God bless you, Kim. I can’t stop crying. You are surely brave. The most difficult thing is coming out to our Mothers. For fear of rejection. I so feared and lacked courage that I never came out to my parents. I am 60 now and wish I’d done things differently. I missed a lifetime of joy and a level of happiness that can never be regained. Stay strong 💪. Be yourselves. Have no regrets. Always give the Love ❤️ you know you need yourself. The rest will fall into place. Peace ✌️ ☮️ My friends and a Mangos 🥭 around the world 🌎
Kim, you were so brave to come out to your Mom....it sounds like it was a challenge for her to accept, but I'm sure she sees how happy you are to have found a partner like Pak to support you and care for you, and you for him. It certainly sounds like your Mom has come around...she may not understand, but she still loves you, and I'm sure she always will, as she said your birth was an answer to her prayers. All parents truly want are for their children to be happy and have a good life!! All of us Mangoes love you both!!!! 🥰🙌
I think It’s not a just about courage..! Everyone has their own different situation. Everyone has their own timing or maybe someone doesn’t need to do coming out~! If you do coming out, hope you do that when you’re ready🌈👍🏻
제 남사친도 몇달 전에 게이라고 커밍아웃을 어머님께 말하지 못하고 끙끙 앓다가 제가 남 사친 부모님과 식사랑 술을 하면서 말씀을 진 지하게 드렸거든요 하지만 제 애기를 들으신 어머님은 기절하셔서 쓰러지신 바람에 병원 으로 이송되어 진료를 받으시고 입원을 하셨 는데요 어머님이 깨시고 무작정 아들 손을 붙 잡고 치료라도 받아 보자 하셨지만 친구는 자 기 엄마한테 치료 받아도 소용이 없다는걸 알렸고요 지금은 인정 하시고 편하게 아들과 동거하는 남자분을 편하게 대해 주시고 밑반 찬도 해서 주신다고 하더라고요 그래도 제가 말씀 드린 효과가 있어서 다행이네요 ㅠㅠ
Que valientes estos niños que salen al mundo a decir su verdad. No eres Pinocho mi niño bello y todas las madres deberiamos quererlos solo por ser nuestros hijos. Te amo hasta la eternidad. Espero que el universo te de mucha felicidad y mucha prosperidad por se como eres. Y no tienen que llorar porque asi los amamos. Una madre venezolana desde Argentina.
I remember when my son came out to me ,he said mom I’ve got something to tell you ,his face was sad .I thought he had done something wrong, after talking he said “mom I’m gay” all I could do was throw my arms round and I said “is that all I thought something bad had happened” and for us that was it nothing changed I still loved him as much as always .He now. Has a wonderful partner and I couldn’t be more proud of him ,he is the light of my life xx
킴님이 커밍아웃하기전까지 마니힘들엇음을 듣고알았는데 혼자 어린나이에 얼마나 힘들엇을까싶으면서도 그걸 견디지못하는분들은 안조은결과물을 만드는데 잘버티셧다~생각하게 되네요~지금은 어머님도 킴님을 인정하고 사랑하실거란생각이드네여~ 그동안 고생하셧던거만큼 지금은 꽃길걸으시길 바랍니다~!!
As soon as yang hee eun's song 'mother to daughter' started playing, the eye balling started. I still fear the day ill have to come out to my mother and her rejection towards me. This video makes my heart swell with emotion. Love you guys. And thank you Kim's mom for the effort you put into learning and understanding about your son's life.
Son tan dulces los dos!... Kim no llores, no hiciste nada malo! Lograste muchas cosas y encontraste a tu alma gemela para seguir logrando muchas cosas mas!!! Sigan amandose!!!👨❤️💋👨
19살 학생인데 영상 보는데 눈물나네요 저희 엄마도 성소수자는 정상적이지 않다고 생각하는 사람이세요 매번 웃으면서 넘겼지만 저도 언젠가부터 가족들한테는 절대 커밍아웃 하지 않겠다는 생각을 하고 있었네요. 사실 요즘 10대 학생들 사이에서는 퀴어에 대한 개방적인 인식이 많이 자리잡고 있어서 장난식으로 언급도 하고 했었고 저 스스로도 성 지향성에 대해 딱히 큰 고민은 없다고 생각했는데 왠지 그게 아니었을지도 모른다는 생각이 들어요. 나와 같은 사람을 만나 연애를 하고 싶다는 갈망이 항상 마음 속에 있으면서도 용기가 없었기 때문에 혼자만의 비밀로 간직하고 있었는데 언젠간 나도 가족들과 나의 지향성에 대해 얘기 할 날이 올까 그 날에는 부디 내가 죄인같은 마음을 갖지 않았으면 좋겠다 라는 생각이 드네요 부모님께 제가 성소수자라는 사실을 털어놓는 것 자체도 왠지 죄악으로 느껴져서요
처음엔 으... 울기시러... 보지말까... 해놓고 끝까지 다보고나니 보길 잘했네 나자신😭 엄마도 킴님도 사랑의 승리에요!! 서로 그당시엔 이해가 안됬지만 이해하려고 노력했고 사랑하기에 또 그것을 해낸 두분이 참 대단하고 멋집니다. 유튜버가 되서 컨텐츠로 이렇게나마 서로 마음을 표현하고 묵은마음 털어내고하니 보는 내가 다 훈훈하고 시원해요♡ 앞으로 더 멋진 내일들이 기다리고 있어요!!! 힘내셔요 킴&백팩님~~
I was so touched by Kim sharing his coming-out story with us, my tears were flowing. Thank you for both of you doing this video,. Sending my love to you both from Texas, USA
영상 보며 같이 울었네요ㅠ '나만 알고 있는 것을 올해도 나만 알게 해주세요' 라며 기도했던 꼬마 킴님이 엄마에게 그 비밀을 털어놓는 그 과정이...🥲 엄마는 무조건 나를 다 온전히 받아줘야 하잖아! 라는 마음이 저도 항상 있는 것 같아요. 사실은 부모님도 나랑 똑같이 모든게 다 처음일텐데 말이죠?ㅠ ㅠ 저도 예전에 엄마랑 크게 싸운적 있는데 그때 엄마가 쓴 편지를 읽어보지도 않은채 방치해서 결국 엄마가 그 편지를 버린 기억이 나서 또 한 번 죄송한 맘이..ㅠ (나는 왤케 못됐나...엄마는 착한뎅...) 우리가 이 험난한 세상에서 잘 버텨가고 사랑하고 사랑받으며 살아갈 수 있는 이유는 가족들이 있기 때문이라는 생각이 들어용. 마지막 어머니 메시지를 읽으며 또 한 번 감동... 두 분 오래오래 건강하게! 행복하게! 예쁘게 투닥투닥도 하면서~ 잘 살아갑시당❤️ 망원댁 두분 응원해요!!!!
세상 그 누구보다 내 편인, 👨👦👩👧 사랑하는 부모님께 가장 듣고 싶은 말! "우리 아들은 어릴적부터 좀 달랐어요. 저는 이제야 이해가 되더라구요. 아들을 키우면서 어릴 때 했던 말과 행동들이 퍼즐조각처럼 이제 맞춰지는 것 같아요. 나는 그냥 내 아들이 행복했으면 좋겠어요." 그리고, 🏳️🌈 🌈 대한민국 성소수자들의 꿈꾸는 작은 소망, "피노키오가 꿈꾸는 행복은 거짓말을 하지 않아도 사랑받을 수 있는 세상이었으니까" 내게 가장 가까운 사람에게, 가장 들키지 말아야하고, 말하면 안되는 것. 가장 꽁꽁 싸메고 숨기는 바로... 내 자신의 모습 가장 어려운 단어, 말... "커밍아웃" 다행히도 천천히 변하고 있는 현재의 대한민국 사회이지만, 혹시나 나에게 불이익이 발생하지 않을까 말하기 힘든 이 모든 상황이 안타깝습니다. 하지만, 이렇게 망원댁TV를 포함해서 많은 분들이 노력해주시는 덕분에 멀지않아 인식의 개선이 이뤄지지 않을까 기대하고 기다려봅니다. 저도 기도합니다! 실시간라이브방송 때도 시청을 했었는데 이렇게 편집된 영상으로 다시보니 너무 좋고, 감동적이네요. 벌써 몇번을 돌려서 보는지 모르겠지만 볼때마다 눈시울이 붉혀지고 있습니다. 커밍아웃 때문에 힘든 많은 성소수자들이 위로받고, 힘내셨으면 하는 바람입니다. 좋은 영상 남겨주셔서 너무 감사해요!
