I am SCRIMMING that Annie just dropped a lil “what do we think” and didn’t say anything for 3/4 mins 😂😂😂 just bare disappointment in agreement with Nella and Adeola 😂
When you get told constantly from a young age that if you don’t know how to cook and clean the house, you will never get a husband!! But your brother can sit in his room all day playing video games 😭😭
I remember one time when I was younger my mom went somewhere and were home with my dad. My dad cooked for us and then he cleaned up afterwards, my mom came home with my aunt just as he was finishing up. My aunt said that it was really embarrassing and shameful that my dad was doing all the house work and that were just sat there and ate. Wait it’s shameful for a man to feed his kids? Plus we were at the time between the ages of 5-13.
I was going through depression stopped school. One auntie (not even family related ) came to my house talking to me about school and everything. Giving unwanted advice and everything. She told me to go do nursing, i said no . I want to go to the university. She literally look at me in the face in my fathers house, infront of my mother. This woman told me i will not make it in the university, that I will not succeed. Today am going to the third year (passed 90% of my courses at first sit ). I forgave her cause I realized it was her insecurities. She was putting me down to make her daughter look good. But God works in miracles. Any young girl dealing with Toxic aunties or Uncles , never take their words personal. Its not about YOU, its about them. They failed in their lives, they have broken dreams. So they look for vulnerable people to pourer their frustration on . Stay positive guys remember its not about You
It’s alwaysssss the most chatty aunties who’s husbands are preying on young girls on the streets😭 they love to say “you’ll never get a husband” babeeeee YOUR husband moved to ME at 14!!!!!!
And when you hit them with all these facts about being sexist and judgemental they'll come up with the "when I was younger I could never talk to my elders like that I would've gotten slapped" 🙄🤣
I hate this. You can't tell them the truth, talk back or criticise them in any sort of way because of 'culture' and 'respect'. I bet they hated being treated like that back in the day, but they grow up convincing themselves its the only way to treat others.
Mate. I'm literally studying a medical degree and it still doesnt feel like my mom is satisfied with me. I want to explore my creative side and maybe start a youtube channel but i know shes gonna be so against it like 💔
Fam african aunties will have their sons abuse them and financially drain them, but let their daughters stand up for themselves and live a life that diverge's from their own, all of a sudden their disobedient and hard headed. It's madness
it’s because the daughters are forever Handmaid scapegoats (Doctor Ramani) and their sons are useless spoiled golden children who become narcissists or son husbands
When Adeola was like "your not even allowed in the U.K." although I haven't got any African aunties around I still said "Raaaaa you can't say that" 💀💀💀💀💀 I'm dead you three are too much o
"African aunties don't belive in creative arts" that hit me deep. I had a massive problem when I told my family that I want to study fashion design. but I wouldn't let their comments bring me down. those that have interest in arts please please do not let them take it away from you
@@moiethereal9634 yes i just applied and i got in been studying it for 2years and once my skills had improved they wanted me to sew stuff for them. dont get me wrong i still get a lot of negativity about it but i ignored it. Like they say if you dont believe in yourself, who will?. Just stay true to you and work your hardest anything can be yours.
Will never understand why African aunties will be pressuring other women to get married or to learn how to cook for a man and do everything for a man when they’ve done everything and more and their marriage still hasn’t worked out . They know their husband is cheating on them yet have the cheek to say to when will you marry 🥴🥴
@Deborah Oshoteku i swear its like they be training you to be a housewife and serve a man your whole life but a boy the same age as you can just live life to the fullest with no education. if theyre gonna 'train' girls for the future role then they need to do the same for boys.
African aunties always want to sexualise underage girls, with them they make it an issue whether you’re skinny or thick. As if we can control our bodies, I’ve always been skinny but had some bum and some aunties would smack my bum and make comments “ahh, you’re now becoming a woman!” which made me extremely uncomfortable because from a young age I’ve always hated physical touch and I have anxiety.
The skin issue; I RELATE!!! I’ll never forget when an auntie asked what was wrong with my skin in front of everyone and asked if I take care of it. The same auntie that said I should’ve never cut my hair and dyed it because I looked like a boy to her....I was rocking that cut, people loved my cut, and sis was mad because her edges had disintegrated four inches back 🤷🏾♀️😂
Yes it does. I am an auntie to my 4 nieces and nephew who are in there 20s .giving them a lot of encouragement and according to people who know us, I spoil them alot. I am also an auntie to the young generation loves to look up and hang with, because I had been your ages too. I refuse to be the bullying and intimidating type.I had toxic aunties before, with one of them in my presence telling my mum not to allow me to return to the UK, when all her children are living in the UK and USA!!! 8 years later I arrived in London. Also grandmas suppose to be the sweet ones, but there are some toxic ones too! I had no choice but put them in their place, don't get me wrong. Any older ones who think they are entitled to cross paths anyhow with the younger because it is culture, respect goes out the window and doors. Period!
Why didn’t YOU greet ME. My aunt went to my house and said she has a bigger claim over my father’s property than all of his children and that we will never be better than her so can you please help me pray against her
I hate them! Being a pastors daughter makes it so much worse, they all have something to say. They need to focus on their marriage, children and their own body !
Deborah Zonzolo I felt this so much !!!!!!!!! Being a pastors daughter makes it so much worse like it’s like they are always watching you and waiting for you to mess up and comment on it
One time I wore a salmon dress that had a skater skirt to church and an auntie came to me and told to never wear that dress again to church and to cover my legs. I was 12.
Felttt, I went to my best friend’s jehovas witness church, and because I had stayed over at hers, I only had a tank top and little skirt. I got weird looks and remarks, meanwhile I was barely 10
Um. Not to be " that person " i think if you go to this kind of event, or religious places it's important to have decent clothes. Whatever the age, she might also have said that for your own good, who knows ?
I’ve got long natural hair and aunties used to come for me when I dyed it or tried new styles, making comments about how I looked but how are you gonna come for me and say I’m ruining my hair when your edges start behind your ears??🤔🤔
One auntie that’s wasn’t even my blood auntie use to always always have something to say to my mum about my life and some other people’s kids too after years she stopped coming to church she wasn’t at any gathering. Only to find out her teenage daughter had triplets. That’s why she’s now disappeared from Earth or maybe the shame killed her
Loool this killed me triplets yuno😩🤣🤣🤣 my cousin does the EXACT same thing always something to say, she never says anything to me it’s always behind my back 🙄
Do you know what my auntie said to me. When I was growing up I was at 14 maybe younger and obviously my body is growing whatever whatever cool. She said to me ‘ha where are your breasts?’ Every since then I was insecure about them. No I’m 21 and I’m a double D and when we have weddings and we’re all dressed up so she looks at me and kisses her teeth then says’ always got them elephants breasts out’
funny how just last week my mom was dragging me out of bed to go and learn how to cook stew LATE at night. I asked her why I (the only girl in the family) needs to learn how to cook instead of my two brothers and she said they’ll have their turns soon..... mhmm when???? because we are moving to almost one month later now. like damn, I didn’t know cooking was only a skill for women to learn. and then when you try to argue with them they pull out the “so you’re not going to cook for your husband and children?”
