided. Women Women Women. WOMEN loves compliments 🤣🤣
Just saying happy doesn't mean happy but feminine energy feels happy only being submissive to masculine. It's biological truth
Young people in 20 to 30s don't come under influence of these biased discussions. They already saw enough world and enjoyed. You will repent when it reaches boiling point and surroundings become out of your control.
Almost same for single men
this was good and entertaining
U wanted to be empowered, u wanted to be financially stable and u choosed to be single.. then whats u r problem?? Everything is happening according ur wish.. then what the hell do u want?? 🥴
The problem is society... They r trying to fight against the bad society
They just want society to let them be!
@@silica87 who is stopping?? Do as ur wish
Kanika is saying Bhopal a small town, she is definetly unaware of Bhopal..It is capital of Madhya Pradesh and considered a metro city.. She should have some awareness about her city..
not only a big city one of the most beautifull city i have seen and clean also
i dont know how they have such mindset
i live in lucknow and kanpur both are my home town and they are also big citites but all this people have this mindset that mumbai and delhi and will rant on it.
Yes, i was surprised... I feel Bhopal is better than Delhi, Lucknow, Agra, Jaipur and many other cities 😊
If you get support of flaunt then u will also get bad attractions.
Nice show
Oh god the biological clock isn't twenty five. But depends on who you are. It's usually between forty to fifty. Genetics play a role. But there are good herbs to keep women's hormones more balanced. But ya I hope one day there is research that can have us have children even naturally lol like Sara in the bible to eighty.
Sanjay is hillarious
Are these single women ready to leave all the ill doing in society?
Mirza baig why cant society stop ill doing
so she is not part of the society because she wants to be a single @@lotuswolf1518
@@MegaBaddog There are other ways to be part in society than marriage. Working women are also part of society.
Indian cities n villages, theres no difference when it comes to patriarchy n woman beating culture.
After what the product of marriage is going to help society ?
It doesn't help the society..it just puts a toll on the society by them having kids and consuming more resources.. being single is a boon to the society and the planet as a whole
Dont marry
Don't marry. Live happy 😊
@@roshnik5137 😀Ek bakara bach gaya.
Single parent is not a good idea listen to jorden Peterson
Single women percentage will increase if men behaviour towards women won't change.
Just remove voting rights and make it one family one vote
Unmarried Socially not accepted .
How richand successful u become, a avg earning and having 2 kids isore respectful ... u r single bcoz they dd not got any one. 😅
Do u think any solution found this discussion
anti-natalism is a noble idea we must adopt now...
Beautiful women all I need is one❤
One word "Echochamber".
Singala erunthal avalukka plate thaan kaluvanum avalukka thuniyae thaan thuvaikkanum
ABNORMAL PRACTICE
😂😂😂
Patriarchy... Stop blaming men for bad choices. Life does not care. Nothing but male shaming language.
dear single women of edcation power and position, request u to open ur heart how and what u expect from man in ur life-me canot live without u and some cannot live with u-we have now to think about next generation to be happy-plz open ur heart how to bring fulcrum in social life -i wish all next generation should be happy
Single mother hood and single fatherhood is an option. There are many men who should be single sas well, cause not men are able to understand and care for their wives. Harmonious marriage requires everyday willpower and stress resistance which many people lack.
Waste of nations resources
This Takla😂
How good Sara.... You take a dig on this Takla.... So you think premarital counseling is the solution to everything.
Yes , it's time to stop...this thoda aur sehlo..thoda aur adjust kr lo
Potato narrating story.😂😂..she is 38 I think..so.. 32-33 is deadline age for getting married for both male and female.she entered 34 nd started facing all devil's hinding in our society..I mean..it's not possible to guess a girl is married or unmarried these days..but when she takes her step out of her room random people arround strt asking her why she is not married..😂😂 kaun hai ye log..kaha se aate hai ye log..my supervisor is 48 nd single..nd I showed her this video..I asked her if she can relate any single piece of sht from her story..her reply - I hv to go to foreign countries to meet project clients but I never faced suck kind of problems..only my parents and some of relatives used to pressurized me to gt married..I crossed 36 nd now no one even care abt me either I am married or single..they are happy to see me happy..
Get together of all sad people in the country.
One nation
Yuganda
women marry for money, get divorced for money, if not get enough compensation from husband, they file case against her spouse, ye aukat ek aurat ki.
May God help you find peace. Become a monk and you will not have to face a single woman
Are you a chutiaa????
And unfortunately a women bore so much pain to give birth a toxic moron like you
More interested in getting any education money I guess these women are not having children I'm just guessing
Isliye akeli hai
Just note that a woman can be happy as a homely wife with her in laws and children and husband, a house wife role is as nice as being a career woman handling all the responsibilities and deadlines and the task of being inspired for the next salary upgrade. I have met many women who regret staying home their whole lives with family as well as women who found it hard in the office work place to even continue along, staying single makes it even more lonely, but many such women like the video promotes are happy staying single as well. It's all your mannerisms of how you dictate you live your life, everything isn't wrong neither is everything right. Choose your life wisely.
Excuse me, you are indirectly insulting against about the single women.. Its her choice.. The reality is.. You Don't want to see the success of women.. Women are not puppet...
@@juhigautam9874 I read your comment thrice I suggest you read mine atleast four times to understand you and me mean the same thing, the lash out that I am insulting is also unfair, online arguments shouldn't be so negative,let's make it a great platform for healthy debate.
@@juhigautam9874 Even successful women can't see their husbands with another women so ur opinion doesn't make sense here stfu
This is the new benchmarked of skewed journalism... there is no debate, it's just a few janani's having fun... Stupid actually.. without any agenda..
Rajeev Bhan these are the issues in elite classes.
But these problems exist.
