it's alright to need a break - a playlist
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some info:
my spotify is in my "community" tab
you are free to vent in my comments.
if you wanna talk to someone, advice or support, my discord is on the “about” of the channel.
do not be disrespectful. no problems are “less important” than others, or fake, everyone is struggling and this is a safe place, wether it’s about homeworks, heartbreaks, sensitive topics, your feelings are valid
if you feel uncomfortable with the “themes” of my playlists, have suggestions, artists you recommend, etc etc, tell me. i’ll read it wether it’s in the comments or in my dms. it’s very appreciated !!
thank you for taking the time to read ! i hope things will get better. open up, live a life that makes YOU happy. you can do this.
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thank u so much for taking the time to make this !
@@luv.kar1n ahh np !! :D
the one you couldnt find is called feelin way by bsd.u :)
i think the one you couldn't find is bsd.u - feelin wavy, here's a link: ruclips.net/video/VkKUoodiMhU/видео.html
@@R0NSL8VQ oh that song isn't by inner ocean records! it's by bsd.u, but it is featured in a collab album by inner ocean records though (similar to chillhop albums)
i want to scream, cry, laugh, smile, dance, and die at the same time. thanks
man fr dat sucks
do it.. except for the die part. ur cared for🌺💕
hey, you good? i know times have been really hard and i dont know what you've been through but im here for you. if u ever need anything theres people that care for u and are here to listen
@@imeatinglunch i think you're the one who should be being told that
@@emily-ce1du yes yes i know but you deserve to be asked and comforted.
I couldn't cry for months i just wanna thank u for making this cause i finally cried my heart off now i just fell relieved thank u
Damn you should give me some tips lmao. I haven't cried for years
im proud of u
@@fancy_storm0764 sometimes people express sadness in different ways don't push yourself to hard. I'm sure you'll cry someday :]
Samee!
@@fancy_storm0764 try to cut onion
I just want everything to stop for a moment and let me breathe, let me catch up on schoolwork, let me sleep, let me take care of myself, let me do anything I want for atleast a week.
Trust me, it will get better, I just had one day for myself and I feel a lot better. Don’t worry! Just keep trying, your hard work will pay off! Even if it’s in small ways.
Same. I just need a fucking break. Just some room to breath. Room to think about myself and what I want in life and not please others. Get a break from school cause the assignments and exams are stressing me out. The weight is crushing me. But we all know it's not possible. I'm just here wishing.
@@goofymuffin5264 exactly, I'm over 50 fucking assignments behind and was gonna get caught up winter break, but like the fucking idiot I am, I just tried to distract myself from reality. It just proves no matter what, if I get a break or if I don't, I waste my time. I could be actually doing things that are important, but nooooo. I just have to fuckint play videogames sitting in my cage of denial
i'm taking a break from school after being diagnosed with depression and anxiety. this playlist helps me feel less guilty about taking a break while others are trying their best. it's okay to slow down, it's okay to take a break, it's okay to value your emotions and to listen to your inner thoughts. you deserve a break and you're doing great
I love your text and your profi..
It’s hard to take a break when you aren’t allowed.
i wanna take a break so bad im also diagnosed with depression and anxiety but my mom won't let me do anything to make me feel better
@@not_hermes_6976 frl
btw I know it feels lonely, but guess what?! You have an amazing Creator that hates to see you sad. Read the book of psalms do fulfill that longing for love or happiness. He truly chose you and said “they are made in my Image. They should not have to deal with that for I am the King of Kings and I will love and care for them if they are willing to be loved and accept me as their savior.” Praise God, he loves you! So beyond measure. You literally can’t ever see the end of his love. Literally! I love you and so does the Lord.
Why do people care about me less? It hurts. It’s always.
“How are you?”
*”fine.”*
“Are you ok?”
*”yup.”*
“Alrightie then!” *walks off*
Then with the others:
“How are you?”
“Ok.”
“Are you ok?”
“Yeah. I’m fine.”
“No! Tell us what’s wrong! You can tell us anything? Maybe [L0v3ly Smil3] can help! They always make you happy!”
It might change. Hopefully.
aaaa i was feeling the same way a year before but i then realized something. hopefully this helps. basically, i didnt want anyone to know i was at my lowest so any time someone asked me how i was i would say im fine, but my mental health was so bad i couldn’t even talk normally to them anymore and i also convinced myself they hated me bc they didn’t f o r c e me to talk (even tho i knew that even with a throat against my throat i wouldn’t say im not fine). i was so deeply thinking they didn’t care, even tho they did, that i pushed everyone away. i saw my other friend, who was going through a rough time too say she’s fine when she wasnt, but when people asked her if she actually were she would say no and they would listen. that’s when i realized, i have to tell others im not fine for them to make an effort. they can’t magically understand how im feeling. yes it might be scary but it’s important. if you’re not okay, say it !! but if u don’t wanna talk about it atm, tell them later ! there’s no shame in that. please take care and don’t isolate yourself!!
i am so tired, that's it, i'm tired, tired of school, friend's problems, parents, my feelings, living, i just wanna stop the time from going and take a deep breath while enjoying a break from everything, as much as i like to seem like the mom/therapist friend that is a strong and funny girl everyone can rant and reach to if they need help, i do sometimes secretly wanna stop everything and see what will happen if they saw what their actions lead to, me mentally tired of everything but still energetic and bubbly. One day they will see with their own eye that they weren't the ones "people couldn't understand" but that day it will be too late to come back and even after they will still make a way to to make it abt themselves by blaming themselves and saying the same thing over and over again "i could've stopped it" yes you could. You had all the time in the world but you did NOTHING bcs you didn't care at the right time. and now it's your fault.
