timmy yusuf honestly my man! give this a go and I can promise you you'll feel better and you will grow from this! If you feel like you want to talk or you have questions drop me a message on insta @ jchizzy23 and I'll be able to clear up any questions you may have :)
HEIDY NUÑEZ I hear ya Heidi...it gets better trust me..you’ll be just fine...Leo doing things that take your mind off it while striving to be your best self
Accept and express your emotions. Accept it’s over. No contact. Cut them off. Hobbies. Friends. Ask yourself what it’s really about? Why is it hard to let them go?
Thank you so much. My husband is leaving me after 15 years and it's so hard to let go when we've made a life together for so long. Your voice is calming and reassuring
JesusLovesMe2 + Thanks for the encouragement...I'm still healing. I feel like I'll never find the right one. I've been alone most of my life. I've tried looking nice, praying, staying busy, dating sites and nothing seems to work. I just want to not care about love if I'm not going to have a love life. It hurts also that people around me seem to find someone with little effort. I've even asked God if I was cursed or just destined to be alone. I'm grateful for my health, job, and the few friends and family I do have. I would just love to have that soulmate to spend the rest of my life with. I hope your doing good and hopefully your heart is joyful.
May Phoenix I know that’s how it seems now but God knows all things. I was just in a courtship with a Christian man who really broke my heart. He put his hands on me and hurt me. That ended and now I feel very much alone. God made a man to be strong to protect us- the weaker vessels, not to hurt them 😔. Many days I feel that way too, but keep the faith in God and allow him to transform you from the inside out.
Ergge Bfdfd Don't worry about it man! you'll definitley grow from this experience and thank you for watching and commenting man, i appreciate you sharing that with me :)
Alex Roman hey man! big respect to you for having the courage to tell her how you feel! that's not always easy but don't sweat it man, this experience will make you stronger ☺.. and I appreciate you commenting man, im honoured this made you feel better :)
This has been a constant struggle I go thru. Rejection has been so crippling to me that at the age 25 im considering celibacy for the rest of my life. When you been rejected as many times as i have, you wonder if its even worth it. And if you do manage to find someone, you feel like; "well nobody else wanted me, so this guy is going to date someone nobody wants". being single isnt all that bad anyway. Giving your heart to someone is a huge risk.
Kennedy Antoinette i wish that were the case for me:( my ex left me yesterday and our 2 years is in 2 weeks :( he said i was clingy and annoying and he couldn’t lie abt his feelings anymore. i thought he was my person and it hurts so much
sofia aguirre and yk I was dealing with a guy who said we were exclusive but he was ready for a relationship for a year. Then found out he was sleeping with someone else. So sometime things don’t go the way we want but you learn to deal with the hits and keep rolling
First don't try to have strong feelings for the person. Second don't keep asking the person out. Third if they like you as a friend but not romantically get over it. Four think of what you want in someone special. Five don't settle for anyone.
I enjoyed the video!! Life sometimes just doesn’t make sense. Especially, the people that are in it. People will hurt you , and act like you hurt them . 💔😢
For four years. I've been in love with a woman who doesn't give two shits about me and i was even still in love with her even though I knew the truth. This video makes a whole lot of sense and maybe I'll take this advice to heart.
@@Mrshoottokill I'm doing excellent, thanks for asking. Met a few more girls and eventually got really close to one. I stopped chasing and hoping for the wrong girl and moved on. It ain't easy, but they're are many good people willing to talk out there.
I've been seeing this woman for 9 months now, I put more time and energy into her than any other woman in the past and she told me she wants to be friends and heal herself. Thank you for this video. Every single day is a struggle to conquer my emotions. It's no easy task and your video is a good guide. Much appreciated!
all of the steps you said I did them before watching your video and it helped but what caught my ear was when you said about enjoying your own company,making you happy
He broke up with me the day before Valentine's day 😭I felt so dumb on Valentine's day 🙁 I cried in school in front of everyone thanks to God he wasn't there at the moment bc when I saw him my heart sank 😭 and I tried staying strong in front of him but I just couldn't. I ran out of the class and cried on my own😧😭
May Phoenix oh I’m sorry to hear that but yes I found the perfect person and it’s my bestfriend . I can’t believe I didn’t see it earlier. But hope you feel better
I met a guy that had every quality Iv been looking for. We clicked instantly, talked laughed! I wanted to make us official but he didn’t want a relationship. Days weeks then months of back n forth of be my BF and me trying to b his friend hopefully he will finally date me. Well long story short I blew up and told him how I felt, now I’m blocked from everything on his side. And I’m hurt hurt! Was his feelings just lies? If a man likes u and wants you around then what’s the issue? I can’t stop thinking about him!
