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So you’ve finally figured out that your lives are superficial. This is why they invented religions - to give people a sense of purpose, a manufactured one of course, and to control them. Then philosophy came along, but most people were incapable of grasping the many varied philosophies. There were wars and other major events which affected humanity, but eventually they invented governments and the individual revolution - which gave us all the things we have today which have helped convince us that we are no longer slaves. You two have managed to escape the traditional cages of modern workplaces for three years. You’ve done well. Your viewer numbers aren’t spectacular, so I’m guessing money is becoming an issue. But in reality what you’ve done is travel for the purpose of consuming experiences, and videoed yourselves doing it - essentially an extended gap year, recorded for the vicarious pleasure of your less adventurous social media followers. There was apparently little or no more purpose than that. So, the questions are: What have you learned? What have you achieved? How have you developed as human beings? And if you like beaches and sun, is Ireland the right place for you either? Oh, and renting land is expensive and precious. Good luck with your future decisions. Peace
Feeling unsure is ok. Feeling lost is ok. Taking a break is more than ok. Breathe, smile, find something to enjoy about the journey, all will come clear in good time. You guys are great, and don’t forget it.
Very well done Isabel. Fantastic solo Vlog.👏👏(with cameo appearances😊) That's been one of, if not thee most honest van life Vlogs I've watched.! After 2 to 3 years living in La Bamba on the road to wherever, can only imagine how life changing it's been for you both, while you've both been enthralling us viewers on a tight schedule of videos. Am delighted you've both decided to put yourselves in a comfortable setting (home) as you both decide the road from here on in.. You might feel a little Lost In Transit Isabel, but there's 53k of us avid viewers supporting each and every thing you both do..! Psst.. Happy Birthday Tom.. 🚐👏👏☘
You guys follow your hearts and do what you feel is best. Just because you have a travel YT channel doesn't mean it can't be changed into a green living or land development YT channel. It's probably a good thing to have different niches to branch into so that you attract a different audience. The point I'm trying to make is, do what you want and your audience will follow. The channel doesn't have to be about your adventures. People follow your channel because of who you are. When you embrace that concept, you will have the abundance you are looking for 😉
Good move. Enjoy the break for however long it lasts. It's wonderful creative work you've done and an absolute pleasure to view. If you never come back to this style of video-blogging you have an absolute treasure chest to share with your family in times to come. Good luck in your lives.
The number of positive comments says a lot. It shows how much you are both appreciated and valued. Nothing but best wishes to you both, and a big thank you. ❤ 3:493:54
A bit of a hectic vlog guys, I truly hope your both ok and it's not the end of the channel or your relationship. You have to take time out for both of you, to look after each other and grow stronger together and this idea of living in ireland and having the group friends thing is all great, but friends come and go families agree and disagree Both of you together standing strong for each other throw everything you have been through that's the important thing and what you both have and we all can see is something special. Take care guys n hope to see you soon.
I can't think of anything wise to say because that's not really my 'brand' but when I feel under-powered, overwhelmed or unsure where my compass points are I also choose to go back to a safe space like an old house, or town, or my old school or something like that. Helps me remember how far I travelled, how close home always was, and soon enough I also remember why I wanted to leave so desperately in the first place. I clicked the thumbs up button and hope to hear from you guys at some point in the future. Good luck with everything.
We are all a little lost at times but everything will work out in the end. Just know you both brought so much joy and adventures to us. Have a well deserved rest
You guys are an inspiration. I know what its like to go through what you're experiencing...... We sold up and left the UK in 2002 with 2 kids in a camper, and you get those days when you can't find the compass...... I just found your story tonight and it brought back so many happy memories..... Follow your hearts and do what feels right.....Big hugs
My sons are your age. I have lived, worked and flown helicopters all over the world from Canada,Iran and sunny Liskeard. I am Cornish,my wife is Cornish and even though my kids were born in Dubai they were brought up in Cornwall from an early age. After years of travelling and discovering many interesting countries and cultures, I have come to the conclusion that Cornwall with its moors,beaches,cliffs and open spaces is the best place on the planet.
Hey guys, obviously lots of seismic feelings atm. Wishing you all the best while you think about that, but just to say please remember the fantastic places you've been and wonderful videos you've made and shared with us. Hope you are proud of that - you should be. Best, Anthony
Tom and Izzy - you have brought so much joy to so many people sharing with us your special moments. We will never be able to thank you enough. Take your time over the next steps in life. It is not always obvious which door to choose but you both have amazing qualities that will serve you well. Be brave. Be true to yourselves. And we will see you when you are ready.
I think we all get to a point in life where we find ourselves evaluating where we want to go in life, and what new direction we would like to take. Hope you both enjoy some quality time at home . X
Hi you two, it's OK to be lost and unsure,it means you are in touch with your inner selves. Its good to have good friends, good family and good to be in sync with eachother. Much love from Ireland,enjoy the time out,live ,laugh and keep living eachother,everything will come clear when the time is right, ye are right to go forward with the decisions with yourselves, it has to be your decision solely. You two are a amazing couple, and thankyou, for bringing us on so many of your beautiful journeys. Much love to both of you.
