My ex rejected me few times now. It's the second time I do no contact and she stills viewing my things and liking some stuff I post. They take care of you not forgetting about them. That's selfish. If they want you back then reach out and fix the mess they did. Do not accept breadcrumbs
The Love Chat what about if a friend turned lover that you’ve been talking for a few months, randomly likes his exes pics while he’s on vacation.. Maybe he saw her story and then that brought him to her profile.. HOWEVER, the pics were from a month ago so he had to go into her profile and like her 2 most recent pics (the 3rd most recent he already liked lol) Am I being crazy or is that weird? He has been constantly initiating conversation with me and trying to get attention from me all week by commenting on my stories but I still think something isn’t right
She dumped me. She watched my stories for 2-3 days after the breakup. I blocked her after that 3 days. She left me for someone else and uploads stories on instagram which shows how happy she is. Tagging him .. hearts .. and so on. She even hacked an old instagram account of me 4-5 weeks after the breakup and after no contact and watched my story. Creepy. After that 2-3 day i still do no contact. Sometimes its hard but well life goes on. I had 2 perfect years with her..
@@chonkybenetgods Oh wow long time i was not here.. thank you for the reminder and sorry for the late respone.. tbh im really really really happy now with my new girlfriend.. btw. my ex girlfriend even dumped her last boyfriend so idc :)
A month after my ex left me, I unfriended her on Facebook. Then 3 months after I unfriended her, last night, she liked a selfie that I posted because it was public. So she had to be on my page because we're no longer friends
@@WsRichRollin60s good for you man! My ex specifically has her location on for me to see on Snapchat, keep in mind she NEVER once turned her location on in the 2 years I’ve known her. That means that she purposely didn’t block me from seeing her location, why not just block me?
We seriously need a video on what if I was the bad guy in the relationship, like objectively. I'm going to therapy etc and beginning to think I don't need her anymore as a cover for my flaws, but I'm wondering what's she thinking (she is really healthy and secure so not going to rebound etc.)
Any update my friend? I’m in the exact same position, except my ex is eerily always the very first view on my story, like it’s kind of suspicious not even a minute after I post she’s the first viewer
I think a spark of light just lighted up the non-stop hole I was digging this entire week, but people need to be careful it can be not what they expected
Mine has been watching everything I do and even stepped it up to commenting on my page something she only did when we were together. But still no mention of seeing each other and thus I'm not breaking NC. Stick to your guns. Work on yourself for yourself be the man or woman you are meant to be and believe me results will come sooner or later .
I think I disagree with this one in a lot of circumstances. Letting your ex see you moving on probably just helps them to feel less guilty about the breakup. Plus, you take away all the mystery which is where they have room to wonder if you've moved on or not. So now, they see that you've moved on, so they feel better moving on themselves. Of course, every situation is different. Who knows?
MontagnaMagica I think it’ll hurt more if you do move on & nothing but more growth comes your way than their situation. For me my ex told me she doesn’t want me to be the best version of myself w/ somebody else because it was suppose to be w/ her. She’s a honest woman. Now what you think I’m going to focus on in every area of my life? GROWTH 🙌🏾🙏🏾
It's ok.. let him feel the regret then.. regret hurts more than guilt.. if he would feel guilty he would've felt it when he crushed your heart.. not after a period of time
She blocked me on message, twitter, and snapchat, but why not Instagram? She still views my stories but why didn’t she just block me on there too? Anyone have any idea
AGoodQudsi she in a new relationship and she checking in to stalk your shit and seen you grow. Don’t even block. If she like your shit, just act like she doesn’t even exist.
Is your ex still doing it? If so don't feel bad about it my ex is doing the same thing and I still don't know what her issue is. I just don't think about it
Thank you so much for the video. Currently I'm doing no contact. Today is his birthday wont be call him and text him for the wishing. Stay firm with my no contact.
My ex's birthday is this week too. Don't think I will wish him. He did reach out to me last week wishing me a happy holiday but I am back on no contact because the conversation didn't really go anywhere.
hey hows it going. I'm not relationship coach by any means, but my guess is that you're still on their mind. I'm going through this process right now, and if you're under no contact with them, its going to create a sense of mystery as to what you're doing. Regardless of who they're with now, the 2 of you have history. And by what I've been through and learned, time depletes bad memories and creates them to miss the good memories. With that being said, and its possible, not 100% true, they could eventually become aggravated with their current because the memories are playing in their head, and that new person isn't you. They can't talk to the new person about it, because lets be honest, talking about good memories with an ex always puts a nasty taste in our mouth. They also can't talk to you because you have no contact implemented, so they sit in their own remembrance of what you 2 had together, and that could make their heart grow fonder of you and the memories you shared. Like I said, I'm no relationship coach, I've just been through this a few times and based on MY experience, this is usually what has played out. Of course depending on the relationship you had with them, why you broke up, how long you were together, etc. Hope this helps.
In the same boat . My & my ex have each other blocked on Twitter. Broke off in April. I tweeted i was moving to another state for a career. ( which is true ) The very next day she writes me about paying her some cash lol. Besides that. Her fake burner account that she stalks me on that i know of. She liked the same tweets i liked on Twitter it on the fake profile. Now after she wrote me on IG She deleted the fake account & said her close friends told her i what i wrote when it was her lol. All of this and she’s dating a rebound.😂😂
@@jaycreativenyc1582 I stopped caring like 10 months ago even though I learnt from my current gf that my ex is engaged - my ex and my gf have common acquintances. It's bizarre what my ex is doing because she put out a spookily similar profiel pin on IG right after my gf put it out. I think these people are comparing themselves and their relationship to someone else constantly. That's how weak and low self esteemed they are. Be happy you are free of them xD
Hi Rory, how about the opposite? At first my ex still see my Instagram story. After I do NC and I’m not seeing his story, he also stop seeing my story. Should I see his story so he will see mine too? I’m so confused
He just viewed my Facebook My day just now after two months of no contact but I think he just accidentally saw it. I am not expecting anything. I will keep moving forward.
@@verunika2064 we got back together and then I broke up with him. I think it's just my ego. The moment he contacted me the feelings I had for him suddenly gone.
It’s been at least 4 weeks of NC and I unfollowed him but his roommate still follows me and keeps tabs on me for my ex and checks every single story I post. I don’t go on as often but here always lookin 🤷🏼♀️
Yes, it doesn't mean anything unless they reached out to comment on it. My ex did it, watched 2 of my Instagram stories, I thought he accidentally did it but then he watched my next one, I wanted to be friendly w him so I kinda flirted but ended up unsent them back, but he stopped watching it afterwards so I knew he was just curious. I did it once to him as well after he broke up w me but I stopped and deactivated my sec Instagram account Bec he blocked my main acc bc I'm just too hurt by it, and a couple of months later, he unblocked my main 😁😁 so our only platform of communication is on ig lol
My ex is actually really mad at me. He told one of my friends that he's done with me. Yet, he still watches my instagram stories every day. Every single one since we broke up. Which is 6 months now. I still love him. I reached out to him a month ago, but he ignores me, because he's mad. But this makes no sense to me. Why would you watch my stories when I piss you off?
