Have Researched So Much that I feel as if I could give a darned Seminar. It HURTS SO MUCH AND SO MANY! Researched Two years before I approached him to no avail. He’s in Complete Denial and I know more than he thought I knew.
Trust me, equipping yourself with knowledge about the repercussions of porn alone is never going to be sufficient. It needs spiritual knowledge as well and plenty of it. It takes Love, Spirituality, God, and self will to fight this Demon off. It's not easy. This Demon in my opinion will never fully die, but whether it remains dormant or Dominant is upto us. Reason why I say that is because sexual urges will never cease to exist , you need as many tools as possible to deal with it and put it in its place
Hurts realizing that the years I should have been building life, social, relationship and job skills were spent watching pr0n. I just turned 34 and have no real job skills and no chance at having a family. I'm just looking forward to when my parents, friends, and dog are gone so I can do myself in without guilt. This ruined my life, even if I quit and try to build a life, it'd be like trying to build a home on an unstable foundation. There's no sense wasting the time, it'd be better if I stop consuming space, resources, and oxygen that would be better suited for someone who deserves life
You have so much to live for. Just a little step at a time and you can get out of this space slowly eventually. I know it feels this way right now but I believe you can.
I reached the exact same conclusions as you the same year my brother committed suicide. After seeing what that did to my family, how much they question themselves, how much they blame themselves for his passing, I concluded I could not revisit that on them by doing myself in. Sure, I'm a middle aged loser dwelling in my parents' attic, very belatedly turning the tables on a porn habit. But...if I love my family and mean them no harm, how can I justify repeating that trauma on them? I have the dubious benefit of having seen what a suicide does to a family. Please believe me when I tell you, you are doing nobody any favours by taking that route. They won't thank you or breathe a sigh of relief - they will blame themselves, and you will have done that to them. I won't lie to you and pretend I just up and stopped being suicidal - that may not be a thing that happens to people. But I find reasons to live, and one of them was realising that I love my parents, and suicide absolutely did not benefit them one single bit. When you close that door behind you, other ones you've never opened before become viable. The second thing I'd like to share is that I'm doing my second apprenticeship at the age of 36. It really isn't too late to start learning, or changing. Take a look around you and think about what you're interested in. Haven't you ever read or watched something that caught your eye and thought "actually, that's really exciting, how do I get involved in that?" I'm not asking you to summon up and contribute to anything, but yourself. When you see yourself as the project, you can begin to see how small steps make your own life better. You can give yourself new skills. You can end old habits. Keep that in mind, and live on.
Ty.. really appreciate your work. Im wondering if you would consider sometime updating this for the big AI shift underway. The big companies out there leading the way are unethically scraping images on the net with no regard to copyright and ..this inevitably includes porn filled with victims. This poses damage to victims in a truly unprecedented way. To prevent this we are going to need scraping laws and for that we need awareness. Nevertheless, thank you again for what you do!
Porn has ruined my marriage of 48 years with a man I love ❤️ with ALL MY HEART. WISH I COULD GET HELP!!! I want other women to Avoid what has happened to me and to KNOW how to identify. Mine was mostly in reflection.
What's happening at home or not? I know this married pornn addict who told me his wife is "physically unable." He's so addicted that he has Angela White's symbol tattoo on his arm. That's sick.
It’s not just accessibility that makes todays porn so incredibly different from old school porn (playboy) before porn meant watching two people have sex, and required mentally blotting out an entire human being, the participant you weren’t sexually interested in, today with POV porn, it Submerses the user into the experience, allowing them to get as close as possible to actually engaging in the act on the screen with who they are looking at. you don’t even need VR goggles. It’s crazy.
That makes no sense. According to this logic it would VR Shooters would let People experiance being a Murderer. Its the same argument People used in the 80s, 90s and 2000s to send a moralistic mob against Games/Music/Books
@@your-username-here2308 actually it’s completely different 😂 maybe look up some peer reviewed studies and get more educated on the topic of porn and it’s negative impacts even on a biological level in terms of the function and even size of your brain compared to playing violent video games. They are actually completely different. When your done doing some actual research maybe take some time to listen to the podcast consider before consuming 👌
@@karma.Probably No, because there is no serious study that supports that. Not to mention the fact that Violance/Gore can also be a Sexual Stimulant. "" and get more educated on the topic of porn and it’s negative impacts"" If those come into play then they go hand in hand with a addiction, wich has other, more deeper problems in the persons life.
Yeah...no. I'm going to keep watching porn. I'm 5'5, not rich, and still working on growing myself as a person and through whatever career paths I choose. I'm not completely jacked or roided up either. No women out there for me until I get some money. There are those of us out there that still need the stimulation from pornography. I know plenty of women who use porn to avoid having to be in relationships with dudes because they were cheated on repeatedly. Anyone who watches porn and walks away believing that real sex is like that is just an idiot. That's not the fault of pornography, but the fault of somebody that probably believes Jurassic Park was based on a true events.
