hi it’s Audrey from this episode. just wanted to say that I really respect Jay and all the other participants for having this vulnerable of a conversation on camera. everyone’s story speaks to the power of self-love & I hope that is seen through all of this. it takes courage to break the cycle & learn why we anxiously attach ourselves to people or environments that aren’t in our best interest. I also think it’s good to normalize having these kind of dialogues so that we don’t repeat the same relationship. that’s how we grow & become better people at the end of the day by facing the uncomfortable truths. everyone has the opportunity to evolve in this lifetime even though it may feel like “the end” at times… heart break can turn into breakthroughs if you choose healing ❤️🩹
You were very brilliant in articulating your thoughts and being true to what you felt throughout this episode! You were clear and honest, which are part of what made you so seem so confident in the video. Props to you👏
Yep, thats a very good option. Especially if they haven't spent anytime getting help and don't demonstrate change. Building back a different kind of loving relationship. It's lot of work! If he doesn't, then not only this relationship plus his future relationships Unfortunately will be very troubled. Angela doesn't know how to stop loving someone who's hurt them so bad 😢, unfortunately she needs help also. I wish all of them the very best in life!
And then going on to explain starting with the sentence "...at the end of the day 🛑 you are my ideal type, bodywise, mentalitywise, emotionwise...thats just generally how I feel when it comes to that..." 😮🛑 giving me narc vibes
I think this is different language (If he’s Korean?) . Koreans say “Mhm” as yes. Not in a nonchalant way. The time of voice matters and his tone sounded like an “of course” Yes.
GURL PLEASE I FELT SO BAD FOR HER SHE SHOULD'NT BE DOUBTING HERSELF FOR A MEN WHO CHEATED ,ITS NOT HER FAULT, I LITERALLY TEAR UP SEEING HER LIKE THAT😭😭😭
Knowing Angela personally, she is one of the purest souls. She is absolutely beautiful inside and out. She doesnt deserve the way shes been treated and I hope one day she'll believe in love again and find that.
Please Tell her to seek professional help (I genuinely don’t mean to offend her, I’m being fr), because that guy seems average in both looks and personality. I got a feeling that she has extreme problems in her self worth and gets drawn to someone that feeds her self doubt, which are mostly miserable men. I think she really needs some professional help that helps her build some self confidence/respect
@@O90EKQZVP9 nobody "left it out". The reality is that things are never going 100% well then someone cheats. Treating cheating like it's this ideological evil deep within a person is entirely unhelpful to building healthy relationships.
angela is so gorgeous. you should never feel like you need to change your body for someone to love you. he sucks and i hope you find someone who loves and respects every part of you girl ❤️
@@retro_tcb he cheated on her with not just one but MANY girls and the entire time he had NO emotion at all when she was talking and legit just said basic shit towards her that she have heard many times. I am sorry for her that she doesn't have the self respect to realize that she can do way better
@@lexsulonair he opened up, i dont know if u know this but people grow differently, we got his thoughts, feelings, in the moment emotions. He didnt say those things with/to her maybe becuase he is a little on the introverted side. Whats worse about your comment is that ur the the type of person to say the opposite of this if it was a woman
Angela having a PERFECT body and him acting all nonchalant about him making her feel insecure about it is diabolical. She is light years out of his league and he knows it. That's why he's acting that way.
Angela!! Baby girl! YOU DO NOT NEED THIS MAN. You're so young. So much live to life and people to meet. You deserve a man who will worship you and not cheat!
as someone who has dealt with a man like this i totally understand how easy it is love someone who only hurts you. but when you truly love yourself, you’ll find the strength to never let anyone treat you like that again
@@Xejex sometimes you can't help but hurt them. For example, if they're really close to your family, and your grandma passes away, it'd hurt them but you can't change that. Or if you find a better job in a new city and they have to decide whether or not to move with you and leave your current home behind.
Angela for the love of god please never get back with him. He will tell you anything and everything he thinks you wanna hear and you said that yourself! You deserve SO much more.
yeah...the update. constant contact. hes making it so youll be insanely lonely without him and need to rely on him. please girl run for the hills. as someone who has been cheated on and stayed with someone for 2 years.. they do not change and they gain pleasure out of sneaking behind your back. that is not love. i wish the best for you
while that's true my dad cheated on my mom when my older sister was born and they still stayed together then had me and til death did they part. so in some cases it can work out, I don't stand by it and personally wouldn't stay with a cheater. but I am here and alive only because my parents stayed together after my dad cheated.
i felt so bad for angela omg. especially the part where she said she felt that her body wasn't "good enough" for him, that hit so damn hard because i feel like so many girls can relate to this sentiment whether they're in a relationship or not. women have always been scrutinized and judged for their appearance and body and expected to meet these crazy expectations set by p0rn addicted men. i hope she gets the love that she deserves and i wish her all the best
One of the best parts about being in a truly loving relationship is acceptance of all your parts. No matter weight gain, loss, stretch marks, hair loss (or gain in different spots) or changes after birth… I love my partner and she loves me. To not be judged for that stuff and just be loved no matter what feels so good. I hope you find it Angela!
I'm 6:15 deep and the urge to want to slap his senses out of him is so hard. The fact that Angela is there obviously trying so hard to hold back tears and he's still smiling makes my blood boil
I dated Jon from Aug 2022 - Feb 2023. I broke up with him because he was so disrespectful and essentially being a terrible partner, and oh boy was I there for the guy. Angela, I hope you stand the f*** up and not get back with him because he doesn’t deserve you. Jon, grow the f*** up and why would you go on a cut show to try and get her back? Stop hurting other women even though it’s the only thing you know what to do.
Seems like he’s just on a loop of f**king things up over n over. Thinks he knows what he truly wants but keeps cheating n treating women like trash. If Angela sees him still as a potential partner/husband ima rip my hair out
How else was she supposed to act? He hurt her by cheating yet she wanted to help him remain optimistic about his new path in life. Yes, healing alone is difficult, but he’s doing it and he’s doing a great job is what she’s portraying.
