11 BRUTAL Truths I Wish I Accepted SOONER
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Once a cheater, always a cheater. People do not change. Although somebody may say that they're different or that they'll never do it again, they are fun to let mentally broken if they cheat. No amount of love, passion, or compassion. Can you give to somebody if something is wrong with them, not you. If we get cheated on, we feel we did something bad or are deficient.
Nobody owes you a thing. The sooner you understand that, the sooner you can take control of your life. Don't sit around waiting for somebody to hand you something.
Failure is something that will happen. It sucks but only stings for a second. Regret lasts a lifetime. The sooner you embrace this idea of failure and rejection, the better off you'll be mentally. Go after what you want.
Good people are better than pretty people. Unfortunately, in our society, we give pretty people a pass even if they're bad people. You need to be with somebody with character, integrity, and beauty inside and out. I'm not saying you should date a wildebeest with a heart of gold. You must be attracted but also understand that just because somebody's hot doesn't mean they're good or good for you.
Can't outrun your past. Everything catches up with you, and not dealing with past issues will manifest in unhealthy ways. Take control of your life and your happiness by being strong enough as a man to stand and fight. Therapy is a fantastic tool to help you look at life and the world differently and help you deal with your issues. You deserve to be happy! Get 10% off your first month of therapy with Better Help. Get matched with a therapist who will listen and help.
Not everybody is going to like you. I've come from a long line of people-pleasers and always bent-over backward because I didn't want to rock the boat. I wanted everybody to like me and to get along. If everybody thinks you're awesome, there's probably a problem.
It's okay to outgrow people. This goes for relationships, friendships, and beyond. You won't go anywhere if you're hanging out with losers. I'm not saying they're not good people, but you must be strong and intelligent enough to realize it's time to move forward. Don't allow people to hold you down and drag you down with them. Surround yourself with like-minded people who will enable you to get further ahead.
Money is not the root of happiness. Money will not make you happy if you're not a happy person. Some think that problems will go away once you've reached a certain level of financial wealth- they don't. Being able to buy stuff does not make you happy or fulfilled. Sure, money allows you to solve problems more easily, but it will never make you happy.
Hard work and discipline are better than talent. Being incredibly disciplined can propel you to success. Grind, focus, and keep your head down when everybody else is out partying and doing fun stuff. Successful people sacrifice by working when others are out playing. Put off now so that you're more successful in the future, which is delayed gratification. It's incredibly powerful.
Time is your most valuable resource. Every single one of us gets the same 24 hours daily. We also get to decide how we invest in this time. Don't go out and do stupid things like get drunk, surf social media, etc. Instead, make your mind and body stronger.
Life is short. Embrace every day. Take care of yourself by exercising and eating right. Don't do stupid stuff like drinking excessively or doing drugs. Bad decisions you make when you're younger catch up with you when you're older. Focus on making yourself as healthy as possible mentally, physically, and emotionally. If so, you'll be in a better position when you're older. For example, don't sacrifice momentary good looks for long-term health by using steroids. It's not worth it. Take your ass to the gym and eat right.
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Thanks...eye opener...👀!!
It says 11, what's the 11th one?
Dude you ARE Talented and SMART. After watching all your videos for all these years this is the first time I disagree with you!! To be honest with you, I learned more from you than I've learned from my own father! I remember watching my first video of you teaching your viewers how to tie a tie or how to dress better. It actually changed me in more ways than you would think. Never degrade yourself especially if you have the ability to increase the value of others!☝️ 🤨.... screw Shark Tank, they have the right to make dumb decisions as well!
I'm using your videos to improve my life so I can kick some money back your way and repay you.
Has Joe Rogan had you on his podcast yet?
He offered for you to hang out with him after your Fear Factor appearance.
Would be a good bump for your business and help lots of guys out there who need it and I'm sure the women and families of those men would appreciate it too.
You're doing the lord's work, sir.
1. It's not you it'st them
2. Nobody owes you anything
3. Faliure and Rejection are apart of life.
4. Good people are better than pretty people
5. Can't outrun the past
6. It's ok to outgrow people
7. Money doesn't make you happy
8. Hard Work and Disciple Work
9.Time is your most valuable thing
10. Life is short and needs to be embraced
Thanks, Steven 👍
Thx
Man that just saved me so much time...thanks...
Honestly I'm done with life. I want it to be over for me already. I can't take it being in this world. Prices will go up for everything till I die of hunger as I am being so malnutrituined. Wish I ate a lot more when I was younger...
@@flamestar557that is such a defeated attitude. Ill leave it upto you in deciding what you want to do with the time you have. Somewhere out there, theres someone begging for the chance you have
“Wildebeest with a heart of gold”
Some learn by reading. Some learn by watching others. Some have to whiz on the electric fence to find out for themselves.