I understand that completely cause I'm in the same situation. But I had to walk away completely cause it was breaking my heart. I lost 50 pounds, I was crying myself to sleep and I was becoming bitter. I finally told him, I couldn't be friends with him anymore. But I'm glad you still have a friendship. Only you know what's best for you
My girlfriend just broke up with me. This really does work and honestly just realize that it is over and move on look forward to what is in the future and don’t look back in the past
So you cannot be completely happy.. until you're happy by yourself. You know what man, that's the reminder I needed, I use to enjoy my own company until I was too dependent on this special girl. But now I remember how happy I was on my own. I appreciate that.
Look man, im 3 years late to this video, but I appreciate you big time bossman. Ive been hurt countless times by people i couldnt get over and honestly i just needed to realize that i need to find my own happiness. Youre working wonders my guy thank you fr
Lauryn Chandler hit me up on instagram or on snapchat and we can talk. I'll be more than happy to help you :) ( insta: jchizzy23, or snap me @ yochizz23)
Fell in love with a married women whom I started to adore & the feelings felt mutual. I haven't heard from her in a few months. It's best to leave her alone and do my best to live my best life.
It's hard to move on when you see them moving on in life and with someone else. but you can't, due to unemployment and having life kick you down constantly. Sometimes I wish life can just fast forward till the day I die, so I won't have to worry about these things.
This was amazing.. This is perfect. Thank you so much. Every word you said was so helpful, I took so many notes. Hopefully in the future when I come back to re-read this comment again, I'll have moved on from my lover x) thank you!
ReplayzJinxA hey man! props to you for having the courage to tell her! 🙌.. and ayy don't worry about it, hang in there man, you'll grow from the experience :) .. and thank you for commenting man, im glad the vid has helped you in some way :)
Joshua Chisambo i shut her out of my life cause i feel like i have Bipolar cause i get a moment where i start to think of onw thing and all my sad feelings for her attack me (i start cryin
All of this sounds so easy but its the hardest thing in my life right now. I just don't wanna hurt anymore, I don't wanna be sad anymore, I don't know how to pick myself up.😔
It's amazing how we fantasize about that special someone and the entire time, it's just an illusion in our minds. Slang term for Illusion is a "Fools Paradise" Then the music does nooooo Justice 😂😂😂😂😂
This is great and spot on. I have been trying to move on from a guy i grew to really like at work but he doesn't feel the same way. He now has a gf. This advice helps both with the self reflection and dealing with the hurt with not making the cut with him. Thank you :)
Dani Marie thank you! And you get it, it really does make a difference. We learn so much about ourselves through self reflection so you have really hit the nail on the head there
*I'm dealing with my emotions and have accepted this coward's choice to block me out of nowhere and move on after you just said he so called loved me, wow... He's heartache don't need him...*
I want to thank you so much this is going to help me In the future and now let god bless you on the teachings you have taught these many people who are heartbroken
Thank you so much for these advices, I think they are very good and you focus on self esteem instead, that was so cool because it's inevitable to think that ti's something wrong about me. I was looking for something that made me feel better and your words did it after being rejected at a company party by a girl who I liked since like six months ago and honestly I needed to hear that it's ok to sorrow for some time
Thankyou I won’t get into another relationship- the emotional destabilising and complete rebuild of your self takes time - you do get there - it’s painfull and the amount of people in this world suffering heartbreak- seems like people are flippant about staying in a relationship. Things get a bit hard, they walk , rather than work it out. Wider community net working now - thru out world - opens more choice of people out there. People don’t stick it out in the hard times - they just drop and pick up elsewhere. Partnership / marriage use to mean something once.....
