I just looked her up, and she is a 23 year old kindergarten teacher now. Looks extremely happy and is already successful in life. She was also Miss Mississippi teen
there’s nothing wrong with having an alter ego. it can actually be and is normally healthy. this is her way of not letting the pageant’s and need to be perfect and pretty take over her whole life. this is her way of keeping the two worlds separate so she doesn’t feel the need to always be “on” and perfect. when she’s on stage, she can pretend to be someone else, it probably makes her feel more relaxed and takes some pressure off. it probably boosts her confidence to pretend to be someone else. she’s protecting her true self. and when she’s off stage she’s just Madison. there is no Tootie. she doesn’t need to be perfect. she can go play in the mud and be a kid. Madison is safe and protected since she isn’t Madison on stage. i don’t agree with pageants AT ALL the whole concept is sexist and toxic imo. and i especially don’t agree with young girls being out in them. i don’t agree with anyone at any age being forced into them. (but some people find them fun. that’s ok) and there’s a lot of toxic stuff happening here in this video BUT this kid having an alter ego isn’t one of those toxic things lol. a lot of you are overreacting and over dramatizing the fact that she simply has an alter ego.
@@chiffondollsweet I believe she's doing something she wants to do, which is successful to me. Also she models for a small clothing shop and was crowned Miss teen Mississippi in 2017. Sounds pretty succesful.
Lol her "I don't know I don't care about them" 😂 at least she's sure of herself and I read in the comments that she's 23 now and thriving so that's really good for her!
@@serpente300 But shows like this perpetute such crazy mindsets, and glorify them. Having a slot on this weird show is probably a major win for whoever is on them. It's just... Gross to me.
There’s also this thing “inner beauty” which is most important. Meaning no matter how beautiful you are on the outside when you act “ugly” well all that glam no longer matters.
I’m not easily offended and hate the term cultural appropriation when it’s appreciation. But this is just so fucking wrong. Did you see her hand hitting her mouth. I’m getting Peter Pan vibes and NOT in a good or innocent way.
While it is certainly NOT right, you guys need to settle down and realize that these clips are 10 years old... The world is a MUCH difference place today than it was back then, so calm the fuck down!
@@imamuggle02 well no shit? I'm just saying it was a DIFFERENT TIME (2009-ish, by the way) - ESPECIALLY in the South.. How old were you during this time period, by the way? Going to assume not old enough to really understand, at least...
The mother, to this day, still waits on her daughter like a maid. The daughter is successful as far as getting herself a good career, but the dynamic between those two is still there. ..uncomfortable to witness.
I feel like this pageant world brings out the worst in everyone including children. They should not have these events to parade little girls around in makeup to make them look like adults its weird af. This poor girl is gonna have some type of issues or resentment growing up
I love how all these people will talk about how messed up the girl is when she's grown and successful now, doing fine. People love to talk but they've probably never even been backstage at a beauty pageant. TLC's goal isn't to give viewers an accurate representation of those who they're featuring, it's to get viewers.
THIS!!! ofc kids are gonna get angry and have tantrums, THEYRE KIDS!!! and parents get angry because theyre spending their money and not gutting their money's worth.