Good lessons.
I’m so happy I deleted Instagram, Twitter tick-tock because I’m a focused man I’m focusing on my job. Forget about girls forget about dating just focus on my job to make myself better. I go to the gym every day and I love that.
5:52 “Money won’t make you happier”
I agree on most points but I can’t agree on this one. Maybe it highly depends on the situation and the mindset, but using myself as an example the moment I got enough money to buy myself the car I always desired made my life a lot happier. For sure you can be happy without money, it’s just that you can become even happier if you have it.
So is the lesson - if you’re happy without money, you’ll be only happier with. And the same could be said about the opposite - if you’re unhappy without money you probably won’t be happy with.
Man I’m so glad he does RUclips. I didn’t have a father figure growing up so I have no clue what to do or how. But this video is gonna really help me out from making stupid mistakes and setting myself back instead of moving forward.
I don't think you give yourself enough credit by saying you don't think you're that smart or talented.......... I think you're a very exceptional person, a person of rare talent and intellect.........
Money will definitely make you happier bc if you can afford to vacation where ever you with who ever you want and not have to be forced to work everyday then how does it not make you happier. I think that having money makes you more happier bc you can afford to look attractive and theres no way you can convince anyone that chartering and going on a $50 million yatch for 2 weeks with a few girls will not make you happier than working for 2 weeks and not being able to afford it. But that’s just personal opinion.
Money most certainly does make you happy.
Wise and true words, Alpha. This is the way to live a happier and more complete life.
I have been following you for 5 years now... I'm not stopping.... You're the man.
I really needed to hear this right now man thank you.
D'OH! "Good people are better than pretty people." Solid advice.
You are amazing Aaron, truly brave and inspiring.
Thank you a million times fratello.
T.
Wow, this was definitely one of my favorite videos. So inspiring and now I feel more motivated to go out and get shit done!
I actually agree with this, steroids are an easy way that mess you up long term, I just turned 37 and about a month ago my abs started popping, like crazy. Could never get to that point years ago but what ever I'm doing now is working
This are the kind of videos that made you great, I needed so much someone to tell me all this... Thanks my man
Wanted u to know I really appreciate your life advice. I dont’t usually comment on videos but you’re doing great. There are some single guys like myself that are in shape, own homes and have a decent job but still not fulfilled relationship-wise. Probably cause I’m only 5’5 height idk
Amen, brother!
Dude you ARE Talented and SMART. After watching all your videos for all these years this is the first time I disagree with you!! To be honest with you, I learned more from you than I've learned from my own father! I remember watching my first video of you teaching your viewers how to tie a tie or how to dress better. It actually changed me in more ways than you would think. Never degrade yourself especially if you have the ability to increase the value of others!☝️ 🤨.... screw Shark Tank, they have the right to make dumb decisions as well!
Man I’m exactly the same as what you said at the start I need to learn the hard way
I like your stuff, Alpha, but today I LOVED it. This will help men (and those women who subscribe) to improve and grow in life. Keep it up
I wish I had this channel many years from now, because honestly I have alot of common with you I used to be a typical people pleaser
Very good points. Talent is subject to criticism. Hard work and effort is not. I've fallen into some of these traps in my life time and you are correct on all of this. I don't usually agree with anyone 100% so congrats. Excellent video. Thank you. For everyone watching, he speaks the truth and this is an excellent credo for all. Sir, you have earned my respect.
One of you’re best videos on your channel!
Love seeing how you've kept consistent over the years and clearly inspired other Men's Self-Improvement RUclipsrs like HowToBeast (loved seeing the clips of y'all here). I'd love to see a video of self-improvement tips that haven't changed vs things that have changed. For example, style and fitness never stop being important, but maybe certain values or mindsets have shifted in importance.
I changed.. but I had to recognize my own problems to fix myself.
A fool has to learn from there own mistakes but a genius has to learn from the mistakes of others but in reality we all make mistakes so who knows and who cares u live and u learn ☯️
One of the best Videos @ Alpha... You are Godsend my brother thank you so much
Thank you so much!! You inspire me and other people who watch you.
Alpha. I am the same. So many times I gotta learn it all the hard way but I’m turning the page
Watching from Ireland
Alpha is grooming men. Thanks man.
😂…your thumbnail photo is “sending me”…😂
(Your facial expression)
❤️
Hard work is a scam. Networking and who you know are more important than what you know. Hypergamy, once you understand it life becomes simpler lol. Health and wellness is more important than money. And otherlol. Have a good day reader..
HinAlpha I am so sorry for your loss
The goat is alive and well I see. Alpha pack 👊🏽
8:06 also remember this in case of your loved ones. Make every moment wonderful for them.