The other two dudes were obvious red flags, but I actually rooted for chase until he FLAKED at the end. I feel like I got a taste of why he’s such a red flag when he set expectations up for a reconnect and then pumped the brakes. Like a microcosm of their whole “dating for 6 years” but edging on the proposal thing.
@@andrewseitz1132 but he gives mixed signals, which I think viewers experienced first hand. He gives off the “I want to marry you” vibe and “I want to demonstrate commitment” energy, but then reels it in during the critical moments. He’s the type to keep a relationship suspended in animation in the name of his own entertainment and indecisiveness. Like he enjoyed the giddiness of the whole experience, but when it’s time to pony up and show you mean it, he flakes. I think it makes sense for him to sober up to the implications of getting back into a relationship, but he had no problem indulging in her intimacy and vulnerability up until the moment of truth. That comes off as pretty manipulative and parasitic. Like he was there to enjoy the ride until it got serious. I don’t like when parasitic behavior gets normalized and erased via simplification with phrases like “he wasn’t ready”. It’s ok not to be ready, but communicating otherwise, implicitly or explicitly, is fuck boi shit. Idk that’s how I interpret this at least.
The girl with the red hair was right to leave immediately. She knows her worth. Ladies, never lower your standards. If they wanted to be faithful they would, and if they wanted to marry you they would have done it years ago. Don’t waste your good years with losers that don’t value you. A man that wants you will treat you right and never leave you wondering if they really love you. Men rarely change. What you see is what you get and what you will continue to receive.
I see the first girl so clearly. I feel her pain so so deeply. You’re not alone girl. This is a serious problem many people in our generation is sadly facing. It’s awful
Why does everyone always chalk it up to "this generation"? Cheating has been a thing for as long as humanity has been around. The only difference now is that it's more exposed.
Notice how all the guys did wrong to the girls yet the girls were willing to give them one more chance. Why does woman have to be forgiving whyy?? These men cheated on them and do not deserve these beautiful girls.
@@dude14377or they’re trying to think the best of people they’re in love with and it’s embarrassing for the men to cheat on these amazing women. obviously they need to realize their worth but let’s stop taking the blame of the men outside the equation
Angela folded too easy.. getting cheated on two times is rough maybe it'll take three times for her to realize her worth. That boy does not know anything about respect and will definitely do it again
Men can find a beautiful woman anywhere, it’s not a rare occurrence. But that’s not the point it’s that they don’t pedestalize beauty because they already had it
😂these girls came here to kiss them. I can tell that these girl have weak, shitty personalities. Shitty meaning boring and other negative characteristics. Not as bad people. That’s why they cheated, clearly. Men do not like weak women. Men unable bad people so don’t complain.
😂these girls came here to kiss them. I can tell that these girl have weak, shitty personalities. Shitty meaning boring and other negative characteristics. Not as bad people. That’s why they cheated, clearly. Men do not like weak women. Men unable bad people so don’t complain.
@@intr_sive its pretty fucking simple, If you want to cheat and betray your partner and their trust then don't be with them in the first place. That isn't complicated in any sense, its selfish.
@@Hind-0o0.0o0 While I get where you’re coming from-love should ideally mean protecting and valuing someone-it’s important to remember that relationships and emotions aren’t always black and white. People can love someone deeply and still make choices that cause harm. Cheating, for example, often stems from unresolved personal issues, unmet needs, or poor impulse control rather than a lack of love. That doesn’t excuse it, but it shows that the reasons behind such actions are more complicated than simply not valuing someone. Love is powerful, but humans are messy, and life doesn’t always align with ideals
@intr_sive is simple for me if i do something hurtful I meant and I don't like the person I will never throw words that I don't mean and our brain is there for what ? Most people know exactly why they doing what they doing and you can bring disease to them and than you still claim you love them ☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️ yh maybe the love you talking about is cheap words nothing more.
What’s interesting is the minute Angela popped on the screen, I thought she was gorgeous and I envied her skin and features. And this little boy made her feel otherwise. I hate the power we give them emotionally. He will always run you man, please leave. Much cooler people in this world than him.
True and I bet she even had eating issues in relationship with how she said she feels insecure about her body and stuff with him... cause the body knows and does stuff like this when you're with the wrong guy...if not eating issues the lean back is enough of big sign angela...you're gorgeous gorgeous sweet girl who'll get a man who'll treat you so right, make you happier than this excuse of cheater trash just runnnnnn
Not to me. She wanted him to choose her in the end, but he didn’t. She was disappointed and probably finally realized that he was never going to marry her. There’s really nothing to talk about if you’re both not on the same page. She’s way out of his league, and will find better.
Also delicate phases like really focusing and working on yourself would not be as effective if you knew the other person was there, even if just a tiny bit. Something useful only clicks with the "no contact".
I think he was very good tbh. I think he handled his and hers emotions very well. He admitted that he was unfaithful and that he had a porn addiction and that he knows that he broke her heart and trust. At the end of the day when you’re the one that cheated all you can do is be honest and open and take responsibility for what happened and in this video I think he did all that. He didn’t beat around the bush or lie or tried to make it seem like she was the issue, He maned up and said what I done wasn’t right and I understand that it broke your heart and the trust you had for me and I’m working on how I can better myself mentally, physically and emotionally. The only way for these two to get back together and it working would be to see if his actions back up his words. At the end of the day anyone can say whatever they want but their actions tell the truth
So what most cheaters do that and say sorry i love you bla bla i hurted you and than do the same thing is better she stay away know not when he put stupid kids in her stomach.@@thegamingrelish9272
the fact that all 3 girls were SO insanely beautiful and these 3 dudes are so normal looking that i wouldn’t even blink twice 😒 i want better for us girls
Really? Besides Chase, I think they're just about evenly matched in terms of physical attractiveness... In terms of the beauty within, it's a different story.
It's so sad to see the lack of self-worth from Angela. To let someone do that to you and still accept them back is just heartbreaking. I understand that she must have low self-esteem or insecurity or maybe childhood trauma that makes her feel as if she should accept that but it's just so sad to see her accept trash in the sea when there are so many beautiful fish. She deserves better and I hope she works on her self-respect and sense of self-worth, and realizes that.
