I don't for ONE SECOND believe that Amberlynn has only shared 5% of the "stuff" that has happened to her. She is a perpetual victim. We've heard the same dang stories 500 times. I think we would hear the other ones if they existed.
You have to account for the things she makes up to make herself look better. When you have been traumaitized, it doesn't change. You have the same memories, the same adversion. You remember what happened, you don't have to add to it.
It bothers me to the core that she refuses to take responsibility of why her mom can’t be online with her. Like she created this environment…she started to cry about her mom saying she didn’t want to be on her channel and I find that weird I find that’s his amber truly is she wants other people on her stupid channel and is pouty when they say no or here changing their mind. That’s what’s making her hella depressed because why would it be information we all know about already about her family drama? It actually made me uncomfortable that she sobbed about that of all things? She’s more upset it seems that she can’t have a cohost. This new gf is a clout chaser and it’s never really about the relationship is the you need to show your face in this camera for me to be truly happy ! No one wants to shove a camera on peoples faces more than amber. I think she needs therapy.
This! If a friend tells me about an awful partner or friend and then the next day takes it all back, it’s really hard for me to revise the picture in my head that THEY painted. I’m all worked up on their behalf and they have made peace with the person😅😅😅
@@mehchic Same with Chantal and how she would flip flop on Nader and the community wasn't having it. In ALR's case, if she wants to chastise channels, she should scrub her old videos of mentions of mom.
@@mehchic The solution: stop being invested in the personal lives of people who do not know you. If Amber wants to forgive her mom and make amends for the past, then why tf do you care lmao. She doesn’t have to justify or explain a single thing to you or me. I can tell you right now I think it’s a shitty situation, but I would never fix my fingers to type something like this because I do not know these people from Adam.
@@italian_mami90 Said who? You? This is what I’m talking about. You made up a whole narrative in your head. You do NOT know these people. I know it feels like you know everything about Amber and her family, but I want you to understand that you do not and all the information you have is given to you by her volition. Any information not given expressly by her is shaky and alleged. There’s a difference between an observation and an assertion. If you want to take the things she says and try to fill in the blanks, that’s fine, but you cannot do that and then act like the story you made up in your head is objective truth. Edit: I don’t want you to think I’m being confrontational or aggressive on behalf of Amber. I just try to be as fair as possible because that’s the treatment I’d want from others. Some of y’all are so unfair, really.
She watches reaction channels, she reads the reddits and the forums. I believe ALR is chronically online. I mean…what else does she do in her free time?
I couldn't care less either way...what pisses me off is that ALR monetized and made money off of the exact same topic and made it public but now that others are bringing it up, she loses her mind
Right? And after failing a trial to get their kids back, her mom just gave birth to another one. While still in addiction. Idk how I’m supposed to not be upset with this woman
I genuinely do not believe she has "forgiven" her mother. Lord knows she hasn't. As much as I can't stand pooks, she still went through hell with an addict for a mother. She has to gaslight herself into believe she's forgiven because she has no one else. But the person who abused and neglected her. That's fucking brutal.
Well, it’s a good thing this isn’t about you then. Y’all are vicariously holding a grudge against a woman who doesn’t even know the first letter of your name because she is trying to make amends with the child she abused. At what point do you say, “I hate that she did this, but if the people affected by her actions forgive her and want to move forward, then it’s no concern of mine because that’s not my family.”
Like Zach said you don't have to think she's a good person, but other than that it really is between ALR and her family. As someone who was hurt and neglected as a child and has forgiven, it's emotionally complicated enough without strangers giving their take on what happened.
I've really noticed that Amber likes to say "this is something someone asked me", when it's just something she really wants to talk about, and in this video she went "I've seen a lot of people say this", when it was really just her words lol
I do think she loves to lie..and it’s like ….at this point it’s a 50/50 and she needs to address this knee jerking urge to lie or be dishonest. With a therapist because at this point no one cares what’s a lie they’re not gonna listen anymore.
Why is she telling her mom about alex is shook apologizing?? like this is such internet shit, shes a woman trying to stay sober, why is she telling her mom shit people online are saying about her??? She really lives in such a chronically online bubble. I feel like so much of her talk about forgiveness for addiction is her projecting and talking to herself. I think shes more upset for having to live with HER actions in active addiction than with her moms and thats why this makes her so emotional. She cant accept people do not have to forgive HER. I mean i am sober and have guilt over things i did in active addiction as well. I got sober to save my life, not to base my life on other peoples opinions of me
I mean Alex also battled with addiction so I don't know why she has to make it out as such a rare thing lol if ANY of the Reaction channels who knows what her mom is going through it's Alex.
Im confused to how she asked her parents if it was okay to share their addiction and criminal charges and they said go for it its your story, if she wasnt in contact with them back then.
She tells stories in a very confusing…..way. Im sure she didn’t talk to them much but that’s guessing, amber in her life will deny anything that doesn’t present her as perfect victim. Instead of being honest and talking about the journey of what brought the change of heart with her parents and being like ‘ this is how I felt back then’…’ but this is how I started to feel this now.’ She hides th wrong things and is opened more to lie /be dishonest and rewrite everything than she is to be a vulnerable human being. Like how she built her stamina , she will give herself credit that she just forced herself to move around.but leave out that wifey pressured her to get up and move. Someone she looked up to she will leave her out as a detail. When talking to her mom ….when she asked how she overcome the struggle being sedentary ? It’s kind of fucked up of amber to speak this way all the time. She just will find herself in stressful situations.
When she lived with Eric and Ricky she clearly said she hadn’t seen or spoken to her mom in 10 years. She also made FB posts about how she found out her mom (while incarcerated) could call people but she never reached out to Amber. They didn’t speak for YEARS until she went through her ♋️ and she finally visited. She never asked them lol 🙄 100% just like when she got called out by her aunt it was the same exact thing. She just assumed they don’t watch her videos and would never know or challenge her on the crap she said, which is why it was golden when her aunt called her flat out for lying on her 😂 the way Amber tried to spin it was hilarious. She’s just a liar and a horrible one at that.
Didn’t amber say that aunt hated her because she was fat but then the aunt said called amber out for all the things she lied about and then amber cried and said it was how she felt not what her aunt actually meant. Her family knows amber will never change because she refuses to do anything hard.
Amber out here telling us victims of addicts how we should feel about it 🙄 no one should be telling her how to feel about her mom and she absolutely should not be telling us how to feel about ours
1,000,000% agree. You don’t owe you family or friends anything for the decisions that they made. You can absolutely come from a place of understanding, and forgiveness, but that doesn’t mean you need to rebuild that connection if it isn’t going to help YOU heal
That got me that most. I grew up with 2 alcoholics. I was no contact with them both. Our feelings our valid for us as victims. And she really can't talk because she uses hers as an excuse all the time.
Exactly! My both were and still are drinking and I still remember the smell, the nightly visitors coming to meet my mom, and the disgusting loud noises i didn't understand at that age.. I met my husband at 16, and we married at 19&21.. We had our 22nd wedding anniversary 2days ago! HE saved me from addiction also, because I started using when I was 15, and ran away at that age, and slept outside and in cellars etc, wherever I could find a place.. cps took me away, but placed me back at home!!! They said it's because the fault was in me, not my mom, because my two sisters 'were normal".. No they just didn't have to see and help our mom, even steal food and clothes to the whole family, while she drank all our money . We got evicted so many times.. I'm a mom now, and I'll do anything that my kids will never see anything that I did.. My kids are the best thing in my life.. We had such a blast two days ago as a family, and even my mother in-law, is one of the best women I know.. she always supports us, and I made her a third custodian to our children, if anything happens to us .. because my mom threatened to have my kids taken from me, and take them herself... her 15 calls to cps&cops, didn't help at all.. she did all that in one year!! And I'm the only one of my sister's who can have kids, and does . that's why she can't meet them, or get to know them.. my kids don't even want to know her.. I've told them about my childhood and what my mom did to me..let's not mention the fact that she let her own brother a*use me,and didn't call the cops...mom of the century here, right????
but she’s yet to apologize to destiny, not only for putting her brother on blast but also putting destiny on the spot about having to put her dog down. amber is so incredibly low down and dirty but when it’s done to her she wants to fake cry and throw a pity party. she needs to learn that not everyone is owed forgiveness. i feel like in a way she’s been talking about herself, she’s been yapping for months now about how she’s changed soooo much but i really feel like she’s only trying to convince people of that so we can stop talking about all of her bs that’s been on her channel all these years even though she hasn’t come on camera once to address or apologize for anything that we all know she needs to apologize for. she and her mom “changing” doesn’t changed what’s happened, people don’t have to forgive or forget. at the end of the day she created all this mess by putting she and other people’s business on the internet yet somehow it’s her audience and reaction channels fault, bye amber
@@izzy_izzy_izzybelleyeah i feel like they coulda just surrendered the dog to somewhere where the dog could get trained not to bite if he was biting everybody, or paid someone to train him til he stopped, or got a muzzle, something instead of shooting the poor thing :(
@@izzy_izzy_izzybelle maybe so but it wasn’t ambers business to share that, she was just trying to distract from her bs by trying to make destiny look bad when most the community doesn’t even like destiny in the first place. amber throws everyone under the bus to avoid responsibility
@@michellealvarez1044 Exactly. Even if the public records were incorrect, no court would ever side with amber here in a defamation case. People read the public records correctly, it's not like they made it up out of thin air.
I would if she even knew what that word means lol. I guarantee she has no idea what that word means and would use it wrong like many other words before.
“It’s technically defamation” Amber I am *begging* to go watch Legal Eagle’s videos about defamation because that word does not mean what you think it means lol
Am I mistaken or has that false charge been on Mama Lynn's rap sheet for nearly a decade? If something that horrible was on my record I would be camped out at the courthouse until it was removed.
Makes no sense to me! How many job opportunities were missed based on this erroneous information. It's public record and anyone can pull it.Ten years...hayle nah! I would've camped out until they corrected the record/expunged. She was released with adjudicated and released with paper work. How do you let that kind of error ride for that long? No defamation suit to be had here...take it up with the Courts and Department of Corrections.
@@claudiobeachball Yep! I'm a Fed (not FBI Frank) and my clearance reviews go over everything periodically...travels abroad, even down to my credit scores!
Ambers mom has a long rap sheet and probably didn’t even consider what was on it… she was convicted of elder abuse so I don’t know why she would be more concerned about the clerical error. To be fair, she was probably more worried about moving forward in life.