I watched videos that related to pornography, and they almost cost me my graduation from college and my life. Watching porn all the time will cause you to lose your job, family, and your relationship with a significant other.
Yeah, porn will erode your ability to establish and maintain healthy, satisfying relationships with women. You are hiding from the complexities of relationships, by short cutting to the orgasm.Eventually you will be emotionally and socially crippled and you will telegraph this to women without knowing it.Then you will have a self-fulfilling prophecy: your porn habit will make you relate to women in shallow and self absorbed ways and they won't respond to you as a fully functioning adult male. Then you'll blame them because you are selfish, short sighted and immature.Get off porn and learn to be available for healthy relationships with all the complexities and difficulties they may bring. I speak from experience here, friend.I am an addiction counselor and porn addicts are just as sick and self-destructive as crackheads.
In order to get that stimulation, you need to get out of victim mentality. You are like my sisters, bro. Stop it, bro. Your best self is around the corner. Stay disciplined and all the benefits will come. Don’t give up, bro.
It's not porn that is harmful though it should be regulated,its better for sex workers to make their living on line in the relatively safe environment on line than in the street, added to the fact that proper relationship education should universally available
Amen, no women who had the chance would want this. It is not a career children desire to be. We all need to be a light and draw near to God, and resist our flesh. Someone always gets hurt. This life is but for a moment, eternity is forever!!
@@Mo-yd8xc yup. That moron doesn’t even realize that there is NO NORMAL situation where a man can watch another man have sex with a woman unless he was in a conquered state. Pornography is a psychological attack that makes men docile and easy to control. He does not know that he is a cuck and only seeks to justify his addiction.
Porn is Evil.
👣
It's definitely not righteous.
To a t.😐
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Very true by design
Great video. Sounds like the greatest public service message. Loved the chill piano background. Makes me feel like I'm already free from the porn.
Erik Satie - Gymnopédies 1
Thank you, a real public service.
Have Researched So Much that I feel as if I could give a darned Seminar. It HURTS SO MUCH AND SO MANY! Researched Two years before I approached him to no avail. He’s in Complete Denial and I know more than he thought I knew.
Took me to have my wife say she's leaving me to get help and stop. 2 months free
Good luck to you. It's a hard thing!
@@dalejoreye839great job brother
It’s the song played on the back, on the intro, a modern version of Erick Satie’s “Gymno pedies”?
Thank you,so much for what you do.
Thanks!
Great informative video
thank you for doing what you do. seriously. thank you
Good stuff!
Trust me, equipping yourself with knowledge about the repercussions of porn alone is never going to be sufficient. It needs spiritual knowledge as well and plenty of it. It takes Love, Spirituality, God, and self will to fight this Demon off. It's not easy. This Demon in my opinion will never fully die, but whether it remains dormant or Dominant is upto us. Reason why I say that is because sexual urges will never cease to exist , you need as many tools as possible to deal with it and put it in its place
Not really. Your sexual urges have nothing to do with P. Stay away from it for some time and you will see it.
You don't need spiritual anything. Many atheists are against this crap.
@@exelmans8855 I am rather talking about Sexaholics than just porn addiction.
INVALUABLE! THANK YOU ❤
Hurts realizing that the years I should have been building life, social, relationship and job skills were spent watching pr0n. I just turned 34 and have no real job skills and no chance at having a family. I'm just looking forward to when my parents, friends, and dog are gone so I can do myself in without guilt. This ruined my life, even if I quit and try to build a life, it'd be like trying to build a home on an unstable foundation. There's no sense wasting the time, it'd be better if I stop consuming space, resources, and oxygen that would be better suited for someone who deserves life
This 🙏🏿🙌🏿
You have so much to live for. Just a little step at a time and you can get out of this space slowly eventually. I know it feels this way right now but I believe you can.
I reached the exact same conclusions as you the same year my brother committed suicide. After seeing what that did to my family, how much they question themselves, how much they blame themselves for his passing, I concluded I could not revisit that on them by doing myself in. Sure, I'm a middle aged loser dwelling in my parents' attic, very belatedly turning the tables on a porn habit. But...if I love my family and mean them no harm, how can I justify repeating that trauma on them?
I have the dubious benefit of having seen what a suicide does to a family. Please believe me when I tell you, you are doing nobody any favours by taking that route. They won't thank you or breathe a sigh of relief - they will blame themselves, and you will have done that to them. I won't lie to you and pretend I just up and stopped being suicidal - that may not be a thing that happens to people. But I find reasons to live, and one of them was realising that I love my parents, and suicide absolutely did not benefit them one single bit. When you close that door behind you, other ones you've never opened before become viable.
The second thing I'd like to share is that I'm doing my second apprenticeship at the age of 36. It really isn't too late to start learning, or changing. Take a look around you and think about what you're interested in. Haven't you ever read or watched something that caught your eye and thought "actually, that's really exciting, how do I get involved in that?"