Angela, you are so beautiful. This man is a sliver of your life. Your worth is not dependent on how a cheater will treat you. You are a glowing light. I am crying typing this, because I really hope you find somebody who helps you see this.
To Angela: Run girl and save yourself another heartbreak. The fact that he cheated on you twice and made you suffer the worst pain the second time around are clear signs you need to leave him because he never respected you!! You're a beautiful girl so please respect yourself and set boundaries. Remember the pain he inflicted on you, not as a way to self-loathe but a way to realize you deserve way more. A man who values you will not make you feel insecure, will not make you feel you're not enough, and will not inflict pain on you mutiple times simply because he is too weak to deal with his own addictions. He made a choice and broke the trust. He's the problem not you. Yes he can say how perfect you are but it's the way he made you feel that matters the most. Actions speak louder than words! " It doesn't matter what you say, you say the same things to other people... it doesn't mean anything" Listen to yourself. If you let him into your life again, it'll just mean he can take advantage of you easily. Don't give value to something, aka his words, that has lost its value. Ask yourself why you want to hold on to this relationship that he single-handedly broke. Is it because of comfort, is it because you want to believe he can change or because you want to seek validation. Whichever it is, focus on yourself. You're so much better and hope you can find a person who truly loves and cares for you. Good luck and stay strong ❤
I hope one day that the women here, especially Angela, arrive at the happy point they deserve to be at and the men here get the help they need to be better people.
Oh god Angela please don’t get back with him. I’ve seen that man in so many different people. He is not ready to change. He may never be. For the love of god please find someone who will cherish your relationship.
that man seems so emotionless... and the fact angela had to ask if he liked her body or was even good enough for him like.... girl runnnn your so pretty and did not deserve what that man put you through
At 22:23, The guy with the stache and thin ponytail with the girl with the green tinged hair. Sending huge mixed messages... first he had been saying he wants to get back with her, then at the end when she is clearly keen for a restart, he does a 180 and crushes her her disappointment is so profound. He doesn't deserve her.. she deserves so much more than he is giving.
I feel so bad for Angela, her ex is no man at all. It's actually heart wrenching to see her let all her emotions out and tell him things that mean alot to her and he's just sitting there being emotionless?? Like man comfort her, and explain to her that you messed up and show her that she means alot to you. like ughh bro its not that hard to be a good man!! poor girl. I hope she truly finds someone that loves her just as much as she loves him, because she deserves it.
People who have been cheated on dont seem to understand there are so much better people out there, you just have to do the hard part and move past the discomfort to find your real person
good job on Yliza for that block, bc there’s no reason she should keep wasting her time on that man. everyone saying they’re shocked in these comments is wild to me, bc i would be shocked if someone so gorgeous and who appears so sweet and grounded and sure of their future continued to have someone in their life who is very not any of those things-even platonically.
You can tell Angela's ex is just reading a script he made to get her back... she clearly sees that but her emotion gets in the way. Rip to her sanity for the foreseeable future.
angela you’re such a beautiful woman i’m sure you’ll find a man that deserves you, and that man it’s NOT him. you’re far to good to be someone’s second option❤
The worst path forward for all three of these ex couples is to get back together. Once it’s over it’s over. The dynamic will never be equal again. It’s a recipe for disaster. This is my opinion based on my experiences.
Before my last shitshow of a relationship, I truly believed in giving people second chances, but now I don’t not only for relationships, but for friendships as well. Those two ladies’ unfaithful men is proof that people who wrong others know EXACTLY what they’re doing, and taking them back/ giving them another chance won’t make a difference because 1) the trust has been broken, so they won’t have the same mindset they once did, and 2) you’re just showing the person that you can’t stand on business which in turn can make them think they can walk all over you again. It hurts to let go, but it’ll be SOO worth it to heal the right way. Please don’t try to heal in the same place as the source of the hurt
Why do people give cheaters second chances - if you look beyond your immediate surroundings you'll find someone who respects you enough not to do that shit. Clearly these people still have feelings for each other, but those who got screwed over are making themselves look stupid.
Because they have low self esteem or think they won’t find anyone else. No one with healthy self esteem takes back a cheater. They do the work in therapy and move on.
17:08 I see the first girl so clearly. I feel her pain so so deeply. You’re not alone girl. This is a serious problem many people in our generation are sadly facing. It’s awful
True. I often think about "why does it happen more nowadays?" Or seem to be a newer concept. It happened to me before, to a lot of friends also. I have thought about it a lot. Why would I love someone that does not treat me with respect, why I am getting back to it like a no self respect woman. I think I found the answer. I begin to regret sleeping with them, even if the list is very short. Mostly, We meet, date and have sex, and so for some it is to have sex and then date. So we connect on a sexual level with people that are not truly meant for us. If we would have waited, we probably would have not slept with them after seeing their flaws and lack of respect. We have made the physical connexion before validating those "bare minimums". The result is we are being attracted and connected to a guy that is not meant for us on all the other levels. So it creates duality because we open ourselves sexually to people too quickly. As women are receptor and men issuer (physically at least), women tend to be more involved in this connexion. Do people understand what I try to explain?
Angela, it's okay to reminisce on the good times you had with him, but realize that you only love the idea of him. There are men out there who can make you laugh more but also make you feel secure and loved for who you are. These women deserve so much more than these boys could offer (which is next to nothing).
Assuming this is all real, the difference between the two men who cheated is wild. Jonathan seemed so remorseless it was kinda creepy. On the other hand John seemed to genuinely regret what he did. When Audrey told him the world didn't end after their breakup, his response of "Yeah, but that one did" was more thoughtful than Jonathan's entire screentime.
I'm sorry... 2 or 3 months after a break up? Oh you are not healed yet... find peace first, get all of those emotions of anger and hurt out and forgive him and yourself. Let go! You will feel a lot lighter and you will vieuw him differently.
Why do people cheat on people who seem so lovely in nature? I hate our society just pushes it under the carpet, as if it normal, healthy, or outright moral. We need to get our priorities straight.