Hey, I'm sorry to hear that, I know exactly how you feel. The same happened to me-or is happening to me. I just, I wasn't able to do it anymore, I still acted like that friend but secretly I didn't care. I didn't care about their problems, I listened and I said yes but nothing else. People who were nice but weren't friends I just cut out of my life. People from my class I only see as annoying idiots. I feel like my head is exploding every minute in school, it feels too much. And then when I try to sleep or relax I remember the next thing I have to do. It's all so much. But I think everyone has this moment once in their life, some earlier, some later, some longer some shorter but everyone has it. I think what might help is to see it like that. We're such a small point in this world, in this universe, and yet our problems and feeling seem so big and massive, it's unbelievable. So if this is so big, why can't we look at it from a perspective where it's all so small? Of course it's not good right now, but it will get better. When you cut your finger it hurts, yes, but only for a few hours or days. But it gets better. It's the same with our time right now. If you want to talk, I'm here. We can talk everytime you want and about everything you want. It's okay. And if you don't want it's okay too. I just hope I was able to help you, even if it's just a little bit
im so ready to log out of my head... im so tired, and everythings beginning to fade.... i cant deal with anything anymore. i just want to close my eyes, and be... absolutely nowhere. there is no place i can think of that i want to be.
but im hoping that'll change. after i wake up.
im scared im gonna get lost, and i wont be able to make it back...
i-i can feel you..
i feel you
check my channel.
the first song had already hit me because i'm basically the new parent in the house because my mom would be too busy drinking . so i have to take care of my sisters , make sure they are alright , make sure to feed or check to see if they have eaten . it's really hard and stressful and i always tend to over work myself in the process . and i still do , but now that i can take a break from being that parent , i can finally breathe . thank you for the playlist !
Man...im sorry you had to go through that just know you will meet the right people and you willbe okay soon. I hope you the best of luck and happy new year, even if i dont know you i love you and please get a rest if you need it. You deserve it.
@@misuoo omg you are too kind
I feel like I can never talk about my problems to anyone because I feel as if they have something worse and Im just complaining but recently I found a way to express my feelings through drawing and I have a vent notebook but my sister stole it and is now threatening to tell the parents about it and now I have nothing :/ this helped me take a break from life and I felt okay for once. thank you
Hey hey hey!! Even if i dont know you, you can vent to me or talk to me!! I also draw maybe we can show our art together? I bet yours is amazing. I hope you the best of luck and happy new year!! Hope your gonna be okay and safe
Friend i completely understand I'm feeling the same way if you ever wanna talk just hit me up here ❤️❤️
I don't know where I am going. I just wanna breathe. I can't even do anything I am trap
It’s alright darling, everything is going to be okay. Even if it seems like this hell isn’t going to stop, it will just be patient honey.
I love you.💕
As bad as it seems right now, it does get better, at least that's what I'm told
relax, you're going to be okay, you matter, you are valid, take a break
We care about you, never forget!
@@HauntedKnight646 is it... Though?
I love reading comments on these playlists. Hearing peoples struggles, understanding them, knowing how it feels for them... then the really nice comments that ask how you're doing and telling you that everything will be okay. Those are really nice. Listen to those comments, those people.
You're doing great, never give up.❤
Hey luv!! Look at you. Look at how you made it through another day again. Let it out. Its ok to be vulnerable sometimes. I know you’re hurting now. But its ok! We’ve all been there.
Sometimes you need to take a break from things. Even if u love doing them.
God, thank you. I needed this. I literally just cried because I needed someone to tell me this, to let all out. Thank you.
I love you I needed this so badly thank you I love you
Thank you. Please follow this as well. You may need it too.
I've been tired constantly for about a year. I've been going to the doctors alot for it but they all say it's normal. I don't think it is, sometimes I'm so tired I don't want to love from my bed. I sleep for more than twelve hours and stay in bed for so long when I dotn need to go to school. I also fake sleep to avoid talking to my mother. It might be normal that I'm tired like this but I do want to just take a break
omg no cuz same. i’ve been sleeping at 6pm and wake up at 12pm when i dont have school yet i still feel so tired. i joke about it but it really isn’t fun, i can’t concentrate so i feel stupid, i can’t do simple tasks like making food, and it makes everything worse. i’ve been diagnosed with dysthymia, maybe you can see a psychiatrist instead of a doctor to know !!
@@luv.kar1n I've been trying to see a psychologist for months but the waiting list or sumn is really long lol
The only way to go is up. Remind yourself to make memories, to slow down a bit. 10 years are gonna be gone so quick- try to remember them. You've got to put effort in life. This is the only shot you've got in a million years.
Hey luv! Heres some questions to take a break from reality
Yeah I finally ate two plates of dinner 😁 I'm pretty proud of myself and I drank some water. Thanks for caring ❤️❤️
hiii i totally forgot to reply to this aaa but im gonna do it rn ! thanks for making my day youre so sweet and i encourage anyone reading this to answer all of these too !
is it bad that ive been slowly overdosing myself. also i found a pill that can actually k*ll me if i consumed way too many
@@user-dd8hd2tn1t yes it i s bad. please dont take pills, it’s horrible not only to you but people around you… i have sooo much traumas from my mom taking pills to khs, i wouldn’t want anyone to go what i nor what my mom had to go through. this isn’t something to take lightly, please, it’s your life we’re talking about. you’re so much more worthy than you think, please talk to someone about it !! im ngl im crying writing this but please take care of yourself… you’re doing much better than you think, i promise, just please stop taking pills and speak out. ik what im saying right now isn’t useful but i hope u understand that i care, and if i do, so many others do too. you’re going to be okay. if that reassures you, my mom suffered from depression with a lot, a whole lot suicide attempts for 20 years and today, she’s the happiest i’ve ever seen her and doesn’t even fantasize about death. it was a long journey, yes, but it was soooo worth it in the end and she finally found herself and her purpose to live. if she can, you can do it too. it’s not the end of your journey yet.
take care and i love u
bad, a bit, nope, no, no, no, nope, was forced, no, he/him, too much of it, nope. I had some good dreams though. Dreams are my favorite.
Most days, I just feel an all-encompassing emptiness, like my reality is numbed.
No matter what I do, I barely feel anything about it, even things that I should, unless it's panic or anger.
Music is one of the few times I actually feel alive and real nowadays.
Thank you for helping me to cry and feel sad.
i cant express myself and its hard. knowing that people can feel free to talk to a therapist or talk to there parents, a friend. now that i know people could i wish i can. these feelings are so bottled up and i just wanna breathe and feel better no matter if i know deep down im still healing. i just wanna feel like im okay and atleast better than right now. i wanna know that im doing well but its so hard lol. im only 11 yk
i grew up in the same conditions, i'm now 22 and only had one person i felt safe to open up to. i know you posted this a while ago, but do you wanna have a chat with me? i'm not an expert but maybe it would help, it hits hard seeing someone go through something similar growing up.
