@@moranphillips2064 towards the end of the movie before it ends in the club she told Sara congrats for getting into Juliard, & that if Sara needs more moves Chenille’s got her. Then hugged Sara, so in the end they were still friends
@@laurynalana1876 it looked as if sara was still hurt from what chenille said to her at the clinic when chenille congratulated sara for getting into julliard
Honestly, just because you are having issues with your boyfriend doesn't give you the right to judge or lash out at your best friend just because she's having a beautiful relationship with your brother, what Chenille said to Sarah doesn't justify nothing except to just mind her own business, you got issues work it out with your boyfriend, don't blame others for your personal affairs.
Great Clip! Chenille should've minded her own business. A Black Man and White Woman are so cute together. All that matters is they have God First, A Good Personality, Heart and Soul! At the end of the day all that matters is you're with someone who cares about you just like you care about them!
When this came out, I was about 15/16, at that time Sara was my favorite character. Well, now that I am older, I've discovered I like Chenille better. Sure, she shouldn't have said what she said to Sara at the clinic but she was upset and frustrated because of Kenny, which is still no excuse, but still, she is my favorite character now.
i really would have like to know what happened with Chenille and Kenny when Derek left. But it seemed like he obviously came to see her in the first place. and judging how the movie ended with the two of them at the club i guess maybe they were able to truly resolve their issues of which would be a wonderful thing.
No, those kind of issues take years of therapy to fix. Chenille fell in love with a “snake oil salesman”. Kenny Promised her the world so she’d have sex with him. He was just going to have his “fun” with her and leave her. But he never counted on chenille getting pregnant. And neither did she. Chenille fell in love and Kenny wanted to just “hit it and quit it.”🤷🏻♀️ and a baby happened. So both of them had to deal with that. And you could tell Kenny had a very hard time with that. They were both too young playing adult games.
@@destinywhite2063 yea sis could’ve used birth control or made him strap up. She also should’ve considered how he would feel about being pregnant bc he clearly didn’t want any kids and wasn’t ready for fatherhood . She pretty much became another statistic and didn’t hold herself to a higher standard
First of all, Nikki had some nerve to even say that because she _cheated_ on Derek and now she wants to get jealous and point out how Sara is "stealing" Derek, who is rare in the community
"You can't help who you love... when you love somebody, you love 'em..." . She says this so emphatically, like she's trying to convince him while he's arguing against being with Sara. Which is weird, because she (and Nikki) were the ones arguing against it, not him... the aggressive true-love-ftw tone is totally misplaced (and hypocritical), coming from her. o_O;
@iprobablyforgotsomething She was really doing self-realization because she knew that it wasn't right to take it out on Sara just because she too was jealous of their relationship when she didn't have a good relationship with Kenny
She's right, you can't help who you love. You're not supposed. It's doesn't matter if you're from a different background, as long as that person respects you and makes you happy, that's what matters
Honey, that doesn’t make any difference. Many adults don’t have any idea either. Just look at the divorce rate in the US. That tells you everything you need to know.
Sara was nothing but a loyal friend to Chanille, and this was how she treated her. But to its film credit at least it doesn’t go into stupid route that that Sara is somehow wrong for whatever. Still, she had no right to project her insecurities like that on Sara and ruin happiness for her brother. So at least she does admit she was wrong. Just because you have your own issues does not mean you could project her insecurities on to others
My little sister married a nice guy that's half black and half Hispanic. Luckily, because of where we live, they didn't get a bunch of attitude for their relationship. The only major problem they've had was infertility issues, but after 5 years, they were able to have an adorable little boy (our first nephew! And my hubby's little buddy 🥰 lol)
@That Girl Koscinski is my married name and I am far from racist! I have no problem with any race! And if he was white and wanted me barefoot and pregnant I would still have the same problem because of him being so possessive. And there was so much more to the story with my boyfriend that I am glad I got away from him. I witnessed his brother beat his wife for no good reason and I was told that it would happen to me if I didn't behave. So next time you ever call me a racist find out the true story first
@That Girl OMG all I meant was that the original poster's sister was lucky enough to find a good man who was Hispanic and treated her well. Maybe I shouldn't have put in that my ex was Hispanic, but by all means I meant no disrespect. Because you are right, it did mean that he was just an asshole.
Yeah, you can. Someone has to do something to you for you to hate them. And you can still choose to ignore them and not hate them. But some don’t have the ability to do that.
