Lady A's Charles Kelley and wife Cassie detail sobriety journey

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  • Опубликовано: 9 янв 2025

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  • @chickenmama823
    @chickenmama823 Год назад +50

    This was my husband too. I am proud to say he is 2.5 years sober. This is our story too. So happy Charles is on his path of recovery.

  • @sosoutherncustomequestrian4598
    @sosoutherncustomequestrian4598 Год назад +26

    What an amazing, honest couple just living in their truth. Praying for your family.

  • @kristinesalazar1005
    @kristinesalazar1005 Год назад +36

    How refreshing it is to see so much honesty from a couple! I am so happy for their family. You can see the love between them. This interview will help others in many ways. Bravo Kelly’s! ❤😊

  • @melissabryan3043
    @melissabryan3043 Год назад +15

    This was my husband and I...after we got engaged in 2012. I told him I can't live like this for the rest of my life so either he stops drinking or I'm out. He chose me and he is 11 years sober. I stopped drinking for the most part too, just a glass of wine every now and then. I know he still struggles from time to time, which is a part of recovery, and I also tell him I'm proud. Support systems are huge and if a person doesn't have that, it makes it that much harder for the addict.

  • @rileyrollins3027
    @rileyrollins3027 Год назад +13

    Thank you for sharing your story. Mental health, recovery and healing is so important to discuss. Thank you for using your platform for a positive change. 👑 ... 4yrs sober this year myself.

  • @lisasturniolo4150
    @lisasturniolo4150 Год назад +19

    Prayers to them as Charles continues on his path of sobriety. It was so so brave of him and his beautiful wife to go public with their story. I believe it can help others who are dealing with alcoholism. 💕🙏💕🙏💕🙏💕

  • @janetraona9071
    @janetraona9071 Год назад +14

    Great interview. Their strength dealing with this disease is tremendous.

  • @heatherkelly3744
    @heatherkelly3744 Год назад +19

    I am so proud of you Charles! I've seen a family member go through what you have but without your ending~Your strength amazes me! Your talent and your family is a reason to stay the path forever!

  • @azdesertrat9104
    @azdesertrat9104 Год назад +5

    Behind every good man is a strong woman! Cassie, hats off to you for being a great wife, mom and support for your family! And happy belated Mother's Day!!

  • @annsmith7207
    @annsmith7207 Год назад +18

    One day at a time, Charles ...kids know exactly what is going on -- never underestimate children. Good for you for going to rehab. And no, Charles -- there are not "degrees" of alcoholism -- alcoholism is a disease ...and it is disease that keeps telling me I don't have a disease .... and that is the mental component of this disease! Sober recovery one day at time ...December 23, 1978 with deepest gratitude. Keep it in the day, Charles! We are all rooting for you, Charles!

  • @faithclifford5893
    @faithclifford5893 Год назад +5

    Beautiful story. Stay well, Charles. You are a good Dad and husband.

  • @insider3737
    @insider3737 Год назад +1

    Saw your interview, dude you are a lucky man to have so many people that care about you. Your wife is an amazing woman that loves you. Keep up what you’re doing. Keep strong. Good luck in the future.!!

  • @sheilaklugman2340
    @sheilaklugman2340 Год назад +2

    So grest it all worked out. She loved him enough to stay and fight the fight, love their group ❤️, one of the best and his wife is a wonderful woman, so glad they stayed together

  • @MaryMicheleful
    @MaryMicheleful Год назад +3

    The best singer and so happy to hear you are sober!!!!!!

  • @kellysnead4972
    @kellysnead4972 Год назад +10

    Wonderful He recognized needing help. 😊 Good for him!!!!

