@@nataliea5570 hi there. A little over a month ago, my SP (who is also my best friend) told me he cares deeply for me but isn't IN love with me. Instead of reacting, I just said "okay." and continued as normal. He lives two hours away from me. For the past month I've seen him at least once a week where I stay the night 2-3 nights. But this past weekend was different. Over 4th of July weekend, I wrote affirmations like "I have keys to ______ apartment. _______ tells me he loves me ________." On Saturday he gave me key to his apartment and told me he loves me. So basically six days after hardcore affirmations. My SP and I are best friends so we don't have any anger towards each other. Not sure if that helps or not. I'm also very happy being alone so I don't react to things I don't like. Binge watching Shelly and Kim Velez has really changed my mindset. I hope this helps. :)
After binge watching your videos for the past week, it's helped me embody that feeling what it's like to be loved, chosen, and claimed. Before I didn't know what that felt like so it was very hard to create the inner experience of that. But your self love and confidence radiates so much that I can now conjure up that feeling inside of me too. I use it as like a guide as to what I'm supposed to feel and it's helped a lot.
Thank you, Shelly! Your videos (as well as self study courses) have been helping me immensely. He has started to respond to my instagram stories and occasionally we have conversations. Deep and heartfelt conversations, not just small talk!
So thankful for you. I have my SP. I know your teachings helped a great deal. I watch all of your videos ( sp related or not) just because I love them. Beautiful blessings to everyone.
@@saturn3491 Sure, I wrote in my manifesting journal ( dollar store spiral notebook, so nothing fancy) that I had found the perfect mate for me, then listed qualities he would have. Strong, loving, kind to animals, etc. I started telling myself anyone would be lucky to have me, I'm a great catch and I started sitting with that feeling of being a radiant person. I set unconventional reminders to sit with the feeling. For example, if my VPN randomized repeating numbers, I'd tell myself I'm loved. Or if a commercial came on TV for fabric softener, I would tell myself that I was soft attractive femine energy, etc. Just weird fun stuff like that. And one day he walked into a craft beer tasting and set down beside me and we have been inseparable for 2 years.
I am incredible. Of course I am always chosen. I am one of a kind. I am totally worthy. I am the one who is wanted, pursued, loved, and taken care of. He’s so lucky I chose him.
Hi Shelly I met you recently and have been watching your videos ever since. More like from May onwards. You have been life-changing for me! 2 days back me and my SP had a fight and we went silent, and I thought he would never talk to me (the whole relationship dynamic was just wrong - he was seeing me totally different than what I expected). That just rubbed me off completely.. And even though I had my doubts at times whether I am manifesting correctly, I persisted... Accepted what it is, and told myself, it is done. He will realize who I am and come around. And shelly, he did. Just 15 mins back he messaged me. Thank you Shelly. I will continue believing that I am chosen and continue working on my self-concept. Love you... God bless you shelly.. love and light❤️
Yeah, I know that I am amazing, I feel like a goddess most of the time, they even tell me this, but never commit to me. I’ll begin to affirm I am chosen, I am the priority and see what’ll happen 🧐
During the quarantine I felt so many things about myself. However when I started working out and focused on my Photography and found another hobby I really liked and I'm happy about it. You're so right! Self love is amazing..my sp actually came to visit me recently and I am hoping things keep advancing 😊
I put myself into my own type of quarantine by cutting off everyone in my life to focus on myself and my self love. I’m not social whatsoever other than doing Uber Eats and DoorDash deliveries. Do you think that focusing on money and hobbies is the a good step to better manifesting? I’m trying to repair things with my sp, have been for a year but my friends stirred up drama a few days ago even with me being in no contact, I’m afraid they made it worse. Do I just shake it off and think to myself “he won’t think differently of me because of my friends” and just intend he’ll contact me? Thank you for any feedback if you see this!
I just had a dream where I was with my SP and I had the inner conversations(as if I was talking to him)from last night in my dream. and it was very nice. Also I love learning from your videos 💞💞
I'm getting engaged to him this summer and me and him are the luckiest to have each other. I deserve this because i know my worth and how caring and loving person i am ❤☺ thank you Shelly you are amazing
I gave up on my SP. I manifested him in with zero contact for months. I just lost interest 🤷. I'm still working on myself and told the universe I trust you to bring me in the one who deserves me. ❤️
Hi, get anyone to love or (SP) attracted to you. And get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Wilson,he helped me restore my 5 years relationship. Also Dr Wilson Always keep with his words, I will advise you to seek his help thanks
Love this topic I guess that much of us believe that we are amazing,that we deserve wonderful things but some how as Shelly said,we don't fully believe that,diving deep into it I think is cause we pressure ourselves too much to be this idea that society told us of what perfection or successful means to be,we compare ourselves to much,we fear that someone hurt us or abandon us if they know our true self,I guess the more we release those things the more kind you get with your inner self and of course you start to trust that you deserve and you are amazing !!! ❤
Hi Shelly, love all your videos. Would be so appreciative if you wouldn’t mind creating a video about improving our existing relationships with our partners, families, friends, co-workers. That would be so awesome. Thanks.
You are incredible, Shelly. Thank you so much for this video. I know that I am an amazing, special person and it's just a matter of time until my person and I will be together 💖
I was about to give up because I feel really tired and I dont want to put other energies for him, its been six months and I still see that 3p that I know is absolutely someone that he "use" to not stay alone because he thinking about me and I am the one he really want, but after this long time nothing seems to move. So I said okay who cares.. I am unique and I know it. My self love is on point so I dont understand why she is still there or why he seems stubborn. And when I said I give up this video popped up. Maybe its another piece I have to work on and its ok but honestly after 6 months I feel really tired to "fight" for this, I dont need to "fight" to demonstrate my value. Every suggestion is appreciated Shelly. Thank you for your work and inspiration
I had all those beliefs about me and was mucked around and played over and over and over again because of toxic masculinity not wanting a woman of substance. I’ll try again trust me, beliefs got chipped away by the reality of how people treat me
I’m not pretty successful amazing or special. But I tell myself I’m the only person with free will in my universe. I’m a god in my universe. So I guess I can have who I want.
Don't affirm those things about yourself. Say that you are all of those things - pretty, successful, amazing, and special. Flip that into a positive, and you'll start to believe it. :)
@@Hollins23 That’s not the goal. My goal…what I am manifesting…is a world where looks don’t matter. That was my point. I’m still god and I can still have what I want;)
First I have to mention the orb that comes out of nowhere about 6:35 & 2nd thank you for sharing this because this has been the answer I've waited for. I've questioned why I haven't had my SP come in because I do KNOW I am rare & amazing but still single. Thank you!!