Several things: 1. She’s one person. How about all the other girls? 2. Successful people suffer from mental illness too. 3. For all you know, Madison went through therapy to get to where she is now
So... nothing good to say about. She got at least 2 personalities in herself. Since 5 years, splited personalities are there to protect the other one. So there is so much wrong! So sad :(
🤦🏼♀️ What is with all of you armchair psychologists on here who can't tell the difference between TRUE - and sometimes, even somewhat disabling - DID?! True; DID can be an AMAZING defense mechanism against REAL childhood trauma, but THIS is NOT THAT! You think you know so much about brain disorders after watching a few RUclips videos; but you actually only know JUST ENOUGH, to NOT KNOW SHIT! 😡
These mothers that live vicariously through their children are horrible. My dad was like that with my horse shows and rodeos. He was so hardcore, he sucked the joy right out of my passion.💔
"We can't change her facial beauty, so there's nothing we can do about it.. " I'd rather not say what I truly think of the mom .. but just wanted to say.. moms.. please don't do this to your child
So you are traumatizing your child so severely that she is literally splitting off into different personalities. Idk maybe not, but that’s what it seems like to me
My in laws have a chorkie named tootie. It's a very strange name to use for a stage name...sounds more drag queen than beauty queen. But she seems like a sweet kid. XD
@@ilovehotmoms5804 according to the diathesis stress model, people are born with higher vulnerability for developing schizophrenia, but the environment is what causes stressors for the schizophrenia to develop, so being in situations like this could result in it developing
As a pageant participant it is hard to deal with losses and such but it’s even worse when you win most of them because your parents pressure you to win more. I’ve participated in over 250 pageants and I currently own 236 crowns. I also play softball and have won over 20k from pageants. I don’t really enjoy the pageants but it makes my step mom very proud and it’s something I’m good at so I’ll keep doing it.
I really don’t suppose pageants nor do I think that the mother is doing a good job of supporting her child’s growth but you can’t deny ‘tootie’ is quite charismatic and does well on stage
Was just about to say this is the first mother I've seen who isn't toxic and is proud no matter what and loses graciously... then she went and said that at the end 😱
She’s doing good now career wise but you can tell she’s def obsessed with her image, she said she works out all of the time and watches what she eats. She looks great don’t get me wrong but I feel like that kinda pressure to be perfect def carry’s into adulthood and her mom literally does everything for it, kinda weird honestly
This is so wrong in many ways, just let your little girl be a little girl, keep the dress up at home and for party's, this really plays with childrens heads keep putting them on show is not a good thing for them.
This girl did not show any signs of being bribed, over-encouraged or coerced into pageants. Other commentors have shared her accomplishments to date. Sounds like Toodi became a grounded successful young woman to me. As for Mom's comment on facial beauty, Toodi or Madison is as lovely as any girl I've seen competing on these shows.
DIVA in the making. rudeness to the make up/ hairdresser and her attitude towards her mum terrible behaviour, just wait till she hits teenage years!! Get the holy water now………… The exorcist
How sad that when she was asked, if she was happy that she had won a crown she pressed her lips together and went. I don’t know she couldn’t just enjoy them all and she couldn’t enjoy the hard work that went into the weekend. She’s just couldn’t be in the moment it’s heartbreaking.
That’s so frustrating how disappointed they are at the end, like can’t you just be happy with the title you got? Honestly these pageants are horrible for young girls and all it does is teach them to be spoils brats and it makes them think that outward beauty is all that matters. And these parents just do it out of greed, not for their children.
Jeez how was the Native American costume at 2:29 even allowed? That's such a stereotype and she clearly wasn't dressing in a way to genuinely honor indigenous people, it was just a gimmick. It's not her fault cuz shes just a little kid but the parents and judges should know better
Real beauty comes from within; it doesn't matter how much paint you put on it. I think this show is toxic inasmuch as I think most of these Moms are trying to live out their lost childhoods through their kids. All I see are bratty kids that act like poor sports when they don't win.
That girl is so emotionally screwed up she doesn't have the capacity to realize what this has done to her. And obviously neither do her parents... Or they don't even care. I do not know. I just know they're setting their daughter up for heartache.... She's totally going to lose touch on what really is important in life and what isn't. Life hands you enough heartache without choosing to be a victim waiting to happen. Lord be with that little girl... Let her know how much you love her and have a plan for her life.
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I just looked her up, and she is a 23 year old kindergarten teacher now. Looks extremely happy and is already successful in life. She was also Miss Mississippi teen
shes also working on getting a degree in psychology :)
how did u find it ?
@@lilli.bw810 Google
She is awesome
Sis this was 1 year ago
It's like a room full of Karens and Karens in the making
Literally, like this is their origin
Yes
Room full of Lias and Lias. What does that mean ?