@@XXI6 He blocked me out of nowhere a month ago. He never spoke to me since we broke up. He bullied me online with his friends and I saw that happening LIVE and since then I got into a depression and gained 15 kg
What if they friend request you a month after you tell them you’re moving on with your life and take care. Then watch all of your stories. Like your profile pic. Etc. weird
My ex reached out to me, I asked her out (after some conversation), she said she has to see when she has time. Two days later she tagged me under something on Facebook, writing something like "sorry, i just had to". I simply liked it but didnt reply any further. Should I have responded?
Well how is a guy I’m interested in who just broke up with his ex a whole month ago. Why is she liking or commenting on every other post of his. How is he to heal from this break-up if she’s constantly dinging his notifications and bam her name is a constant memory over and over AND he freaking is allowing this. But yet talks to me but says he’s not ready to dive in a new relationship but maybe take it slow. Me seeing her name constantly is just wrong. He needs to heal before adding her to social media. How is he to move on? Will she let him? Should I say adios?
what if she watches, i dunno... 90% of my instagram stories, also her mom and sister does it, her mom even reacts sometimes with a emoji and last week she putted a reaction on my story (note: i had a very good relationship with her, and her whole family)
A video on the situation where you were the one who broke up, regret it, asked for them back, they said no and no contact is entered across long distance...This is a killer...Most videos cover if you were broken up with, but not if you were the one who ended it and regretted it.
But it’s simply not this sort of website. If you are the one who broke up and want to fix it - do just that. Apologise, and fix what you have broken. This does not need another channel. You broke someone’s heart and you now know that it was wrong. What’s wrong with admitting it? Apologising for it? Did you think it will be easy? They are hurting - every day - because of you. If you care and if you love that person - you will relentlessly work on rebuilding what you have thrown away. Love is not easy - it takes work and compromise and growing as well as owing to mistakes. Nobody is perfect - neither you nor the person you’ve left, but if there’s love there is always room for improvement and growth. I wish you the best of luck - don’t give up. True love is rare and worth fighting for. You’ve got this.
I mentioned this on another video. I reactived my fb recently and have been showing off my newly happy self, he liked a public post but then later that night blocked me. I’m so confused I’m also a month in NC. He has belongings at my house most importantly a car, but hasn’t said anything about coming to get it. I’m feeling a lot better, worlds better but I’m still frustrated
First, thank you for the reality check, Rory. Many of us are hoping for any possible sign of reconciliation, and you provided a great perspective to keep hope in check. My ex and I have been in no contact for 4 months and has blocked me on all social media. However, this applies to her friends. I have always been friendly with my ex's friends, but I would describe us more as acquaintances. Ever since I didn't wish my ex a happy birthday at the start on the month, I have noticed they seem to be stalking my social media. From other people's experiences, why might her friends be following my every move now?
Sounds like narcissist bro. I’ve been single for 7 months now and no contact for 5 months now. Since then my ex hasn’t reached out. She said we weren’t compatible so I digressed. Anyways man stay woke and good luck
yes sounds like this and maybe she to stubborn to admit it that she miss you. but trust me. be happy that you are not with her anymore.. once a narcissist - always a narcissist. she will use him and in 1-2 years she will be moving on once again
I don't think she is a narcissist. We were together for almost two years. During that time, she was emotionally immature at times, but never showed signs of narcissism.
Hey Rory, my ex watches my all my stories on Instagram but doesn’t follow me. I don’t like thinking too much about it but would you say this is a good sign?
@Alan Eric thanks Alan! It’s amazing what time can do I’m with someone else now and am a lot happier. Looking back I can now see how it wasn’t working and I don’t want whatever that was back
But what if they never reach out and at the time they liked, they did try and grab my attention. Then a good thing was wasted :( Should i like their posts back?
@@themadmattster9647 Haven't talked to her in like 600 days; don't really care at all anymore. Takes a while before you can see things without such an emotional influence, and at that point, you'll realize you don't want them back.
Hi Rory, I have a question. My ex deleted from Facebook earlier this year and has since got into a new relationship, although during this time she has viewed my social media. Should I post pictures of the new girl I'm seeing as things are getting a little more serious? I've already documented my changes and new life as sorts but I've not used social media as a 'tactic' to make her jealous not that I'm saying that's the aim. Thanks
I'm not Rory but have went to the same problems you have. if you have a new girl and love her or at least, like her to a point you forgot about your ex...then why not. If your using it as a tactic then just don't. It's stupid and makes no sense. When you're ready to post a pic with a girl anywhere on social media - you'll know when it's right. NEVER do it for someone else!
Caught my ex friend stalking my fb page. She liked my 1 post but blocked and unblocked me. I'm like WTF leave me alone. So I blocked her instead, not playing these silly games.
What if my ex girlfriend not only checking and liking my posts but also copying them ... she will post on Instagram when I post on Instagram... what does this mean ...coach please help
she was viewing my stories on Instagram and I block her. I know this is wrong but I was so pissed off at her. I don't care, if she wants to come back let's call me.
Exactly - that amazing! It sucks and not everyone is as strong as you but if they don't ever reach out and just look at stories/snap - it literally means nothing and their just looking. So they're curious about you...that's nice! Do they contact you personally? NO? Well there's your answer. In these breakup times, it's hard but you need to be tough and strong...the only way sometimes!
My ex-girlfriend visits my Instagram profile a lot and other friends from her! after the breakup, I told her that I understand her and I truly do I know exactly what went wrong... and if she wanted to get me a second chance and is willing to work on this together she could contact me. At that point, I'm in no contact and concentrate on personal development. What does this mean if she and her friends stalk me on Instagram? she unfollowed me days after the breakup but looks at my profile. I would love to get your opinion on that. She doesn´t like a post from me but she views my profile a lot
It's been two months since you wrote this comment so don't know what happened since then but for your question which i've lived through that already...he's probably moved on but like every ex...he's curious to know what you're up too and still has some feeling for you but not enough to come back. Sometimes, The stories on your phone just keep going by itself (Instagram) so sometimes...it's just streaming all the stories of everyone and he doesnt care but either way, the liking of pics is still feelings and to get a reaction but enough to get back? Probably not! That's usually what it is if it was a normal breakup. Hope that helps :)
@Stevie V totally agree with you. My ex ghosted me and I decided to do the closure. Since then he keeps viewing and liking my photos on IG even more regularly than when we’re together. I unfriended him on FB and unfollowed him on IG, but still let him follow my IG, to let him know I still live well and even much better without him. To be honest, I have many queries, and both irritation and joy (I’m still not over him), but I still ignore and let him do his viewing and liking works. Until he contacts me directly (via message like we used to do), and he has to say something nice and explain why he ghosted, I only see him as one of my fans! 😎
Been in no contact for the last month after a rough break up (I definitely prestered). A month ago my ex blocked me on Instagram and Facebook. One week later she unblocked me from instagram and began watching my stories about once a week (but didn't follow me back). A couple days ago she decided to follow me on instagram after I posted a story showing the dog of a woman I've been seeing. I'm confused what to do....let her follow me? Remove her? Follow her back? My gut tells me to just let her follow me but not follow her back, would that be ignoring her? Is this the right move?