I will say this at least he had a sister who wasn't wrong to admit it because it's others who won't. Although it's a movie a good movie at that, it clearly shows you how emotional women are and how they manage to hurt others who care because of another man who's hurt or upset them
She didn't the look on her face when Sarah left said it all. I kind of felt like she just didn't really know how to truly apologize to her about it. Cause in the next scene she comes up to Sarah she was felt awkward about possibly burning a bridge with her
He had a right to be mad. She was in the wrong to lash out at Sarah, she didn’t mind her business and Derek was absolutely right to be pissed at her.
Kerry Washington and Sean Patrick Thomas are Brilliant Actors.🙌🙌🙌
At least she was able see how wrong she was to do that to Sara, whose been nothing but a good friend to her
Yes like Sarah at the doctor helping her out with the baby while Kenny‘s deadbeat ass wasn’t there
Did she even apologize to sara for what she said to her?
@@moranphillips2064 towards the end of the movie before it ends in the club she told Sara congrats for getting into Juliard, & that if Sara needs more moves Chenille’s got her. Then hugged Sara, so in the end they were still friends
@@laurynalana1876 it looked as if sara was still hurt from what chenille said to her at the clinic when chenille congratulated sara for getting into julliard
@@moranphillips2064 that’s cuz they haven’t talked since
"You cant help who you love derek"
She's telling him like he don't know that already lol
To be honest I think she was doing like most do in self realization and was talking to herself
She was thinking out loud to herself
Moral of the story...Mind your damn Business!!
Amen
preach 👏👏
@Brother Logic yah feel me!!
If he had slapped her upside the head I woulda looked the other way
@@THERSC216 loo
basically, chenille should've kept her damn mouth shut
0:38 so true well spoken
Honestly, just because you are having issues with your boyfriend doesn't give you the right to judge or lash out at your best friend just because she's having a beautiful relationship with your brother, what Chenille said to Sarah doesn't justify nothing except to just mind her own business, you got issues work it out with your boyfriend, don't blame others for your personal affairs.
Exactly
I was looking for this scene
I am looking for the one.
The first day after school.
Awesome movie!!
Great Clip! Chenille should've minded her own business. A Black Man and White Woman are so cute together. All that matters is they have God First, A Good Personality, Heart and Soul! At the end of the day all that matters is you're with someone who cares about you just like you care about them!
Wow I wish the world could be this easy going
When this came out, I was about 15/16, at that time Sara was my favorite character. Well, now that I am older, I've discovered I like Chenille better. Sure, she shouldn't have said what she said to Sara at the clinic but she was upset and frustrated because of Kenny, which is still no excuse, but still, she is my favorite character now.
i really would have like to know what happened with Chenille and Kenny when Derek left. But it seemed like he obviously came to see her in the first place. and judging how the movie ended with the two of them at the club i guess maybe they were able to truly resolve their issues of which would be a wonderful thing.
It's a deleted scene on the DVD
No, those kind of issues take years of therapy to fix. Chenille fell in love with a “snake oil salesman”. Kenny Promised her the world so she’d have sex with him. He was just going to have his “fun” with her and leave her. But he never counted on chenille getting pregnant. And neither did she.
Chenille fell in love and Kenny wanted to just “hit it and quit it.”🤷🏻♀️ and a baby happened. So both of them had to deal with that. And you could tell Kenny had a very hard time with that. They were both too young playing adult games.
@@destinywhite2063 yea sis could’ve used birth control or made him strap up. She also should’ve considered how he would feel about being pregnant bc he clearly didn’t want any kids and wasn’t ready for fatherhood . She pretty much became another statistic and didn’t hold herself to a higher standard
It’s getting cold out here take that baby inside
Lmao
Just done watching this movie i love this movie but chenille didn't mean what she said to sara
First of all, Nikki had some nerve to even say that because she _cheated_ on Derek and now she wants to get jealous and point out how Sara is "stealing" Derek, who is rare in the community
Amo!!!!!Esse filme!!
After having a little one of my own this scene hits so different. Smh.
How can I get the full movie,I have been trying to get it,I want to watch it again,it was my best movie then
Straight up 💯🤙🏾
"You can't help who you love... when you love somebody, you love 'em..."
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She says this so emphatically, like she's trying to convince him while he's arguing against being with Sara. Which is weird, because she (and Nikki) were the ones arguing against it, not him... the aggressive true-love-ftw tone is totally misplaced (and hypocritical), coming from her. o_O;
I think she was talking to herself to be honest. I notice how alot of people do that in self-realization scenes.