So thankful to find your video. I’ve been having a hard time letting go of a guy for at least a year now. We talk but I don’t know if he’s replying to my messages out of respect 🤷♀️
dimitarie It's all good! im just so happy you got something out of it and I really appreciate you taking the time to watch the videos! I can't say it enough but honestly thank you :)
I am glad I watched this. Thank you for helping me and others who are going through this. I appreciate it so much. I liked this person for about 3 years now and I'm learning to get over them. Also pointing out things you don't like about the person can actually help you get over them. I watched so many videos because I'm just desperately wanting to move on. But I'm learning. It's strange, it kinda makes me nervous trying to move on. I don't know why. Maybe that's just me being overly emotional. But anyways, again thank you so much. I love you man🌹
I fell in love with his spirit and soul. I have never been able to stop loving him. I’ve been in different relationships and have enjoyed life I have 3 kids i didn’t let me not being with this person stop me from living but deep down I always hoped he’d come around and give me a chance. I’ve tried everything to let go but I’ve been unsuccessful. We have not talked in years we have not seen each other in years…yet I’m still in love with him.
I just came to the realization of what a horrible friend I was to this person but I also know that it want fully my fault and this really helped me thank you
Dude, she led me on for 5 months, then her friends told me she never really even cared. I would sing her to sleep. Write songs for her. And just be everything I could. And she never cared in the first place. Thank-you for this video
And what if you work at the same place with him and when he always acts like nothing happened before and starts to talk to you every time he sees you??
I always think there's a new beginning in my life this is not the end of the chapter this is not the end of the book cuz I'm writing a brand new one in my life with the help of God life must go on anything dead must be buried pass or whatever
i have been through this recently and it worth guys don't stuck to people who don't want you,move on there are lot of fishes in the sea...even better one..once you meet them,you will laugh out fresh..once you are over you will never want them again😉
This is actually what I've been looking for! :) I mean I am already letting go of her and this actually confirmed a lot of stuff tht I've been telling myself.. Tnx :D
Thank you so very much you delightfully honest, humbled and vulnerable handsome and with a beautiful spirit! It's awesome to see a video made from a masculine perspective. I feel like we are truly all "ONE"___🌎 and 💔 is the human condition....😭😥😮💨🌹
Joshua from all the so called life coaches on you tube ur video has made the complete sense simple n practical especially the part where you say that one needs to spend time n be happy with themselves n that draws the right people to u as ur picky n choosy rather than wanting a relationship having a relationship with yourself first...amazing stuff helped me much more than the life coaches out there definitely was a sign for me great work have subscribed love ur video☺👍
This guy said he liked me back and now he's distancing from me and it hurts a lot, I always check when he's online or if he's talking to someone else and he usually is. I'll do the best I can to distance, thank you, man.
Thank you a lot brother for your clever advices, I'm having hard time trying to forget her because she meant everything for me.. now it's all gone 😪💔 I'll try to stick to your precious advices bro.. Take care.
Hello, and thank You for your video. It sounded like from someone who has taken some of these issues in consideration in a mature way. Some good advice. I appreciate your way of putting forth information on the topic.
Me and this girl used to have a thing about a year ago and it didn’t really work out. Then a month later we started talking a lot and now we’re best friends. To this day I still have feelings, and I’ve never felt such a way around a girl before. I really like her and i finally told her how I feel and she just said thx for telling me. Ik she replied well but ah I thought I’d get something out of it. I’m just lost right now because I keep getting rejected and don’t know where to go. All summer I’ve been upset and sad about the whole thing and it’s got me down, I don’t know how to get my mind off this mess. I’m trying to move on but it’s so hard..
Going though it right now, I know I deserve better and that he just isn’t capable or being the partner I need or the father our unborn baby needs. He wanted me to get an abortion and thinks I’m being selfish by going ahead with it. He is just afraid of child support , the crayY thing is he told me to not take my BC and that it would be fine if I did get pregnant. After I was, he changed completely and screams yells and cusses at me . My low self esteem allowed me to stay and grasp for any love he would occasionally throw at me. I deserve a lot more and even though this is heart wrenching and will raise my baby alone. It must be done. I can’t wait until she comes next month and I can be distracted by my sweet daughter.