Hi, Ms. Shelly. It's Kaleb. I know that I am in an amazing relationship with my specific person. It's already mine and I know it. My specific person is this girl that I was trying to talk to and get to know in my freshman year of high school and now I'm going to be a sophomore this year. We were on the wrong foot before when I blew her up with messages and she blocked me on both of my Instagram's. I also believe that we made up and we're in a relationship together. Now, through self-concept, I'm her boyfriend and she's my girlfriend and we're now dating each other and I know that we're now together and I feel cherished, loved, and adored by her but combined, I'm chosen by her and I feel like you too Ms. Shelly with your man. Thanks, Ms. Shelly. Bye.
Hi Kaleb, I wasn't sure about telling you this but I've seen your similar comments on other channels and, I just wanted to say while you're affirming for a new you, I think it would fasten the process to stop telling the old story. Not sure if this is how you feel but your SP isn't an "SP" anymore, she's literally your girlfriend.
@@OO-ct4hq Agreed 🤭 The way it feels to me personally is he is quite quickly slipping into spamming territory (whether accidentally or not), literally just copying and pasting the same thing over and over again. But again, just my own feeling about it 👍🏻
@@OO-ct4hq Yeah, I know that she already is my girlfriend, and yeah. I see where both of you are getting at and I'm not going to be repeating the same story and now I have a new story and I'm the director and everything, thank you, guys.
Hi, get anyone to love or (SP) attracted to you. And get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Wilson,he helped me restore my 5 years relationship. Also Dr Wilson Always keep with his words, I will advise you to seek his help thanks
When I think of myself, I feel like I do have a strong sense of self-love in telling myself, "I am amazing. I have so much to offer in a relationship, anybody would be lucky to have me," but my fear of abandonment makes me feel like every guy I meet never stays. How do I break out of this fear in feeling like they won't see how valuable I actually am and leave? Can you have a strong sense of self-concept and fear of abandonment at the same time?
Hi Shelly, firstly I want to say a big thank you!! Your videos are amazing and inspire me all the time! I just have a question, I’ve seen many videos about how to manifest a job of my dreams. However, the main thing was to decide what the job of our dreams is. However, for the first time in my life, I do not know what my next steps are and what my dream job is. I don't focus on the specifics as I don’t know what my dream job looks like... I try to feel like I’m doing something I really like and am well paid, but it’s very hard and I feel literally no emotion about it. Do you have any tips on how to realise or how to manifest a job of my dreams without knowing what it is? Thank you!
Hi Shelly, Part of me....the real me actually feels like it's not even right for me to be chosen or not. I CHOOSE HIM. I can choose a man, I am a woman. A beautiful, funny girl. I struggle with this because another part that's been conditioned by experiences of the last year is expecting disappointment, and hot-cold behavior. I have actual ptsd where I get near panic attacks, so deep runs the pain. And this is messing with my desire because I don't feel like I can really get into the feeling of what I want, because I can't allow myself to go there anymore because I'm too proud and too uncomfortable with rejection. If that makes sense. I understand the lao but I don't know how to deal with this, wanting something you can't allow yourself to feel anymore...Not doubting if you can manifest your desire, but doubting what you want. I feel like I can't really get clear on what I want, there's so much bagage in the way, I feel almost numb sometimes. Is there any video on this? I doesn't get talked about much. Most people just have a problem believing, not 'wanting". Open to advice from you Shelly
Hi, Shelly! What's your opinion/belief on twin flames? I used to believe in this concept but have been questioning it heavily after learning about EIYPO and that we are the creators of our reality. I really resonate with your content and would love to hear what you have to say on this.
Hi Shelly, I've been watching your videos and they've been great! 😊 However, I just want to ask does this work on same-sex relationships too? (I don't think there's much about same-sex relationships with LoA). Like say if you are a girl and you want to be chosen by a specific girl in mind.
I completely jive with you. How you do it I do it and seriously its so easy cause I understand you easily. I love you so much. This video made me smile i know I am incridble 😊😍
Hi, get anyone to love or (SP) attracted to you. And get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Wilson,he helped me restore my 5 years relationship. Also Dr Wilson Always keep with his words, I will advise you to seek his help thanks
I just have a question and I need help. I use the law of assumption to get my sp to conform to me and it works. Ive gotten him to come back to me after he's the one that left, iv gotten him to say/text me specific things and I know he cares about me. Yet whenever I try to manifest a hangout/hu with him it never works out and doesn't happen. That is the main thing I want with him and it it my main focus and I genuinely believe in it happening but its been months and I've manifested everything I want but THAT hangout. I just don't know what I should do or if there are specific things I should be doing/saying/thinking to get him to see me.
ur so focused on making the hang out happen that ur creating resistance. ur living in lack. u may have a limiting belief. and remember that manifesting is easy!! ur trying too hard. u don’t need to try. u KNOW he wants you. u know he loves talking to you. u know he loves being with you. u know he wants to see u all the time!!
Hi, get anyone to love or (SP) attracted to you. And get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Wilson,he helped me restore my 5 years relationship. Also Dr Wilson Always keep with his words, I will advise you to seek his help thanks
I need a little help, I have been manifesting my sp for a while now and I have already manifested few things before but now I’m not seeing a break through I’ve been affirming keeping mental diet in check but still it’s been a while I’m not seeing a break through even tho I know and feel from inside I’m the one and all so what do you think I should do or try to see a breakthrough or something because you know when we manifest and then when we see a little movement in our 3D even if it’s little it motivates us to keep going. So what do you think I should do or think is missing
@@ShellyBullard I’m not checking you know but it’s just once in a while one notices so I was just hoping of you could tell me what might help me see a breakthrough or what I might be doing wrong
Hi Shelly, Thank you for this content ! 🔥💗❤️🔥 My SP reached out, begging and telling me he loves me, he can’t stop thinking bout me, telling me he’ll get rid of 3p to be with me again. 48 hours later he’s telling me he’s changing his mind and can’t be in a relationship with me. What happened ? (i keep affirming and work on my SC)
Can i manifest my sp ...if they are seeing someone else...and also if i am doing no contact with them.....???? I have known my sp for 6 years now(we are childhood besties and she even had feelings for me for like 4 years but unfortunately i was seeing other girls at that time) she has known this guy for like 5 months in her college. she used to love me a hell lot like unconditional love and had strong feelings for me....and we were fwb for a while.recently there was bit of a lack in conversations from my side towards her.but i have realised now that all this while it was actually her only that i had been in love with!!!!!!!! Pls tell me shelly how to manifest her back.i really love her and dont want to lose her Ps:thanks a lot shelly for this yt channel....your videos lighten up my day. Love from india🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
@@marycb7294 thanks a lot mary for replying......i will surely watch videos about this:everyone is you pushed out.... I really love this person a lot...infact she loved me even more at a time.....i have realised my mistakes and the chances i didnt take.... I have finally realised who my true love is......and will try my best to make us work
How can I maintain high self concept. I've been trying to find my life purpose, the job that's "the one" for years.... I still feel like I'm no one. I don't know how to start...