Totally get that. It takes a lot of bravery to face your past, open up about your feelings, and put it all out there for the world to see. We admire the courage of the participants SO much!
watching the girls get smeared in this episode brought back memories. STAND UP LADIES yall bad asf. “waiting for them to change” stop dating potential and date what they are GIVING you😭
hi it’s Audrey from this episode.
just wanted to say that I really respect Jay and all the other participants for having this vulnerable of a conversation on camera. everyone’s story speaks to the power of self-love & I hope that is seen through all of this. it takes courage to break the cycle & learn why we anxiously attach ourselves to people or environments that aren’t in our best interest. I also think it’s good to normalize having these kind of dialogues so that we don’t repeat the same relationship. that’s how we grow & become better people at the end of the day by facing the uncomfortable truths. everyone has the opportunity to evolve in this lifetime even though it may feel like “the end” at times…
heart break can turn into breakthroughs if you choose healing ❤️🩹
I think I needed to hear this, thank you.
the girl he cheated on you with, what did she look like ?
@@bevs9995 why does that matter?
@@Lexishu Oh, just wondering. for science
You were very brilliant in articulating your thoughts and being true to what you felt throughout this episode! You were clear and honest, which are part of what made you so seem so confident in the video. Props to you👏
Why did you break up?
Him: “I internalised a lot”
Her: “He cheated”
followed by "I was blackmailed" naw dude you cheated
@@nickatworklike just own up to it damn!!
@@Sofia-hl8zimen annoy me 🤦🏾♀️😂
That's not a definition of internalized you find in the dictionary.
Mf said he sent anonymous nudes 💀💀
these boys are not ready for these amazing women
Fr
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So what’s new 👀
This should be a pinned comment !!!!!!
literally. they all seem like such sweet women.
I really hope the 2 girls who got cheated on run away as far as possible from those men, red flags are all over
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Yes I hope so too!
Those women deserve much better.
yup, they got cheated on so theyre now babies
Yep, thats a very good option. Especially if they haven't spent anytime getting help and don't demonstrate change.
Building back a different kind of loving relationship. It's lot of work! If he doesn't, then not only this relationship plus his future relationships Unfortunately will be very troubled. Angela doesn't know how to stop loving someone who's hurt them so bad 😢, unfortunately she needs help also. I wish all of them the very best in life!
Responding with “hmmmmm” when a woman you’re trying to get back asks “Do you even like my body? Am I even your type?” Is WILD💀
And then going on to explain starting with the sentence "...at the end of the day 🛑 you are my ideal type, bodywise, mentalitywise, emotionwise...thats just generally how I feel when it comes to that..." 😮🛑 giving me narc vibes
Omg YES! I didn’t even catch that
I think this is different language (If he’s Korean?) . Koreans say “Mhm” as yes. Not in a nonchalant way. The time of voice matters and his tone sounded like an “of course” Yes.
GURL PLEASE I FELT SO BAD FOR HER SHE SHOULD'NT BE DOUBTING HERSELF FOR A MEN WHO CHEATED ,ITS NOT HER FAULT, I LITERALLY TEAR UP SEEING HER LIKE THAT😭😭😭
Should he have yelled YES! I LOVE YOUR BODY. IT'S ALL I'VE EVER WANTED? Please give my nigga a break
Knowing Angela personally, she is one of the purest souls. She is absolutely beautiful inside and out. She doesnt deserve the way shes been treated and I hope one day she'll believe in love again and find that.
angelas super beautiful
Please make sure she doesnt get back with John
@@local.human-1904 YES PLEASE DO MAKE SURE SHE NEVER GETS BACK WITH THAT TOXIC EX
Listen ur gonna have to do her a favor and luigi the ex💀💀
Please Tell her to seek professional help (I genuinely don’t mean to offend her, I’m being fr), because that guy seems average in both looks and personality. I got a feeling that she has extreme problems in her self worth and gets drawn to someone that feeds her self doubt, which are mostly miserable men. I think she really needs some professional help that helps her build some self confidence/respect
Notice how the cheaters when giving a background of their relationships, they don't mention their cheating as part of the reasons they broke up ...
Cause once you cheat you can never have unsettled grievances right? Please, humans are far more complicated than that.
@@itszaaaamzeh cheating is a big reason why they broke up. leaving that out is just sugarcoating the situation lol
@@O90EKQZVP9 nobody "left it out". The reality is that things are never going 100% well then someone cheats. Treating cheating like it's this ideological evil deep within a person is entirely unhelpful to building healthy relationships.
Asian guy literally said lying and cheating
@@mikefowl929we all know he’s not thinking it
angela is so gorgeous. you should never feel like you need to change your body for someone to love you. he sucks and i hope you find someone who loves and respects every part of you girl ❤️
Amen to this!!!
The Asian guy seems so emotionless...
She should stay escaped & not go back...
THANK YOU.
weird for u to say that, like u know him from a 25 min video. Not eveyone can express their emotions the same especially on camera
@@retro_tcb doesn’t change the fact that he cheated on her with multiple girls
@@retro_tcb he cheated on her with not just one but MANY girls and the entire time he had NO emotion at all when she was talking and legit just said basic shit towards her that she have heard many times. I am sorry for her that she doesn't have the self respect to realize that she can do way better
@@lexsulonair he opened up, i dont know if u know this but people grow differently, we got his thoughts, feelings, in the moment emotions. He didnt say those things with/to her maybe becuase he is a little on the introverted side. Whats worse about your comment is that ur the the type of person to say the opposite of this if it was a woman
Angela having a PERFECT body and him acting all nonchalant about him making her feel insecure about it is diabolical. She is light years out of his league and he knows it. That's why he's acting that way.
Hes not lmao
@@-zombiylmao facts this is just cope. Plus she got NO cake back there 😭😭 how is that the perfect body
Angela!! Baby girl! YOU DO NOT NEED THIS MAN. You're so young. So much live to life and people to meet. You deserve a man who will worship you and not cheat!
Love this.
PREACHHHHH
Worship is crazy
@@TJistheGoat1212 LOL not in actual religious way ofc. But in the way of being totally and completely loyal. I think everyone deserves that.
@@TJistheGoat1212 I said these exact words when I read this. Worship is crazy. Who’s god are you? Certainly not mine 😭🙏
angela STAND UP!!! LAWWWWD PLEASE GET AWAY FROM HIM LOL
LITERALLY LIKE GIRL STAND UPPP
Nah ANGELA RUN AWAY.