Thank you for sharing your coming out story & the difficulties you faced in accepting your own identity. I'm so sorry your college friend was in so much pain. I'm glad the LGBTQ+ organization you guys are members of provides support & resources to prevent suicides & help families learn about their loved ones. I'm so glad your sisters supported & continue to support you & your mom through this journey. 🙆🏾♀️ 🙌🏾 Mango Couple, Kim & Pack's families.
A very brave thing to do 'on air', Kim but you and Pack are brave souls and so good to know of your mum's reaction. Stay safe and happy. Hugs from the UK. D x
처음 어머니 반응이 저의 엄마 반응과 너무 같아서 놀랐어요 저는 용기내서 말한건데 제가 너무 남성적으로 다니고 숏컷이고, 제가 미친듯이 힘들어서 그냥 정체성이 혼란이 온것 같다고 하셨어요 전 할말을 잃었고 시간을 보낸뒤.. 나중에 기회가 되서 다시한번 커밍아웃을 했고 많이 울었는데 생각보다 .. 다른 반응이였어요 "그래 ㅎㅎ 내딸인데 어떻겠니.. ㅋㅋ 그리고 동성애자 아닌게 어디야~ 결혼은 하겠네 ?" 웃어넘겼죠 ..ㅎㅎ 진짜 공감되는게 많아서 킴님 마음을 더 격하게 이해합니다 진짜 우는게 더 마음아프네요 ㅠㅠ 지금은 행복하길 바래요
Oh Kim… such a beautiful soul. Some parents never understand… we are lucky that ours have made attempts to. I love you guys and as you know….. I respect you HUGELY. ❤️🏳️🌈🇬🇧
I know wanting to laugh is a defense mechanism to keep from crying because we feel vulnerable when do cry. But embrace that vulnerability and just cry. You have a loving partner next to you who would console you whole heartedly and with no conditions. I really do hope you find your peace. ❤️
킴님.. 저와는 다르게 정말 용기있으신 분이세요. 저는 여전히 용기가 나질않아요. 가장사랑하는 엄마에게 내 가장 중요한 비밀을 말해버리면 떠나갈까봐, 더 이상 이런 순간순간들을 함께 보내지못할까봐 너무나도 두려워서,,, 여전히 제 자존감을 깎아먹으며 가족들에게 매일 제 자신을 부정당하는 느낌이 들어 괴롭습니다. 그렇지만 제가 편하자고 절실한 기독교인인 부모님에게 제 비밀을 이야기할 수 없었어요.. 티비에 나오는 퀴어퍼레이드를 보며 엄마가 했던말이 생각나요. "쟤들은 부모님이 아실까.. 저런곳에 나가서 뭐하는 짓이라니.." 그때 너무 입이 간지러웠어요.. "엄마. 저기 나도 자주가고 나도 저 구성원 중 한명이야.." 그러나 결국 하지못했죠. 저도 언젠간 킴님처럼 꼭 말하고싶네요........ 누구보다 제가 행복하길 바라는게 제 엄마일테니....이해해주실거라 믿고싶네요..
감동적인 이야기를 공유 해주셔서 감사합니다. 당신이 게이라고 어머니에게 말하는 것이 옳았습니다. 모든 것이 잘 끝나서 기쁩니다. 나는 아버지에게 직접 말한 적이 없습니다. 형은 아버지에게 나를 쫓아 낼 것이라고 말했습니다. 나는 몇 년 동안 아버지와 이야기하지 않았습니다. 갑자기 그는 내 문 앞에 서 있었다. 그러나 그는 아무 일도 일어나지 않은 척했습니다. 그 후 그는 다시는 나를 만나러 오지 않았습니다. 그는 나를 남자와 만나는 것을 참을 수 없었다. 나도 남자 친구를 부모님 집으로 데려가는 것도 허락되지 않았다. 당신이 당신의 길을 갔다는 것이 좋습니다. 두 분은 훌륭한 커플입니다. 나는 구글 번역기로이 텍스트를 썼다. 읽을 수 있기를 바랍니다. 독일의 따뜻한 인사.
Hi @joshi hope everything will be better in time ,hope your dad somehow will come to you and be happy family,If can try to call ur dad tell him what u doing and asking about his day , parents will always love their kids whatever Bad History they're have #Let'sbehappy
Es tut mir sehr leid. Ich lebe in Deutschland 🇩🇪. Ich dachte, dass es hier anders ist. Ich komme aus Guatemala 🇬🇹 und ich bin Pädagogin von Beruf. Ich bin mit dem Thema LGTBIQ selbst einverstanden, weil ich ein Cousin habe, der noch nicht seine Mutter sagen kann. Ich sende euch viele Umarmungen.
Me indentifico bastante com a história (eu tô parecendo um bebê agora: sem saber o que fazer e chorando). Ainda espero que minha história tenha partes melhores igual o seu,obrigada🥀.
저도 엄마를 다시 한번 생각해보게 되는 영상이네요.. 사실 이번에 일련의 사건을 계기로 저도 본의 아니게.. 제가 너무 힘들고 이대로는 버티기 어려워서 이기적인 마음에 부모님께 모두 저의 정체성에 대해 알리게 되었어요.. 비록 그에 따라 걱정될만한 최악의 반응을 하시는 그런 부모님은 아니었지만.. 두 분은 나름대로 충격도 받으셨을테지만.. 무엇보다도 그 이전에 저를 생각해주시는 말씀을 해주시며 이해하려던 모습이 떠오릅니다. 열심히 노력해서 부모님이 제게 주신 한없는 사랑의 극히 일부가 될지라도.. 보답할 수 있은 그런 사람이 되야겠다고 다시금 생각하게 되는 영상이었어요.. 고마워요 팩님 킴님.. 그리고 감동이네요.. 🥲
Kim was so very brave to come out like this to his mother ! I have much respect for him and hope that I find this courage and resilience to come out to my siblings in the future 😫😔🙏🙏 Thank you for sharing your story and giving me hope of a more free existence someday ✨ Forever grateful ❤️
I’m sure this was really hard to do. Your mom loves you so much just as you love her. I’m glad that she watched this. It is hard to share our feelings to our parents sometimes. You did well Kim. I’m sure she loved hearing you tell her you love her on your live. Thank you opening your heart and for sharing this story!!!
When i started to see the video i was very curious to see Kim's story about his coming out. But i started i don't know how and why to cry with his coming out because i can only imagine how painful it could be for both of them. For Kim to realize and hide for so long his sexuality and for his mother to see and accept something that she didn't know. To be honest i am a confused 22 years old girl that i don't know my sexuality for sure and this video made me think more carefully if i have to discuss this topic to my family or not!!!!!!
I’m literally bawling 😭 right now. You are so brave and even though we do not know each other, you have touched my heart and I can see what a wonderful person you are. Thank you for sharing something so personal and I think that this can help others in their journey for acceptance. Keep living your beautiful life! 💕
All I can say is WOW! That is such a wonderful story. I am glad that your Mother has accepted ,that you are Gay. I am not gay, but I have many friends who are. I could care less if a man loves another man, a woman loves another woman or if a man loves a woman. All I care about is what kind of person they are. If they truly love some one, to me it doesn't matter if they are gay or straight. I love how you and Pack always support each other. As long as the 2 of you love each other and care about each other that is all that matters! God bless both of you!