let her follow you, but don't be proactive unless she directly contacts you first. I can't say if you follow her back or not. All I can say is that I'm still friends with my most recent ex on facebook. I unfollowed her and haven't looked at her page in months, but she is still liking posts and about 3 weeks ago I post a new pic and she liked it right away and then liked 3 other posts. The last time she did this was when we were together five months before. Also, she's including me in her snaps now again. I noticed she would update her story after we broke up but I wouldn't see a snap from her about it (unless these two things are unrelated, im confused by snapchat still lol). Starting three weeks ago I started seeing snaps from her again, and last night there was another one. I took a week to look at the last one, but am undecided whether or not to look at this one. Luckily it's not some dude she's seeing it's just pictures or videos of her cats but I'm split whether all this means anything. Back to your original question though, I'd let her follow you, but not follow her and see if there's further interaction. That said, there'd probably be no harm following her but i just wouldn't talk to her without her talking to you first. I'm not going to say anything to my ex unless she talks to me first. She dumped me and also possibly lied to me about some other things that are nearly unforgivable unless she has a good excuse (long story).I guess if she started commenting on posts instead of just liking though, who knows lol. Fact of the matter is though, she dumped me. If she wants to be an adult, and not play some type of faceboo k or snapchat game, she'll talk to me. If not, it means she's immature and isn't really worth talking to haha
Doesn't matter! They probably curious, bored or checking in - Nothing matters if the ex doesnt contact you directly. They could so what's stopping them? If they wanna look at your stories...let them and all your other followers.
It’s been 2 mos with NC. 2 weeks ago all of sudden he invited me to join a group on Facebook. I don’t know people on that private group but I do know from 15 members only me he invited to that group. I thought it was just a random group but after I tried to invite another friends to that group so I know the process inviting people then I figured he clearly invited me for unknown reason. Was he trying to get my attention?
Couldve been a mistake or not BUT remember, inviting an ex to a group means nothing. If he/she really wants to reach out - they will through a normal way like text, messener or DM - that's how you know. Please don't read into that too much even though it's strange!
C. Stewart exactly man. Most people will think our decision is fucked up or selfish or crazy but like you said, it’s the best decision for both parties.
1 Charge exactly my ex started dating someone new and me seeing constant reminders just hurt even more so I just unfollowed on everything so I could heal mentally and emotionally. But no doubt stay up brotha!
C. Stewart and that’s why it’s a bad idea to remain friends with exs at all. No doubt that break ups are the toughest experiences in the world but we all must go through the motions. Anyways man take care and good luck
I blocked my recent ex on all social media. I have no desire to talk to her. And that will never change. I can guarantee that. In fact if she was the last woman on earth I will die a happy, single man.
Im in my 5th day of no contact and im telling you IT SUCKS! IT'S SOOOOO HARD! SADNESS AND ANXIETY THROUGH THE ROOF! Within that 5 days I was just minding myself..NOW I just a got a "comment" from my ex saying "You should do better next time" on one of my suppose to be "Sad, Im sorry, I miss you, I'm gonna do better next time" posts on Facebook. And she's currently in a new relationship I believe. Is she breaking no contact?! Should i reply in the comment? Should I "like" the comment as a form of acknowledgement?! What do I do?!
she is technically "breaking no contact" but it's kind of a useless comment don't ya think? If an ex isn't trying to talk to me as a normal human being, then I'd say ignore them. Sending snaps that she sends to everyone else (even though it's the first time since breakup) "liking" pics and status updates is NOT the same as say, calling me on the phone and wanting to talk, wanting to chat, being proactive, actually getting some courage to actually interact with me. So I would personally ignore a comment like that with her. It's hard as hell to be in no contact but it does get better. Holy shit it does. I went crazy when my ex dumped me but it's gotten to the point where I don't put her on a pedestal anymore
@@themadmattster9647 Hello, thanks for this. i appreciate it very much. Yes! i just ignored it BUT still took it into account. Still continuing no contact up to this day. Im actually going in my 3rd week of no contact in a few days..and let me tell everyone that IT WAS SUCH A HELL especially the 1st week, BUT..also like you said, it does get easier. I thought i would have never escape that time. Now, yes im still sad, yes i still feel bad, but it does get easier. I cry a little less everyday and definitely can smile more. Hoping for the best outcome.
after the break up, I did post snapchat stories here and there (some were private just for him to see) and he did see all my stories... but then I went to NC... and it’s been more than a week now, i deleted snapchat because i feel like everytime i posted something and he saw it, made me feel like i’m faking it .... today, i happened to download snapchat back again, and saw that he posted a story... but I didn’t click to view it, I deleted the app again.... Did I do the right thing?
i know this is five months old, and its a stupid question, but my ex used to not include me in her stories (like it shows a snap was sent to me, she just used to update her story and only if i peaked on my friends id see it) after the breakup, but recently I started seeing her include me. Is this just because there's a new feature on snapchat to do this or something, or does this mean something? I ask because im not super familiar with how snapchat works, though i have used it at times. Coincidentally, about 3 weeks ago I got 3 or 4 likes from her on FB before these new snaps started which I also hadn't had since before the break up, which is about 5 months ago now
TheMadMattster that’s weird. from my knowledge about snapchat, they can exclude you from seeing their story... and if she start to include you and starts to liking your photos then that’s mean she tries to get your attention
@@YeonLee112 yeah, I think you're right. I didn't know if there'd been a change on snapchat or something, since I don't use it too often nowadays- maybe im not giving myself enough credit to know when a signal's a signal lol. I'll look at her snaps but nothing else until she talks to me directly, I think it's a compromise since it was a long distance relationship (check out what Dating Guy says about those and you'll know what I mean)
TheMadMattster yea i used to listen to him too. i stopped now because i try not to think about him anymore, but it’s still very hard tbh, because there are days i just feel like i lost him all over again. I hope you’ll get what you looking for, whether you guys get back or you move on, Wish you the best :)
But what if you broke up with him? Do you have to initiate the reconnection , if you want him back. Because from my stand point, he views my story constantly, commented on my story, and liked my pic.
you were a rebound, really hard to get back, work on yourself and try to increase your confidence to a point where you FEEL like you could get her back if you wanted to, also, no contact
She's curious or bored or wants you to notice they saw the story/snap - that's it but if she wanted to really reach out - she would. The world has text, Dm's and messenger. Don't read into that too much if they don't contact you!
What If she has s new boyfriend like 2,5 months ago and she did begin to watch My Snapchat about 20 days ago? We är not Friends there, which medan she has to go go My profile to se it. She has seen it 7 different times since that.
She reached out very friendly and asked if I was dating someone so I replied no and she followed me on Instagram. She's not in us but I think that is a sign of interest. What should I do? Is it OK for me to send her a message since this is the 2nd time she initiated contact
Hi Rory,i have noticed since my ex dumped me she has been acting weird on her social media accounts(whatsapp) i.e being offline for a very long period of time and whenever she is online its for a couple minutes or so.What'S THE DEAL Rory?
