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  • @Michellemcd543
    @Michellemcd543  Год назад +361

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    • @stolenaceofspades
      @stolenaceofspades Год назад +3

      Hiii

    • @CarlMassop
      @CarlMassop Год назад

      🖤 🙂✌🏿

    • @tica1689
      @tica1689 Год назад

      Do you ship to Canada?

    • @omghi95
      @omghi95 Год назад +3

      Will the lemon donuts come back? I always miss them 😭 I just want a taste

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  • @mtn.thegathering
    @mtn.thegathering Год назад +5710

    She's such a hypocrite. She constantly says that divorce should be illegal but then tells men to leave their wives if they gain weight. Make it make sense

    • @Poopiepies
      @Poopiepies Год назад +283

      Would love for someone to show her how that worked for the Philippines. (Spoiler: it didn’t change anything besides making married “single” moms)

    • @existentialgamer9206
      @existentialgamer9206 Год назад +258

      Pearl and RPers only think divorce should be illegal for women, not men

    • @sbell5702
      @sbell5702 Год назад +204

      Isn't she also the same one that said women should remain virgins, but she isn't one?

    • @daniellenelson5300
      @daniellenelson5300 Год назад

      She thinks if she keeps pandering to red pill eventually one will pick her, unfortunately for her she doesn't look like what they want

    • @daniellenelson5300
      @daniellenelson5300 Год назад

      ​@sbell5702 she also gives relationship advice but can't keep a man lmao, she's a joke

  • @c.m.9778
    @c.m.9778 Год назад +5593

    Pearl has a lot of views for someone who says folks shouldn't have views

    • @gabedavv
      @gabedavv Год назад +319

      EXACTLY! shes so contradicting towards he own self. she hates feminism but she sure knows how to use her voice and her platform.

    • @lilywong9672
      @lilywong9672 Год назад +158

      To be fair, it's just womenfolk that she thinks shouldn't have views (except for her).

    • @1000OtherFoxes
      @1000OtherFoxes Год назад +10

      To be fair, there is a difference between an opinion and a vote, it's not the same thing or doesn't hold the same power.

    • @dakotarandolph4714
      @dakotarandolph4714 Год назад +61

      ​@@lilywong9672I was gonna say not even people , but her own gender shouldn't be talking about their views, which is her actual career ? The redundancy is the actual representation of her lmao

    • @distinctlydri2831
      @distinctlydri2831 Год назад

      When she does collabs and on her shorts.

  • @lizardlady9089
    @lizardlady9089 Год назад +2354

    "Leave your wife if she gains 50lbs after having your child"- such great conservative family values.

    • @ragsrare3771
      @ragsrare3771 Год назад +144

      They only care about these value when women leave their cheating husbands

    • @CaityBlue
      @CaityBlue Год назад +33

      Maybe not conservative but definitely traditional 🙄

    • @rhondascraftobsessions5817
      @rhondascraftobsessions5817 Год назад +92

      I can't wait for Pearl to get married, to some fool, and see what happens to her body and mind. Try to talk smac then, Pearl

    • @handleless986
      @handleless986 Год назад +17

      ​@CaityBlue... i swear, isnt traditional conservative? because conservatives like keeping things as they were (back when the world was "right") and are... traditional...? genuine question

    • @jaimieking4340
      @jaimieking4340 Год назад +56

      ​@@rhondascraftobsessions5817you know what's funny though? Is that even though she tries and tries to advocate for (shitty) men and be a pick me girl, she is still single. It's funny and sad all at the same time.

  • @awolfingeeksclothin9
    @awolfingeeksclothin9 Год назад +4374

    Pearl hating her mother for being a career woman while she herself is a career woman is both baffling and sad.

    • @abbytrapp8258
      @abbytrapp8258 Год назад +230

      if you can call what she does a "career"

    • @nizOnYT
      @nizOnYT Год назад

      @NotVille_ I see you everywhere and I hate it I hate you

    • @lyndiane7899
      @lyndiane7899 Год назад

      I'd ashamed if she's my daughter. lol. Her mother is amazing, career woman but all her daughter cared is her mom diet. lol. Do she has degree at least to talk like these? She doesn't sound educated at all. Who's listened to her?

    • @r4ndom7000
      @r4ndom7000 Год назад +126

      Pearl talking smack about fat people when she's clearly overweight is also baffling

    • @summerknabe2560
      @summerknabe2560 Год назад +29

      She has to cause who tf else is going to take care of her

  • @saiyamoru
    @saiyamoru Год назад +1465

    IDK if Pearl realizes this, but she is indirectly giving off the impression that her dad is cheating scum. Seeing her say, 'cheating is the wife's fault because she's become unattractive', 'my mom gained weight during my childhood, which was her fault because she was addicted to sugar', and 'cheating is different for men when they do it' in rapid succession really tells a certain type of story.

  • @applessr2590
    @applessr2590 Год назад +1023

    its insane how pearl says 16yr olds are hotter than 26 year old women, but her own mother is more attractive than her

    • @missano3856
      @missano3856 11 месяцев назад +55

      I think women are at their hottest at about 36 but it's a minority opinion. This, of course, assumes that they aren't fat.

    • @swilliams23
      @swilliams23 9 месяцев назад +92

      Women in their 30s actually look so damn good. They lost the childish looks and look more mature.

    • @sugakookie6303
      @sugakookie6303 9 месяцев назад +50

      So she’s saying minors are hotter??? Ok…

    • @ValyaDream
      @ValyaDream 9 месяцев назад

      I would consider it as propaganda of pedophilia

    • @KimArtis_
      @KimArtis_ 7 месяцев назад +17

      ​@@sugakookie6303she said in Twitter, word by word "16yo chicks are hotter than 26yo chicks"
      Chicks is not a word I use to see, but I feel it kinda disrespectful...

  • @sayastra
    @sayastra Год назад +1612

    "I'd rather be a pick me than a skip me"
    Girl, you are BOTH!

    • @bellerain381
      @bellerain381 Год назад +52

      It’s quite sad…

    • @ArchonOfAnemo
      @ArchonOfAnemo Год назад +70

      ​@@bellerain381 Sad and pathetic. People with the whole "main character syndrome" are just so self entitled that they're delusional. It is quite pitiful really..

    • @RJ-rh6cm
      @RJ-rh6cm Год назад +31

      911? I... I think I just witnessed a murder 😐

    • @ReikiRev
      @ReikiRev Год назад +26

      Isn’t being skipped what creates a pick me though?

    • @sayastra
      @sayastra Год назад +6

      @ReikiRev depends why they were skipped.

  • @Ninby4
    @Ninby4 Год назад +3781

    Imagine hating women for men’s attention and still not having a man

    • @MoreCoffeePlease.
      @MoreCoffeePlease. Год назад +109

      If this isn’t Pearl distilled into one sentence, I don’t know what is…

    • @bonitabarbie
      @bonitabarbie Год назад +15

      Period.

    • @Mindyobusiness89
      @Mindyobusiness89 Год назад +7

      What exactly is she saying is hate and how we don’t know she’s isn’t taken?

    • @beigenegress2979
      @beigenegress2979 Год назад +28

      I used to be on twitter, then I got a new phone and forgot login info to get back on the app.
      Before I lost my old phone, WW feminists were dragging her for being a pick me and a misogynist and WM were going in on her looks. WW were low key dragging her for being a pick me but not being picked and the role of her dreary looks and needing brush her flat hair.
      🍿

    • @Mindyobusiness89
      @Mindyobusiness89 Год назад +4

      @@beigenegress2979 let me guess, none of those women addressed any of the points she makes and just name call. Great constructive discussion, smh

  • @rainold-5608
    @rainold-5608 Год назад +437

    "I don't think I look good but my wife always tells me I'm handsome." That is soo precious. I wish the best to him and his wife.

  • @annal3841
    @annal3841 Год назад +2131

    if insecurity was a person it would be pearl.

  • @sabias3932
    @sabias3932 Год назад +2152

    Pearl has admitted that the only reason she agreed with red pill content was because she has a low self-esteem. I wonder what she thinks she is doing for herself by perpetuating these misogynistic ideas.

    • @Poopiepies
      @Poopiepies Год назад +224

      She thinks she’s making herself likable to men.

    • @heyfella5217
      @heyfella5217 Год назад +109

      i used to kind of be like her. I used to do nothing but scroll on /adv/ all day, hearing lowly people's opinion on how romance and love worked despite them not actually participating in a relationship. it ruined me for a while. I can't help but feels bad for Pearl sometimes. She must feel a lot of weight on her shoulders, trying to appeal to nuerotic people who will never be truly pleased.

    • @PerpetuallyAnnoyed
      @PerpetuallyAnnoyed Год назад +81

      @@Poopiepies Yet she still can't get a man 😂

    • @kasmith54
      @kasmith54 Год назад +59

      She doesn't care about the long term. She wants money NOW.😂

    • @Germania72
      @Germania72 Год назад +32

      And she's still single. 🤷🏽

  • @smaugkat
    @smaugkat Год назад +826

    16 year olds aren’t hot. THEY ARE CHILDREN.

    • @Ben-zr4ho
      @Ben-zr4ho 7 месяцев назад

      No they aren't. If you are sexually attracted to actual kids who haven't gone through puberty you are a sicko with a mental illness. If you think a hot 16 year old is hot that's just normal. From a biological point of view that person is an adult. They've been through puberty. They are sexually mature. They can have kids. In the past they were adults culturally as well as biologically. You would be a scumbag for actually pursuing such a relationship in this day and age because in modern times 16 year olds are no longer adults in the cultural sphere. In modern times they have been more sheltered and most of them just don't have an adult understanding of the world. I've slept with 15-16 year olds... When I was 15-16 myself. Does that make me a pedo?
      Of course there are hot 16 year olds. Take... I don't know... Keira Knightly who was 17 when they filmed Pirates of the Caribbean. Was she hot in that movie? Of course she was and a vast majority of people thought she was very attractive. It doesn't mean you should pursue minors as an adult. Anyway the difference between 16-18 is pretty arbitrary and cultural. You finish high school and start work or college at around 18 in the US but at around 16 in Europe. Likewise the age of consent is 18 in most of the US but 16 in most of Europe. Simply because you have to officially draw the line somewhere but I wouldn't pursue a 18 year old for the same reason I wouldn't pursue a 16 year old. But in the US one would be legal and one wouldnt while in Europe both would be legal.

