Are Black families a target for social services in the UK 🇬🇧🇬🇧? It's getting SERIOUS!!
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Yes definitely o when they say it's nothing don't worry, worry o because one has to be very careful in this country. I relocated to the UK with my parent I was 15 years old so am well incorporated into their system here but my husband on the other hand came to the uk as a full grown adult. We have three boys and you know with kids especially boys they are very active. Sometimes when my husband is trying to correct our eldest for example I will just tell him to say it in yoruba. Imagine our son going to school and saying something that his dad might have said and the school taking it the wrong way. If he goes to shool and says it in yoruba they won't even understand what he's saying, he will not even easily remember but in English he might remember and innocently say something.
The way things are here is different compared to back home and with the way they build their houses in the uk connected together that if you are shouting or talking very loudly, your neighbours can hear you. With my boys I try as much as possible to correct them calmly without shouting and at same time firmly making them understand that am not playing around. If the neighbours are hearing you shouting and children crying too frequently, they will not know what is going on in your house and take it the wrong way. Children are blessing from God but its not the easiest looking after them, the Lord will continue to help us all.
Uk has a lot of nosy neighbours, some children take advantage of the system and start being rude automatically, so one has to be guided, strict God help us Amen
@@mojolaayeni3240God help us😢
During my pgce placements, i realised that alot of referrals comes from the school. Im glad i did that programme even though i dont have any plan of teaching in this country. However, it has helped me on how to guide the children.
My first child was told no one sees her DT journal that its private: so she wrote about how her ipad was seized and i was summoned for a meeting.
Parents should be friends with their children, also let them know theor first contact is you their grown ups because we teachers indirectly make them feel otherwise because we try to be their friends and then they confide in us and talk about their feelings
Once you know the system, you know your way round it. If you have a very chatty child, then you have to watch your back. I know someone whose 4yr old daughter started playing up. Whenever her parents asked her to go to bed or tell her off when she was naughty, she would threaten to report the mother. So her friend advised her to record whenever she starts to play up. The mum did a video of her being mean to her sibling and when she was corrected, she told them that she would tell her teacher that her parents beat her. The mum recorded several similar conversations. They were played to the teacher who was shocked to the bone.
Black people are not a target. I am social worker and I have worked with black people who are difficult to work with, they don’t want to take advice. Children report things in school whether black or white and teachers do have a duty to protect. If ever you are involved with children services, take advice on board and engage with services if offered.
The bottom line is, many social services or workers don't have empathic relationships with black families, they rather escalate the situation, rather than working with black families.
Great video! Well done to both of you!
To be honest, it's all about understanding the way things work here in the UK, and abiding by them.
I moved to the UK 15yrs ago and I work in a primary school so I understand the way things work here.
The schools duty is to keep your kids safe by law they are obligated to do that.
If I am given the opportunity I could help throw more light on this issue. I feel very bad to see people suffering out of ignorance.
Please don't hit your children at all here o that's a big No.
Nothing to be scared about but just understand how they operate here.
The school (I mean the staff) too is afraid of them not keeping your kids safe while they are at School.
That is why if a child is hurt or sick while they're at School, the message is passed onto the parents, without fail.
Please D Fab family, I would like to do a video with you to educate our African families.
Wow!
This is a very wonderful idea. We will follow up with you via email.
Thank you for this
@@Dfabfamily Awesome. Check your email. I sent you an email.
Child protection services also has a quota to re-home as many cases as possible n, that is how they get money from the government. The more cases, the more money. Nowonder their ceo earns 6 figure salaries
Wow!!!
@Dfabfamily most of the politicians and race activists want family to be reimargined. For example BLM seeks to abolish family as we know it was in their charter. They have now memory holed it .