I feel for her💔😔
My thoughts exactly
as someone who has dealt with a man like this i totally understand how easy it is love someone who only hurts you. but when you truly love yourself, you’ll find the strength to never let anyone treat you like that again
If you truly love someone, you will do everything in your power to not hurt them unnecessarily.
👏👏👏 preach
Explain when would be necessary to hurt them? I’d really REALLY like to know.
@@Xejex sometimes you can't help but hurt them. For example, if they're really close to your family, and your grandma passes away, it'd hurt them but you can't change that. Or if you find a better job in a new city and they have to decide whether or not to move with you and leave your current home behind.
Untrue. The people that hurt you the most deeply are loved ones. Because humans are capable of doing bad.
@@Xejexif you had a gun to your head and had to eat another girls butt to save your gfs life. Your gf would understand the hurt was necessary
Angela for the love of god please never get back with him. He will tell you anything and everything he thinks you wanna hear and you said that yourself! You deserve SO much more.
yeah...the update. constant contact. hes making it so youll be insanely lonely without him and need to rely on him. please girl run for the hills. as someone who has been cheated on and stayed with someone for 2 years.. they do not change and they gain pleasure out of sneaking behind your back. that is not love. i wish the best for you
Maybe that asian guy was young and he made mistake...
@@charlesritchet9949cheating is never forgiven ever
@@charlesritchet9949cheating twice?💀 he did that intentionally knowing what he was doing and it’s a mistake?
@@charlesritchet9949 there’s no mistake. It sounds like he’s a serial cheater
anything to do with cheating is a big NO 🙏🏽🙏🏽 stand on business y’all
Absolutely!! The ultimate betrayal
while that's true my dad cheated on my mom when my older sister was born and they still stayed together then had me and til death did they part. so in some cases it can work out, I don't stand by it and personally wouldn't stay with a cheater. but I am here and alive only because my parents stayed together after my dad cheated.
@@hannahsmith7116sounds like they just stayed together for their kids lol
Thissss
@@pneumaaexactly what my moms doinh
the lack of remorse on the asian dudes face is aggravating
I swear
6minutes in and can already see how self centered and manipulative he is
He's just a dude being a dude
But a dumm ASF dude 😂
Facts
When she was crying he had lust in his eyes ew
i felt so bad for angela omg. especially the part where she said she felt that her body wasn't "good enough" for him, that hit so damn hard because i feel like so many girls can relate to this sentiment whether they're in a relationship or not. women have always been scrutinized and judged for their appearance and body and expected to meet these crazy expectations set by p0rn addicted men. i hope she gets the love that she deserves and i wish her all the best
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he doesn't deserve her whatsoever. i would've just walked out
One of the best parts about being in a truly loving relationship is acceptance of all your parts. No matter weight gain, loss, stretch marks, hair loss (or gain in different spots) or changes after birth… I love my partner and she loves me. To not be judged for that stuff and just be loved no matter what feels so good. I hope you find it Angela!
@@Sethonious yes to a certain degree i would say
so many have gone through those same emotions, me included
I'm only 1:15 deep, and I already wish Angela wasn't even in the same building as this dude.
I'm 6:15 deep and the urge to want to slap his senses out of him is so hard. The fact that Angela is there obviously trying so hard to hold back tears and he's still smiling makes my blood boil
I dated Jon from Aug 2022 - Feb 2023. I broke up with him because he was so disrespectful and essentially being a terrible partner, and oh boy was I there for the guy. Angela, I hope you stand the f*** up and not get back with him because he doesn’t deserve you. Jon, grow the f*** up and why would you go on a cut show to try and get her back? Stop hurting other women even though it’s the only thing you know what to do.
Somebody get her to see this 😢💗
Omg ❤️
Seems like he’s just on a loop of f**king things up over n over. Thinks he knows what he truly wants but keeps cheating n treating women like trash. If Angela sees him still as a potential partner/husband ima rip my hair out
The girl with the red hair is so funny. When her ex broke down crying about healing alone and she was like 😟😀 “you’re doing it”
I think she knew he wasn’t actually crying. He was “choking up” on tears that never fell
How else was she supposed to act? He hurt her by cheating yet she wanted to help him remain optimistic about his new path in life. Yes, healing alone is difficult, but he’s doing it and he’s doing a great job is what she’s portraying.
Angela needs a real man that will treat her like the queen she is. She's absolutely beautiful inside and out
sorry but crying and acting all emotional when you're the one who cheated is crazy work to me
it was soo fake
The way I bust out laughing reading your comment. 🤣
My ex would do that. I'm so glad I eventually chose me. Just sucks it took two years and three separate instances of cheating.
@@Basic-wm8uf same! 😂
I’m cryinnnn
The other two dudes were obvious red flags, but I actually rooted for chase until he FLAKED at the end. I feel like I got a taste of why he’s such a red flag when he set expectations up for a reconnect and then pumped the brakes. Like a microcosm of their whole “dating for 6 years” but edging on the proposal thing.
He's obviously just not ready which sucks for her, but at the same time she shoulndt have to wait for him
Not marriage edging 😂
@@andrewseitz1132 but he gives mixed signals, which I think viewers experienced first hand. He gives off the “I want to marry you” vibe and “I want to demonstrate commitment” energy, but then reels it in during the critical moments.
He’s the type to keep a relationship suspended in animation in the name of his own entertainment and indecisiveness. Like he enjoyed the giddiness of the whole experience, but when it’s time to pony up and show you mean it, he flakes.
I think it makes sense for him to sober up to the implications of getting back into a relationship, but he had no problem indulging in her intimacy and vulnerability up until the moment of truth. That comes off as pretty manipulative and parasitic. Like he was there to enjoy the ride until it got serious.
I don’t like when parasitic behavior gets normalized and erased via simplification with phrases like “he wasn’t ready”. It’s ok not to be ready, but communicating otherwise, implicitly or explicitly, is fuck boi shit.
Idk that’s how I interpret this at least.
