You can't help who you love, Derek!

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  • Опубликовано: 14 дек 2024

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  • @cupcakequeen0617
    @cupcakequeen0617 3 года назад +200

    He had a right to be mad. She was in the wrong to lash out at Sarah, she didn’t mind her business and Derek was absolutely right to be pissed at her.

  • @Crazymike1975
    @Crazymike1975 4 года назад +118

    Kerry Washington and Sean Patrick Thomas are Brilliant Actors.🙌🙌🙌

  • @joewhitehead3
    @joewhitehead3 3 года назад +256

    At least she was able see how wrong she was to do that to Sara, whose been nothing but a good friend to her

    • @laurynalana1876
      @laurynalana1876 Год назад +25

      Yes like Sarah at the doctor helping her out with the baby while Kenny‘s deadbeat ass wasn’t there

    • @moranphillips2064
      @moranphillips2064 Год назад +6

      Did she even apologize to sara for what she said to her?

    • @laurynalana1876
      @laurynalana1876 Год назад +13

      @@moranphillips2064 towards the end of the movie before it ends in the club she told Sara congrats for getting into Juliard, & that if Sara needs more moves Chenille’s got her. Then hugged Sara, so in the end they were still friends

    • @moranphillips2064
      @moranphillips2064 Год назад +3

      @@laurynalana1876 it looked as if sara was still hurt from what chenille said to her at the clinic when chenille congratulated sara for getting into julliard

    • @laurynalana1876
      @laurynalana1876 Год назад +1

      @@moranphillips2064 that’s cuz they haven’t talked since

  • @NightOwlOfMiami
    @NightOwlOfMiami 2 года назад +74

    "You cant help who you love derek"
    She's telling him like he don't know that already lol

    • @dimensionzone8048
      @dimensionzone8048 2 года назад +13

      To be honest I think she was doing like most do in self realization and was talking to herself

    • @EllenGorey
      @EllenGorey 3 месяца назад +1

      She was thinking out loud to herself

  • @nellyluscious
    @nellyluscious 5 лет назад +239

    Moral of the story...Mind your damn Business!!

  • @brandonscott782
    @brandonscott782 4 года назад +143

    basically, chenille should've kept her damn mouth shut

  • @brendenferland6602
    @brendenferland6602 2 года назад +7

    0:38 so true well spoken

  • @greenvalley87
    @greenvalley87 2 года назад +83

    Honestly, just because you are having issues with your boyfriend doesn't give you the right to judge or lash out at your best friend just because she's having a beautiful relationship with your brother, what Chenille said to Sarah doesn't justify nothing except to just mind her own business, you got issues work it out with your boyfriend, don't blame others for your personal affairs.

  • @allisagarcia7746
    @allisagarcia7746 6 лет назад +77

    I was looking for this scene

  • @skylerreddy5436
    @skylerreddy5436 4 года назад +16

    Awesome movie!!

  • @joecool97
    @joecool97 2 года назад +32

    Great Clip! Chenille should've minded her own business. A Black Man and White Woman are so cute together. All that matters is they have God First, A Good Personality, Heart and Soul! At the end of the day all that matters is you're with someone who cares about you just like you care about them!

  • @SNixon14
    @SNixon14 4 года назад +60

    When this came out, I was about 15/16, at that time Sara was my favorite character. Well, now that I am older, I've discovered I like Chenille better. Sure, she shouldn't have said what she said to Sara at the clinic but she was upset and frustrated because of Kenny, which is still no excuse, but still, she is my favorite character now.

  • @2719810911
    @2719810911 4 года назад +31

    i really would have like to know what happened with Chenille and Kenny when Derek left. But it seemed like he obviously came to see her in the first place. and judging how the movie ended with the two of them at the club i guess maybe they were able to truly resolve their issues of which would be a wonderful thing.

    • @lilmama121
      @lilmama121 3 года назад +4

      It's a deleted scene on the DVD

    • @destinywhite2063
      @destinywhite2063 2 года назад +8

      No, those kind of issues take years of therapy to fix. Chenille fell in love with a “snake oil salesman”. Kenny Promised her the world so she’d have sex with him. He was just going to have his “fun” with her and leave her. But he never counted on chenille getting pregnant. And neither did she.
      Chenille fell in love and Kenny wanted to just “hit it and quit it.”🤷🏻‍♀️ and a baby happened. So both of them had to deal with that. And you could tell Kenny had a very hard time with that. They were both too young playing adult games.