    • @baumeister5705
      @baumeister5705 6 месяцев назад +16

      Spitting facts

    • @gilnahnu
      @gilnahnu 6 месяцев назад

      as someone who was just 16 a few months ago, that got me vomiting fr. pedoph1le ass tweet like WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER??? why would a 27 year old say we're attractive?? and dissing herself in the same time, saying that we're more attractive than her?? she hates herself so so much .

    • @trinelangohr6661
      @trinelangohr6661 5 месяцев назад +10

      In America, yes. The rest of the world begs to differ.

    • @planetmars2193
      @planetmars2193 5 месяцев назад

      @@trinelangohr6661unfortunately not pedophilia is a huge problem in a bunch of other countries as well

  • @tiredbylife.5589
    @tiredbylife.5589 Год назад +766

    Pearl's mom had 10 children. The fact that Pearl thinks that her mom was going to stay the 120lbs woman she was when she was married after giving birth 10 times is... ... ...I'm just speechless. Many women have a hard time losing weight after giving birth while also having to take care of the home and working...

    • @Sarah-psalm127
      @Sarah-psalm127 Год назад +90

      Right. 10 kids. To have 10 kids she barely had time to lose weight before being pregnant again.
      I am pregnant with my 9th baby. I've found it just about impossible to lose weight after the last 3. So my weight just keeps going up. It's been really a very difficult thing to deal with. I'd be so hurt if I were her mom. My body has either been carrying or nursing a child for 17 years now. That's a lot on a person's body.

    • @SomeBoyHere
      @SomeBoyHere Год назад +49

      ​@@Sarah-psalm127Damn why would you have 9 children?

    • @CaduceusErin
      @CaduceusErin 11 месяцев назад +41

      ​@@SomeBoyHere Some people like kids and that's ok.

    • @SandraHVK
      @SandraHVK 11 месяцев назад +39

      Yes. I have 3 kids, and even if I have been lifting weights and dieting.. My body will always have those poufs on my hips and belly.. Being fit but still shaped like a pear.. And here comes someone who isnt married or have had any kids and tell us men should leave..
      Now my husband is amazing, so Im lucky.. But for the younger generation, with the men hearing this.. Its messed up. Then she complains about single moms too.. Like.. You told the men to leave them you b.. ..

    • @bamaQT99
      @bamaQT99 10 месяцев назад +25

      Embarrassingly, in my younger years, I bought into the pregnancy is not an excuse myth. Then I watched the most bad arse woman I know, (helicopter pilot in the Marine Corps) struggle to actively loose weight after both her pregnancies. It changed my perspective completely. I can honestly say now at 43, I would have loved to bare stretch marks and wider hips at least once. Alas it wasn’t possible. Moms are super heroes. Shame on people who bash them for not being a perfect 120.

  • @lesliemackerel9416
    @lesliemackerel9416 Год назад +1552

    “I don’t think I look good, but my wife says I’m handsome” WE LOVE A SUPPORTIVE QUEEN!!!

    • @lostandfond2163
      @lostandfond2163 Год назад +110

      That genuinely made me shed a tear❤ he is so lucky. ❤😭❤️

    • @Estorium
      @Estorium Год назад +73

      I loved that part. So wholesome.

    • @marlene670
      @marlene670 Год назад +64

      That guy was so cute!

    • @SithBunny1
      @SithBunny1 Год назад +47

      He is so wholesome and I can see why his wife loves him.

    • @sumayyahadetunmbi4347
      @sumayyahadetunmbi4347 Год назад +6

      exactly

  • @clarinetpride55
    @clarinetpride55 Год назад +318

    As someone with a more traditional marriage, my husband would never treat me the way Pearl portrays husbands.

    • @ragsrare3771
      @ragsrare3771 Год назад +41

      She say this to get a man to marry her but little does she know even those men who wants to cheat wouldn’t choose a one who wants to be cheated on.

    • @melissapreston2053
      @melissapreston2053 Год назад +36

      For real! I am also in a "traditional" marriage, and it is NOTHING like this.

    • @kyrus4989
      @kyrus4989 11 месяцев назад +23

      I also have a more traditional marriage and was a SAHM for years. My husband would never dare treat me the way Pearl advocates for men to treat their wives. Marriage is about respect. I do make a conscious effort to stay healthy and fit and I expect my husband to do the same, but when either one of us starts gaining we discuss it respectfully and motivate each other, not abandon each other.

    • @acfirby
      @acfirby 11 месяцев назад +13

      My husband can't stand her.

    • @ItsBunnyBuns
      @ItsBunnyBuns 9 месяцев назад

      Tradwife here as well, and my husband always crinkles his nose like he smells something bad whenever his feed shows her. I think Pearl, and to a little lesser extent Candace Owens, are pick me grifters. In a time when men feel scared to even look at a woman, they are grasping at any woman who shows them validation, even if it’s toxic.

  • @Otteal
    @Otteal Год назад +594

    I gained 115lbs over the course of our marriage, my husb still loved me and found me attractive. I've lost 105 of those pounds, my husb still loves me and finds me attractive.

    • @ar9349
      @ar9349 Год назад +44

      Amazing journey! I'm so happy you have a true partner! Have a merry Christmas!!!

    • @janette2691
      @janette2691 Год назад +35

      Congratulations on losing weight and having a great husband 😍

    • @SithBunny1
      @SithBunny1 Год назад +9

      You obviously have a happy, healthy relationship, and I'm glad for you. ❤

    • @beekah992
      @beekah992 Год назад +26

      It's almost as if love, attraction and marriage is not based on solely sex but something deeper. Pearl has not experienced this so she doesn't know.

    • @sumayyahadetunmbi4347
      @sumayyahadetunmbi4347 Год назад +3

      I am so happy for you

  • @jose-pie3055
    @jose-pie3055 Год назад +372

    One thing that makes a man extremely high value is self control. If he is angry, he can control it and not fly into a rage. If he is stressed he doesn't take his stress out on his wife and children. If he is tempted by another woman's beauty, he doesn't give into that temptation because he cherishes the love, respect and affection of his wife and children. Money and status does not make you valuable to a good woman. It's your character, your morality, a sense of self respect and dignity to not degrade your own body and soul for a cheap lay in a moment of weakness.

    • @aren7138
      @aren7138 Год назад +18

      Amen!

    • @Diana-qp2rw
      @Diana-qp2rw Год назад +54

      Exactly. And a man with self control is so much stronger than all those “high value” men Pearl tries to please.

    • @krbyp8092
      @krbyp8092 Год назад +4

      💯💯💯🔥

    • @Really_Roby
      @Really_Roby Год назад +5

      Spot frikking on! 💯💯💯

    • @botanicalbecca8443
      @botanicalbecca8443 Год назад +6

      Nailed it! Very well put.

  • @lizgreer6888
    @lizgreer6888 Год назад +223

    I was all into fitness and healthy eating. Then all of a sudden I started gaining weight. No changes in diet or fitness, just inexplicably gaining. Turns out I had hormonal ovarian cancer. Ended up on hormonal steroids by the end. That lasted a year. All in all by the time I was done with treatment I gained 80 pounds. It was very difficult to lose the weight. Eventually I became pregnant and lost 60lbs by the end of the pregnancy. The pregnancy completely retuned my body back to normal. That said, I was obese. But I was obese because I'm a survivor.

    • @CaduceusErin
      @CaduceusErin 11 месяцев назад +21

      Girl, that is WILD! I'm glad you're better now, bodies are wild. ❤

    • @RanndiMarie01
      @RanndiMarie01 7 месяцев назад +9

      Congratulations on beating cancer and having your baby! 😊

    • @Messy320
      @Messy320 6 месяцев назад +2

      Congrats mama bear 💕

    • @бронза.вафля.конус
      @бронза.вафля.конус 5 месяцев назад +3

      Did the cancer go away? Please say yes

    • @lizgreer6888
      @lizgreer6888 5 месяцев назад +5

      @zvezdoblyat well with ovarian cancer it never goes away. There has been no growth for 7, almost 8 years. 2 more years and I will be clear (but never cancer free). The important part is clear and no growth!

  • @maryannedzvonik559
    @maryannedzvonik559 Год назад +660

    Nah its crazy how she doesn't believe in divorce even in most cases of abuse but then when a woman gains a hundred pounds shes like "leave the whale" 💀💀💀

    • @rebel13wardog
      @rebel13wardog Год назад +55

      I was thinking the exact same thing. She's just all over the place, doesn't know what she's talking about.

    • @Quack071
      @Quack071 Год назад +34

      Kinda ironic when there’s a cartoon whale in Spongebob called Pearl

    • @Organicjasminetea
      @Organicjasminetea Год назад +6

      It literally makes no sense right? She says complete opposite things

    • @Thelucky_ducky
      @Thelucky_ducky Год назад

      ​@@Quack071what?(sorry my brain just doesn't want to work today😢)

    • @AngryReptileKeeper
      @AngryReptileKeeper Год назад +7

      @@Quack071 "Kinda ironic when there’s a cartoon whale in Spongebob called Pearl"
      Who also likes to spend her rich daddy's money. Literally life imitating art.

  • @BaddieBunnie
    @BaddieBunnie Год назад +936

    This has nothing to do with pearl but the guy who said that his wife calls him handsome warmed my heart

    • @BaddieBunnie
      @BaddieBunnie Год назад +8

      ​@@backwardmorning💯

    • @peggy9300
      @peggy9300 Год назад +19

      So cute

    • @kellyhorvatin
      @kellyhorvatin Год назад +20

      I came here to say the same thing, so sweet 🥰

    • @GodWinsInTheEnd
      @GodWinsInTheEnd Год назад +10

      I know, right?!?

    • @BaddieBunnie
      @BaddieBunnie Год назад +29

      @@Raya-ir4tm pearl thrives off of being miserable while telling other people how to live

  • @honeylis7
    @honeylis7 Год назад +125

    I just want to put this here. Like so many others, in 2020 I struggled with alcohol abuse. When I drink, I hardly eat at all. I got down to a size 2/4. Then I met my incredible wife, who is a great cook, and stopped abusing alcohol. I have gained about 30 pounds (at 5' tall) and am now a size 8. "Skinny" or a smaller number on the scale is not "BETTER." Imagine a life so empty that you judge your worth by what a scale says. You do whatever you want and I'll be over here enjoying a grilled cheese and homemade soup. PS this is a great reminder that someone else's weight is none of your business, whether it's going up or down. Find another compliment or comment to make to someone you haven't seen in a while.