"TRYING TO FIND" is not "BEING the person who already HAS these things." You need to learn how to really live in the end... then you'll get what you want
Relate so much. I am finally feeling happiness. I found this kind of work 3 years ago and have been working on myself every day since. Techniques like meditations, visualisations and affirmations. I think dropping self criticism as much as possible is what has helped me a lot. I think just sticking at trying to see yourself as worthwhile makes it eventually start to take over and kick in. But I absolutely know what you mean and how you feel. I’m facing very difficult times but bizarrely am so happy these days. I hope you find things to help. Xox
You know I've always had the SP identification mixed... I've always said .. Jesus sees me as his GF... I see that I can say, " My man/boyfriend chooses me everyday."
hiiii! my specific person turned up within 24 hours but everytime we tried to speak to each other, something was in the way and he tried nearly every day for 3 weeks and has gone for the last week and a half because he thinks i don't want him. what do i do now?
Can you talk about what causes inconsistent communication? My SP will come around and say everything I want to hear. But then I won't hear from him for 2 weeks.
How do you do self love when the 3D says that you are not beautiful etc. Let's say someone is ugly by societies standards and has been made to feel this way by people, it is difficult to do self love when in reality you know its not true. I will use my PCOS symptoms as an example, one of which I am very embarrassed about......... Telling myself I am beautiful when that symptom physically makes me not beautiful, well its really difficult to tell myself I am beautiful. I find that majority of people who have good self love are actually very attractive people. Its like when attractive people say looks don't matter and wealthy people say money doesn't matter.........
I have manifested contact from my SP 💙 he’s suddenly talking about us & the future plans we had (we broke up 6months ago) however he’s not quite showing up how I would like. His ego does not allow for him to be open & vulnerable & honest. He can’t allow himself to say he loves & misses me though I know he does. Instead he’s trying to get me to open up first. He is involved with a third party but he’s never told me & I never bring this up with him because I don’t want to speak that person or situation into my reality. How do I get him to show up differently please? Will what you are speaking about now be my limiting beliefs (fear of not being chosen) or something else? I try to be open & truthful & I’ve let him know I’m doing great which I am. I accepted the breakup even though it was very hard I let him go as he wished. I know I’m somewhat guarded & lacking trust because he basically ended us for another connection closer to home, so is that what I need to focus on? (we life in different countries) I love your work & if you could advise me what to work on I’d be super grateful ❤️💫🧚🏻♀️
@@nataliea5570 I’ve been persisting in changing my limited beliefs & stabilising my emotions so I have peace within. Repeating affirmations until I say them confidently & lovingly to myself. Telling myself it’s done & don’t worry. I express gratitude & appreciation for who & what I do have in my life & try to change my focus as much as possible. Lately I had a weekend with friends & kept very grounded & really enjoyed myself. It was after that he came to me. Things aren’t perfect but they are moving in the right direction. 😌
@@peacefulpath222 Amazing thanks for sharing. Even though things aren’t perfect yet .. they will be. You’ve done so well. Right now Iam more stable and practicing living in the end and taking care of myself. Had my First sign today.. it’s a sign from within because I feel more stable now and last night dreamt about him x
Shelly😔 I began watching you over a year ago when i was trying to manifest my ex back, but instead i manifested someone else with the exact qualities i wanted in a man. Then my insecurities started kicking in and I manifested him to pull away and break up with me and talk to another girl which destroyed me and I reacted in the 3D as well as inside😔 I try so hard to affirm and change the story but the thought of what he did plays in my mind over and over and then the negative thoughts start and feeling of hurt keep repeating, I don't know what to do, I will try the self love but how do I stop thinking about what he did when it hurts so much?
Self love is not the same thing as affirming a bunch of sentences. YOU HAVE TO FEEL WORRHY. My self love courses dice deep into this process, as well as my course: how to be claimed, cherished, wanted & adored
Know you are healing yourself with self love, its all about u. Deep down things upset us and cause anger but by letting him off the hook by ur self love u are doing same for yourself
Omg I kid you not! I did some self love yesterday I still did the affirmations and tried my best to believe them and feel them although I have trouble feeling when I do self love :-( anyway, this morning I went to the store and saw a guy (not my type at all) who lives near me and he always says hello to me in just a casual way, but today he saw me and said hello then out of nowhere he shouted in a loud voice 'Char you look AMAZIING! AMAZIIING!! When are you going to marry me??' I was soo shocked! I've seen him around for years and never has he ever said more than hello. I got soo embarrassed because he shouted it soo loud that everyone turned around to look at me, I just wanted the ground to swallow me up! I smiled and laughed and quickly walked off. My self love affirmations were things like 'I'm so beautiful' 'guys desire me' 'I'm a sexy goddess' 'I'm amazing' 'guys always want me in their life'
With all do respect.., BUT Choosing someone YOU feel you MUST have is a set up for misery to come your way. Trying to dictate to the Universe what it should or should not deliver and who you think is best for you with your limited understanding and perception is rather naive. Most of us have failed miserably with many relationships and we still try to control and demand and push our agenda. Surrendering and trusting is a good place to start.You make your plans but be aware GOD IS laughing. Sometimes people focus on one thing so much and try so hard they become absolutely irrational and emotionally involved when it doesn’t happen they have a mental breakdown. It is devastating and crushing. Just take life one day at a time try not to live in some delusion and don’t put your entire happiness on one person. Sometimes we become so desperate for love and acceptance that we are rushing full speed ahead into the person’s arms without even seeing who is across from us. Wanting a specific or “chosen person” is saying to the Universe This is the only person that can make me happy and nobody else will do. You’re the only one who can care, rescue, save and love yourself more than anyone else in the entire world. Nobody can make us happy and it is not why each of us was born on this planet. You’re not someone’s reason for them to be happy and neither should someone else be your reason for you to feel “ that a chosen” person is your salvation and answer to your life problems. I am majoring in mental health psychology and I also work with a therapist myself and I became aware how when we want someone else to come and make us happy and make us feel good we literally surrender our own ability and power to make ourselves happy and content and we put our life joy and fulfillment in the hands of external events and circumstances. It won’t work. Nothing in the external can fix what’s happening within you. Until you meet your own needs and address your needs yourself don’t go outside into the world and look for a savior in one perfect person. If you are fixated and want one exact person ., ask yourself: Can I be happy on my own without this person and why do I need this exact person in my life? What would happen if I let the idea of that person go and see myself happy without them? If we want to say this is the only one for me and nobody else will do, we find pain and frustration because we limit the possibility of other people coming into our lives who are actually healthy for us. We don’t know so much and we still insist and push, try to control things and say I know what is best for me. The most wise thing to acknowledge is that we don’t know everything and we’re limited in understanding. Let the Universe bring your lover to you, don’t dictate your demands because you will suffer. Sometimes we don’t see that the person we want is unhealthy and toxic, it is after we got into a relationship that we discover that it isn’t as it appeared to be. But then we get to feel victim of the abusive and toxic relationship and blame them. You may or may not get that exact person but your life force and energy shouldn’t be focused on trying to push for that one thing. When you push and want something desperately you actually are saying I am unhappy and unwilling to allow anyone or anything else. Then the Loving Universe will respond with you being alone. Because the person we want so much is the person we must build inside of us within in a way that you see yourself whole and healthy and not wanting someone in particular or demanding that exact person because your happiness isn’t in someone’s hands but in your own. And if you do push and want one exact person Believe me life will prove your point you will be alone for years and years while you’re fixated on that one person and you will see him with different people and you will still be waiting on him and waiting and waiting and waiting ..! Let life happen and stop trying to control things because you can’t force things to happen regardless of how hard you try.