Seems like all is not going well for both of you at the moment so hope you work it out. I am Irish and live here so would also find it difficult to live somewhere else as I love my country and it's people. Take time and do what is best for you both. The reason we are nice to you is very simple. Both of you are 2 great people and you do more to promote my country than our own Tourist Board does. So take care, chill out and maybe we will be lucky enough to bump into you over here soon and if so the Guinness is on us!
Isabel I could watch and listen to what you have to say for ages ,you are so honest , sincere and engaging , I hope everything works out for you both I'm sure it will....looking forward to seeing your next vlog x
Definitely a good plan to take time with family and friends to think and talk through your future plans. We've recently bought some off grid land, best tip I was given is to rent the place first and make sure it's for you before purchasing. Good luck with it all from sunny Cornwall.
We had the same types of feelings here in Australia as we also had our young daughter with us. We meet people, make friends and then move. Constantly! All the signs pointed back to our home in Townsville after 3 years away travelling and our daughter is back at her old school, with her old mates, and thriving. We are loving house life again for now but travel is always there.... the camper trailer is parked up and watching me as I type! Good luck guys, you'll make the best choices!
So sensible!!! Knowing when to press pause in life is the most important life lesson!!! There is so much ahead of you and hopefully you will feel like sharing it but if not everyone will wish you well and totally understand. Life is for living!! Take care xx
I’m glad you both had your beach break in Greece to reset & relax. Totally understand the need for some private time at this watershed moment in your life. Wishing you all the best Jackie x
We really enjoyed the video, the honesty and reality. Whatever you do, wherever you go, we wish you nothing but the most amazing life! You do YOU and tell us about it later, ignore any negativity and push on with life. Look forward to hearing about it when you're ready x
Really brilliant and honest vlog. Glad you're taking a break. Looking forward to all the news you will have to share when you are both ready. Take care.
Do more research before deciding on a more permanent base. I can understand your love for west Cork / Kerry but those costal locations are exposed to severe westerly weather just like Cornwall and winter can feel like 6 months. Good luck with your next adventure.
Ireland has a lot of positives. I fish there 2 to 3 times a year if possible, West Coast is stunning, but moving there would be a huge decision with implications in many areas of daily living and things like pensions, taxes, insurances and the health service. Make sure of the post Brexit legalities before you take the plunge. You both have had lots of experience of many places! I think you will have a deep sense of "rightness" about the place you finally choose, I believe fate and destiny come into that level of decision. You could possibly continue to run a blog about your experiences in Ireland and whatever you decide to do to generate income if you choose to stay there. I enjoyed watching your shared experiences and how you dealt with the toil and travail when those irritants surfaced. Good luck and good fortune to both of you in whatever your choice is!
The Common Travel Area between Ireland and the UK makes living in Ireland easy and free of Brexit. As a UK citizen you can move to and live in Ireland as an Irish citizen with a couple of exceptions. You have a vote at local and central parliament level. You cannot vote in EU elections, nor in Irish Presidential elections. The reason you can't vote for our President because we can't vote for your King. But then, neither can you😂
Totally normal to feel lost and unsure! You are trying to do the things you love, and making changes is hard! Do what feels good and if you have to think about it for a while, than so be it! Gonna miss your vlogs
Hey Tom & Iz. Goodness Iz, you are a natural presenter and not afraid to be upfront and even emotional. Have a safe journey home to Cornwall guys and I know with your zest and insatiable desire to get things done etc, that ye will sort out what need to obviously need to sort out now on ye’re return? I lived in Oz for 12 years and loved it there. I’m a naturalised Aussie now but have retained my Irish citizenship as well. One day, I awakened and thoughts of returning to Ireland came rushing into my head. I spoke to my wife and two daughters and though it took us all 2 years to eventually make our minds up, we returned to Ireland and love it here now. Life can tend to be a merry-go-round Tom & Iz and I can detect that your both caught-up in this merry-go-round whirlwind right now. Your race through Eastern Europe proves to me that ye both want to get home to family & friends and I for one can appreciate that longing. Life is far too short and on the road can be exhilarating but also lonely. I’ve been there so I know what you both are going through. If your proposed Irish odyssey comes to pass, it will be super and I wish u both the very best. I truly do. Slow down, deliberate, concentrate and take small steps. It will all sort out for you both. You too are just great and I truly wish u so much happiness and happiness in your future endeavours……. In Cork Ireland. We will welcome you both. 🇮🇪🙏🇮🇪
I wish you both all the best for the future ❤ thank you for letting us spend time with you guys! Life itself is an adventure, whether travelling in a van or not , each day has its own ups and downs, good luck whatever you decide 😊😘
Well done for this candid video. You are about to make a life changing decision, and you know it. The apprehension is tangible - and very understandable. Take your time to decide, and may your decision be one of head and heart and gut. Love and all the best
You are not lost guys, thousands of us are still here watching you, make your decision , you are certainly not alone, you will be welcome here in Cork if that's your decision.West Cork as you know is a lot like your home County and only a ferry ride away, grandparents from Cork ! your locals.