Ok so there's a boy in my school I was dating him kinda and we had personal chats but after we broked up he leaked it all over the school 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭what should I do
Mine's been stalking my fb story only if its only pics... Not anything else i post... Yet he doesnt respond when i send an emoji. Hopefully he will come back around even as a friend
My ex liked one of my post yesterday at night but she is present in one of the pictures. My mentality is that she just liked it because she was there and nothing else. Even though we stopped following each other 2 weeks ago but we are cool about it.
Try to help with this my ex left me for a 23 year old guy that lives at home with his parents we have a age difference I am 49 she was 26 she dumped me for this guy I am a good looking successful fun guy they both worked for me now they both don’t she deleted me from social media but post pics of them together I can see it’s been 4 months and she was sleeping with me behind his back for first few months then I took her to therpy he didn’t know it didn’t help she chose him I have gone no contact for past month and nothing and I am trying but will I get her back or am I fooling my self
My ex and I broke up 2 months ago, but before we broke up he texted me he was sorry , I didn't respond , but on thanksgiving he like a picture of me that I had made public I had put up , it was odd considering we were never friends on social media, I looked on his fb page he has no friends or anything , do you think I should reach out to him ? Or is he trying to reach out to me ?
I had a little fight with my bf and I think that I was wrong he said do what you want and he said that I am always complaining I didn't respond and I was online the day after he blocked me i texted him in insta i Saïd that i didn t wanna fight with him thats why i didnt respond he Saïd okay and then he stopped responding and he didn t unblock me what should i do ?? and it means that we broke up ..?
Hello, I have a question. My ex FWB partner, and I have been past the period of no contact. He stoped consistent conversation via text & started by IG and Snap even though he never posts anything on snap all of a sudden he’s posting a lot and has been watching my snap & even started chats via snap. He eventually text me we were setting up a conversation on the phone he surpassed that since I wasn’t going to be available. While the phone call set up was my idea he purposed we meet for coffee he said he would be busy so he would text me by the end of next week yet I haven’t heard any follow up from him. But he still watches my snaps and has time to upload on his ? We are way to old for these games & I’m feeling disrespected and ready to block him all the way around. What should I do ?
I don't want no kind of contact with my ex. First I blocked her cellphone number. After that I blocked her on Facebook. After that I blocked her on Snapchat. After that I blocked her Instagram, but she made another account requesting to follow me (my account is private), then she had one of her relatives requesting to follow me. And I knew that they were related. I got tired of it, so I changed my Instagram name, in the hopes she will never find me again. If I blocked her cellphone number and multiple social media accounts, that should tell her that I don't want anything to do with her.
You can't lol but if you're still friends on Fb - he probably is...but does he care or not about your posts? That's something you'll never know SO if he does nothing (likes, comments etc) or never tries to contact you - then who cares if he checks on you or not. A simple message on DM, Messenger or text would be so much better. Now the question is YES, he checks your facebook but that's not a big enough thing to get excited about. Everyone does.
i know a cheat..u go to your profile and click ''view page source then control f and write ''initialchatfriendlist'' and it shows the codes of the accounts that have seen your profile :o
What does it mean if my ex unfollows me randomly (sorta) on Instagram after 5 months of radio silent no contact? I've pretty much moved on---seeing someone new. And very happy! I had posted infrequently on social media since the breakup (my ex viewed all my stories but never liked or commented) and then last week I posted a cute pic of me & the new boy on a date....and my ex unfollowed me that same week. What gives?
That happens, maybe he's just annoyed or feels that there's no use in following you anymore because you've (or both) moved on, you don't speak anymore and what's the use...alot of people do that - it sucks because they were a part of your life at one time but it happens all the time! :)
Today the 10 year anniversary of my mothers death. I posted a pic of her and said 10 years since bla bla bla. My ex liked the posts. Anyone have any thoughts on this
My ex brokeup with me yesterday.she asked me not to text her anymore.i asked her to block me on whatsapp so that I can clearly get answer that u do not love me anymore but she asked me that I cannot block .she asked that I cannot make relationship with anyone anymore and also not with u .what should I do,does she love me,does her words are real that she cannot b in relationship with anyone anymore.please give answer to all my questions
Abrar Wani sounds like she’s testing you bro. If I were you, what I would do is respect her decision, give her time and space and go about your life. In the end, time will be your best answer. Oh and one thing, I do not know how you feel but we can’t mistake lust over love. Lust is temporary but love is forever.
My ex rejected me few times now. It's the second time I do no contact and she stills viewing my things and liking some stuff I post. They take care of you not forgetting about them. That's selfish. If they want you back then reach out and fix the mess they did. Do not accept breadcrumbs
Mark G it’s actually called “haunting” but I guess the actual likes or messages are bread time lol
same with me
Hello!
So tell please how it ended?
It’s not worth it, you’ll look for her validation. Block and keep it moving.
I would rather prefer to do the same.
But oh god! She is just so cute ,😂 i cant be that cruel.
Agreed.
Well this is for those who want their exes back! Not for the moving ons
is this God talkin to me ?
Thanks for the compliment! But you're giving me way too much credit here!
The Love Chat what about if a friend turned lover that you’ve been talking for a few months, randomly likes his exes pics while he’s on vacation.. Maybe he saw her story and then that brought him to her profile..
HOWEVER, the pics were from a month ago so he had to go into her profile and like her 2 most recent pics (the 3rd most recent he already liked lol)
Am I being crazy or is that weird?
He has been constantly initiating conversation with me and trying to get attention from me all week by commenting on my stories but I still think something isn’t right
She dumped me. She watched my stories for 2-3 days after the breakup. I blocked her after that 3 days. She left me for someone else and uploads stories on instagram which shows how happy she is. Tagging him .. hearts .. and so on.
She even hacked an old instagram account of me 4-5 weeks after the breakup and after no contact and watched my story. Creepy.
After that 2-3 day i still do no contact. Sometimes its hard but well life goes on. I had 2 perfect years with her..
:(
How are you now?
@@chonkybenetgods Oh wow long time i was not here.. thank you for the reminder and sorry for the late respone.. tbh im really really really happy now with my new girlfriend.. btw. my ex girlfriend even dumped her last boyfriend so idc :)
A month after my ex left me, I unfriended her on Facebook. Then 3 months after I unfriended her, last night, she liked a selfie that I posted because it was public. So she had to be on my page because we're no longer friends
Hey how is it going now?
@@itsme-lp2wj she tried to come back, but by then I didn't want her anymore
@@WsRichRollin60s good for you man! My ex specifically has her location on for me to see on Snapchat, keep in mind she NEVER once turned her location on in the 2 years I’ve known her. That means that she purposely didn’t block me from seeing her location, why not just block me?
I said what I wanted and didn't wanted to be friends walked away and don't look back. The strongest negotiating position to walk away and mean it.
Michael Carrillo hell yeah
what happened then? update?
Update?
We seriously need a video on what if I was the bad guy in the relationship, like objectively. I'm going to therapy etc and beginning to think I don't need her anymore as a cover for my flaws, but I'm wondering what's she thinking (she is really healthy and secure so not going to rebound etc.)