  • @melodybenedicwalsh7997
    @melodybenedicwalsh7997 Год назад +15

    Thank you for bringing this to light. I have been sober for a little over 7 years, and am so thankful for my sober life. It was really hard at first but now we have alcohol in the house, my husband and family drink around me and it is no problem because I figured out the root cause of my drinking and made peace. I will never not be an alcoholic, and that is ok because it reminds me of where I have been and where I am going 🙌

  • @Jpoy213
    @Jpoy213 Год назад

    Excellent interview, I saw myself in this, my journey ended it’s a severe stroke, at 62 years old, I’m feel proud of you andand happy for your success 💕

  • @millim408
    @millim408 Год назад +6

    Great that he was able to get the help he needed for him and his loved ones! I was married to an alcoholic, but he didnt start drinking until 10yrs into our marriage and it was due to a bar that had just opened near by and influence of friends. But, he never admitted to having a problem, I stayed married to him for another 12 yrs and then I called it quits. I wish he would have changed, but only they can change

  • @carola7539
    @carola7539 Год назад +3

    I pray he stays sober beautiful family

  • @tootsiea4288
    @tootsiea4288 Год назад +12

    Great job! It’s a family disease. My dad had 36 years of sobriety and helped countless alcoholics through the recovery journey. Al-Anon helps the family and AA helps the alcoholic. There are Friends with Bill (Bill Wilkerson) across the globe, and even on cruise ships. There should be no shame. Addiction knows no boundaries and affects rich and poor.

  • @roseschulze1647
    @roseschulze1647 Год назад +7

    Best wishes on your sobriety journey, Charles! I'm so happy for you. Stopping alcohol now will hopefully prevent you from serious damage to your internal organs that can be extremely painful. ❤

  • @kellisantos2396
    @kellisantos2396 Год назад +10

    I wish Gayle would stop interrupting everyone.

    • @l.a.3479
      @l.a.3479 5 месяцев назад

      She has a bad habit of doing that. I've seen a lot worse from her than this.

  • @amylynngriffith
    @amylynngriffith Год назад +9

    Amazing story and so brave of both of them to share!! 🙏🙏

  • @laura01279
    @laura01279 Год назад +1

    Kids aren’t blind & they are life’s little imitators . Glad you took the steps Charles.

  • @kristinhernandez8946
    @kristinhernandez8946 Год назад +4

    God bless this family. 🙏🏼

  • @TeresaMom1
    @TeresaMom1 Год назад +3

    Asking Cassie the question 'Why did you stay' is so typical of all of you. All of you famed people just think well I will just leave this marriage because I don't like something and the kids will just have to deal with it, like it's just the normal thing to do to just leave & divorce even after several years. I'm going to tell you right now that's one of the big problems with society these days right there. Charles succeeded with his sobriety because they chose to stay together and fight it together like it's supposed to be done. Sickness & Health.

    • @dgstamper1
      @dgstamper1 Год назад

      ABSOLUTELY SPOT ON!!!!! ❤️🙌👏 I CAN'T LOVE YOUR STATEMENT ENOUGH!!!!

  • @carlmar6027
    @carlmar6027 Год назад +1

    You're stronger for admitting...good on u bro

  • @dgstamper1
    @dgstamper1 Год назад

    God bless this family and please continue to look over them. Charles, thank God for the help of your wife, friends, and band mate's was able to walk into the light!
    This interview-song will hopefully inspire anyone who comes in contact with this powerful interview, to seek help too!
    Thank God again that you put family and self first. You have a beautiful family and your wife is a ROCKSTAR! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @angelaholmes8888
    @angelaholmes8888 Год назад +9

    I'm so glad Charles decided to get sober addiction truly destroy everything and everyone in your life

  • @josephinerawley6683
    @josephinerawley6683 Год назад +5

    Wishing you the best for you and your family 👪

  • @dianev6180
    @dianev6180 Год назад +1

    I quit in 2009 but I never go without at a party or on vacation that is, I never go without non-alcoholic beverages. Just like I used to bring my own wine, I'll bring imported non-alcoholic beers to private events. In Florida you can get margaritas, Pina Coladas, and more non-alcoholic everywhere since we cater to tourists. I have more fun than anyone else because I don't need alcohol to relax and enjoy. I've been asked if I am OK to drive home, haha! Feels good to admit it was all sans alcohol! It is liberating! My very best to terrifically talented Charles and his beautiful family.

  • @marcelroelofsen6020
    @marcelroelofsen6020 11 месяцев назад

    Honoust Open and Proud. Been there too. Keep fighting.