ㅠㅠㅠ 썸네일만 봐도 너무 막 울거같아서 미루고 미루다 이제야봤네요... 부모님한테 내 속마음을 말하는게 점점 힘들어지더라고요... 말할 수 있을때 마음을 전하는 일이 정말 중요하죠! 마음 따뜻해지는 영상 감사합니다 ㅎㅎ 라이브 안보러간자 오래됐는데 시간되면 한번 보러 가야겠어요🥰
I admire kim so much he’s a very lovely and sweet person and coming out makes him even more admirable!!! And his story truly touched my heart I wanted to tell my mom I’m pansexual for so long but I’ve been to scared! Kim has given me the strength to tell my mom who I truly am! Thank you for sharing! Love you both! 🤍 stay happy and healthy
Al final sólo era cuestión de tiempo para que tú, Kim, y tu mamá se entendieran el uno al otro y cada uno tuviera un proceso de aceptación. Dile más seguido que la amas, aunque te mueras de vergüenza. Y si lloran por favor háganlo de felicidad por que nos hacen llorar a todos ❤❤❤❤❤❤
A mother’s love is a strong love! Stronger than anything else on earth!! It can take a shock but come out stronger for it!! Your mom loves you! Take that and the love of that good man by your side and be proud of who you are!! Stay safe and healthy and keep loving! This old lady from South Carolina ❤️❤️👵❤️❤️
Dear Kim , I’m so touched by your story, I’m crying at the moment realizing my own coming out to my parents. We all have a burden to carry on acceptance to ourselves and to those whom we love . This was so beautiful and touching and the analogy of using Pinocchio story to define your internal lie. I too were shaken on the way my parents found out, it was at Christmas dinner and something was said and my mom blew up and screamed at me for being a deviled person. I was thoroughly heartbroken and left the dinner table and headed home. At the time I was not driving and hence was walking home. My closest brother came after me. Afterwards, I left my family for years and learned to live my own life. I volunteered with programs to help, support families in accepting their gay children. I left for college, prior to leaving my dad and I had a heartfelt conversation and he accepted me for me. As for my mother , she passed away while I was in college and never had the same opportunity to express who I was and have a conversation with her. So please adore your mothers and accept them for their own lives. Thank you for being so sweet and honest with us , I’m so proud of you for being a loving child. ❤️🏳️🌈🙋♂️PS your dedication and admiration for your mom is what makes you happy, because you’ve accepted yourself. Thank you for being so sweet ❤️
To Adore our mothers they must at least be adorable in their total countenance. My mother has been dead for about four or fives years now, as is my father for about the same amount of time. I did not attend either of their funerals, my mother's, because she was a self righteous liar and my father's because he was a died in the wool Beta Male who came out of the closet when he was 68. If parents want respect then they must act respectable. CAPICHE ???
@@benth162 I understand your plight in wondering why should I . The simple fact of letting go and not carrying the anger inside of you. Your whole demeanor towards your parents is quite apparent in your statement, which your anger is quite apparent. I wonder how much you despise yourself and reflect that towards others including your statement to me . Ciao May you find your peace .
@@JD-qx3lb Nice try there JD, but as it is said; "I don't forgive and I don't forget" because you will never want to put yourself in that kind of situation again. At some point in your life you will have to say "NO" and mean it, anger or no anger. Nice try with that Pop Psychology about "Despising myself and projecting that supposed self hate upon others including you. Matter of fact JD I don't despise myself because I am the type that has no qualms calling a spade a spade when truth needs to be stated. If you took what I wrote as a personal insult then it is you that needs to work on your emotions, because not once did I mention, "why would you do anything". I was stating only facts from my own familial experiences. STOP ACTING LIKE A VICTIM AND GROW A SET MY FRIEND !!!
망원댁님들 동영상 어제부터 보면서 많은 걸 생각하게 됩니다 죽을만큼 힘들때 가족이 전혀 힘이 되어 주지 못한다는 생각에 늘 섭섭해하다 저도 엄마한테 폭탄을 던진적이 있었어요 그래도 가족이라 시간이란 파도가 아픔과 서먹함을 가려주더라구요 영상보고 위로 받습니다 킴님도 토닥토닥합니다
2년차 동성 커플입니다 애인의 추천으로 망원댁tv 정주행 하고 있는데 볼수록 많은 생각과 공감이 드네여 .. 각박한 세상속에서 더 각박한 이쪽 생활에 두분의 영상으로 잠시나마 위로 받는 느낌이 들어서 너무 힘이 되었습니다 두분 오래오래 행복하시구 유투브도 이미 떡상이지만 더더욱 떡상하시기를 조용히 응원할게요 !!
Oh, I hope you don't blame yourself Kim 😭 you must have went through such a hard time, hearing such awful words at first from your own mother, the one who's supposed to love you no matter what! And for her to insult your friend, who felt desperate enough to take his own life...?😭 I can't imagine how much that must have hurt! I'm sure you must have fought or felt badly towards her for a while, and that's ok, even though sad, it shows how much you care about each other 🥺 because you both felt strongly! and that you both worked hard to understand each other in your own ways! To hear how much hard work and love your Mother put into trying to understand you is really touching! It also shows your love for each other!💖 that she didn't want to lose you! Going through hardships helps us grow, learn and bond as humans! 🙏 It's so amazing that you can be close and open with each other again! And that she loves and supports you, your love and what you do! I can't imagine life without my mom either, she's without a doubt the person that I'm closest too! Thankfully, she's not religious, and a very accepting and open minded person! I can't imagine the pain or fights we'd have if she wasn't like that😭 what would I do if my mother didn't accept my sexuality? Im sure many people feel that way and fear! And I wish they didn't have too😭so. I really feel for you! And it makes me so happy and relieved to hear that she learned how to accept and understand you better over time!💖 truly, a very touching story, you were very brave for sharing such a personal story. I just know it touched and will help many people🏳️🌈 always be your amazing self, Kim, you are perfect just the way you are!
J ai pleuré toutes les larmes de mon corps 😘🥰😍 c est une marque d’intelligence de la part des parents qui se sentent perdus, ou peinés, d échanger avec d autres parents, qui ont passé le cap et qui réalisent que l amour qu ils ont pour leur enfant est bien plus fort qu’une préférence sexuelle. Quand je vous regarde, tous les 2 , vivre, et vous aimer, je suis certaine que vous servez d exemple❤️ une bise affectueuse d une maman Française
Bonjour , vous m’avez ôté les mots de la bouche 😊 . Je suis maman aussi et jamais je ne me permettrais de juger la préférence sexuelle de mes enfants . Ils sont très courageux de s’exprimer sur internet ❤
Sometime we think it is easier to ignore other's feelings and just 'pretend' everything is ok. The reality being we both really want to understand and reach out to the other. Thank you, Kim for your story! ❤🇺🇸🏳️🌈🇰🇷👍
That took a lot of courage to be yourself and to share it with your mom. She loves you very much so you are lucky! Not all parents are that way. God bless!
That was one of the most bravest things I have ever seen, and so moving. I am in utter aww of you Kim. You wrote a very extraordinary piece of work about your past of coming out and to share with it on the live steam. To bare your emotions is not an easy thing. It may be silly to say but thank you XX you have so many layers to you and it’s is for me a privilege to see them unravel in each post or vlog xx to see your video message for your mother and to read that she watched and replied is absolutely astonishing xx always love you and Pack forever ♾ see you next time xx 😘😘😘🤗🤗🤗🤗
Kim thank you for sharing your coming out story. Coming out is a struggle for anyone in the lgbtq+ community, myself included. Anyway I am 31 years old and I am starting to come out as ftm trans to the people closest to me including my family especially my father since he is the only biological parent I have left since my mom died when I was a teenager. And it is going to be really difficult for me. But, hearing your story about coming out to your mom gives me some hope that things will turn out alright in the end. Sending lots of love to both you and Pack. 🌈❤🥰
You both have done so much & have always been there for so many around the world. Everything you do has helped someone get through the toughest times in their life. Thank you will never be enough. Will always love & support you both no matter what. Love from America.
How I cried watching this video...Kim, I'm a mom too and I see the love you have for yours and that's so cute...I hope Korea opens its mind more about the other's sexuality...kisses!!