Im going through something very similar rn, I dont think wanting to disappear is very normal for a 12 year old like me haha, i had a therapist but i didnt tell her everything that she probably needed to know to help me properly. because i havent told anyone idk if what im feeling is real
to all of the people listening to this playlist I want you to know that ist ok to need a break, it's ok to cry, it's ok to relax. don't worry to ok to be you its all ok
check my channel.
to everyone commenting: i scrolled through and read a lot of the comments. they each made my nose sting like im about to cry.
why?
because i care about you. each and every one of you.
you may think i’m just saying that, but no.
every since i was little i had a genuine feeling of love for just about every human being. i cannot express singlehandedly the feelings when i learn what makes some really happy, seeing their face light up and smile.
seeing everyone sad, tired, down, stressed, not themselves, or anything else, just.. makes me feel horrible.
i want you, YOU, if you’re reading this comment, to know that i love you. i appreciate you.
it’s so tiring to continue on in a constant cycle where you think it’s not even worth to try helping yourself, i get it.
i struggle with motivation to take care of myself.
but please, if im taking a sip of water, will you sit here for a moment in this comment and just breathe with me? drink a sip of water with me? thank you. :)
you’re free to comment anything in the replies. let it out. you’ve probably been holding in your emotions so long or you’re the therapist friend, but for once, let it out.
again, i know you’re tired, but you’re so full of possibilities, wonder, well, you’re YOU
and that “you” is absolutely gorgeous, deserves to be here on this earth, no matter how shitty the people are or the circumstances.
sometimes, it’s better to live your life and experience pain and sadness as normal than experience none of it all, because THAT is when you’ll have lived.
unfortunately, love, it’s not all happy, and that’s perfectly okay.
but you’re also gonna be okay, i promise you! :)
let me, if you don’t have one or you don’t feel as if you have one, be a mother figure, if only for this one comment i’ve made.
thank you for reading all of this, if you did. goodnight or good morning or good afternoon, and have absolutely wonderful days. 💖 :))
Your passage really moved me um I'm honestly crying tears right now because it's been so long since I've heard/read in this case, words it means alot to know that their still people willing to show kindness even if the people their showing it to are total strangers. I'd like to take you up on your offer to talk but perhaps more privately? If you have a social media you'd be willing to share or I could give you mine? if not I completely understand and I just generally wanted to thank you for what you wrote I really needed it so ty
I’m sitting in college right now on the verge of tears from this comment, it’s incredible how the kindness of one stranger can have such an impact. Thank you for being such a wonderful person and if no one has told you this lately, you’re important, you’re doing so well and I’m proud of you. Thank you for making my day 💗
Wow...
Thanks a lot:)
I appreciate you 💜
Thank you so much.. I’m going through a hard time at the moment but especially your comment comforted me in some way
You are so kind, I wish you all the best!
i'm so tired, but i don't think i deserve a break, because i'm afraid that if i rest i will fail even more than i'm failing rigth now. i really need a break but if i take it i'll feel guilty and i won't gave enough time
Everyone needs a break and deserves a break. If u take a break I'm sure u will do much better after and feel happier. Think about it this way, would u force a hamster to keep going on the wheel even tho u can see its mentally tired at that point. Everyone needs a break sometimes and u should always take time for urself. To treat urself, to take care of urself. Feel good. And failing isn't bad, we all make mistakes and should correct them and know better next time. I recommend taking a mental break whenever u can, if ur at school ask the council(whoever is in charge, physiologist ect.) or if u work ask ur boss for a mental break. We all need it. You matter and are loved full-heartedly.
I just wanna take a break from everything, myself, my mind, my body, my feelings, my life. I can’t anymore, I’m really tired, everything is tiring, overwhelming…I just want everything to reach the end, that’s what I really want, be in peace, don’t think, everything just….ends.
Well, have a good night I hope you get better. Love you and thanks for spend a minute reading this, also sorry I didn’t want to vent here, sorry if it affects you, keep going :)
this is underrated asfff
to anyone reading: someday you can rest and feel better. it seems pointless, but who knows if future you might be happy if you stayed.
I'm scared of school. I really am. Christmas break is almost over and it's time to go back to school, and I don't want to. I don't want to try my best and being told it's not good enough. I don't want to be in need of someone saying "I'm proud of you". I don't want to emocionally depend on school. I'm not prepared, and my parents will never understand this. I just want to have a reason to get out of bed.
hey there. you're doing so well to make it this far. i *am* proud of you. even if your parents wont understand, i hope this year you find a friend who will. you deserve that. school is tiring and hard but i believe in you. talk to your teachers- some wont listen, but some will. those are the ones you should know will have your back. good luck in 2022. youve got this :)
@@blakethememe3840 Thank you so much, I really thought that no one would read this but you just made my day, tysm
im actually going on a break right now
how perfectly timed
Same i gone on a break from 11/11 on wards B)
The feeling of taking a break is extraordinary. Its like you are able to finally relax after such a long time of struggle. 10/10 feeling imo
So sad to break the 69 comment count, but I'd like to say something positive - and a personal story of mine. I struggle with workaholism due to gifted kid syndrome - nothing really feels like it's ever enough. Good grades, good social skills, talent in everything I do. So I started up projects - animations, music...that kind of stuff. And of course it's fine to do that, but before long, all that was ever on my mind was getting work done. I finished one? No time to feel proud, next project! And I didn't even realize that I was spiraling down into this cycle of constant working, I was unknowingly distancing myself from all of my friends. Eventually, one of em reached out to me and told me that he recognized this. It came as a complete shock to me - surely I couldn't be a workaholic because I wasn't burnt out right? Sure I worked all the time but it was *fine*... but he was right. I was slowly losing myself to my self installed job, and I needed to take a break.
Even now, I can't really feel proud of myself. I'm not a professional at everything I do so it feels like I don't deserve to be that proud, but the progress is the entire reason I do it. The positive thing here is that I'm getting better already, I don't have a therapist but I have friends who I can rely on - of course I won't burden them with ALL my problems... but it feels like, if I pace myself, everything will work out just fine. It's time to relax, and take a break
I'm glad ur taking care of urself.
hey! got a lil quote for u :3
jack of all trades, master of none.
yet often times better than a master of one
this kind of reminded me of u:) have a good day!
Honestly this is now my favorite playlist, I love how the music leads us to calm down. You did a wonderful job by creating this piece of art, love you
it feels like my parents only care about what i do and never how i feel and my friends are the only thing keeping me from going back to how i used to be when all i had was fanfic and i would stay awake until my family woke up to avoid seeing them, i just wish i could be myself around them and still have them care about me
Im sorry that you had to deal with that in your life... I hope you get a good rest in a bed and get fed the most delicious food there is!! Your gonna be strong and get through this. Its gonna be okay.! I hope you the best of luck and i hope you have a good year stranger
check my channel.