  • @kristakowalski7954
    @kristakowalski7954 Год назад +2

    Bravo, Charles!!

  • @CarolynJohnson-fz3fl
    @CarolynJohnson-fz3fl 4 месяца назад

    So inspirational!!

  • @roben9580
    @roben9580 Год назад

    This artist IS THE BEST!!!!

  • @angelagodwin4550
    @angelagodwin4550 Год назад +1

    I have met Charles before in Memphis and he was just such a nice guy! He was downstairs later that night with other musicians and attendees from all over in radio drinking. I didn’t think one thing about it! There is one artist that is at Country Cares every single year I have been and I believe he is at every one they have bc of his involvement with Country Cares for St Jude and he is tipsy every year and some I have seen him past tipsy! Not my place to judge and I am not or don’t intend to come across that way! My point is that you never know who is struggling with alcohol or substances! They don’t have to be the one always tipsy in public - my experience they don’t normally get out of the way in public and prefer to do their heavy drinking at home or in a private setting!
    I pray for Charles and Cassie and their son on the journey of loving someone seeking sobriety! It is truly a family disease!

  • @debrablum3738
    @debrablum3738 Год назад +1

    I missed this last week. So glad to watch on You Tube. So glad Charles got help! ❤ I love Lady A so much! Their music got me through some rough stuff...still does! ❤ You need to eat Charles...your face has lost too much weight! Jesus loves you guys!!! ❤ Keep singing! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @loristromski1334
    @loristromski1334 Год назад +1

    Sending healing streams of grace 🙏

  • @Sabouma28
    @Sabouma28 11 месяцев назад +1

    and now the fight for the rest of his life begins.... I wish him the best of luck....

  • @lynngarms8017
    @lynngarms8017 Год назад +2

    Cassie loves her family.

  • @Golfgirl226
    @Golfgirl226 Год назад

    Good for you , keep coming

  • @beaseiler9998
    @beaseiler9998 Год назад +2

    Amen !!❤

  • @monalisa2662
    @monalisa2662 Год назад +2

    Stay strong Charles and continue to work with the 12 step. As you work the 12 steps... they will work in you. Way to be transparent and own your behavior. Know your triggers and avoid environments that serve alcohol. Yup Cassie... you need to work the 12 step support in recovery too preferrably without resentment. (Coming from observation... maybe less forhead botox)

  • @noahestus6830
    @noahestus6830 Год назад +10

    How many ruined childhoods, how many ruined relationships, how much repressed issues kicked down the road. Why do we allow this substance, why do we promote it, why do we use it. I don’t want government oversight, I want it to fall out of favor and go away. This parasite of families.

    • @JTR253
      @JTR253 Год назад

      Shariah Law

    • @samanthaproffitt7644
      @samanthaproffitt7644 Год назад +1

      If it wasn't alcohol, it would be something else. We are addicts. It shows up I'm every facet of my life.

    • @kevinwalsh4652
      @kevinwalsh4652 Год назад

      Saying "antebellum" has ruined zero people, they got caught up in the state sponsored narrative 😭😢

    • @l.a.3479
      @l.a.3479 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@kevinwalsh4652Irrelevant to this interview

  • @gloriatemael2510
    @gloriatemael2510 Год назад +1

    Good for u guys

  • @leangels8888
    @leangels8888 4 месяца назад

    Cassie is correct, marriage isn't built on love alone. It requires commitment. You have to help each other through sickness and health.

  • @karavannatter3108
    @karavannatter3108 Год назад

    Wow my daughter Cassie would like this

  • @mariemaladorno8788
    @mariemaladorno8788 11 месяцев назад

    Best of luck to their family. Is that a photo of Stevie Nicks over the first fireplace?

  • @bleuskye8124
    @bleuskye8124 Год назад +3

    For better or worse in sickness and in health.

  • @samanthaproffitt7644
    @samanthaproffitt7644 Год назад +1

    Recover out loud!