BESTIES YOU GUYS GOT ME HERE CRYING SO MUCH :((( I’m so sorry you had to deal with that but I’m so happy you finally got to tell your mom that during that live stream :( it’s okay to cry bestie you have every right to, I love you guys so much :(( ❤️
Kim, o amor que você tem pela sua mãe é lindo. Sua história é comovente e nos faz refletir sobre qualquer tipo de preconceito, só quem vive um preconceito sabe a dor de ser visto como diferente . Sua mãe venceu o preconceito , parabéns para ela. O mundo já mudou muito , só de pensar que as mulheres eram propriedades dos pais, irmãos e marido é de estremecer.Mas hoje é bem diferente,somos donas de nós,livres para escolhermos o que queremos.Mudou... Daqui algum tempo o preconceito contra opção sexual também mudará, já melhorou bastante não é mesmo? Estamos evoluindo...evoluindo... logo mais não existiram os preconceitos.Acredito! Obrigado por compartilhar sua história no canal.Valeu! Beijos no seu coração e do seu amor.😘😘
Mission accomplished - you made me cry. A mother's love is very special. We can be so forgiving if you just give us a chance. I can appreciate your mother's shock - I got a phone call one night when I was visiting a friend. It was my husband telling me that out son reached out to him because he had a problem with alcohol. I cried all night. The next day, I drove into New York City for the first time in my life to be there with my husband and son. It's been almost five years that he's been sober. But I never gave up on him. Because I love him unconditionally. And your mom does too. Love you two. You are an amazing couple.
Beautiful 😍 😘 wow Kim that was just beautiful your story is precious ❤ I'm glad you still love your mum and I hope your hearts have healed I realize this is a video you did last year and that I've just watched it now but I would like to say thankyou for sharing it I'm enjoying your channel 👍
These kind of videos educate people to accept LGBTQ community as they are. I understand it's difficult to share this on live but you did it. Proud of you ❤️.
Gracias a valientes como vosotros , muchas personas lo tendrán un poquito más fácil en esta vida . Mi hija es Lesbiana , le daba miedo contármelo por si la rechazaba ,el día que lo hizo ,la abracé y le dije que la quería tanto y que sólo deseaba que nunca sufriera por su condición sexual ,lucharé con ella mientras me quedé aliento ,para que nadie lo haga. Orgullosa siempre. Se os quiere chicos un abrazo muy fuerte desde España .❤️😘🏳️🌈
Me hiciste llorar Kim. Para empezar. Odio la frase "salir del armario" gracias a dios que con el paso de los años vamos teniendo la mente más abierta y la cultura asiática va cambiando, llevará su tiempo pero. Empezemos por inculcar a nuestros hijos y descendencias venideras, que no importa el color de la piel ni la religión ni el género sea cuál sea de las personas. No me cansaré de repetirlo una y otra vez. Y con respecto a tu madre. Una madre lo que quiere es que sus hijos sean felices y tu madre te ama por encima de todo y sufrimos por qué vivimos en una sociedad por desgracia homofobica y retrógrada. Pero esto tiene que cambiar. Y cambiará. Desde España un abrazo y recordad que aquí hay una española que os ama incondicionalmente. 💜💜🇪🇦
That touched right through my soul!!! You must be relieved and feeling a lot lighter!!! I am.sure your mom is really proud of you!!! She loves you so much!!! Be yourself and love your life!!! Love you guys you give me a little more faith in love everyone I watch you!!! Your French mango 🥭 that loves you dearly!!!💜💜
Your letter to yourself really touched my heart! Much like you, my older brother loved our mother so much. He never wanted to leave her side. When he came out in the turbulent 1980’s in America, he suffered so much hate! I think in her heart, my mother always knew he was gay, and she was his biggest comfort and support. Our father had a much harder time, because he knew that my brother was suffering from the non acceptance of both family and friends. Thank you for your vulnerability in front of your audience and your mother! By being brave you are helping others to open up dialogue about matters of the heart. One step at a time… Your mother’s letter made me cry. ❤️
That was so sweet of you Pack to do that and Kim, it takes a lot of courage to do what you did. I am just blessed to know you guys and maybe one day be able to speak fully with you in Korean. Anyway, I hope you have a blessed day.
Creo que todo es un proceso para poder enfrentar con la frente en alto lo que cada persona es en la vida, lo que cada uno ama y de que maneras expresas el amor hacia otras personas, la aceptación y asumir cada realidad es el acto más sincero para una persona, hay que tener suficiente entereza para enfrentar las adversidades de ser uno mismo, pero para ustedes, ha sido un proceso de aprendizaje, de crecimiento, de amor sin medidas y lo que es valioso y que los debe hacer sentir orgullosos, es poder contar con el apoyo de sus familias, sientan felicidad por ello, el resto, viene por añadidura y como siempre digo, el amor todo lo puede!!!... Saludos desde Santiago de Chile.
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Thank you Pack! That was very thoughtful of you. It was a very emotional piece. XXOO 💖💗💛💚💙💜
Love you guys. Thank you for allowing us to share your lives.
Thank you for sharing this with us.
Stay well and love big ❤
Thank you so much for putting english subs for this vid, love ya'll
Thanks alot for sub English
God bless you, Kim. I can’t stop crying. You are surely brave. The most difficult thing is coming out to our Mothers. For fear of rejection. I so feared and lacked courage that I never came out to my parents. I am 60 now and wish I’d done things differently. I missed a lifetime of joy and a level of happiness that can never be regained. Stay strong 💪.
Be yourselves. Have no regrets. Always give the Love ❤️ you know you need yourself. The rest will fall into place.
Peace ✌️ ☮️ My friends and a Mangos 🥭 around the world 🌎
I’m sure you did your best in your life. Everyone has their own different situation..! Thank you so much and hope you have wonderful, lovely day🌈👍🏻
Have no regrets. You still have many years ahead of you.
Kim, you were so brave to come out to your Mom....it sounds like it was a challenge for her to accept, but I'm sure she sees how happy you are to have found a partner like Pak to support you and care for you, and you for him. It certainly sounds like your Mom has come around...she may not understand, but she still loves you, and I'm sure she always will, as she said your birth was an answer to her prayers. All parents truly want are for their children to be happy and have a good life!! All of us Mangoes love you both!!!! 🥰🙌
Thank you so much..!! And Luv you❤️
Watching him cry and talking about his mom, makes realize that I need to talk with my mom and family about me but i don’t have the courage yet 😔
I think It’s not a just about courage..! Everyone has their own different situation. Everyone has their own timing or maybe someone doesn’t need to do coming out~!
If you do coming out, hope you do that when you’re ready🌈👍🏻
@@mango.couple you are absolutely right, maybe just need little more time… I love you guys 😘
@@gnmorogermomo4201 your mon, probably already knows. Don't worry!
Sending love and hugs🤗🥰.
제 남사친도 몇달 전에 게이라고 커밍아웃을
어머님께 말하지 못하고 끙끙 앓다가 제가 남
사친 부모님과 식사랑 술을 하면서 말씀을 진
지하게 드렸거든요 하지만 제 애기를 들으신
어머님은 기절하셔서 쓰러지신 바람에 병원
으로 이송되어 진료를 받으시고 입원을 하셨
는데요 어머님이 깨시고 무작정 아들 손을 붙
잡고 치료라도 받아 보자 하셨지만 친구는 자
기 엄마한테 치료 받아도 소용이 없다는걸
알렸고요 지금은 인정 하시고 편하게 아들과
동거하는 남자분을 편하게 대해 주시고 밑반
찬도 해서 주신다고 하더라고요 그래도 제가
말씀 드린 효과가 있어서 다행이네요 ㅠㅠ
Que valientes estos niños que salen al mundo a decir su verdad. No eres Pinocho mi niño bello y todas las madres deberiamos quererlos solo por ser nuestros hijos. Te amo hasta la eternidad. Espero que el universo te de mucha felicidad y mucha prosperidad por se como eres. Y no tienen que llorar porque asi los amamos. Una madre venezolana desde Argentina.
Beautiful to see Kim’s raw emotion and his mom’s reply to Backpack.
That was so touching moment..!