This has always irked me!! So much inequality.. why must I do everything and my brother who has arms and legs sits around and barely lifts a finger?? Like it baffles me and always with this husband nonsense 😑
This makes my blood boil. The way my brother has not lifted a finger to clean the house in the 29 years of his life. Meanwhile me and my sisters are Cinderella
✋African moms: when I was ur age I was the top of my class I was teaching the teachers. Me: then why are you jobless at home with me ur daughter as ur maid. We move.
Annie : "I'm not a big a fan of like , pushing marriage on me when yours did not work out" Me : "Pausing the video" Also me : clapping ... alone ... in my room "AMEN"
Missymea omg yes and it is always the African aunties who husbands only married them for papers and sleeping around with every lady in the village, who want to give marriage advice to other people's daughters.
Agree with this 100% "African Aunties" cultural ideologies cause them to behave in this way... Their mothers, grandmothers and aunties treated them this way and instead of changing the cycle they are the definition of the saying 'hurt people hurt people. Us millennial have been raised in the UK and have adopted cultural aspects of British life which differ greatly from our African elders, therefore it's far more easier to break the cycle...
I've had aunties that aint even blood report my where about. literally call my parents to say " I saw your daughter today at this time doing this and that" like mind your life please. You don't even know where your own kids are😒
This females are vexed and i can relate. One time i was off on summer break travelling and touring Europe then this aunty from hell called my mum and told her she saw me with 5 boys not 1 not bloody 2 but 5 boys in the park and we were about to do it cuz the way they were touching me and all that lol my mum told her i have been touring around travelling and stuff for the past month so how could that be and aunty hung up the phone. I called her and gave her the piece of my mind. Aunty came to church on a Sunday when i had come back from my touring and was ready to fight. U know me i had to beat her ooo. #SorryNotSorry And since then, she never spoke to me or of me ever again. Dear people, sometimes it is good to show this aunties small pepper of what u are made of. I told her all her life histories to her face. I can't be bothered. All this aunties yeah, die by fire!!! Holy Ghoooosssstttt Firrreeeeeee 🔥
Valerie Thompson Damn!! Not even surprised though, it’s just how they be moving sometimes. Same thing happened to me once, she told my mom I was out with a “group” doing drugs?? I was at tutoring. My mom came home started interrogating telling me I’m lying. The next day she comes to me smiling saying the lady call saying i forgot my textbook at tutoring and oh so you were at tutoring laughing. Soo are we not going to talk about what just happened? Your not going to apologize or anything like that? These women are just bored with their lives.
You know when you're growing bress at a young age and they're that weird triangle shape? Well when my boobs were first growing, one of the aunties in my church pinched my breast saying "what are these?" Lol it still traumatises me till this day😭
In all seriousness tho, I'm Caribbean and my experience with African aunties has caused me to not go church anymore. 6 yrs going to that church, they would treat my family like 'other'. Gossip about me for no reason whatsoever. Was sexually harassed in the church and held it in for 2yrs, caused alot of depression and when it got out he's the victim 🙃. Knowing I wasn't the first and him getting praised by his mum aunties and sister and they never let me make a statement and I will forever be a topic of conversation and had to cut off everyone i knew. I will never understand how they are the loudest to shout "Ameeennn!!" but do the most sin after service is over and the cameras are off 🤷🏽♀️
That is so bad but I will report him to the police if it is possible and don't ever go to their churches again and bear in mind that the majority of them hate the Caribbean people.
@@rtsoca5560 Im African and I don’t hate Caribbean people I actually really like them and our culture and theirs are similar in some ways 😁also I have never met an African person who hates Caribbean people ,as for the the African aunties they hate on every child regardless of how they look or act😤 those aunties all ways have something negative to say, the best you can do is ignore them and don’t let them get to you 🤗 God bless you. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
One African uncle asked me why I was late to church by 10mins. I turned around and said your son rolls in half way through the message. Let's just say he never spoke to me about this again.
This church aunty once called my mom, to tell her she drove past and I was outside playing soccer with a TANK TOP. Its Atlanta summer so it's HOTTTT!! Meanwhile her sons were disrespectful, on drugs, sneaking to get tattoos, and got arrested all in the same summer. Madam get your priorities in order.
Victoria Owoyinfa I can only speak on my personal experiences which are that Jamaican aunties are fun and down to earth. They do not display envy towards the younger generation. If their kids are “bad” they are not ashamed of them per say they just “cuss” them down to family members. If their child is successful they don’t really boast (you won’t know you have a cousin that’s a doctor unless you bump into them at a family event or something and it’s brought up) but it’s not something the whole entire family will just know about. They do not look down on other people’s kids they actually look down on people who “chat” peoples kids. They do not knowingly put up with cheating men, they are feisty and wear the trousers in their relationships (most not all). They do not think depression is “witchcraft” they are easy to talk to. The most you might get is a auntie who doesn’t think before she speaks and makes comments that offend but there is only one of two of those in my family and even those aunts are still fun and down to earth they just have foot in mouth syndrome. Overall they do not oppress us nowhere near as much as it seams African aunties oppress.
I remember when one Aunty tried to tell my mum she saw me outside misbehaving with my friends. Loooool jokes on her because i was home that day with period pains and my mum told her that and she was trying to tell my mum, who is looking at me at home that no she is seeing her daughter outside rn???
I remember when my auntie sat me down to talk about the way I dress (I like baggy clothes and it was winter that time anyway). She was telling me I should dress to show my feminine features and change my hairstyles and use a cream to even out my skintone (I'm a dark skin girl). Her saying all of that made me feel like shit and just distance myself from her. I still wear baggy clothes, I'm the same skin tone, I like my hairstyles and that's on that! I know I'm a African goddess, she's just jealous cuz she bleaches and still can't get her desired skin tone.
Jemima IG I'm brownskin and I experience this as well! I'm always getting compared to women lighter than me and it's really just awful. Many African aunties perpetuate colorism and sometimes even tribalism without thinking about how their words affect others.