I’m even contemplating not listing him on the birth certificate and letting him just sign his rights away because he has made it clear the only thing he is worried about is child support and the only thing I was worried about was having him be a great father and be there emotionally and to help raise her. I kept hold in my head a fantasy that is just that, unrealistic and something he won’t ever do. Mainly I feel bad for our daughter who needs a daddy 🥺
@@lindseylindberg6287 I'm so glad to hear that. I hope you are doing well too. Heartaches are rough. This momma wants you to remember that you are beautiful, precious and valuable.
i will try to do all this and more....cos am tired of being miserable.....the hurt doesnt seem to stop
timmy yusuf honestly my man! give this a go and I can promise you you'll feel better and you will grow from this! If you feel like you want to talk or you have questions drop me a message on insta @ jchizzy23 and I'll be able to clear up any questions you may have :)
Omg this is deep because I'm going through this right now.
Bryant Avant tell me about it man
@@stephengreico2810 same here 😫
HEIDY NUÑEZ I hear ya Heidi...it gets better trust me..you’ll be just fine...Leo doing things that take your mind off it while striving to be your best self
Same brother same
Same. ;c
Accept and express your emotions. Accept it’s over. No contact. Cut them off. Hobbies. Friends. Ask yourself what it’s really about? Why is it hard to let them go?
Hobbies and friends don’t work
Thank you so much. My husband is leaving me after 15 years and it's so hard to let go when we've made a life together for so long. Your voice is calming and reassuring
E Fox Thank you for commenting and im glad you've got something out of this video! keep going, you'll get through it :)
E H + How have you been (update)? I hope you have a swift recovery.
May Phoenix yes I’m curious too. How are you? I pray all is well. Love you God Bless
JesusLovesMe2 + Thanks for the encouragement...I'm still healing. I feel like I'll never find the right one. I've been alone most of my life. I've tried looking nice, praying, staying busy, dating sites and nothing seems to work. I just want to not care about love if I'm not going to have a love life. It hurts also that people around me seem to find someone with little effort. I've even asked God if I was cursed or just destined to be alone. I'm grateful for my health, job, and the few friends and family I do have. I would just love to have that soulmate to spend the rest of my life with. I hope your doing good and hopefully your heart is joyful.
May Phoenix I know that’s how it seems now but God knows all things. I was just in a courtship with a Christian man who really broke my heart. He put his hands on me and hurt me. That ended and now I feel very much alone. God made a man to be strong to protect us- the weaker vessels, not to hurt them 😔. Many days I feel that way too, but keep the faith in God and allow him to transform you from the inside out.
I just got friend zoned by a girl I love today, this helped me thank u
Ergge Bfdfd Don't worry about it man! you'll definitley grow from this experience and thank you for watching and commenting man, i appreciate you sharing that with me :)
Ergge Bfdfd same here :(
Mitchy T keep going man :)
Same, I honestly thought she was the one 😢😥😭
You're lucky. I'm not even good enough to be in the friend zone.
My boyfriend broke up with me and we made so many memories and he doesn’t seem bothered by it and then I’m over here crying it’s just horrible
I’m goin thru that rn :/
@@Iamget2gether same bro
Same thing with me. It's hard to get over her
hey dude around 3 weeks I ago I told my crush how I felt about her but then got rejected, this video helps me feel better :)
Alex Roman hey man! big respect to you for having the courage to tell her how you feel! that's not always easy but don't sweat it man, this experience will make you stronger ☺.. and I appreciate you commenting man, im honoured this made you feel better :)
Joshua Chisambo Thanks man!
Stay strong king. Work on yourself and learn to love yourself.
This has been a constant struggle I go thru. Rejection has been so crippling to me that at the age 25 im considering celibacy for the rest of my life. When you been rejected as many times as i have, you wonder if its even worth it. And if you do manage to find someone, you feel like; "well nobody else wanted me, so this guy is going to date someone nobody wants". being single isnt all that bad anyway. Giving your heart to someone is a huge risk.
Dear Sam, I am in your place as well. It's okay. The right person will know your worth. Keep faith. ❤️
I'll love you Sam ♥️♥️
Your not the only one sis
That last sentence sent chills up my spine... very true!!!
You deserve to be loved so don't worry. On a very good day you will meet someone who love's you
Literally crying about this rn.
did it get better?
sofia aguirre girl I’m so done with him. You learn to get over it and move on
Kennedy Antoinette i wish that were the case for me:( my ex left me yesterday and our 2 years is in 2 weeks :( he said i was clingy and annoying and he couldn’t lie abt his feelings anymore. i thought he was my person and it hurts so much
sofia aguirre and yk I was dealing with a guy who said we were exclusive but he was ready for a relationship for a year. Then found out he was sleeping with someone else. So sometime things don’t go the way we want but you learn to deal with the hits and keep rolling
Me too!