Oh no
@@whoohooles123 "karen" is a term used to call old (30-40) yr old women that cry/get mad about the littlest things, it was a meme back in 2019/2020
Somethings ‘ off when your kid talks about themself in the third person.
she is JUST a kid. There are a lot of stranger things kid's do than that.
it's not that weird. when i was a kid, i had an imaginary friend who was a mermaid
What if she has did?
Beyonce is Sasha Fierce, this girl is ahead of her time. She's talented and beautiful....a bit conceited though 💋.
Yup
there’s nothing wrong with having an alter ego. it can actually be and is normally healthy. this is her way of not letting the pageant’s and need to be perfect and pretty take over her whole life. this is her way of keeping the two worlds separate so she doesn’t feel the need to always be “on” and perfect. when she’s on stage, she can pretend to be someone else, it probably makes her feel more relaxed and takes some pressure off. it probably boosts her confidence to pretend to be someone else. she’s protecting her true self. and when she’s off stage she’s just Madison. there is no Tootie. she doesn’t need to be perfect. she can go play in the mud and be a kid. Madison is safe and protected since she isn’t Madison on stage. i don’t agree with pageants AT ALL the whole concept is sexist and toxic imo. and i especially don’t agree with young girls being out in them. i don’t agree with anyone at any age being forced into them. (but some people find them fun. that’s ok) and there’s a lot of toxic stuff happening here in this video BUT this kid having an alter ego isn’t one of those toxic things lol. a lot of you are overreacting and over dramatizing the fact that she simply has an alter ego.
This is exactly what I’m thinking! Theirs nothing wrong with it plus she was literally a kid at this time leave her alone
Agreed. Lots of actors and actresses also have alter ego to separate themselves from their characters
Too extreme of an alter ego is dissociative personality disorder
@@HollyOddsthey don’t have alter egos. They just have stage names. They’re still the same person.
shes a jerk of a child. there IS something wrong with raising a jerk
Wow. That's all kinds of messed up. 🤦🏼♀️
Exactly
Ya same
what is ? her so-callled “” alter ego “”” ? genuinely jw
U should c her now...
@@Hollywooddreamin2011 no cause she grew up so beautifully
The damage is done. This mother’s mental health issue has ruined this little girl’s perception of self. So incredibly sad.
true
so true
yet so sad
How?
bro. she’s a grown up and they’ve made a where are they now with her. and she’s very successful. not everyone is fucked up in the head
She's now 23 and is a kindergarten teacher,
@@chiffondollsweet I believe she's doing something she wants to do, which is successful to me. Also she models for a small clothing shop and was crowned Miss teen Mississippi in 2017. Sounds pretty succesful.
Lol her "I don't know I don't care about them" 😂 at least she's sure of herself and I read in the comments that she's 23 now and thriving so that's really good for her!
This kind of shows should be cancelled
Agree
You cancel these contests but u can not change what's inside people's heads
These people are scary 👀🤨
I agree with you
@@serpente300 But shows like this perpetute such crazy mindsets, and glorify them. Having a slot on this weird show is probably a major win for whoever is on them. It's just... Gross to me.
Disagree
There’s also this thing “inner beauty” which is most important. Meaning no matter how beautiful you are on the outside when you act “ugly” well all that glam no longer matters.
I totally agree!
Poor kid, having her childhood & her own personality taken away by a selfish parent.
She’s doing just fine now!
That little girls response at the end was priceless...poor wee soul...I wonder how her life turned out.,,. hopefully good
Shes a teacher now
I’m not easily offended and hate the term cultural appropriation when it’s appreciation. But this is just so fucking wrong. Did you see her hand hitting her mouth. I’m getting Peter Pan vibes and NOT in a good or innocent way.
THANK YOU. as a native american those ugly outfits annoyed me to the fullest lol
@@kayacreates949right?? I’m not Native American so I probably can’t comment on this but I agree with you 100%. The glitter just adds to the cringe.