This video is so true, they can be so bitter some of them....I had an African UNCLE behave the same way...he wasn't even my uncle he was a Nigerian security guard at my work. Would tell me colleague and me that we need to go jogging, we should stop eating snacks st work, stop drinking juice cause of the sugar etc....but this man will be the same one to tell me he "wants me and likes my body", constantly asking me out for dates saying he likes me "just the way I am", giving me lingerie brochures for WHAT?!?!?! Mind your business uncle🙄🙄🙄💭💭💭💭
Nana GYamfi people are suffering all around the world but that doesn’t reduce how you feel ! Maybe everyone won’t support that but it’s important that you care for yourself and your feelings feel what you need to feel despite what anyone thinks!! Although sometimes we need love and acceptance from specific people like our parents sometimes we don’t get that, but God puts people in our lives to help us to grow and survive. Stay up ✨🙌🏾
Lool one of these devil aunties said that MY BODY LOOKS LIKE A WINDOW BECAUSE IM WIDE AND HAVE NO CURVES. Babes, how many liposuction surgeries have done and you're still the same?!
This is truly about our African parents, uncles, aunties, friends, neighbors, cousins, pastors, imams, grandparents, church/mosque members and even complete strangers feel they can control and speak negatively. It's like we suffer from communal narcissism.
i related to the creative arts thing so much man, like i wanna do fashion marketing but my parents are not willing to pay thousands for me to be 'handling fashion'. My dad is stuck in his view of economics and finance being the ONLY thing that can bring you money. and whenever I'm at church or at a family event, i just say 'marketing' to spare the mockery,bitter glances, confusion. though our culture has so many colourful and beautiful things, situations/attitudes like this strip dreams away and sadden me so deeply.
ME TOO I want to go to fashion school for fashion mangment and my parents are literally soo ashamed of me liking that and the won’t even let express how I like it and they say bad people are in that industry and they won’t let me move out for it 😭
@@aestheticd6864 my dear run with your dreams and don't let anyone even your parents decide otherwise. When I was young my brother and I love arts. They attacked us mentally and physically. At the end of the day as I am posting I am into arts and crafts now after being motivated by fellow artists and fashion designers. Do you know how many artists and fashion designers are millionaires and billionaires. I go to libraries and going on the Internet social media as well as watching RUclips tutorials. My brother is on digital arts and posting them online.
To be honest, I'm an Aunty but I would never EVER say this to any young lady/ woman my role is to uplift, support, coach and love you unconditionally. These Aunties that have been described have got me traumatised!!
I'm called 'Aunty' so guess I am, but I'm mindful not to repeat horrible things said/done to me in the name of culture. Not all of us get older to be like this. I think about what it was like to be young and I'm the one who challenges others the same way. If you don't listen then we can't be friends.
For there are many things that have been said to me since im skinny black girl but at this point, im used to it. i know it sound bad but thats honestly the truth. But, what REALLY pissed me off was when they starting attacking my sweet, sweet brother saying he looks like a homeless, gay, mad-man for braiding his hair like lil yatchty, and it was black, had no beads and was really simple.This guy mind his own business has no problems with anybody and the moment you call for help, no matter who, what, when, where, why or how, he will be there.and GUESS WHAT??? he took it out the moment he came home and was so sad and embarrassed he didnt want to speak about it saying "nothing don't worry about it" looking and sounding all depresses.😡💨💨💨🙄
One of my Aunt's sons literally got blackout drunk at a family event and did not face any repercussions. But then when I decided to wear a semi tight but long dress to my OWN FATHERS funeral I was told to change because the men would be looking at me.
@@serinat2181 in terms of my aunties I can't really do anything because I am only 15. Since I can't do anything drastic I have just learnt to just try be a fly on the wall and just wear what they want me to wear when they are around.
Adeola dropped the bomb and looked like “what am I wrong?” 😂. I remember when one Aunty (not related) said to me: Esther you’re getting bigger ooo. I was so pissed that I wanted to say; Aunty, it’s because I’m trying to look like you. 😆 I had to be “respectful”.
African aunties and parenta just tolerate each other regarding their spouses, they dont really love each other, its becos divorce is just frowned upon there.
My girls coming through with the content I didn’t even know I needed 😩😩 Nella’s energy throughout this video is MEEEEEE towards the African Aunty population right now 😭 love you guys x
When I started my natural hair journey my aunts told me " its cute, but all your hair will fallout and you look better with straight hair." 3 years later they're asking me what products I use because its long and is healthy....sis...really?
Saw my auntie for the first time in a while and she told me I had put on weight. 2 months later I saw her again and she told me I had lost too much weight... I was the same weight.
Guuuuuuurrrlll!!!! I went to a house gathering once and some auntie I met for the first time told me I need to lose weight cause I don't look like her centipede twig looking twin daughters. She had the audacity to tell me I should only eat lettuce that evening. THIS WAS THE FIRST TIME WE METTTT!!! AND SHE WAS SIMPLY A FAMILY FRIEND!!!
My relatable Toxic Aunty Story: I was getting my hair done by my mums friend when she asked for to finish the ends of my braids. Mind you I was only 9 and i didnt know how to braid hair yet and she ridiculed me for it. EXCUSE ME, idk how to do my hair at 9 and ik you don't want me to fuck it up so MOVE ON 😭. She actually made me feel so bad back then. Love the videos guys 💗💗
Say like you are sitting next to a boy and youre talking and vibing cos you're friends and then an aunty will see and go gossip to all the other aunties and be like oh look at her she's with a boy oh all she knows is boys, like say you can't be friends with the opposite gender like it's illegal but then will come to you and be like why are you not married yet, why don't you have a husband.
this is life I would get in trouble walking home from school and groups of boys would walk passed me they just swear I was out there like no I don't know them. After that I told my dad all my guy friends are gay.
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I am SCRIMMING that Annie just dropped a lil “what do we think” and didn’t say anything for 3/4 mins 😂😂😂 just bare disappointment in agreement with Nella and Adeola 😂
*SCREAMING* *
Ur showing to much skin 😂🙄 majority of the time
Omg I thought they were only mine
RAISE YOUR HAND IF YOUVE EVER BEEN VICTIMISED BY AN AFRICAN AUNTIE 🤚🏾
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say in church and u keep on talking to someone the auntie would pop up and compare you to her children like go awayyy
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@@oliviamensah1848 bruh that's actually deep 😂😂😂
🤚🏾🤚🏾🤚🏾🤚🏾 all cuz I’m a pastors daughter
African aunties will have soo much chat, but their son is doing fraud on snap 🤦🏾♀️
Rochelle Thompson exactlyyyy smh
On goddddd 😭😭😭
And selling drugs
Barssss
Rochelle Thompson and their daughter smashing any and everyone under their roofs 😭
Some African Aunties will tell me that I’ve gained weight but they don’t even know that they have type 2 diabetes
Abi Luyanda this is an attack btw 🤣😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Girl I- 💀💀💀
I just holllleeerrdddd
I screeeaaammeedddd eeeeee🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
“You’re not even allowed in the UK” LOOOOOOOOOL
I am powerful I was dyingggggg🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
TKO!!!!