Her saying, "my mom was gonna do a cooking video with me but now she's not because of you guys." Is the equivalent of those little kids who hold birthday party invites over the heads of other kids they weren't going to invite anyway.
You can’t trash your parents online and then get upset when others start doing the same. It’s sad Amber can’t take responsibility as the cause of all of this.
@@kyleewaters9227 that she told us about! Amber is not new to the internet she knew how bad the trolls are. Her mom didn’t know how the internet is. Amber really screwed her mom over and is blaming the internet instead of herself
I think it's a bit telling that instead of getting mad at the court for messing up the public record, she's mad at the reaction channels for commenting on the info that was put out by the court. How were they supposed to know that the court messed up? And of course, instead of contacting the court herself to get an official statement and clearing her mother's name, she wanted us to believe her, a known habitual liar, at her word. Lazy lazy lazy and manipulative
Tbf, the responsibility for clarity is always on the reporter. If something is unclear, you confirm it before you report on it. I know they aren’t journalists, but it’s akin to journalism and since they have such large platforms, the professional standards are still warranted. They should have gotten confirmation on this before reporting on it. These are public records and anyone could have asked the court, especially since it didn’t make sense in the first place. Amber was lazy too, but it’s not her responsibility to double confirm sources. They dropped the ball there and I’m glad Alex saw that and apologized.
@@HelloCompanion The thing is the court's fuck up is a pretty big deal in itself. I do not blame people seeing official court documents and taking it at face value. That's what the public record is there for. The fact that it was actually inaccurate is a pretty big deal in itself and considering that's the kind of thing that would pop up in a background check and be used to determine if I got a job or housing, I'd be pretty mad at the courts if I was mamalynn or any of her family.
@@rabbit.enjoyer Yeah, but I’m saying that if anyone did due diligence and double confirmed the source (that means not only seeing what the source says but checking to see if it’s valid by contacting them) this wouldn’t have happened. The reason we found out it wasn’t true was because someone *did* double confirm it. Like said, they aren’t journalists and this ain’t their day job, but this is a part of journalism and reporting. I don’t expect it, but when info turns out to be untrue, the ones who brought it up need to apologize because at the end of the day, that’s their onus and they have platforms.
@@HelloCompanion so you'd agree then that Amber should address, correct, and apologise for every false allegation she's made in the past, then? You know, because she has a platform.
To be super fair… why were reaction channels looking for her mom’s criminal record in the first place? Like that is super freaking weird. We watch this for Amber, not her family! So it’s fair to be mad at reaction channels
I honestly think she asks for Q&A’s so much cause she’s wanting to know how the mood is around her channel at that moment and then decides if she wants to post or not
I’m glad that Amber was able to forgive her mom and build a relationship with her. And I understand that when addicts genuinely change and make amends they deserve a chance to have a normal life. However, I know from experience that some things are so damaging (especially when they’re done to a child) that the survivor of that situation will never feel safe having a relationship with the addict. And some don’t change at all even when they’re sober. So while we should definitely advocate for recovering addicts who have grown and changed, we also can’t lose sight of the people that survived their abuse and we can’t make them feel like they need to be forgiving when they will spend a good chunk if not the rest of their lives managing the damage that someone else did to them.
Okay yes I agree, and in this situation I’m talking about Amberlynn who has chosen to forgive her mom and build a relationship with her. I think this specifically speaks to the part of this video where I talked about how it’s important to keep in mind I’m talking about Amberlynn specifically. I wasn’t advocating that everybody has to forgive addicts who were abusive to them.
@@ZacharyMichaelI totally understand! And thank you for your kind and empathetic response. You definitely made it clear that you’re talking about Amber specifically in this video. This is just a subject that hits close to home for me and I felt like it was important to make sure that the survivors are also part of the broader conversation.
At the end of the we don’t know about amber’s personal journey on the conversation of forgiveness and how it let up to Amber finally felt comfortable with her ex addict mother vs her feelings and experiences with father’s situation . 🤷🏻♀️ we don’t know this at the end of the day. Out if everything amber has wasted her time lying about this story would of been important and useful to hear for others? I think she can’t tell this story anymore because she doesn’t have a proper understanding of priorities in life and sees any type of flaw she could have as as weakness. She would rather cry about not being able to have a camera in her mom’s face…because it always comes back to that with if the people on her life can be used as props/characters for her channel.😅 She will also use this situation as a tool with her cringey war on reaction channels. Though I think now she ultimate would benefit with therapy and I agree as someone who’s had a parent that had an addiction and recovered from it with Zack points. (My feelings are complex for this parent obviously but I still love and talk to them with a healthy distance only time will keep healing the rest. Im finally at peace with it .)
Mom we have to lie so it doesn’t look bad. It always works out for me! Like when I bought my own wedding ring . Also I think if they did, they didn’t know what she would say to cope. Amber can get quite irresponsible.
I hope this time has been ok for you, and good luck moving into the future! Be kind to yourself during this time, and congrats on the finalization, the most stressful part is over 🎉🥳🎉
Zach, I can't stop wondering why Amber is like, I told you we knew this wasn't real. IF YOU KNEW ABOUT IT WHY DIDN'T YOU OR YOUR MOM CONTACT THE COURTS? Or did she just hear people talk about and just went "wow crazy rumors just popping out of thin air." Amber needs to realize people believe what they see and it was completely understandable to trust the court records. If someone told me they found my name attached to a court case I had nothing to do with I'd go to the court to try to figure out.
Also - is her mom watching reaction videos? Otherwise, why is her mother upset. I would think her mom wouldn't know what anyone was saying about her unless she's actively engaging in Gorl World or ALR told her.
Why would they contact the court? She knows for what she went to prison and I would definitely NOT think that random shtheads from the internet looked into my criminal records. Wtf?
Also she said that the charge was for someone else that had the same name as her mom. Soooo which one is it a typo on the court records or someone else??
I completely understand Amberlynn''s protective stance on her mom, but I noticed how thrilled she was that MamaLynn showed her face, and I think she's more angry, at this point, about the fact that she knows her reaction "fans" have been clamoring for new side characters, and her reaction to MamaLynn being willing to go on camera showed that she thought MamaLynn would be the new side character to help revive interest, and she's PISSED that her Mom's past make it hard to incorporate her into the channel.
None of this would have come up now if she had kept her mouth shut about it when she started social media. Now she says she never talked about it and its all the reaction channels faults.
Do you really think as a community we should be telling victims of childhood neglect and abuse to just shut up about it? I am not a fan of amber but she has every right to talk about her childhood.
My whole thing is she sat there and said she’s said stuff in videos that ended up being false but she believed it at that time so she’s not going to remove the videos. So for her to say the reaction channels should take down their videos when they believed it to be true at that time is hypocritical.
One time a boss told me to take a sick day because I was dealing with a very emotional situation. She said "angry clean your house, take a long bath, or just lay in bed and cry I don't care just give yourself time to feel better"
I wish I had a boss like this. Mine ignores us and thinks about the company’s business. So you can get written up for less. Amber doesn’t understand shit and is super sheltered.😅
She didn't ask her parents if it was ok to talk about them 🙄 At the time that she started her channel, she said she had zero relationship with her parents. When she was just with Destiny, she said her mum had added her on Facebook and she hadn't spoken to her in years, and that she was "homeless and on drugs" She's literally just trying to portray herself in a good light.
Amber had every right to talk about her experiences as a child. It’s wild to me that people are telling a victim of child neglect and abuse that she should have just shut up about it. I’m not a fan of amber but this is insane to me. Amber has every right to talk about her childhood and also reestablish her relationship with her mother later.
@@emma2370 I said absolutely nothing about whether or not she has a right to talk about her childhood. My comment is purely referring to her not being truthful about asking her parents if they were ok with her discussing them when she first started her channel. My issue is with her lying, nothing to do with her talking about her childhood.
As a daughter of a recovered alcoholic recovery doesn’t mean getting everyone to like you and forgive you… people DO NOT have to forgive addicts for their behavior when they were addicted that’s not the goal. Addicts need to know that not everyone will forgive them. And she can’t decide if her “addict mom” was a totally different person or “she would never do that”…. Addicts do horrific things in addiction. And they don’t have to be forgiven
She is just so out of touch with what she does and has done. She talked about her family for money she always has, are you telling me after 10yrs of having a channel and seeing how reaction channels act towards her and how viewers react to her she didnt feel the need to protect her mom from it. All she saw was the opportunity for a side character and hopefully more viewers and more money
So many people don't know the actual definition of defamation. It's not just saying something that's false. Defamation is when you intentionally say something that you know is false with the intent of that person losing money or opportunities.
Amber : you can’t trash someone going through addiction Also Amber : trashes her parents when it benefits HER and has compared food addiction to drugs, alcohol, and smoking.
I feel like an idiot for getting annoyed by this, but Amber is blaming reaction channels for how they are...reacting to her video! SHE is the one who brought up all this shit about her mom. If she just dropped a video out of the blue that was "Cooking with Amber and Mamma-Lynn" people would have had a much more positive reaction. As always, she created the negative environment, and this time it as at her mom's expense.
@@jordansmith2380 yes. I would do, too. But I would NOT look it up and make it public and with that make a huge deal out of data about a person's life that I don't have anything to do with.
Like not even being funny or mean, that is a real ass possibility. Hell, it could happen on a walk with Twinkie! Amber’s health is at a place where anything could happen at any time and that’s something to rightfully be fearful of🙁
The clip of Amber whining about her aunt cutting her out of her life 'just because she has a food addiction' seems like one where she wasn't telling the whole story
Alrighty my Zach, I'll be addressing the "thirst trap" because I'm not seeing anyone else doing so, so here we go lol. People think a lot of them are "thirsty" because she's doing things like licking her lips, running her hands over her breasts/hair/neck etc, and trying to look seductive. Okay, love you Zach, glad you and Noel had a good trip!
regardless of how amber feels about her mom, she's primarily using her as her way to leave her house. if/when "valentine" was local and could drive her anywhere she wouldnt see her nearly as much. she has made it clear she doesnt even need to like her caregiver, she just needs SOMEONE willing to drive her places
First of all, ALR is the one who for 10 YEARS has spoken multiple times about her parents jail time, their (and her brother's) addiction(s) without their knowledge/consent. Plus i saw that her mom plead guilty to the k*lling of a service animal so kinda confused about that! How come when it's her she can say whatever she wants yet when someone else does it, it's "defamation"?! Also ALR acting like she's never used her parents stories of addiction & jail time for money over the years is wild! 🙄
@@ZacharyMichaelI’m starting my program this year never thought I’d get this far tbh I was a dropout so I feel really proud I’m the only one in my family to go to college and I just rediscovered the amberlyn community all over again
If she wants to sue anyone for defamation then it should be the courts since they’re the ones who made the error, everyone else was just going off the documents they provided but pop off with those underhand threats mama!