For a couple days I've been using this as my sleep playlist, for the longest time I've been struggling to accomplish things; school work, chores, taking care of my basic need and then all of a sudden I get thrust into something that makes so so excited to work on and I work and I work and I work and I feel burnout for the first time. It hits bad. I'm finding a better balance but I can't help but wanna chase that productive high even though I got these massive lows at night.
To be honest, I envy those people who are “sunshines”. They make you feel happy, warm, comfortable and at peace. I just wanna be that person so that I can finally make people’s day better. But instead of making their days brighter and happier, I make it darker and more depressing.
even the brightest of suns have dark days, sometimes dark weeks or months. you're not doomed to be dark for the rest of your life if you dont want to be. things will change, the clouds will clear. find someone who makes you feel like a sunshine. dont lose your light no matter what. keep going :)
@@blakethememe3840 AWWW THANK YOU AND ILY
@@blakethememe3840 I've been going back to this comment ever since you replied to me. this has given me the motivation to keep going. Your comment really hit a spot that I didn't know it existed. I just wanna thank you and i hope youll be able to get through any challenges you face :))
I'm that people. I always carried about my friends..I don't wanna live in the Russia ,i just wanna run away from all problems with friends and family.In Russia hard to live when many country's hates you.I love English all my heart...i wanna live i america.But its hard to run away from her.In our contry its okey hates all,homophobic, racism..
I'm 13 years old Julia,and i wanna learn English perfectly..i don't know why us Russians kids hate so much..we Russian adults dream about to live this place and move in the America
I'm sorry for bad English..♡
This gave me some comfort after a panic attack
( Vent )
Tw: love, heartbreaks, mention of blood, abuse, parent issues, talk of suicide
I'm that type of person people hate. I'm loyal but I do fall out of love fast. I get really jealous and wont say anything. When I'm mad or upset I'll move on my own without thinking. When I don't get the love I crave I quickly lose interest. I can't say this is my fault though.
Growing up I slowly lost connection with my parents. At the age of 6 I was already in the kitchen cooking, cleaning, and more. I took care of everyone and never got anything. By then I had no relationship with my mom or dad. Me and my mom would have screaming matches and my dad was a violent person. I grew up in fear if I would have to hide bruises the next day before school or clean up a pool of my own blood. When I was 7 I was cleaning my bedroom I share with my brother. I was arguing with my brother because he wasn't helping. My dad had busted into the room and knocked me and my brother's head together and started to hit me. I remember every clearly I had sat there looking down with a bloody nose. I sat there with tears and blood running down my face. My mom was busy checking if my brother was okay to notice me. I just sat there. I was to scared to move even the slightest. After what felt like 10 minutes there was a huge pile of blood were I was sitting. My mom finally had saw and started yelling at me to clean up. My whole childhood I grew up taking care of others and never myself. I never received any love back. As I grew up I dated people to fill the whole that could never be filled. I hated love but I needed it to go on. If I didn't love someone or someone didn't love me I'd feel empty and I would just leave this world. I knew I needed a break from love so I did take a break. But it was an obsession. Getting love from people is what I needed but no one could make me love them as much as they loved me. Many of my relationships were half assed. The older I grew the worser me and my parents got.
Now I have a loving boyfriend who doesn't know of these sorrows I carry with me but makes sure I love him as much as he loves me. We carry a same sorrow og parent issues but we both learned to toss them aside. We love each other for who we are and not what we suffer from. Although I don't think I can ever open up to my boyfriend about my childhood wounds I can to you guys. Opening up to people I know in real life in hard and it might change the way they see me.
I'm viewed as a the chaotic and funny girl who has one of the brightest smiles. Here on the internet I'm known as someone with the same sorrows as many others.
If there are any other people who suffer from something like this please let me know. I just want to know if I'm not alone.
Your not alone believe me
i listened to this playlist while cleaning my room, and doing home work and i've never gotten it done that fast
I cried so much that I had no more tears, so thank you for making this playlist because I could finally cry again
I miss my friends so much. I saw them at a small party yesterday and it was the happiest i've felt in months. Nothing mattered other than how much we laughed and danced and hugged and ate and laughed again. I felt like myself and how they saw me were the same. And then i had to leave in the morning. And now im back to missing them, but its worst because i was reminded of how bright they used to make my school days, and how they arent a part of those anymore. I used to have that. Feel a little bit of that everyday.
At least i made another friend in my class (only other student with adhd lol) and we share a sense of humor, and the days really got easier to go through.
Happy update ! Because sadness doesnt last. I still miss them just as mich but i realized how much i needed to be reminded of what life used to be like. I'd forgoten that things absolutely can be better for me than how they presently were, and im a little more motivated to make life better again. Because actually, i can have friends that feel like family. Im not the only one on earth who just isnt worthy of it, or isnt capable of it. My year is worst because of hazard and sometimes life goes the wrong way but that is not permanent.
Welcome to your safe place, no one will judge you here
this is LITERALLY the best playlist,, i’ve been listening to all these songs for a while now:) so thanks for the nice songs!
i’m sort of taking a break now too, so it’s great. i’m an extremely codependent person, i cannot do anything alone. i’ll stay home for months on end until someone offers to go somewhere with me. anytime i want to eat, i’ll want someone there, or i’ll forget to eat. i’m not currently on speaking terms with my mom, and so i’ve gone 2 weeks so far without a proper meal. i’ll eat bread here and there but that’s all. i haven’t thought about it until now, where i’ve had the chance to lay and recollect my thoughts and habits. it feels awful to always have to depend on someone else, not just to go outside. i find myself always needing someone’s opinion on something, good or bad. my mom said some things to me at my docs appointment that made me feel shitty, and since then i cannot eat or sleep. it’s exhausting, sometimes i’m absolutely starving but i just cant bring myself to eat knowing what my mom has said. it really sucks, and i’m becoming neglectful to the things around me, and i hate it.
im so tired... i can't do it anymore, just having to fake being happy all the time...
its shitty :/
Honestly at this rate I’m tired and I need a break. Yes school hasn’t been that bad and I’m a straight A student but I’m still so mentally ill, I’m recovering from self-h currently and I’m struggling so much rn. This playlist is helping me rn, thank you so much for making this playlist.
It’s hard for me to find time for myself, my best friend is having a bad year and I am the only one looking out for her I was busy calling and hanging out with her to make sure she was ok and feeling happy and not think that she’s nothing. I put her first before myself she has been there for me at my worst and I always promised I will never leave her side even if I die. Breaks aren’t a thing for me anymore am busy with making my friend smile, but goddamn it I need one so freaking bad!