AM SCRIMMING
I died 😭
had me ROLLING
Dear black families your daughters are not maids stop using “culture” as an excuse. Thank you
Then Sis be like : do you know how much i did as a child at your age smh
Being forced to clean table while your brothers walk away to play video games or do other things lol the audacity
wordddd
K-POP trash Isife PERIODT!! 💯
Yoon Dropz I wish I could like this reply more, just for how true it is
African aunties would DRAG me for wearing my natural AFRO when they can’t even properly put their spider looking like wigs right I-
😂😂😂
THIS COMMENT!!!!!!!
Using lip liner as an eyebrow pencil and then drawing your eyebrows to Tokyo
And that’s on what.....? On period!!
OHHHH MYYYY GOSHHH YESSSS
African aunties - the original pick me girls. Their toxicity also ruins some of their daughters and they don’t know this. Shame on them.
Milly Okakpu true
If this ain’t the truthhhh
This is the truth and my mum is def one of them, I’m just glad it didn’t go through me
One aunty asked me if someone practiced make-up on my face but she has a beard
zimzia This one took me OUT 😭😭😭😭😭
I CANT BREATHE😭😭😭😭💀
it’s like they don’t even see themselves
Omg 😂 Zimzia give me your phone nowwwww😂😂😂🤭
Screamingggg💀💀💀
Aunties loveee to talk about how dark your skin is as if we didn’t know that they bleach every inch of their bodies
its athi yes!!!!!
😂😂😂 Let it be dark! My body matches your knuckles... The end!
Exactly! A least my skintone doesn't look like I'm celebrating pride everyday .....
@@annalovelove3269 ?
Wow u serious? Thats mad man damn.
Nella: “do you wanna lose weight together, be gym partners”
Me: ffs 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
'You have 6 kids' 😂😂😂
'You're not even allowed in the UK' 💀💀💀
These types of aunties are the ones that think their kids are well behaved when their son is on snap with no bitmoji asking girls for nudes💀😭
😂😂😂
Honestlyyyyyyy
as in😭😭😭
No bitmoji 😭😭😭
TRUST ME
Those african aunts that shame divorce so much , whilst knowing they are wife no.3 😔✋🏽
Chile- 😶
The Mali ones are the ones who do this the most, I feel like.
Somali aunties can relate-🥴
“You had a whole baby and its been 18 tears you haven’t lost weight” i screamedd😭😭😭💀💀
Annabell Frempong I can’t
When you get told constantly from a young age that if you don’t know how to cook and clean the house, you will never get a husband!! But your brother can sit in his room all day playing video games 😭😭
The truth...
My childhood af
I remember one time when I was younger my mom went somewhere and were home with my dad. My dad cooked for us and then he cleaned up afterwards, my mom came home with my aunt just as he was finishing up. My aunt said that it was really embarrassing and shameful that my dad was doing all the house work and that were just sat there and ate. Wait it’s shameful for a man to feed his kids? Plus we were at the time between the ages of 5-13.
I told my auntie at least i can make pilau or jollof rice better.All my cousins said my jollof and pilau rice is better.
But he can’t even make rice and stew to save his life but I must be able to cook food and clean the whole house in one hour. What equal opportunities😒
I was going through depression stopped school. One auntie (not even family related ) came to my house talking to me about school and everything. Giving unwanted advice and everything. She told me to go do nursing, i said no . I want to go to the university. She literally look at me in the face in my fathers house, infront of my mother. This woman told me i will not make it in the university, that I will not succeed. Today am going to the third year (passed 90% of my courses at first sit ). I forgave her cause I realized it was her insecurities. She was putting me down to make her daughter look good. But God works in miracles. Any young girl dealing with Toxic aunties or Uncles , never take their words personal. Its not about YOU, its about them. They failed in their lives, they have broken dreams. So they look for vulnerable people to pourer their frustration on . Stay positive guys remember its not about You
Third year with passed!! Yessirr👏🏽🎉
Periodt sis
When the judgy ones are the non related aunts/uncles or aunts/uncles that aren’t even tight with you like that 🙄🙄
I can low-key relate to this one. It's sad.
i love this. congratulations! 💕
It’s alwaysssss the most chatty aunties who’s husbands are preying on young girls on the streets😭 they love to say “you’ll never get a husband” babeeeee YOUR husband moved to ME at 14!!!!!!
VENNi I felt thissss to a whole new level 😩😩✨
And when you hit them with all these facts about being sexist and judgemental they'll come up with the "when I was younger I could never talk to my elders like that I would've gotten slapped" 🙄🤣
I hate this. You can't tell them the truth, talk back or criticise them in any sort of way because of 'culture' and 'respect'. I bet they hated being treated like that back in the day, but they grow up convincing themselves its the only way to treat others.
"Oya take your nonsense back down your throat " I'm done when they say stuff like that. I just walk off
@@potatopotatoeOG Same. I used to argue but I stopped wasting my energy and leave the conversation.
@@Cindy99765 🤦🏾♀️ we shall prevail 👋🏾
elle19ism Exactly even when I try to explain respectfully. They say I’m being disrespectful and want to take me to church
Can we address the African uncle’s too because boy they are loud as well
Chiamaka Sweet nah African uncles are nice 😂😂 maybe only my country’s 🤷🏾♀️
And waaaayyy too "friendly"!
Mogali Masuku oh my lord...the perverted African uncles needs to gooooo!!!!
Oml ikrrr! Way too friendly
Exactly and can they stop debating in every time in African parties they’ll literary debate in anything cat vs dog which one is better
The way adeola comes thruuuuu with the shade without raising her voice in that cold tone 😭😭😭. IT HURTS 🤣🤣🤣
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‘African aunties don’t believe in creative arts.’ I FELT THAT. It’s so trueeee
Mate. I'm literally studying a medical degree and it still doesnt feel like my mom is satisfied with me. I want to explore my creative side and maybe start a youtube channel but i know shes gonna be so against it like 💔
Just do the yt ting on the side Cuh u never know where it can end up
Shak Tumba I agree with this 1000%
@@kamomandy25 Do you sis, you don't have to tell her about your channel
@@kamomandy25 my please go with your dreams and don't let anyone say otherwise.
I remember when this auntie was shouting at me about being on my phone too much but her son has been to prison twice...i rest my case.
Instead of her to take the log out of her eyes ,she is looking for dust in yours. Nonsense.
Fam african aunties will have their sons abuse them and financially drain them, but let their daughters stand up for themselves and live a life that diverge's from their own, all of a sudden their disobedient and hard headed. It's madness
YEEEEES!