@@dimensionzone8048 Huh... well, possibly. I'll have to rewatch this with that perspective in mind, see if it makes more sense to me.
@iprobablyforgotsomething
She was really doing self-realization because she knew that it wasn't right to take it out on Sara just because she too was jealous of their relationship when she didn't have a good relationship with Kenny
Recorded on a talkboy mic. Nice touch! 👌🏾
I agree with her.
00:37 to 00:52 at 19
I felt that
Now at 20 years later: i still feel that
Its the truth
She's right, you can't help who you love. You're not supposed. It's doesn't matter if you're from a different background, as long as that person respects you and makes you happy, that's what matters
I'll never understand this part of the movie, Who takes their baby to the park in the cold weather like that.
Lots of people from what I seen. Especially in New York
Derek is pissed
Funny how she is confessing but in the same breath is scolding him for not having the white girl..
Teeny boppers talking about love!! Lol they have no idea.. lust driven love.. lol 😂
Honey, that doesn’t make any difference. Many adults don’t have any idea either. Just look at the divorce rate in the US.
That tells you everything you need to know.
Sara was nothing but a loyal friend to Chanille, and this was how she treated her. But to its film credit at least it doesn’t go into stupid route that that Sara is somehow wrong for whatever. Still, she had no right to project her insecurities like that on Sara and ruin happiness for her brother. So at least she does admit she was wrong. Just because you have your own issues does not mean you could project her insecurities on to others
I think Sean Patrick Thomas is cute and I have a crush on him ❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕
My little sister married a nice guy that's half black and half Hispanic. Luckily, because of where we live, they didn't get a bunch of attitude for their relationship.
The only major problem they've had was infertility issues, but after 5 years, they were able to have an adorable little boy (our first nephew! And my hubby's little buddy 🥰 lol)
Awww congrats! 😍
Your sister is lucky. I dated a Hispanic man who wanted to keep me barefoot and pregnant with no life of my own. Thank goodness I got away from him.
Congrats.
@That Girl Koscinski is my married name and I am far from racist! I have no problem with any race! And if he was white and wanted me barefoot and pregnant I would still have the same problem because of him being so possessive. And there was so much more to the story with my boyfriend that I am glad I got away from him. I witnessed his brother beat his wife for no good reason and I was told that it would happen to me if I didn't behave. So next time you ever call me a racist find out the true story first
@That Girl OMG all I meant was that the original poster's sister was lucky enough to find a good man who was Hispanic and treated her well. Maybe I shouldn't have put in that my ex was Hispanic, but by all means I meant no disrespect. Because you are right, it did mean that he was just an asshole.
Chanel didn't mean to say just got away from her.
10yr later Olivia and Fitz. Same song different dance
That's right tell her to stay out of your business she should've minded her own business in the first place!!!.
0:39-0:44 oh shut up
0:56-0:58 that's right mind yo business 💯
The girl is really beautiful young woman and really fit ❤️ X
Derek and Chenille had an argument at small playground
Cant help whom you hate either
@Nemya Blue very ugly I know
That’s a fair point
Yeah, you can. Someone has to do something to you for you to hate them. And you can still choose to ignore them and not hate them. But some don’t have the ability to do that.
I guess Olivia Pope took her own advice lmao.
this is real life story!
I will say this at least he had a sister who wasn't wrong to admit it because it's others who won't. Although it's a movie a good movie at that, it clearly shows you how emotional women are and how they manage to hurt others who care because of another man who's hurt or upset them
Derek is mad
Seem like a lifetime ago
Somehow, Kerry has since learned to turn off her NY accent.
What a horrible friend
She was nothing but a fffffffffffffff JEALOUS/ENVIOUS B*********SH!!!!!!!!
KEEP your distance from Women and Men who are this Way 💯
Derek sister was right
@Red Boah Sutherland I don't think she meant it either.
She didn't the look on her face when Sarah left said it all. I kind of felt like she just didn't really know how to truly apologize to her about it. Cause in the next scene she comes up to Sarah she was felt awkward about possibly burning a bridge with her
Woow she mess up with her friend and now her brother because she isn't have to her about that
Nikki had a point of white woman and black men together?? I thought Kenny did love u chenille
Does that mean they shouldn’t be together?
@@joewhitehead3 it’s just a movie it was gr8 acting
They don’t make movies like they use to