6:24 I am a 43-yr old married woman (11 years) and this is exactly what I am doing. We have a program for men to prepare them to be their best selves and a program for women to re-feminize them. Then we host marriage minded weekends to make formal introductions. I’ve been making matches for 20 years and really enjoy it.
I appreciate what you’re doing but until women themselves cancel feminism forever and ostracise and shun women who are feminists we will never get rid of feminism and its evil destructive ideology. I have 5 different male friends who have all gone overseas to find their wives. And when I asked them why they did that the answer was the same it’s easy to find a feminine conservative woman overseas. And it’s impossible to find one in the West that is feminine and is not masculine.
I often reflect on the important role maiden aunts played in our extended family over the years. They did a lot of heavy lifting supporting married couples raise large families. Maybe lack of men after the losses of WW1 contributed to this situation.
Note, the "aunties" in 'The Handsmaid's Tale' are the older women who keep the handmaids (younger women) in line and in their place. So older women are just as much a risk if it goes wrong as men. As would be predicted, the young 20-something women have taken up the "charity girl" culture of the early 20th century. These were urban shop girls who dated for nights out of entertainment paid for by men. The more accommodating the woman, the more she got invited out to the nightlife. It is the origin of "dating" which only entered the middle class college girl lexicon around 1914.
When you think about it, it's absurd that we toss teenagers out into the world and expect them to simply make good choices, when some of those choices will have life long consequences. And what's even more absurd is that we continue replacing adult, experienced guidance with never ending freedoms. And then we wonder why our young people are miserable.
The biggest issue is women having children outside of marriage and single mothers thinking they can have children without the child’s father living under the same roof.
Economics plays in to this as well, I think. People are more likely to settle down and have families when their situation is secure enough to do that. Between the uncertainty of climate change, the impossibility of getting a mortgage, a terrible property rental market, extremely volatile labour conditions, and so on is it any wonder that people's lives are on hold for longer? I talk to many younger people at work and these are live issues for all of them.
I was introduced to my second wife when I was 40 and she was 35 in 2000. It was through a mutual friend, and after we let our guard down we each confessed that it was love at first sight. You'll never get love at first sight through a dating app. Just had our 20th anniversary last July. We raised six kids together and have the eight grandchild on the way. She had two from her first marriage and I had four from my first. She often says that she wants to live forever, but wants me to live forever and a day so she never has a day without me. I offered to have us pull a "Thelma and Louise" and go over a cliff if one of us nearing the end. But she would have to drive incase I wanted to bail out at the last second. 🤣
@@lkyuvsad Correct. I shouldn't have spoken in absolute terms - "never" is a strong word. But my online dating experience in the 90's, which was much more tame than it is now, just didn't seem to be the environment for permanence.
Men can give very practical non-emotive dating advice to women. Her viewpoint is feminist which is no way perfect for a healthy relationship in family life.
You are spot on. Women completely overestimate their ability to matchmake. It’s men that do the choosing. Logic would then dictate that they are also good at matchmaking.
I can’t see this happening, a return to the past, when men wore suit jackets and a tie, held the door open for women, and women wore dresses. Too much has changed irreversibly.
That's terrible advice. In the age of degeneracy it should be don’t be a degenerate, be moral, be honourable, be civilised, be kind, but don’t take any sh!t from anyone.
@@shaneashby5890 people have been saying it's "the age of degeneracy" for centuries, so I'm not sure how useful that is as context. Other than that, sound advice.
It is the hook up culture and the push do not settle, And if you get older then trying to change to the traditional wants is too late. But not also forget for men everything has changed except the family law courts where men are mainly responsible for the costs of divorce and less child custody which also drives the breakup of the family unit leading to many to stay single as they reconsider is it worth it.
Feminism is what has literally destroyed families. Feminism is why we have the majority of young women not Interested in kids or a family nowadays. Instead they chase a career and act masculine. Obviously that's not good for society. Men and women need each other in order to have loving families with children. Feminism was originally all by design of The World Economic Forum literally to reduce the population and to require two incomes to support a home instead of back when one man could simply be a janitor and afford to raise a family with a stay at home mom. When people do have kids today they generally have to go to daycare instead of staying with mom also detrimental to the child, family, and society. 💯
These conservative sentiments are great if you come from a healthy family who will be helpful. So few in America do. That's why wwe are so messed up in the first place.
I agree with everything except that older men shouldn't be involved; -they're needed to screen/ mould/ correct young men who are off track with the wrong ideas, etc. there really wasn't much clarification on her awkwardness on what could go wrong w/ a man leading it or being involved. -in a right and true sense, an older man in an open & appropriate situation can speak to younger women to hear what they've missed and or rejected (or been wounded in) from father-figures.. *There's room for both complimentary parts to provide course-correction to the next generations..