Any update my friend? I’m in the exact same position, except my ex is eerily always the very first view on my story, like it’s kind of suspicious not even a minute after I post she’s the first viewer
I think a spark of light just lighted up the non-stop hole I was digging this entire week, but people need to be careful it can be not what they expected
Mine has been watching everything I do and even stepped it up to commenting on my page something she only did when we were together. But still no mention of seeing each other and thus I'm not breaking NC. Stick to your guns. Work on yourself for yourself be the man or woman you are meant to be and believe me results will come sooner or later .
update ?
I think I disagree with this one in a lot of circumstances. Letting your ex see you moving on probably just helps them to feel less guilty about the breakup. Plus, you take away all the mystery which is where they have room to wonder if you've moved on or not. So now, they see that you've moved on, so they feel better moving on themselves. Of course, every situation is different. Who knows?
MontagnaMagica I think it’ll hurt more if you do move on & nothing but more growth comes your way than their situation. For me my ex told me she doesn’t want me to be the best version of myself w/ somebody else because it was suppose to be w/ her. She’s a honest woman. Now what you think I’m going to focus on in every area of my life? GROWTH 🙌🏾🙏🏾
I think.. everything is a balance. If you post too much then it takes away mystery, if you post in a spaced out way, I think it creates mystery.
It's ok.. let him feel the regret then.. regret hurts more than guilt.. if he would feel guilty he would've felt it when he crushed your heart.. not after a period of time
My ex viewed my story after I disconnected from her (unfollowed and removed her from following me)
That means she had to actively search me and look?
She blocked me on message, twitter, and snapchat, but why not Instagram? She still views my stories but why didn’t she just block me on there too? Anyone have any idea
AGoodQudsi she in a new relationship and she checking in to stalk your shit and seen you grow. Don’t even block. If she like your shit, just act like she doesn’t even exist.
Out of all the videos on youtube, this one helped the most.thanks!
my ex doesnt watch my stories nor likes my posts but i m sure he is checking my profile
What if my ex is stalking me from a lot of fake profiles and just viewing all my stories even after I blocked most of his fake accounts ?
Is your ex still doing it? If so don't feel bad about it my ex is doing the same thing and I still don't know what her issue is. I just don't think about it
Thank you so much for the video. Currently I'm doing no contact. Today is his birthday wont be call him and text him for the wishing. Stay firm with my no contact.
My ex's birthday was also this week. Stayed firm in no contact...just realized it's almost 4 months. I stopped keeping track.
My ex's birthday is this week too. Don't think I will wish him. He did reach out to me last week wishing me a happy holiday but I am back on no contact because the conversation didn't really go anywhere.
They can view your stuff extensively yet being in a (rebound) relationship at the same time.... then what the hell are they thinking?!
hey hows it going. I'm not relationship coach by any means, but my guess is that you're still on their mind. I'm going through this process right now, and if you're under no contact with them, its going to create a sense of mystery as to what you're doing. Regardless of who they're with now, the 2 of you have history. And by what I've been through and learned, time depletes bad memories and creates them to miss the good memories. With that being said, and its possible, not 100% true, they could eventually become aggravated with their current because the memories are playing in their head, and that new person isn't you. They can't talk to the new person about it, because lets be honest, talking about good memories with an ex always puts a nasty taste in our mouth. They also can't talk to you because you have no contact implemented, so they sit in their own remembrance of what you 2 had together, and that could make their heart grow fonder of you and the memories you shared. Like I said, I'm no relationship coach, I've just been through this a few times and based on MY experience, this is usually what has played out. Of course depending on the relationship you had with them, why you broke up, how long you were together, etc. Hope this helps.
In the same boat . My & my ex have each other blocked on Twitter. Broke off in April. I tweeted i was moving to another state for a career. ( which is true ) The very next day she writes me about paying her some cash lol. Besides that. Her fake burner account that she stalks me on that i know of. She liked the same tweets i liked on Twitter it on the fake profile. Now after she wrote me on IG She deleted the fake account & said her close friends told her i what i wrote when it was her lol. All of this and she’s dating a rebound.😂😂
@@jaycreativenyc1582 I stopped caring like 10 months ago even though I learnt from my current gf that my ex is engaged - my ex and my gf have common acquintances. It's bizarre what my ex is doing because she put out a spookily similar profiel pin on IG right after my gf put it out. I think these people are comparing themselves and their relationship to someone else constantly. That's how weak and low self esteemed they are. Be happy you are free of them xD
Comparing you to the new supply
Hi Rory, how about the opposite?
At first my ex still see my Instagram story. After I do NC and I’m not seeing his story, he also stop seeing my story.
Should I see his story so he will see mine too? I’m so confused
You always help me to stay sane. Thanks for helping me to not overthink.
He just viewed my Facebook My day just now after two months of no contact but I think he just accidentally saw it. I am not expecting anything. I will keep moving forward.
updates?:)
@@verunika2064 we got back together and then I broke up with him. I think it's just my ego. The moment he contacted me the feelings I had for him suddenly gone.
It’s been at least 4 weeks of NC and I unfollowed him but his roommate still follows me and keeps tabs on me for my ex and checks every single story I post. I don’t go on as often but here always lookin 🤷🏼♀️
Yes, it doesn't mean anything unless they reached out to comment on it. My ex did it, watched 2 of my Instagram stories, I thought he accidentally did it but then he watched my next one, I wanted to be friendly w him so I kinda flirted but ended up unsent them back, but he stopped watching it afterwards so I knew he was just curious. I did it once to him as well after he broke up w me but I stopped and deactivated my sec Instagram account Bec he blocked my main acc bc I'm just too hurt by it, and a couple of months later, he unblocked my main 😁😁 so our only platform of communication is on ig lol
Maybe he did that because you reacted?! You shouldn't have done anything when he viewed it only twice
My ex is actually really mad at me. He told one of my friends that he's done with me. Yet, he still watches my instagram stories every day. Every single one since we broke up. Which is 6 months now. I still love him. I reached out to him a month ago, but he ignores me, because he's mad. But this makes no sense to me. Why would you watch my stories when I piss you off?
@@XXI6 He blocked me out of nowhere a month ago. He never spoke to me since we broke up. He bullied me online with his friends and I saw that happening LIVE and since then I got into a depression and gained 15 kg
@@SerenaKoeber what type of a man are u interested in? Bully? My God!
What if they friend request you a month after you tell them you’re moving on with your life and take care. Then watch all of your stories. Like your profile pic. Etc. weird
My ex reached out to me, I asked her out (after some conversation), she said she has to see when she has time. Two days later she tagged me under something on Facebook, writing something like "sorry, i just had to". I simply liked it but didnt reply any further. Should I have responded?
Well how is a guy I’m interested in who just broke up with his ex a whole month ago. Why is she liking or commenting on every other post of his. How is he to heal from this break-up if she’s constantly dinging his notifications and bam her name is a constant memory over and over AND he freaking is allowing this. But yet talks to me but says he’s not ready to dive in a new relationship but maybe take it slow. Me seeing her name constantly is just wrong. He needs to heal before adding her to social media. How is he to move on? Will she let him? Should I say adios?
what if she watches, i dunno... 90% of my instagram stories, also her mom and sister does it, her mom even reacts sometimes with a emoji and last week she putted a reaction on my story (note: i had a very good relationship with her, and her whole family)
What if he's constantly vieweing but no comments or likes ?