I remember when my son came out to me ,he said mom I’ve got something to tell you ,his face was sad .I thought he had done something wrong, after talking he said “mom I’m gay” all I could do was throw my arms round and I said “is that all I thought something bad had happened” and for us that was it nothing changed I still loved him as much as always .He now. Has a wonderful partner and I couldn’t be more proud of him ,he is the light of my life xx
Aww you are so sweet 😩😩❤️❤️
the minute kim started crying i started crying and wanted to give him a hug because coming out isn’t easy and i’m glad that both of you are happy 😊
킴님 울먹이고 글썽대는데 같이 짠해지네여ㅜㅜ토닥토닥♡
그춍.. 킴이 우는걸 많이 못 봤는데 저날은 마음에 많이 남아요 :)
킴님이 커밍아웃하기전까지 마니힘들엇음을
듣고알았는데 혼자 어린나이에 얼마나 힘들엇을까싶으면서도 그걸 견디지못하는분들은
안조은결과물을 만드는데 잘버티셧다~생각하게 되네요~지금은 어머님도 킴님을 인정하고 사랑하실거란생각이드네여~ 그동안 고생하셧던거만큼 지금은 꽃길걸으시길 바랍니다~!!
No llores amigo todo va a esta bien solo hay que tener esperanzas la esperanza es lo último que se pierde.
Un abrazo enorme desde Argentina 🇦🇷🇦🇷💕.
thank you so much! cry little, smile much!
As soon as yang hee eun's song 'mother to daughter' started playing, the eye balling started. I still fear the day ill have to come out to my mother and her rejection towards me. This video makes my heart swell with emotion. Love you guys. And thank you Kim's mom for the effort you put into learning and understanding about your son's life.
14:30 Oh… we couldn’t help but felts sad and cried with you… hugs… 😭😭
Luv you❤️
Son tan dulces los dos!... Kim no llores, no hiciste nada malo! Lograste muchas cosas y encontraste a tu alma gemela para seguir logrando muchas cosas mas!!! Sigan amandose!!!👨❤️💋👨
19살 학생인데 영상 보는데 눈물나네요
저희 엄마도 성소수자는 정상적이지 않다고 생각하는 사람이세요
매번 웃으면서 넘겼지만 저도 언젠가부터 가족들한테는 절대 커밍아웃 하지 않겠다는 생각을 하고 있었네요.
사실 요즘 10대 학생들 사이에서는 퀴어에 대한 개방적인 인식이 많이 자리잡고 있어서 장난식으로 언급도 하고 했었고 저 스스로도 성 지향성에 대해 딱히 큰 고민은 없다고 생각했는데 왠지 그게 아니었을지도 모른다는 생각이 들어요.
나와 같은 사람을 만나 연애를 하고 싶다는 갈망이 항상 마음 속에 있으면서도 용기가 없었기 때문에 혼자만의 비밀로 간직하고 있었는데
언젠간 나도 가족들과 나의 지향성에 대해 얘기 할 날이 올까 그 날에는 부디 내가 죄인같은 마음을 갖지 않았으면 좋겠다 라는 생각이 드네요
부모님께 제가 성소수자라는 사실을 털어놓는 것 자체도 왠지 죄악으로 느껴져서요
Take ur time when u ready u knew u ready
처음엔 으... 울기시러... 보지말까... 해놓고 끝까지 다보고나니 보길 잘했네 나자신😭 엄마도 킴님도 사랑의 승리에요!! 서로 그당시엔 이해가 안됬지만 이해하려고 노력했고 사랑하기에 또 그것을 해낸 두분이 참 대단하고 멋집니다. 유튜버가 되서 컨텐츠로 이렇게나마 서로 마음을 표현하고 묵은마음 털어내고하니 보는 내가 다 훈훈하고 시원해요♡ 앞으로 더 멋진 내일들이 기다리고 있어요!!! 힘내셔요 킴&백팩님~~
I was so touched by Kim sharing his coming-out story with us, my tears were flowing. Thank you for both of you doing this video,. Sending my love to you both from Texas, USA
영상 보며 같이 울었네요ㅠ '나만 알고 있는 것을 올해도 나만 알게 해주세요' 라며 기도했던
꼬마 킴님이 엄마에게 그 비밀을 털어놓는 그 과정이...🥲
엄마는 무조건 나를 다 온전히 받아줘야 하잖아! 라는 마음이 저도 항상 있는 것 같아요.
사실은 부모님도 나랑 똑같이 모든게 다 처음일텐데 말이죠?ㅠ ㅠ
저도 예전에 엄마랑 크게 싸운적 있는데 그때 엄마가 쓴 편지를 읽어보지도 않은채 방치해서
결국 엄마가 그 편지를 버린 기억이 나서 또 한 번 죄송한 맘이..ㅠ (나는 왤케 못됐나...엄마는 착한뎅...)
우리가 이 험난한 세상에서 잘 버텨가고 사랑하고 사랑받으며 살아갈 수 있는 이유는
가족들이 있기 때문이라는 생각이 들어용. 마지막 어머니 메시지를 읽으며 또 한 번 감동...
두 분 오래오래 건강하게! 행복하게! 예쁘게 투닥투닥도 하면서~ 잘 살아갑시당❤️
망원댁 두분 응원해요!!!!
맞아요 참 나이가 들어가며 부모님의 마음을 조금씩 조금씩 더듬더듬 알아가게되는것 같아요ㅎㅎ 감사하고 사랑합니당❤️
토요일 아침부터 같이 눈물 났네요 ㅠ
촉촉한 토욜아침..✨
세상 그 누구보다 내 편인, 👨👦👩👧
사랑하는 부모님께 가장 듣고 싶은 말!
"우리 아들은 어릴적부터 좀 달랐어요.
저는 이제야 이해가 되더라구요.
아들을 키우면서 어릴 때 했던 말과 행동들이
퍼즐조각처럼 이제 맞춰지는 것 같아요.
나는 그냥 내 아들이 행복했으면 좋겠어요."
그리고, 🏳️🌈 🌈
대한민국 성소수자들의 꿈꾸는 작은 소망,
"피노키오가 꿈꾸는 행복은 거짓말을 하지 않아도
사랑받을 수 있는 세상이었으니까"
내게 가장 가까운 사람에게,
가장 들키지 말아야하고, 말하면 안되는 것.
가장 꽁꽁 싸메고 숨기는 바로... 내 자신의 모습
가장 어려운 단어, 말... "커밍아웃"
다행히도 천천히 변하고 있는
현재의 대한민국 사회이지만,
혹시나 나에게 불이익이 발생하지 않을까
말하기 힘든 이 모든 상황이 안타깝습니다.
하지만,
이렇게 망원댁TV를 포함해서
많은 분들이 노력해주시는 덕분에
멀지않아 인식의 개선이 이뤄지지 않을까
기대하고 기다려봅니다. 저도 기도합니다!
실시간라이브방송 때도 시청을 했었는데
이렇게 편집된 영상으로 다시보니
너무 좋고, 감동적이네요.
벌써 몇번을 돌려서 보는지 모르겠지만
볼때마다 눈시울이 붉혀지고 있습니다.
커밍아웃 때문에 힘든 많은 성소수자들이
위로받고, 힘내셨으면 하는 바람입니다.
좋은 영상 남겨주셔서 너무 감사해요!
Thank you for sharing your coming out story & the difficulties you faced in accepting your own identity. I'm so sorry your college friend was in so much pain. I'm glad the LGBTQ+ organization you guys are members of provides support & resources to prevent suicides & help families learn about their loved ones. I'm so glad your sisters supported & continue to support you & your mom through this journey. 🙆🏾♀️ 🙌🏾 Mango Couple, Kim & Pack's families.
A very brave thing to do 'on air', Kim but you and Pack are brave souls and so good to know of your mum's reaction. Stay safe and happy. Hugs from the UK. D x
큰위로 받고 갑니다 ㅎㅎ 영상 고마워요
처음 어머니 반응이 저의 엄마 반응과 너무 같아서 놀랐어요
저는 용기내서 말한건데 제가 너무 남성적으로 다니고 숏컷이고, 제가 미친듯이 힘들어서 그냥 정체성이 혼란이 온것 같다고 하셨어요
전 할말을 잃었고 시간을 보낸뒤..