@@NatashaVincent it’s a thing now lmaoo
@@kekkler you described what he did perfectly!❤
Angela, RUN. That guy is YAPPING
The girl with the red hair was right to leave immediately. She knows her worth. Ladies, never lower your standards. If they wanted to be faithful they would, and if they wanted to marry you they would have done it years ago.
Don’t waste your good years with losers that don’t value you. A man that wants you will treat you right and never leave you wondering if they really love you. Men rarely change. What you see is what you get and what you will continue to receive.
exactly! The construction worker guy talking about "I'd want to marry her someday" like he's not ready for her. If a man loves you, you'll know!
I see the first girl so clearly. I feel her pain so so deeply. You’re not alone girl. This is a serious problem many people in our generation is sadly facing. It’s awful
♥
I know seeing her cry made me cry because I know the feeling so horridly
Why does everyone always chalk it up to "this generation"? Cheating has been a thing for as long as humanity has been around. The only difference now is that it's more exposed.
The girl crying is so so real. If I saw my ex I think I would burst into tears. Just so much trauma
Notice how all the guys did wrong to the girls yet the girls were willing to give them one more chance. Why does woman have to be forgiving whyy?? These men cheated on them and do not deserve these beautiful girls.
yeah it's actually embarrassing, they'll get cheated on again and the cycle repeats.
Yet when men get cheated on they aren't so forgiving
@@dude14377or they’re trying to think the best of people they’re in love with and it’s embarrassing for the men to cheat on these amazing women. obviously they need to realize their worth but let’s stop taking the blame of the men outside the equation
Cry about it weirdo
you haven't even finished the video. Anecdotes, anecdotes
Angela folded too easy.. getting cheated on two times is rough maybe it'll take three times for her to realize her worth. That boy does not know anything about respect and will definitely do it again
these girls are beautiful bro 😭 can’t believe these guys would cheat
Men can find a beautiful woman anywhere, it’s not a rare occurrence. But that’s not the point it’s that they don’t pedestalize beauty because they already had it
@ i see what you mean
Probably cause especially for Jonathan he's been with other girls who are equally as pretty, if not even prettier
😂these girls came here to kiss them.
I can tell that these girl have weak, shitty personalities. Shitty meaning boring and other negative characteristics.
Not as bad people.
That’s why they cheated, clearly.
Men do not like weak women.
Men unable bad people so don’t complain.
😂these girls came here to kiss them.
I can tell that these girl have weak, shitty personalities. Shitty meaning boring and other negative characteristics.
Not as bad people.
That’s why they cheated, clearly.
Men do not like weak women.
Men unable bad people so don’t complain.
If you actually love them, you don't go around hurting them. When you value something, you do nothing to mess that up.
Unfortunately it’s just not that simple. People fail to realize the fact that love is so much more complicated than it seems.
@@intr_sive its pretty fucking simple, If you want to cheat and betray your partner and their trust then don't be with them in the first place. That isn't complicated in any sense, its selfish.
@@intr_sivenah it is in fact that simple LOL
@@Hind-0o0.0o0 While I get where you’re coming from-love should ideally mean protecting and valuing someone-it’s important to remember that relationships and emotions aren’t always black and white. People can love someone deeply and still make choices that cause harm. Cheating, for example, often stems from unresolved personal issues, unmet needs, or poor impulse control rather than a lack of love. That doesn’t excuse it, but it shows that the reasons behind such actions are more complicated than simply not valuing someone. Love is powerful, but humans are messy, and life doesn’t always align with ideals
@intr_sive is simple for me if i do something hurtful I meant and I don't like the person I will never throw words that I don't mean and our brain is there for what ? Most people know exactly why they doing what they doing and you can bring disease to them and than you still claim you love them ☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️ yh maybe the love you talking about is cheap words nothing more.
What’s interesting is the minute Angela popped on the screen, I thought she was gorgeous and I envied her skin and features. And this little boy made her feel otherwise. I hate the power we give them emotionally. He will always run you man, please leave. Much cooler people in this world than him.
THIS
THIS
right i was thinking god she’s beautiful
All 3 women were beautiful.
4:26 That's your body tellig you that it doesn't want him sis🙅🏽♀
she should see this comment. I hope she realized that unconsiously her mind is telling her everything; RUNNN
True and I bet she even had eating issues in relationship with how she said she feels insecure about her body and stuff with him... cause the body knows and does stuff like this when you're with the wrong guy...if not eating issues the lean back is enough of big sign angela...you're gorgeous gorgeous sweet girl who'll get a man who'll treat you so right, make you happier than this excuse of cheater trash just runnnnnn
I hated this. Why would you help a cheater get closer to an ex who is clearly traumatised?
Ikr I wanted to watch ex couples who were in a healthy relationship get reunited
@@dancingdivazrioooyess
this is such a valid point. this is like playing with fire.
Totally agree. They should not have done that
I mean it’s their choice they went on the show bc they wanted to
The end was a surprise tbh like They actually blocked each other DAMN
Not to me. She wanted him to choose her in the end, but he didn’t. She was disappointed and probably finally realized that he was never going to marry her. There’s really nothing to talk about if you’re both not on the same page. She’s way out of his league, and will find better.
Nah you could tell he wanted to say no but just said maybe cuz the cameras were on
Also delicate phases like really focusing and working on yourself would not be as effective if you knew the other person was there, even if just a tiny bit. Something useful only clicks with the "no contact".
i know wtf
@@missbritt1986yeah that's kinda exactly how it happened 😅
The Asian couple need to stay away from each other she’s already hurt and he just is very nonchalant
I think he was very good tbh. I think he handled his and hers emotions very well. He admitted that he was unfaithful and that he had a porn addiction and that he knows that he broke her heart and trust. At the end of the day when you’re the one that cheated all you can do is be honest and open and take responsibility for what happened and in this video I think he did all that. He didn’t beat around the bush or lie or tried to make it seem like she was the issue, He maned up and said what I done wasn’t right and I understand that it broke your heart and the trust you had for me and I’m working on how I can better myself mentally, physically and emotionally. The only way for these two to get back together and it working would be to see if his actions back up his words. At the end of the day anyone can say whatever they want but their actions tell the truth
@@thegamingrelish9272 nah he's just a smooth talker
@@thegamingrelish9272he’s def a narcissist who knows how to act for an camera
She’s hurt, big time.