While it is certainly NOT right, you guys need to settle down and realize that these clips are 10 years old...
The world is a MUCH difference place today than it was back then, so calm the fuck down!
@@bh29 I would never have condoned this 10 years ago. I would have been offended, 2011 was not the dark ages.
@@imamuggle02 well no shit? I'm just saying it was a DIFFERENT TIME (2009-ish, by the way) - ESPECIALLY in the South..
How old were you during this time period, by the way? Going to assume not old enough to really understand, at least...
The way she refers to herself in 3rd person & how perfect she has to be breaks my heart…
“She is in tootie mode, full force” 😂😂😂 that part had me laughing
The mother, to this day, still waits on her daughter like a maid. The daughter is successful as far as getting herself a good career, but the dynamic between those two is still there. ..uncomfortable to witness.
The video was definitely set up in a lot of different ways
Can’t change her facial beauty? That’s messed it. It’s as if she’s saying her daughter isn’t pretty enough.
She wasn’t even talking about her daughter
That routine was using so many racist stereotypes.
i thought i was the only one who was disgusted with it
@@imwwhyk5421 😐
@@ThePhoenix3712 what tf
OMG thank the lord I thought I was the only one
Reminds me of that scene in Peter Pan-💀💀
I feel like this pageant world brings out the worst in everyone including children. They should not have these events to parade little girls around in makeup to make them look like adults its weird af. This poor girl is gonna have some type of issues or resentment growing up
Makeup won’t hurt her
Well you should have said that to jonbenet family
Watching this makes me sad.
This is beyond horrifying.
Fr fr
I feel so bad for these girls being forced in pageants they were raised to be used to.:(
I think it ok to be In pageants as long as it’s healthy and the kid wants to
She seems to love it her mom isnt crazy and i think its smart to separate stage from herself its like acting.
her "i dont know and i dont care about em" was so iconic
This is wrong on so many levels.
She's actually a good performer and why is her mother insulting her face. She has a great face.
There is a lot to unpack in this video. I’m just going to sum it up with a big YIKES. 😬
2:30 and Madisons costumes are so disrespectful, and no one is talking about it
Frl was gonna say the same
This poor girl will look back later...... sigh
While I don't agree with pagents, I'm not bothered by the two names. Many shy people do it. Even Beyonce and Sasha Fierce. It's a coping mechanism
That it‘s a coping mechanism alone should let you know that what they‘re doing to their chuld is causing harm and they should stop…
Adult celebrities have alter egos for art. They’re not mentally harmed by it or use it to cope. This kid is being harmed by it
idk why I love her personality. shes such a typical Disney character
I love how all these people will talk about how messed up the girl is when she's grown and successful now, doing fine. People love to talk but they've probably never even been backstage at a beauty pageant. TLC's goal isn't to give viewers an accurate representation of those who they're featuring, it's to get viewers.
THIS!!! ofc kids are gonna get angry and have tantrums, THEYRE KIDS!!! and parents get angry because theyre spending their money and not gutting their money's worth.
Several things:
1. She’s one person. How about all the other girls?
2. Successful people suffer from mental illness too.
3. For all you know, Madison went through therapy to get to where she is now
So... nothing good to say about. She got at least 2 personalities in herself. Since 5 years, splited personalities are there to protect the other one. So there is so much wrong! So sad :(
She's 18 now and I college and a psychology major....she's fine
🤦🏼♀️
What is with all of you armchair psychologists on here who can't tell the difference between TRUE - and sometimes, even somewhat disabling - DID?! True; DID can be an AMAZING defense mechanism against REAL childhood trauma, but THIS is NOT THAT!
You think you know so much about brain disorders after watching a few RUclips videos; but you actually only know JUST ENOUGH, to NOT KNOW SHIT! 😡
Y’all are so annoying
Having a stage name is so very different than having a split personality, calm down.
Girl is a real life hannah Montana
Can you imagine this child as a teenager???
