Can we all appreciate how rational and coherent her mom is? I love her. And I hate that Heidi says she attacks her when actually she asked and her mom was even reluctant to answer bc she wanted to be honest but not cruel.
She destroyed herself probably because she was depressed in that toxic crazy relationship. She lost her identity and tried to compensate through her body. I liked her as a person inside out, before. Sad that she met Spencer.
Irony is for Alanis whatever her name is, Heidi made herself into what she wanted and that's that. Any one else who judges should first look at themselves and then see why they judge others.
I had that too trust me i can really understand her for sure her mom is sad i would be so sad too but you only live once live happy like you want to live i pay money and will do more surgeries like her too i want to feel happy happy confident ☺️
*This scene still freaks me out... Heidi had so much surgery on her face she could barely cry or show any facial expressions as her mom told her how lame that all was.*
Heidi’s mom has great tv presence. Her timing, what she says, how she holds herself, it’s all so natural and articulate. The part in particular I like is where Heidi asks her if she looks good her mom gives her a crushed, saddened expression, ever so slightly shaking her head and looking into Heidi’s eyes as if to say “I want to say yes to make you happy... but no, honey, I love you but no I don’t. You’ve made a terrible mistake.”
@@blake7065Right?? She looks great! This was also filmed right after her surgery, her face has had time to heal since then. If you look at her now, she looks natural and beautiful. There are a lot of plastic surgery addicts who can’t say the same about themselves.
@@theuniverseisme432it’s absolutely wild that our brains have been so warped to see how she looks now as “natural”. Natural is skin texture and asymmetry and unevenness and marks and bumps and faces and bodies that MOVE and CHANGE. I don’t even think it’s worth debating if she looks “good” or not. She looks like an idea of a person. It’s weird now to keep hearing people say “but it looks good!” when someone gets all this work done … it’s sad. It’ll always be sad to erase, cut, strip and suck away any aspect that proves we’re made by hand and not by machine.
Watching this years later, now as a mother, this scene breaks my heart. To be looking at your daughter, who you no longer recognize and who ruined her looks, I mean she is scary looking there and has that plastic surgery gone wrong face.... not only that but realizing how incredibly damaged and broken your daughter must be to have done so many procedures.... horrible. Spencer was the worst thing to happen to that girl.... ruined her life .
I was 16 when I first watched this. Swore to myself I'd never change my face, ever. I'm 33 now, all my friends get fillers, botox, the works. And here I am, aging gracefully ❤️
You do realize that a million dollars goes super fast when you own a business? Also there’s much more to this story than what’s shown, that’s reality tv for ya
poor girl I hope she finds peace within herself. I remember seeing her as a natural beautiful girl and really she was so nice,she's still good now but she never had to change.
Her confidence plummeted when she got with Spencer. He's an a-hole and she was so damn beautiful and good hearted before she got with him. He has brainwashed her. Lauren was right and she should have stuck with her and met a better guy.
When she started crying I legitimately started getting tears in my eyes..I’ve been through a great deal of pain like she expressed, but we both have our Mom’s! I’m so grateful to have my Mom:) She’s always been there through all the ups and downs..my father abandoned our family so I never had a “male” in my life. My Mom’s Brother John was the only guy human wise that ever loved me. We can’t change someone and their feelings and at that time Heidi felt like she needed to do these things to herself out of her pain. But flash forward to now, she’s doing very well as a Mom and I’m really happy for her:)
I watched this show when it first aired and watching it now so many years later and seeing the gradual progression of Heidi's facial changes is just crazy. Her mom was the greatest though. So real and so truthful without being hurtful even though Heidi took it that way. Like you asked her opinion and it was nothing but truth.
Its because this world is too fucked up. If the girl had small breast, ppl would make fun about it... Ppl would make fun of her "tired eyes"... Then the girl went through all that shit (and I dont know how she survived, cuz I had 1 and almost died because of the pain), and ppl love to tell her that she looks fugly, old, joan river-faced... I mean, come on... Ppl are nasty. I would be the first to sy this blond dumb girl looks like Jo, but she doesn't, and its not just me who thinks the same.
Takashi San Good for you. Still doesn't change the fact that they had similar surgeries that caused them to have similar features. No one's making fun of her here, just stating a fact. Maybe you're demonizing Joan Rivers for insinuating it's an insult.