나중에 기회가 되서 다시한번 커밍아웃을 했고 많이 울었는데
생각보다 .. 다른 반응이였어요
"그래 ㅎㅎ 내딸인데 어떻겠니.. ㅋㅋ 그리고 동성애자 아닌게 어디야~ 결혼은 하겠네 ?"
웃어넘겼죠 ..ㅎㅎ 진짜 공감되는게 많아서
킴님 마음을 더 격하게 이해합니다
진짜 우는게 더 마음아프네요 ㅠㅠ 지금은 행복하길 바래요
많은 생각이 들게하는, 마음을 움직이는 영상입니다. 사연 영상도 너무 좋은거 같아요.
감사해요 한솔님 망고들이 같이 공감해줘서 더 빛났던 날이었어요..❤️
Oh Kim… such a beautiful soul. Some parents never understand… we are lucky that ours have made attempts to. I love you guys and as you know….. I respect you HUGELY. ❤️🏳️🌈🇬🇧
não chorem, eu choro junto, desejo toda a felicidades pra vocês
I know wanting to laugh is a defense mechanism to keep from crying because we feel vulnerable when do cry. But embrace that vulnerability and just cry. You have a loving partner next to you who would console you whole heartedly and with no conditions. I really do hope you find your peace. ❤️
킴님.. 저와는 다르게 정말 용기있으신 분이세요. 저는 여전히 용기가 나질않아요. 가장사랑하는 엄마에게 내 가장 중요한 비밀을 말해버리면 떠나갈까봐, 더 이상 이런 순간순간들을 함께 보내지못할까봐 너무나도 두려워서,,, 여전히 제 자존감을 깎아먹으며 가족들에게 매일 제 자신을 부정당하는 느낌이 들어 괴롭습니다. 그렇지만 제가 편하자고 절실한 기독교인인 부모님에게 제 비밀을 이야기할 수 없었어요.. 티비에 나오는 퀴어퍼레이드를 보며 엄마가 했던말이 생각나요. "쟤들은 부모님이 아실까.. 저런곳에 나가서 뭐하는 짓이라니.."
그때 너무 입이 간지러웠어요.. "엄마. 저기 나도 자주가고 나도 저 구성원 중 한명이야.." 그러나 결국 하지못했죠. 저도 언젠간 킴님처럼 꼭 말하고싶네요........ 누구보다 제가 행복하길 바라는게 제 엄마일테니....이해해주실거라 믿고싶네요..
감동적인 이야기를 공유 해주셔서 감사합니다. 당신이 게이라고 어머니에게 말하는 것이 옳았습니다. 모든 것이 잘 끝나서 기쁩니다. 나는 아버지에게 직접 말한 적이 없습니다. 형은 아버지에게 나를 쫓아 낼 것이라고 말했습니다. 나는 몇 년 동안 아버지와 이야기하지 않았습니다. 갑자기 그는 내 문 앞에 서 있었다. 그러나 그는 아무 일도 일어나지 않은 척했습니다. 그 후 그는 다시는 나를 만나러 오지 않았습니다. 그는 나를 남자와 만나는 것을 참을 수 없었다. 나도 남자 친구를 부모님 집으로 데려가는 것도 허락되지 않았다. 당신이 당신의 길을 갔다는 것이 좋습니다. 두 분은 훌륭한 커플입니다. 나는 구글 번역기로이 텍스트를 썼다. 읽을 수 있기를 바랍니다. 독일의 따뜻한 인사.
Im relate a lot on how u come out with ur family bieng gay. 😭😭😭
🥺
Hi @joshi hope everything will be better in time ,hope your dad somehow will come to you and be happy family,If can try to call ur dad tell him what u doing and asking about his day , parents will always love their kids whatever Bad History they're have #Let'sbehappy
Es tut mir sehr leid. Ich lebe in Deutschland 🇩🇪. Ich dachte, dass es hier anders ist. Ich komme aus Guatemala 🇬🇹 und ich bin Pädagogin von Beruf. Ich bin mit dem Thema LGTBIQ selbst einverstanden, weil ich ein Cousin habe, der noch nicht seine Mutter sagen kann. Ich sende euch viele Umarmungen.
One of the most beautiful vlog I have see.
Thanks a lot💕💕
@@mango.couple Thank you for your kind response..❤️🫰🇮🇳
Me indentifico bastante com a história (eu tô parecendo um bebê agora: sem saber o que fazer e chorando).
Ainda espero que minha história tenha partes melhores igual o seu,obrigada🥀.
저도 엄마를 다시 한번 생각해보게 되는 영상이네요.. 사실 이번에 일련의 사건을 계기로 저도 본의 아니게.. 제가 너무 힘들고 이대로는 버티기 어려워서 이기적인 마음에 부모님께 모두 저의 정체성에 대해 알리게 되었어요.. 비록 그에 따라 걱정될만한 최악의 반응을 하시는 그런 부모님은 아니었지만.. 두 분은 나름대로 충격도 받으셨을테지만.. 무엇보다도 그 이전에 저를 생각해주시는 말씀을 해주시며 이해하려던 모습이 떠오릅니다. 열심히 노력해서 부모님이 제게 주신 한없는 사랑의 극히 일부가 될지라도.. 보답할 수 있은 그런 사람이 되야겠다고 다시금 생각하게 되는 영상이었어요.. 고마워요 팩님 킴님..
그리고 감동이네요.. 🥲
I wasn't ready for this, I'm in tears... You're so brave, sending you a big hug! ❤️
😅😅😅😅😅
아.. 비슷한 처지에.. 아직도 밝히진 못한 사람으로서..영상을 보면서 조용히 눈물 흘립니다.
토닥토닥!!
감사해영..😌
영상 고마워요 큰 위로가 됐어요
커밍아웃 사연 하나하나가 정말 소중하고 애틋하고 가슴 아프고 귀합니다 ㅠㅠ
Kim was so very brave to come out like this to his mother ! I have much respect for him and hope that I find this courage and resilience to come out to my siblings in the future 😫😔🙏🙏 Thank you for sharing your story and giving me hope of a more free existence someday ✨ Forever grateful ❤️
I’m sure this was really hard to do. Your mom loves you so much just as you love her. I’m glad that she watched this. It is hard to share our feelings to our parents sometimes. You did well Kim. I’m sure she loved hearing you tell her you love her on your live. Thank you opening your heart and for sharing this story!!!
When i started to see the video i was very curious to see Kim's story about his coming out. But i started i don't know how and why to cry with his coming out because i can only imagine how painful it could be for both of them. For Kim to realize and hide for so long his sexuality and for his mother to see and accept something that she didn't know. To be honest i am a confused 22 years old girl that i don't know my sexuality for sure and this video made me think more carefully if i have to discuss this topic to my family or not!!!!!!
이렇케 지혜로운피노키오가있을까요^^ 항상응원합니다
Mango Couple 🥭
My Mangoes❤️
I’m literally bawling 😭 right now. You are so brave and even though we do not know each other, you have touched my heart and I can see what a wonderful person you are. Thank you for sharing something so personal and I think that this can help others in their journey for acceptance. Keep living your beautiful life! 💕
마음 고생많으셨어요 킴님 🙆♂️❤️ 항상 행복하세요
All I can say is WOW! That is such a wonderful story. I am glad that your Mother has accepted ,that you are Gay. I am not gay, but I have many friends who are. I could care less if a man loves another man, a woman loves another woman or if a man loves a woman. All I care about is what kind of person they are. If they truly love some one, to me it doesn't matter if they are gay or straight. I love how you and Pack always support each other. As long as the 2 of you love each other and care about each other that is all that matters! God bless both of you!
구구절절 공감되는 감정을 어릴 적부터 글로 잘 표현하셨네요 👍가족한테 커밍아웃하는 게 가장 힘든 거 같아요 ㅎㅎ
ㅠㅠㅠ 썸네일만 봐도 너무 막 울거같아서 미루고 미루다 이제야봤네요...
부모님한테 내 속마음을 말하는게 점점 힘들어지더라고요... 말할 수 있을때 마음을 전하는 일이 정말 중요하죠!