@@user-ot3wz8pk5x Right, exactly however you are not aware that when you point to one thing and say this is the only thing that I want and nothing else will do, you’re basically limiting what the Universe can do. While you hang on to controlling and wanting to manipulate things you lose power and you lose yourself in that. Live life day by day, and surrender fully and trust that you don’t need to order the Universe what you want and need, iT is pure intelligence and it knows what you need and when and it knows how to find you also. So when you stop making plans and stop trying to control things you find true freedom and true heaven. Believe me I been there done that. Do not waste your time wanting one exact thing or person. Stay open and trust fully and open your heart and soul to life, and know whatever comes it will be great and it will be also for your highest good and it may or may it be the person you were fixated on.
@@marijapaleka1175 I understand that, my dear. Sometimes we think we're doing everything right and living in the end all the time, but we don't even notice that we're constantly noticing how much time has gone by, or we keep wondering about the how, etc. Sometimes it's difficult to catch those really subtle thoughts. They can slip right past you, especially if they have been occurring for a while.
No male or female in the sons of God. no jew or heathens ........................Galation isn't from man. when you wake up to being a son of God and you came down to earth your asleep and become a seperated man that was male and female, allegory not secular history on the Bible.
I love myself, alright. But on the topic of not really having a full grasp on self love: ever since I’ve wanted to be with J, I had been telling him how I just wanted him to let me love him. Now I know how wrong that was and how much I’ve delayed everything. Now, my deep fear is that the “damage” somehow is done and I couldn’t manifest another reality where he does choose me in spite of cultural and territorial obstacles. I hope that I’m making sense. Is it too late or everyday is a clean slate and the past is past?
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I just wanna say, I'm so glad I found u.
Sending u blessings from Papua New Guinea 🇵🇬 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
I got an “I love you” from my SP and a key to his apt over the weekend. You and Kim Velez are preaching the truth. ♥️👏🏻
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I am so happy for you
Amazing,...that’s so great. Please share how you achieved this x
@@nataliea5570 hi there. A little over a month ago, my SP (who is also my best friend) told me he cares deeply for me but isn't IN love with me. Instead of reacting, I just said "okay." and continued as normal. He lives two hours away from me. For the past month I've seen him at least once a week where I stay the night 2-3 nights. But this past weekend was different. Over 4th of July weekend, I wrote affirmations like "I have keys to ______ apartment. _______ tells me he loves me ________." On Saturday he gave me key to his apartment and told me he loves me. So basically six days after hardcore affirmations. My SP and I are best friends so we don't have any anger towards each other. Not sure if that helps or not. I'm also very happy being alone so I don't react to things I don't like. Binge watching Shelly and Kim Velez has really changed my mindset. I hope this helps. :)
@@BobbieLovesSoles thank you ♥️
I just realized, I don’t have to be chosen. I am worth everything and man that I chose it the luckiest man on earth!
ITS DONE...HE IS HERE... WE ARE HAPPY TOGETHER❤
I'm kind, loving, caring, faithful and beautiful. He will show up and choose me today, ameen.
It was me, it is me and it will always be me… I am chosen always chosen.
Self love is the foundation of all manifestation 👌👌👌
After binge watching your videos for the past week, it's helped me embody that feeling what it's like to be loved, chosen, and claimed. Before I didn't know what that felt like so it was very hard to create the inner experience of that. But your self love and confidence radiates so much that I can now conjure up that feeling inside of me too. I use it as like a guide as to what I'm supposed to feel and it's helped a lot.
Thank you, Shelly! Your videos (as well as self study courses) have been helping me immensely. He has started to respond to my instagram stories and occasionally we have conversations. Deep and heartfelt conversations, not just small talk!
So thankful for you. I have my SP. I know your teachings helped a great deal. I watch all of your videos ( sp related or not) just because I love them. Beautiful blessings to everyone.
Thank you for being here!
Hey. Would u like to share some tips?
@@saturn3491 Sure, I wrote in my manifesting journal ( dollar store spiral notebook, so nothing fancy) that I had found the perfect mate for me, then listed qualities he would have. Strong, loving, kind to animals, etc. I started telling myself anyone would be lucky to have me, I'm a great catch and I started sitting with that feeling of being a radiant person. I set unconventional reminders to sit with the feeling. For example, if my VPN randomized repeating numbers, I'd tell myself I'm loved. Or if a commercial came on TV for fabric softener, I would tell myself that I was soft attractive femine energy, etc. Just weird fun stuff like that. And one day he walked into a craft beer tasting and set down beside me and we have been inseparable for 2 years.
@@amandakolb2130 that's amazing. Happy for you :))
@@saturn3491 thank you. 😊
I am incredible. Of course I am always chosen. I am one of a kind. I am totally worthy. I am the one who is wanted, pursued, loved, and taken care of. He’s so lucky I chose him.
Your personality has a diff level of sexiness and hotness!! ❤️❤️ Love you! ❤️
Exactly what I'm talking about in the video ;)
I recommend you to a great man who can help you manifest whatever you wanna manifest 💯💯
@@ShellyBullard He helped me bring back my ex few days ago without any delay
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Hi Shelly
I met you recently and have been watching your videos ever since. More like from May onwards. You have been life-changing for me! 2 days back me and my SP had a fight and we went silent, and I thought he would never talk to me (the whole relationship dynamic was just wrong - he was seeing me totally different than what I expected). That just rubbed me off completely.. And even though I had my doubts at times whether I am manifesting correctly, I persisted... Accepted what it is, and told myself, it is done. He will realize who I am and come around. And shelly, he did. Just 15 mins back he messaged me. Thank you Shelly.