    • @janette2691
      @janette2691 Год назад +13

      Im so happy for you ❤

    • @thegangsterhippie
      @thegangsterhippie Год назад +8

      Proud of you for your accomplishments and sharing your story. ❤

    • @honeylis7
      @honeylis7 Год назад +6

      Reread my comment and try again.

    • @honeylis7
      @honeylis7 Год назад

      @@forgetmeblues If you judge your life solely on what a scale says, it is empty. My God, why keep commenting on this to say nothing? Go the fuck away

    • @tiesiai_per_aplinkui
      @tiesiai_per_aplinkui Год назад +2

      ​@@forgetmebluesidk, what is actually better being self countios about the weight or be at unhealthy weight and don't care about it at all, and thing you are perfect. I personally think the latter is more toxic actually.

  • @lizwatkins1995
    @lizwatkins1995 Год назад +440

    Pearl: "Marriage is for better or for worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, til death do you part."
    Also Pearl:"Absolutely leave your wife if she puts on weight, no question. "

    • @GodWinsInTheEnd
      @GodWinsInTheEnd Год назад

      Yeah... no consistency. She's all platitude and no reason. Poor, stupid Pearl.

    • @chorizoramen93
      @chorizoramen93 Год назад +55

      She's just mirroring the sentiments of men, this is exactly how they think. Women should endure and men should leave when its no longer convenient

    • @Mindyobusiness89
      @Mindyobusiness89 Год назад +4

      I disagree with her on this one. What not help her lose weight?

    • @erinnadia0409
      @erinnadia0409 Год назад +9

      The math isn't mathing

    • @Gchildwarrior
      @Gchildwarrior Год назад +17

      "And endure a**se so the kids can have a two parent household."
      -JustDumbThings

  • @xBlacMagSx
    @xBlacMagSx Год назад +326

    Imagine taking relationship advise from a women who's never even had a boyfriend, let alone marraige. All this pandering and still no guy wants her. LMAO

    • @skittle38
      @skittle38 Год назад +39

      even more ridiculous is the fact that she did actually have a boyfriend at one point and he left her ass lmao

    • @xBlacMagSx
      @xBlacMagSx Год назад +38

      @@skittle38 Her best friend said it wasn’t a real relationship and were together for a like month tops

    • @user-jc7wl6ki7m
      @user-jc7wl6ki7m Год назад +10

      ​@@skittle38he left cus she had a high body count

    • @user-jc7wl6ki7m
      @user-jc7wl6ki7m Год назад +8

      ​@@xBlacMagSxActually, she even said she had a relationship. She was crying on tiktok and calling him her boyfriend.

    • @k.loucombs7877
      @k.loucombs7877 Год назад +41

      It's funny because Pearl herself said she wouldn't take relationship advice from a single woman. But who's the single woman giving advice, Pearl? 😂

  • @crazylizze98
    @crazylizze98 Год назад +115

    As someone who has an overweight partner whom I care for dearly, I would snap at anyone who decided to terrorize him for his body. Yes, I can acknowledge his weight isn't healthy especially for his height. We both know this and I do worry about him for it, but bullying is never okay. Oh and the "fat people aren't attractive" is a BS statement. I think my partner is adorable and handsome. People need to stop equating looks with health

    • @canelareina3795
      @canelareina3795 10 месяцев назад +1

      Being fit is both healthy and attractive. So funny you put the word "bs" in yours

    • @crazylizze98
      @crazylizze98 10 месяцев назад +15

      @@canelareina3795 being fit doesn't make you attractive nor can it make up for a lack of a personality

    • @VictoriaMarch13
      @VictoriaMarch13 2 месяца назад

      ​@@canelareina3795girl, bye.

    • @KenotheWolf
      @KenotheWolf 2 месяца назад +2

      @@canelareina3795 Also shows how superficial you are if you stop loving someone the instant they gain weight. Some people do look good especially if they have an amazing Personality.
      But i bet you dont know anything about good personality.

  • @cheyennescottage
    @cheyennescottage Год назад +700

    High value men DONT CHEAT! Otherwise they arent high value! 🤦‍♀️ if they cheat they lack self control, repsect for their partner, etc. Those traits dont sound like high value to me.

    • @RarebitFiends
      @RarebitFiends Год назад

      Yeah, but that whole dumb red pill community think nouveau riche hood rich displays of wealth are the only measure of value in men. 🤦‍♂️

    • @dstonedest
      @dstonedest Год назад +50

      I am so glad someone finally said this! You took the words right out of my mouth!

    • @lucianaromulus1408
      @lucianaromulus1408 Год назад +63

      Exactly. They're using shallow parameters to determine low and high value. Not legitimate aspects of a human being.

    • @melindaroop1346
      @melindaroop1346 Год назад

      They also lack self esteem and self worth. If they didn't, they wouldn't be seeking validation from other women.

    • @madday9589
      @madday9589 Год назад

      Yes being part of Christian groups (that are neither left or right) but lean more traditional, men are held to the same standard like the Bible says no sex before marriage, no cheating, and to take care of your body but not be vain/too focused on looks, commandments which are given to both men and women honestly I have no idea where she gets her views she’s definitely just a big troll looking for attention/money

  • @daswookie79
    @daswookie79 Год назад +489

    As a man I think it’s pretty sad that people like this hold men to such low standards of self control when it comes sex and it’s even more sad seeing all these “alpha” males agree so quickly just to justify their own bad behavior.

    • @aren7138
      @aren7138 Год назад +32

      Agreed.

    • @heyizz
      @heyizz Год назад

      Hearing these statements I'm almost offended on behalf of men. How are you so stupid you don't find that insulting? It's just trash men grasping for excuses to remain trash while pretending they're "normal".

    • @Diana-qp2rw
      @Diana-qp2rw Год назад +58

      Agree. Men like them are pretty weak in my opinion if they don’t have the strength to stay faithful or they at least have weak morals if they don’t care and use this as an excuse.

    • @vanivari359
      @vanivari359 Год назад +9

      Yes, but "as a man" i haven't met any man who finds 300+ pounds attractive - let alone more attractive than 120 pounds. Obesity is not attractive to most people for very objective reasons. As someone who was at 313 pounds once - most people who find you attractive, do it despite the overweight, not because of it. And of course there are guys with a fetish, but that's not a standard, there is a guy with a fetish for everything you can think off.
      All this is theoretical BS anyways, talking points for incels and wannabe alphas. Most normal men (especially "the good ones") won't leave their wife because she gains weight and most women won't leave their man because he lost his job (or gains weight), no meaningful relationship is build on looks or status (it can get in the way at some point though). But she is right in that point: men *generally* like "normal" sized women and women *generally* like guys with a good job. All the anecdotal, subjective and objective evidence indicates that. And i would bet money, that 95% of men would pick the body of Heidi Klum over Tess Holiday's body. Women luckily seem to be *generally* more complex in that regard.

    • @jessica5470
      @jessica5470 Год назад

      I came here to say that, I hate when people talk about a whole gender like they're one person, I doubt its her looks that is the reason she's single, it's probably because she's a horrible person and most guys have more decency that her

  • @susanb4213
    @susanb4213 Год назад +239

    May she get the husband she truly deserves.

    • @AngryReptileKeeper
      @AngryReptileKeeper Год назад +43

      More like, may she get the husband she expects other women to put up with.

    • @canelareina3795
      @canelareina3795 10 месяцев назад +1

      I'm dead

    • @internetscoolestfella
      @internetscoolestfella 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@AngryReptileKeeperehh… same thing

    • @kykawaii803
      @kykawaii803 Месяц назад

      @@AngryReptileKeeperthat’s literally what they just said bud

  • @woodside4life
    @woodside4life Год назад +129

    If I ever called my mother a whale on camera, there’d be a lot of slow singin’ and flower bringin’ as my casket starts sinkin’.

    • @chanelleo4116
      @chanelleo4116 Год назад +17

      Fr man- how some ppl can talk to or abt their parents like that and survive is still astonishing to me😅

    • @ragsrare3771
      @ragsrare3771 Год назад +15

      If she isn’t respecting her own parents then that enough to tell you that she wouldn’t respect her future husband

    • @drawingsticks5333
      @drawingsticks5333 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@ragsrare3771 I guess that's why she is hyping up trash men no one should respect

  • @ang3lik4l
    @ang3lik4l Год назад +1107

    I hate when Pearl tries to talk about someone's shape, while she's shaped like a fridge

  • @eyesofthecervino3366
    @eyesofthecervino3366 Год назад +67

    Hot take: people shouldn't be made fun of for being short or red-headed, either. The goal shouldn't be to find examples of people being treated poorly and seek to make that as common and universal an experience as possible.

    • @youre764
      @youre764 7 месяцев назад +9

      No matter how horrible a person is I can't bring myself to insult how they naturally look. It's not just insulting them, it's insulting everyone who looks like them

    • @imean5399
      @imean5399 2 месяца назад +1

      Idk if your entire persona is policing other women's appearance, not upholding standards is hypocritical

  • @user-nn5nq4ml3c
    @user-nn5nq4ml3c Год назад +595

    Leave the woman because she got fat but the man can do whatever they want and the woman should stay no matter what! The double standard is unreal.

    • @amnahammad5560
      @amnahammad5560 Год назад +33

      She wants the man to leave his wife if she gets fat but also thinks that we should get rid of divorce 💀

    • @dylansereno9233
      @dylansereno9233 Год назад +18

      @@amnahammad5560 I feel like she lost a bet and has to present random powerpoints about „shocking“ topics. Then she figured out it pays off and here we are

    • @blackdragon796
      @blackdragon796 Год назад

      Bad idea, women can get quiet violent and murderous in that kind of environment which makes them jealous. This is surely why men who had a harem of 500 women died in their twenties.😹

    • @blackdragon796
      @blackdragon796 Год назад +2

      ​@@dylansereno9233that's called a pro business move😹

    • @NC4E
      @NC4E 11 месяцев назад +2

      She contradicts herself all the time because what she says aren't her actual values. She says controversial stuff because that's her brand. She's gotten a lot of attention by pissing people off.