Intellectual freedom alienates from gods. In fact pretty much any kind of freedom alienates from gods. The people who push gods don't want people thinking for themselves
God is just an immature concept, a construct by the weak to control. All belief is make believe, just thought thinking it knows that which is does not actually know.
How is 3:50 good advice? Thing is, women actually desire those men. What should they do, consciously choose to be attracted to nerds and boring losers instead? The pool of excellent men (in terms of what women desire in a partner) who are family oriented, especially at a relatively young age, is tiny.
@@blairbrownie1223 What do you mean by intelligent young men? You think young men pursuing a STEM degree get a lot of attention from women? How about men working in IT?
No, women do not “desire” those men. Young Women are easily lied to by narcissistic predatory men. They think that marriage can come of those “relationships” but they have no idea they are being used. Once a women learns (what her mother and aunts should have already taught her) she is able to choose better quality men who actually want marriage and a family. Women are very easily deceived when young and inexperienced- that’s why no society has EVER allowed young women out of the house alone without an escort. Young women really should live at home until marriage like was traditionally done and the parents/mother should be fully involved in the search for and selection of the husband.
I disagree. The pool is large. It’s just women have unrealistic expectations and are shamed by their sisters for their choices. Her advice was very good. Don’t waste your time. Find a solid man and commit.
Older women are never going to step up to tell the truth, as that would entail having to admit that they themselves had been living a giant lie their whole lives. Accountability is kryptonote for them, poor things, just double down and leave the youth to be savaged
She literally did acknowledge that she was making the wrong decisions in the men she was choosing until she realized that those were not marriage worthy men. She had to change that and did. And now she’s happily married with children.
@blairbrownie1223 because for the most part it is women who have come ro realise that the messages they've been given have led them down a path they're not happy with.
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it's the forerunner to collapse. every time.
Roman empire / republic, here we go again; right down to the glorification of chefs in the '80s, '90s & '00s (noughts).
Nefariously social engineered and $tate $ponsored controlled collapse of naive socialist progressive society as intended, cause and effect!
6:24 I am a 43-yr old married woman (11 years) and this is exactly what I am doing. We have a program for men to prepare them to be their best selves and a program for women to re-feminize them. Then we host marriage minded weekends to make formal introductions. I’ve been making matches for 20 years and really enjoy it.
I appreciate what you’re doing but until women themselves cancel feminism forever and ostracise and shun women who are feminists we will never get rid of feminism and its evil destructive ideology.
I have 5 different male friends who have all gone overseas to find their wives. And when I asked them why they did that the answer was the same it’s easy to find a feminine conservative woman overseas. And it’s impossible to find one in the West that is feminine and is not masculine.
Gratification without connection or commitment can bring alienation.
I often reflect on the important role maiden aunts played in our extended family over the years. They did a lot of heavy lifting supporting married couples raise large families. Maybe lack of men after the losses of WW1 contributed to this situation.
Note, the "aunties" in 'The Handsmaid's Tale' are the older women who keep the handmaids (younger women) in line and in their place. So older women are just as much a risk if it goes wrong as men.
As would be predicted, the young 20-something women have taken up the "charity girl" culture of the early 20th century. These were urban shop girls who dated for nights out of entertainment paid for by men. The more accommodating the woman, the more she got invited out to the nightlife. It is the origin of "dating" which only entered the middle class college girl lexicon around 1914.
Outstanding post.
When you think about it, it's absurd that we toss teenagers out into the world and expect them to simply make good choices, when some of those choices will have life long consequences. And what's even more absurd is that we continue replacing adult, experienced guidance with never ending freedoms. And then we wonder why our young people are miserable.
The biggest issue is women having children outside of marriage and single mothers thinking they can have children without the child’s father living under the same roof.
Our young people aren't miserable because they have too much freedom. Go and talk to them.
@@lkyuvsadYou might want to work on your reading comprehension.
High body count.
Hit the wall.
The wall remains and will always be; undefeated.
@@JJ-wi2uw The Wall equals flawless victory.
Economics plays in to this as well, I think. People are more likely to settle down and have families when their situation is secure enough to do that. Between the uncertainty of climate change, the impossibility of getting a mortgage, a terrible property rental market, extremely volatile labour conditions, and so on is it any wonder that people's lives are on hold for longer?
I talk to many younger people at work and these are live issues for all of them.
Why do you believe in climate change?
I was introduced to my second wife when I was 40 and she was 35 in 2000. It was through a mutual friend, and after we let our guard down we each confessed that it was love at first sight. You'll never get love at first sight through a dating app. Just had our 20th anniversary last July.
We raised six kids together and have the eight grandchild on the way. She had two from her first marriage and I had four from my first.
She often says that she wants to live forever, but wants me to live forever and a day so she never has a day without me.
I offered to have us pull a "Thelma and Louise" and go over a cliff if one of us nearing the end. But she would have to drive incase I wanted to bail out at the last second. 🤣
This is simply not true. I know 3 married couples who have love at first sight stories through dating apps.