First don't try to have strong feelings for the person. Second don't keep asking the person out. Third if they like you as a friend but not romantically get over it. Four think of what you want in someone special. Five don't settle for anyone.
I enjoyed the video!! Life sometimes just doesn’t make sense. Especially, the people that are in it. People will hurt you , and act like you hurt them . 💔😢
Exactly you hit the nail on the head
This really made me feel better
Im glad this encouraged you :)
For four years. I've been in love with a woman who doesn't give two shits about me and i was even still in love with her even though I knew the truth. This video makes a whole lot of sense and maybe I'll take this advice to heart.
how you doing now? i went through the same length you went through. it stings, but we'll make it through somehow
@@AiRbaL2000 how are you doing now
@@Mrshoottokill I'm doing excellent, thanks for asking. Met a few more girls and eventually got really close to one. I stopped chasing and hoping for the wrong girl and moved on. It ain't easy, but they're are many good people willing to talk out there.
@@AiRbaL2000 did it just happen or was there some sort of light bulb moment
Please move on same with me and I been working with her move on otherwise you will regret for the rest of your life
I want someone who doesn't want me back .
I've been seeing this woman for 9 months now, I put more time and energy into her than any other woman in the past and she told me she wants to be friends and heal herself. Thank you for this video. Every single day is a struggle to conquer my emotions. It's no easy task and your video is a good guide. Much appreciated!
all of the steps you said I did them before watching your video and it helped but what caught my ear was when you said about enjoying your own company,making you happy
Priscilla Bless ohh I think that's one if the biggest keys, I'm so glad you picked up in that :D
imma give you an L for this video....
L for Like..
iKayBee yes
L for lovely 😊 and C for cutie and H for Hot :)
After over 3 months of not talking to him, my feelings are still hurt so this video helped me a lot
this meee im trying to forget his number
He broke up with me the day before Valentine's day 😭I felt so dumb on Valentine's day 🙁 I cried in school in front of everyone thanks to God he wasn't there at the moment bc when I saw him my heart sank 😭 and I tried staying strong in front of him but I just couldn't. I ran out of the class and cried on my own😧😭
Love Ash + I hope your feeling better and find someone better. I got rejected 2 weeks ago and it still hurts bad...
May Phoenix oh I’m sorry to hear that but yes I found the perfect person and it’s my bestfriend . I can’t believe I didn’t see it earlier. But hope you feel better
Love Ash + I'm glad you did, your beautiful, intelligent, and deserve someone to that appreciates what you have to offer.
Bro from the first second of your video. I liked your energy immediately :)
Dino Ortolani91 wow! thank you so much man haha, I really appreciate that 😄
It's been almost 2 years, I have even been in another relationship during that time and I simply cannot stop thinking about her...
How are you doing now
@@rb757 I am completely dead inside, and I still think about her. It's mostly about reminiscing on a time when I had a soul...
I met a guy that had every quality Iv been looking for. We clicked instantly, talked laughed! I wanted to make us official but he didn’t want a relationship. Days weeks then months of back n forth of be my BF and me trying to b his friend hopefully he will finally date me. Well long story short I blew up and told him how I felt, now I’m blocked from everything on his side. And I’m hurt hurt! Was his feelings just lies? If a man likes u and wants you around then what’s the issue? I can’t stop thinking about him!
Well.. I'm in love with my bestfriend and I can't cut her off.
Did you ever tell that person? What happened?
I understand that completely cause I'm in the same situation. But I had to walk away completely cause it was breaking my heart. I lost 50 pounds, I was crying myself to sleep and I was becoming bitter. I finally told him, I couldn't be friends with him anymore. But I'm glad you still have a friendship. Only you know what's best for you
Same
My girlfriend just broke up with me. This really does work and honestly just realize that it is over and move on look forward to what is in the future and don’t look back in the past
4:53 so true but its so hard....
God you spoke the truth.
minnie cee Haha the truth shall set you free ☺
A girl isn’t interest in me, not even being friends. This video by u helped me very much and I appreciate you a lot.