  • @6hgbfjdbfb
    @6hgbfjdbfb Год назад +262

    Imagine being such a pick me that your entire personality is based on bashing women but no man wants you. She’s knows what men want and how a woman should be and yet can’t get a man herself. Ok Pearl

    • @Saidwhatisaid11
      @Saidwhatisaid11 Год назад +20

      She can’t even use the excuse ‘I’m not actively dating’ because she’s been spotted on multiple dating sites, so I do agree that she’s not wanted- OR maybe she has super high standards and are rejecting everyone. Idk.

    • @Farewell_Trash
      @Farewell_Trash Год назад +10

      Tbh, I don't believe she's a pick me. She's just greedy for money and fame, and she chose edglord way, because female redpill influencers are much rarer then feminist ones or something like that. I don't think she believes anything she says. I also don't think she has any morals or empathy.

  • @chanimeryl1246
    @chanimeryl1246 Год назад +69

    Ironically Pearl is not married nor does she have children. She seems very, very bitter about that.

  • @melaniegrace7707
    @melaniegrace7707 Год назад +312

    She says women slack off after finding a partner but also shames women for trying too hard to look attractive after they are married….

    • @CoushattaL
      @CoushattaL Год назад

      Right, honestly it's like no matter what women do, it's wrong. But hey men decided a long time ago that being born a woman is a crime.

    • @ReikiRev
      @ReikiRev Год назад +29

      She leaves out the fact that men tend to do the same thing. Just about every single man I’ve known once they met someone and or got married gained at least 15 pounds within the first year

  • @lilascharmante2712
    @lilascharmante2712 Год назад +545

    Pearl is definitely a troll. She has the giddiest smile on her face whenever she says something shocking

    • @lilascharmante2712
      @lilascharmante2712 Год назад +1

      @@sgujuhgftyyuyy To her, getting any kind of attention is "doing something". I wish she would go get therapy and healed her inner wounds

    • @mamawray
      @mamawray Год назад +58

      That smile that says, "I do good, Daddy?"

    • @astherielleloella-ximena402
      @astherielleloella-ximena402 Год назад +34

      I believe so. She's just saying those things to get a reaction and valuation from men.

    • @aleishab961
      @aleishab961 Год назад +18

      I said the same thing!! I think she created this troll persona as a joke and then got popular and just is super committed. She doesn't practice what she preaches and if she REALLY believed what she said I don't think she would look or say the things she does. She is just a little too good at acting the part😂

    • @KreeZafi
      @KreeZafi 11 месяцев назад +10

      I don't think she's necessarily a troll, but definitely a grifter who says intentionally provocative things for attention. She enjoys being inflammatory but she doesn't just want to be outrageous to get people upset, she specifically goes for the talking points of the groups she wants to appeal to (manosphere conservatives). A lot of it is just parroting things that gets the approval of her target audience, it very quickly becomes obvious that she doesn't actually know what she's talking about and can't back up her claims when asked.

  • @cantishpie2298
    @cantishpie2298 Год назад +49

    My theory is that Pearl is just bitter about being 27 and looking 47 so she woke up one day and went ‘scotch earth bitch-bag’ on everyone, being intentionally outrageous to gain attention that she previously lacked.

  • @followshisway
    @followshisway Год назад +364

    I'm 35 pounds heavier than I should be after having a baby. I'm aware of this and plan to lose the weight once I'm done breastfeeding. I find her comment on women gaining weight after having a child, irritating. Women who have kids don't make a conscious decision to 'let themselves go'. I gained the weight I needed to gain to feed my baby.

    • @DamnitMercy
      @DamnitMercy Год назад +40

      I remember being 4 weeks PP and people telling me to work out. I only gained 49 pounds, and I have 16 left to lose.

    • @followshisway
      @followshisway Год назад +46

      @@DamnitMercy they are obviously clueless just like pearl. Listen to your body. Do too much too soon and you prolong your recovery.

    • @daniellenelson5300
      @daniellenelson5300 Год назад

      She'll probably never have kids, no one wants her even the men she gives lip service to. I had a baby back in July I gained very little weight and my boyfriend tells me I don't look like I just had a baby but that stance about weight gain with child bearing is gross, so many women do gain a decent amount with pregnancy and are expected to drop it despite how men are supposed to have no hand in childcare so she can workout, so she's expected to snap back and on top of that be a slave to her Sloppy gross pig of a husband (he's allowed to be that way) it's just ridiculous, I wonder if her mom dropped her on her head as an infant

    • @Annnie763
      @Annnie763 Год назад +35

      Congratulations on your new baby!! I hope you can give yourself some grace. Your baby’s health and your health is the most important thing. 35 pounds sounds like extremely normal weight gain during pregnancy and breastfeeding. I hope you and your family are well ❤

    • @heyizz
      @heyizz Год назад

      Yeah, porn culture has completely divorced people from the realities of growing a child, giving birth, and how the process changes your body forever. It's also extra funny when it's a pick me like her that essentially claims women's only purpose for existing is giving birth.

  • @buxombrowncoat5631
    @buxombrowncoat5631 Год назад +33

    As a member of the fat community, you absolutely nailed it. Pearl just trashes individual humans. Her content is the social media equivalent of a mean girl in the locker room, calling me fat and making pig noises. You genuinely critique a "movement" that has stopped being about accepting our bodies and loving ourselves and become about promoting unhealthy choices and demanding people have seggs with us.
    She personally attacks individual women for being fat. You criticize the advice and actions of predatory public figures. You are not the same.

  • @Sharpe1502
    @Sharpe1502 Год назад +205

    The guy who said his wife thinks he’s handsome looked so sweet.

    • @ClarkyClark
      @ClarkyClark Год назад +38

      Right? Made me think that Pearl doesn't understand that people find their loved ones attractive, even if that person doesn't find themselves attractive.

    • @LWAY070
      @LWAY070 Год назад +13

      That was absolutely precious 🥺

    • @samara.morgan
      @samara.morgan Год назад +5

      That's something she'll never have.

    • @julieerin115
      @julieerin115 3 месяца назад +1

      He does look handsome.

  • @saralee6710
    @saralee6710 Год назад +192

    How is Pearl advising that women are best in their 20s, fit, virginal, submissive, ladylike, homebound, voiceless and essentially a disposable posession.
    She is a 6 foot plus, overweight, 30+, opinionated, non-virginal, argumentative, single business woman, dead lifting 300lbs and boxing.
    Why not just say, " If you want a man, don't be me?" However, people like who they like, Pearl or non-Pearl alike. She knows this, but the controversy pays... or at least it did.

    • @buysncharge
      @buysncharge Год назад

      It's because the world went downhill ever since woman started voting and working. That's the basis for the shtick.

    • @yeyeyeyeyyeyess
      @yeyeyeyeyyeyess Год назад +18

      @@buysncharge womp womp cry abt it

    • @ryanmackenzie6109
      @ryanmackenzie6109 Год назад +13

      ​@@buysnchargewow you ahve objectively ALL the wrong views lmao

    • @buysncharge
      @buysncharge Год назад

      @ryanmackenzie6109 sounds like a man who can't build things defending woman for ruining the world. Tell me what's better.

    • @buysncharge
      @buysncharge Год назад

      @ryanmackenzie6109 it would take more than 330,000 Earths to match the mass of the Sun, and it would take 1.3 million Earths to fill the Sun's volume. The Sun is about 93 million miles (150 million kilometers) from Earth.
      The worst part is when you have all the confidence and none of the root knowledge. This won't be the only thing you need to relearn. Scale. Quality. Man. You have a significant gap in your abilities from your education. I'm a 6th grade student.

  • @MizuSky
    @MizuSky Год назад +44

    Ya know.
    The realization she's 1 of 10 suddenly makes SO MUCH sense on why she's like this. She's attention starved. She has daddy issues, mommy issues, and is giving off major pick me vibes because she never got her parents attention competing with her siblings.

  • @BeautifulDiaspora
    @BeautifulDiaspora Год назад +590

    As a lesbo myself, Pearl gives huge closeted lesbian vibes…

    • @ewe2630
      @ewe2630 Год назад +1

      Well.. she started all this redpill gospel shit after her bestie (and roomate) got married so..one can wonder lol

    • @MsKwesi
      @MsKwesi Год назад +41

      Yes!

    • @brioche8123
      @brioche8123 Год назад +70

      Lol that was my first impression of her! She looks like she played soccer or softball 🤣

    • @kryskross9199
      @kryskross9199 Год назад +35

      @@brioche8123pretty sure she was a volleyball player? If I’m not mistaken. So, you’re right. Lol

    • @brioche8123
      @brioche8123 Год назад +102

      @@kryskross9199 she gives sporty stem lesbian vibes 😂. I bet she’ll disappear from the internet, come back with a female fiancée and a reformed personality lol

  • @iloveme7578
    @iloveme7578 Год назад +581

    Her mother projected her insecurities onto her children and now Pearl projects those insecurities to her audience.

    • @saiyamoru
      @saiyamoru Год назад +80

      I think it's more likely her dad who created this monster. Pearl has said before that his approval means the world to her, but I've never seen her talk about her mom prior to now* other than to acknowledge that they used her as a 'company owner' to receive grants for female-owned businesses.

    • @iloveme7578
      @iloveme7578 Год назад +68

      @@saiyamoru I knew it had to be something connected to the dad. The way she shamed her mom and called her a “whale” when gaining weight while being with her father… and then saying things like “your a selfish and terrible wife to your husband if you gain weight”, gives the impression that the attention and approval of her father was contingent on the mothers weight body and aesthetic. Then fighting for his approval all while he’s reinforcing her insecurities.

    • @sparky.scott09
      @sparky.scott09 Год назад +28

      @@blabla187watching her 12 or 13yo sister say "wow you are so single" was absolute gold 😂😂

    • @dismurrart6648
      @dismurrart6648 Год назад

      Pearl is the proof of why being a legit almond mom is really dangerous for your kids personalities.
      It just makes them huge bitches.