I will continue believing that I am chosen and continue working on my self-concept. Love you...
God bless you shelly.. love and light❤️
Yeah, I know that I am amazing, I feel like a goddess most of the time, they even tell me this, but never commit to me. I’ll begin to affirm I am chosen, I am the priority and see what’ll happen 🧐
Might not hurt to start adding in that you are always committed to too.
@@LanaLane- yes, you’re right :)
@@LanaLane- I recommend you to a great man who can help you manifest whatever you wanna manifest 💯💯
@@wakeupyoursaints He helped me bring back my ex few days ago without any delay
@@LanaLane- Watzap him 📝
I've learned manifestation from you Shelly and you are the real thing, my SP chooses me every day and he wants nobody but me
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V i a W h a t s A p p
During the quarantine I felt so many things about myself. However when I started working out and focused on my Photography and found another hobby I really liked and I'm happy about it. You're so right! Self love is amazing..my sp actually came to visit me recently and I am hoping things keep advancing 😊
I put myself into my own type of quarantine by cutting off everyone in my life to focus on myself and my self love. I’m not social whatsoever other than doing Uber Eats and DoorDash deliveries. Do you think that focusing on money and hobbies is the a good step to better manifesting? I’m trying to repair things with my sp, have been for a year but my friends stirred up drama a few days ago even with me being in no contact, I’m afraid they made it worse. Do I just shake it off and think to myself “he won’t think differently of me because of my friends” and just intend he’ll contact me? Thank you for any feedback if you see this!
I just had a dream where I was with my SP and I had the inner conversations(as if I was talking to him)from last night in my dream. and it was very nice. Also I love learning from your videos 💞💞
That’s a good sign! I always take that as our higher selves talking!
Shelly I love your videos! I would love to see a Collab with Dylan James
Yes‼️💥💥💥
Yes pls
I'm getting engaged to him this summer and me and him are the luckiest to have each other. I deserve this because i know my worth and how caring and loving person i am ❤☺ thank you Shelly you are amazing
You're welcome!
I gave up on my SP. I manifested him in with zero contact for months. I just lost interest 🤷. I'm still working on myself and told the universe I trust you to bring me in the one who deserves me. ❤️
Hi, get anyone to love or (SP) attracted to you. And get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Wilson,he helped me restore my 5 years relationship. Also Dr Wilson Always keep with his words, I will advise you to seek his help thanks
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Same here. Just lost interest.
Love this topic I guess that much of us believe that we are amazing,that we deserve wonderful things but some how as Shelly said,we don't fully believe that,diving deep into it I think is cause we pressure ourselves too much to be this idea that society told us of what perfection or successful means to be,we compare ourselves to much,we fear that someone hurt us or abandon us if they know our true self,I guess the more we release those things the more kind you get with your inner self and of course you start to trust that you deserve and you are amazing !!! ❤
I Feel loved I feel Blessed I Feel chosen I feel successful, I feeeel admired I Feeel wealthy 😉🤑
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Hi Shelly, love all your videos. Would be so appreciative if you wouldn’t mind creating a video about improving our existing relationships with our partners, families, friends, co-workers. That would be so awesome. Thanks.
You are incredible, Shelly. Thank you so much for this video. I know that I am an amazing, special person and it's just a matter of time until my person and I will be together 💖
Shelly, I really love your voice while you say, "Hallo .. I am so happier here...." 😍😍😍😄😄😄
She says: "I'm so happy you're here..." :)
@@Hollins23thank you for the correction. 🙏❤️
Omg you nailed it. I do think I’m amazing but when it comes to my sp I doubt he sees it
I was about to give up because I feel really tired and I dont want to put other energies for him, its been six months and I still see that 3p that I know is absolutely someone that he "use" to not stay alone because he thinking about me and I am the one he really want, but after this long time nothing seems to move. So I said okay who cares.. I am unique and I know it. My self love is on point so I dont understand why she is still there or why he seems stubborn. And when I said I give up this video popped up. Maybe its another piece I have to work on and its ok but honestly after 6 months I feel really tired to "fight" for this, I dont need to "fight" to demonstrate my value. Every suggestion is appreciated Shelly. Thank you for your work and inspiration
Too much focus on him, not enough on you (self love)
I had all those beliefs about me and was mucked around and played over and over and over again because of toxic masculinity not wanting a woman of substance. I’ll try again trust me, beliefs got chipped away by the reality of how people treat me
I’m not pretty successful amazing or special. But I tell myself I’m the only person with free will in my universe. I’m a god in my universe. So I guess I can have who I want.
Don't affirm those things about yourself. Say that you are all of those things - pretty, successful, amazing, and special. Flip that into a positive, and you'll start to believe it. :)
@@Hollins23 That’s not the goal. My goal…what I am manifesting…is a world where looks don’t matter. That was my point. I’m still god and I can still have what I want;)
First I have to mention the orb that comes out of nowhere about 6:35 & 2nd thank you for sharing this because this has been the answer I've waited for. I've questioned why I haven't had my SP come in because I do KNOW I am rare & amazing but still single. Thank you!!
Hi Shelly, Thank You, Have a Wonderful, Peaceful and Safe Wednesday 🙋♀️🌹❤
Shelly nuevamente los subtitulos por favor. Gracias
Not sure how those work but I will look into it
Debes activarlos tú, hay una opción "Cc" y ahí escoges los su títulos
Hi, Ms. Shelly. It's Kaleb. I know that I am in an amazing relationship with my specific person. It's already mine and I know it. My specific person is this girl that I was trying to talk to and get to know in my freshman year of high school and now I'm going to be a sophomore this year. We were on the wrong foot before when I blew her up with messages and she blocked me on both of my Instagram's. I also believe that we made up and we're in a relationship together. Now, through self-concept, I'm her boyfriend and she's my girlfriend and we're now dating each other and I know that we're now together and I feel cherished, loved, and adored by her but combined, I'm chosen by her and I feel like you too Ms. Shelly with your man. Thanks, Ms. Shelly. Bye.
Hi Kaleb, I wasn't sure about telling you this but I've seen your similar comments on other channels and, I just wanted to say while you're affirming for a new you, I think it would fasten the process to stop telling the old story. Not sure if this is how you feel but your SP isn't an "SP" anymore, she's literally your girlfriend.