There's actually a video on that now, she's 20 years old
Yes: a 20 year old who needs Mommy do do her cooking, cleaning and nails
Not everyone is sensitive
@@rociorafael97 link?
@@Okayyidclol ruclips.net/video/H8_AEDbTLTM/видео.html
One thing.. at least this girl loves to do it.
These mothers that live vicariously through their children are horrible. My dad was like that with my horse shows and rodeos. He was so hardcore, he sucked the joy right out of my passion.💔
"We can't change her facial beauty, so there's nothing we can do about it.. " I'd rather not say what I truly think of the mom .. but just wanted to say.. moms.. please don't do this to your child
Not the culture appropriation
So you are traumatizing your child so severely that she is literally splitting off into different personalities. Idk maybe not, but that’s what it seems like to me
Having a stage name is so very different than having a split personality, calm down.
My in laws have a chorkie named tootie. It's a very strange name to use for a stage name...sounds more drag queen than beauty queen. But she seems like a sweet kid. XD
When I heard stage name. I immediately thought stripper! They all have fake names, like performance and have alter egos.
A kid that needs an alter ego to deal with what their parents are putting them through....
Talk about future externally induced schizophrenia...jesus.
Schizophrenic people can’t be “made”, they’re born with the illness.
@@ilovehotmoms5804 according to the diathesis stress model, people are born with higher vulnerability for developing schizophrenia, but the environment is what causes stressors for the schizophrenia to develop, so being in situations like this could result in it developing
The dad looks a lot younger than the mom
She’d be better of playing soccer. And get this man a real wife!
The way my mouth DROPPED
Ladies and gentlemen meet the future star of Mean Girls 2028! She’s going to be one stuck up brat in school and possibly a future bully! JMO🤷🏼♀️
why was that kid dressed like a native american that’s so messed up
@@MarKittyKat are you native american though?
@Terra It’s as bad as blackface & should be outlawed.
@@MarKittyKat a lot of native americans say that they really don’t like those costumes because it’s mocking
As a pageant participant it is hard to deal with losses and such but it’s even worse when you win most of them because your parents pressure you to win more. I’ve participated in over 250 pageants and I currently own 236 crowns. I also play softball and have won over 20k from pageants. I don’t really enjoy the pageants but it makes my step mom very proud and it’s something I’m good at so I’ll keep doing it.
I really don’t suppose pageants nor do I think that the mother is doing a good job of supporting her child’s growth but you can’t deny ‘tootie’ is quite charismatic and does well on stage
Oh my god. Those final lines literally made me gasp!
So split personality developing into some pretty toxic behavioural excuse issues
Ok therapist
Having a stage name is so very different than having a split personality, calm down.
And once more we are making fun of others cultures let's go
I get she loves Stuff like this But the "Tootie" Version is such a brat! When the camera lady asked her what do u think she said snobbly "IDK"! 🙄
She ate every single outfit up! #tootielegend
Was just about to say this is the first mother I've seen who isn't toxic and is proud no matter what and loses graciously... then she went and said that at the end 😱
It’s all about the parents
Yes because they want the money
@cozypup2011They spend way more money than they win.
she is in jimmy mode from seinfeld lmao-
"I don't know, I don't care about em" Savage
It’s so sad how her mom is telling her if it doesn’t hurt it won’t stick you should never hurt your child like that.
I agree that it's not right to hurt her, but that wasn't her mother doing it.
She’s doing good now career wise but you can tell she’s def obsessed with her image, she said she works out all of the time and watches what she eats. She looks great don’t get me wrong but I feel like that kinda pressure to be perfect def carry’s into adulthood and her mom literally does everything for it, kinda weird honestly
This is so wrong in many ways, just let your little girl be a little girl, keep the dress up at home and for party's, this really plays with childrens heads keep putting them on show is not a good thing for them.
This girl did not show any signs of being bribed, over-encouraged or coerced into pageants. Other commentors have shared her accomplishments to date. Sounds like Toodi became a grounded successful young woman to me. As for Mom's comment on facial beauty, Toodi or Madison is as lovely as any girl I've seen competing on these shows.