    • @prettyinpinky5937
      @prettyinpinky5937 Год назад

      How do you know her mom did that?

  • @baumeister5705
    @baumeister5705 6 месяцев назад +7

    I have an auto immune disorder that affects my metabolism, my metabolism is really “fast” I struggle to gain weight, my blood sugar drops, I can’t go anywhere without a snack. If my blood sugar drops too low I seize and I’m toast, I can only imagine the nightmare it is to have a metabolism that is slow. That’s the opposite end of my condition but they have a slew of things to deal with as well. I can only imagine

  • @myaren0101
    @myaren0101 Год назад +340

    At this point she should take her advice and not give herself voting rights or opinions, im so done 😂

    • @GodWinsInTheEnd
      @GodWinsInTheEnd Год назад +22

      I think all women, except for criminals and Pearl, should have the right to vote. (And the reason I don't think Pearl should have the right to vote is because SHE doesn't think she should have the right to vote.)

    • @luxaartozial660
      @luxaartozial660 Год назад +15

      I'd love to know if she voted in the last elections. I can't imagine she would just "let the leftists win"

    • @saldanger23
      @saldanger23 Год назад +5

      @NotVille_lol. Every thread. Lmao.

    • @Jess-iq1bw
      @Jess-iq1bw Год назад

      ​@NotVille_nah

  • @joshuathomas043
    @joshuathomas043 Год назад +514

    Ugh...Pearl. I'm almost 99% sure she cries herself to sleep at night. Such an awful human being.

    • @Birchlead
      @Birchlead Год назад +44

      Could almost feel sorry for her if she wasn’t projecting that insecurity like vomit.

    • @puppydogs68
      @puppydogs68 Год назад +38

      Didn’t her ex-best friend say that Pearl was always very insecure and socially awkward? Apparently, she would spend hours searching stuff like “how to talk to guys”. This is probably her just seeking male attention she never got and hating other women because she idolizes men so much

    • @GalacticTradingPost
      @GalacticTradingPost Год назад +4

      pearl will probably bag herself a rich handsome husband even though she's average looking. men are desperate for someone like her.

    • @penchimerical
      @penchimerical Год назад +12

      ​@@GalacticTradingPostnah, I doubt she practices what she preaches

    • @tiesiai_per_aplinkui
      @tiesiai_per_aplinkui Год назад

      ​@@GalacticTradingPostI don't see why any man would want her, a rich handsome man, neh, she is giving too of a control freak vibe, I think a simp, which she will hold under her boot more likely.

  • @yuuriahl
    @yuuriahl Год назад +22

    As a man who will be the house keeper in my relationship, I find it hilarious that staying at home is seen as a feminine thing
    My mom was a stay-at-home mom by choice and I have nothing but enamourment for her, I cannot imagine being in the home for 25 years raising 3 children (2 with autism (me and my little brother)) plus helping to care for our cousins while my aunts and uncles were out working, making food, cleaning the house, and all of this while being half deaf from childhood and struggling with undiagnosed ADHD
    I even started asking her for tips on how to keep yourself from going insane while being someone who works from home or is just the house keeper in general, because my dumb ass struggles just being at home in my dorm room alone while my partner is attending their classes XD

    • @yuuriahl
      @yuuriahl Год назад +6

      I also think this idea of staying at home "being the woman's job" is extremely stupid, people stay home for so many reasons
      In my parents case, my dad was able to get a job with a high enough salary to provide for the 5 of us at a relatively young age, so when my mom dropped out of medical school for her own health reasons she didn't feel pressured to go into the work force full time like my dad (they didn't even have me (their oldest child) until 3-5 years later so this wasnt a "stay at home with the kids" thing)
      And for me I'm planning to be a work-from-home husband for the main reason of... I can't handle the work force or a full 9-5, I've known this about myself for awhile but in recent years I've been discovering the full extent of my sensory issues and have been learning to cope with them, and having a job that forces me to leave the house every day for 5-8 hours a day... even just half of that sounds horrifying to me (I even worked a part-time position over the summer and I was exhausted beyond words)

  • @LotteReid
    @LotteReid Год назад +349

    "I'd rather be a pick-me than a skip-me!" But girl... You're embarrassingly pick-me and you STILL got skipped 😅

    • @meredith5977
      @meredith5977 Год назад +1

      As do you 😂

    • @LotteReid
      @LotteReid Год назад +57

      @@meredith5977 as do I... What? 😅 If you're gonna try to insult me, at least make it legible 🤣 And honey I have no problem getting picked. I'm married and have 2 beautiful kids with my husband, who picked me for being the strong, independent woman I am. It's embarrassing pick-mes like you that no matter how you throw yourselves at men, you'll always get skipped. Go cry about it 😂

    • @user-is7xs1mr9y
      @user-is7xs1mr9y Год назад +16

      staaaahp, she's already dead 😭

    • @linda33528
      @linda33528 Год назад +34

      @@meredith5977lmao what kind of insult is that. I can’t this is pathetic

    • @meredith5977
      @meredith5977 Год назад

      @@LotteReid I’m married two and no I’m not a pick me. Did I trigger you? You obviously understood my writing if you replied and I’m sure your man has his side pieces

  • @chrisrussell8245
    @chrisrussell8245 Год назад +339

    Pearl is young, a reasonably healthy weight, probably wealthy........and still manages to look like she fell out of the ugly tree and hit every damn branch 😂😂😂
    How is that?

    • @courtneyloveenthusiaist
      @courtneyloveenthusiaist 11 месяцев назад +25

      Ugly tree😭😭😭😭

    • @10t3n
      @10t3n 11 месяцев назад +10

      I was thinking the same thing 😂

    • @laurennelson3918
      @laurennelson3918 11 месяцев назад +50

      She is putting all the energy a normal woman would put into resting finding joy and general self care into being toxic and stressed out from not fitting the standards she sets out for other woman to follow.

    • @underthesea713
      @underthesea713 11 месяцев назад +19

      I haven’t heard that “ugly tree” expression in years 😭 thank u for bringing it back lmfao

    • @TonyMidyett
      @TonyMidyett 10 месяцев назад

      Pearl looks like a pony crammed into a dress.

  • @DiMagnolia
    @DiMagnolia 11 месяцев назад +10

    I often forget she’s younger than me, all that hatred in her body is making her age like milk. Meanwhile i still get asked if I’m in high school lmao

  • @rkoncenasupporter
    @rkoncenasupporter Год назад +463

    the fact that Pearl called her own mom a whale, that made my jaw drop, also given the story of her parents, its no wonder she has the distorted views she does

    • @user-is7xs1mr9y
      @user-is7xs1mr9y Год назад +70

      I was shocked as well. My mom was pretty toxic to all of us and she was overweight for years, but I would NEVER call her a whale, what the hell? Pearl is just a bully.

    • @rkoncenasupporter
      @rkoncenasupporter Год назад +26

      @@user-is7xs1mr9y yeah that was just mean and rude for her to say that about her own mother

    • @rkoncenasupporter
      @rkoncenasupporter Год назад +31

      @@blabla187 its good to know her siblings don't have these views

    • @buysncharge
      @buysncharge Год назад +2

      Huh? Words need to have less effect on people. Harden up.

    • @Birchlead
      @Birchlead Год назад +38

      @@buysncharge harden up???? Do you not understand that this is about the sheer disrespect of your elders-- nevermind that- your literal parent? Get outta here. You DO NOT speak to your parent that way ever unless they’re some crazy abusive piece of shit which…. Her mother clearly isn’t.
      The least of this is the weight based insult. It’s the audacity to insult the person whom you came out of at all.

  • @flubbsflubberson
    @flubbsflubberson Год назад +73

    She comes across as someone who desperately wanted to be one of the mean girls in high school but got bullied by them instead. She's so desperate for approval and validation, makes me wonder what her home life was like. Sad.

  • @captainspain9759
    @captainspain9759 Год назад +35

    Pearl's pretty bold for someone who wears a collection of her grandma's drapes.

  • @PaigeSinclaire
    @PaigeSinclaire Год назад +132

    I had a husband I gained weight after my father died about 100 pounds my ex husband lied and cheated on me I’m better now I’m down to my high school weight of 120 pounds so saying woman can’t gain weight it’s terrible I was depressed when my father died and I’m sure there are women who have personal issues going on
    What I’m saying is Pearl is an awful person

    • @janette2691
      @janette2691 Год назад +21

      Im sorry for your loss and your ex was a jerk. Im glad youre doing better

    • @erviatangerine5108
      @erviatangerine5108 Год назад +12

      Feel you. I also gained a few kg after my dad passed, I felt kind of a psychological hunger, I just didn't feel like I'm full no matter how much I ate. Eventually everything normalised, including my weight, but I definitely understand and support you. Your ex is a total asshole.

  • @Winchester85
    @Winchester85 Год назад +326

    For a woman who likes to judge based on looks, she not only looks older than her age, but she's pretty homily looking. Look at the kind of women she shames for the love of the manosphere. Every single one of them have the looks that catch guys like, Andrew Tate's attention, yet Andrew has never shown any interest in her, nor has any of the other men she plays, "Pick Me" for. Has she never asked herself why? I mean, really?

    • @VerdantExploration
      @VerdantExploration Год назад +43

      Homely is a perfect descriptor

    • @thegangsterhippie
      @thegangsterhippie Год назад +16

      Her physical appearance might be an insecurity of hers which is why she may be so focused on “dressing it up” and “staying fit.” She’s gone off the deep end but I wish her inner peace. ❤

    • @minecraftmeli512
      @minecraftmeli512 Год назад +35

      @@thegangsterhippiebut she’s clearly not “staying fit”… in the video you can see she did gain weight, she’s probably still in the healthy range but for someone who would shame me to death if I gained 20 pounds (I’d probably be at her weight then depending on how tall she is) she gotta do more 😂

    • @beekah992
      @beekah992 Год назад +24

      I don't think she seems very feminine, she seems fairly "masculine" to me. She looks sporty/muscular. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that and that is a very cool look but she does not play it up at all, she almost tries to hide it? I bet she'd look great if she were to play into it and feel confident in her own skin!

    • @ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed
      @ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed Год назад +18

      Negativity on the inside makes you ugly on the outside.