Lol he unblocked me so I blocked him after he blocked me back LOL I ain’t got time for his shit
😁🤣🤣😂😂🤣😁
A video on the situation where you were the one who broke up, regret it, asked for them back, they said no and no contact is entered across long distance...This is a killer...Most videos cover if you were broken up with, but not if you were the one who ended it and regretted it.
David Ashton yeah, had that convo, and as a result, entered no contact if she changed her mind.
But it’s simply not this sort of website. If you are the one who broke up and want to fix it - do just that. Apologise, and fix what you have broken. This does not need another channel. You broke someone’s heart and you now know that it was wrong. What’s wrong with admitting it? Apologising for it?
Did you think it will be easy? They are hurting - every day - because of you. If you care and if you love that person - you will relentlessly work on rebuilding what you have thrown away. Love is not easy - it takes work and compromise and growing as well as owing to mistakes. Nobody is perfect - neither you nor the person you’ve left, but if there’s love there is always room for improvement and growth.
I wish you the best of luck - don’t give up. True love is rare and worth fighting for. You’ve got this.
good call Jane - I liked your comment because my phone fell onto my face...
I mentioned this on another video. I reactived my fb recently and have been showing off my newly happy self, he liked a public post but then later that night blocked me. I’m so confused I’m also a month in NC. He has belongings at my house most importantly a car, but hasn’t said anything about coming to get it. I’m feeling a lot better, worlds better but I’m still frustrated
he doesnt seem happy for your transformation but is keeping the door open in the future since he doesnt take his belongings i guess
This sounds like narcissistic behavior ... the Virgo man did this to me but I know he still watches my page.
First, thank you for the reality check, Rory. Many of us are hoping for any possible sign of reconciliation, and you provided a great perspective to keep hope in check.
My ex and I have been in no contact for 4 months and has blocked me on all social media. However, this applies to her friends. I have always been friendly with my ex's friends, but I would describe us more as acquaintances. Ever since I didn't wish my ex a happy birthday at the start on the month, I have noticed they seem to be stalking my social media. From other people's experiences, why might her friends be following my every move now?
her friends are now her eyes ..
I guess. I'm not sure why though. She seems happy with her new guy, and they know I have no interest in friendship.
Sounds like narcissist bro. I’ve been single for 7 months now and no contact for 5 months now. Since then my ex hasn’t reached out. She said we weren’t compatible so I digressed. Anyways man stay woke and good luck
yes sounds like this and maybe she to stubborn to admit it that she miss you.
but trust me. be happy that you are not with her anymore..
once a narcissist - always a narcissist. she will use him and in 1-2 years she will be moving on once again
I don't think she is a narcissist. We were together for almost two years. During that time, she was emotionally immature at times, but never showed signs of narcissism.
Hey Rory, my ex watches my all my stories on Instagram but doesn’t follow me. I don’t like thinking too much about it but would you say this is a good sign?
Nope ...even if they’re looking at everything ..unless your phones blowing up and they want to see you they just throwing breadcrumbs
@Alan Eric thanks Alan! It’s amazing what time can do I’m with someone else now and am a lot happier. Looking back I can now see how it wasn’t working and I don’t want whatever that was back
But what if they never reach out and at the time they liked, they did try and grab my attention. Then a good thing was wasted :(
Should i like their posts back?
Sometimes I feel like Rory is god in disguise! I just feel it.
Take me off the pedestal too!
@@TheLoveChat Well I did take my ex off for sure and in return just now got a insta story reaction from my ex. Not a big deal but still 😅
If they're not checking regularly, is it safe to assume they're close to moving on?
You can never just assume anything
if they check at all they're not 100 percent moving on is my belief. Of course that doesn't mean they'll take you back, or that you should yourself.
@@themadmattster9647 Haven't talked to her in like 600 days; don't really care at all anymore. Takes a while before you can see things without such an emotional influence, and at that point, you'll realize you don't want them back.
he did unblocked me and left it like that. guess he aint coming back :")
update: he's watching my Instagram stories 😳😳
update: he did it again..
How it go? Any update?
YAAASolid he stopped watching it again...
Hi Rory, I have a question. My ex deleted from Facebook earlier this year and has since got into a new relationship, although during this time she has viewed my social media. Should I post pictures of the new girl I'm seeing as things are getting a little more serious? I've already documented my changes and new life as sorts but I've not used social media as a 'tactic' to make her jealous not that I'm saying that's the aim.
Thanks
I'm not Rory but have went to the same problems you have. if you have a new girl and love her or at least, like her to a point you forgot about your ex...then why not. If your using it as a tactic then just don't. It's stupid and makes no sense. When you're ready to post a pic with a girl anywhere on social media - you'll know when it's right. NEVER do it for someone else!
What about when she likes a picture of a friend of mine but i am also in the picture? Is justa friend of mine and myself in that picture
Caught my ex friend stalking my fb page. She liked my 1 post but blocked and unblocked me. I'm like WTF leave me alone. So I blocked her instead, not playing these silly games.
I didn't block her but I did unfriend her. Far as I'm concerned out of site out of mind. I can focus on me.
What if my ex girlfriend not only checking and liking my posts but also copying them ... she will post on Instagram when I post on Instagram... what does this mean ...coach please help
she was viewing my stories on Instagram and I block her. I know this is wrong but I was so pissed off at her. I don't care, if she wants to come back let's call me.
CHRISTOS CHRYSANTHOU very savage 😂😂😂😂
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Exactly - that amazing! It sucks and not everyone is as strong as you but if they don't ever reach out and just look at stories/snap - it literally means nothing and their just looking. So they're curious about you...that's nice! Do they contact you personally? NO? Well there's your answer. In these breakup times, it's hard but you need to be tough and strong...the only way sometimes!
@@steviev958 she contact me after three months she apologise to me and now we are together!
My ex-girlfriend visits my Instagram profile a lot and other friends from her! after the breakup, I told her that I understand her and I truly do I know exactly what went wrong... and if she wanted to get me a second chance and is willing to work on this together she could contact me. At that point, I'm in no contact and concentrate on personal development. What does this mean if she and her friends stalk me on Instagram? she unfollowed me days after the breakup but looks at my profile. I would love to get your opinion on that. She doesn´t like a post from me but she views my profile a lot
Did she ever reach out?
What does it means my ex still liking my pictures on IG and viewing "my day" yet he has a new girlfriend right now.. Im confused what does it means..
It's been two months since you wrote this comment so don't know what happened since then but for your question which i've lived through that already...he's probably moved on but like every ex...he's curious to know what you're up too and still has some feeling for you but not enough to come back. Sometimes, The stories on your phone just keep going by itself (Instagram) so sometimes...it's just streaming all the stories of everyone and he doesnt care but either way, the liking of pics is still feelings and to get a reaction but enough to get back? Probably not! That's usually what it is if it was a normal breakup. Hope that helps :)
@Stevie V totally agree with you.
My ex ghosted me and I decided to do the closure. Since then he keeps viewing and liking my photos on IG even more regularly than when we’re together. I unfriended him on FB and unfollowed him on IG, but still let him follow my IG, to let him know I still live well and even much better without him.