Awww... Your such a good friend! I hopw you and your friend can both get through this together and well! I wish you thhe best of luck out there and even if i dont know you just know i love you and please get a rest if you can, you deserve it!
I actually really love this playlist. Thank you for it!Helped me a lot
ive been in such an emotional slump lately, im too tired to even think of whats bothering me
thank you, luv, for describing what i could never put into words through music
hi :) its okay to need a break. drink some water and take care of yourself, alright? when youre ready to, pay attention to little things in your life that can make you feel things again- the warm feeling of sun through a window, seeing a flower outside, the smell of foods you make. i hope you feel better soon. you've got this :)
@@blakethememe3840 this was so sweet oh my gosh
ill definitely work hard to try to get better :)
im tired, tired of everything. i just wanna sleep, im tired. why cant they all just go away, why r they here? whats my purpose? why am i here? can i just disappear? its so tiring
hey now, cheer up, you may dont know me but, im here for you, okay? if i only exist in your world, we would blast some music and eat food and having picnics, now, who wants to join?
Genially the best playlist I’ve heard in a while now. Really made me feel calm thank you 💖
I want listen this playlist, crying under the rain and scream, I want the night to last forever and I can look at the stars eternally.
I feel you
you know I used to joke about depressed teens once, finding them cringe and just stupid overall. now I became one lmao. I just didn't realize back then that everyone will eventually encounter something in their life bigger than themself that will crush their mental health until they react. the fact is that I'm reacting to this big thing that's crushing me but everything I do seems useless. at this point I really don't know what to do, It has been 2 months already since my 3rd psychologist dropped me and I've got to wait until January to find another one and it's getting worse since then. It's been 2 months of me being alone, stressed by school, unable to understand why no matter what I do I just feel extremely sad at the end of the day and eaten by my anxiety disorder. I just don't get why my psychologist cant see what I've felt during these last years: maybe I'm not that clear when talking to them? I really need a break from all of this. and I've been taking a small one since these 2 months of shit began. I'm not studying and applying to school and my grades are slowly getting a bit worse, but I don't care anymore. I just need a break goddamnit. and I know that some people might say that I'm overreacting or I'm just being a crybaby but fr I just don't care anymore. say whatever you want y'all it's already a lot of spared despair from myself if I'm keeping myself from fucking up with my friends, school, family, and my mental health by isolating myself again as I did time ago. I'm done with the rant, wish y'all a good day, bless.
Really needed this after I royally screwed up on my 3rd semester at college 🙃 (Also the way this playlist makes me feel like a TV show character that's sitting in their bedroom staring at their ceiling as the camera slowly pans out and fades to the credits 😅)
Just read comments , Half of us are here because of school stress.. school needs to be shortened hours it’s not fair we’re all so tired and stressed. I have so much homework soon and finals in 4 days and I’m trying so hard to keep my grades good that I went to sleep at 3 am studying which is super hard for me to do cus I’m hella deppressed but anyways if u are here from school relax for a lil and take a break . We’ve all got this
im having a break every day and im starting to feel tired abt it
Just wanna dissapear...and not leave the pain for the other also not being pain anymore...if i can erase my existence...i will erase it since a long time ago...
School just ended today, i feel like i can finally breath
Hey, if you are reading this just know it will get better, so no need to overthink. You can get through this one day at a time. It is okay to take a break- go out in a forest for a day/ build a den out of blankets/ try a new baking recipe/ try texting a friend/ find a new game/hobby. Enjoy the little things, you can do this
Sending you ritual hugs🕯 that’s all i can do. Plus dw same here…
I felt nothing listen to this it's kinda relaxing Thank you
I've been stressed through all of september. Work, new licenses now that im 15, travelling abroad and so much more. This week i've been working 7 hours average and have been talking to strangers and have put up a happy face for ways, which has been overwhelming. Yet tomorrow i have to go to my friends birthday party, but im so mentally exhausted and cant comprehend meeting any more strangers and having to put up a facade again. I need a break so badly, but i will feel so terrible if i tell him i cant go anyways. I dont know what to do. I know i cant show my absolute fullest anymore, but i dont want to upset him..
I can't really take a break though because then I'll let them down. My friends depend on me to make them laugh when they're upset, my parents expect me to do so many things at once and do everything perfectly. They never seem to notice when somethings wrong and when I'm not okay
In case no one told you today. You're beautiful. You're loved. You're needed. You're alive for a reason. You're stronger than you think. You're gonna get through this. I'm glad you're alive. And don't ever give up!
I'm so behind in college. 1st semester was fine honestly, but for some reason I started 2nd semester burnt out and its been cursing me through now. Ive been in a state of being stressed and feeling behind for the past month so hopefully I can dig myself out of this hole I've put myself in...
I'm just not feeling it right now. I had to drop out of school because I was afraid of repeating the school year. On top of that I have to work to pay bills and have to take care of 10 pets in a small space. I also got rejected and left alone from someone I had a crush on and that really set me back. I just want someone to truly love me for who I am. Not for who I could be or who I should be. I want peace and quiet. So I could rest. Please?
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my emotions have made me felt like i was burning, all over, since last december, in a painful kinda way. My burnout started april, that's grown from extreme burnout to never having energy to feeling more asleep than awake, all the time, all... the.. time..
December's here. December 12th god that's only in a couple day's. To think, To think that same day last year is gonna be a hole year since that awful event, that horrible fight, that terrifying moment, that stupid day that i've never stopped thinking about. For a Hole year.
It's been that long and i still don't know if i have trauma, what happened that night, I've Been Trying to convince myself i do but i'm still just a lost little child.
i still don't know what to do with any of this.
...... 12/1/21
You know I literally didn't cry for five months until today, my sisters and mom literally put all their anger on me, I didn't cry in front of them , I would just stand there , getting hit, getting slapped for nothing, "why you just standing there being stupid"
Hey hey heyyyy!! Look its gonna be alright your gonna get through this and meet the right people who would make you happy and comforted. Im really sorry youu had to deal with that.. Just know i will be your friend if you need me too!!