And now that it's shown to be untrue moved the goal post to well she abused an elderly woman. We don't know that story at all, court records do not give context, so say 2 people get into an argument, one shoves the other, so they retaliate and hit them, cops get called, second person, who is high on some drug, gets arrested, boom assault charge. Not saying it's right to hit anyone, but we don't know what happened.
I have a hard time taking Amber's whole talk about how people should leave her mom's addiction in the past and move on from it when she herself has used Destiny's brother being an addict against her and has in the past talked negatively about her mother for content. As well assuming everyone who thinks what her mother did was wrong "doesn't know what it's like to have family members who are addicts or have never faced addiction" is such a weird assumption to make, I've known a lot of addicts and none of them have ever abused the elderly...
Legally, reaction channels had reasonable belief that MamaLynn did commit the crimes because the court website says that she did. A reasonable person would believe that the court record was accurate. Malice is required for defamation so a keystroke error doesn’t make the court or an employee of the court guilty of defamation because there is no malice in a simple error. Plus AmberLynn has no standing to sue, MamaLynn would have to sue. . So… there is no legal case for defamation.
For me it was never the ‘if she did it’ it was Amberlynn being so appalled that people believed she did it. It wouldn’t be the worst thing on her rap sheet 😅
The reason she doesn’t communicate with her viewers when she’s taking time off comes down to her having no appreciation for them. That’s the difference between Zach and Amber. He shows his viewers respect. She could never. 🙄
1000% and yet she still doesn’t understand why she has massed the so much ‘haydurs’ online. She doesn’t respect her audience so why should they respect her?
They are just supply for her narcissism. She only values them as much as they can give her attention, and as long as she can replace them with new viewers who knows nothing about her history, current viewers will mean nothing
Amberlynn pretending she just heard through the grapevine what the reaction channels are saying has the same vibes as me telling my husband I read something somewhere when I know full well it was an Instagram reel.
Mamalynn has a past, we know this thanks to ALR bringing it up a good deal, it's nothing new to hear stories about it especially in scenarios it could be used for pity by ALR. That said it is up to the family to forgive and forget, which they have done according to them, and it should be their own private business. ALR however has monetized that trauma from her past, invoked it as a shield, and is now upset that people are delving into it despite her wishes for them to stop. We shouldn't get to involved in the people around her, but it is just a case that some folks are going to be more invested in the lives of people she brings on. It is good that Mamalynn is clean, sober, and has clearly tried to make amends to her family, a thing that we don't deserve because we didn't suffer at her hands while she was on drugs, but the parasocial relationship developed by the audience for good or ill will make them twice as invested in those new people. My own belief is she should have given her mom a platform to talk about her addiction, humanize her to the audience, and let her talk about the times she feels comfortable discussing. I worry (maybe I'm being paranoid) that the reason ALR didn't do that is because the stories told might contradict her own lies or stories from the past and lead to another long winded apology about being a liar.
Follow up that has nothing to do with her mother. Why does ALR constantly state she likes something in the same tone of voice that I associate with her disliking something. Like she does that psuedo-valley girl stressing of works that just comes across as fake.
Amberlynn not only trashed her parents for almost 10 years but she also talked about her ex's parents and monetized their problems as "tea." Now when ppl do the same she has a problem. In any other circumstance, people would distance themselves from their abuse parents. But Amberlynn is so incompetent and useless at everything she now needs her mom to be her caretaker. Sad.
She can talk about her trauma from her parents and give her thoughts about it. You can too, but you must understand that this is not the same. If I tell my partner, “Yeah, my mom was super neglectful when I was a kid and it messed me up a bit” and his response is overtly inflammatory to the woman I’m trying to reconnect with, I’d be upset too. It’s MY trauma, not yours. It’s MY experience to navigate and decide on, not yours. These are my decisions to make, not yours. Just because you or “most” people would do something in the event of an abusive parent trying to make amends doesn’t mean this is the rule. Y’all are way too deep in the koolaid here, and it’s so weird to me. Just say, “Oh, I didn’t have all the info and made unnecessary judgements, oops.” like a normal person.
@@HelloCompanion why are you spending so much time defending her here? What part of "you don't get to control other people's opinions of you" don't you understand? Amber puts her life online - she could stop, but she doesn't. She could remove herself and her mom from the toxicity, but she doesn't. Of course it's her life and her story but it doesn't mean she gets to control how people feel about her or her mom. The reason people do not have a lot of sympathy for her in this situation is because she has treated other people's issues as 'tea' in the past (Destiny's brother's addiction for example). Why is she owed empathy when she doesn't give that to others?
@@jordansmith2380 I call out bad behavior regardless of how I feel about the person doing it. I try to be a fair person because I want to be treated fairly. I’m giving the energy I wish to receive. Her putting stuff online is her prerogative, but nobody is forcing y’all to make up and spread these stories. You’re acting like you just simply cannot help yourself from spreading misinformation. You can say Amber doesn’t give all the info necessary to come to a reasonable conclusion, but it’s not really her responsibility to. She doesn’t HAVE to tell any of us anything. Just because she doesn’t clarify something does not give us the right to scour through her family’s personal history to create and spread a narrative around. Why do you feel entitled to this info from her? You aren’t and need to remember that despite consuming daily media from her online, you *do not know these people* and your knowledge of their situations ends exactly where they stop giving it to you. If you wanna take these tidbits and create a story to fill in the blanks to make it make sense, that’s all good and fun, but when you tout this narrative as fact and then get proven wrong, I don’t know what to tell you if you don’t understand why that’s no bueno. The difference between observation and assertion is the literal difference between an opinion and a lie, regardless on intent. Feel how you feel, but don’t push ideas to affirm your narrative.
@@HelloCompanionthere’s a BIG difference between sharing information like this with a partner and sharing with the entire internet. It’s reasonable to have expectations that your partner will keep your confidence and be discreet. There is no such expectation for internet strangers. To make that comparison is really weird.
@@HelloCompanionalso, the information is publicly available. No one hired a PI to delve into her mother’s past. This information has also been floating around in GW for years. It just resurfaced because Amber wanted to make her mother a side character. The reason why ppl are coming for you so hard is because you absolve Amber of any responsibility for the situation, and you think it makes sense to scold the internet for being the internet. You say you’re being fair, but you don’t keep the same energy for Amber. You think strangers who do not know her have the same obligation towards her as a partner or a therapist, which is a strange, naive and delusional take.
Well it's all our fault that anything bad ever happens to miss gorliepop so we should really just apologize for merely existing in the same universe as her.
No, there's no apology needed unless they want to. This has been discussed since about 2019 or earlier. She knew it was there, her mom had to have known it was there, unless she is a complete moron, and none of them tried to fix it. It was on her record, there was no reason for reaction channels to think it was a mistake, because what kind of idiot would let that effect their future.
Tbf Jealousy is a valid emotion anyone can feel, in or out of relationship context, it’s more of how you as an individual handle that emotion that changes things. If your reaction to it is to lash out, tear someone down, or let it have a negative impact on yourself, then you may need to talk to a professional about it. But if you just feel it and move on and don’t let it overtake your whole day/moment, then I’d say that’s pretty normal. I can be jealous that a dress looks better on the model than it does me, but I just move on and realize that’s not reality and everyone has their own opinion about it. I’d never start nitpicking the model or myself out of jealousy.
No way. Amber put this out there, not reaction channels. Everything she complains about like this is 100% self inflicted. She needs to either shut her mouth or quit.
She clearly is asking a lot of these questions herself. She is delusional if she thinks a med spa is going to give her semaglutide considering all her ailments.
7:15 thank you Zach for supporting people who had a bad time with addiction. I spent a decade in addiction and I just celebrated 9 years clean on March 2nd. I did some really stupid things in addiction. But we can change! I had my miracle baby after being clean 2 years! ❤I feel terrible how Amber used to trash her own mom for content and now she is seeking sympathy. I do believe her mom is a better person, but Amber had caused this mess! She should be apologizing to her own mom for the stuff she said on the internet about her! It’s a crazy subject.
I have a lot of empathy for addicts but at the same time she needs to take accountability for her actions. She did those things and nothing in life can change that.
Amber didn’t do those things though… why are we assuming ambers mom hasn’t taken accountability for her actions? The victims have forgiven momma lynn so why is this community holding it against her?
@@emma2370 I tink it's perfectly fair if some people want to hold those things against her. I personally don't care what she has done but ALR can't expect everybody to feel that way. For some people, certain things are unforgivable and part of taking accountability for crap behaviour is realising that. I am happy that ALR has forgiven her but based on her own food addiction she clearly hasn't worked through all the trauma she experienced as child.
I said this before but as an addict I totally can relate to this on some level. I never beat anyone or went to jail in my addiction. BUT I did a lot of shameful things that I today would be horrified if people kept bringing it up or bashing me even decades later. IMO she paid the time for her crime and changed her life for the better. I’m sure she isn’t the same person as she was 20 years ago. Yes, you should take accountability for your actions. But I don’t agree with how far some people have taken it. I’m sure not a lot of people will agree with me but we’re all allowed to have our own opinions. I’m not sticking up for her or anything it’s just how I would feel in that situation
Thank you. I really don’t like amber but if momma lynn has served her time and has worked on being forgiven by the people she hurt with her addiction I don’t know why strangers on the internet can’t just let it go. We have allowed people who commit murder to move on with their lives.
@@evenstar04why does the timing even matter? Momma lynn served her time and seems to be sober. If the victims have forgiven her I don’t think it matters how long ago it was.
I don’t think she ever asked her parents what they thought about her sharing their stories. If she had she wouldn’t have filmed Krystal in the bathroom or anytime a gf didn’t want to be filmed…
I saw the reading comprehension tik tok and immediately thought of you, Zach! You spend so much of your time and energy explaining caveats, nuances, and exceptions just to keep others from being triggered, which is kind and amazing, but sometimes I wish were able to make a statement about ALR (or whomever) and feel safe doing so.