Dont try to blame me, and be honest to yourself. So now what are you saying? That its nice to be compared to an 80 years old woman known by her multiple plastic surgeries disasters? U dont wnat to admit how shallow and mean you are. Im done with you.
This is still so sad. She really did not need any plastic surgery to begin with. And I can't imagine what it must feel like for her mom to look at her daughter and not even recognize her.
I wish I had a mom like that , I mean I know that having a caring mother didn't stop Heidi from getting a whole bunch of plastic surgery to transform her whole face and body but I can't help feel envious of someone with a mother who loves you for just who you are
she looked so scary when she started to cry! Gosh, she looked fine before and she got all this unnecessary plastic surgery done, and I agree with her mom she looked better before!
Wow...I lost my mom, my dad's always sick, I have financial troubles on a daily basis..and the perfect answer to that is plastic surgery! Talk about "going through a lot.."
One can have high self esteem and inner peace, but still think its fun to improve their looks. Who we really are is on the inside, everyone knows that. If someone think life is more fun looking like a Barbies, does not mean they do not love who they are on the inside.
and its all thanks to how horrible the media and tabloids treated her... they always tore apart her looks back then and it pushed her to get so many cosmetic procedures done. Breaks my heart.
I remember when all this blew up, it was right after MJs passing and it was nearly front page news. She had to get extra annestic to get 11 procedures in one sitting.
I’m watching the original episodes of the hills and seeing how she was then and how she is now she’s definitely been beaten down emotionally and mentally from Spencer and it shows
The first 30 seconds is the funniest thing Ive ever seen. She begins with 'I had uh a slight eyebrow lift, thats why I have these staples' then interrupts her heartbroken mom to blurt out nine other surgeries in rapid succession. It gets me every time
Attacking her?! I totally missed that part. Heidi's mom was hurting so much for her. Heidi used to be so pretty before the surgeries, it was absolutely shocking to see her body shame herself to this degree. I'm not against cosmetic surgery but what she did to herself after how she used to look is tragic. Heidi's mom handled it beautifully, I can't imagine how hard this must have been for her and her family. Where on earth was Spencer when this was happening? From the look of Heidi's recent film on New Beginnings she is still body shaming herself by not accepting her looks and continuing to get work done. Now she looks like she is much older than everyone else. Heidi, stop body shaming yourself, there's nothing more to fix.
I'm sorry but the doctor that performed all those procedures should lose his license. Someone that wants THAT MANY procedures done at once, especially reshaping your back, obviously has something else going on.
louoctopus because he fell in love with you the way you are, these things need to be discussed first in a marriage. Just like if he decides to get surgery. What if he’ll made his dick smaller. Is it still “That’s HIS body”? 🥴
He wasn't OK with it. He just supported her as she wanted to do it and was gonna do it no matter what. He got so depressed with having to care for her on her recovery after the surgery.
Looking back now, this surgery HAS settled down a bit. She now does look pretty much like the old Heidi now in 2021. Her eyelift definitely sagged down back to normal.
I felt bad for both of them. Sister too. And how sad Heidi did all of that because she felt ugly and then after all is said and done her own mother tells her she looked better before (which is painfully true.) Crushing. Sad what Hollywood does to people 😞
Omg this broke my heart ❤️ as a mother I will feel the same there is only 1 Heidi and now she looks like every other female in Hollywood. Poor girl I wish she knew her value before doing all this damage. She was truly beautiful before all this work. She is still beautiful on the outside but I think she needs to work on the inside.
Heidi: Are you telling me I don’t look good? Me yelling: THAT’S EXACTLY WHAT SHES SAYING, HELL NAH! Mom: Maybe you should rephrase the question. Heidi: Do I look good? Mom: 😒🤨🥴 *shakes head no* Me: crying laughing! 🥴🥴🥴 Heidi: I CAN’T BELIEVE YOU’RE ATTACKING ME!
How can heidi say her mom attacked her. She ask her mom if she looked good and her mom politely said no and explained to her why she looked better before
I know real when I see it and I think every second of this is real I'm sure the set up was ok now ur gonna talk to ur mom about ur new surgery n they were like "action"
This scene is even sadder because Heidi stopped talking to her mom a while after this. So sad because her mom seemed very loving and caring. Mother/daughter relationships aren’t easy.