마음 따뜻해지는 영상 감사합니다 ㅎㅎ 라이브 안보러간자 오래됐는데 시간되면 한번 보러 가야겠어요🥰
I admire kim so much he’s a very lovely and sweet person and coming out makes him even more admirable!!! And his story truly touched my heart I wanted to tell my mom I’m pansexual for so long but I’ve been to scared! Kim has given me the strength to tell my mom who I truly am! Thank you for sharing! Love you both! 🤍 stay happy and healthy
Al final sólo era cuestión de tiempo para que tú, Kim, y tu mamá se entendieran el uno al otro y cada uno tuviera un proceso de aceptación.
Dile más seguido que la amas, aunque te mueras de vergüenza.
Y si lloran por favor háganlo de felicidad por que nos hacen llorar a todos ❤❤❤❤❤❤
ㅡ사람이 사랑하는 감정은 존중받을 가치가 있다라고...
ㅡ다름이 틀림이 아니라고 소수자 다수자 나뉨에 돌아 보지 않는 평정심으로 두분의 사회적 편애로 견재의 대상이 아님을 사랑으로...품어내는 존재적 자존의 행복에 일상이 쌓여지시길ㅡ
A mother’s love is a strong love! Stronger than anything else on earth!! It can take a shock but come out stronger for it!! Your mom loves you! Take that and the love of that good man by your side and be proud of who you are!! Stay safe and healthy and keep loving! This old lady from South Carolina ❤️❤️👵❤️❤️
Thank you and luv you❤️
Beautiful story Kim! I love my mom as well!
Por favor siempre manténganse felices por favor nunca se separen no se que haré sin ustedes los amo mi pareja favorita saludos desde Mexico
thank you so much..!! send our much love💕
@@mango.couple thank you very much los amo ❤️
Dear Kim , I’m so touched by your story, I’m crying at the moment realizing my own coming out to my parents. We all have a burden to carry on acceptance to ourselves and to those whom we love . This was so beautiful and touching and the analogy of using Pinocchio story to define your internal lie. I too were shaken on the way my parents found out, it was at Christmas dinner and something was said and my mom blew up and screamed at me for being a deviled person. I was thoroughly heartbroken and left the dinner table and headed home. At the time I was not driving and hence was walking home. My closest brother came after me. Afterwards, I left my family for years and learned to live my own life. I volunteered with programs to help, support families in accepting their gay children. I left for college, prior to leaving my dad and I had a heartfelt conversation and he accepted me for me. As for my mother , she passed away while I was in college and never had the same opportunity to express who I was and have a conversation with her. So please adore your mothers and accept them for their own lives. Thank you for being so sweet and honest with us , I’m so proud of you for being a loving child. ❤️🏳️🌈🙋♂️PS your dedication and admiration for your mom is what makes you happy, because you’ve accepted yourself. Thank you for being so sweet ❤️
To Adore our mothers they must at least be adorable in their total countenance. My mother has been dead for about four or fives years now, as is my father for about the same amount of time. I did not attend either of their funerals, my mother's, because she was a self righteous liar and my father's because he was a died in the wool Beta Male who came out of the closet when he was 68. If parents want respect then they must act respectable. CAPICHE ???
@@benth162 I understand your plight in wondering why should I . The simple fact of letting go and not carrying the anger inside of you. Your whole demeanor towards your parents is quite apparent in your statement, which your anger is quite apparent. I wonder how much you despise yourself and reflect that towards others including your statement to me . Ciao May you find your peace .
@@JD-qx3lb Nice try there JD, but as it is said; "I don't forgive and I don't forget" because you will never want to put yourself in that kind of situation again. At some point in your life you will have to say "NO" and mean it, anger or no anger. Nice try with that Pop Psychology about "Despising myself and projecting that supposed self hate upon others including you. Matter of fact JD I don't despise myself because I am the type that has no qualms calling a spade a spade when truth needs to be stated. If you took what I wrote as a personal insult then it is you that needs to work on your emotions, because not once did I mention, "why would you do anything". I was stating only facts from my own familial experiences. STOP ACTING LIKE A VICTIM AND GROW A SET MY FRIEND !!!
I am happy you have people in your life who are learning to love more.
망원댁님들 동영상 어제부터 보면서 많은 걸 생각하게 됩니다
죽을만큼 힘들때 가족이 전혀 힘이 되어 주지 못한다는 생각에 늘 섭섭해하다 저도 엄마한테 폭탄을 던진적이 있었어요 그래도 가족이라 시간이란 파도가 아픔과 서먹함을 가려주더라구요 영상보고 위로 받습니다 킴님도 토닥토닥합니다
저도 따뜻한 댓글 보고 위로가 돼요..:)
2년차 동성 커플입니다 애인의 추천으로 망원댁tv
정주행 하고 있는데 볼수록 많은 생각과 공감이
드네여 .. 각박한 세상속에서 더 각박한 이쪽 생활에
두분의 영상으로 잠시나마 위로 받는 느낌이 들어서 너무 힘이 되었습니다 두분 오래오래 행복하시구 유투브도 이미 떡상이지만 더더욱 떡상하시기를
조용히 응원할게요 !!
오늘 방송때도 함께해 주시고 응원 주셔서 너무나 감사드려요! 망원댁 채널은 이렇게 함께해주시는 망고님들의 이야기로 큰 힘을 얻는 것 같아요
이렇게 이야기 남겨주셔서 감사합니다 :)🧡
Oh, I hope you don't blame yourself Kim 😭 you must have went through such a hard time, hearing such awful words at first from your own mother, the one who's supposed to love you no matter what! And for her to insult your friend, who felt desperate enough to take his own life...?😭 I can't imagine how much that must have hurt!
I'm sure you must have fought or felt badly towards her for a while, and that's ok, even though sad, it shows how much you care about each other 🥺 because you both felt strongly! and that you both worked hard to understand each other in your own ways! To hear how much hard work and love your Mother put into trying to understand you is really touching! It also shows your love for each other!💖 that she didn't want to lose you! Going through hardships helps us grow, learn and bond as humans! 🙏
It's so amazing that you can be close and open with each other again! And that she loves and supports you, your love and what you do!
I can't imagine life without my mom either, she's without a doubt the person that I'm closest too! Thankfully, she's not religious, and a very accepting and open minded person! I can't imagine the pain or fights we'd have if she wasn't like that😭 what would I do if my mother didn't accept my sexuality? Im sure many people feel that way and fear! And I wish they didn't have too😭so. I really feel for you! And it makes me so happy and relieved to hear that she learned how to accept and understand you better over time!💖 truly, a very touching story, you were very brave for sharing such a personal story. I just know it touched and will help many people🏳️🌈 always be your amazing self, Kim, you are perfect just the way you are!
A mother's love always puts her child before herself. Live boldly 🔥
응원합니다! 어머니 장문의 문자 눈물나네요ㅜㅜ
킴님팩님 두분이 계셔서 우리망고식구들이
힘낼수 있어요 항상 좋은영상 감사드립니다
J ai pleuré toutes les larmes de mon corps 😘🥰😍 c est une marque d’intelligence de la part des parents qui se sentent perdus, ou peinés, d échanger avec d autres parents, qui ont passé le cap et qui réalisent que l amour qu ils ont pour leur enfant est bien plus fort qu’une préférence sexuelle. Quand je vous regarde, tous les 2 , vivre, et vous aimer, je suis certaine que vous servez d exemple❤️ une bise affectueuse d une maman Française
Bonjour , vous m’avez ôté les mots de la bouche 😊 . Je suis maman aussi et jamais je ne me permettrais de juger la préférence sexuelle de mes enfants . Ils sont très courageux de s’exprimer sur internet ❤
So glad you edited this with english subs. This was such a great story to hear. It really touched my heart. Thanks to Kim for sharing this with us.
@sherbear70 , this was a beautiful and heartfelt message on his journey with his family. I’m glad to have heard his story. 🙋♂️
@@JD-qx3lb Me too. I felt it was told with such sincerity. It will definitely be remembered.
❤️❤️❤️❤️👍👍👍👍👍👍👍다른말필요없는최고의사연입니다.