I just wtarted my first ever 40 hour week. Ive had ao much time to watch these videos but im so tired when i get home and dont have an hour to watch this. God i hate waiting for my day off to catch up on the teaaaa. Not saying dont make hour long videos!! I love them!! Just wish i had time when they come out 😭
I will actually lose respect for any reaction channel that backtracks on this. She has spent years trashing her parents, airing their shameful history and acting like their actions were unforgivable. Now that she is alone and needs a caregiver, suddenly her mother is a changed woman who deserves everyone to just forgive and forget all the heinous things she did? They are both addicts, both abusers and they are enabling each other. Of course she is going to defend her. She is her mother is many ways.
Counterpoint: Those things happened decades ago and people can change. If Amber feels like she wants to build a relationship with her mom, then that’s fine. Your opinion on the matter is irrelevant. She can spend 10 years talking about being neglected by her mom. She can also decide to stop focusing on these things and move past them to rekindle a relationship with her mother. She has chosen the latter and that’s perfectly acceptable behavior. Y’all are getting way too personal to these people you’ve never met and don’t know you exist. Then, y’all are quick to project your insecurities on a situation to affirm your narrative. It’s parasocial at this point. Edit: I’m not a fan of Amber, but right is right and wrong is wrong, and y’all are dead-ass wrong here, unfortunately.
@@HelloCompanion nobody has to forgive Amber's mom for anything. Nobody owes Amber's mom anything. The fact Amber has been able to forgive her mom great for her, but she doesn't get to tell other people how to feel. Amber's mom getting sober should have been done for herself and her family - that is the point. Amber sitting there saying "What is the point of getting sober if everyone doesn't forgive you?" is fucking mad.
@@jordansmith2380 Why do you care so much? The main people affected by her addiction forgave her and are willing to move past it. It does not matter the reason or how you feel about it because it does not concern you. You can feel how you feel and say how you feel, but the line a lot of y’all are crossing without realizing (parasocial relationships do this) is that you AREN’T involved in the situation and AREN’T entitled to any discourse or closure on your end. I don’t know how to tell you this, but if you ever find yourself listening to a story about how someone is forgiving their abusive parent and trying to rekindle their bond and you start a sentence with “Well, what about ME and how I feel about her trauma?!” you are dead wrong every single time lol. Like said, just because you watch her videos does not mean you are a part of the story or her life. That’s the biggest problem in this community; y’all do not know when to just let stuff happen- it’s always gotta involve you somehow. Y’all can’t just ever enjoy the drama and leave it alone. You always gotta cowtip.
@@jordansmith2380I don’t really understand how people can actively say “nobody has to forgive Amber’s mom for anything. Nobody owes Amber’s mom that” when legitimately- nobody except for Amber, her grandma and other potential victims not known or spoken of on the internet should be the ones to choose to forgive or not. Sure people can have their personal opinions or thoughts- but nobody here except Amber, her grandma and other potential victims has the actual right of to forgive or not forgive. The internet wasn’t victimized by Amber’s mom. Doesn’t matter what her mom did- it didn’t and doesn’t affect us. Her mom served her time, she seems to be an active participant in acknowledging her faults and past, and is continuously working on her sobriety, family relationships and herself (likely I dunno her) It IS weird; to hold such a strong statement saying she is not owed forgiveness or that nobody has to forgive her; when she didn’t harm anybody outside this realm. What Amber has done by monetizing her life and what her mom did to her- honestly is her business and I don’t personally care. Plenty of people monetized or just spoke of their traumatic past before, many times before. Amber is at fault for many things, and she can be an idiot for a lot of things as well. However she entitled to choose forgiveness or not; doesn’t matter what the internet says and feels. The internet is not owed this- at least from her mother who is legitimately trying to be a better parent and citizen in the present day. I am in no way shape or form an Amber lover- in fact she does a lot of things I am critical of; but I think this is an issue that the internet is crossing the line of
Zach, you cannot possibly believe she asked her parents permission to talk about them on her channel. When she started her channel she wasnt even in contact with them. Not to mention, she spent the last 10 years betraying the trust of everyone around her by airing all their dirty laundry, why the hell should i believe she treated her parents any differently?
38:10 Amberlynn, you’re wrong. You could very well have a heart attack at any point, whether the pasta, pizza or double cheese burger from McDonald’s is present or not. I honestly am amazed she has such cognitive dissonance that she believes that at her weight it’s “unlikely” that she will have a heart attack. It’s actually more than likely, and she really doesn’t have the luxury of time. Not like before. Every time I click a new video she’s sitting down talking, enough. Enough talking Gorl, either get up and move or get out a Mukbang. “Big are you calling me BIG” that’s another one that boils my blood. Yea, you’re basically an island for your dog to cling to when you dropped her in the river… that’s a BIG CHERRY in my book 🍒🏝️ Honestly, I feel Foodie and Amberlynn are both not going to make it to 2030 and that’s only 6 years. Foodie could be gone by NYE given she’s now 40. Ambers only saving grace was her being so young still but 23 turned to 26 then to 33 real quick and all we saw was her sink deeper. These girls are on borrowed time complaining about things that don’t matter. Wild
Everything triggers her…she needs to live in a bubble if everything is triggering and hard. Especially since she doesn’t have a lot responsibilities or a full time heck a part time job. Her job is considered casual yet she can’t handle ANYTHING. Get over yourself girly!!!
Omg nobody WANTS anything from MammaLynn! People are reacting to freshly received upsetting(!) information. And those who knew are joining the discussion since it’s currently going on
Oh I am so ready for the Twister movie! I just rewatched the original Twister a few months ago. I want to thank you for your kindness, consideration and empathy to all people struggling with addiction. I am an addict who is trying to better my life. I also have parents who had a long period of active addiction. And I have friends who struggle with addiction. It is such an alienating feeling being an addict during addiction and during recovery. There is so much stigma against addicts too. I've seen addiction first as a child seeing my parents go through hell, and not understanding why they couldn't just stop. It's hard for people to understand the power of addiction unless you have been through it, or have friends or family who have been through it. Even when I first dabbled with hard stuff, I knew it was risky, but I thought I would keep the power I had over my decisions at the time. No one wants to be an addict or chooses addiction. Things get out of control so fast. Thank you for your respect about this, addicts are humans who are suffering.
I don't for ONE SECOND believe that Amberlynn has only shared 5% of the "stuff" that has happened to her. She is a perpetual victim. We've heard the same dang stories 500 times. I think we would hear the other ones if they existed.
That's not to say that she doesn't have some secrets, but not 20x what she's shared.
When she says that, it means 5% of what she shares actually happened the way she's representing it
You have to account for the things she makes up to make herself look better. When you have been traumaitized, it doesn't change. You have the same memories, the same adversion. You remember what happened, you don't have to add to it.
Facts!
It bothers me to the core that she refuses to take responsibility of why her mom can’t be online with her. Like she created this environment…she started to cry about her mom saying she didn’t want to be on her channel and I find that weird I find that’s his amber truly is she wants other people on her stupid channel and is pouty when they say no or here changing their mind.
That’s what’s making her hella depressed because why would it be information we all know about already about her family drama?
It actually made me uncomfortable that she sobbed about that of all things? She’s more upset it seems that she can’t have a cohost.
This new gf is a clout chaser and it’s never really about the relationship is the you need to show your face in this camera for me to be truly happy ! No one wants to shove a camera on peoples faces more than amber. I think she needs therapy.
Amberlynn did not graduate with her doctorate from the university of Greys Anatomy to be treated like this
We don't understand nutrition like she does.
Amberlynn: *trashes her parents*
The internet: agrees
Amberlynn: 🤯
This! If a friend tells me about an awful partner or friend and then the next day takes it all back, it’s really hard for me to revise the picture in my head that THEY painted. I’m all worked up on their behalf and they have made peace with the person😅😅😅
@@mehchic Same with Chantal and how she would flip flop on Nader and the community wasn't having it. In ALR's case, if she wants to chastise channels, she should scrub her old videos of mentions of mom.
@@mehchic The solution: stop being invested in the personal lives of people who do not know you.
If Amber wants to forgive her mom and make amends for the past, then why tf do you care lmao. She doesn’t have to justify or explain a single thing to you or me. I can tell you right now I think it’s a shitty situation, but I would never fix my fingers to type something like this because I do not know these people from Adam.
@@HelloCompanionShe forgave her mom because she LITERALLY has no one else in this world (thanks to her actions).
@@italian_mami90 Said who? You?
This is what I’m talking about. You made up a whole narrative in your head. You do NOT know these people. I know it feels like you know everything about Amber and her family, but I want you to understand that you do not and all the information you have is given to you by her volition. Any information not given expressly by her is shaky and alleged.
There’s a difference between an observation and an assertion. If you want to take the things she says and try to fill in the blanks, that’s fine, but you cannot do that and then act like the story you made up in your head is objective truth.
Edit: I don’t want you to think I’m being confrontational or aggressive on behalf of Amber. I just try to be as fair as possible because that’s the treatment I’d want from others. Some of y’all are so unfair, really.
She watches reaction channels, she reads the reddits and the forums. I believe ALR is chronically online. I mean…what else does she do in her free time?
Legos...and buying journals....more legos?
Absolutely nothing at all
Her “free time” is just …. time 😂
Eat
Certainly not exercise lol
I couldn't care less either way...what pisses me off is that ALR monetized and made money off of the exact same topic and made it public but now that others are bringing it up, she loses her mind
What works me won’t work for thee. Her mind set
Hurting/neglecting children is a hard line for me 🤷♀
Right? And after failing a trial to get their kids back, her mom just gave birth to another one. While still in addiction. Idk how I’m supposed to not be upset with this woman
I genuinely do not believe she has "forgiven" her mother. Lord knows she hasn't. As much as I can't stand pooks, she still went through hell with an addict for a mother. She has to gaslight herself into believe she's forgiven because she has no one else. But the person who abused and neglected her. That's fucking brutal.
@@mags_9532there is no chance she’s been in enough therapy to deal with what happened and also forgive her mom
Well, it’s a good thing this isn’t about you then.
Y’all are vicariously holding a grudge against a woman who doesn’t even know the first letter of your name because she is trying to make amends with the child she abused. At what point do you say, “I hate that she did this, but if the people affected by her actions forgive her and want to move forward, then it’s no concern of mine because that’s not my family.”