  • @josaczyn
    @josaczyn Год назад

    She doesn’t t say that she attends meetings. They don’t discuss alcoholism as a disease either and several poignant points of alcoholism.

    • @l.a.3479
      @l.a.3479 5 месяцев назад

      Just because they don't discuss or mention certain things in the interview doesn't mean they don't do them. We don't have a right to know everything about how they're dealing with this.

  • @timothyslaughter476
    @timothyslaughter476 Год назад +1

    One good song....but it was a huge hit.....congratulations on something more important.

  • @albertmontoya6413
    @albertmontoya6413 Год назад +4

    Once you realize your an alcoholic it's easier to become sober good luck to that family.

    • @josaczyn
      @josaczyn Год назад +2

      That’s the first step is admitting you’re an alcoholic and you are powerless over alcohol.

    • @l.a.3479
      @l.a.3479 5 месяцев назад

      *you're or you are

  • @1besieged
    @1besieged Год назад

    Charles, you have done a great job, qutting the alcohol, you seem older, more mature, I hope you have a pre-nup.. that is about as scary as being an alcoholic (if you don't have one and an NDA) agreement.

  • @michelleallen4052
    @michelleallen4052 Год назад

    My father died of being an alcoholic. They found him dead in this house, and he was an alcoholic, and he would beat his father when I was in high school I didn’t even know how long he was an alcoholic, and I was so scared to be around him, but my parents were divorced when I was three years old

    • @s0fa274
      @s0fa274 Год назад +2

      I’m so sorry for what you went through and that your father didn’t get help. Hope you’re still able to live a great life despite everything.

  • @denicebradley545
    @denicebradley545 Год назад +1

    I wish my son had found the strength to get help- suicide was Not the answer

  • @Jeff-io2zn
    @Jeff-io2zn Год назад +1

    Congratulations. Yall achieved something I've been doing for 59 yrs. It's a choice you make. Good luck

  • @phendrahend9530
    @phendrahend9530 Год назад

    Meetings, meetings, meetings! Congratulations! I'd say good luck, but this is work, nothing lucky about it!

  • @angelineschmidbauer9320
    @angelineschmidbauer9320 Год назад

    Would never have,guessed!

    • @l.a.3479
      @l.a.3479 5 месяцев назад

      What do you mean by that? Alcohol abuse affects famous and non-famous people alike.

  • @nitachondria
    @nitachondria Год назад +2

    disappointed, Gayle. they tried to whitewash their band name by changing it to a name already being used by a black woman who goes by Lady A.

  • @patrinajasso5689
    @patrinajasso5689 Год назад +2

    She stayed because of the 💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰. Let's be real cause love isn't enough.

  • @Jinka1950
    @Jinka1950 Год назад +2

    Why is getting sober celebrated as if one split the molecule or cured cancer? How about just getting sober is enuff and I understand humility should be enuff. .::.. stop grandstanding.

    • @kathleenjmck
      @kathleenjmck Год назад +3

      It's not grandstanding! You have NO idea how many people he helped by coming out and sharing the struggles.

    • @dgstamper1
      @dgstamper1 Год назад +1

      INDEED!!!! He has millions of fans who love this group and each one of its members! I applaud Charles for doing this interview! He could've easily kept it private! His fans need to see that even successful people can fall down and get back up.
      ❤ for family and his friend won here! If this doesn't hit you in your feels, then that's sadly on you!

    • @l.a.3479
      @l.a.3479 5 месяцев назад

      *enough

    • @l.a.3479
      @l.a.3479 5 месяцев назад

      Spoken by someone who has never dealt with alcohol abuse or trying to get sober themselves...SMH

  • @Itsmehi456
    @Itsmehi456 Год назад +1

    Hmmm … He looks older and more tired now.

    • @roseschulze1647
      @roseschulze1647 Год назад +1

      I think he looks wonderful ❤

    • @Sabouma28
      @Sabouma28 Год назад

      and way too thin

    • @dgstamper1
      @dgstamper1 Год назад +1

      HE LOOKS SOBER, TIRED, AND RELIEVED!!! YEARS OF TEARING DOWN TAKE TIME TO REBUILD!