So what most cheaters do that and say sorry i love you bla bla i hurted you and than do the same thing is better she stay away know not when he put stupid kids in her stomach.@@thegamingrelish9272
I am so thankful how Angela is honest about her inner feelings and pain, especially expressing it in front of the camera😢
Right. She’s being real and people are mocking her. She’s a good girl, I wish her the best
the fact that all 3 girls were SO insanely beautiful and these 3 dudes are so normal looking that i wouldn’t even blink twice 😒 i want better for us girls
Really? Besides Chase, I think they're just about evenly matched in terms of physical attractiveness... In terms of the beauty within, it's a different story.
Angela, i hope you'll someday know your worth, you are so much better than this
It's so sad to see the lack of self-worth from Angela. To let someone do that to you and still accept them back is just heartbreaking. I understand that she must have low self-esteem or insecurity or maybe childhood trauma that makes her feel as if she should accept that but it's just so sad to see her accept trash in the sea when there are so many beautiful fish. She deserves better and I hope she works on her self-respect and sense of self-worth, and realizes that.
Angela needs to read this
So many of us women are crying with you Angela. You put so many of our emotions and experiences into words
13:36 “the world didn’t end” “I know, but that one did” 😭
Right in the feels
Don't EVER give a cheater a second chance or even a first chance... if they cheated before they'll do it again
Did not expect Yliza and Chase to have blocked each other. That was the biggest surprise.
You could tell he didn't wanna commit to her... she deserves much better!
that was crazy, i felt their chemistry
She's way out of his league anyway. Jesus, look at the dude lol.
@@ChrisTheAspergerGuy I mean, he was looking good when they showed their past photos/videos
@ChrisTheAspergerGuy a sight for sore eyes. Also that gross braid just topped it all off.
Angela, you are so beautiful. This man is a sliver of your life. Your worth is not dependent on how a cheater will treat you. You are a glowing light. I am crying typing this, because I really hope you find somebody who helps you see this.
To Angela:
Run girl and save yourself another heartbreak. The fact that he cheated on you twice and made you suffer the worst pain the second time around are clear signs you need to leave him because he never respected you!! You're a beautiful girl so please respect yourself and set boundaries. Remember the pain he inflicted on you, not as a way to self-loathe but a way to realize you deserve way more.
A man who values you will not make you feel insecure, will not make you feel you're not enough, and will not inflict pain on you mutiple times simply because he is too weak to deal with his own addictions. He made a choice and broke the trust. He's the problem not you.
Yes he can say how perfect you are but it's the way he made you feel that matters the most. Actions speak louder than words!
" It doesn't matter what you say, you say the same things to other people... it doesn't mean anything"
Listen to yourself. If you let him into your life again, it'll just mean he can take advantage of you easily. Don't give value to something, aka his words, that has lost its value.
Ask yourself why you want to hold on to this relationship that he single-handedly broke. Is it because of comfort, is it because you want to believe he can change or because you want to seek validation. Whichever it is, focus on yourself. You're so much better and hope you can find a person who truly loves and cares for you. Good luck and stay strong ❤
I hope one day that the women here, especially Angela, arrive at the happy point they deserve to be at and the men here get the help they need to be better people.
hell nah that asian couple, girl please run, run as fast as you can
Oh god Angela please don’t get back with him. I’ve seen that man in so many different people. He is not ready to change. He may never be. For the love of god please find someone who will cherish your relationship.
The only person I could see was grounded was the Audrey. She stood on business. And the energy those men gave and their answers smh weak.
the asian dude is the most immature dude I've seen, Angela is absolutely gorgeous and should have absolutely no reason to feel insecure about herself.
Thing is...cheating isn't something you can do just one time! Run girls run
that man seems so emotionless... and the fact angela had to ask if he liked her body or was even good enough for him like.... girl runnnn your so pretty and did not deserve what that man put you through
At 22:23, The guy with the stache and thin ponytail with the girl with the green tinged hair. Sending huge mixed messages... first he had been saying he wants to get back with her, then at the end when she is clearly keen for a restart, he does a 180 and crushes her her disappointment is so profound. He doesn't deserve her.. she deserves so much more than he is giving.
literally
Exactly I saw that
I could feel Angela so much, 6:07 it just like " I have been suffering so much from you cheat on me twice,but why you look so easy for it."😢😢
I read this title as "execs kiss for the first time" and thought they has like managers kissing their employees 😂😂
Somebody call HR😂
😂 That sounds like a VERY different video.
That's the next video
25:33 did not expect to see them just block each other
Honestly I was kinda glad when I seen that 😂
frrrr
Angela you'll be laughing about him when you're 30, or even sooner if you run away NOW
Yall messssyyy
real cuzzz wthhh!
angela needs to stand on business…
I feel so bad for Angela, her ex is no man at all. It's actually heart wrenching to see her let all her emotions out and tell him things that mean alot to her and he's just sitting there being emotionless?? Like man comfort her, and explain to her that you messed up and show her that she means alot to you. like ughh bro its not that hard to be a good man!! poor girl. I hope she truly finds someone that loves her just as much as she loves him, because she deserves it.
People who have been cheated on dont seem to understand there are so much better people out there, you just have to do the hard part and move past the discomfort to find your real person
good job on Yliza for that block, bc there’s no reason she should keep wasting her time on that man. everyone saying they’re shocked in these comments is wild to me, bc i would be shocked if someone so gorgeous and who appears so sweet and grounded and sure of their future continued to have someone in their life who is very not any of those things-even platonically.
The guy who can't make up his mind.....make a decision she's beautiful, smart, knows herself, stop leaving the girl hanging and wasting her time.
if it’s been 6 years, he’ll probably never know and he’ll get her hopes up but always fail to step up to the plate
There’s an interesting pattern with these couples with the man being unfaithful…
Exactly
We’re not surprised
It’s almost as if this channel casts a specific type (LA liberals) for their audiences bubble. 😱
@@sirchadiusmaximusiiinah, men are just like that.