Like Zach said you don't have to think she's a good person, but other than that it really is between ALR and her family. As someone who was hurt and neglected as a child and has forgiven, it's emotionally complicated enough without strangers giving their take on what happened.
I've really noticed that Amber likes to say "this is something someone asked me", when it's just something she really wants to talk about, and in this video she went "I've seen a lot of people say this", when it was really just her words lol
I know, why doesn't she just say "I want to address this" or "I just want to talk about this real quick"
I do think she loves to lie..and it’s like ….at this point it’s a 50/50 and she needs to address this knee jerking urge to lie or be dishonest. With a therapist because at this point no one cares what’s a lie they’re not gonna listen anymore.
I've always said that for Amber, things don't happen as a result of her actions. Things just happen to her.
Why is she telling her mom about alex is shook apologizing?? like this is such internet shit, shes a woman trying to stay sober, why is she telling her mom shit people online are saying about her??? She really lives in such a chronically online bubble. I feel like so much of her talk about forgiveness for addiction is her projecting and talking to herself. I think shes more upset for having to live with HER actions in active addiction than with her moms and thats why this makes her so emotional. She cant accept people do not have to forgive HER. I mean i am sober and have guilt over things i did in active addiction as well. I got sober to save my life, not to base my life on other peoples opinions of me
I mean Alex also battled with addiction so I don't know why she has to make it out as such a rare thing lol if ANY of the Reaction channels who knows what her mom is going through it's Alex.
Her thinking ozempic is not semaglutide is soooo funny
because jordy refers to it as semaglutide and he was talking about it in one of his recent amber vids. she loves to give away her lahs
Do you really think she understands the concept of brand vs generic formulations of drugs?
@@FerrousFumurate you’re right I shouldn’t give her that much credit
Im confused to how she asked her parents if it was okay to share their addiction and criminal charges and they said go for it its your story, if she wasnt in contact with them back then.
Curious indeed...
Amber lahs
She tells stories in a very confusing…..way. Im sure she didn’t talk to them much but that’s guessing, amber in her life will deny anything that doesn’t present her as perfect victim. Instead of being honest and talking about the journey of what brought the change of heart with her parents and being like ‘ this is how I felt back then’…’ but this is how I started to feel this now.’
She hides th wrong things and is opened more to lie /be dishonest and rewrite everything than she is to be a vulnerable human being.
Like how she built her stamina , she will give herself credit that she just forced herself to move around.but leave out that wifey pressured her to get up and move. Someone she looked up to she will leave her out as a detail. When talking to her mom ….when she asked how she overcome the struggle being sedentary ? It’s kind of fucked up of amber to speak this way all the time. She just will find herself in stressful situations.
When she lived with Eric and Ricky she clearly said she hadn’t seen or spoken to her mom in 10 years. She also made FB posts about how she found out her mom (while incarcerated) could call people but she never reached out to Amber. They didn’t speak for YEARS until she went through her ♋️ and she finally visited. She never asked them lol 🙄 100% just like when she got called out by her aunt it was the same exact thing. She just assumed they don’t watch her videos and would never know or challenge her on the crap she said, which is why it was golden when her aunt called her flat out for lying on her 😂 the way Amber tried to spin it was hilarious. She’s just a liar and a horrible one at that.
Didn’t amber say that aunt hated her because she was fat but then the aunt said called amber out for all the things she lied about and then amber cried and said it was how she felt not what her aunt actually meant. Her family knows amber will never change because she refuses to do anything hard.
I’ve clicked to fast now my thumb is danglleeeen 😭
Not the dangleeeeen thumb 😭 We'll pray for you. 🙏
That's fat phobic@@smileplease_91
@@smileplease_91Thank you for finding you sympathy bone 😭
Omg! I hope the ER doctors don't misdiagnose you!
@@simonferocious868she might have ASMR😫
"Sure. Go to therapy." 😭😭😭 THE CURTNESS OF IT
I laughed so hard at the quick interjection 😂😂
Here faster than FBI Frank congratulating Amber on her following.
Amber out here telling us victims of addicts how we should feel about it 🙄 no one should be telling her how to feel about her mom and she absolutely should not be telling us how to feel about ours
1,000,000% agree. You don’t owe you family or friends anything for the decisions that they made. You can absolutely come from a place of understanding, and forgiveness, but that doesn’t mean you need to rebuild that connection if it isn’t going to help YOU heal
18,000,000%
That got me that most. I grew up with 2 alcoholics. I was no contact with them both. Our feelings our valid for us as victims. And she really can't talk because she uses hers as an excuse all the time.
Exactly! My both were and still are drinking and I still remember the smell, the nightly visitors coming to meet my mom, and the disgusting loud noises i didn't understand at that age.. I met my husband at 16, and we married at 19&21.. We had our 22nd wedding anniversary 2days ago! HE saved me from addiction also, because I started using when I was 15, and ran away at that age, and slept outside and in cellars etc, wherever I could find a place.. cps took me away, but placed me back at home!!! They said it's because the fault was in me, not my mom, because my two sisters 'were normal".. No they just didn't have to see and help our mom, even steal food and clothes to the whole family, while she drank all our money . We got evicted so many times.. I'm a mom now, and I'll do anything that my kids will never see anything that I did.. My kids are the best thing in my life.. We had such a blast two days ago as a family, and even my mother in-law, is one of the best women I know.. she always supports us, and I made her a third custodian to our children, if anything happens to us .. because my mom threatened to have my kids taken from me, and take them herself... her 15 calls to cps&cops, didn't help at all.. she did all that in one year!! And I'm the only one of my sister's who can have kids, and does . that's why she can't meet them, or get to know them.. my kids don't even want to know her.. I've told them about my childhood and what my mom did to me..let's not mention the fact that she let her own brother a*use me,and didn't call the cops...mom of the century here, right????
You have that same energy for the dozens of comments doing the exact same thing to her for her choice to have a relationship with her mom?
but she’s yet to apologize to destiny, not only for putting her brother on blast but also putting destiny on the spot about having to put her dog down. amber is so incredibly low down and dirty but when it’s done to her she wants to fake cry and throw a pity party. she needs to learn that not everyone is owed forgiveness. i feel like in a way she’s been talking about herself, she’s been yapping for months now about how she’s changed soooo much but i really feel like she’s only trying to convince people of that so we can stop talking about all of her bs that’s been on her channel all these years even though she hasn’t come on camera once to
address or apologize for anything that we all know she needs to apologize for. she and her mom “changing”
doesn’t changed what’s happened,
people don’t have to forgive or forget.
at the end of the day she created all this mess by putting she and other people’s business on the internet yet somehow it’s her audience and reaction channels fault, bye amber
tbf destiny treated that dog horribly
😊😊😊😊😊
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@@izzy_izzy_izzybelleyeah i feel like they coulda just surrendered the dog to somewhere where the dog could get trained not to bite if he was biting everybody, or paid someone to train him til he stopped, or got a muzzle, something instead of shooting the poor thing :(
@@izzy_izzy_izzybelle maybe so but it wasn’t ambers business to share that, she was just trying to distract from her bs by trying to make destiny look bad when most the community doesn’t even like destiny in the first place. amber throws everyone under the bus to avoid responsibility
Anyone else thinking lawyer Lynn asked herself the question about defamation…? Lmao
it’s like the whole “guise the fbi is on my side!!” bs , she’s just trying to intimidate people with words she doesn’t even understand
Fr she doesn't realize it's not defamation if it's public records
@@michellealvarez1044 Exactly. Even if the public records were incorrect, no court would ever side with amber here in a defamation case. People read the public records correctly, it's not like they made it up out of thin air.
She "asked" herself all these questions
I would if she even knew what that word means lol. I guarantee she has no idea what that word means and would use it wrong like many other words before.
“It’s technically defamation” Amber I am *begging* to go watch Legal Eagle’s videos about defamation because that word does not mean what you think it means lol
Am I mistaken or has that false charge been on Mama Lynn's rap sheet for nearly a decade? If something that horrible was on my record I would be camped out at the courthouse until it was removed.
Makes no sense to me! How many job opportunities were missed based on this erroneous information. It's public record and anyone can pull it.Ten years...hayle nah! I would've camped out until they corrected the record/expunged. She was released with adjudicated and released with paper work. How do you let that kind of error ride for that long? No defamation suit to be had here...take it up with the Courts and Department of Corrections.
@@wonderwoman2435exactly! Employers rely on court records in background checks. Should Amber/Mamalynn sue them too?
@@claudiobeachball Yep! I'm a Fed (not FBI Frank) and my clearance reviews go over everything periodically...travels abroad, even down to my credit scores!
Ambers mom has a long rap sheet and probably didn’t even consider what was on it… she was convicted of elder abuse so I don’t know why she would be more concerned about the clerical error. To be fair, she was probably more worried about moving forward in life.
Defamation not only requires making false statements, it requires that the person who made the statements did so *knowing* the statements were false.
Her saying, "my mom was gonna do a cooking video with me but now she's not because of you guys." Is the equivalent of those little kids who hold birthday party invites over the heads of other kids they weren't going to invite anyway.
You can’t trash your parents online and then get upset when others start doing the same. It’s sad Amber can’t take responsibility as the cause of all of this.
I don’t think she “trashed” her parents online, I think she was just sharing her story
If someone brought up anyone’s parents past and it was false I think lots of people would be upset
@@kyleewaters9227yeah and that’s alr’s fault
@@kyleewaters9227she absolutely trashed her family in her old videos
@@kyleewaters9227 that she told us about! Amber is not new to the internet she knew how bad the trolls are. Her mom didn’t know how the internet is. Amber really screwed her mom over and is blaming the internet instead of herself
He corrected it by saying “oh she didn’t abuse a dog she abused her elderly mother”
I think it's a bit telling that instead of getting mad at the court for messing up the public record, she's mad at the reaction channels for commenting on the info that was put out by the court. How were they supposed to know that the court messed up? And of course, instead of contacting the court herself to get an official statement and clearing her mother's name, she wanted us to believe her, a known habitual liar, at her word.
Lazy lazy lazy and manipulative
Tbf, the responsibility for clarity is always on the reporter. If something is unclear, you confirm it before you report on it.
I know they aren’t journalists, but it’s akin to journalism and since they have such large platforms, the professional standards are still warranted. They should have gotten confirmation on this before reporting on it. These are public records and anyone could have asked the court, especially since it didn’t make sense in the first place.
Amber was lazy too, but it’s not her responsibility to double confirm sources. They dropped the ball there and I’m glad Alex saw that and apologized.