@@lkyuvsad Correct. I shouldn't have spoken in absolute terms - "never" is a strong word. But my online dating experience in the 90's, which was much more tame than it is now, just didn't seem to be the environment for permanence.
Men can give very practical non-emotive dating advice to women. Her viewpoint is feminist which is no way perfect for a healthy relationship in family life.
You are spot on. Women completely overestimate their ability to matchmake. It’s men that do the choosing. Logic would then dictate that they are also good at matchmaking.
Marriage is only for traditional women and modern women are not traditional and that’s the problem.
I can’t see this happening, a return to the past, when men wore suit jackets and a tie, held the door open for women, and women wore dresses. Too much has changed irreversibly.
Wisdom.
Advice to young women AND YOUNG MEN; be the person you need to be
That's terrible advice. In the age of degeneracy it should be don’t be a degenerate, be moral, be honourable, be civilised, be kind, but don’t take any sh!t from anyone.
@@shaneashby5890 people have been saying it's "the age of degeneracy" for centuries, so I'm not sure how useful that is as context.
Other than that, sound advice.
It is the hook up culture and the push do not settle, And if you get older then trying to change to the traditional wants is too late. But not also forget for men everything has changed except the family law courts where men are mainly responsible for the costs of divorce and less child custody which also drives the breakup of the family unit leading to many to stay single as they reconsider is it worth it.
And what part does feminism play in that?
Feminism is what has literally destroyed families. Feminism is why we have the majority of young women not Interested in kids or a family nowadays. Instead they chase a career and act masculine. Obviously that's not good for society. Men and women need each other in order to have loving families with children. Feminism was originally all by design of The World Economic Forum literally to reduce the population and to require two incomes to support a home instead of back when one man could simply be a janitor and afford to raise a family with a stay at home mom. When people do have kids today they generally have to go to daycare instead of staying with mom also detrimental to the child, family, and society. 💯
@@shaneashby5890everything. Feminism has been the driving force behind it all.
@@superdavies5548 What do you think are the major issues with feminism in 2024?
These conservative sentiments are great if you come from a healthy family who will be helpful. So few in America do. That's why wwe are so messed up in the first place.
I agree with everything except that older men shouldn't be involved; -they're needed to screen/ mould/ correct young men who are off track with the wrong ideas, etc.
there really wasn't much clarification on her awkwardness on what could go wrong w/ a man leading it or being involved.
-in a right and true sense, an older man in an open & appropriate situation can speak to younger women to hear what they've missed and or rejected (or been wounded in) from father-figures.. *There's room for both complimentary parts to provide course-correction to the next generations..
Entitled women... pass
Read the title
political freedom alienates from God
Intellectual freedom alienates from gods. In fact pretty much any kind of freedom alienates from gods. The people who push gods don't want people thinking for themselves
God is just an immature concept, a construct by the weak to control. All belief is make believe, just thought thinking it knows that which is does not actually know.
How is 3:50 good advice? Thing is, women actually desire those men. What should they do, consciously choose to be attracted to nerds and boring losers instead?
The pool of excellent men (in terms of what women desire in a partner) who are family oriented, especially at a relatively young age, is tiny.
Nerds? Who are you, Fonzie? Smart young ladies know that the intelligent young men will give them the best life. Jocks oeak at age 19
@@blairbrownie1223 What do you mean by intelligent young men?
You think young men pursuing a STEM degree get a lot of attention from women? How about men working in IT?
No, women do not “desire” those men. Young Women are easily lied to by narcissistic predatory men. They think that marriage can come of those “relationships” but they have no idea they are being used. Once a women learns (what her mother and aunts should have already taught her) she is able to choose better quality men who actually want marriage and a family. Women are very easily deceived when young and inexperienced- that’s why no society has EVER allowed young women out of the house alone without an escort. Young women really should live at home until marriage like was traditionally done and the parents/mother should be fully involved in the search for and selection of the husband.
I disagree. The pool is large. It’s just women have unrealistic expectations and are shamed by their sisters for their choices. Her advice was very good. Don’t waste your time. Find a solid man and commit.
@@MrNicedave That will never happen because modern women can’t pair bond because of their promiscuous past. There are studies proving this.
Older women are never going to step up to tell the truth, as that would entail having to admit that they themselves had been living a giant lie their whole lives. Accountability is kryptonote for them, poor things, just double down and leave the youth to be savaged
Not sure why this is exclusive to women.
She literally did acknowledge that she was making the wrong decisions in the men she was choosing until she realized that those were not marriage worthy men. She had to change that and did. And now she’s happily married with children.
@@Foxie770 What causes women on mass to make those wrong decisions?
@@blairbrownie1223 Women invented and have been pushing feminism for decades.
@blairbrownie1223 because for the most part it is women who have come ro realise that the messages they've been given have led them down a path they're not happy with.