Double standard
it’s because the daughters are forever Handmaid scapegoats (Doctor Ramani) and their sons are useless spoiled golden children who become narcissists or son husbands
When Adeola was like "your not even allowed in the U.K." although I haven't got any African aunties around I still said "Raaaaa you can't say that" 💀💀💀💀💀 I'm dead you three are too much o
Fell off my chair when she said that
I looked behind me to make sure there was no aunty's before I started laughing!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
"African aunties don't belive in creative arts" that hit me deep. I had a massive problem when I told my family that I want to study fashion design. but I wouldn't let their comments bring me down. those that have interest in arts please please do not let them take it away from you
Pana_ xopx_ I hope you are doing well in fashion design your gonna make it beauty 💜
I am with you on this.
did you end up studying it? what were there reactions like
@@user-jp6pb8wn6c God bless, thank you so much.
@@moiethereal9634 yes i just applied and i got in been studying it for 2years and once my skills had improved they wanted me to sew stuff for them. dont get me wrong i still get a lot of negativity about it but i ignored it. Like they say if you dont believe in yourself, who will?. Just stay true to you and work your hardest anything can be yours.
Will never understand why African aunties will be pressuring other women to get married or to learn how to cook for a man and do everything for a man when they’ve done everything and more and their marriage still hasn’t worked out . They know their husband is cheating on them yet have the cheek to say to when will you marry 🥴🥴
Hans ‘ PREACH !!
Hans ‘ it’s like they want others to join the suffering instead of advising younger women to watch out for toxicity
@Deborah Oshoteku i swear its like they be training you to be a housewife and serve a man your whole life but a boy the same age as you can just live life to the fullest with no education. if theyre gonna 'train' girls for the future role then they need to do the same for boys.
Preach!!!
I low key think it's because they just want young women to grow up and be as miserable in their marriages as they are. Misery loves company lol.
I had an aunty say to me that no man will ever want to be with me because of how skinny I was. I was 14!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Remi Branco what?! Nawa Oh
Chai what wickedness.
African aunties always want to sexualise underage girls, with them they make it an issue whether you’re skinny or thick. As if we can control our bodies, I’ve always been skinny but had some bum and some aunties would smack my bum and make comments “ahh, you’re now becoming a woman!” which made me extremely uncomfortable because from a young age I’ve always hated physical touch and I have anxiety.
Ooooh No that is very mean😯😯
“When will your life start ?” ADEOLA SNAPPED I am beyond weak 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
The skin issue; I RELATE!!! I’ll never forget when an auntie asked what was wrong with my skin in front of everyone and asked if I take care of it. The same auntie that said I should’ve never cut my hair and dyed it because I looked like a boy to her....I was rocking that cut, people loved my cut, and sis was mad because her edges had disintegrated four inches back 🤷🏾♀️😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Make it five inches😂😂😂
disintegrated🤣🤣😭😭
💀💀😂😂these stories have me dead
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One aunty was always on my case, acting like she was my mum, years later I found out that she had wanted to marry my dad before my mum swooped in..
Rhoda Donald ahah wooow
that should be a nollywood movie 😂😂
B6 right it’s crazy😂😂
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@@user-ud2xm3bn9q 😂😂😂
The toxicity stops with us. Don't turn into these types of African aunties for future generations.
Yes it does. I am an auntie to my 4 nieces and nephew who are in there 20s .giving them a lot of encouragement and according to people who know us, I spoil them alot. I am also an auntie to the young generation loves to look up and hang with, because I had been your ages too. I refuse to be the bullying and intimidating type.I had toxic aunties before, with one of them in my presence telling my mum not to allow me to return to the UK, when all her children are living in the UK and USA!!! 8 years later I arrived in London. Also grandmas suppose to be the sweet ones, but there are some toxic ones too! I had no choice but put them in their place, don't get me wrong. Any older ones who think they are entitled to cross paths anyhow with the younger because it is culture, respect goes out the window and doors. Period!
“You’re not even allowed in the UK” 😭😭😭😭😭😭
“Your husband is outside of the betting shop moving to me” 😂😭
the worst things is when they're like ''ohh you are getting bigger'' ''i saw you at the shopping centre last week why didn't you greet me''
Elizabeth Jackson 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Because we don’t want to see you
as if we went to the shopping centre to look for you oooo
Why didn’t YOU greet ME. My aunt went to my house and said she has a bigger claim over my father’s property than all of his children and that we will never be better than her so can you please help me pray against her
Very common
I hate them! Being a pastors daughter makes it so much worse, they all have something to say. They need to focus on their marriage, children and their own body !
Deborah Zonzolo I felt this so much !!!!!!!!! Being a pastors daughter makes it so much worse like it’s like they are always watching you and waiting for you to mess up and comment on it
comfort asaju Honestly!!
Same ! Deborah are you Congolese by chance
S L yeahhh I am
Deborah Zonzolo I felt this in my spirit 😭
Annie: *Disclaimer* Not all African Aunty’s are haters, some -
Nella: NAH, ALL OF THEM 😐
Nella has really been through it 🤣🤣🤣💕
SIS WAS TRIGGERED!!!!!!
One time I wore a salmon dress that had a skater skirt to church and an auntie came to me and told to never wear that dress again to church and to cover my legs. I was 12.
Felttt, I went to my best friend’s jehovas witness church, and because I had stayed over at hers, I only had a tank top and little skirt. I got weird looks and remarks, meanwhile I was barely 10
@doesn't matter That is the right word. They see you as competition, hence why they envy your freedom, so they want you to suffer.
Um. Not to be " that person " i think if you go to this kind of event, or religious places it's important to have decent clothes. Whatever the age, she might also have said that for your own good, who knows ?
They’ll have red eyebrows and silver lipstick but talk about your looks 🤣🤣🤣🤣
GIIIIRL 🙃💀 🤣
😂😂😂😂YOOO IM DYING
Silverrrrrrrrrr🤣
Wheww 🤣🤣
Yoh this has me dying🤣🤣🤣 the accuracy in this
It’s the aunties whose eyebrows end at the ear, who will tell you “your makeup is too much”
Yet they also don't have hairlines
On god 😂😂😂😂😂
Kaway Joof *MAKUPSSSS
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I’ve got long natural hair and aunties used to come for me when I dyed it or tried new styles, making comments about how I looked but how are you gonna come for me and say I’m ruining my hair when your edges start behind your ears??🤔🤔
„Start behind your ears“ I’m dead af 💀😭🤣
That’s my mum lool
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HOMAGAWD.... 🤣🤣🤣🤣💀
HOMAGAWD.... 🤣🤣🤣🤣💀
“ARE YOU EVEN ALLOWED IN THE UK. “ IM ONLY 4 MINUTES IN GUS 💀💀💀😂
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Killed me right off that comment 😂😂😂😂😢😭😂😂😂😂😂😂
One auntie that’s wasn’t even my blood auntie use to always always have something to say to my mum about my life and some other people’s kids too after years she stopped coming to church she wasn’t at any gathering. Only to find out her teenage daughter had triplets. That’s why she’s now disappeared from Earth or maybe the shame killed her
Miss Gifty “maybe the shame killed her”😂😂😂yooooo I’m dying
Miss Gifty poor daughter 😭😭
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Loool this killed me triplets yuno😩🤣🤣🤣 my cousin does the EXACT same thing always something to say, she never says anything to me it’s always behind my back 🙄
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Do you know what my auntie said to me. When I was growing up I was at 14 maybe younger and obviously my body is growing whatever whatever cool. She said to me ‘ha where are your breasts?’ Every since then I was insecure about them. No I’m 21 and I’m a double D and when we have weddings and we’re all dressed up so she looks at me and kisses her teeth then says’ always got them elephants breasts out’
Wow, I stg with african aunties, you can never win
@@ugonnaobu4621 exactly!!