@@OO-ct4hq Agreed 🤭 The way it feels to me personally is he is quite quickly slipping into spamming territory (whether accidentally or not), literally just copying and pasting the same thing over and over again. But again, just my own feeling about it 👍🏻
@@OO-ct4hq Yeah, I know that she already is my girlfriend, and yeah. I see where both of you are getting at and I'm not going to be repeating the same story and now I have a new story and I'm the director and everything, thank you, guys.
I love your vibe!!!! ❤️❤️ elegant, sexy, sassy, lovely and so much more!
Yes. Thank you. Exactly what I'm talking about in the video ;)
@@ShellyBullard YES!! And I love to mirror that back to you!! ❤️❤️
Love this one. It's all around good for your self esteem and for attracting all that you want. 👍
Instead of using Iif I know, I say Because I know. Thanks for this amazing video 💖
I have been hearing all about self love, but i am going through your playlist so I can do the work, and manifest my sp❤
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I will be chosen 😌 I am beautiful I am incredible I am awesome
Hi, get anyone to love or (SP) attracted to you. And get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Wilson,he helped me restore my 5 years relationship. Also Dr Wilson Always keep with his words, I will advise you to seek his help thanks
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I would love an affirmations meditation to be chosen, cherished, and adored from you 💕
When I think of myself, I feel like I do have a strong sense of self-love in telling myself, "I am amazing. I have so much to offer in a relationship, anybody would be lucky to have me," but my fear of abandonment makes me feel like every guy I meet never stays. How do I break out of this fear in feeling like they won't see how valuable I actually am and leave? Can you have a strong sense of self-concept and fear of abandonment at the same time?
Yes, you can have strong self concept and fear of abandonment at the same time. What to do is to start creating new beliefs that: HE WILL STAY.
@@ShellyBullard thank you ♡
“i am easily committed to, my man chooses me every day, i deserve lasting love, i receive lasting commitment, i am worthy” :)))
Hello! Can you tell us a little more about telepathy and sending messages to specific people?
I so love to hear you state your beliefs about yourself as it empowers me to feel that about myself. I love knowing that we can know this.
I recommend you to a great man who can help you manifest whatever you wanna manifest 💯💯
He helped me bring back my ex few days ago without any delay
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I claim self love and self worth for myself everyday and every night 🙏🏼🔮
I always learn so much from you and feel my feet on solid emotional ground, and my foundation becoming rock solid. Thank you‼️😊 💖⚘
Hi Shelly, firstly I want to say a big thank you!! Your videos are amazing and inspire me all the time! I just have a question, I’ve seen many videos about how to manifest a job of my dreams.
However, the main thing was to decide what the job of our dreams is. However, for the first time in my life, I do not know what my next steps are and what my dream job is. I don't focus on the specifics as I don’t know what my dream job looks like... I try to feel like I’m doing something I really like and am well paid, but it’s very hard and I feel literally no emotion about it. Do you have any tips on how to realise or how to manifest a job of my dreams without knowing what it is? Thank you!
You’re amazing! Thank you for your teachings ❤
You are so welcome 😉
Love your message…and hair and makeup! 💗
Can self love be "I dont need anyone because I am good enough, I am amazing"
Because separating that from manifesting an SP seems hard
I love your top in this video! Where did you get it? ✨🙏🏾
Hi shelly, can you make self concept/selflove audios to listen to so we can play it in background and before sleeping. It would be really big help.
Hi Shelly, Part of me....the real me actually feels like it's not even right for me to be chosen or not. I CHOOSE HIM. I can choose a man, I am a woman. A beautiful, funny girl. I struggle with this because another part that's been conditioned by experiences of the last year is expecting disappointment, and hot-cold behavior. I have actual ptsd where I get near panic attacks, so deep runs the pain. And this is messing with my desire because I don't feel like I can really get into the feeling of what I want, because I can't allow myself to go there anymore because I'm too proud and too uncomfortable with rejection. If that makes sense.
I understand the lao but I don't know how to deal with this, wanting something you can't allow yourself to feel anymore...Not doubting if you can manifest your desire, but doubting what you want. I feel like I can't really get clear on what I want, there's so much bagage in the way, I feel almost numb sometimes. Is there any video on this? I doesn't get talked about much. Most people just have a problem believing, not 'wanting". Open to advice from you Shelly
Then feel CHOSEN by yourself... CHOOSE yourself... take him out of the equation and become a woman who is CHOSEN regardless of him.
Thank you 🥰
Hi, Shelly! What's your opinion/belief on twin flames? I used to believe in this concept but have been questioning it heavily after learning about EIYPO and that we are the creators of our reality. I really resonate with your content and would love to hear what you have to say on this.
Hi Shelly, I've been watching your videos and they've been great! 😊 However, I just want to ask does this work on same-sex relationships too? (I don't think there's much about same-sex relationships with LoA). Like say if you are a girl and you want to be chosen by a specific girl in mind.
Stay single stay happy...
Thankyou ❤️
Thank you thank you thank you.
I completely jive with you. How you do it I do it and seriously its so easy cause I understand you easily. I love you so much. This video made me smile i know I am incridble 😊😍
I want to be chosen by my specific LIFE.
Hi, get anyone to love or (SP) attracted to you. And get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Wilson,he helped me restore my 5 years relationship. Also Dr Wilson Always keep with his words, I will advise you to seek his help thanks
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Thank you
You're welcome!
I just have a question and I need help. I use the law of assumption to get my sp to conform to me and it works. Ive gotten him to come back to me after he's the one that left, iv gotten him to say/text me specific things and I know he cares about me. Yet whenever I try to manifest a hangout/hu with him it never works out and doesn't happen. That is the main thing I want with him and it it my main focus and I genuinely believe in it happening but its been months and I've manifested everything I want but THAT hangout. I just don't know what I should do or if there are specific things I should be doing/saying/thinking to get him to see me.
ur so focused on making the hang out happen that ur creating resistance. ur living in lack. u may have a limiting belief. and remember that manifesting is easy!! ur trying too hard. u don’t need to try. u KNOW he wants you. u know he loves talking to you. u know he loves being with you. u know he wants to see u all the time!!
allegedly me and my ex/sp were going go hang tomorrow and yesterday i sent a “see u wednesday! “ message, and literally ghosted, left on read 😔😔😔
did yall hung out?
Of course he'll choose you, look at you. Who wouldn't??!!
Hi, get anyone to love or (SP) attracted to you. And get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Wilson,he helped me restore my 5 years relationship. Also Dr Wilson Always keep with his words, I will advise you to seek his help thanks
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Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....