  • @abbeyb736
    @abbeyb736 Месяц назад +3

    0:57 "i do not think I'm the most gorgeous thing in the world" girl please you are so pretty 😭

  • @VLM95
    @VLM95 Год назад +249

    Pearl is the epitome of everything she says is wrong with women. I can not stand her, but there is a part of me that feels really sorry for her. She’s about to expire (by her own definition), and her opportunity to get picked is going to slip away. 🤷‍♀️

    • @MissMoontree
      @MissMoontree Год назад +38

      It is sad. She's only 26, but she believes teens are more attractive than her. I hope she's trolling. Also, the clothes fooled me into thinking she was 5-10 years older than she is.

    • @GodWinsInTheEnd
      @GodWinsInTheEnd Год назад +38

      Even worse than staying single: can you imagine which guy she'd attract, right now (if she doesn't wise up and get some healing or therapy?)? It would probably be someone abusive.

    • @heyizz
      @heyizz Год назад +27

      Good thing that that claim is complete bullshit. Women are wanted at any age, you just naturally get more attention in your 20s and 30s. What I mostly worry about is that she gets trapped in an abusive relationship with one of those disgusting creatures whose podcasts she appears on.

    • @VLM95
      @VLM95 Год назад +1

      @@heyizz Absolutely agree.

    • @jordanjordan3167
      @jordanjordan3167 Год назад +5

      @@MissMoontreeyes, and what’s sad is that she might think she deserves less love and respect because she’s older so she’ll excuse her abusive partners’ toxic ways if she ends up with someone like that

  • @FayolaOnline
    @FayolaOnline Год назад +159

    I honestly think Pearl is just repeating all the things Men that rejected her have told her. She may be trolling, she may actually believe in some of what she says, but if she fully believed in what she says, she wouldn't be seen or heard, she would have found a man to basically own her by now.

    • @elalogar7340
      @elalogar7340 Год назад +12

      @@dinosaur___7209 Those all-I-see-in-women-are-their-look men she "panders" to all day, are easy to get. She only had to dye her hair blond, wear make-up, a padded bra, and a tight dress.

    • @Gchildwarrior
      @Gchildwarrior Год назад +8

      By her logic, she should quit to become a more "traditional woman"

    • @elalogar7340
      @elalogar7340 Год назад +4

      ​@@dinosaur___7209 You have a point, but the thing is, as far as I know, none of these man is married or even dating a woman that they deem "wife material." So this tells me that they are just one of those people that speak one thing while doing something else. Or that they are not able to attract the women they see as "wife material" nor are able to recognize one if one was standing right before them. So, they only go after women that they see as inferior, they can't help themselves.

    • @user-jc7wl6ki7m
      @user-jc7wl6ki7m Год назад

      ​@@dinosaur___7209These men want baddies who are virgins but experienced p0rnst@rs, independent but also dependent, innocent but bad asf, etc

    • @user-jc7wl6ki7m
      @user-jc7wl6ki7m Год назад +1

      ​@@dinosaur___7209then will wait til they get older and want younger women who are..pure.

  • @zeekay3205
    @zeekay3205 Год назад +17

    Unrelated, but I imagine Pearl would love that particular Amish group where the woman sews her own wedding dress, then is expected to wear that same dress for every weekly service for (presumably) the rest of their lives barring pregnancy or other such other exception.
    Can't remember if it was amish, menonite or just that particular community in the documentary I watched a few years ago.

  • @tj_6964
    @tj_6964 Год назад +418

    It really irks me that people like Pearl have no issues pushing the false notion that all gay people are always predators when people like her are doing exactly that. It’s either hypocrisy or projection. Maybe both.

    • @FreshSalmonid
      @FreshSalmonid Год назад +69

      She fr said 16 yos are hotter than 25 yos and then has the audacity to call a group of people minding their own business predators

    • @tj_6964
      @tj_6964 Год назад +67

      @@FreshSalmonid she’s encouraging men to find teenage girls attractive, and encouraging teenage girls to go after older men. If that’s not predatory I don’t know what is.

    • @audrawells1383
      @audrawells1383 Год назад +5

      I think it's trolling. I can't believe someone would be as hypocritical as her and not be trolling. She made a post in July saying "16 year Olds are hotter than 26 year olds" when she herself was 26. That was the post that first made me think she was trolling, and the more I see her content, the more I think she's a troll.

    • @Mindyobusiness89
      @Mindyobusiness89 Год назад +4

      She said all gay people all predatory?

    • @FreshSalmonid
      @FreshSalmonid Год назад

      I feel like she is just baiting at this point but at least it’s mildly entertaining seeing what bullcrap she says next @@audrawells1383

  • @hornetsandsweetsurprises
    @hornetsandsweetsurprises Год назад +176

    As a conservative Christian woman that has a job and still likes to cook and clean for my man and enjoys that feminine role, I think Pearl is a total tool. The reason I like to do things like that for my man is because he actually appreciates it, wouldn't dream of cheating on me, and to a lesser extent also still cooks and cleans. I couldn't stand being in a relationship with a man that treated me like a maid. You're supposed to be in an equal partnership, not an authoritarian heirarchal nightmare. Pearl does such a disservice to conservatives by even opening her mouth.

    • @SapienSafari
      @SapienSafari Год назад +4

      This sounds good but if you’re a “conservative Christian woman” than there’s no equality in your relationship by “design.” My mom is a conservative Christian woman and says “your father is the head of the home.”

    • @dismurrart6648
      @dismurrart6648 Год назад +9

      ​@@SapienSafaridepends on the conservative. I'm guessing your mom is also very religious.
      There's a lot of conservatives who view it as a group project where some aspects are managed by the wife and others are managed by the husband.
      With evangelicals you tend to see something closer to a man on top hierarchy, but there's also a view that it's a co-manager hierarchy where you are teammates or a unit.
      That's how my catholic father and stepmother are, anyways.

    • @pussydestroyer69285
      @pussydestroyer69285 Год назад

      You, ma’am, are what feminists (at least the original feminists not misandrists) fought for…you choose to do all of that. Feminism is about the ability to choose

  • @sandracastro1234
    @sandracastro1234 Год назад +12

    I’m a mom and wife. I have always been into fitness/exercise. Since becoming a mom it’s been hard to keep up with the same workout routine from before I had a baby! Pearl has NO idea what being a Mom and Wife is.

  • @LibraInSeattle
    @LibraInSeattle Год назад +113

    26 is old? Did I read that right? Damn, I must be ancient at 54. 🙄 I have never felt better. this girl really is just talking out her behind.
    For someone who isn’t married and hasn’t ever been married she’s got a lot of opinions about marriage. Sorry, she’s a child.

    • @winxclubstellamusa
      @winxclubstellamusa Год назад +10

      OMG you look amazing!! I would not have guessed that you were 54 at all! And as a 26 year old, I am also BAFFLED at the extreme and nonsensical ageism that we have right now, that has been made by people who don’t know how super young a 30 year old still looks and is. If the average lifespan of humans right now is at least 75 years, then 26, 30, and even 54 is NOT “old” at all.

    • @LibraInSeattle
      @LibraInSeattle Год назад +6

      @@winxclubstellamusa Thank you! You just made my day. 😉 I agree that there’s as a lot of ageism going around especially online and I don’t know if some people even realize that they’re engaging in it. With all of the advances in the medical field and the focus on wellbeing (both mental and physical) people are taking better care of themselves. My parents are both pretty healthy now at age 86, but they didn’t start making better decisions about their day to day lifestyle choices until about 25 years ago. I believe that added extra years to their lives.

    • @winxclubstellamusa
      @winxclubstellamusa Год назад +2

      @@LibraInSeattle WOW that’s amazing!! You’re most welcome! And I totally agree 😊🩷✨

    • @QueTee82
      @QueTee82 11 месяцев назад

      She knows absolutely nothing. Nothing about life, nothing about marriage or having children and taking care of a family. Absolutely NOTHING! I cannot wait until she gets married and has children to see what she's talking about then. She can't even stay in shape without kids. I'm so confused by her.

    • @zippermonster9596
      @zippermonster9596 8 месяцев назад +1

      Same. I’m right behind you at 40. I’m already buying my coffin, haha!!

  • @BaconNMegs
    @BaconNMegs Год назад +395

    I love when my favorite female creators go after Pearl. She's such a bad person.

    • @heyizz
      @heyizz Год назад +49

      The best part is everyone hates her equally no matter their differences 😂

    • @jordanjordan3167
      @jordanjordan3167 Год назад +6

      Don’t lower yourself to be like people like Pearl

    • @Mindyobusiness89
      @Mindyobusiness89 Год назад

      @@heyizzI don’t think everyone hates her lol

    • @heyizz
      @heyizz Год назад

      @@Mindyobusiness89 I don't follow gender traitors so no, I don't get freaks like Ben Shapiro's sister in my feed 😚

    • @asteriasheria2053
      @asteriasheria2053 Год назад +13

      ​@jordanjordan3167 my biggest fear when i was younger that i would one day act and say things like pearl.

  • @dddweller
    @dddweller 9 месяцев назад +10

    not that it matters, but the woman 1:00 into the video is (imo) so much prettier than Pearl. Her hair is gorgeous, her glasses are stylish, she has such beautiful healthy looking skin and her nails are looking fresh. again, there's no need to compare, but as a word of advice for the Pearls out there, you are not prettier than someone else based on how many pounds difference there is between you and that other person. Be kind, be considerate, and don't be a Pearl.

    • @fymale
      @fymale 3 месяца назад

      you are right. Your opinions don't mean a flying f***.

  • @Twinkie989
    @Twinkie989 Год назад +334

    I feel like Pearl could unite all of us against her.

    • @Uke2405
      @Uke2405 Год назад +7

      😂😂😂

    • @DianeKang
      @DianeKang Год назад +10

      I feel like she already did

    • @Vincychs
      @Vincychs Год назад +2

      Ehh

    • @bellerain381
      @bellerain381 Год назад +5

      That’s quite an accomplishment!!!

    • @ArchonOfAnemo
      @ArchonOfAnemo Год назад +6

      Well it seems to already be working 😂

  • @charliehatch288
    @charliehatch288 Год назад +165

    She makes me sad, she must be miserable. I can’t imagine hating myself that much. She’s monetised her own projection

  • @mariannesartcorner
    @mariannesartcorner 3 месяца назад +2

    Pearl: are you abused by your husband? Is he cheating? Endure!
    Also Pearl: you gain weight? He will leave you.
    Pearl has zero standards for men and project all responsibility on women.