To be honest, I have many queries, and both irritation and joy (I’m still not over him), but I still ignore and let him do his viewing and liking works.
Until he contacts me directly (via message like we used to do), and he has to say something nice and explain why he ghosted, I only see him as one of my fans! 😎
Do Quyen Le this is literally my story right now 😎
Been in no contact for the last month after a rough break up (I definitely prestered). A month ago my ex blocked me on Instagram and Facebook. One week later she unblocked me from instagram and began watching my stories about once a week (but didn't follow me back). A couple days ago she decided to follow me on instagram after I posted a story showing the dog of a woman I've been seeing. I'm confused what to do....let her follow me? Remove her? Follow her back? My gut tells me to just let her follow me but not follow her back, would that be ignoring her? Is this the right move?
let her follow you, but don't be proactive unless she directly contacts you first. I can't say if you follow her back or not. All I can say is that I'm still friends with my most recent ex on facebook. I unfollowed her and haven't looked at her page in months, but she is still liking posts and about 3 weeks ago I post a new pic and she liked it right away and then liked 3 other posts. The last time she did this was when we were together five months before. Also, she's including me in her snaps now again. I noticed she would update her story after we broke up but I wouldn't see a snap from her about it (unless these two things are unrelated, im confused by snapchat still lol). Starting three weeks ago I started seeing snaps from her again, and last night there was another one. I took a week to look at the last one, but am undecided whether or not to look at this one. Luckily it's not some dude she's seeing it's just pictures or videos of her cats but I'm split whether all this means anything. Back to your original question though, I'd let her follow you, but not follow her and see if there's further interaction. That said, there'd probably be no harm following her but i just wouldn't talk to her without her talking to you first. I'm not going to say anything to my ex unless she talks to me first. She dumped me and also possibly lied to me about some other things that are nearly unforgivable unless she has a good excuse (long story).I guess if she started commenting on posts instead of just liking though, who knows lol. Fact of the matter is though, she dumped me. If she wants to be an adult, and not play some type of faceboo k or snapchat game, she'll talk to me. If not, it means she's immature and isn't really worth talking to haha
What if your ex's friends/family are viewing your stories?
Doesn't matter! They probably curious, bored or checking in - Nothing matters if the ex doesnt contact you directly. They could so what's stopping them? If they wanna look at your stories...let them and all your other followers.
What if he told me to move on then two months later he like and comment on my post without following me?
What if my ex is not viewing/liking my social media?
but what if the ex watches all of my stories since the breakup and each one of them...
Same bruh, they just keeping tabs
It’s been 2 mos with NC. 2 weeks ago all of sudden he invited me to join a group on Facebook. I don’t know people on that private group but I do know from 15 members only me he invited to that group. I thought it was just a random group but after I tried to invite another friends to that group so I know the process inviting people then I figured he clearly invited me for unknown reason. Was he trying to get my attention?
Couldve been a mistake or not BUT remember, inviting an ex to a group means nothing. If he/she really wants to reach out - they will through a normal way like text, messener or DM - that's how you know. Please don't read into that too much even though it's strange!
I removed my ex from all social media. I’m not the show off kinda person
1 Charge same here bro it’s not a spite move it’s just doing what’s best for us!
C. Stewart exactly man. Most people will think our decision is fucked up or selfish or crazy but like you said, it’s the best decision for both parties.
1 Charge exactly my ex started dating someone new and me seeing constant reminders just hurt even more so I just unfollowed on everything so I could heal mentally and emotionally. But no doubt stay up brotha!
C. Stewart and that’s why it’s a bad idea to remain friends with exs at all. No doubt that break ups are the toughest experiences in the world but we all must go through the motions. Anyways man take care and good luck
I blocked my recent ex on all social media. I have no desire to talk to her. And that will never change. I can guarantee that. In fact if she was the last woman on earth I will die a happy, single man.
Im in my 5th day of no contact and im telling you IT SUCKS! IT'S SOOOOO HARD! SADNESS AND ANXIETY THROUGH THE ROOF! Within that 5 days I was just minding myself..NOW I just a got a "comment" from my ex saying "You should do better next time" on one of my suppose to be "Sad, Im sorry, I miss you, I'm gonna do better next time" posts on Facebook. And she's currently in a new relationship I believe. Is she breaking no contact?! Should i reply in the comment? Should I "like" the comment as a form of acknowledgement?! What do I do?!
she is technically "breaking no contact" but it's kind of a useless comment don't ya think? If an ex isn't trying to talk to me as a normal human being, then I'd say ignore them. Sending snaps that she sends to everyone else (even though it's the first time since breakup) "liking" pics and status updates is NOT the same as say, calling me on the phone and wanting to talk, wanting to chat, being proactive, actually getting some courage to actually interact with me. So I would personally ignore a comment like that with her. It's hard as hell to be in no contact but it does get better. Holy shit it does. I went crazy when my ex dumped me but it's gotten to the point where I don't put her on a pedestal anymore
@@themadmattster9647 Hello, thanks for this. i appreciate it very much. Yes! i just ignored it BUT still took it into account. Still continuing no contact up to this day. Im actually going in my 3rd week of no contact in a few days..and let me tell everyone that IT WAS SUCH A HELL especially the 1st week, BUT..also like you said, it does get easier. I thought i would have never escape that time. Now, yes im still sad, yes i still feel bad, but it does get easier. I cry a little less everyday and definitely can smile more. Hoping for the best outcome.
after the break up, I did post snapchat stories here and there (some were private just for him to see) and he did see all my stories... but then I went to NC... and it’s been more than a week now, i deleted snapchat because i feel like everytime i posted something and he saw it, made me feel like i’m faking it .... today, i happened to download snapchat back again, and saw that he posted a story... but I didn’t click to view it, I deleted the app again.... Did I do the right thing?
i know this is five months old, and its a stupid question, but my ex used to not include me in her stories (like it shows a snap was sent to me, she just used to update her story and only if i peaked on my friends id see it) after the breakup, but recently I started seeing her include me. Is this just because there's a new feature on snapchat to do this or something, or does this mean something? I ask because im not super familiar with how snapchat works, though i have used it at times. Coincidentally, about 3 weeks ago I got 3 or 4 likes from her on FB before these new snaps started which I also hadn't had since before the break up, which is about 5 months ago now
TheMadMattster that’s weird. from my knowledge about snapchat, they can exclude you from seeing their story... and if she start to include you and starts to liking your photos then that’s mean she tries to get your attention
@@YeonLee112 yeah, I think you're right. I didn't know if there'd been a change on snapchat or something, since I don't use it too often nowadays- maybe im not giving myself enough credit to know when a signal's a signal lol. I'll look at her snaps but nothing else until she talks to me directly, I think it's a compromise since it was a long distance relationship (check out what Dating Guy says about those and you'll know what I mean)
TheMadMattster yea i used to listen to him too. i stopped now because i try not to think about him anymore, but it’s still very hard tbh, because there are days i just feel like i lost him all over again. I hope you’ll get what you looking for, whether you guys get back or you move on, Wish you the best :)
1:18!! That's great news for me because the girl I like just liked her ex's post and I've been worried sick. So phew!!😂
But what if you broke up with him? Do you have to initiate the reconnection , if you want him back. Because from my stand point, he views my story constantly, commented on my story, and liked my pic.