I have the same issue ,I’m over here trying to cope 😢
I️ searched in the search bar something very specific. I️ came to this video surprised by how on the spot it was with me. THANK YOU IT HELPS VERY MUCH
So you cannot be completely happy.. until you're happy by yourself. You know what man, that's the reminder I needed, I use to enjoy my own company until I was too dependent on this special girl. But now I remember how happy I was on my own. I appreciate that.
Look man, im 3 years late to this video, but I appreciate you big time bossman. Ive been hurt countless times by people i couldnt get over and honestly i just needed to realize that i need to find my own happiness. Youre working wonders my guy thank you fr
Please help me I'm so hung up on this person I can't sleep eat focus do anything I'm so miserable and have been for a year.
Lauryn Chandler hit me up on instagram or on snapchat and we can talk. I'll be more than happy to help you :) ( insta: jchizzy23, or snap me @ yochizz23)
@@joshuachisambo5821 Hey ..can I dm u on Instagram?
I’m going through the same situation now, how did you get through it?
broke up today... thank you a lot. i'm gonna go out tomorrow and start filming short adventures again.
Fell in love with a married women whom I started to adore & the feelings felt mutual. I haven't heard from her in a few months. It's best to leave her alone and do my best to live my best life.
Dont be weak yall love yall
Thank you... this gave me the courage to end something that’s been on my mind so hard the past month basically.
You honestly made me feel way better thank you 🙌🏽
Diego Miranda you're welcome dude! 😄🙌
That moment you have been alone so long you don't even care anymore
omg this is such a good video and I'm not even heartbroke lmao
Isabella Encinas hahaha why thank you 😄
Great video. I have been dealing with this for years. I’m starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel.
It's hard to move on when you see them moving on in life and with someone else. but you can't, due to unemployment and having life kick you down constantly. Sometimes I wish life can just fast forward till the day I die, so I won't have to worry about these things.
It’s the “AHHHH PATRICIA” for me 😂😂😂. I watch this video weekly, thank so much for the advise!
Thanks man...you really made me feel a bit better when i watched this .Gave me some perspective 👌
Johnmichael Marran you're very welcome man! Im glad it made sense haha, and thank you for commenting :)
This was amazing.. This is perfect. Thank you so much. Every word you said was so helpful, I took so many notes. Hopefully in the future when I come back to re-read this comment again, I'll have moved on from my lover x) thank you!
Wayy to go my bro! Those notes will help you! You'll get through it 🙌
Great Video! So Positive and True! Happiness comes from within. Don't settle for anyone.
the notebook one helped me SO MUCH!
chloe's animal farm yeh, that helped me lots too, it really helps get very thing out and stops you acting crazy hahaha👊
Yea suprisingly writing your thoughts and feelings out and seeing them in front of you really helps
Whats the time stamp
Adore how honest and straight to the point he is; quite helpful!
Boys and girls, just love yourself and most importantly your family cuz there's no one greater than family. Love your parents till their last days ❤️
I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever and who ever you want to manifest within two-days.....♥️♥️♥️
He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯💯
Whatsapp him for help..
What if your family don’t love you
@@PeteS_1994 Him can help you ok
i loved a girl for more than 4 years she knows now but doesnt like me goes to the same school most classes im with her This helped me a little
ReplayzJinxA hey man! props to you for having the courage to tell her! 🙌.. and ayy don't worry about it, hang in there man, you'll grow from the experience :) .. and thank you for commenting man, im glad the vid has helped you in some way :)
Joshua Chisambo i shut her out of my life cause i feel like i have Bipolar cause i get a moment where i start to think of onw thing and all my sad feelings for her attack me (i start cryin
FOCUS on things you enjoy.
I know this video is old but it applies today for me. Thank you. It was beautiful and effective advice.
Cant lie I've been stressing over a bitch who doesn't want me...this literally made me realise what i should do...safe man🤙🏿
Dude you said exactly how I feel..
Jeremy Magee sane brah niggas be going through it
All of this sounds so easy but its the hardest thing in my life right now. I just don't wanna hurt anymore, I don't wanna be sad anymore, I don't know how to pick myself up.😔
im 3 years late but i will forget her and move on thanks joshua
I got ghosted recently and it actually Hurt because I thought she was mine and really liked her
finding people to build on to your own happiness is key
That's what I've always told my daughter.
It helps knowing i'm not alone.
AHHHHH PATRICIAAA!!!!