I watched Laguna Beach and the hills and I can't imagine. I feel for Darlene. I have a daughter of my own and I would be devastated if she changed her appearance. It would be hard for me to say 'you look so beautiful!' right away, because she looked beautiful to me always. Also, it's not attacking you if you ask as question, and someone replies. That's just their opinion/response. If it's not what you want to hear, it doesn't mean someone is attacking you. 🤷🏼♀️
Can we all appreciate how rational and coherent her mom is? I love her. And I hate that Heidi says she attacks her when actually she asked and her mom was even reluctant to answer bc she wanted to be honest but not cruel.
Truth. Mom was so gracious when she gently told Heidi to rephrase her question so as not to blatantly put her down during her most fragile moment.
Even when the answer is honest, you don't feel like that when you're on the other side. Sometimes honesty is not the way to go.
@@_blank-_ Don't ask the question, unless you've prepared yourself to hear the answer.
I honestly think she looks lots better.
Exactly.
i liked heidi the way she was. she was beautiful just the way she was before the surgery
Ashleigh VillaCast me 2
I agree with u. She was so pretty without the surgery.
Hotter now😍💖💋
She destroyed herself probably because she was depressed in that toxic crazy relationship. She lost her identity and tried to compensate through her body. I liked her as a person inside out, before. Sad that she met Spencer.
@@joanam3070 she wasn't ever very pretty on the inside.
It's ironic how the only real scene from The Hills is about someone with a fake face.
im crying
Irony is for Alanis whatever her name is, Heidi made herself into what she wanted and that's that. Any one else who judges should first look at themselves and then see why they judge others.
No, we can all judge Montage because she has a public life
Michel Moutinho lol that was so so funny 😂😂😂😂
So...Sad but... True
This is painful to watch.Her body dysmorphia is heart breaking
klapifyouwantmore She’s back to normal again, you can put your panties on again.
I had that too trust me i can really understand her for sure her mom is sad i would be so sad too but you only live once live happy like you want to live i pay money and will do more surgeries like her too i want to feel happy happy confident ☺️
I don’t think she was ever pretty, just average. I can see why she got the surgeries but unfortunately they only made her look weird.
@@Dilligaf_Josh don’t be an dick, what was the point in that? Grow up.
That’s crazy that you say that because I didn’t think any thing of it until you said that.
*This scene still freaks me out... Heidi had so much surgery on her face she could barely cry or show any facial expressions as her mom told her how lame that all was.*
She was 23 years old when she got those ten cosmetic procedures In one day.
2 nose jobs by 23
@@jennyoneill8879 I would’ve been dead 🏥💓💀 ⚰️ 🪦
23?!!!? Wow
She was older than 23… she was 23 in season 3 of the hills… this is like season 6.
@@lovelife11 She was still pretty young tho
Heidi’s mom has great tv presence. Her timing, what she says, how she holds herself, it’s all so natural and articulate. The part in particular I like is where Heidi asks her if she looks good her mom gives her a crushed, saddened expression, ever so slightly shaking her head and looking into Heidi’s eyes as if to say “I want to say yes to make you happy... but no, honey, I love you but no I don’t. You’ve made a terrible mistake.”
Heidi has always been so articulate when having conversations I think she get it from her mom.
She does look good though lmao so I don’t get it
@@blake7065Right?? She looks great! This was also filmed right after her surgery, her face has had time to heal since then. If you look at her now, she looks natural and beautiful. There are a lot of plastic surgery addicts who can’t say the same about themselves.
@@theuniverseisme432it’s absolutely wild that our brains have been so warped to see how she looks now as “natural”. Natural is skin texture and asymmetry and unevenness and marks and bumps and faces and bodies that MOVE and CHANGE. I don’t even think it’s worth debating if she looks “good” or not. She looks like an idea of a person. It’s weird now to keep hearing people say “but it looks good!” when someone gets all this work done … it’s sad. It’ll always be sad to erase, cut, strip and suck away any aspect that proves we’re made by hand and not by machine.
A mom that tells you the truth, that's real love right there.
Her surgery aged her.
ʕ•́ᴥ•̀ʔっ big time!!!
she looks 40
Damn right
She looks pretty normal now, her mom was right. With time some of the work fades away
And made her less attractive.
Such a heartbreaking scene!! Heidi was such the girl next door, and California really got to her. I hope she’s found peace.
True. Season one she was so pretty and fun and bubbly
Her song went viral online and it has millions of streams. She has two babies with her husband of the show and she is happy.