@@sanjeevkushwaha4043 no it is something that cuts across all classes of women.
It is wrong word "Janani"
Correct word " one Gender". Chage your mind set for women - it is one gender ,nothing more then that.
@RajeevBhan, The "indian man" they are saying haven't evolved .. refers to you. You may not getting it now. But you may after growing as a person.
SARA IS MELLOW, MORE INTO THE LISTENING MODE, CLOCK TICKING???
hitting the wall.
Man also hit the wall
When mother says to son to bring milk , do they are making him servant of house.
Dude, do you make meals for 3 times a day? Do you clean up after the meals? Do you do laundry? Do you sweep and mop all the rooms of your house? Do you dust the window panes? Do you clean the refrigerator? Do you clean the toilet? Do you clean the ceiling fans and fancy lights ? Do you water the plants? Do you arrange the utensils in the kitchen? Do you clean the gas stove? Do you scrub the kitchen walls to keep them from smelling? Dude if you haven't answered yes to some of these questions you are not a servant but a privileged Male.
most married men in my acquaintance do half of the chores in my work, my father helped out my mother and I have no issues helping out my wife either sometimes.@@elva136
@@elva136 do you till the soil for crops, fight in wars, build roads , bridges and canals. men even constitute 99% of all inventions in the west after 3 generations of affirmative actions
@@MegaBaddog It is wonderful, but not all men are like this.
I understand your feminazi mindset now, hating on men@@bogdananedavnya2528
Oh my god !
So persecuted cocktail party people
Poor bald guy ; he should just shut up; its a losing battle.....left and right as he said.
Why you need alimony ?
Just an excuse to try new shiny toys before they hit the wall.
This👆🏻
Single men life is happy but single women life is pure suffering,,,this is my observation
Ofcourse it is, if a single women's society life is compared with a man's society life. But if compare what could have been her life if she were in a toxic relationship, she is much better off.
@@user-bw8yn3zr1s correct!!!
That why single women called warrior than single men. She has guts to fight.. If we change our view nothing will happen. Its time to change the view society.
Then your observation isn't universal.
Sanjay rajora Kya dikat hai tuje.. parents ki respect aur family bond m
Something everyone surprisingly missed out is the norm or order of the society is marriage, which is an institution in itself serving functions, because it regulates sexual relationship while fulfilling the basic task of procreation. While personal rights and liberties to not get married have to be respected , while at this point, if all the people say that they no more will procreate or even if they do, it will be outside familial ties/marriages, civilization will drop back to the times of apes. Hence the creation of the norm. But does it justify or legitimize gender stereotyping or terming being single as 'deviant' ? NO!
Slow genocide
U can’t changed this world rule who create god. Wife is incomplete without men and men is incomplete without women . Kash in sab Ke ma baap ne Single ka socha Hota to ye sab bewkoof aaj is duniya m na hote. We are overthinking that’s why we are changed. Don’t be so modern otherwise u go to in depression and lost of ur life. End of ur life is death if u enjoy ur life then complete everything otherwise u think beyond of this creation by god.
Thedaily analyser thank you sir
@somali Chakraborty are u girl dear
@@ChiragNagpal-co9vp ek baat hai jis shaadi me god ka naam nahi wo teek nahi sakti hai. Naa jyada darao. Na jyada samjhao. Chhode to jane do rahe to aane do. Samjhana chahe to samjh lo. Par usko seh lo. Bas ek cheez mat saho - insab me aadhe se zyada tinder par hai, pregnant honahi paati, aur baad me aadmi ko gaali deti hai.
@somali Chakraborty would be interested to know your thoughts.
@somali Chakraborty no one is judgemental. Every one is fundamental. But we are not listening to people with open views. Our views are closed. You must say everything to the man who want to live with you as trust.
Its a creeping trend copied from west, A Western style feminism is shattering indian Dream.....Men r changing , y cant women help men change instead of Women women and Women only..........
No Psycologist can help Indian Men obsessed with Patriarchy..How Women can change them and Why they shud?
Nobody is responsible for changing anybody else.. We are talking about fully grown adults here, it's their responsibility to change for the better..
And what exactly is this 'Indian dream' you're talking about? A population of 40 billion?
I'll tell you what's wrong. After glancing at the group on the show, all were not attractive so that's why they're single. Get a cat ladies, thank me later...
omg noooooo
why i have to watch this cancer again and again
feminist destroys everything.
You blame feminists, what about misogynist& What about women in India who are really forced to marry, faced cruelty, especially in rural areas? Why are you persuaded that women should sacrifice themselves and marry if they do not want to marry?.
@@bogdananedavnya2528 then don't Marry simple.
Men are also forces to marry and have to deal with bigger responsibility financial and also handel and have to take care that his women is happy cause if something happens men will lose everything.
Money ,child and everything he earned so marriage is far greater risk for men.
And people will force you if you let them force
Try to say no and live on your own thats all.
The problem is that most of the women who get forced dont have the strength and courage to respond and they live life depending on husband or parents if they choose to stay independent like many women are there so no way she can get forced.
@@mypackmypower1996 some families beat, starve daughter, lick them in rooms so they even can it leave, can not call the Police. And single other are blamed and shamed as sluts. What about it?
Because your mother a woman gave birth to you. Why should everyone suffer
@@mypackmypower1996 omg he doesn't even know English very well. Now that's a real crime.
all destructive ladies
They are rebel.. N super..i m proud of them. They have their own choices
Nobody is asking you to marry them na.. Let them be!
@@juhigautam9874 ask them how they live. they are most frustrated lady, their only work is bashing men for everything in their life. ladies shouldn't marry to men, there are many species on the earth
@@mithileshsingh2449 Dude, some don't wanna marry not because they hate men but just find solitary life better.