    • @saucygyal6480
      @saucygyal6480 2 года назад

      @@destinywhite2063 yea sis could’ve used birth control or made him strap up. She also should’ve considered how he would feel about being pregnant bc he clearly didn’t want any kids and wasn’t ready for fatherhood . She pretty much became another statistic and didn’t hold herself to a higher standard

  • @lovezen5333
    @lovezen5333 4 года назад +38

    It’s getting cold out here take that baby inside

  • @uhmtasty8274
    @uhmtasty8274 3 года назад +6

    Just done watching this movie i love this movie but chenille didn't mean what she said to sara

  • @melnaobrooks4933
    @melnaobrooks4933 3 месяца назад +2

    First of all, Nikki had some nerve to even say that because she _cheated_ on Derek and now she wants to get jealous and point out how Sara is "stealing" Derek, who is rare in the community

  • @andreafernandasilva3770
    @andreafernandasilva3770 2 года назад +2

    Amo!!!!!Esse filme!!

  • @jcole6700
    @jcole6700 3 года назад +5

    After having a little one of my own this scene hits so different. Smh.

  • @imuwahenruth8896
    @imuwahenruth8896 Год назад +1

    How can I get the full movie,I have been trying to get it,I want to watch it again,it was my best movie then

  • @babeyygirl4446
    @babeyygirl4446 4 года назад +9

    Straight up 💯🤙🏾

  • @iprobablyforgotsomething
    @iprobablyforgotsomething 2 года назад +24

    "You can't help who you love... when you love somebody, you love 'em..."
    .
    She says this so emphatically, like she's trying to convince him while he's arguing against being with Sara. Which is weird, because she (and Nikki) were the ones arguing against it, not him... the aggressive true-love-ftw tone is totally misplaced (and hypocritical), coming from her. o_O;

    • @dimensionzone8048
      @dimensionzone8048 2 года назад +7

      I think she was talking to herself to be honest. I notice how alot of people do that in self-realization scenes.

    • @iprobablyforgotsomething
      @iprobablyforgotsomething 2 года назад +2

      @@dimensionzone8048 Huh... well, possibly. I'll have to rewatch this with that perspective in mind, see if it makes more sense to me.

    • @melnaobrooks4933
      @melnaobrooks4933 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@iprobablyforgotsomething
      She was really doing self-realization because she knew that it wasn't right to take it out on Sara just because she too was jealous of their relationship when she didn't have a good relationship with Kenny

  • @ThouzandWattz
    @ThouzandWattz 2 года назад +1

    Recorded on a talkboy mic. Nice touch! 👌🏾

  • @svetlanaparker5448
    @svetlanaparker5448 Год назад +2

    I agree with her.

  • @2719810911
    @2719810911 4 года назад +11

    00:37 to 00:52 at 19
    I felt that
    Now at 20 years later: i still feel that

    • @THERSC216
      @THERSC216 2 года назад +4

      Its the truth

    • @melnaobrooks4933
      @melnaobrooks4933 2 месяца назад +1

      She's right, you can't help who you love. You're not supposed. It's doesn't matter if you're from a different background, as long as that person respects you and makes you happy, that's what matters

  • @d.o.gsmama3726
    @d.o.gsmama3726 2 года назад +3

    I'll never understand this part of the movie, Who takes their baby to the park in the cold weather like that.

    • @dimensionzone8048
      @dimensionzone8048 2 года назад +3

      Lots of people from what I seen. Especially in New York

  • @lizzygibbons6682
    @lizzygibbons6682 3 года назад +11

    Derek is pissed

  • @nicolem.1936
    @nicolem.1936 4 года назад +15

    Funny how she is confessing but in the same breath is scolding him for not having the white girl..

  • @winniejohnson5559
    @winniejohnson5559 3 года назад +3

    Teeny boppers talking about love!! Lol they have no idea.. lust driven love.. lol 😂

    • @destinywhite2063
      @destinywhite2063 2 года назад +5

      Honey, that doesn’t make any difference. Many adults don’t have any idea either. Just look at the divorce rate in the US.
      That tells you everything you need to know.

  • @Symphonia30
    @Symphonia30 3 месяца назад +1

    Sara was nothing but a loyal friend to Chanille, and this was how she treated her. But to its film credit at least it doesn’t go into stupid route that that Sara is somehow wrong for whatever. Still, she had no right to project her insecurities like that on Sara and ruin happiness for her brother. So at least she does admit she was wrong. Just because you have your own issues does not mean you could project her insecurities on to others

  • @christinewilliams4740
    @christinewilliams4740 2 года назад +3

    I think Sean Patrick Thomas is cute and I have a crush on him ❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕

  • @jaypritchett6846
    @jaypritchett6846 5 лет назад +102

    My little sister married a nice guy that's half black and half Hispanic. Luckily, because of where we live, they didn't get a bunch of attitude for their relationship.
    The only major problem they've had was infertility issues, but after 5 years, they were able to have an adorable little boy (our first nephew! And my hubby's little buddy 🥰 lol)

    • @Alogan0213
      @Alogan0213 5 лет назад +11

      Awww congrats! 😍

    • @callmehchloe4074
      @callmehchloe4074 5 лет назад +8

      Your sister is lucky. I dated a Hispanic man who wanted to keep me barefoot and pregnant with no life of my own. Thank goodness I got away from him.