@@HelloCompanion The thing is the court's fuck up is a pretty big deal in itself. I do not blame people seeing official court documents and taking it at face value. That's what the public record is there for. The fact that it was actually inaccurate is a pretty big deal in itself and considering that's the kind of thing that would pop up in a background check and be used to determine if I got a job or housing, I'd be pretty mad at the courts if I was mamalynn or any of her family.
@@rabbit.enjoyer Yeah, but I’m saying that if anyone did due diligence and double confirmed the source (that means not only seeing what the source says but checking to see if it’s valid by contacting them) this wouldn’t have happened. The reason we found out it wasn’t true was because someone *did* double confirm it.
Like said, they aren’t journalists and this ain’t their day job, but this is a part of journalism and reporting. I don’t expect it, but when info turns out to be untrue, the ones who brought it up need to apologize because at the end of the day, that’s their onus and they have platforms.
@@HelloCompanion so you'd agree then that Amber should address, correct, and apologise for every false allegation she's made in the past, then? You know, because she has a platform.
To be super fair… why were reaction channels looking for her mom’s criminal record in the first place? Like that is super freaking weird. We watch this for Amber, not her family! So it’s fair to be mad at reaction channels
I honestly think she asks for Q&A’s so much cause she’s wanting to know how the mood is around her channel at that moment and then decides if she wants to post or not
Amber: ‘ Are you and valentine still together?’
Zach: ‘Who gives a 💩’
Exactly how everyone feels 🤣🤣🤣
It's a pretend relationship anyway.
I’m glad that Amber was able to forgive her mom and build a relationship with her. And I understand that when addicts genuinely change and make amends they deserve a chance to have a normal life. However, I know from experience that some things are so damaging (especially when they’re done to a child) that the survivor of that situation will never feel safe having a relationship with the addict. And some don’t change at all even when they’re sober. So while we should definitely advocate for recovering addicts who have grown and changed, we also can’t lose sight of the people that survived their abuse and we can’t make them feel like they need to be forgiving when they will spend a good chunk if not the rest of their lives managing the damage that someone else did to them.
Okay yes I agree, and in this situation I’m talking about Amberlynn who has chosen to forgive her mom and build a relationship with her. I think this specifically speaks to the part of this video where I talked about how it’s important to keep in mind I’m talking about Amberlynn specifically. I wasn’t advocating that everybody has to forgive addicts who were abusive to them.
@@ZacharyMichaelI totally understand! And thank you for your kind and empathetic response. You definitely made it clear that you’re talking about Amber specifically in this video. This is just a subject that hits close to home for me and I felt like it was important to make sure that the survivors are also part of the broader conversation.
At the end of the we don’t know about amber’s personal journey on the conversation of forgiveness and how it let up to Amber finally felt comfortable with her ex addict mother vs her feelings and experiences with father’s situation . 🤷🏻♀️
we don’t know this at the end of the day. Out if everything amber has wasted her time lying about this story would of been important and useful to hear for others? I think she can’t tell this story anymore because she doesn’t have a proper understanding of priorities in life and sees any type of flaw she could have as as weakness. She would rather cry about not being able to have a camera in her mom’s face…because it always comes back to that with if the people on her life can be used as props/characters for her channel.😅
She will also use this situation as a tool with her cringey war on reaction channels.
Though I think now she ultimate would benefit with therapy and I agree as someone who’s had a parent that had an addiction and recovered from it with Zack points. (My feelings are complex for this parent obviously but I still love and talk to them with a healthy distance only time will keep healing the rest. Im finally at peace with it .)
She did not ask her parents permission to talk about them 😂
Mom we have to lie so it doesn’t look bad. It always works out for me!
Like when I bought my own wedding ring .
Also I think if they did, they didn’t know what she would say to cope. Amber can get quite irresponsible.
...Also, why does she care if WE forgive her mom? Just move TF on for goodness sake.
Posted 2 minutes ago is insane. This is my first full day home alone post-divorce and I've been looking forward to ZM & cuddling with my dog time!
Hey congrats
I hope this time has been ok for you, and good luck moving into the future! Be kind to yourself during this time, and congrats on the finalization, the most stressful part is over 🎉🥳🎉
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Good luck in your future. And don't worry, the dog will always love you more than your partner anyway, they are the ones that should get all the love.
I hope you enjoy this new chapter of your life. You deserve love and happiness, don't ever settle for less than you deserve
Zach, I can't stop wondering why Amber is like, I told you we knew this wasn't real. IF YOU KNEW ABOUT IT WHY DIDN'T YOU OR YOUR MOM CONTACT THE COURTS? Or did she just hear people talk about and just went "wow crazy rumors just popping out of thin air." Amber needs to realize people believe what they see and it was completely understandable to trust the court records. If someone told me they found my name attached to a court case I had nothing to do with I'd go to the court to try to figure out.
THIS. “it’s a lie you guise stop talking about it” but it literally would have been so much easier to just have called up the local authorities.
Also - is her mom watching reaction videos? Otherwise, why is her mother upset. I would think her mom wouldn't know what anyone was saying about her unless she's actively engaging in Gorl World or ALR told her.
Lack of focus…of what’s truly important and fucking fixing that typo?? Because that could ruin opportunities. wild huh?
Why would they contact the court? She knows for what she went to prison and I would definitely NOT think that random shtheads from the internet looked into my criminal records. Wtf?
Also she said that the charge was for someone else that had the same name as her mom. Soooo which one is it a typo on the court records or someone else??
I completely understand Amberlynn''s protective stance on her mom, but I noticed how thrilled she was that MamaLynn showed her face, and I think she's more angry, at this point, about the fact that she knows her reaction "fans" have been clamoring for new side characters, and her reaction to MamaLynn being willing to go on camera showed that she thought MamaLynn would be the new side character to help revive interest, and she's PISSED that her Mom's past make it hard to incorporate her into the channel.
I'm afraid that this is 100% accurate.
Bingo.
Exactly.
I thought the same exact thing, thank you for saying it
There’s a character limit on that Instagram Q&A widget. That defamation “question” was wayyyy too long, she just wanted to talk about it 😂
None of this would have come up now if she had kept her mouth shut about it when she started social media. Now she says she never talked about it and its all the reaction channels faults.
Do you really think as a community we should be telling victims of childhood neglect and abuse to just shut up about it? I am not a fan of amber but she has every right to talk about her childhood.
My whole thing is she sat there and said she’s said stuff in videos that ended up being false but she believed it at that time so she’s not going to remove the videos. So for her to say the reaction channels should take down their videos when they believed it to be true at that time is hypocritical.
One time a boss told me to take a sick day because I was dealing with a very emotional situation. She said "angry clean your house, take a long bath, or just lay in bed and cry I don't care just give yourself time to feel better"
that's a good boss
I wish more folks had employers like that
I wish I had a boss like this. Mine ignores us and thinks about the company’s business. So you can get written up for less. Amber doesn’t understand shit and is super sheltered.😅
She didn't ask her parents if it was ok to talk about them 🙄 At the time that she started her channel, she said she had zero relationship with her parents. When she was just with Destiny, she said her mum had added her on Facebook and she hadn't spoken to her in years, and that she was "homeless and on drugs" She's literally just trying to portray herself in a good light.
Amber had every right to talk about her experiences as a child. It’s wild to me that people are telling a victim of child neglect and abuse that she should have just shut up about it. I’m not a fan of amber but this is insane to me. Amber has every right to talk about her childhood and also reestablish her relationship with her mother later.
@@emma2370 I said absolutely nothing about whether or not she has a right to talk about her childhood. My comment is purely referring to her not being truthful about asking her parents if they were ok with her discussing them when she first started her channel. My issue is with her lying, nothing to do with her talking about her childhood.
Idk, I just hear the Mr Crabs mini violin playing every time she starts with those nonexistent tears 🥴
Zach your hair is such an absolute fucking slay right now
oh thank you!
Agreed, like Prince Charming from Shrek when he takes of his hair net and shakes it ✨
Always looking shiny and silky. Beautiful.
As a daughter of a recovered alcoholic recovery doesn’t mean getting everyone to like you and forgive you… people DO NOT have to forgive addicts for their behavior when they were addicted that’s not the goal. Addicts need to know that not everyone will forgive them.
And she can’t decide if her “addict mom” was a totally different person or “she would never do that”…. Addicts do horrific things in addiction. And they don’t have to be forgiven
She is just so out of touch with what she does and has done. She talked about her family for money she always has, are you telling me after 10yrs of having a channel and seeing how reaction channels act towards her and how viewers react to her she didnt feel the need to protect her mom from it. All she saw was the opportunity for a side character and hopefully more viewers and more money
So many people don't know the actual definition of defamation. It's not just saying something that's false. Defamation is when you intentionally say something that you know is false with the intent of that person losing money or opportunities.
Amber : you can’t trash someone going through addiction
Also Amber : trashes her parents when it benefits HER and has compared food addiction to drugs, alcohol, and smoking.
She never talks about this…because she has shitty priorities;;;also she hates any type of flaw of not being a perfect victim.
Amber: you can’t trash someone going through addiction
Also ALR: Destiny ur brothers a coke addict
This is the consequences of HER actions.
Is reading court documents defamation? Even if it was a mistake its public record, take that up with the court.
Yes. Amber is an idiot
Not a..." my mom is in prison" compilation, Zachary!
Ma’am that’s not how defamation works. 😆
Victimlynn has shown time and time again that she cannot face the consequences of her actions
I feel like an idiot for getting annoyed by this, but Amber is blaming reaction channels for how they are...reacting to her video! SHE is the one who brought up all this shit about her mom. If she just dropped a video out of the blue that was "Cooking with Amber and Mamma-Lynn" people would have had a much more positive reaction. As always, she created the negative environment, and this time it as at her mom's expense.
100%! She’s a very exhausting person
She didn't bring up her criminal record! People whose business that is definitely NOT shared it online!
@@Kloetenhenne not sure about you but when someone says their mom has been in jail, I assume their mom has a criminal record.
@@jordansmith2380 yes. I would do, too. But I would NOT look it up and make it public and with that make a huge deal out of data about a person's life that I don't have anything to do with.
I know lol, she should've just ignored it and continued on her day.
Please pay someone with a cricket machine thing to make you a vinyl “it’s ready.” Sticker for that mug 😂
Oooh it should be one of those colour changing mugs that the words It’s Ready appear once a hot liquid is poured in
I enjoy hearing your take on it. The way you simply give the facts, no feelings is refreshing.
ok but like, amberlynn dying while eating a massive amount of pasta doesnt even sound unrealistic, though. she SHOULD have anxiety about that!