I want a break, I really want a break. But when I’m not doing school, I’m doing things for friends or family or I’m working on homework and taking care of my younger siblings when my parents are busy. I want a break, I really do. A break that’s not at 1 am listening to playlists on RUclips, a real _break_
I can't anymore please I can't anymore this hurts I've never felt this way about someone and he doesn't feel the same and I don't even want to talk to him
cause Ik what I'm going to get my self into.
i do. i do need a break. from everyone and everything. i just need to find a place where i can lie down and rest. but i want to wake up and be able to love again. to be able to love these people in the way i used to, the way they deserve. so im trying. but this is my last resort. im shutting off, in order to get some rest, and ultimately to wake up and not feel like this anymore.
i love them. with all my heart. but they deserve more than that. so im working on it.
This is my first comment on any yt video.. lately I've been taking a lot of breaks from everything and I think I'm at my limit... I've had depression for 6 years and I'm 18 now. I've had enough. I think today will be the day I end it all. Please stay strong and take as many breaks as you like
no no no please don’t!!!! please give me ur insta or something so that we can talk about it more. i know ure a great person and im just so glad you’re still here, please don’t make any mistakes. i will miss you. many others too. i dont know what you’re struggling with but you can do it. idk if it helps but my mother has struggled with depression for around 20 years with many attempts, but here she is, 3 years later, doing way better and having found her purpose in life. ive never seen her this happy. you’re so strong, and you’re not alone. things will eventually get better, i promise !! please don’t leave. you did it all these years, take it a day by a day. small steps. focus on yourself. you’re doing great i promise. you’re so brave and inspiring. im so proud of you. please stay.
Keep breathing my friend.
hi ! are u doing okay.. u need updates please
I'm just so tired of everything I'm 15, 16 in 26 days, and I never got to have my childhood. I was always scared or working. I have 43 missed assignments in 1 class seven due in a few minutes from the same English teacher. My sister refuses to mature even though she's almost 18, my mom says "oh youre the older sister now, you have to be strong for me" but I can't mama, I just can't, everyone hates me because I'm "too perfect" that's not it, I'm stressed! My dad abused me and wants to weasel his way back. I have to juggle work, chores, school, content creation, and maintain a good relationship with those I have left. My boyfriend left me after a week because of school. My trauma induced asexuality mixed with hypersexuality just confused my brain. I'm disgusted by the thought of sex, but I can't help but look at the inappropriate things, my dad introduced me to it before I could even WALK. My entire family besides my mom and step dad left me, when I was 13 THEY WERE ALL I HAD, THEY NEVER LEFT LIKE EVERYONE ELSE. I'm a curse, a jinx, everyone I love either dies or gets hurt... but why me...
Thank you for understanding.
awe this was uploaded on my birthday (keep creating btw luv
I was supposed to have spring break. I ended up doing something else. No it wasn’t de-stressing. No it wasn’t having fun. I ended up being unable to talk without yelling. Don’t know why. Now in 2 days i have a whole project to finish, missing works, and studying for a state math test. 🙂
Bro. My bf and I had built one of those special bonds as friends and then we became close and then he had to move out of state. Him and I both have hard home lives and it was hard because he wasn't allowed to talk on the phone much, 2 months went by and we went through a lot of struggles. Some of the toughest weeks of our lives in our homes, 4 days ago he came and surprised me at my houses front door and it was the best days of my life. I've never been so happy. We watched movies and talked and made food together. I forgot what he felt like, what he smelled like, so having him here was amazing. Until he left. 10 minutes ago. Just like that. We're back to normal. But now my eyes are more tired from the crying and my room smells like him. Why.
I've been feeling like its not honestly its not if I get exhausted so easyly and its not if I can't even pay attention to some classes its not if I don't want to be with anyone its not if I want to self isolate and never go back
i was told i was dry today, now i've got nothing good i see about myself.
I just need a break from my abusive family the constant problems and my addiction to cutting is not making my suicidal ideation any better
hey it will be alright, no matter how shitty it gets it will always get better no matter how long it takes noting stays bad forever. Think off it like a stage in a book where the main character goes through a bad/crappy arc they always find happiness at some point. And remember you're love and cared about :]
just keep breathing.
i want it all to be over it hurts so much, i hate it here, living, everything i hate it… i’m stressed i can’t help myself and i’ve tried to die, never going through with it but i just want it to be over and i alway say “i’ll push through it won’t last forever” but now that enthusiasm is going away and i don’t think i’ll make it.
i just want it to be over…
this playlist just remind me on how much i missed out on life.. i just wanna get out of bed and live.. i wanna be happy again.. 2017 me, come back please, i miss you :/
on everyday bases i have to deal with things such as myself and everything else, I cant change, i;ll be happy for a minute or two then it goes down hill again.
school is about to start again from being on winter brake... and i don't think i can do this anymore. i only have one friend cuz all of my other ones left me i really just need help. my body hurts and everyone hurts my feelings. i try my best for everyone but end up not being enough no matter how hard i try. and my life is just crumbling. there is so much more but i don't wanna waste your time.
TW: Vent, mentions of self harm. i’m so tired. i just want it all to stop. suicide thoughts are getting worse. i really don’t want to relapse but it is so hard. i just want to stop trying just to give up and lay in bed for weeks not doing anything. the emptiness is just getting bigger. i though filling my life with hobbies and art would help but the hole inside of me is just getting bigger. i think eventually i’m going to be reduced to nothing. i’m going to therapy but i don’t see many changes.
I really hate it when you take a break from everything and then everyone gets mad at you. I just wanted to take a break from all socials for a while because my girlfriend broke up with me and everyone got mad at me, even my own parent still expected me to do things. No one thinks about me anymore, they all think about themselves. I ask my friends how their days were, and if they are ok and I let them rant. But I never seem to get it back, I don't understand if I'm doing something wrong or if I just don't deserve it. And they refuse to talk to me about the things I'm doing wrong, they just leave me out of nowhere. And my parents, my gosh my parents. I don't even think they believe that I'm depressed. I don't even think my mom believes that I am. I love my parents and I know they love me, but they have a very rough way of showing it sometimes. I just need a really big break. And I mean a big break. But as soon as I take that break everyone gets upset.
Anyway enough about me.
How's your day? Are you drinking and eating enough? I hope so even though I don't know you and you don't know me I still think it's important for you to keep living your life. And I know it feels like nothings going to get better but sometimes it has to get worse before it gets better. Ok? Now, go eat your favorite food and take a break. Because you're going to need the energy to get better.
I read some comments here and I'm like: I don't want to be rude but if you wanna talk even if you're the "therapist friend" try and talk to them. Do not expect people to magically know when you feel bad, I won't talk for everyone but I can't feel or really see if people feel worse they need to tell me and if they do I'm happy to listen. If they still won't listen then yeah....they don't care but then you have to find other friends. If you're in a bad place tell people, you're worth it and if they care about you they will do their best to listen. As much as I understand that you want that people see that you're feeling bad on their own, just because they can't see it doesn't mean they don't care.