  • @traditionalwoman5648
    @traditionalwoman5648 Год назад +74

    I am fat and I am nowhere near 300 pounds. I am working on losing the weight, and this is after 4 kids. To be fair to me, my husband thinks I am sexy, but I need to lose fat.

    • @Mialikesthings
      @Mialikesthings Год назад +8

      Hope for our success in the future.

    • @RileyDebernarde
      @RileyDebernarde Год назад +22

      After 4 kids honestly is understandable and it’s good your husband still thinks your sexy you should feel sexy and give yourself grace you created multiple human lives ❤

    • @zer0homer
      @zer0homer Год назад +6

      Big Ws both for you and your husband

    • @Bergmaal
      @Bergmaal Год назад +1

      ​@@RileyDebernardeyou shouldnt excuse unhealthiness though. Being fat is unhealthy no matter how many kids you have had, I have had 3 kids in 4 years, and after my 3 kid my bmi wasnt good, if people had made the excuse that I had just made 3 kids without any break, ofcourse I am fat. Than I wouldnt have worked to loose the weight and return to my healthy weight

    • @RileyDebernarde
      @RileyDebernarde Год назад +1

      @@Bergmaal that is true but I’m saying like that’s probably an explanation for it but not an excuse to like keep living like that fatness and fat exseptance is not okay and it’s stupid I agree.
      It is unhealthy but i understand it being difficult to get back into the groove of things after having kids. My mom had 2 kids and at most gained 20 pounds but lost it after she had me and my sister

  • @memedemon6273
    @memedemon6273 Год назад +142

    It’s so funny to me when she says 💩 like “I’d rather be a pick me than a skip me” because she is (still) being skipped 😂😂😂

    • @AngryReptileKeeper
      @AngryReptileKeeper Год назад +2

      Wanting to be skipped is a hell of a lot more dignified than being a PickMe.

  • @Blackmjc
    @Blackmjc Год назад +7

    Im very close to 300 pounds and by the amount of men in my Inbox daily would say otherwise, Pearl lol I dont want to stay this weight and have lost and gained and over again through the years but at 42, the weight is breaking my body down that gained a lot of weight during the pandemic through stress eating, its time to lose and take care of myself for my son.

    • @AngryReptileKeeper
      @AngryReptileKeeper Год назад +1

      I've been either obese or overweight for most of my 40 years of life. Over the years I went from just shy of 300lbs down to an all-time low of 160 and back up to 200 where I sit currently. And I don't carry it in a particularly flattering distribution in my opinion, either. Yet somehow, there is no shortage of men who openly hit on me in public. And that's just the ones who say something. Plenty look but never say anything. I think it's gross behavior honestly, but it does serve as a good metric for how many men like fat women, even older ones. Apparently, there are plenty of them. So Pearl doesn't know what she's talking about.

  • @chattyjessi
    @chattyjessi Год назад +144

    People don't talk about how when a woman gets married she is no longer just caring for herself. She immediately takes on a whole other person to care for, cook for, clean for, etc. Add on children and everything else, its not that woman "let themselves go" its that we lose ourselves in the act of caring and loving others

    • @lostandfond2163
      @lostandfond2163 Год назад +10

      Also, I know when I was living alone before my children. I had so much more control of my diet and had time to meal prep and also no reason to have junk food in the house so I never had to exercise will power. But now that I have a husband and 3 kids, I have to cook dinners and meals that suit ALL our tastes. No time to meal prep, and no leftovers because we have a big family. Also I always have soda and sweets and chips in the house because if my husband, he has a sweet tooth an likes a snack every now and then so now it’s constantly in the house, it’s hard today no when it’s there and everyone else is eating it. Also sometimes it’s EXHAUSTING for me to do everything on my own so every now and then we eat fast food so I can hav a break for one meal. Which I NEVER used to eat that. so it did change my lifestyle DRASTICALLY.

    • @ownerofastolengun
      @ownerofastolengun Год назад +2

      That’s not an excuse to be fat

    • @carrielopez1728
      @carrielopez1728 Год назад +2

      It's a choice to lose oneself in the efforts to make the whole family happy. I find that allowing others needs to obliterate all of your own needs will eventually backfire. You'll end up burnt out and resentful with a spoiled and never fulfilled family. There HAS to be boundaries.

    • @carrielopez1728
      @carrielopez1728 Год назад +3

      ​@lostandfond2163 do you not place any expectations to share responsibilities with your partner? You are not their mom. You are their partner...there is a big difference.

    • @angelwings967
      @angelwings967 Год назад +2

      @@ownerofastolengunIt’s really stupid how you guys think being fat is the worst thing someone can be and refuse to acknowledge the reasons why it may happen.

  • @kirb5040
    @kirb5040 Год назад +67

    So she says marriage is "for better or for worse" which means men get to cheat if they want and you gotta deal, but a woman gains some weight and he can leave her. Got it.

  • @theaqua1517
    @theaqua1517 7 месяцев назад +4

    Pearl : " Tell me someone who looks good at 300 pounds"
    Tell me a pick me who has a healthy self-esteem and doesn't bully others

  • @ashleytyraisaacs
    @ashleytyraisaacs Год назад +208

    The weirdest thing about Pearl is that there isnt any reason for her to be that ugly. Not personality, just looks. Literally all it would take is a solid skin routine, a signature makeup look, and some hair definition. Throw in minimal gym and health effort and she wouldn't look like that. A touch of lip filler if we're being extreme. Her ugliness is very fixable...but she doesn't fix anything & tells other women to

    • @jasminecontreras7341
      @jasminecontreras7341 Год назад +77

      “Her ugliness is very fixable” 😂 true!

    • @maxipads259
      @maxipads259 Год назад +1

      I WAS TRYING TO PUT MY FINGER ON WHY SHE LOOKS LIKE THAT omg cause I was like literally just do some weights and and skincare if your apparently better than every other woman and more desirable but that's literally it she's too lazy too even with the money she has so she expects other girls to do it for some weird reason

    • @Demi.d3mi
      @Demi.d3mi Год назад

      Yea not to be a hater but she could benefit from a stylist, she doesn’t dress flattering or do her hair in a flattering way. It always looks like shes in a costume when she puts a dress on

    • @katherinem.7058
      @katherinem.7058 Год назад +5

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @alabama.worley
      @alabama.worley Год назад +9

      Truer words have never been written.

  • @Ploots21
    @Ploots21 Год назад +708

    Pearl holding herself up as some kind of arbiter of good looks when she looks like she does is hysterical to me.

    • @tatertott2390
      @tatertott2390 Год назад +122

      Shes a BBB....
      Bland
      Beige
      Basic 😂

    • @nazaninsoltanpour6254
      @nazaninsoltanpour6254 Год назад

      She looks like the dried out manure of a heifer who had too many carrots
      (Edit:To anyone who is ginger or shares some physical aspects with her,I profusely apologize, this isn't aimed towards you. It's aimed at little miss pick me pearl)

    • @aroyalesavage
      @aroyalesavage Год назад +124

      she literally looks like a blank sheet of paper

    • @435.63
      @435.63 Год назад +21

      @@aroyalesavagelmfao I’m dead

    • @AaronOnTheTrails
      @AaronOnTheTrails Год назад +40

      Right it's kind of in the same realm of the fat positive influencers who make content that comes down to "look at me I'm so hot." When one makes their looks such a part of their personality of course people will critique it

  • @DorisHeyyy-vc4rh
    @DorisHeyyy-vc4rh Год назад +292

    Pearl strikes me as a parody. She knows what she’s doing. I don’t believe she truly feels these things. She just wants buzz. Brilliant marketer.

    • @Duhbaby2348h
      @Duhbaby2348h Год назад +73

      Except for the fact that she’s gonna have to live with everything she’s done at the end of the day Pearl is now starting to fade however, her reputation will proceeded her everywhere. She goes through the rest of her life.

    • @beewest5704
      @beewest5704 Год назад +12

      Her tears can always save her.

    • @4fatsluts
      @4fatsluts Год назад +43

      not a parody but a grifter. this has made her so much $$$$ lol

    • @ingridgallagher1029
      @ingridgallagher1029 Год назад +8

      Shes like a conservative Trisha Paytas

    • @GodWinsInTheEnd
      @GodWinsInTheEnd Год назад +3

      I don't know. I kinda see her as a Monica Lewinsky: famous now, but gonna regret it in the end.

  • @bekpalm
    @bekpalm 7 месяцев назад +3

    I'm a plus size person on a weight loss journey (40 pounds since January), and I recently found your channel. I've been really enjoying your content, and wanted to express my gratitude. Have a fantastic day!

  • @boosqueezy2418
    @boosqueezy2418 Год назад +267

    pearl shouldn’t criticize anyone’s looks. no one should take her seriously

    • @OriLOK2
      @OriLOK2 Год назад +14

      She doesn't look good at the weight she chose to be so she can't say anything.

    • @bonitabarbie
      @bonitabarbie Год назад

      How the red pill men’s movement is proud to follow a modern unwed woman is beyond me.

    • @meredith5977
      @meredith5977 Год назад

      Men don’t like fat chicks be fr

    • @simply.living.better
      @simply.living.better Год назад +1

      I love Pearl! ❤

    • @LaFlor718
      @LaFlor718 Год назад +7

      @@simply.living.better why? Im not hating, but I sincerely wonder why some people love her and her content.

  • @samiam2088
    @samiam2088 Год назад +70

    No one takes this conversation to “what body expectations should I have for my spouse when they are 50, 60, 70, or 80” you know, after menopause, cancer treatments etc etc. There’s this bizarre expectation that people stay exactly the same as when you meet at 25.
    So when the wrinkles come in around the eyes or hair starts turning gray, then what?

    • @tiesiai_per_aplinkui
      @tiesiai_per_aplinkui Год назад +1

      I think you have to take care of your body as best that you can, you can't stop aging, but choosing healthy foods and excersice helps to keep the body healthyer and be there for your kids and grand kids.
      So, everyone should have a goal to be as healthy as they can.