Any advice on an Ex that went gay after we dated for 3 years
Wow I’m so sorry for you 😢
Can you make a video on what to do if your ex left you for their ex?
you were a rebound, really hard to get back, work on yourself and try to increase your confidence to a point where you FEEL like you could get her back if you wanted to, also, no contact
What if she is first one to watch my snaps and she hasnt posted anything in while
She's curious or bored or wants you to notice they saw the story/snap - that's it but if she wanted to really reach out - she would. The world has text, Dm's and messenger. Don't read into that too much if they don't contact you!
What If she has s new boyfriend like 2,5 months ago and she did begin to watch My Snapchat about 20 days ago? We är not Friends there, which medan she has to go go My profile to se it. She has seen it 7 different times since that.
She reached out very friendly and asked if I was dating someone so I replied no and she followed me on Instagram. She's not in us but I think that is a sign of interest. What should I do? Is it OK for me to send her a message since this is the 2nd time she initiated contact
Hi Rory,i have noticed since my ex dumped me she has been acting weird on her social media accounts(whatsapp) i.e being offline for a very long period of time and whenever she is online its for a couple minutes or so.What'S THE DEAL Rory?
Plus I am in the period of No contact.
i think that she is avoiding contact or wants to catch your attention with her behaviour..
Ok so there's a boy in my school I was dating him kinda and we had personal chats but after we broked up he leaked it all over the school 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭what should I do
Report to police immediately, cyber bullying is no joke
Mine's been stalking my fb story only if its only pics... Not anything else i post... Yet he doesnt respond when i send an emoji. Hopefully he will come back around even as a friend
My ex liked one of my post yesterday at night but she is present in one of the pictures. My mentality is that she just liked it because she was there and nothing else. Even though we stopped following each other 2 weeks ago but we are cool about it.
What if they keep dming me from my insta stories?
Try to help with this my ex left me for a 23 year old guy that lives at home with his parents we have a age difference I am 49 she was 26 she dumped me for this guy I am a good looking successful fun guy they both worked for me now they both don’t she deleted me from social media but post pics of them together I can see it’s been 4 months and she was sleeping with me behind his back for first few months then I took her to therpy he didn’t know it didn’t help she chose him I have gone no contact for past month and nothing and I am trying but will I get her back or am I fooling my self
What if he unfollowed me and removed me from his followers but he views my ig stories
I don't believe that, by you keeping your ex's number in the first place means they care.
What about if he commented on a post? Do you like the message or is this breaking no contact?
My ex and I broke up 2 months ago, but before we broke up he texted me he was sorry , I didn't respond , but on thanksgiving he like a picture of me that I had made public I had put up , it was odd considering we were never friends on social media, I looked on his fb page he has no friends or anything , do you think I should reach out to him ? Or is he trying to reach out to me ?
I had a little fight with my bf and I think that I was wrong he said do what you want and he said that I am always complaining I didn't respond and I was online the day after he blocked me
i texted him in insta i Saïd that i didn t wanna fight with him thats why i didnt respond he Saïd okay and then he stopped responding and he didn t unblock me what should i do ?? and it means that we broke up ..?
Just give him some time to cool off!
The Love Chat i stop reaching out ?
What if they have my friends and family and viewing there posts and stories ?
Hello, I have a question. My ex FWB partner, and I have been past the period of no contact. He stoped consistent conversation via text & started by IG and Snap even though he never posts anything on snap all of a sudden he’s posting a lot and has been watching my snap & even started chats via snap. He eventually text me we were setting up a conversation on the phone he surpassed that since I wasn’t going to be available. While the phone call set up was my idea he purposed we meet for coffee he said he would be busy so he would text me by the end of next week yet I haven’t heard any follow up from him. But he still watches my snaps and has time to upload on his ? We are way to old for these games & I’m feeling disrespected and ready to block him all the way around. What should I do ?
Dam I'm dealing with some like that too lol
I don't want no kind of contact with my ex. First I blocked her cellphone number. After that I blocked her on Facebook. After that I blocked her on Snapchat. After that I blocked her Instagram, but she made another account requesting to follow me (my account is private), then she had one of her relatives requesting to follow me. And I knew that they were related. I got tired of it, so I changed my Instagram name, in the hopes she will never find me again. If I blocked her cellphone number and multiple social media accounts, that should tell her that I don't want anything to do with her.
And I changed my phone number. And deleted my Facebook...mainly because I was tired of all the drama on there.
Thank you so very much, Rory !!
How can i see if he's checking on my facebook?
You can't lol but if you're still friends on Fb - he probably is...but does he care or not about your posts? That's something you'll never know SO if he does nothing (likes, comments etc) or never tries to contact you - then who cares if he checks on you or not. A simple message on DM, Messenger or text would be so much better. Now the question is YES, he checks your facebook but that's not a big enough thing to get excited about. Everyone does.
i know a cheat..u go to your profile and click ''view page source then control f and write ''initialchatfriendlist'' and it shows the codes of the accounts that have seen your profile :o
@@gew977 That's a proven fake. It only shows your more recent contacts in your messenger/chat list. Those who you interact most with.
It’s nearly a year, my ex is happily in another relationship yet his friends always watch everything I upload. Why is that?
They're spying obviously
@@netefrog I just don’t get that. Like surely that must do nothing for you lol 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
My ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago and today he sent a friend request on fb. Should I accept?? Please advice
No
Fuck his happiness by ignoring him. The same I did. Now I’m ex begging for my attention
What does it mean if my ex unfollows me randomly (sorta) on Instagram after 5 months of radio silent no contact? I've pretty much moved on---seeing someone new. And very happy! I had posted infrequently on social media since the breakup (my ex viewed all my stories but never liked or commented) and then last week I posted a cute pic of me & the new boy on a date....and my ex unfollowed me that same week. What gives?
That happens, maybe he's just annoyed or feels that there's no use in following you anymore because you've (or both) moved on, you don't speak anymore and what's the use...alot of people do that - it sucks because they were a part of your life at one time but it happens all the time! :)
In my case it is more than one heart. It's happened before though.
What if they commented ?
Why my x view my post
Today the 10 year anniversary of my mothers death. I posted a pic of her and said 10 years since bla bla bla. My ex liked the posts. Anyone have any thoughts on this
My ex brokeup with me yesterday.she asked me not to text her anymore.i asked her to block me on whatsapp so that I can clearly get answer that u do not love me anymore but she asked me that I cannot block .she asked that I cannot make relationship with anyone anymore and also not with u .what should I do,does she love me,does her words are real that she cannot b in relationship with anyone anymore.please give answer to all my questions
Abrar Wani sounds like she’s testing you bro. If I were you, what I would do is respect her decision, give her time and space and go about your life. In the end, time will be your best answer. Oh and one thing, I do not know how you feel but we can’t mistake lust over love. Lust is temporary but love is forever.
She likes pictures of myself not something else lol
Lol it's no accident when you aren't following one another
Grest channel
Friend request all over again
Apreciated