@sirchadiusmaximusiii orrrr it shows how it's a pattern in today's world for so many men to be unfaithful 😱what a shocker
When you cheat as an adult it's just gonna keep continuing, and you getting back with them is just showing them how to cheat better. 👏
You can tell Angela's ex is just reading a script he made to get her back... she clearly sees that but her emotion gets in the way. Rip to her sanity for the foreseeable future.
angela you’re such a beautiful woman i’m sure you’ll find a man that deserves you, and that man it’s NOT him. you’re far to good to be someone’s second option❤
Jonathan’s got a whole ass script memorized like dude this isn’t a sales pitch.. he knows how to manipulate and is good at it
I'd die if I fumbled any of these women. All are gorgeous and seem like genuinely good people.
13:35 the crocodile tears LOL reminds me of my ex trying to cry in front of me when he cheated on me
He was squeezing and all 😂
Angela and Jonathan getting back together and Yliza and Chase blocking each other is NOT how I expected this to go 😮
Damn the guy with angela seems so narcissistic personality wise. Hopefully she leaves him forever .
The worst path forward for all three of these ex couples is to get back together. Once it’s over it’s over. The dynamic will never be equal again. It’s a recipe for disaster. This is my opinion based on my experiences.
What is this CHARITY WORK these girls are doing
Before my last shitshow of a relationship, I truly believed in giving people second chances, but now I don’t not only for relationships, but for friendships as well. Those two ladies’ unfaithful men is proof that people who wrong others know EXACTLY what they’re doing, and taking them back/ giving them another chance won’t make a difference because 1) the trust has been broken, so they won’t have the same mindset they once did, and 2) you’re just showing the person that you can’t stand on business which in turn can make them think they can walk all over you again. It hurts to let go, but it’ll be SOO worth it to heal the right way. Please don’t try to heal in the same place as the source of the hurt
The girls that got cheated on need to leave far from them
Especially the man with the beard crying is so toxic
angela, you accept the love you think you deserve. leave him
Why do people give cheaters second chances - if you look beyond your immediate surroundings you'll find someone who respects you enough not to do that shit. Clearly these people still have feelings for each other, but those who got screwed over are making themselves look stupid.
Life isn't as black and white as you think bro. Everyone has unique circumstances what matters is the way the two involved feel about eachother tbh
Because they have low self esteem or think they won’t find anyone else. No one with healthy self esteem takes back a cheater. They do the work in therapy and move on.
I think it’s because they think they won’t find better than that or nobody would want them since they got cheated on
Beautiful women. How can these guys say I love you and then cheat. I will never get it.
15:13 i literally started crying
the ginger girl speaks like the most healed person in the world who has spent a lot of time in therapy
17:08 I see the first girl so clearly. I feel her pain so so deeply. You’re not alone girl. This is a serious problem many people in our generation are sadly facing. It’s awful
I know her describing the exact same situation that I experienced was so upsetting
True. I often think about "why does it happen more nowadays?" Or seem to be a newer concept. It happened to me before, to a lot of friends also. I have thought about it a lot. Why would I love someone that does not treat me with respect, why I am getting back to it like a no self respect woman. I think I found the answer. I begin to regret sleeping with them, even if the list is very short.
Mostly, We meet, date and have sex, and so for some it is to have sex and then date. So we connect on a sexual level with people that are not truly meant for us. If we would have waited, we probably would have not slept with them after seeing their flaws and lack of respect. We have made the physical connexion before validating those "bare minimums". The result is we are being attracted and connected to a guy that is not meant for us on all the other levels. So it creates duality because we open ourselves sexually to people too quickly. As women are receptor and men issuer (physically at least), women tend to be more involved in this connexion. Do people understand what I try to explain?
Angela broke my heart😭 I'm sure her cuts gonna go viral
Angela, it's okay to reminisce on the good times you had with him, but realize that you only love the idea of him. There are men out there who can make you laugh more but also make you feel secure and loved for who you are. These women deserve so much more than these boys could offer (which is next to nothing).
The three ladies, you have my respect.
How about none of them get back together and those little boys learn to grow up to be the man these beautiful mature women have to YEARN
14:36 is crazy work. That "hmm" knocked me out of my bed smh
being cheated on is a big NO
the only person with any sense in this entire video was audrey.
The fact these girls are so beautiful it’s actually insane, it just shows men are never EVER satisfied both personality and physical wise
Assuming this is all real, the difference between the two men who cheated is wild. Jonathan seemed so remorseless it was kinda creepy. On the other hand John seemed to genuinely regret what he did. When Audrey told him the world didn't end after their breakup, his response of "Yeah, but that one did" was more thoughtful than Jonathan's entire screentime.
I'm sorry... 2 or 3 months after a break up? Oh you are not healed yet... find peace first, get all of those emotions of anger and hurt out and forgive him and yourself. Let go! You will feel a lot lighter and you will vieuw him differently.
Why do people cheat on people who seem so lovely in nature? I hate our society just pushes it under the carpet, as if it normal, healthy, or outright moral. We need to get our priorities straight.
Ikr how cruel can be a person to do something like that to someone they once said ILY to
Ppl are so bad nowadays and i hate it
bruh that dude cheated and she still said she loved him even though all that... aint no way, have self respect
bruh she has self-respect, but you literally can't help loving someone you shared so much time and intimate moments with
fr and two times wow.. she needs to stand up
@@keonaroyhe’s going to cheat again and then she’ll learn to stay away permanently
The cringeness I got just imagining myself in their place
Totally get that. It takes a lot of bravery to face your past, open up about your feelings, and put it all out there for the world to see. We admire the courage of the participants SO much!
No wonder I was skipping the whole shit. These women need to love themselves.
Same😭
Damaged people will accept the level of love they believe they deserve
watching the girls get smeared in this episode brought back memories. STAND UP LADIES yall bad asf. “waiting for them to change” stop dating potential and date what they are GIVING you😭
1 min ago 😭
18:44 I'M SORRY but the switch up to the product placement literally had me rolling
All these pretty girls really tried to giving second chances to this cheaters? Girlies you need stand up for yourself