Hi izzy and Tom sinead my wife and I loved following your adventures in la bamba your great guys and we wish you both great inspiration in following your hearts to the next stage of your life path... much blessings and best wishes from N. IRELAND ❤
you are not alone many are feeling lost, confused and unsure on what next, including myself, just keep following your intuition and everything will work out fine, hugs 🤗
I've traveled on and off since 1986, and that lost feeling is quite common, living in the moment is an idea, however like you I do like some sort of plan to give me direction. You seem to have a plan with Ireland so no worries. I'm currently resident in Devon, but I'll be off on my travels in about 2 years for at least 5 years. Relax and enjoy yourselves and what life throws at you!
I know Izzy does editing and is real good , but i watch loads of van lifers you tubes & loads of other you tubers but i have to say Tom is streets ahead he is unreal 😍 thanks for the uploads & hope life brings you all you want/crave ☑️
You have to think about friends and you really miss then when you are travelling. You are young and you can go "on holiday" any time but you need to keep in with your friends. We lived full time as pensioners much easier than when you are young. So good luck I'm sure you are doing the right thing. Happy birthday Tom.
Take your time in making this decision - you’ve achieved so much to be proud of. I shall miss your vlogs but hope you feel the support of this community whilst you work out what’s next for You!
Great video Isabella. Nothing wrong doing short snippets of conversation... It seams natural and gave an insight on the general feelings you guys are going through. Hope you both take that time out from the camera.. Relax and enjoy the lovely weather next week in the UK and Ireland. 23'C min promised. Proinnsias n Cork 😊
A 'cri de couer' (and nothing wrong with that); everyone comes to a crossroads in their life at some point. Standing back and having a good think is the right course of action - all the best and don't stress out about it.
That was a tough one for you clearly bless you. Being “ lost “ is perfectly normal part of life. Take your time, you don’t have to explain yourselves to anyone than each other , just pause , breathe, think and be kind to each other 😉
It is 'lost' season! I have been in Peru for 6 weeks and now I'm in Costa Rica and I should be in heaven and I too just want to head 'home', but... I don't really have a home. I want to be excited but I feel an uneasiness about things. It will work out, and it will be perfect! Thanks for sharing your confusion. Lots of love to you both🥰 Happy Birthday Tom🎂
Hi, tuff decissions need time ;-)) Wish you the best. Enjoy your time in austria, be awere that this is a long holiday weekend, so there will be a lot of traffic from south to north on monday, lots of germans coming from italy or croatia on their way back....
A real soul searcher but so good to get things off your chest .Good to take break cabin fever can be a serious ailment. I hope it all works out for you and Tom happy birthday by the way
If something is meant for you, it will happen. Take plenty of time to see where you are going from here. What ever you both decide should not be influenced by people on here. Best of luck with it
Love your video's, take your time and decide what's best for both of ye.We all have times when we need a change of direction in our lives best of luck whatever ye decide.❤from 🇮🇪
Safe trip back to the motherland! Giza shout if you want any tips or owt on offgrid and growing food etc in remote and isolated places. All the best with the next part , keep at it and you’ll be grand.
Its a great idea sometimes to just step back, think, clear your head(s) and regroup. The only people you have to please in this life are yourselves, no-one else. Do whats right for you and you alone. We'll all be here ready and waiting to catch up with your newest adventure whatever that may be. Good luck!
I'm new to your channel, but I recognise the situation. You've hit a pivotal point in your lives, and these are always hard to handle, and they can feel overwhelming. I'm (vastly!) older than you, so I know that they tend to recur throughout our lives, challenging and reshaping us. Anyway, I love following your adventures, and I wish you well for the future, wherever it takes you.
Such a good vlog and so understandable that you need a break. We'll all miss you like mad but life-decisions have to made, and have to be made for yourselves not others. I wish you guys good fortune and I know you will both decide how you want to move forward. Take time, take care.
Are ye going to Albania, it's so feickin great, friendly, scenic and safe,wonderful people. I hitched all over the Balkans years ago and I'd go back tomorrow, you're in for a treat, love from Ireland 🍀💚🍀
A lot of VETS have been to thesloc, Mace , etc and we live the van life , Ireland as a Whole is beautiful, Northern Ireland is amazing especially on the coast
Great vlog. Thanks Izzy. Loving the morning ‘beauty’ routine! Big changes ahead for you both, & I guess much wisdom needed. You’re both such kind & sociable beings. The world needs folk like you! WE need folk like you! Find a way to ‘top up’ on energy levels (a bolt hole is important) but then please come back! Have you thought about working with children overseas? You’re gifted with young people. NGO work? Bless you both. Prayers as you take this next step.