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I need a little help, I have been manifesting my sp for a while now and I have already manifested few things before but now I’m not seeing a break through I’ve been affirming keeping mental diet in check but still it’s been a while I’m not seeing a break through even tho I know and feel from inside I’m the one and all so what do you think I should do or try to see a breakthrough or something because you know when we manifest and then when we see a little movement in our 3D even if it’s little it motivates us to keep going. So what do you think I should do or think is missing
Stop checking the 3D reality and know it's done
Josie how long is 'a while'?
@@ShellyBullard I’m not checking you know but it’s just once in a while one notices so I was just hoping of you could tell me what might help me see a breakthrough or what I might be doing wrong
@@Sekhmet245 You are checking because you're saying "Nothing is happening.' THAT is checking the 3D
Hi Shelly, Thank you for this content ! 🔥💗❤️🔥
My SP reached out, begging and telling me he loves me, he can’t stop thinking bout me, telling me he’ll get rid of 3p to be with me again. 48 hours later he’s telling me he’s changing his mind and can’t be in a relationship with me. What happened ?
(i keep affirming and work on my SC)
If this were true then you would need to find new line of work....facts!
@Isel Torres hey wats up..🖐
Can i manifest my sp ...if they are seeing someone else...and also if i am doing no contact with them.....????
I have known my sp for 6 years now(we are childhood besties and she even had feelings for me for like 4 years but unfortunately i was seeing other girls at that time) she has known this guy for like 5 months in her college.
she used to love me a hell lot like unconditional love and had strong feelings for me....and we were fwb for a while.recently there was bit of a lack in conversations from my side towards her.but i have realised now that all this while it was actually her only that i had been in love with!!!!!!!!
Pls tell me shelly how to manifest her back.i really love her and dont want to lose her
Ps:thanks a lot shelly for this yt channel....your videos lighten up my day.
Love from india🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
You can manifest anything, everyone is you pushed out. Circumstances don’t matter :)
@@marycb7294 thanks a lot mary for replying......i will surely watch videos about this:everyone is you pushed out....
I really love this person a lot...infact she loved me even more at a time.....i have realised my mistakes and the chances i didnt take....
I have finally realised who my true love is......and will try my best to make us work
I can’t practice self love because I don’t know what love is.
How can I maintain high self concept. I've been trying to find my life purpose, the job that's "the one" for years.... I still feel like I'm no one. I don't know how to start...
"TRYING TO FIND" is not "BEING the person who already HAS these things." You need to learn how to really live in the end... then you'll get what you want
Relate so much. I am finally feeling happiness. I found this kind of work 3 years ago and have been working on myself every day since. Techniques like meditations, visualisations and affirmations. I think dropping self criticism as much as possible is what has helped me a lot. I think just sticking at trying to see yourself as worthwhile makes it eventually start to take over and kick in. But I absolutely know what you mean and how you feel. I’m facing very difficult times but bizarrely am so happy these days. I hope you find things to help. Xox
Do her self love course! It really helps your self concept! I think it will help
You know I've always had the SP identification mixed... I've always said .. Jesus sees me as his GF... I see that I can say, " My man/boyfriend chooses me everyday."
I haven't had any coffee yet this morning. For a second there, I was thinking of Jesus as in God the father, God the son, and God the Holy Spirit. :)
@@Hollins23 I haven't either, that's funny. No, that's the person's name. Lol
I wish I could feel about me too that I am amazing and always chosen but I do not
It is hard to feel like that when your SP is cold to you.
Should I contact him? I reallyyyy want to send him a text
He can help you get back your ex within 48 hours
hiiii! my specific person turned up within 24 hours but everytime we tried to speak to each other, something was in the way and he tried nearly every day for 3 weeks and has gone for the last week and a half because he thinks i don't want him. what do i do now?
Hi Shelly. Does this rule of feeling worthy and fulfilled apply to attracting materials too?
yes
Can you talk about what causes inconsistent communication? My SP will come around and say everything I want to hear. But then I won't hear from him for 2 weeks.
Because that’s an assumption that he does that. He’s obsessed with you and always texts you back fast💕
@@abixx7903 Ahhh yes. Thank you!
Shelly I unfriended my Specific person on Facebook by being triggered and feel terrible, should I try to send her a fb request?
Is her name Sanda Wallin??
No
So can u know it’s possible to be chosen ? Like we don’t need to know for a fact ?
how do u feel chosen if you have a toxic dad ?and think ur partner wouldnt want to deal with thatr
How do you do self love when the 3D says that you are not beautiful etc. Let's say someone is ugly by societies standards and has been made to feel this way by people, it is difficult to do self love when in reality you know its not true. I will use my PCOS symptoms as an example, one of which I am very embarrassed about......... Telling myself I am beautiful when that symptom physically makes me not beautiful, well its really difficult to tell myself I am beautiful. I find that majority of people who have good self love are actually very attractive people. Its like when attractive people say looks don't matter and wealthy people say money doesn't matter.........
I have manifested contact from my SP 💙 he’s suddenly talking about us & the future plans we had (we broke up 6months ago) however he’s not quite showing up how I would like. His ego does not allow for him to be open & vulnerable & honest. He can’t allow himself to say he loves & misses me though I know he does. Instead he’s trying to get me to open up first. He is involved with a third party but he’s never told me & I never bring this up with him because I don’t want to speak that person or situation into my reality. How do I get him to show up differently please? Will what you are speaking about now be my limiting beliefs (fear of not being chosen) or something else? I try to be open & truthful & I’ve let him know I’m doing great which I am. I accepted the breakup even though it was very hard I let him go as he wished. I know I’m somewhat guarded & lacking trust because he basically ended us for another connection closer to home, so is that what I need to focus on? (we life in different countries) I love your work & if you could advise me what to work on I’d be super grateful ❤️💫🧚🏻♀️
Amazing you manifested contact. Please can you share how you got this far? X
This belief >>> His ego does not allow for him to be open & vulnerable & honest.
@@ShellyBullard thank you 🙏🏻
@@nataliea5570 I’ve been persisting in changing my limited beliefs & stabilising my emotions so I have peace within. Repeating affirmations until I say them confidently & lovingly to myself. Telling myself it’s done & don’t worry. I express gratitude & appreciation for who & what I do have in my life & try to change my focus as much as possible. Lately I had a weekend with friends & kept very grounded & really enjoyed myself. It was after that he came to me. Things aren’t perfect but they are moving in the right direction. 😌
@@peacefulpath222 Amazing thanks for sharing. Even though things aren’t perfect yet .. they will be. You’ve done so well. Right now Iam more stable and practicing living in the end and taking care of myself. Had my
First sign today.. it’s a sign from within because I feel more stable now and last night dreamt
about him x
Shelly😔 I began watching you over a year ago when i was trying to manifest my ex back, but instead i manifested someone else with the exact qualities i wanted in a man. Then my insecurities started kicking in and I manifested him to pull away and break up with me and talk to another girl which destroyed me and I reacted in the 3D as well as inside😔 I try so hard to affirm and change the story but the thought of what he did plays in my mind over and over and then the negative thoughts start and feeling of hurt keep repeating, I don't know what to do, I will try the self love but how do I stop thinking about what he did when it hurts so much?