    • @LotusesGalaxyOcean
      @LotusesGalaxyOcean Год назад +1

      That is the conversation that would be actually helpful. First setting options based on what is scientifically possible and then mapping the lifestyle choices you have to make to attain your chosen results. I think it would help people to choose partners with long term compatible health goals in a nuanced way.

  • @gil3449
    @gil3449 9 месяцев назад +4

    she wants women to feel the way she does about herself.

  • @ceegee5287
    @ceegee5287 Год назад +50

    Its funny how Pearl says older overweight women are unattractive when the comments said her mom looks attractive or better than pearl lol

  • @snowbird1381
    @snowbird1381 Год назад +93

    Pearl expects women to stay home and take care of the kids all day, but doesn’t understand that a woman literally has to destroy her body to pump out children. Sure some women are able to get right back out there and get in shape but a lot of other women struggle. Maybe instead of degrading women for gaining weight why not give some tips for how to live a healthier life. That’s the issue with pearl though, she’s all point and blame with no solutions.

    • @asteriasheria2053
      @asteriasheria2053 Год назад +10

      Pearl also doesn't understand is that it takes time and energy to raise kids. There's not always time to go to the gym afterwards. Because now it's time to cook lunch and clean up the house or care for other kids.

    • @snowbird1381
      @snowbird1381 Год назад +8

      @@asteriasheria2053 As a mom, you are a nanny, a chef, a chauffeur, an accountant, a teacher, hairdresser, pet groomer. You’re also the housekeeper, laundry maid, And landscaper if you have a garden. And when your children are little, you are covered in fluids and substances that are not your own not to mention she is running on fumes from a lack of sleep. And yet Pearl is cheering on men to leave their wives and cheat on them if they gain extra weight. She really has a nerve to call her own mother a whale. She doesn’t remember that her mother had to take care of her and a whole house full of kids, and is a businesswoman.

    • @Gchildwarrior
      @Gchildwarrior Год назад +3

      ​@@snowbird1381And her point would only create more single moms....which she is against...

    • @snowbird1381
      @snowbird1381 Год назад +5

      @@Gchildwarrior “but you pick who you sleep with!” Yes pearl and men pick too. We are all responsible for our choices aren’t we? 🙄

    • @user-jc7wl6ki7m
      @user-jc7wl6ki7m Год назад

      I mean...she is grifting for a group of men that blame women for everything

  • @kittyfriend9888
    @kittyfriend9888 Год назад +7

    you know the posts of the Disney bed spreads from the 90s and the highest comment is always “this pic smells like pee” .. somehow pearl gives off that same vibe

  • @JanJanKnows
    @JanJanKnows Год назад +136

    There is another big difference between you and Pearl, you point out a problem, you kindly and in care for others give a solution and you don’t go around insulting people, you try to understand the other side. Pearl just points at a problem, doesn’t care about giving solutions and then blames everyone but herself when things go bad. I disagree with some of your views but you are so kind that it doesn’t become a problem, I don’t even like Pearl at this point.

    • @ilickgrandmas2854
      @ilickgrandmas2854 Год назад +37

      Michelle also doesn't give out fashion advice whilst dressing like aunt Helen

    • @whatthefkiswrongwithyoutube
      @whatthefkiswrongwithyoutube Год назад +2

      @@ilickgrandmas2854 💀

    • @sugasweet435
      @sugasweet435 Год назад +3

      Michelle acts in good faith, with compassion, nuance and understanding. Not to mention she actually practices what she preaches

  • @fburnsDubstepEnderFox
    @fburnsDubstepEnderFox Год назад +106

    I honestly think Pearl needs to heal her inner child. She can do this by facing her flaws and behaviors, and then learning how to be kinder to herself and others.

    • @NurseZhivago
      @NurseZhivago Год назад +17

      You can see it on her face when she's talking about how her mom would talk about her weight. She is a deeply pained individual that has turned to clownery to cope.

    • @stonks3507
      @stonks3507 Год назад

      @joeybarszcz7717Honestly, same. That amount of self hatred is awful.

  • @ryandeffley7652
    @ryandeffley7652 Год назад +4

    26:13- Seeing Pearl so gassed walking up stairs and holding onto the hand rails was pretty damn funny. 🤣

  • @AJ-gd8cg
    @AJ-gd8cg Год назад +56

    Forever grateful for my husband who was more worried for my mental health post partum than my weight gain. When i asked him how he felt about it he said he thinks i should lose weight because he misses how confident i used to be and he knows it will make me feel better about myself again.

    • @canelareina3795
      @canelareina3795 10 месяцев назад

      He's diplomatic

    • @бронза.вафля.конус
      @бронза.вафля.конус 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@canelareina3795as all people should be. Honesty is great but not in all situations, and certainly not to a woman who has just been pregnant and suffering from mental health issues

  • @HauntedCadaver
    @HauntedCadaver Год назад +161

    Pearl being fat phobic is hilarious because she's getting out of shape lmao

    • @Poopiepies
      @Poopiepies Год назад

      Gonna hit her real hard now that she’s back in America, out of college and not a student athlete. Bet she’ll balloon up in 2024

    • @Hristinaandreeva62
      @Hristinaandreeva62 Год назад +49

      She’s never been in shape

    • @Zikomo7
      @Zikomo7 Год назад +18

      Yeah if this is her now I’d hate to see her with that early 30s weight gain. It doesn’t hit everyone but I’d bet she’ll be one of them

    • @dianebrooks1859
      @dianebrooks1859 Год назад +15

      ​@@Zikomo7she's definitely already hitting the beginning of it. I can tell, from experience. It was a struggle starting at 28 for me. At 32 I had to buckle down hardcore.

    • @orangesnowflake3769
      @orangesnowflake3769 Год назад

      ​@Zikomo7 oh gosh this happened to me and I didn't expect it tbh

  • @Erinnestatic
    @Erinnestatic 9 месяцев назад +3

    she’s kinda crazy. Glad my husband didn’t leave me when I gained weight lol. I went from 125 to 200 and back to 125 again. 🤷🏻‍♀️ 2 kids, depression, losing my dad - trauma. It all was part of how I gained the weight. Fortunate he stayed with me well I fought to regain myself back.

  • @afeleymaduro
    @afeleymaduro Год назад +21

    So she'll say divorce should be illegal but then tells husbands to leave their wives if they gain 50 pounds. Thats doesnt even make sense.

  • @omnium_gatherum
    @omnium_gatherum Год назад +131

    Michelle is really one of the elite few who can make commercial breaks that I'll actually watch 😂

  • @relaxo2739
    @relaxo2739 4 месяца назад +1

    15:16 exactly !! We do everything, I have no freaking time while working full time …😢

  • @harleenquinzel5814
    @harleenquinzel5814 Год назад +27

    Pearl looks like a SIMS 2 character, like she's perpetually in low resolution but she's harassing people? The lack of self awareness is interesting.

    • @MakaylaPaterson
      @MakaylaPaterson Год назад +5

      Lol I’m going to have to keep the “perpetually in low resolution” in my back pocket

    • @yourfuturewaifu9061
      @yourfuturewaifu9061 Год назад +4

      That is a fantastic insult. Or observation. Both? Either way, I'm tickled.

  • @freyjastravelchariot3343
    @freyjastravelchariot3343 Год назад +33

    As a large woman, I can confirm that I mostly don't have any issues getting good dates.
    I also can say that (although I understand this is not mentally healthy), I actually tend to be at a healthier weight when the person I am with treats me well.

  • @kaylashae3915
    @kaylashae3915 10 месяцев назад +2

    For someone who knows so much about what men like and want, she sure has trouble getting one for herself.

  • @writer_jane4912
    @writer_jane4912 Год назад +53

    You know what's funny? A lot of women that share the same circles as Pearl can't stand her.

  • @onlyone23km
    @onlyone23km Год назад +118

    Just remember everyone, Pearl ditched her semi pro volleyball career to do this. Even if she’s making money doing this, she’s ruining every other aspect of her life possible. Her family relationships, her friendships, her FUTURE assuming her RUclips gets terminated and her money from it dries out, and who knows what else? It’s wild that she had so much access to high school athletes and college athletes as dating choices since she was top of the line in high school and college for both basketball and volleyball, and she still somehow can’t manage a long term relationship with anyone, despite her athletics background being a MASSIVE advantage.

    • @bebrochka8113
      @bebrochka8113 Год назад +3

      I don't get why being an athlete is a plus for a woman.
      If she did something like ballet or gymnastics that would be very feminine and a plus but volleyball girls seem more masculine => not as attractive

    • @carmelcutie1991
      @carmelcutie1991 Год назад +29

      ​@@bebrochka8113good sir I don't know you but women that play volleyball are so pretty. And I'm a straight woman. Maybe you don't think Olympic volleyball players are attractive. But most don't look like that

    • @onlyone23km
      @onlyone23km Год назад +9

      @@bebrochka8113 I just explained why it’s a plus for Hannah. ACCESS to every athlete possible with little chances of difficulty interacting with fellow student athletes. And if she really wanted to, she could’ve gotten anyone outside of sports to date her in both high school or college and she still managed to ruin that? NO EXCUSE!

    • @bebrochka8113
      @bebrochka8113 Год назад +1

      @@onlyone23km what I meant is volleyball gives this kind of buff physique to a girl (at least the volleyball girl I met were real buff and not feminine physique), so while she could know all the athlete boys personally her sport of choice didn't give her a body that would be attractive to them

    • @webohzezhy5370
      @webohzezhy5370 Год назад +13

      ​@@bebrochka8113Bro, did you see ballet dancers? Ballet it's not easy, it makes you buff too, because it requires a lot of strength. The thing is, girls that do it have to be light too, because if not, they can hurt themselves, so they try to stay as thin as possible at the same time that they acquire that strength. I have a friend that's a female dancer and you can easily see she's got muscles all over her body. It's even easier to see because of how little fat she has.

  • @Flowquette
    @Flowquette 9 месяцев назад +1

    The most fatphobic person I’ve ever met was 15 lbs underweight and he couldn’t afford food because he was bad with money and had a felony.
    He thought normal weight people were fat, if we were standing behind a fat person in line or something I could feel the hatred emanating off of his body. He would not be friends with fat people or treat them like human beings. He would grow apart from his friends if they gained weight.