The most heart breaking scene ever. I miss this show so much
Dénes Nagy it’s back next year
Watching this years later, now as a mother, this scene breaks my heart. To be looking at your daughter, who you no longer recognize and who ruined her looks, I mean she is scary looking there and has that plastic surgery gone wrong face.... not only that but realizing how incredibly damaged and broken your daughter must be to have done so many procedures.... horrible. Spencer was the worst thing to happen to that girl.... ruined her life .
She is responsible for her own life NOT Spencer she made her own decisions she is not an infant
she looks better after the surgery. she was ugly before the surgery
Don't know much about them, but don't think Spence wanted it....yet he stood by her even now all these years later. Can't be that bad
How did she ruin her looks? She looks good she is more conventionally attractive
She looks very pretty. The nose is a little overdone though.
I remember being terrified when she started crying
MsCandacee oh shit xD
its fake crying she isn't even frowning
I thought her face would break when she cried.
@@ThingsILikke she can’t frown from the botox lmao
botox crying face
I was 16 when I first watched this. Swore to myself I'd never change my face, ever. I'm 33 now, all my friends get fillers, botox, the works. And here I am, aging gracefully ❤️
Same here! And I think I actually look younger when Im natural
weird that you’re judging your friends for doing what they want with their own body
@@washbear just speaking facts.
Wow, the works let alone anything in ur early 30s??
@@radar5464 hell ya, bbls, boob jobs, and nose jobs. It's wild.
Her mother kept it absolutely 100! Its very hard to be honest like this
“I got a slight eyebrow lift”, lol, that’s like saying “My father gave me a small loan of a million dollars”.
You do realize that a million dollars goes super fast when you own a business? Also there’s much more to this story than what’s shown, that’s reality tv for ya
🤣🤣😭😭💀💀💀💯💯💯💯
As a mom this is heartbreaking... for both sides ... seeing Heidi cry and hearing where her mother came from ... so sad
Mom was like “nah fam” 😂😂😂
To me probably one of the realist moments on the hills
This is what living in LA and famous do to you
This clip is actually really sad :((
Heidi scares me when she cries with her new face.
I was upset like her mother!
poor girl I hope she finds peace within herself. I remember seeing her as a natural beautiful girl and really she was so nice,she's still good now but she never had to change.
I know this is supposed to be an emotional scene, but I laughed so hard at 1:07 lmao. she is so done with Heidi's shit.
Her confidence plummeted when she got with Spencer. He's an a-hole and she was so damn beautiful and good hearted before she got with him. He has brainwashed her. Lauren was right and she should have stuck with her and met a better guy.
I know I’m rewatching the hills. 😭
I can’t believe they’re still married 🤧
When she started crying I legitimately started getting tears in my eyes..I’ve been through a great deal of pain like she expressed, but we both have our Mom’s! I’m so grateful to have my Mom:) She’s always been there through all the ups and downs..my father abandoned our family so I never had a “male” in my life. My Mom’s Brother John was the only guy human wise that ever loved me.
We can’t change someone and their feelings and at that time Heidi felt like she needed to do these things to herself out of her pain. But flash forward to now, she’s doing very well as a Mom and I’m really happy for her:)
"Omg mom, there's brain surgery every day..." Lmao. :S
I watched this show when it first aired and watching it now so many years later and seeing the gradual progression of Heidi's facial changes is just crazy. Her mom was the greatest though. So real and so truthful without being hurtful even though Heidi took it that way. Like you asked her opinion and it was nothing but truth.
She looks like
joan Rivers
No, she doesn't. Stop demonizing her just because she went through plastic surgery.
+Takashi San but she literally does look like Joan rivers.. They had similar surgeries. Stop trying so hard to be offended
Its because this world is too fucked up. If the girl had small breast, ppl would make fun about it... Ppl would make fun of her "tired eyes"... Then the girl went through all that shit (and I dont know how she survived, cuz I had 1 and almost died because of the pain), and ppl love to tell her that she looks fugly, old, joan river-faced... I mean, come on... Ppl are nasty. I would be the first to sy this blond dumb girl looks like Jo, but she doesn't, and its not just me who thinks the same.
Takashi San Good for you. Still doesn't change the fact that they had similar surgeries that caused them to have similar features. No one's making fun of her here, just stating a fact. Maybe you're demonizing Joan Rivers for insinuating it's an insult.