Self love is not the same thing as affirming a bunch of sentences. YOU HAVE TO FEEL WORRHY. My self love courses dice deep into this process, as well as my course: how to be claimed, cherished, wanted & adored
Know you are healing yourself with self love, its all about u. Deep down things upset us and cause anger but by letting him off the hook by ur self love u are doing same for yourself
Omg I kid you not! I did some self love yesterday I still did the affirmations and tried my best to believe them and feel them although I have trouble feeling when I do self love :-( anyway, this morning I went to the store and saw a guy (not my type at all) who lives near me and he always says hello to me in just a casual way, but today he saw me and said hello then out of nowhere he shouted in a loud voice 'Char you look AMAZIING! AMAZIIING!! When are you going to marry me??' I was soo shocked! I've seen him around for years and never has he ever said more than hello. I got soo embarrassed because he shouted it soo loud that everyone turned around to look at me, I just wanted the ground to swallow me up! I smiled and laughed and quickly walked off. My self love affirmations were things like 'I'm so beautiful' 'guys desire me' 'I'm a sexy goddess' 'I'm amazing' 'guys always want me in their life'
Can you pls add captions in spanish to the video please?
I keep seen him with another girl
With all do respect.., BUT Choosing someone YOU feel you MUST have is a set up for misery to come your way. Trying to dictate to the Universe what it should or should not deliver and who you think is best for you with your limited understanding and perception is rather naive. Most of us have failed miserably with many relationships and we still try to control and demand and push our agenda. Surrendering and trusting is a good place to start.You make your plans but be aware GOD IS laughing. Sometimes people focus on one thing so much and try so hard they become absolutely irrational and emotionally involved when it doesn’t happen they have a mental breakdown. It is devastating and crushing. Just take life one day at a time try not to live in some delusion and don’t put your entire happiness on one person. Sometimes we become so desperate for love and acceptance that we are rushing full speed ahead into the person’s arms without even seeing who is across from us.
Wanting a specific or “chosen person” is saying to the Universe This is the only person that can make me happy and nobody else will do. You’re the only one who can care, rescue, save and love yourself more than anyone else in the entire world. Nobody can make us happy and it is not why each of us was born on this planet. You’re not someone’s reason for them to be happy and neither should someone else be your reason for you to feel “ that a chosen” person is your salvation and answer to your life problems. I am majoring in mental health psychology and I also work with a therapist myself and I became aware how when we want someone else to come and make us happy and make us feel good we literally surrender our own ability and power to make ourselves happy and content and we put our life joy and fulfillment in the hands of external events and circumstances. It won’t work. Nothing in the external can fix what’s happening within you.
Until you meet your own needs and address your needs yourself don’t go outside into the world and look for a savior in one perfect person. If you are fixated and want one exact person ., ask yourself: Can I be happy on my own without this person and why do I need this exact person in my life? What would happen if I let the idea of that person go and see myself happy without them? If we want to say this is the only one for me and nobody else will do, we find pain and frustration because we limit the possibility of other people coming into our lives who are actually healthy for us. We don’t know so much and we still insist and push, try to control things and say I know what is best for me. The most wise thing to acknowledge is that we don’t know everything and we’re limited in understanding. Let the Universe bring your lover to you, don’t dictate your demands because you will suffer.
Sometimes we don’t see that the person we want is unhealthy and toxic, it is after we got into a relationship that we discover that it isn’t as it appeared to be. But then we get to feel victim of the abusive and toxic relationship and blame them.
You may or may not get that exact person but your life force and energy shouldn’t be focused on trying to push for that one thing. When you push and want something desperately you actually are saying I am unhappy and unwilling to allow anyone or anything else. Then the Loving Universe will respond with you being alone. Because the person we want so much is the person we must build inside of us within in a way that you see yourself whole and healthy and not wanting someone in particular or demanding that exact person because your happiness isn’t in someone’s hands but in your own. And if you do push and want one exact person Believe me life will prove your point you will be alone for years and years while you’re fixated on that one person and you will see him with different people and you will still be waiting on him and waiting and waiting and waiting ..!
Let life happen and stop trying to control things because you can’t force things to happen regardless of how hard you try.
@@user-ot3wz8pk5x Right, exactly however you are not aware that when you point to one thing and say this is the only thing that I want and nothing else will do, you’re basically limiting what the Universe can do. While you hang on to controlling and wanting to manipulate things you lose power and you lose yourself in that. Live life day by day, and surrender fully and trust that you don’t need to order the Universe what you want and need, iT is pure intelligence and it knows what you need and when and it knows how to find you also. So when you stop making plans and stop trying to control things you find true freedom and true heaven. Believe me I been there done that. Do not waste your time wanting one exact thing or person. Stay open and trust fully and open your heart and soul to life, and know whatever comes it will be great and it will be also for your highest good and it may or may it be the person you were fixated on.
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How it is possible if we dont see each other and havent spoken for a long time?
You don't need to worry about the how. The how is never our concern, it will happen automatically. Just keep living in the end.
@@Sonja147 I am living in the end for too much time. No movement. It has began to feel frustrating as the time goes by.
@@Sonja147 My SP told me never be with me again
@@marijapaleka1175 I understand that, my dear. Sometimes we think we're doing everything right and living in the end all the time, but we don't even notice that we're constantly noticing how much time has gone by, or we keep wondering about the how, etc. Sometimes it's difficult to catch those really subtle thoughts. They can slip right past you, especially if they have been occurring for a while.
@@Sonja147 I dont have any problems manifesting anything else but this. I manifest people I want easily except my SP. Why this is happening?
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No male or female in the sons of God. no jew or heathens ........................Galation isn't from man. when you wake up to being a son of God and you came down to earth your asleep and become a seperated man that was male and female, allegory not secular history on the Bible.
I love myself, alright. But on the topic of not really having a full grasp on self love: ever since I’ve wanted to be with J, I had been telling him how I just wanted him to let me love him. Now I know how wrong that was and how much I’ve delayed everything. Now, my deep fear is that the “damage” somehow is done and I couldn’t manifest another reality where he does choose me in spite of cultural and territorial obstacles. I hope that I’m making sense. Is it too late or everyday is a clean slate and the past is past?
Circumstances don't matter ☺️
There is a clean slate in every NOW moment. start now