Life is full of peaks and valleys so hang in there ❤ We missed seeing Tom! Wanted to let you both know you have brought so much joy to our family 💖We are also eating more of a plant based diet because of you. 😁 Sending love and positive energy to you both. Hugs from America 🤗
You two have every right to feel as you do. You have done, seen and experienced so much in your young lives. You should be so proud of yourselves, every ounce that we on here are of you. And thank you for sharing the good, the bad, the highs and the lows of not only van life but of life in general. No matter what you choose for your future together we will all be there in spirt to support, encourage and share with you. One And All. PS: Happy birthday Tom 🎉🚐 🎂 🍻
You are both lovely 🥰 Tom and Issy you need time to chill out and don’t beat yourselves up ❤ I send all my love to you for what it’s worth .Take good care of each other.God Bless.😇😇😇
Some life needs abit if space and quiet time.. home, family and friends are what you both need right now. Iz thank you for the heartfelt explanation too..you both deserve the opportunity and happiness you're both looking for and you will find it. Take good care both of you and I hope we see you back here soon. ❤
Love your honesty about van life take time out and chill ..please update us when you are ready feel like we know u guys so even if van life ends let's see cabin life lol
Take a nice long break in your home town, time with family and friends - you are both great, and you are great together. Yes, you need a base to hang out for a while...Good luck...
Well you’ve picked a good time to come back to Cornwall - it’s gorgeous at the moment. I guess you can always head back to Aldi Car Park in Bodmin if you are missing it!😂
My wife and I travelled for several years after she left Uni. I worked in Thailand as a diving instructor which was very lucrative and I also did that in Australia for a year, we visited most places in Europe. After a while we just got tired and had lost the reason for what we were doing, we did actually break up, sold the van. My father in law made me promise just one thing, whatever happened I bring his daughter back, we were not married back then but I headed his request, my wife/girlfriend was not happy but came back to Cornwall. Time went by and we didn’t really leave each others orbit, we worked it out and 27 years later we are married with a son and so grateful for the travelling we did. Travelling is tough, it takes a toll, like everything in life you need a break sometimes to reconnect.
Best of luck, guys. Seems like you've reached a crossroads. Happens to us all. Space and time . Meditate. Allow the mind time to work it out. You are both beautiful people. Luv your content btw. Best, Mark and Annette, Cork.
Well done the both of you for taking the decision to step back, regroup and take time away from the glare of the tinternet. You guys are so capable, hard working, focused and strong together that im sure whatever you turn your hands to will work out well. It does sound that perhaps some roots are needed for a while at least and perhaps figure out how, or even if you want to, fit a channel around that. Take your time, bounce ideas around with people you trust and perhaps even write yourself a one page plan ........ plans can always be ripped up 😊
Good Luck Guys great stuff. Take care on your journeys some people say you have two choices at a T junction you can either go left or right to dictate your life, but you can always turn around and return to what you have loved before & miss. Im quite sure you will find the right choice..., great videos 😃 Love Spocky
I’m so happy you are considering making Ireland your home.don’t worry if this property doesn’t turn out because when you do find what you’re looking for it will be even better than imagined. We are rooting for you guys. Enjoy your break. 💛
The other side of this tough moment in your lives will be more adventures and wonderful experiences I’m sure. Glad you’re both going to take some time out to make sure the next step is the right step. Take care.
Hello from Ireland 👋 sending you both good wishes and enjoy the time-out away from Van life & travelling fir now & look after each other & take care 👍👍👍
Hope you manage to take the time to figure out what your next steps are, imagine it’s a difficult one for you as lots of great options - all the very best, David & Rachel ❤
Best of luck, take deep breaths. We love watching your fantastic adventures and love this spontaneous video. Watching you from a long way off, Maldives. Your plans for Ireland look amazing xx
Take all the time you need, it's a big decision (says me who decided to move to Ireland and was here 4 weeks later!) If you do decide to go and need any help getting psn (tax) cards etc I've been through the whole process (in west cork) so can help xxxx
get home chill relax figure things out we going nowhere coz we love you guys we all come to a crossroads its good you both realise your at one n taking time out to pick the next direction we still be here when ya ready for whatever next step you take
Good decisions come from experience- Experience comes from making bad decisions- whichever path you take you really come across as lovely people, take your time and best of luck!! 🍀
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So you’ve finally figured out that your lives are superficial. This is why they invented religions - to give people a sense of purpose, a manufactured one of course, and to control them. Then philosophy came along, but most people were incapable of grasping the many varied philosophies.
There were wars and other major events which affected humanity, but eventually they invented governments and the individual revolution - which gave us all the things we have today which have helped convince us that we are no longer slaves.
You two have managed to escape the traditional cages of modern workplaces for three years. You’ve done well. Your viewer numbers aren’t spectacular, so I’m guessing money is becoming an issue.
But in reality what you’ve done is travel for the purpose of consuming experiences, and videoed yourselves doing it - essentially an extended gap year, recorded for the vicarious pleasure of your less adventurous social media followers.
There was apparently little or no more purpose than that. So, the questions are: What have you learned? What have you achieved? How have you developed as human beings? And if you like beaches and sun, is Ireland the right place for you either? Oh, and renting land is expensive and precious. Good luck with your future decisions.
Peace
Feeling unsure is ok. Feeling lost is ok. Taking a break is more than ok. Breathe, smile, find something to enjoy about the journey, all will come clear in good time. You guys are great, and don’t forget it.
very true Rob, well said.