    • @l.a.3479
      @l.a.3479 5 месяцев назад

      He has always been skinny...nothing new with that observation.​@@Sabouma28

  • @tooldread1
    @tooldread1 Год назад

    Lady antebellum yea i remember them. Who is lady a?

    • @l.a.3479
      @l.a.3479 5 месяцев назад

      Don't be stupid.

  • @parler8698
    @parler8698 Год назад

    Waking up in a bush.

  • @KanaTron
    @KanaTron Год назад +1

    I used to listen to them... until they sold out.

  • @jerome495
    @jerome495 Год назад +1

    Gayle king? Yuck

    • @l.a.3479
      @l.a.3479 5 месяцев назад

      She's not my favorite TV journalist, either, but you don't have to be rude with your juvenile response.

  • @RaptureReady-Saint
    @RaptureReady-Saint Год назад +2

    Find Jesus friend, that is all you need! Man will never be able to fully heal you! Meetings are a waste, Jesus is the answer! In this industry you worship Satan, best to you Charles, you won't find true peace until you repent and turn to Jesus!

    • @l.a.3479
      @l.a.3479 5 месяцев назад

      Many times Jesus uses "earthly" things and people to heal--doctors, therapists, AA, etc.

  • @StigmataMarty
    @StigmataMarty Год назад +1

    The A stands for alcoholics

  • @lisafrischknecht8786
    @lisafrischknecht8786 Год назад +3

    Lady Antebellum you mean😮

    • @ashleytchannel5403
      @ashleytchannel5403 Год назад +10

      They changed their name to Lady A a little while back

  • @annsouthcott5485
    @annsouthcott5485 Год назад

    He doesn't come across as someone who is really sorry. All the smiling is annoying.

    • @l.a.3479
      @l.a.3479 5 месяцев назад

      It doesn't matter how he comes across to us--as long as he's honest and sincere with those whom he hurt, those whom he loves, and those who love him.

  • @vincecapri1
    @vincecapri1 Год назад

    They getting a divorse in 12 months

  • @loristromski1334
    @loristromski1334 Год назад

    She hasn't forgiven him...

    • @l.a.3479
      @l.a.3479 5 месяцев назад

      You don't know that. Regardless, it's none of our business.

  • @janking8009
    @janking8009 Год назад +1

    That explains why he was so annoying

    • @l.a.3479
      @l.a.3479 5 месяцев назад

      How was he "annoying"?

  • @susanbobbitt9119
    @susanbobbitt9119 Год назад

    Man’s not happy!

    • @l.a.3479
      @l.a.3479 5 месяцев назад

      You don't know whether he is or not.

  • @PaulDoe79
    @PaulDoe79 Год назад

    Lady A is a black artist... Lady ANTEBELLUM is the group that stole her name

  • @loristromski1334
    @loristromski1334 Год назад

    You are way more than a addict

    • @l.a.3479
      @l.a.3479 5 месяцев назад

      That's not even a thing.

    • @l.a.3479
      @l.a.3479 5 месяцев назад

      *an

  • @mevrammcoyoteV8f150
    @mevrammcoyoteV8f150 Год назад +1

    This Woke band still together

  • @gloriatemael2510
    @gloriatemael2510 Год назад

    U guys ate evil

  • @11ATW
    @11ATW Год назад

    Lady Antebellum

  • @paulfindude8743
    @paulfindude8743 Год назад

    What the heck, why are they now Lady A?

    • @Sabouma28
      @Sabouma28 Год назад +1

      have you been living under a rock?

    • @paulfindude8743
      @paulfindude8743 Год назад

      @@Sabouma28 I guess I have. So…… why are they now lady A?

    • @Sabouma28
      @Sabouma28 Год назад +1

      @@paulfindude8743 "Lady Antebellum switched to Lady A in June 2020 in the wake of protests against racism and police violence, citing criticism that the name glorified the slavery-era South. The band said the name had not been intended as racist, but that they had had their “eyes opened” by recent events."

  • @QWNSWORDS
    @QWNSWORDS Год назад

    Alcohol is not good for anyone. Period