You can be a whole person and still find and attract weirdos...
please do more videos about loving oneself :) God bless you for all you do!
claaarez guizon Request noted! :)
It's amazing how we fantasize about that special someone and the entire time, it's just an illusion in our minds. Slang term for Illusion is a "Fools Paradise"
Then the music does nooooo Justice 😂😂😂😂😂
This is great and spot on. I have been trying to move on from a guy i grew to really like at work but he doesn't feel the same way. He now has a gf. This advice helps both with the self reflection and dealing with the hurt with not making the cut with him. Thank you :)
Dani Marie thank you! And you get it, it really does make a difference. We learn so much about ourselves through self reflection so you have really hit the nail on the head there
U deserve wayyyy more subs ur such a good RUclipsr it rlly rlly helps wish I saw this when I broke up with my ex bare ago
Elle Wills ahh Thank you SOO much! I really appreciate that, and thank you for taking the time to watch the video! and thank you for commenting :D
I cried a lot and I had some ice cream and I had to watch tv and then . Nothing but happiness and thankful what a wonderful life I have .
*I'm dealing with my emotions and have accepted this coward's choice to block me out of nowhere and move on after you just said he so called loved me, wow... He's heartache don't need him...*
this is the kindest reminder that is incredibly empathetic . thanks so much
This video is amazing, thank you, it made me cry. It feels so true, the truth hurts 😢
I want to thank you so much this is going to help me In the future and now let god bless you on the teachings you have taught these many people who are heartbroken
Thank you so much for these advices, I think they are very good and you focus on self esteem instead, that was so cool because it's inevitable to think that ti's something wrong about me. I was looking for something that made me feel better and your words did it after being rejected at a company party by a girl who I liked since like six months ago and honestly I needed to hear that it's ok to sorrow for some time
Thankyou I won’t get into another relationship- the emotional destabilising and complete rebuild of your self takes time - you do get there - it’s painfull and the amount of people in this world suffering heartbreak- seems like people are flippant about staying in a relationship. Things get a bit hard, they walk , rather than work it out. Wider community net working now - thru out world - opens more choice of people out there. People don’t stick it out in the hard times - they just drop and pick up elsewhere. Partnership / marriage use to mean something once.....
So thankful to find your video. I’ve been having a hard time letting go of a guy for at least a year now. We talk but I don’t know if he’s replying to my messages out of respect 🤷♀️
Thank you Joshua, this helped me a lot!
dimitarie It's all good! im just so happy you got something out of it and I really appreciate you taking the time to watch the videos! I can't say it enough but honestly thank you :)
I am glad I watched this. Thank you for helping me and others who are going through this. I appreciate it so much. I liked this person for about 3 years now and I'm learning to get over them. Also pointing out things you don't like about the person can actually help you get over them. I watched so many videos because I'm just desperately wanting to move on. But I'm learning. It's strange, it kinda makes me nervous trying to move on. I don't know why. Maybe that's just me being overly emotional. But anyways, again thank you so much. I love you man🌹
I fell in love with his spirit and soul. I have never been able to stop loving him. I’ve been in different relationships and have enjoyed life I have 3 kids i didn’t let me not being with this person stop me from living but deep down I always hoped he’d come around and give me a chance. I’ve tried everything to let go but I’ve been unsuccessful. We have not talked in years we have not seen each other in years…yet I’m still in love with him.
I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate🥰👩❤️👩
He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay🥰😘
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I just came to the realization of what a horrible friend I was to this person but I also know that it want fully my fault and this really helped me thank you
Dude, she led me on for 5 months, then her friends told me she never really even cared. I would sing her to sleep. Write songs for her. And just be everything I could. And she never cared in the first place. Thank-you for this video
I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate🥰👩❤️👩
He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay🥰😘
Whtsaap him"**???
And what if you work at the same place with him and when he always acts like nothing happened before and starts to talk to you every time he sees you??
This is wisdom omg
Love yourself first love God and love yourself look in the mirror and say I am somebody and he doesn't make me or she don't make
I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever and who ever you want to manifest within two-days.....♥️♥️♥️
He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯💯
Whatsapp him for help..