Very well done Isabel. Fantastic solo Vlog.👏👏(with cameo appearances😊) That's been one of, if not thee most honest van life Vlogs I've watched.! After 2 to 3 years living in La Bamba on the road to wherever, can only imagine how life changing it's been for you both, while you've both been enthralling us viewers on a tight schedule of videos. Am delighted you've both decided to put yourselves in a comfortable setting (home) as you both decide the road from here on in.. You might feel a little Lost In Transit Isabel, but there's 53k of us avid viewers supporting each and every thing you both do..! Psst.. Happy Birthday Tom.. 🚐👏👏☘
You guys follow your hearts and do what you feel is best. Just because you have a travel YT channel doesn't mean it can't be changed into a green living or land development YT channel. It's probably a good thing to have different niches to branch into so that you attract a different audience. The point I'm trying to make is, do what you want and your audience will follow. The channel doesn't have to be about your adventures. People follow your channel because of who you are. When you embrace that concept, you will have the abundance you are looking for 😉
Good move. Enjoy the break for however long it lasts. It's wonderful creative work you've done and an absolute pleasure to view. If you never come back to this style of video-blogging you have an absolute treasure chest to share with your family in times to come. Good luck in your lives.
The number of positive comments says a lot. It shows how much you are both appreciated and valued. Nothing but best wishes to you both, and a big thank you. ❤ 3:49 3:54
A bit of a hectic vlog guys, I truly hope your both ok and it's not the end of the channel or your relationship. You have to take time out for both of you, to look after each other and grow stronger together and this idea of living in ireland and having the group friends thing is all great, but friends come and go families agree and disagree Both of you together standing strong for each other throw everything you have been through that's the important thing and what you both have and we all can see is something special. Take care guys n hope to see you soon.
Of course it's it's not the end of the Channel or relationship. These guys are such a strong team they will do amazing !! Just watch them!!!
Rest of your comment was cool though :)
I can't think of anything wise to say because that's not really my 'brand' but when I feel under-powered, overwhelmed or unsure where my compass points are I also choose to go back to a safe space like an old house, or town, or my old school or something like that. Helps me remember how far I travelled, how close home always was, and soon enough I also remember why I wanted to leave so desperately in the first place. I clicked the thumbs up button and hope to hear from you guys at some point in the future. Good luck with everything.
Sending you both lots of love, take all the time you need to process. Ps. Those Dolphins looked epic!!
Well said big lad!!!
We are all a little lost at times but everything will work out in the end. Just know you both brought so much joy and adventures to us. Have a well deserved rest
Hi guys , think yer hearts might be in ireland, love to see ye come back here they'll always be a welcome here for ye here and a new adventure!!!
You guys are an inspiration. I know what its like to go through what you're experiencing...... We sold up and left the UK in 2002 with 2 kids in a camper, and you get those days when you can't find the compass...... I just found your story tonight and it brought back so many happy memories..... Follow your hearts and do what feels right.....Big hugs
My sons are your age. I have lived, worked and flown helicopters all over the world from Canada,Iran and sunny Liskeard. I am Cornish,my wife is Cornish and even though my kids were born in Dubai they were brought up in Cornwall from an early age. After years of travelling and discovering many interesting countries and cultures, I have come to the conclusion that Cornwall with its moors,beaches,cliffs and open spaces is the best place on the planet.
Hey guys, obviously lots of seismic feelings atm. Wishing you all the best while you think about that, but just to say please remember the fantastic places you've been and wonderful videos you've made and shared with us. Hope you are proud of that - you should be. Best, Anthony
Tom and Izzy - you have brought so much joy to so many people sharing with us your special moments. We will never be able to thank you enough. Take your time over the next steps in life. It is not always obvious which door to choose but you both have amazing qualities that will serve you well. Be brave. Be true to yourselves. And we will see you when you are ready.
I think we all get to a point in life where we find ourselves evaluating where we want to go in life, and what new direction we would like to take. Hope you both enjoy some quality time at home . X
Hi you two, it's OK to be lost and unsure,it means you are in touch with your inner selves. Its good to have good friends, good family and good to be in sync with eachother. Much love from Ireland,enjoy the time out,live ,laugh and keep living eachother,everything will come clear when the time is right, ye are right to go forward with the decisions with yourselves, it has to be your decision solely. You two are a amazing couple, and thankyou, for bringing us on so many of your beautiful journeys. Much love to both of you.
You have youth and health on your side. Two huge things money cannot buy. Enjoy every minute of it
Seems like all is not going well for both of you at the moment so hope you work it out. I am Irish and live here so would also find it difficult to live somewhere else as I love my country and it's people. Take time and do what is best for you both. The reason we are nice to you is very simple. Both of you are 2 great people and you do more to promote my country than our own Tourist Board does. So take care, chill out and maybe we will be lucky enough to bump into you over here soon and if so the Guinness is on us!
Isabel I could watch and listen to what you have to say for ages ,you are so honest , sincere and engaging , I hope everything works out for you both I'm sure it will....looking forward to seeing your next vlog x
Happy Birthday Tom!
Definitely a good plan to take time with family and friends to think and talk through your future plans. We've recently bought some off grid land, best tip I was given is to rent the place first and make sure it's for you before purchasing. Good luck with it all from sunny Cornwall.