Like not even being funny or mean, that is a real ass possibility. Hell, it could happen on a walk with Twinkie! Amber’s health is at a place where anything could happen at any time and that’s something to rightfully be fearful of🙁
As someone who is heavily involved in a recovery program with fourteen years active sobriety, I have a lot to say, but I won't.
The clip of Amber whining about her aunt cutting her out of her life 'just because she has a food addiction' seems like one where she wasn't telling the whole story
Alrighty my Zach, I'll be addressing the "thirst trap" because I'm not seeing anyone else doing so, so here we go lol. People think a lot of them are "thirsty" because she's doing things like licking her lips, running her hands over her breasts/hair/neck etc, and trying to look seductive. Okay, love you Zach, glad you and Noel had a good trip!
regardless of how amber feels about her mom, she's primarily using her as her way to leave her house. if/when "valentine" was local and could drive her anywhere she wouldnt see her nearly as much. she has made it clear she doesnt even need to like her caregiver, she just needs SOMEONE willing to drive her places
She needs to say what she means with her whole chest. "Do i think (they) should delete their video? Well.."
You mean yes. Just say so.
First of all, ALR is the one who for 10 YEARS has spoken multiple times about her parents jail time, their (and her brother's) addiction(s) without their knowledge/consent. Plus i saw that her mom plead guilty to the k*lling of a service animal so kinda confused about that! How come when it's her she can say whatever she wants yet when someone else does it, it's "defamation"?! Also ALR acting like she's never used her parents stories of addiction & jail time for money over the years is wild! 🙄
Should amber say sorry for abusing and lying about her exes?
Zach I used to watch you back when I was in highschool and stopped for a long time and now I am getting my PhD! Feels nostalgic
That seems like not enough years for all that to happen lol
@@ZacharyMichael i started watching you in middle school and now i am close to graduating college 😭😭
@@ZacharyMichaelI’m starting my program this year never thought I’d get this far tbh I was a dropout so I feel really proud I’m the only one in my family to go to college and I just rediscovered the amberlyn community all over again
If she wants to sue anyone for defamation then it should be the courts since they’re the ones who made the error, everyone else was just going off the documents they provided but pop off with those underhand threats mama!
But Amberlynn with her own mouth said “that’s someone else with the same name as my mom”. So her statement no longer matters?
Full offense, the way some folks were sooo excited about her mother ALLEGEDLY being an animal abuser was insane and gross.
I agree.
And now that it's shown to be untrue moved the goal post to well she abused an elderly woman. We don't know that story at all, court records do not give context, so say 2 people get into an argument, one shoves the other, so they retaliate and hit them, cops get called, second person, who is high on some drug, gets arrested, boom assault charge. Not saying it's right to hit anyone, but we don't know what happened.
people don’t support recovery the way they think they do, this whole situation was nasty.
I agree with you.
Even in 2020 she posted a full day of her binge eating because it was mother's day.
Holy…
I have a hard time taking Amber's whole talk about how people should leave her mom's addiction in the past and move on from it when she herself has used Destiny's brother being an addict against her and has in the past talked negatively about her mother for content. As well assuming everyone who thinks what her mother did was wrong "doesn't know what it's like to have family members who are addicts or have never faced addiction" is such a weird assumption to make, I've known a lot of addicts and none of them have ever abused the elderly...
Legally, reaction channels had reasonable belief that MamaLynn did commit the crimes because the court website says that she did. A reasonable person would believe that the court record was accurate. Malice is required for defamation so a keystroke error doesn’t make the court or an employee of the court guilty of defamation because there is no malice in a simple error. Plus AmberLynn has no standing to sue, MamaLynn would have to sue. .
So… there is no legal case for defamation.
For me it was never the ‘if she did it’ it was Amberlynn being so appalled that people believed she did it. It wouldn’t be the worst thing on her rap sheet 😅
Same though
Ahhh the way she says fwoood bugs me
Have you heard her say the word “kitten”???? YOUD CLAW YOUR EARDRUMS OUT ☹️
The reason she doesn’t communicate with her viewers when she’s taking time off comes down to her having no appreciation for them. That’s the difference between Zach and Amber. He shows his viewers respect. She could never. 🙄
1000% and yet she still doesn’t understand why she has massed the so much ‘haydurs’ online. She doesn’t respect her audience so why should they respect her?
They are just supply for her narcissism. She only values them as much as they can give her attention, and as long as she can replace them with new viewers who knows nothing about her history, current viewers will mean nothing
Amberlynn pretending she just heard through the grapevine what the reaction channels are saying has the same vibes as me telling my husband I read something somewhere when I know full well it was an Instagram reel.
Mamalynn has a past, we know this thanks to ALR bringing it up a good deal, it's nothing new to hear stories about it especially in scenarios it could be used for pity by ALR. That said it is up to the family to forgive and forget, which they have done according to them, and it should be their own private business. ALR however has monetized that trauma from her past, invoked it as a shield, and is now upset that people are delving into it despite her wishes for them to stop. We shouldn't get to involved in the people around her, but it is just a case that some folks are going to be more invested in the lives of people she brings on. It is good that Mamalynn is clean, sober, and has clearly tried to make amends to her family, a thing that we don't deserve because we didn't suffer at her hands while she was on drugs, but the parasocial relationship developed by the audience for good or ill will make them twice as invested in those new people. My own belief is she should have given her mom a platform to talk about her addiction, humanize her to the audience, and let her talk about the times she feels comfortable discussing. I worry (maybe I'm being paranoid) that the reason ALR didn't do that is because the stories told might contradict her own lies or stories from the past and lead to another long winded apology about being a liar.
Follow up that has nothing to do with her mother. Why does ALR constantly state she likes something in the same tone of voice that I associate with her disliking something. Like she does that psuedo-valley girl stressing of works that just comes across as fake.
Amberlynn not only trashed her parents for almost 10 years but she also talked about her ex's parents and monetized their problems as "tea." Now when ppl do the same she has a problem. In any other circumstance, people would distance themselves from their abuse parents. But Amberlynn is so incompetent and useless at everything she now needs her mom to be her caretaker. Sad.
She can talk about her trauma from her parents and give her thoughts about it. You can too, but you must understand that this is not the same. If I tell my partner, “Yeah, my mom was super neglectful when I was a kid and it messed me up a bit” and his response is overtly inflammatory to the woman I’m trying to reconnect with, I’d be upset too. It’s MY trauma, not yours. It’s MY experience to navigate and decide on, not yours. These are my decisions to make, not yours.
Just because you or “most” people would do something in the event of an abusive parent trying to make amends doesn’t mean this is the rule.
Y’all are way too deep in the koolaid here, and it’s so weird to me. Just say, “Oh, I didn’t have all the info and made unnecessary judgements, oops.” like a normal person.
@@HelloCompanion why are you spending so much time defending her here? What part of "you don't get to control other people's opinions of you" don't you understand? Amber puts her life online - she could stop, but she doesn't. She could remove herself and her mom from the toxicity, but she doesn't. Of course it's her life and her story but it doesn't mean she gets to control how people feel about her or her mom. The reason people do not have a lot of sympathy for her in this situation is because she has treated other people's issues as 'tea' in the past (Destiny's brother's addiction for example). Why is she owed empathy when she doesn't give that to others?
@@jordansmith2380 I call out bad behavior regardless of how I feel about the person doing it. I try to be a fair person because I want to be treated fairly. I’m giving the energy I wish to receive.
Her putting stuff online is her prerogative, but nobody is forcing y’all to make up and spread these stories. You’re acting like you just simply cannot help yourself from spreading misinformation.
You can say Amber doesn’t give all the info necessary to come to a reasonable conclusion, but it’s not really her responsibility to. She doesn’t HAVE to tell any of us anything. Just because she doesn’t clarify something does not give us the right to scour through her family’s personal history to create and spread a narrative around.
Why do you feel entitled to this info from her? You aren’t and need to remember that despite consuming daily media from her online, you *do not know these people* and your knowledge of their situations ends exactly where they stop giving it to you. If you wanna take these tidbits and create a story to fill in the blanks to make it make sense, that’s all good and fun, but when you tout this narrative as fact and then get proven wrong, I don’t know what to tell you if you don’t understand why that’s no bueno. The difference between observation and assertion is the literal difference between an opinion and a lie, regardless on intent. Feel how you feel, but don’t push ideas to affirm your narrative.
@@HelloCompanionthere’s a BIG difference between sharing information like this with a partner and sharing with the entire internet. It’s reasonable to have expectations that your partner will keep your confidence and be discreet. There is no such expectation for internet strangers. To make that comparison is really weird.
@@HelloCompanionalso, the information is publicly available. No one hired a PI to delve into her mother’s past. This information has also been floating around in GW for years. It just resurfaced because Amber wanted to make her mother a side character.
The reason why ppl are coming for you so hard is because you absolve Amber of any responsibility for the situation, and you think it makes sense to scold the internet for being the internet. You say you’re being fair, but you don’t keep the same energy for Amber. You think strangers who do not know her have the same obligation towards her as a partner or a therapist, which is a strange, naive and delusional take.
It's not even an alternative Semglatude or however it's spelled is the Chemical name of Ozempic. They are 100% the same thing.
Exactly. Ozempic is the brand name of the chemical semaglutide.
I can't relate to ALR taking mental health days, because she puts almost no effort into her "job" when she does it .
Well it's all our fault that anything bad ever happens to miss gorliepop so we should really just apologize for merely existing in the same universe as her.
People need to keep private people out of this mess that is gorldworld ffs!
@@KloetenhenneAMBER needs to keep private people out of GW
Slapping receipts on the counter-love the accountability clips! Bravo!
I forgot that Amber said she "lost" he aunt but not because she's dead but because she doesn't want to talk to her anymore 🤯
No, there's no apology needed unless they want to. This has been discussed since about 2019 or earlier. She knew it was there, her mom had to have known it was there, unless she is a complete moron, and none of them tried to fix it. It was on her record, there was no reason for reaction channels to think it was a mistake, because what kind of idiot would let that effect their future.
If her parents were active in their addictions how/why would they agree to her talking about their history.