I always think there's a new beginning in my life this is not the end of the chapter this is not the end of the book cuz I'm writing a brand new one in my life with the help of God life must go on anything dead must be buried pass or whatever
@@shaylaandrews3956 WhatsApp him can help you ok
I’m been going thru this for 3 years , thanks for your advice
I really needed to hear this! Thank you
Gio Dickens no problem man! it feels good knowing its helped you 👊
i have been through this recently and it worth guys don't stuck to people who don't want you,move on there are lot of fishes in the sea...even better one..once you meet them,you will laugh out fresh..once you are over you will never want them again😉
This is actually what I've been looking for! :) I mean I am already letting go of her and this actually confirmed a lot of stuff tht I've been telling myself.. Tnx :D
I meant thanks for the advice about writing it in your journal and see how you feel about it later that should really helps man appreciate it
Such wise advice, thank you! X
this is the truest shit ive ever heard... did all of this after my breakup and its really the best thing
Thank you so very much you delightfully honest, humbled and vulnerable handsome and with a beautiful spirit! It's awesome to see a video made from a masculine perspective. I feel like we are truly all "ONE"___🌎 and 💔 is the human condition....😭😥😮💨🌹
Joshua from all the so called life coaches on you tube ur video has made the complete sense simple n practical especially the part where you say that one needs to spend time n be happy with themselves n that draws the right people to u as ur picky n choosy rather than wanting a relationship having a relationship with yourself first...amazing stuff helped me much more than the life coaches out there definitely was a sign for me great work have subscribed love ur video☺👍
This guy said he liked me back and now he's distancing from me and it hurts a lot, I always check when he's online or if he's talking to someone else and he usually is.
I'll do the best I can to distance, thank you, man.
Thank you a lot brother for your clever advices, I'm having hard time trying to forget her because she meant everything for me.. now it's all gone 😪💔 I'll try to stick to your precious advices bro.. Take care.
Hello, and thank You for your video. It sounded like from someone who has taken some of these issues in consideration in a mature way. Some good advice. I appreciate your way of putting forth information on the topic.
Me and this girl used to have a thing about a year ago and it didn’t really work out. Then a month later we started talking a lot and now we’re best friends. To this day I still have feelings, and I’ve never felt such a way around a girl before. I really like her and i finally told her how I feel and she just said thx for telling me. Ik she replied well but ah I thought I’d get something out of it. I’m just lost right now because I keep getting rejected and don’t know where to go. All summer I’ve been upset and sad about the whole thing and it’s got me down, I don’t know how to get my mind off this mess. I’m trying to move on but it’s so hard..
Thank you so much for sharing some of your truth, homes. I really do appreciate it.
CitySkin09 anytime my man! :)
This actually helped out a lot, thanks man.
Watched this video four years ago and was so helpful. Four years later and back in the same place. Still so helpful. Ty 🙏
I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate
He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay
Whtsaap him"**
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Literally, going through this. Thanks for the advice.
Thank you, I’ll work on it
Going though it right now, I know I deserve better and that he just isn’t capable or being the partner I need or the father our unborn baby needs. He wanted me to get an abortion and thinks I’m being selfish by going ahead with it. He is just afraid of child support , the crayY thing is he told me to not take my BC and that it would be fine if I did get pregnant. After I was, he changed completely and screams yells and cusses at me . My low self esteem allowed me to stay and grasp for any love he would occasionally throw at me. I deserve a lot more and even though this is heart wrenching and will raise my baby alone. It must be done. I can’t wait until she comes next month and I can be distracted by my sweet daughter.
I’m even contemplating not listing him on the birth certificate and letting him just sign his rights away because he has made it clear the only thing he is worried about is child support and the only thing I was worried about was having him be a great father and be there emotionally and to help raise her. I kept hold in my head a fantasy that is just that, unrealistic and something he won’t ever do. Mainly I feel bad for our daughter who needs a daddy 🥺
@@lindseylindberg6287 Lindsey, I hope all is well with you and your sweet baby.
@@americawaters4257 we are doing great! She is such a delight, such a beautiful, happy and healthy baby girl 💞
@@lindseylindberg6287 I'm so glad to hear that. I hope you are doing well too. Heartaches are rough. This momma wants you to remember that you are beautiful, precious and valuable.
@@americawaters4257 you are so sweet! Thank you, that means more to me then you know ❤️
This young man is brilliant!
Janelle Glass thank you 😄
Thank you for this. I was actually happy being by my self before one of these encounters happened. Now I'm trying to over come it.
This has really helped me today, thank you Joshua