Sometime we think it is easier to ignore other's feelings and just 'pretend' everything is ok. The reality being we both really want to understand and reach out to the other. Thank you, Kim for your story! ❤🇺🇸🏳️🌈🇰🇷👍
O meu Deus 😢🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷💕
Thank you🌈
That took a lot of courage to be yourself and to share it with your mom. She loves you very much so you are lucky! Not all parents are that way. God bless!
귀여운 커플은 너무 아름답고 매우 숭고한 무한하고 밝은 태양을 사랑하고 울지마세요 괜찮을 갓입니다👨❤️👨👬💞💯☀️💥
Luv you❤️
I'm so happy for you guys rn, and I translated Kim's name on Pack's phone is "My Jade" omg isn't that so adorable?😭
Que vídeo lindo e emocionante .👏👏♥️♥️
God bless you,both of you guys,i'am crying 😭
그래도 큰힘이고 두분이 어머니 전부이저 기쁨일꺼에요 ㅎㅎ 힘내요
That was one of the most bravest things I have ever seen, and so moving. I am in utter aww of you Kim. You wrote a very extraordinary piece of work about your past of coming out and to share with it on the live steam. To bare your emotions is not an easy thing. It may be silly to say but thank you XX you have so many layers to you and it’s is for me a privilege to see them unravel in each post or vlog xx to see your video message for your mother and to read that she watched and replied is absolutely astonishing xx always love you and Pack forever ♾ see you next time xx 😘😘😘🤗🤗🤗🤗
Kim thank you for sharing your coming out story. Coming out is a struggle for anyone in the lgbtq+ community, myself included. Anyway I am 31 years old and I am starting to come out as ftm trans to the people closest to me including my family especially my father since he is the only biological parent I have left since my mom died when I was a teenager. And it is going to be really difficult for me. But, hearing your story about coming out to your mom gives me some hope that things will turn out alright in the end. Sending lots of love to both you and Pack.
🌈❤🥰
오늘영상 너무 감동적이에요 ㅎㅎ
You both have done so much & have always been there for so many around the world. Everything you do has helped someone get through the toughest times in their life. Thank you will never be enough. Will always love & support you both no matter what. Love from America.
Such inspired history 💞👏🙏 the fans from Brazil love this couple a lot, stay safes and 2gether guys
라이브로 못봤는데 올려쥬셔서 감사해유ㅠㅠㅠ
시원하게 울려주신것도 감사하구…..😭😭
모든것이 신이 주신것이기때문에
받아드려야되겠죠 우리잘못이 아닙니다
행복하게 사시고
자식은 항상 소중한 자식입니다 눈에넣어도 안아픈
항상 행복하셔요
How I cried watching this video...Kim, I'm a mom too and I see the love you have for yours and that's so cute...I hope Korea opens its mind more about the other's sexuality...kisses!!
BESTIES YOU GUYS GOT ME HERE CRYING SO MUCH :((( I’m so sorry you had to deal with that but I’m so happy you finally got to tell your mom that during that live stream :( it’s okay to cry bestie you have every right to, I love you guys so much :(( ❤️
Watching this at 2:30 am I'm crying I'm happy now everything is fine take care of each other ..stay safe
Kim, o amor que você tem pela sua mãe é lindo.
Sua história é comovente e nos faz refletir sobre qualquer tipo de preconceito, só quem vive um preconceito sabe a dor de ser visto como diferente .
Sua mãe venceu o preconceito , parabéns para ela.
O mundo já mudou muito , só de pensar que as mulheres eram propriedades dos pais, irmãos e marido é de estremecer.Mas hoje é bem diferente,somos donas de nós,livres para escolhermos o que queremos.Mudou...
Daqui algum tempo o preconceito contra opção sexual também mudará, já melhorou bastante não é mesmo?
Estamos evoluindo...evoluindo...
logo mais não existiram os preconceitos.Acredito!
Obrigado por compartilhar sua história no canal.Valeu!
Beijos no seu coração e do seu amor.😘😘
Mission accomplished - you made me cry. A mother's love is very special. We can be so forgiving if you just give us a chance. I can appreciate your mother's shock - I got a phone call one night when I was visiting a friend. It was my husband telling me that out son reached out to him because he had a problem with alcohol. I cried all night. The next day, I drove into New York City for the first time in my life to be there with my husband and son. It's been almost five years that he's been sober. But I never gave up on him. Because I love him unconditionally. And your mom does too. Love you two. You are an amazing couple.
Beautiful 😍 😘 wow Kim that was just beautiful your story is precious ❤ I'm glad you still love your mum and I hope your hearts have healed I realize this is a video you did last year and that I've just watched it now but I would like to say thankyou for sharing it I'm enjoying your channel 👍
These kind of videos educate people to accept LGBTQ community as they are. I understand it's difficult to share this on live but you did it. Proud of you ❤️.
대군 장마 시작했는데 ㅎㅎ 장마 조심하구 주일 잘보내요 💓
Gracias a valientes como vosotros , muchas personas lo tendrán un poquito más fácil en esta vida . Mi hija es Lesbiana , le daba miedo contármelo por si la rechazaba ,el día que lo hizo ,la abracé y le dije que la quería tanto y que sólo deseaba que nunca sufriera por su condición sexual ,lucharé con ella mientras me quedé aliento ,para que nadie lo haga. Orgullosa siempre.
Se os quiere chicos un abrazo muy fuerte desde España .❤️😘🏳️🌈
Me hiciste llorar Kim. Para empezar. Odio la frase "salir del armario" gracias a dios que con el paso de los años vamos teniendo la mente más abierta y la cultura asiática va cambiando, llevará su tiempo pero. Empezemos por inculcar a nuestros hijos y descendencias venideras, que no importa el color de la piel ni la religión ni el género sea cuál sea de las personas. No me cansaré de repetirlo una y otra vez. Y con respecto a tu madre. Una madre lo que quiere es que sus hijos sean felices y tu madre te ama por encima de todo y sufrimos por qué vivimos en una sociedad por desgracia homofobica y retrógrada. Pero esto tiene que cambiar. Y cambiará. Desde España un abrazo y recordad que aquí hay una española que os ama incondicionalmente. 💜💜🇪🇦
That touched right through my soul!!! You must be relieved and feeling a lot lighter!!! I am.sure your mom is really proud of you!!! She loves you so much!!! Be yourself and love your life!!! Love you guys you give me a little more faith in love everyone I watch you!!! Your French mango 🥭 that loves you dearly!!!💜💜
for sharing your beautiful lifes 고마워요 ❤️ ❤️
Your letter to yourself really touched my heart! Much like you, my older brother loved our mother so much. He never wanted to leave her side. When he came out in the turbulent 1980’s in America, he suffered so much hate! I think in her heart, my mother always knew he was gay, and she was his biggest comfort and support. Our father had a much harder time, because he knew that my brother was suffering from the non acceptance of both family and friends. Thank you for your vulnerability in front of your audience and your mother! By being brave you are helping others to open up dialogue about matters of the heart. One step at a time… Your mother’s letter made me cry. ❤️
Son tan lindos que uno quisiera que fueran nuestros hijos. Y amarlos hasta que se sientan felices de ser quienes son!
Love you both. Please be happy and continue to be yourselves.
That was so sweet of you Pack to do that and Kim, it takes a lot of courage to do what you did. I am just blessed to know you guys and maybe one day be able to speak fully with you in Korean. Anyway, I hope you have a blessed day.
It’s literally 2am and I am tearing up it’s so sad 😭
Creo que todo es un proceso para poder enfrentar con la frente en alto lo que cada persona es en la vida, lo que cada uno ama y de que maneras expresas el amor hacia otras personas, la aceptación y asumir cada realidad es el acto más sincero para una persona, hay que tener suficiente entereza para enfrentar las adversidades de ser uno mismo, pero para ustedes, ha sido un proceso de aprendizaje, de crecimiento, de amor sin medidas y lo que es valioso y que los debe hacer sentir orgullosos, es poder contar con el apoyo de sus familias, sientan felicidad por ello, el resto, viene por añadidura y como siempre digo, el amor todo lo puede!!!... Saludos desde Santiago de Chile.