Exactly & she wasn’t even in contact with either of her parents in the Krystal era & she spoke about them & their addictions constantly 🙄🤦🏻♀️
Tbf Jealousy is a valid emotion anyone can feel, in or out of relationship context, it’s more of how you as an individual handle that emotion that changes things. If your reaction to it is to lash out, tear someone down, or let it have a negative impact on yourself, then you may need to talk to a professional about it. But if you just feel it and move on and don’t let it overtake your whole day/moment, then I’d say that’s pretty normal. I can be jealous that a dress looks better on the model than it does me, but I just move on and realize that’s not reality and everyone has their own opinion about it. I’d never start nitpicking the model or myself out of jealousy.
No way. Amber put this out there, not reaction channels. Everything she complains about like this is 100% self inflicted. She needs to either shut her mouth or quit.
AHHH posted 24 seconds ago, LETS GOOOO! Just got done guest teaching and I am home and ready for a bubble bath and Zach. ❤
You’re so quick!
@@ZacharyMichael I am just chasing the serotonin. Today was ROUGH Zach. I appreciate all you do.
@sophiarose8018 don't know you but here's some big hugs!!
She clearly is asking a lot of these questions herself. She is delusional if she thinks a med spa is going to give her semaglutide considering all her ailments.
7:15 thank you Zach for supporting people who had a bad time with addiction. I spent a decade in addiction and I just celebrated 9 years clean on March 2nd. I did some really stupid things in addiction. But we can change! I had my miracle baby after being clean 2 years! ❤I feel terrible how Amber used to trash her own mom for content and now she is seeking sympathy. I do believe her mom is a better person, but Amber had caused this mess! She should be apologizing to her own mom for the stuff she said on the internet about her! It’s a crazy subject.
I know it's been a while since your comment but I just wanted to say congrats on your sobriety and I'm genuinely proud of you and your strength ❤
I have a lot of empathy for addicts but at the same time she needs to take accountability for her actions. She did those things and nothing in life can change that.
Amber didn’t do those things though… why are we assuming ambers mom hasn’t taken accountability for her actions? The victims have forgiven momma lynn so why is this community holding it against her?
@@emma2370 I tink it's perfectly fair if some people want to hold those things against her. I personally don't care what she has done but ALR can't expect everybody to feel that way. For some people, certain things are unforgivable and part of taking accountability for crap behaviour is realising that. I am happy that ALR has forgiven her but based on her own food addiction she clearly hasn't worked through all the trauma she experienced as child.
I’ve been rewatching your old videos bestie. Your content brings me joyyyyyy thank you
I said this before but as an addict I totally can relate to this on some level. I never beat anyone or went to jail in my addiction. BUT I did a lot of shameful things that I today would be horrified if people kept bringing it up or bashing me even decades later. IMO she paid the time for her crime and changed her life for the better. I’m sure she isn’t the same person as she was 20 years ago. Yes, you should take accountability for your actions. But I don’t agree with how far some people have taken it. I’m sure not a lot of people will agree with me but we’re all allowed to have our own opinions. I’m not sticking up for her or anything it’s just how I would feel in that situation
10yrs ago... it was 10 yrs.
I agree 💕
@@evenstar04 I heard it was 17 years ago but either way
Thank you. I really don’t like amber but if momma lynn has served her time and has worked on being forgiven by the people she hurt with her addiction I don’t know why strangers on the internet can’t just let it go. We have allowed people who commit murder to move on with their lives.
@@evenstar04why does the timing even matter? Momma lynn served her time and seems to be sober. If the victims have forgiven her I don’t think it matters how long ago it was.
I don’t think she ever asked her parents what they thought about her sharing their stories. If she had she wouldn’t have filmed Krystal in the bathroom or anytime a gf didn’t want to be filmed…
Legal-lynn is one of the worst lynns
I saw the reading comprehension tik tok and immediately thought of you, Zach! You spend so much of your time and energy explaining caveats, nuances, and exceptions just to keep others from being triggered, which is kind and amazing, but sometimes I wish were able to make a statement about ALR (or whomever) and feel safe doing so.
“Let’s go to that therapist, baby!” Guys I’ve started therapy I’m on session 4 🎉🎉🎉🎉
I just wtarted my first ever 40 hour week. Ive had ao much time to watch these videos but im so tired when i get home and dont have an hour to watch this. God i hate waiting for my day off to catch up on the teaaaa. Not saying dont make hour long videos!! I love them!! Just wish i had time when they come out 😭
I will actually lose respect for any reaction channel that backtracks on this. She has spent years trashing her parents, airing their shameful history and acting like their actions were unforgivable. Now that she is alone and needs a caregiver, suddenly her mother is a changed woman who deserves everyone to just forgive and forget all the heinous things she did? They are both addicts, both abusers and they are enabling each other. Of course she is going to defend her. She is her mother is many ways.
you spilled!!!
Counterpoint: Those things happened decades ago and people can change. If Amber feels like she wants to build a relationship with her mom, then that’s fine. Your opinion on the matter is irrelevant.
She can spend 10 years talking about being neglected by her mom. She can also decide to stop focusing on these things and move past them to rekindle a relationship with her mother. She has chosen the latter and that’s perfectly acceptable behavior.
Y’all are getting way too personal to these people you’ve never met and don’t know you exist. Then, y’all are quick to project your insecurities on a situation to affirm your narrative. It’s parasocial at this point.
Edit: I’m not a fan of Amber, but right is right and wrong is wrong, and y’all are dead-ass wrong here, unfortunately.
@@HelloCompanion nobody has to forgive Amber's mom for anything. Nobody owes Amber's mom anything. The fact Amber has been able to forgive her mom great for her, but she doesn't get to tell other people how to feel. Amber's mom getting sober should have been done for herself and her family - that is the point. Amber sitting there saying "What is the point of getting sober if everyone doesn't forgive you?" is fucking mad.
@@jordansmith2380 Why do you care so much? The main people affected by her addiction forgave her and are willing to move past it. It does not matter the reason or how you feel about it because it does not concern you.
You can feel how you feel and say how you feel, but the line a lot of y’all are crossing without realizing (parasocial relationships do this) is that you AREN’T involved in the situation and AREN’T entitled to any discourse or closure on your end.
I don’t know how to tell you this, but if you ever find yourself listening to a story about how someone is forgiving their abusive parent and trying to rekindle their bond and you start a sentence with “Well, what about ME and how I feel about her trauma?!” you are dead wrong every single time lol. Like said, just because you watch her videos does not mean you are a part of the story or her life. That’s the biggest problem in this community; y’all do not know when to just let stuff happen- it’s always gotta involve you somehow. Y’all can’t just ever enjoy the drama and leave it alone. You always gotta cowtip.
@@jordansmith2380I don’t really understand how people can actively say “nobody has to forgive Amber’s mom for anything. Nobody owes Amber’s mom that” when legitimately- nobody except for Amber, her grandma and other potential victims not known or spoken of on the internet should be the ones to choose to forgive or not. Sure people can have their personal opinions or thoughts- but nobody here except Amber, her grandma and other potential victims has the actual right of to forgive or not forgive. The internet wasn’t victimized by Amber’s mom. Doesn’t matter what her mom did- it didn’t and doesn’t affect us. Her mom served her time, she seems to be an active participant in acknowledging her faults and past, and is continuously working on her sobriety, family relationships and herself (likely I dunno her)
It IS weird; to hold such a strong statement saying she is not owed forgiveness or that nobody has to forgive her; when she didn’t harm anybody outside this realm. What Amber has done by monetizing her life and what her mom did to her- honestly is her business and I don’t personally care. Plenty of people monetized or just spoke of their traumatic past before, many times before. Amber is at fault for many things, and she can be an idiot for a lot of things as well. However she entitled to choose forgiveness or not; doesn’t matter what the internet says and feels.
The internet is not owed this- at least from her mother who is legitimately trying to be a better parent and citizen in the present day.
I am in no way shape or form an Amber lover- in fact she does a lot of things I am critical of; but I think this is an issue that the internet is crossing the line of
Zach, you cannot possibly believe she asked her parents permission to talk about them on her channel. When she started her channel she wasnt even in contact with them. Not to mention, she spent the last 10 years betraying the trust of everyone around her by airing all their dirty laundry, why the hell should i believe she treated her parents any differently?
38:10 Amberlynn, you’re wrong. You could very well have a heart attack at any point, whether the pasta, pizza or double cheese burger from McDonald’s is present or not. I honestly am amazed she has such cognitive dissonance that she believes that at her weight it’s “unlikely” that she will have a heart attack. It’s actually more than likely, and she really doesn’t have the luxury of time. Not like before. Every time I click a new video she’s sitting down talking, enough. Enough talking Gorl, either get up and move or get out a Mukbang. “Big are you calling me BIG” that’s another one that boils my blood. Yea, you’re basically an island for your dog to cling to when you dropped her in the river… that’s a BIG CHERRY in my book 🍒🏝️ Honestly, I feel Foodie and Amberlynn are both not going to make it to 2030 and that’s only 6 years. Foodie could be gone by NYE given she’s now 40. Ambers only saving grace was her being so young still but 23 turned to 26 then to 33 real quick and all we saw was her sink deeper. These girls are on borrowed time complaining about things that don’t matter. Wild
Everything triggers her…she needs to live in a bubble if everything is triggering and hard. Especially since she doesn’t have a lot responsibilities or a full time heck a part time job. Her job is considered casual yet she can’t handle ANYTHING.
Get over yourself girly!!!
Omg nobody WANTS anything from MammaLynn! People are reacting to freshly received upsetting(!) information. And those who knew are joining the discussion since it’s currently going on
I think that she is the one who writes the Q&A questions.
Oh I am so ready for the Twister movie! I just rewatched the original Twister a few months ago.
I want to thank you for your kindness, consideration and empathy to all people struggling with addiction. I am an addict who is trying to better my life. I also have parents who had a long period of active addiction. And I have friends who struggle with addiction. It is such an alienating feeling being an addict during addiction and during recovery. There is so much stigma against addicts too. I've seen addiction first as a child seeing my parents go through hell, and not understanding why they couldn't just stop. It's hard for people to understand the power of addiction unless you have been through it, or have friends or family who have been through it. Even when I first dabbled with hard stuff, I knew it was risky, but I thought I would keep the power I had over my decisions at the time. No one wants to be an addict or chooses addiction. Things get out of control so fast. Thank you for your respect about this, addicts are humans who are suffering.
Omg i am so glad to see you back bestie!!!❤🎉
I hope the wedding was as wonderful as you are.