    • @podsmpsg1
      @podsmpsg1 5 лет назад +2

      Congrats.

    • @callmehchloe4074
      @callmehchloe4074 4 года назад +4

      @That Girl Koscinski is my married name and I am far from racist! I have no problem with any race! And if he was white and wanted me barefoot and pregnant I would still have the same problem because of him being so possessive. And there was so much more to the story with my boyfriend that I am glad I got away from him. I witnessed his brother beat his wife for no good reason and I was told that it would happen to me if I didn't behave. So next time you ever call me a racist find out the true story first

    • @callmehchloe4074
      @callmehchloe4074 4 года назад +2

      @That Girl OMG all I meant was that the original poster's sister was lucky enough to find a good man who was Hispanic and treated her well. Maybe I shouldn't have put in that my ex was Hispanic, but by all means I meant no disrespect. Because you are right, it did mean that he was just an asshole.

  • @rikadojean-jacques3928
    @rikadojean-jacques3928 5 лет назад +23

    Chanel didn't mean to say just got away from her.

  • @Cupids-1lover
    @Cupids-1lover 2 года назад +1

    10yr later Olivia and Fitz. Same song different dance

  • @jpatino786
    @jpatino786 Год назад +4

    That's right tell her to stay out of your business she should've minded her own business in the first place!!!.

  • @diamondcook9334
    @diamondcook9334 3 года назад +4

    0:39-0:44 oh shut up
    0:56-0:58 that's right mind yo business 💯

  • @jonathanwilliams7946
    @jonathanwilliams7946 3 года назад +1

    The girl is really beautiful young woman and really fit ❤️ X

  • @lizzygibbons6682
    @lizzygibbons6682 3 года назад +3

    Derek and Chenille had an argument at small playground

  • @stephaniebracey943
    @stephaniebracey943 4 года назад +5

    Cant help whom you hate either

    • @stephaniebracey943
      @stephaniebracey943 4 года назад

      @Nemya Blue very ugly I know

    • @joewhitehead3
      @joewhitehead3 3 года назад +1

      That’s a fair point

    • @destinywhite2063
      @destinywhite2063 2 года назад +3

      Yeah, you can. Someone has to do something to you for you to hate them. And you can still choose to ignore them and not hate them. But some don’t have the ability to do that.

  • @manuginobilisbaldspot424
    @manuginobilisbaldspot424 3 года назад +5

    I guess Olivia Pope took her own advice lmao.

  • @andrenabailey8734
    @andrenabailey8734 Год назад

    this is real life story!

  • @MsNene0408
    @MsNene0408 9 месяцев назад +2

    I will say this at least he had a sister who wasn't wrong to admit it because it's others who won't. Although it's a movie a good movie at that, it clearly shows you how emotional women are and how they manage to hurt others who care because of another man who's hurt or upset them

  • @lizzygibbons6682
    @lizzygibbons6682 3 года назад +3

    Derek is mad

  • @misterslicc1581
    @misterslicc1581 4 года назад

    Seem like a lifetime ago

  • @mrwoods22
    @mrwoods22 4 года назад +13

    Somehow, Kerry has since learned to turn off her NY accent.

  • @brittanyfowler8778
    @brittanyfowler8778 2 года назад +3

    What a horrible friend

  • @salcastillojr-ub7vr
    @salcastillojr-ub7vr Год назад +1

    She was nothing but a fffffffffffffff JEALOUS/ENVIOUS B*********SH!!!!!!!!
    KEEP your distance from Women and Men who are this Way 💯

  • @cambreezythecolorman0716
    @cambreezythecolorman0716 4 года назад +14

    Derek sister was right

    • @VideoFanatic02
      @VideoFanatic02 4 года назад +8

      @Red Boah Sutherland I don't think she meant it either.

    • @2719810911
      @2719810911 4 года назад +11

      She didn't the look on her face when Sarah left said it all. I kind of felt like she just didn't really know how to truly apologize to her about it. Cause in the next scene she comes up to Sarah she was felt awkward about possibly burning a bridge with her

  • @kimberlywisham4902
    @kimberlywisham4902 2 года назад +1

    Woow she mess up with her friend and now her brother because she isn't have to her about that

  • @Blackcat21943
    @Blackcat21943 4 года назад +1

    Nikki had a point of white woman and black men together?? I thought Kenny did love u chenille

    • @joewhitehead3
      @joewhitehead3 3 года назад +5

      Does that mean they shouldn’t be together?

    • @Blackcat21943
      @Blackcat21943 3 года назад +1

      @@joewhitehead3 it’s just a movie it was gr8 acting

  • @TiaraSoWavy
    @TiaraSoWavy Год назад +2

    They don’t make movies like they use to