We had the same types of feelings here in Australia as we also had our young daughter with us. We meet people, make friends and then move. Constantly! All the signs pointed back to our home in Townsville after 3 years away travelling and our daughter is back at her old school, with her old mates, and thriving. We are loving house life again for now but travel is always there.... the camper trailer is parked up and watching me as I type! Good luck guys, you'll make the best choices!
So sensible!!! Knowing when to press pause in life is the most important life lesson!!! There is so much ahead of you and hopefully you will feel like sharing it but if not everyone will wish you well and totally understand. Life is for living!! Take care xx
I’m glad you both had your beach break in Greece to reset & relax.
Totally understand the need for some private time at this watershed moment in your life.
Wishing you all the best
Jackie x
We really enjoyed the video, the honesty and reality. Whatever you do, wherever you go, we wish you nothing but the most amazing life! You do YOU and tell us about it later, ignore any negativity and push on with life. Look forward to hearing about it when you're ready x
Really brilliant and honest vlog. Glad you're taking a break. Looking forward to all the news you will have to share when you are both ready. Take care.
Do more research before deciding on a more permanent base. I can understand your love for west Cork / Kerry but those costal locations are exposed to severe westerly weather just like Cornwall and winter can feel like 6 months. Good luck with your next adventure.
You’re having a fantastic journey seen and done such a lot you will miss the van life and I will miss all your journeys xx take care
Ireland has a lot of positives. I fish there 2 to 3 times a year if possible, West Coast is stunning, but moving there would be a huge decision with implications in many areas of daily living and things like pensions, taxes, insurances and the health service. Make sure of the post Brexit legalities before you take the plunge. You both have had lots of experience of many places! I think you will have a deep sense of "rightness" about the place you finally choose, I believe fate and destiny come into that level of decision. You could possibly continue to run a blog about your experiences in Ireland and whatever you decide to do to generate income if you choose to stay there. I enjoyed watching your shared experiences and how you dealt with the toil and travail when those irritants surfaced. Good luck and good fortune to both of you in whatever your choice is!
The Common Travel Area between Ireland and the UK makes living in Ireland easy and free of Brexit. As a UK citizen you can move to and live in Ireland as an Irish citizen with a couple of exceptions. You have a vote at local and central parliament level. You cannot vote in EU elections, nor in Irish Presidential elections. The reason you can't vote for our President because we can't vote for your King. But then, neither can you😂
Totally normal to feel lost and unsure! You are trying to do the things you love, and making changes is hard! Do what feels good and if you have to think about it for a while, than so be it! Gonna miss your vlogs
Hey Tom & Iz.
Goodness Iz, you are a natural presenter and not afraid to be upfront and even emotional.
Have a safe journey home to
Cornwall guys and I know with your zest and insatiable desire to get things done etc, that ye will sort out what need to obviously need to sort out now on ye’re return?
I lived in Oz for 12 years and loved it there. I’m a naturalised Aussie now but have retained my Irish citizenship as well. One day, I awakened and thoughts of returning to Ireland came rushing into my head. I spoke to my wife and two daughters and though it took us all 2 years to eventually make our minds up, we returned to Ireland and love it here now. Life can tend to be a merry-go-round Tom & Iz and I can detect that your both caught-up in this merry-go-round whirlwind right now. Your race through Eastern Europe proves to me that ye both want to get home to family & friends and I for one can appreciate that longing. Life is far too short and on the road can be exhilarating but also lonely. I’ve been there so I know what you both are going through.
If your proposed Irish odyssey comes to pass, it will be super and I wish u both the very best. I truly do. Slow down, deliberate, concentrate and take small steps. It will all sort out for you both.
You too are just great and I truly wish u so much happiness and happiness in your future endeavours……. In Cork Ireland.
We will welcome you both. 🇮🇪🙏🇮🇪
I wish you both all the best for the future ❤ thank you for letting us spend time with you guys!
Life itself is an adventure, whether travelling in a van or not , each day has its own ups and downs, good luck whatever you decide 😊😘
Well done for this candid video.
You are about to make a life changing decision, and you know it. The apprehension is tangible - and very understandable. Take your time to decide, and may your decision be one of head and heart and gut.
Love and all the best
You are not lost guys, thousands of us are still here watching you, make your decision , you are certainly not alone, you will be welcome here in Cork if that's your decision.West Cork as you know is a lot like your home County and only a ferry ride away, grandparents from Cork ! your locals.
Hi izzy and Tom sinead my wife and I loved following your adventures in la bamba your great guys and we wish you both great inspiration in following your hearts to the next stage of your life path... much blessings and best wishes from N. IRELAND ❤
you are not alone many are feeling lost, confused and unsure on what next, including myself, just keep following your intuition and everything will work out fine, hugs 🤗
Take your time to decide. Look after each other.
I've traveled on and off since 1986, and that lost feeling is quite common, living in the moment is an idea, however like you I do like some sort of plan to give me direction. You seem to have a plan with Ireland so no worries. I'm currently resident in Devon, but I'll be off on my travels in about 2 years for at least 5 years. Relax and enjoy yourselves and what life throws at you!