Dont try to blame me, and be honest to yourself. So now what are you saying? That its nice to be compared to an 80 years old woman known by her multiple plastic surgeries disasters? U dont wnat to admit how shallow and mean you are. Im done with you.
Her mom was not attacking her… she chose her pain… I feel for the mom
So cute when mom started to twirl her hair
when Heidi said its "its really hard" i thought she was gonna say "to cry" LOL
Honestly her mom reacted how any parent would
I agree with her Mom. Bad bad decision.
Literally cried when I saw this. I feel so sorry for the Mom & for Heidi
THIS MOMENT WHEN SOMEONE STARTS CRYING AND YOU FORGET ALL THE BACKGROUNDSTORY BC YOU JUST WANE GIVE HER A HUGE 😕😩
This is still so sad. She really did not need any plastic surgery to begin with. And I can't imagine what it must feel like for her mom to look at her daughter and not even recognize her.
Absolutely agree. Heidi was born with natural beauty. Now that natural beauty was no more
she looks worse. she looked way better before
Halie Sollars that’s for sure she looked so hot before
Omg Heidi had damaged herself she looked so much better before
I wish I had a mom like that , I mean I know that having a caring mother didn't stop Heidi from getting a whole bunch of plastic surgery to transform her whole face and body but I can't help feel envious of someone with a mother who loves you for just who you are
God, her poor mother.
Heidi looks like a completely different person. Who could feel good about completely changing their identity?
"I had my back shaped"
That's a thing??
Yep. To make men look like women. It's very common in Hollywierd
C Tizzle 😂😂😂😂
@@joannafreedom7914 , THAT'S SAD!! 😟
Did she mean her backside?
@@ladygreytea2462 no her actual back
"That's permanent? They're not going to come down a little? No, they won't unfortunately...what was this brow lift for at the age of 20???
I remember seeing this episode, broke my heart ,I feel sorry for her mother.
how did she compare an eye brow lift to brain surgery lol ma'am that is not the same.
+StrongSinger, IKR? *SMH*
( *CUZ "EVERYTHING 'IS'*
👉🏾 " *VANITY!* )" - *God* .
Because she didn't "risk her life" as her mother wanted to portray it
she looked so scary when she started to cry! Gosh, she looked fine before and she got all this unnecessary plastic surgery done, and I agree with her mom she looked better before!
slight eyebrow lift wtf no
Watching this years later, it’s still so sad and hard to watch.😔
I love Heidi and I'm glad that she's happy now. Her and Spencer and their children.
Mom was 💯 real
Did anybody else LAUGH at old girl's expression and body language at 1:05? 😂😂😂😂
Wow...I lost my mom, my dad's always sick, I have financial troubles on a daily basis..and the perfect answer to that is plastic surgery!
Talk about "going through a lot.."
exactly!!!
This is so sad. It still makes me cry
Thankfully most of this did dissolve/drop. She looks great these days and acknowledges what a massive mistake it was!!
Low self-esteem
One can have high self esteem and inner peace, but still think its fun to improve their looks. Who we really are is on the inside, everyone knows that. If someone think life is more fun looking like a Barbies, does not mean they do not love who they are on the inside.
apeskatt but there was nothing wrong with her looks in the first place
apeskatt but she admitted she didn’t like the way she looked
and its all thanks to how horrible the media and tabloids treated her... they always tore apart her looks back then and it pushed her to get so many cosmetic procedures done. Breaks my heart.
I am surprised she remembered all the procedures🤣🤣
I remember when all this blew up, it was right after MJs passing and it was nearly front page news. She had to get extra annestic to get 11 procedures in one sitting.
It's like looking at Rocky Dennis from "The Mask"
It was always so funnt seeing her unable to even cry
God I feel this to my core. All I had was Botox and fillers and my mom won’t talk to me....
I’m watching the original episodes of the hills and seeing how she was then and how she is now she’s definitely been beaten down emotionally and mentally from Spencer and it shows
@D Calix just because they say that doesn’t mean it’s true
I remember watching this and deciding I would never get plastic surgery unless necessary. She looked so different.