You can tell she wanted to cry at the end I felt so bad
They say this is child abuse & neglect, trying to live thru their child
This is foul. Raising vapid, empty brats. Not to mention....are any of them Native American?! Their outfits are offensive.
“I’ve been in pageants for 5 years..”
So pretty much her entire life?
Why is this legal?
Waiting 3 more years to see her on Dr. Phil.
This show is from 10 years ago. She's an 18 year old college student now
This was ages ago, she’s a teacher now
“ I love to be perfect” that’s concerning for a child
Not really
what a terrible child. i hope she learned some manners on her way to adulthood
2:29 what in the racism
Tootsies costume too!
Damn! The straight 🧢 at the very end!
DIVA in the making. rudeness to the make up/ hairdresser and her attitude towards her mum terrible behaviour, just wait till she hits teenage years!! Get the holy water now………… The exorcist
shes about 20 now
okay but her dances and performances were actually amazing. im guessing talking in third person gave her the confidence LOL
Really, the mom who’s daughter won acted very ridiculous!
"we cant change her facial beauty and the other girl is beautiful so theres nothin we can do about it" lmaoooooooo nooooooooo omg poor kid
i dont know why but it’s kind of concerning how she answers every question by saying “i don’t know”
At 4:50 that’s Asia’s grandma from the real stories docu darling divas!
Madison and Tootie are both beautiful.
The cold, glassy expression in the mothers eyes is really off-putting!
They are way to young to be out on stage.
Tootsie do got some sass the directior asking her questions and she keeps saying Idk while making a face
The ingenious costume🤨🤨🤨
Just to clarify this clip is from 2009
So this girl is 22 years old now! I wonder what she's like now??,
@@fionafoyer8659 19*
@@ms.alyssabayleedavidson5925 whoops.. but still.. what is she up to? how is her mental health???
Shes most definitely 22 lmao
How sad that when she was asked, if she was happy that she had won a crown she pressed her lips together and went. I don’t know she couldn’t just enjoy them all and she couldn’t enjoy the hard work that went into the weekend. She’s just couldn’t be in the moment it’s heartbreaking.
6:43 how she looks away scares me
That’s so frustrating how disappointed they are at the end, like can’t you just be happy with the title you got? Honestly these pageants are horrible for young girls and all it does is teach them to be spoils brats and it makes them think that outward beauty is all that matters. And these parents just do it out of greed, not for their children.
I don't like this over sexualization of kids.
yall i think she doesnt know
Jeez how was the Native American costume at 2:29 even allowed? That's such a stereotype and she clearly wasn't dressing in a way to genuinely honor indigenous people, it was just a gimmick. It's not her fault cuz shes just a little kid but the parents and judges should know better
Real beauty comes from within; it doesn't matter how much paint you put on it. I think this show is toxic inasmuch as I think most of these Moms are trying to live out their lost childhoods through their kids. All I see are bratty kids that act like poor sports when they don't win.
This show still comes on
That's enough RUclips for today, so many questions 😅
I think she is more happy playing basketball and soccer, she is a pretty girl
Ther seems to be a pathology around whatever to hell this is. The parents are ultimately to blame.
The way she snapped at her mom???? 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
It's like tootie is going crazy from pagents, she doesn't know how to respond to a simple question and she refurse to herself as 3rd person
That girl is so emotionally screwed up she doesn't have the capacity to realize what this has done to her. And obviously neither do her parents... Or they don't even care. I do not know. I just know they're setting their daughter up for heartache.... She's totally going to lose touch on what really is important in life and what isn't. Life hands you enough heartache without choosing to be a victim waiting to happen. Lord be with that little girl... Let her know how much you love her and have a plan for her life.
This channel is awesome 👏 it’s cool
Tootie is definitely one of my favs
Mom get the bag away 😂damn i woulda got drag off that chair my mother would've threaten us leaving if ion act right
All of this with just a drizzle of culture appropriation