I know Izzy does editing and is real good , but i watch loads of van lifers you tubes & loads of other you tubers but i have to say Tom is streets ahead he is unreal 😍 thanks for the uploads & hope life brings you all you want/crave ☑️
Well done - take your time - get your heads sorted. Sincerely hope that you are both OK.
You have to think about friends and you really miss then when you are travelling. You are young and you can go "on holiday" any time but you need to keep in with your friends. We lived full time as pensioners much easier than when you are young. So good luck I'm sure you are doing the right thing. Happy birthday Tom.
Keep the faith and wish youse all the best!
Take your time in making this decision - you’ve achieved so much to be proud of. I shall miss your vlogs but hope you feel the support of this community whilst you work out what’s next for
You!
Great video Isabella. Nothing wrong doing short snippets of conversation... It seams natural and gave an insight on the general feelings you guys are going through. Hope you both take that time out from the camera.. Relax and enjoy the lovely weather next week in the UK and Ireland. 23'C min promised. Proinnsias n Cork 😊
Everything will work out for the best, one way or another, good luck to you both!
Jez guys really feelin for you both. Head home, relax and forget about the vlog for a couple of weeks. Mind yourselves on the road 🇮🇪
A 'cri de couer' (and nothing wrong with that); everyone comes to a crossroads in their life at some point. Standing back and having a good think is the right course of action - all the best and don't stress out about it.
That was a tough one for you clearly bless you. Being “ lost “ is perfectly normal part of life. Take your time, you don’t have to explain yourselves to anyone than each other , just pause , breathe, think and be kind to each other 😉
It is 'lost' season! I have been in Peru for 6 weeks and now I'm in Costa Rica and I should be in heaven and I too just want to head 'home', but... I don't really have a home. I want to be excited but I feel an uneasiness about things. It will work out, and it will be perfect! Thanks for sharing your confusion. Lots of love to you both🥰 Happy Birthday Tom🎂
Hi,
tuff decissions need time ;-)) Wish you the best.
Enjoy your time in austria, be awere that this is a long holiday weekend, so there will be a lot of traffic from south to north on monday, lots of germans coming from italy or croatia on their way back....
you are heroic! God Bless and best wishes from deep in my heart.
Good luck and take your time deciding on your next steps. Looking forward to seeing you both back in RUclips when you're ready.
Life changing decisions are hard, but yous are doing the right thing taking a break 👍
A real soul searcher but so good to get things off your chest .Good to take break cabin fever can be a serious ailment. I hope it all works out for you and Tom happy birthday by the way
If something is meant for you, it will happen. Take plenty of time to see where you are going from here. What ever you both decide should not be influenced by people on here. Best of luck with it
Love your video's, take your time and decide what's best for both of ye.We all have times when we need a change of direction in our lives best of luck whatever ye decide.❤from 🇮🇪
Safe trip back to the motherland! Giza shout if you want any tips or owt on offgrid and growing food etc in remote and isolated places. All the best with the next part , keep at it and you’ll be grand.
Its a great idea sometimes to just step back, think, clear your head(s) and regroup. The only people you have to please in this life are yourselves, no-one else. Do whats right for you and you alone. We'll all be here ready and waiting to catch up with your newest adventure whatever that may be. Good luck!
I'm new to your channel, but I recognise the situation. You've hit a pivotal point in your lives, and these are always hard to handle, and they can feel overwhelming. I'm (vastly!) older than you, so I know that they tend to recur throughout our lives, challenging and reshaping us. Anyway, I love following your adventures, and I wish you well for the future, wherever it takes you.
You guys are awesome. We’ll be here when you decide to return. 👍🏽
Also! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TOM!!! Was a SKILLY gig last night and dad told me. Have a great Cornish birthday xxxx
Such a good vlog and so understandable that you need a break. We'll all miss you like mad but life-decisions have to made, and have to be made for yourselves not others. I wish you guys good fortune and I know you will both decide how you want to move forward. Take time, take care.
Are ye going to Albania, it's so feickin great, friendly, scenic and safe,wonderful people. I hitched all over the Balkans years ago and I'd go back tomorrow, you're in for a treat, love from Ireland 🍀💚🍀
A lot of VETS have been to thesloc, Mace , etc and we live the van life , Ireland as a Whole is beautiful, Northern Ireland is amazing especially on the coast
Great vlog. Thanks Izzy. Loving the morning ‘beauty’ routine! Big changes ahead for you both, & I guess much wisdom needed. You’re both such kind & sociable beings. The world needs folk like you! WE need folk like you! Find a way to ‘top up’ on energy levels (a bolt hole is important) but then please come back! Have you thought about working with children overseas? You’re gifted with young people. NGO work? Bless you both. Prayers as you take this next step.
Life is full of peaks and valleys so hang in there ❤ We missed seeing Tom! Wanted to let you both know you have brought so much joy to our family 💖We are also eating more of a plant based diet because of you. 😁 Sending love and positive energy to you both. Hugs from America 🤗
You two have every right to feel as you do. You have done, seen and experienced so much in your young lives. You should be so proud of yourselves, every ounce that we on here are of you. And thank you for sharing the good, the bad, the highs and the lows of not only van life but of life in general. No matter what you choose for your future together we will all be there in spirt to support, encourage and share with you. One And All.