The way you tell the story is HILARIOUS!!
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Just tell her hers are swinging low no chariot and watch her shut up. Being disrespectful is the way to go, bless up queen 👏🏽👏🏽
she’s got nothing but audacity at that point 🙄
funny how just last week my mom was dragging me out of bed to go and learn how to cook stew LATE at night. I asked her why I (the only girl in the family) needs to learn how to cook instead of my two brothers and she said they’ll have their turns soon..... mhmm when???? because we are moving to almost one month later now. like damn, I didn’t know cooking was only a skill for women to learn. and then when you try to argue with them they pull out the “so you’re not going to cook for your husband and children?”
This has always irked me!! So much inequality.. why must I do everything and my brother who has arms and legs sits around and barely lifts a finger?? Like it baffles me and always with this husband nonsense 😑
rose marie at 10 i was get told if u don’t know how to cook who’s going to marry u
Hmm cooking LATE at night is my mum’s FAVORITE
rose marie this actually pisses me off , the way boys are let off so easily , when they should be learning to cook too .
This makes my blood boil. The way my brother has not lifted a finger to clean the house in the 29 years of his life. Meanwhile me and my sisters are Cinderella
✋African moms: when I was ur age I was the top of my class I was teaching the teachers.
Me: then why are you jobless at home with me ur daughter as ur maid.
We move.
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😂😂😂 I can't deal!
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lol
What a wow😭
Annie : "I'm not a big a fan of like , pushing marriage on me when yours did not work out"
Me : "Pausing the video"
Also me : clapping ... alone ... in my room "AMEN"
Missymea omg yes and it is always the African aunties who husbands only married them for papers and sleeping around with every lady in the village, who want to give marriage advice to other people's daughters.
"Does your common sense kick in after 2minutes or 3??"
I'm crine😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
There is no such thing as mental health in an African parents world 😂
Not at all ,they will think you are possessed
@@emmagyan Wallahi. I agree wit this. I said i was stressed abou gcses. Guess what they do??? Bring a shiekh over to get rid of satan in me
@@frxg5637 😭😭
Possession. Demons. Witches and djinns smh 🤦🏽♀️
Adeola’s words hurt me and they’re not even for me 😂😂😂😂
Agree with this 100%
"African Aunties" cultural ideologies cause them to behave in this way... Their mothers, grandmothers and aunties treated them this way and instead of changing the cycle they are the definition of the saying 'hurt people hurt people. Us millennial have been raised in the UK and have adopted cultural aspects of British life which differ greatly from our African elders, therefore it's far more easier to break the cycle...
K-Y K-Y so they basically have ptsd
So true
thankfully, even those of us outside of the UK have also started rejecting this BS in Africa itself
LMFAO “someone’s doing witchcraft on my child” I FELT THAT DEEP IN MY SOUL
Sameee
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the similarity between African and Middle Eastern Aunties has me shaking. I ain’t African but I felt every word y’all made.
Aunties worldwide seem to be moving mad yanno
It's different trust me
Omg I said the same thing😂😂 middle eastern aunties are toxic af. The culture in general is toxic af!!!
We legit living the same lives 😭😭😭
Omg same
"you're not even allowed in the UK" 😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭 The reactions of nella and Drea omg 😂😂💀
I've had aunties that aint even blood report my where about. literally call my parents to say " I saw your daughter today at this time doing this and that" like mind your life please. You don't even know where your own kids are😒
I thought I was the only one that said that when I was your age.
This females are vexed and i can relate. One time i was off on summer break travelling and touring Europe then this aunty from hell called my mum and told her she saw me with 5 boys not 1 not bloody 2 but 5 boys in the park and we were about to do it cuz the way they were touching me and all that lol my mum told her i have been touring around travelling and stuff for the past month so how could that be and aunty hung up the phone. I called her and gave her the piece of my mind. Aunty came to church on a Sunday when i had come back from my touring and was ready to fight. U know me i had to beat her ooo. #SorryNotSorry And since then, she never spoke to me or of me ever again. Dear people, sometimes it is good to show this aunties small pepper of what u are made of. I told her all her life histories to her face. I can't be bothered. All this aunties yeah, die by fire!!! Holy Ghoooosssstttt Firrreeeeeee 🔥
Valerie Thompson Damn!! Not even surprised though, it’s just how they be moving sometimes. Same thing happened to me once, she told my mom I was out with a “group” doing drugs?? I was at tutoring. My mom came home started interrogating telling me I’m lying. The next day she comes to me smiling saying the lady call saying i forgot my textbook at tutoring and oh so you were at tutoring laughing. Soo are we not going to talk about what just happened? Your not going to apologize or anything like that? These women are just bored with their lives.
Night Longg that's their frustration feeding on them. Bloody bastards
Similar thing happened to me with my neighbor who is one of the most miserable aunties I've event met. Glad you have her a piece of your mind smh.
Kat Huda beauty Dusk till Dawn 🎨 with a lil bit of glossy red lipstick 💄
Wait and see when she tries to do juju on you those evil aunties (my name is Shanice btw.Uncles account)
You know when you're growing bress at a young age and they're that weird triangle shape? Well when my boobs were first growing, one of the aunties in my church pinched my breast saying "what are these?" Lol it still traumatises me till this day😭
mount horeb I’m sorry what 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Pardon? 🤣 how can she pinch your breast and ask that dumb question 😪🤣🤣
Ahhh this happens to meee
You just brought out a repressed memory 💀 This happen to me in church toooo but it was a Caribbean Auntie
mount horeb that’s sexual harassment
In all seriousness tho, I'm Caribbean and my experience with African aunties has caused me to not go church anymore. 6 yrs going to that church, they would treat my family like 'other'. Gossip about me for no reason whatsoever. Was sexually harassed in the church and held it in for 2yrs, caused alot of depression and when it got out he's the victim 🙃. Knowing I wasn't the first and him getting praised by his mum aunties and sister and they never let me make a statement and I will forever be a topic of conversation and had to cut off everyone i knew.