Thank you alpha
I’ve never been a gluten for punishment one fee life lesson and after that lesson there’s no repeating that class!! Because the second is shame on you and the second lesson in some situations could put in the hospital, behind bars, or the ultimate game changer death!!
Absolutely spot on! Excellent and valuable information!!!
Fantastic video ... may be your very best. Bookmarking this one.
Great message
This one is a classic especially for this day and age building not destroying and being picky with your relationships
I appreciate you brother
Yep, I am living proof that once a cheater, always a cheater. I’ve cheated on almost every non-open relationship I e been in. It’s why my best relationship were open relationships. These days (I’m 48), I just raise my son and his half sister, and I just focus on them and my career.
I definitely agree with number 1 on the list.
"Leave their Tired Ass" LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!
These are the videos where alpha shines man!
Yo this video was fire. Energy was on point for what you were saying. Animations were great too.
Thank you for your honesty man, and for being inspiring 👍kept it up
the words you use alpha....
I hope I get to meet you in person some day. I have a ton to learn from you. Love your videos.
This was really good. Ty sir! 🤜🏽🤛🏽
Agreed. Too many able body people rely on the government.
Good stuff, broh.
This was a spectacular and original one alpha. Well done!
Alpha M. you have helped my life in many different ways. Thank you
Time. You mentioned that word investment, investment with your time. Choices with your time. Golden indeeed!
Alpha, I thank God that you made this channel.
Thanks brother 💪
I am also born în 1976. Great advices, totaly agree! With one comment: money is not good because you can buy material things, money are great because they can provide you the greatest asset: freedom.
More than freedom I'd say options, with options you can have a better control of your life: you can gain time, you can gain freedom or buy things or services or postpone them for the future. One may renounce to some freedom or time to get some more money and many people never leave that loop, that's a trap to be aware
Aaron, you’re an inspiration
Love this !!!
Love the Wisdom here! Thank you! 💯
You saved my life bro i frl appreciate it💪
What an awesome video and life lesson to wake up to! Great Job!
You are one inspirational dude....
Good video!
0:21 yup. My best friend got cheated on by his girl, took her back and married her 🤦🏻♂️ dude just doesn’t want to listen
Now she is cheating with his finances to back her up when things go wrong for her!
Great video! Perfectly said..
So if u cheated in the past does that mean ur SOL to ever be with someone?
Money won't make you happy
also
Use your most valuable resource (time) to work
Great advice Alpha thanks for the video 😁
1. If she cheats WITH you, she'll cheat ON you.
2. Your boss does not care that you are tired. Do your job and quit whining.
3. The world will treat you how you present yourself. The time to dress like you're in high school, is only in high school. Get professional.
4. Money buys you choices, choices buy freedom, and freedom buys happiness.
5. Excessive partying in your youth WILL catch up to you later on.
6. If she doesn't reciprocate attraction, move on. DO NOT SIMP or stalk.
7. Don't keep exes in your orbit. It clouds your view, and new girls hate that crap.
8. You do not deserve a nice car until you can afford it ten times over. You should be driving buckets until you make it.
Thanks alpha the closer was strong
Thanks alpha!
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God bless you
I really wanna have a better understanding of what people mean when they say, "Deal with" my past and my issues. I am well aware of both and their effects on my well-being. How do I DEAL WITH them?
Excellent advice
My opinion as a young Man is.. if she cheats then break up with her asap and find a loyal girl.
(If she cheats then there is only 1 place she belongs)
Great video
Hard to find a loyal chic these days..
Loved❤ this video
If money doesn’t make you happy he wouldn’t fit sponsors into every video. Yes making more money will make you happier. I don’t trust anyone who spread that lie that it doesn’t.
Spitting out facts about life and we 🎉appreciate you.
So much true, word to word. 💯👍🏻🤝🏻💪🏼
Im an alcoholic..centers have kicked me out
.mt mom, sisters, dont care..
Alpha is a true hero
Best video in a while
🎶 I’m the type of guy that likes to roam around 🎶
Preach
thx as always, Alpha!
🤨 video was released 25 minutes ago and has 9 minutes and you sent "thx as always, alpha" 23 minutes ago. What is your secret?
Was the clip of the talk show you?
Great great great
Some simple but great advice... Thanks alot.... Oftentimes we neglect the simple advice that could really affect our lives... Thanks for the wisdom brother✝️
Baba beeza bop?
Yes it is true cheaters always been a cheater if they always keep lying and lying to you constantly it's really not your fault other person just sick and yes a lady and be very sick on me she actually knows what she's doing and she actually cheated on you and she did it on purpose make you upset just to make you listen to her there is something wrong with her
My name is Issa I’m not a RUclipsr love to see you every single day
if I had a coffee brand, I would know who I want to represent my product right after the first seconds
Wow..... that's why I love you Alpha....you are amazing....🥰🥰👌