Every family is a target, the policy makers believe the children belong to the state because they wish to break down th3 concept of family
Thank you for this
Thank you for this video.... hmmmmm I can tell you for a fact that African families are targets. They don't try this with Caribbean and White families, and they are worse. They like to paint certain narratives that African families are ab*sive towards their children. Meanwhile, I have seen a white mother spank her child and yell at her child in front of school, and nothing was done about it. African parents need to be more careful and also don't allow the school system to bully them.
I agree with all your advice, they are watching us and I believe they are envious of our tight family unit especially in homes where there is a father and mother present. They will paint the father as aggressive or abusive and the mother as not caring for her child and putting her work first. Some of us that grew up here, they can tell by our accent so they know not to mess with us. I personally don't leave room for them to raise a question of neglect, and I am always in my child's corner so they know to respect my child and respect me.
At home, I reprimand when needed, I teach my child what happens at home stays at home. May God help us.
All children are protected by law, white, Caribbean, etc you cannot speak for the whole of the UK.
People should adjust accordingly, especially when it comes to children. Teachers, docs, and nurses are on the lookout for signs of abuse.
In that regard it is targeting of black families in hope of finding disparity.
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It applies to every child regardless of colour. There is something called child safety and child protection training/certificates, which are mandatory.
When dealing with social services,engagement is key,don’t come across as a n aggressive black man or woman.
Take advice and act on recommendations.
They can make your life a living hell if you don't engage and you start of being rude and aggressive. They will use that against you
100% correct. Social services will bust your ass if you don’t behave like you are obsessed with your kids. Simple
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Your child wellbeing comes first and that child should be your priority. NO excuse.
Thank you for this. Welldone
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TRUE TALK : Thanks for sharing, thanks for cooperating with them.
Good example to follow. Let’s be careful
Types of Child Abuse
Abuse is neglect if left on there own
Physical Abuse
Sexual Abuse
Emotional Abuse
Financial Abuse
Institutional Abuse
Domestic Violence and Abuse
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My question is what do they do with the kids when the social service pack them all, hope they don't use them for one experiment, they can't be trusted , afterall they don't like how the Africans trooped into their country .
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It's called safeguarding
Black families are NOT target of social service. Black Families especially Afrikans need to FOLLOW THE LAWS OF THE UK and their life will be fine. If you are spending all your time claiming to be working with a different ID, claiming benefits as a student and running a restaurant with a different ID whiles your children are NOT attending school - what do you expect?
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well, that is the stories around o.
It’s safeguarding standard and Black families aren’t targeted. Please train your children to ensure they don’t speak about what’s happening at home to teachers or friends at school. I had two friends taken from the bus parents for n high school and they are whites.
They ususlly say dont make children cry before they go to school
Yes, they do. 😂
My dear. The word is not targeting but rather Social services does not know how to relate with African parents. They too have to learn how African families relate with their children.
I have an experience with social services not being helpful that I would like to share.
If people can successfully sue the social services for how they are mistreating black families, they would invest in learning how to treat black families kindly.
Understandably, some parents do have issues with parenting but the right way to help those families is not by taking their children away. Such actions are traumatic and do not help anyone especially the children involved it breaks family apart and it takes years to heal.
True Talk
Where are all the homes for these children they are taking away. I wonder if they will be safer in care..
Parents can’t discipline children, teachers can’t discipline children the police can hardly correct them maybe the prisons will have to try and do it..
Society has become very dangerous. Beating is wrong, but I have seen animals raising there young with a strong hand. Because they have an innate love for their young…,
It's called neglectful parenting
What has colour got to do with it ?? From what you said, it was what your kid who told them. Or did they cook it up nii? 😮 It's called safeguarding.. protecting you, both the mum who could be too scared of the husband and refuse to talk and the child witnessing the whatever abuse. So, why the "TARGETING BLACK FAMILIES" GOT TO DO WITH IT bawo ??
Anything that happens to you, you want to tackle from the angle of racism😮... unlearn and relearn.. No social services can do anything without evidence, it's an evidence-based practice designed to keep everyone safe😮
It is called child neglect
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