The first 30 seconds is the funniest thing Ive ever seen. She begins with 'I had uh a slight eyebrow lift, thats why I have these staples' then interrupts her heartbroken mom to blurt out nine other surgeries in rapid succession. It gets me every time
2:07 I can see her weave tracks
Attacking her?! I totally missed that part. Heidi's mom was hurting so much for her. Heidi used to be so pretty before the surgeries, it was absolutely shocking to see her body shame herself to this degree. I'm not against cosmetic surgery but what she did to herself after how she used to look is tragic. Heidi's mom handled it beautifully, I can't imagine how hard this must have been for her and her family. Where on earth was Spencer when this was happening? From the look of Heidi's recent film on New Beginnings she is still body shaming herself by not accepting her looks and continuing to get work done. Now she looks like she is much older than everyone else. Heidi, stop body shaming yourself, there's nothing more to fix.
I'm sorry but the doctor that performed all those procedures should lose his license. Someone that wants THAT MANY procedures done at once, especially reshaping your back, obviously has something else going on.
I agree with you
Beautiful before surgery and beautiful after as well
When Darlene asked if the staples on her head are gonna come down Heidi be like
no 😂😂😂
that shit was hilarious 🤣
Imagine your husband being okay with you doing that to yourself 🤦🏽♀️
Why would my husband have anything to say about what I want to do to MY body?
louoctopus because he fell in love with you the way you are, these things need to be discussed first in a marriage. Just like if he decides to get surgery. What if he’ll made his dick smaller. Is it still “That’s HIS body”? 🥴
Yes, it is still his body! You are a very, very selfish and self centered person.
He wasn't OK with it. He just supported her as she wanted to do it and was gonna do it no matter what. He got so depressed with having to care for her on her recovery after the surgery.
Looking back now, this surgery HAS settled down a bit. She now does look pretty much like the old Heidi now in 2021. Her eyelift definitely sagged down back to normal.
Mom... There's Brain Surgery Everyday! She should've gone with that option!
I felt bad for both of them. Sister too. And how sad Heidi did all of that because she felt ugly and then after all is said and done her own mother tells her she looked better before (which is painfully true.) Crushing. Sad what Hollywood does to people 😞
I wanted to not like her mom, BUT when she started to twirl Heidi's hair when she was upset...spot on mom! PFT.
I feel for her mom . 😢😢
Heidi’s sis is stunning
Omg this broke my heart ❤️ as a mother I will feel the same there is only 1 Heidi and now she looks like every other female in Hollywood. Poor girl I wish she knew her value before doing all this damage. She was truly beautiful before all this work. She is still beautiful on the outside but I think she needs to work on the inside.
Heidi: Are you telling me I don’t look good?
Me yelling: THAT’S EXACTLY WHAT SHES SAYING, HELL NAH!
Mom: Maybe you should rephrase the
question.
Heidi: Do I look good?
Mom: 😒🤨🥴 *shakes head no*
Me: crying laughing! 🥴🥴🥴
Heidi: I CAN’T BELIEVE YOU’RE ATTACKING ME!
Iconic moment
Really sad. I feel really sad for Heidi and what she went through and the pain she must have been in before and probably still.
Her sister lol
I think she looks gorgeous!
Heidi looks amazing that doctor did a beautiful job
Jesus even her voice sounds different now
she wanted to be better than LC.. sad
addwantedparadise 😂😂😂😂😂
it's the "BUT MOOOOM" for me...
i'll probably be having this discussion with my mom in a couple months except i'm not the one that got surgery lol
She did not need plastic surgery at all she was so naturally beautiful. Gosh!
How can heidi say her mom attacked her. She ask her mom if she looked good and her mom politely said no and explained to her why she looked better before
2021 checkpoint
I know real when I see it and I think every second of this is real
I'm sure the set up was ok now ur gonna talk to ur mom about ur new surgery n they were like "action"
Yep
I think she is beautiful!
Kudos to the mom
This scene is even sadder because Heidi stopped talking to her mom a while after this. So sad because her mom seemed very loving and caring. Mother/daughter relationships aren’t easy.
I think she looks so beautiful !!
Heidi, you are not getting attacked here. You asked the question, don't get sad when you get the truth from your own mother.
I watched Laguna Beach and the hills and I can't imagine. I feel for Darlene. I have a daughter of my own and I would be devastated if she changed her appearance. It would be hard for me to say 'you look so beautiful!' right away, because she looked beautiful to me always. Also, it's not attacking you if you ask as question, and someone replies. That's just their opinion/response. If it's not what you want to hear, it doesn't mean someone is attacking you. 🤷🏼♀️
She's really articulate
The Hills have eyes