I will never understand how they are the loudest to shout "Ameeennn!!" but do the most sin after service is over and the cameras are off 🤷🏽♀️
I hate ppl like that at church sorry you had to go through that babes
That is so bad but I will report him to the police if it is possible and don't ever go to their churches again and bear in mind that the majority of them hate the Caribbean people.
@@rtsoca5560 Im African and I don’t hate Caribbean people I actually really like them and our culture and theirs are similar in some ways 😁also I have never met an African person who hates Caribbean people ,as for the the African aunties they hate on every child regardless of how they look or act😤 those aunties all ways have something negative to say, the best you can do is ignore them and don’t let them get to you 🤗 God bless you. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
One African uncle asked me why I was late to church by 10mins. I turned around and said your son rolls in half way through the message. Let's just say he never spoke to me about this again.
Lois Adeyinka lol I’m dying 💀💀
Lois Adeyinka 😹😹🙈🙈
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 it be the uncles too kmt to fass
Lois Adeyinka 😂😂😂💀
This church aunty once called my mom, to tell her she drove past and I was outside playing soccer with a TANK TOP. Its Atlanta summer so it's HOTTTT!! Meanwhile her sons were disrespectful, on drugs, sneaking to get tattoos, and got arrested all in the same summer. Madam get your priorities in order.
My aunties are all Jamaicans so I’m just sitting here catching all this tea likeee 👀☕️ damn y’all have it hard
Sameee 😂😂😂😂🤣
im half jamaican half nigerian so i have the best of both 😂
Shorty X ooo what are Jamaican aunties like?
Victoria Owoyinfa I can only speak on my personal experiences which are that Jamaican aunties are fun and down to earth. They do not display envy towards the younger generation. If their kids are “bad” they are not ashamed of them per say they just “cuss” them down to family members. If their child is successful they don’t really boast (you won’t know you have a cousin that’s a doctor unless you bump into them at a family event or something and it’s brought up) but it’s not something the whole entire family will just know about. They do not look down on other people’s kids they actually look down on people who “chat” peoples kids. They do not knowingly put up with cheating men, they are feisty and wear the trousers in their relationships (most not all). They do not think depression is “witchcraft” they are easy to talk to. The most you might get is a auntie who doesn’t think before she speaks and makes comments that offend but there is only one of two of those in my family and even those aunts are still fun and down to earth they just have foot in mouth syndrome. Overall they do not oppress us nowhere near as much as it seams African aunties oppress.
@@shortyx8947 one of my jamaican aunt is a litteral demon!! the other one is basically like whay you said
I remember when one Aunty tried to tell my mum she saw me outside misbehaving with my friends. Loooool jokes on her because i was home that day with period pains and my mum told her that and she was trying to tell my mum, who is looking at me at home that no she is seeing her daughter outside rn???
I had a mate hang out with 2 girl friends and 3 male friends, an aunty saw her and told her mum she was the only girl with 11 boys 💀💀💀💀💀💀
jesus!!! she's obviously a witch trying to cause calamity
And she will turn around and say I'm looking out for you kmt
That’s witch tendencies
i’m actually so glad we’re moving past from this toxic culture and becoming more open minded
I remember when my auntie sat me down to talk about the way I dress (I like baggy clothes and it was winter that time anyway). She was telling me I should dress to show my feminine features and change my hairstyles and use a cream to even out my skintone (I'm a dark skin girl). Her saying all of that made me feel like shit and just distance myself from her. I still wear baggy clothes, I'm the same skin tone, I like my hairstyles and that's on that! I know I'm a African goddess, she's just jealous cuz she bleaches and still can't get her desired skin tone.
Zarah K wowwww that’s mad 🥵😳
*PERIODT* ‼️‼️‼️‼️
wait...so basically she told you to bleach your skinnn????
What country is she from? I hope it's not mine 😩🤞🏿
YESS GIRLLL 🥰🥰
Do you boo!!
I just love the fact that our generation knows this and we’re breaking the generational curses, I feel like we will be better parents 😊
Can’t say the same for those young boys out there…
When I turned 18, and went to Church an aunty came up to me and said "Finally you have to start dressing as a girl, you cant be a boy anymore".
WTF...
@Regina Falangey I know smh, I told my mum she said it was a joke and I was overacting typical Nigerian antics...
Girl that was literally what my mum said to me, that it was only a 'joke', a joke that battered my self confidence and perception lol.
“You just wanna grab the belt bc you had a bad day at work, stop lying”🤣🤣🤣
Sissssss I’m dark skin and my sisters light skin and they would say, if only you were light and pretty like your sister :/
Jemima IG I'm brownskin and I experience this as well! I'm always getting compared to women lighter than me and it's really just awful. Many African aunties perpetuate colorism and sometimes even tribalism without thinking about how their words affect others.
girl your dark skin is beautiful don't let anyone tell you otherwise
The audacity...
damnnnnn
That is absolutely horrible
This video is so true, they can be so bitter some of them....I had an African UNCLE behave the same way...he wasn't even my uncle he was a Nigerian security guard at my work. Would tell me colleague and me that we need to go jogging, we should stop eating snacks st work, stop drinking juice cause of the sugar etc....but this man will be the same one to tell me he "wants me and likes my body", constantly asking me out for dates saying he likes me "just the way I am", giving me lingerie brochures for WHAT?!?!?! Mind your business uncle🙄🙄🙄💭💭💭💭
Elle Angeles oh lord...the perverted African uncles is no small thing oo
@@nehwonmantor7266 indeed😫🤦🏽♀️
Pervert!!!
I literally told my mum I was having a tough time just in general and she said to me there's no need to be sad children are starving in africa
Nana GYamfi people are suffering all around the world but that doesn’t reduce how you feel ! Maybe everyone won’t support that but it’s important that you care for yourself and your feelings feel what you need to feel despite what anyone thinks!! Although sometimes we need love and acceptance from specific people like our parents sometimes we don’t get that, but God puts people in our lives to help us to grow and survive. Stay up ✨🙌🏾
Fax tho
“You’re big mummy number 10” adeolaa 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣
“Big mommy number 10 😂😂” , “when will you’re life start “😂😂😂😂😂.
Lool one of these devil aunties said that MY BODY LOOKS LIKE A WINDOW BECAUSE IM WIDE AND HAVE NO CURVES.
Babes, how many liposuction surgeries have done and you're still the same?!
Katiann Rocha they’ll be the same ones secretly begging family members for money to pay off the debt of their surgeries🥴🥴
not a window😭😭😭
"body looks like a window" why is that me 😭
Window 😭😭😭😭
Waauw what an insult!!😮that Aunty’s is sharp!!
When African aunties call u to bring them something they need when their own kids are at home relaxing
Kay D and because you are a girl ugh while their grown ass son is in his room playing psp4
This is truly about our African parents, uncles, aunties, friends, neighbors, cousins, pastors, imams, grandparents, church/mosque members and even complete strangers feel they can control and speak negatively. It's like we suffer from communal narcissism.