PS: Happy birthday Tom 🎉🚐 🎂 🍻
You are both lovely 🥰 Tom and Issy you need time to chill out and don’t beat yourselves up ❤
I send all my love to you for what it’s worth .Take good care of each other.God Bless.😇😇😇
Some life needs abit if space and quiet time.. home, family and friends are what you both need right now. Iz thank you for the heartfelt explanation too..you both deserve the opportunity and happiness you're both looking for and you will find it.
Take good care both of you and I hope we see you back here soon. ❤
The quality of your videos is amazing! I love how it almost feels too good to be on youtube❤
Good luck with everything hope it works out for you both.
Love your honesty about van life take time out and chill ..please update us when you are ready feel like we know u guys so even if van life ends let's see cabin life lol
Take care guys, don’t rush into any decisions
Keep your eyes on Van. In service stations. We had our clutch slave disconnected by scammers.
Take a nice long break in your home town, time with family and friends - you are both great, and you are great together. Yes, you need a base to hang out for a while...Good luck...
Well you’ve picked a good time to come back to Cornwall - it’s gorgeous at the moment. I guess you can always head back to Aldi Car Park in Bodmin if you are missing it!😂
My wife and I travelled for several years after she left Uni. I worked in Thailand as a diving instructor which was very lucrative and I also did that in Australia for a year, we visited most places in Europe. After a while we just got tired and had lost the reason for what we were doing, we did actually break up, sold the van. My father in law made me promise just one thing, whatever happened I bring his daughter back, we were not married back then but I headed his request, my wife/girlfriend was not happy but came back to Cornwall. Time went by and we didn’t really leave each others orbit, we worked it out and 27 years later we are married with a son and so grateful for the travelling we did. Travelling is tough, it takes a toll, like everything in life you need a break sometimes to reconnect.
Best of luck with everything! I hope Ireland works out, ye will love it here.
Best of luck, guys. Seems like you've reached a crossroads. Happens to us all. Space and time . Meditate. Allow the mind time to work it out. You are both beautiful people. Luv your content btw. Best, Mark and Annette, Cork.
Well done the both of you for taking the decision to step back, regroup and take time away from the glare of the tinternet.
You guys are so capable, hard working, focused and strong together that im sure whatever you turn your hands to will work out well.
It does sound that perhaps some roots are needed for a while at least and perhaps figure out how, or even if you want to, fit a channel around that. Take your time, bounce ideas around with people you trust and perhaps even write yourself a one page plan ........ plans can always be ripped up 😊
Have been thinking about you and missing your vlogs. Hope you are both enjoying some well deserved time out. X
Good Luck Guys great stuff. Take care on your journeys some people say you have two choices at a T junction you can either go left or right to dictate your life, but you can always turn around and return to what you have loved before & miss. Im quite sure you will find the right choice..., great videos 😃 Love Spocky
Brilliant edited vlog. Loved it. U guys r going through a cool journey. Tom u take it easy
Thankyou for your honest and loving g communication, so appreciate you guys and wish you all the best whatever you decide to do. Love 💕 Philippa
I’m so happy you are considering making Ireland your home.don’t worry if this property doesn’t turn out because when you do find what you’re looking for it will be even better than imagined. We are rooting for you guys. Enjoy your break. 💛
Just chill back, rest up, don't put pressure on yourselves, we have your back, love you guys, cheers from Australia 🦘🦘
Good luck with whatever you guys decide. It will all come good as they say xx
Good luck on your journey and new beginings..
The other side of this tough moment in your lives will be more adventures and wonderful experiences I’m sure. Glad you’re both going to take some time out to make sure the next step is the right step. Take care.
Hello from Ireland 👋 sending you both good wishes and enjoy the time-out away from Van life & travelling fir now & look after each other & take care 👍👍👍
Hope you manage to take the time to figure out what your next steps are, imagine it’s a difficult one for you as lots of great options - all the very best, David & Rachel ❤
Best of luck, take deep breaths. We love watching your fantastic adventures and love this spontaneous video. Watching you from a long way off, Maldives. Your plans for Ireland look amazing xx
Take all the time you need, it's a big decision (says me who decided to move to Ireland and was here 4 weeks later!) If you do decide to go and need any help getting psn (tax) cards etc I've been through the whole process (in west cork) so can help xxxx
get home chill relax figure things out we going nowhere coz we love you guys we all come to a crossroads its good you both realise your at one n taking time out to pick the next direction we still be here when ya ready for whatever next step you take
Lots of love to you both ❤
Good decisions come from experience- Experience comes from making bad decisions- whichever path you take you really come across as lovely people, take your time and best of luck!! 🍀
Few years in Ireland and you can get citizenship (5 years?). Then you can spend as long as you want in the EU without a visa.
I Hope that you sort things out…………and are happy
You will sort out what are the best options for you both, moving forward