I'm not asking you to summon up and contribute to anything, but yourself. When you see yourself as the project, you can begin to see how small steps make your own life better. You can give yourself new skills. You can end old habits. Keep that in mind, and live on.
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Ty.. really appreciate your work. Im wondering if you would consider sometime updating this for the big AI shift underway. The big companies out there leading the way are unethically scraping images on the net with no regard to copyright and ..this inevitably includes porn filled with victims. This poses damage to victims in a truly unprecedented way. To prevent this we are going to need scraping laws and for that we need awareness. Nevertheless, thank you again for what you do!
Porn has ruined my marriage of 48 years with a man I love ❤️ with ALL MY HEART. WISH I COULD GET HELP!!! I want other women to Avoid what has happened to me and to KNOW how to identify. Mine was mostly in reflection.
What's happening at home or not? I know this married pornn addict who told me his wife is "physically unable." He's so addicted that he has Angela White's symbol tattoo on his arm. That's sick.
His mind is gone. Sorry. I've been there.
Look up Thais Gibson and Dr Caroline Leaf on healing, for you.
36 years for me....
Sounds Porn was not the problem. But hey, having something to blame a failed relationship is easy.
Thks. Excellent @ real
It’s not just accessibility that makes todays porn so incredibly different from old school porn (playboy) before porn meant watching two people have sex, and required mentally blotting out an entire human being, the participant you weren’t sexually interested in, today with POV porn, it Submerses the user into the experience, allowing them to get as close as possible to actually engaging in the act on the screen with who they are looking at. you don’t even need VR goggles. It’s crazy.
That makes no sense. According to this logic it would VR Shooters would let People experiance being a Murderer.
Its the same argument People used in the 80s, 90s and 2000s to send a moralistic mob against Games/Music/Books
@@your-username-here2308 actually it’s completely different 😂 maybe look up some peer reviewed studies and get more educated on the topic of porn and it’s negative impacts even on a biological level in terms of the function and even size of your brain compared to playing violent video games. They are actually completely different. When your done doing some actual research maybe take some time to listen to the podcast consider before consuming 👌
@@karma.Probably No, because there is no serious study that supports that. Not to mention the fact that Violance/Gore can also be a Sexual Stimulant.
"" and get more educated on the topic of porn and it’s negative impacts""
If those come into play then they go hand in hand with a addiction, wich has other, more deeper problems in the persons life.
@@your-username-here2308 yes there are 😂
@@your-username-here2308 there are TONS genius. Let me know if u want me to link some since u can’t find them 😂
It's an instrument tool of the devil himself
Yeah...no. I'm going to keep watching porn. I'm 5'5, not rich, and still working on growing myself as a person and through whatever career paths I choose. I'm not completely jacked or roided up either. No women out there for me until I get some money. There are those of us out there that still need the stimulation from pornography. I know plenty of women who use porn to avoid having to be in relationships with dudes because they were cheated on repeatedly.
Anyone who watches porn and walks away believing that real sex is like that is just an idiot. That's not the fault of pornography, but the fault of somebody that probably believes Jurassic Park was based on a true events.
You're going to throw your whole life away over this, especially if you have a job. You're going to lose everything. Pornography is addictive.
I watched videos that related to pornography, and they almost cost me my graduation from college and my life. Watching porn all the time will cause you to lose your job, family, and your relationship with a significant other.
Yeah, porn will erode your ability to establish and maintain healthy, satisfying relationships with women. You are hiding from the complexities of relationships, by short cutting to the orgasm.Eventually you will be emotionally and socially crippled and you will telegraph this to women without knowing it.Then you will have a self-fulfilling prophecy: your porn habit will make you relate to women in shallow and self absorbed ways and they won't respond to you as a fully functioning adult male. Then you'll blame them because you are selfish, short sighted and immature.Get off porn and learn to be available for healthy relationships with all the complexities and difficulties they may bring. I speak from experience here, friend.I am an addiction counselor and porn addicts are just as sick and self-destructive as crackheads.
In order to get that stimulation, you need to get out of victim mentality. You are like my sisters, bro. Stop it, bro.
Your best self is around the corner. Stay disciplined and all the benefits will come.
Don’t give up, bro.
It's not porn that is harmful though it should be regulated,its better for sex workers to make their living on line in the relatively safe environment on line than in the street, added to the fact that proper relationship education should universally available
You have no idea of the psychological effect of pornography bub. Some folks justify depravity because they do not know the real effects of it.
Amen, no women who had the chance would want this. It is not a career children desire to be. We all need to be a light and draw near to God, and resist our flesh. Someone always gets hurt. This life is but for a moment, eternity is forever!!
Spoken like a true only fans addict.
@@Mo-yd8xc yup. That moron doesn’t even realize that there is NO NORMAL situation where a man can watch another man have sex with a woman unless he was in a conquered state. Pornography is a psychological attack that makes men docile and easy to control.
He does not know that he is a cuck and only seeks to justify his addiction.
Same rhetoric of the pro "sex work" industry. You don't see humans as humans, only as commodities to be bought and sold. Sick world.