Auntie: “Aren’t you worried about your weight?”
Me: “um no....”
Auntie: “well you should be.”
I’ve known aunties were evil ever since.
yoooo my aunt said the exact same to me 😭
not to mention she said all i do is eat & finish all the food in her house
Avu K it’s okay my sista!! We survived 😂😂😂
Nobody:
African Aunties: You need to focus on school and not your looks
And yet they come to funerals with their bushy wig and big sunglasses as if they are going to a party 😂😂😂
@@veramensah3149 wow, that's so true
@@veramensah3149🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hear me out...
personality wise
Nella=Bubbles
Annie Drea=Blossom
Adeola=Buttercup
change my mind.
I'd swap Nella and Annie Drea
I paused the vid when she said "you’re not even allowed in the U.K." 🤣🤣🤣🤣
i related to the creative arts thing so much man, like i wanna do fashion marketing but my parents are not willing to pay thousands for me to be 'handling fashion'. My dad is stuck in his view of economics and finance being the ONLY thing that can bring you money. and whenever I'm at church or at a family event, i just say 'marketing' to spare the mockery,bitter glances, confusion. though our culture has so many colourful and beautiful things, situations/attitudes like this strip dreams away and sadden me so deeply.
ME TOO I want to go to fashion school for fashion mangment and my parents are literally soo ashamed of me liking that and the won’t even let express how I like it and they say bad people are in that industry and they won’t let me move out for it 😭
@@aestheticd6864 my dear run with your dreams and don't let anyone even your parents decide otherwise. When I was young my brother and I love arts. They attacked us mentally and physically. At the end of the day as I am posting I am into arts and crafts now after being motivated by fellow artists and fashion designers. Do you know how many artists and fashion designers are millionaires and billionaires. I go to libraries and going on the Internet social media as well as watching RUclips tutorials. My brother is on digital arts and posting them online.
Y'all are going to be in WhatsApp group chat😂😂
I just sent this to my cousins looooolz
This video was SO VIOLENT!!!! LMAOOOOO African Aunties are shaking everywhere
I can relate with everything, for real, Congolese, Nigerian, Ghanaian all the sameeee
I’m Ghanaian as well and this video reassured me that I wasn’t alone
Add Kenyan sis 👋🏾
Add Uganda
And Angolans
To be honest, I'm an Aunty but I would never EVER say this to any young lady/ woman my role is to uplift, support, coach and love you unconditionally. These Aunties that have been described have got me traumatised!!
They are something else💀💀💀💀💀💀💀☠️☠️☠️
I'm called 'Aunty' so guess I am, but I'm mindful not to repeat horrible things said/done to me in the name of culture. Not all of us get older to be like this. I think about what it was like to be young and I'm the one who challenges others the same way. If you don't listen then we can't be friends.
The way African aunties used to come at me for my skin, my weight and when my body was developing lol allata ppl would be scared here
For there are many things that have been said to me since im skinny black girl but at this point, im used to it. i know it sound bad but thats honestly the truth. But, what REALLY pissed me off was when they starting attacking my sweet, sweet brother saying he looks like a homeless, gay, mad-man for braiding his hair like lil yatchty, and it was black, had no beads and was really simple.This guy mind his own business has no problems with anybody and the moment you call for help, no matter who, what, when, where, why or how, he will be there.and GUESS WHAT??? he took it out the moment he came home and was so sad and embarrassed he didnt want to speak about it saying "nothing don't worry about it" looking and sounding all depresses.😡💨💨💨🙄
I hope he's okay.
One of my Aunt's sons literally got blackout drunk at a family event and did not face any repercussions. But then when I decided to wear a semi tight but long dress to my OWN FATHERS funeral I was told to change because the men would be looking at me.
Wowww so sorry you went through that... Sorry for your loss. How are you feeling now?
@@serinat2181 in terms of my aunties I can't really do anything because I am only 15. Since I can't do anything drastic I have just learnt to just try be a fly on the wall and just wear what they want me to wear when they are around.
Ghetto Fabulous Aka Thembi that’s dumb still i can’t lie
@@thembi5147 what about your loss?
@@unlockedaccount ?🤡
Adeola dropped the bomb and looked like “what am I wrong?” 😂. I remember when one Aunty (not related) said to me: Esther you’re getting bigger ooo. I was so pissed that I wanted to say; Aunty, it’s because I’m trying to look like you. 😆 I had to be “respectful”.
African aunties and parenta just tolerate each other regarding their spouses, they dont really love each other, its becos divorce is just frowned upon there.
Yes
Nella has definitely been victimised by an African auntie 😂😂
My girls coming through with the content I didn’t even know I needed 😩😩 Nella’s energy throughout this video is MEEEEEE towards the African Aunty population right now 😭 love you guys x
When I started my natural hair journey my aunts told me " its cute, but all your hair will fallout and you look better with straight hair." 3 years later they're asking me what products I use because its long and is healthy....sis...really?
Saw my auntie for the first time in a while and she told me I had put on weight. 2 months later I saw her again and she told me I had lost too much weight... I was the same weight.
It's like they HAVE to say something!This is so underrated🤣🤣🤣
Guuuuuuurrrlll!!!! I went to a house gathering once and some auntie I met for the first time told me I need to lose weight cause I don't look like her centipede twig looking twin daughters. She had the audacity to tell me I should only eat lettuce that evening. THIS WAS THE FIRST TIME WE METTTT!!! AND SHE WAS SIMPLY A FAMILY FRIEND!!!
🤣 not centipede twig looking 😭
😭😭😭 not centipede twig!!!
The Two Words banned from African Households= “But Why”😡
It's the "Why are you talking back??" after that gets to me
Nella is big MAD lmaooo 🤣🤣 and adeola “when will your life start” I love this. Trio lool
My relatable Toxic Aunty Story: I was getting my hair done by my mums friend when she asked for to finish the ends of my braids. Mind you I was only 9 and i didnt know how to braid hair yet and she ridiculed me for it. EXCUSE ME, idk how to do my hair at 9 and ik you don't want me to fuck it up so MOVE ON 😭. She actually made me feel so bad back then. Love the videos guys 💗💗
"You look worse than me, you had six kids"
😂😂😂😂
Say like you are sitting next to a boy and youre talking and vibing cos you're friends and then an aunty will see and go gossip to all the other aunties and be like oh look at her she's with a boy oh all she knows is boys, like say you can't be friends with the opposite gender like it's illegal but then will come to you and be like why are you not married yet, why don't you have a husband.
this is life I would get in trouble walking home from school and groups of boys would walk passed me they just swear I was out there like no I don't know them. After that I told my dad all my guy friends are gay.
Felt this one differentlyyyy😭
Typical
NOT BIG MUMMY NUMBER 10! I collapsed!!!