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Honestly I just started a mental breakdown about everything that is going on. I have court tomorrow, I am failing 1 class and barely passing one. I am just so tired, I feel as if I am going nowhere in my life. Everyone I know figured out college and stuff, but if I can barely do this, I don't think can do that. I feel like a disappointment for not having the motivation. I really see no point in me staying alive if I can't make a change...I am drowning and I don't thing I'll ever be able to get that air
Can we appreciate how this is exactly 24:30.. I love everything about this-
Theres an assignment i have to do for health about reaching our goals. Mine was to be free of self harm i cant even finish the first paragraph without crying because i never stopped and i feel like i disappoint everyone
my best friend had to change school, she was my only true friend
im all alone by myself now
Why can't I just feel good about where I am? Why do I always want to be mean and cold even though I don't want to be lonely? Why can't I feel better? Why am I so lonely?
I don't know.
okay but that whistling part actually freaked me out
i wish i could have some break.
i'm in last grade so i will gonna have final exams, the problem is that, i'm really bad with grades and i have a lot to catch up. My mom signed me up to correpetition classes so i can catch up with it and learn and get good grade. She expects me to get over 150 points on final exams and well so far i got F's so there's no way i am able to get that many points , i can't wait to disappoint her.
I also have trainings three times a week but i don't wanna stop doing sport because of those other additional classes so basically my schedule is all filled up,
wake up at 7 am or 5 am and go school till 3 pm and run home to be late for training, than i ride bus around hour and get there, after training i go back at 8 pm at night when i get home i eat and clean and do homeworks from correpetition classes, school and learn for all the tests than we got everyday, than at midnight i play on phone till 4am in my bed, i don't have time for my self and playing games is the only way to relax my self, i also don't even eat break fast and i don't drink a lot and i don't get any sleep because now i just consider it as a waste of time like "i could do something else than sleeping" i just lost feeling of time one hour is so short whenever i tell mom i want break but her reply is "you have a break all the time!" yeah the break she's talking about it's the 1 minut on phone checking hour.
i really just wanna die at this point everyday is the same but it's getting worse because my mom pays for those lessons and there is no progress and the final exams are getting closer i hate my self for not being able to satisfy my mom and others everyone expect me to get good grade but i just can't okay?
I dealt with suicide thoughts for awhile now since like what i was 13 all im really tryna do is really trying to find a good reason to move ya know yes i have goals but my determination isn't strong enough for me to achieve them i'll just strive to become greater i don't have any sharp objects where i'm at 😃
Break… taking a break helps.. but it doesn’t last.. what a shame. Now gotta get up and do this shit all over again.. oh my life.
I'm sorry that I have the inability to talk, I want to talk- I want to learn how to actually talk to people besides just explaining things.. I want to talk to my girlfriend/wife I want to talk to my best friend/platonic wife- I want to actually have a conversation. I want to make them feel happy- I want to feel good enough for them but I have my own problems too.. I'm sick of my face- I can't remember it. And I'm glad I don't. Because I'm sick of being called s girl, I'm sick of this body. I'm sick of being deadnamed every day of my life. I'm sick and tired of being by myself physically everyday. there's no one around- anr I have friends, I have some adults worth talking too- but I feel so fucking useless. I feel like a fucking mistake- why am I so stupid? I can't tell what people want from me, and I'm not one to tell the truth about how I'm feeling because I hate drawing attention to myself. But no, I'm not okay. Yes, I am lonely. No I'm not a girl, I'm not s boy either. I hate my lobg hair and I want to take it out, but I'm worried about what others will think of me. I want a pretty face like everyone else- why do I think everyone else is pretty but myself. I'm sick of my own body. I hate my face- I want to cover it up. I want to keep my mask on forever. I don't want to tske it off, it shows too much. I hate it. I don't want to see it, I can't bare to see it. If I take it off what will people think? My eyes are just enough, I hate the rest. Why Am i like this? stupid.
I feel you sm-, but remember, things will get better kay? Just be yourself, i know it can be hard, but you can do it, i know you can, life is too short to care abt what people will think of you, you don’t have to satisfy every single human being, as long you are good with your appearance and your self in general its okay, you are strong, i know you are. just be who you are, not what people want you to be. And remember i am proud of you, you are trying so hard, i am really proud of you
I just wanna say thxs... My bf left me a few days ago and my old habits r back. I stopped eating a lot and my depression and anxiety have gotten worst and worst since then. Lelistening to this just made me want to just accept everything. I wanted to cry but I haven't found anything that makes me cry anymore. I just needed a break from everything. I been stressed with school and everything. I been dealing with my problems on my own since he left and it's only made things worst but I just needed a break. This seems to keep the thoughts as bay for now but just thxs so much... This helped me a lot...
I want a break from the aches and chills in my bones from another sleepless night. I want to fill my lungs with fresh air and scream, scream and cry for days. Because I feel like I'm crumbling and as I'm trying not to, I'm loosing my mind. I hate myself for the thoughts I have, I also forgive myself but at the end of the day I'm tired of thinking. Because I just want a break!
You are now my favorite person.
I was in class one day and basically drawing about my mental health (containing my fear of social situations, body dysmorphia/hate, mental drain, etc.) and at the end of class, the teacher asked to see the paper, which I showed it to him (I didn’t want to be disrespectful and I would honestly like help or just someone who knew that I wasn’t as ok as I pretended to be..) he looked at the paper, asked if I was ok and needed to talk, and I of course said that I was fine as I started crying, and he just said ok and gave back the paper- I know it’s my fault for saying that I was fine but come on,
IM OBVIOUSLY NOT OK, I JUST WANT HELP…… please……
I one time talked with my mum about that i need a break over the holidays and she said that i can't do that because nobody does
i had this one (online) friend, we both had the same sleep schedule and we were in the same time zone. we loved talking to eachother, so day and night we would talk.
after around 5 months of this, i just wanted to take a break, have some time to myself, just an hour or two. i told my friend about this cause if i just stopped responding for an hour or two hed freak the fuck out, like once we got into a fight and i went away for 45 minutes and he almost killed himself.
he said i was leaving him, he didnt want me to take that time, he wanted me to stay there with him, and i did for a week or two, but then i just decided id do it and pretend i was sleeping in. i felt guilty about it afterwards and told him, and he said i left him and made a big deal out of it.
back then i was 11, id just gone homeschooled and lost all but one friend, and i had a new brother who was in the hospital due to respiratory issues. so this guy was the only thing consistent in my life, the one thing i could count on, and seeing what that did to him, it kinda fucked me up.
that was 4 years ago now and i still cant get myself to just take a break for myself, he turned out to be a piece of shit and i havent spoken to him in 2 years so there shouldnt be anything keeping me from just withdrawing from everyone for an hour or two right? so why the fuck cant i just do that? i dont try to stop others from taking breaks, but i cant get myself to take a break from people. if i try to, either i say nevermind and just deal with it or i push them out of my life altogether.
i dont know what to do anymore, ive pushed everyone but 3 people out of my life and i cant lose them but what if it happens again? what if they hate me? im meeting my online friend next april, i asked him if hed hate me if im really ugly or anything like that and he said probably not but that isnt a for sure. im scared shitless of losing him, cause if im being honest emotionally speaking hes become my father figure. i cant lose him man.
if anyones actually read all this thanks, i just needed to say something somewhere, i dont expect you to give a shit or anything.
You're fundamentally a great person, but you have to put up and deal with shitty people all the time. It's not your fault. The only way things are gonna get better is self improvement, and mental health.
i don’t know what to do. i feel so lost. i don’t have any friends. im hurting so bad. even worse, my dads mentally unstable and he’s taking all of it out on people he loves. he blames for everything. tonight, we’ve become farther apart than we’ve ever been. i don’t think there’s any coming back from this. we usually make up, but i see no point. my family is just as fucked up as the rest of the world, and they don’t see it. i wish i was never born.
I always feel like I have no good reason to feel the way I do Specifically when I’m feeling depressed I feel like I should be happy bc nothing bad happened that day I just feel like shit and idk why.
So good thank you I really needed this
(TW:SH and Su^c^de talk) help me, i feel nothing. ive felt alone, derpressed, anxious, angry, and bottled up. i feel like i have no one to talk to because either they wont listen or i dont want to bother them with my problems. i feel numb. ive opened up to a friend and they made me promise not to S3lf H^rm or KMS. only now do i realize how much SH helped me with my emotions. i feel numb. i want to feel something but i dont know how. the only thing that makes me happy and gives me the ability to cry is music. music is the only thing thats been there for me. why cant i just be okay, why do i have to feel so f^cked up. please god someone, just help me. please.
im glad u have someone that made you promise this and im glad you’re still hanging on. i promise you, you’re doing better than you think. im glad you’re still here, and maybe try talking to ur problems to the one that made u promise ! or if u want, u can vent to me some more, a total stranger, idk which one helps more for u, but just in case here’s my insta @karxnb, feel free to vent whenever you need
why do i feel like i'm supposed to be okay? i mean my problem with my family is now solved. i have everything i need, but why do i feel like i'm not contented? why do i feel sad all the time? why do i feel insecure all the time? why do i starve myself and only eat gum. wy do i feel shitty all the time? why do i constantly want to kms and do sh. why am i doing my best in everything just to get that validation. JUST WHY.
i felt the same way and i still do. i thought a lot about it and two things came to mind:
- you have what OTHERS deem as perfect. it doesnt mean u will be happy with it. for example, everyone thinks going out is great so you go out but you’re not content even though everyone told you it was, so you feel unsatisfied. it’s just bc u haven’t listened to yourself and listened to others, and maybe you actually prefer to stay inside.
- you’re still growing. when you were 5, you wanted more toys but it was never enough, when you were 10 you wanted a phone but once you got it you wanted a better one, etc. it’s normal, you always want to achieve or have something more, you’re human it’s alright. but learn to be grateful for the things u already have ! the past you would be proud
@@luv.kar1n thank you so so much. u don't know how much i needed those words. you made me feel so safe in your channel, tysm for that 🤍
I found out that two of my friends have/are self-harmed/harming, and I dont know what to do I'm trying to help but I just don't know how. I just want them to be okay. Does anybody have any tips? Its driving me crazy because all I wanna do is help :( I have seriously thought about SH but I don't wanna worry anyone so I don't, I just wanna focus on their problems and ignore mine, I can't help but feel selfish that I wanna work through my problems. I feel as if the world is crushing me, I pretend to be as happy as I can around them I say "Your not allowed to be sad!" whenever their feeling down, but really I just wanna curl up into bed and listen to music to help me. I wanna cry but I can't if everything was okay then they would be okay. I don't care if I have to deal with others problems, I just wanna ignore mine so I can feel better, I know this isn't a healthy coping mechanism, but I just don't know what to do anymore.
omg no cuz i relate in every way to your comment. this describes perfectly how i feel, actually… more like how i felt. thing is, you can’t help everyone. and it’s okay. focus on yourself first, it’s your life, your problems. you shouldn’t have the responsibility to take care of ur friends. think about it this way: do you think you can actually help them, or do you convince yourself you can, to think about something else ? maybe they don’t want help, but if they do, it’s great to support them, because you can’t deal with their problems instead of them ! i talked to my mom about this and she told me that you have to accept them with the problems they have, and just.. keep them company ! every problem had to be dealt one by on, and if you don’t decide by yourself you want to deal with them, they won’t ever go away. same goes for them. if they’re maybe not ready for it, it’s really exhausting for you to try, when really it’s not your job to do so. just.. stick with them when they need it, but don’t deal with their problems. it’s their life. for example, i have a friend that smokes, it isn’t much but i cried about it, even though it’s not my fault shes like this, or that it changes anything if i cried, even more than she doesn’t know it affects me that much. i talked to her about it, she said she’ll stop, but she doesn’t. and then i thought, what’s the point of me trying to force her to stop? really, it’s her life, if she wants to, alright, not my problem, it has nothing to do with me and i can still be friends with her. so, how do i say this in like.. a resume. your life shouldn’t be based on others. deal with your problems, not others. you’re already doing a lot, don’t overwork yourself, you’re gonna crack one day. take a rest, you deserve one and focus on urself
I have some tips, don't bring up your problems when they're talking about theirs. Don't tell them they are not allowed to feel sad either. Ignoring problems dosen't help, talk to your friends. If you listen to them they should be able to listen to you.
@@luv.kar1n Thank you for being so kind! I've been laying here crying for like 20 mins. I'm just so happy that someone understands how I'm feeling in a way! So I thank you
@@emily-ce1du Thank you so much for the advice I will take that into consideration!