Comprehensive Guidelines for Boys to Select a Spouse in an Arranged Marriage 1. Approaching Arranged Marriage with the Right Mindset Respect the institution of marriage and understand its lifelong implications. Set realistic expectations; avoid seeking an ideal partner who may not exist. Assess yourself objectively on looks, salary, and family background to align your expectations with reality. Strive for an equal partnership, as mutual compatibility forms the foundation of a successful marriage. --- 2. Initial Preparation Clarity of Mindset: Before exploring matrimonial websites, ensure your mindset and expectations are clearly defined. Avoid Superficiality: Focus on the girl's nature, behavior, and intelligence rather than solely on physical beauty. Be prepared to evaluate both partners' family backgrounds, values, and goals. --- 3. Identifying Red Flags Family Background: Investigate the girl's family status to identify potential conflicts due to significant mismatches. Job and Earnings: A working partner can reduce financial stress. If the girl's income is significantly lower, it might indicate her intention to quit after marriage. Online Profiles: Verify the accuracy of online profiles to avoid trust issues arising from misleading pictures or information. Vibes During Interactions: Trust your instincts during conversations and meetings; they can often signal compatibility. --- 4. Key Discussions Before Making a Decision Future Plans: Ask about her career aspirations, especially her intent to continue working after marriage. Family Planning: Align your thoughts on having children and associated timelines. Financial Compatibility: Discuss spending habits to avoid financial disputes later. Behavioral Traits: Watch for signs of a promiscuous nature or other behaviors that could indicate long-term compatibility issues. Clear Doubts: Address any uncertainties before moving forward. --- 5. Dating Phase After initial meetings, go on 3-4 one-on-one dates to build comfort and understanding. Use these dates to evaluate mutual compatibility and resolve unanswered questions. Avoid rushing decisions; take your time to feel confident and satisfied with your choice. --- 6. Making the Final Decision Ensure all doubts and key questions are addressed before informing parents about your decision. Focus on clear communication throughout the process to avoid misunderstandings. Proceed only when you feel fully convinced and confident in your choice. --- 7. Seeking Support For personalized advice or guidance, viewers are encouraged to reach out via WhatsApp (details provided in the video description). By following these structured guidelines, boys with decent salaries and introverted personalities can approach arranged marriages with clarity, respect, and a higher chance of success.
Sir, I totally agree with all the red flags you've pointed out in this video; except for the 2nd red flag I would disagree because although financial independence is necessary for both genders but this independence can also lead to "My Way or High way" attitude in any marriage.
@@samairakhanna1403 i know many frustrated womens who turned 34-35 and not yet married. And earn good ammount of money. But on the other hand guys with same age are marrying girls at least 10-12 years younger then them.
@@Findjq both men and women are biologically designed to bring life on earth. Both can become biological parent of their children. So I assume from your argument that one who lose sperm from his body should lose their independence too.
@@Findjq Both men and women are biologically designed to bring life on earth. So from your opinion I assume that one who lose their sperm should lose their independence too.
In marriage be it arranged or love financial independence and monthly salary, income, earnings should be discussed before marriage..all these things should be clear and discussed before marriage
Comprehensive Guidelines for Boys to Select a Spouse in an Arranged Marriage
1. Approaching Arranged Marriage with the Right Mindset
Respect the institution of marriage and understand its lifelong implications.
Set realistic expectations; avoid seeking an ideal partner who may not exist.
Assess yourself objectively on looks, salary, and family background to align your expectations with reality.
Strive for an equal partnership, as mutual compatibility forms the foundation of a successful marriage.
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2. Initial Preparation
Clarity of Mindset: Before exploring matrimonial websites, ensure your mindset and expectations are clearly defined.
Avoid Superficiality: Focus on the girl's nature, behavior, and intelligence rather than solely on physical beauty.
Be prepared to evaluate both partners' family backgrounds, values, and goals.
---
3. Identifying Red Flags
Family Background: Investigate the girl's family status to identify potential conflicts due to significant mismatches.
Job and Earnings: A working partner can reduce financial stress. If the girl's income is significantly lower, it might indicate her intention to quit after marriage.
Online Profiles: Verify the accuracy of online profiles to avoid trust issues arising from misleading pictures or information.
Vibes During Interactions: Trust your instincts during conversations and meetings; they can often signal compatibility.
---
4. Key Discussions Before Making a Decision
Future Plans: Ask about her career aspirations, especially her intent to continue working after marriage.
Family Planning: Align your thoughts on having children and associated timelines.
Financial Compatibility: Discuss spending habits to avoid financial disputes later.
Behavioral Traits: Watch for signs of a promiscuous nature or other behaviors that could indicate long-term compatibility issues.
Clear Doubts: Address any uncertainties before moving forward.
---
5. Dating Phase
After initial meetings, go on 3-4 one-on-one dates to build comfort and understanding.
Use these dates to evaluate mutual compatibility and resolve unanswered questions.
Avoid rushing decisions; take your time to feel confident and satisfied with your choice.
---
6. Making the Final Decision
Ensure all doubts and key questions are addressed before informing parents about your decision.
Focus on clear communication throughout the process to avoid misunderstandings.
Proceed only when you feel fully convinced and confident in your choice.
---
7. Seeking Support
For personalized advice or guidance, viewers are encouraged to reach out via WhatsApp (details provided in the video description).
By following these structured guidelines, boys with decent salaries and introverted personalities can approach arranged marriages with clarity, respect, and a higher chance of success.
@MrBlackjack456 thanks for the detailed summary !!!
Sir make a video about women's virginity. I am very concerned because such women can cause STD 😢 to future husbands
Sir, I totally agree with all the red flags you've pointed out in this video; except for the 2nd red flag I would disagree because although financial independence is necessary for both genders but this independence can also lead to "My Way or High way" attitude in any marriage.
Then who should lose independence according to you so that it will not lead to "My way or highway" attitude in a marriage. Husband or wife ?
@@samairakhanna1403 the one who is biologically designed to bring Life 🧬 on earth 🌎
@@samairakhanna1403 i know many frustrated womens who turned 34-35 and not yet married. And earn good ammount of money.
But on the other hand guys with same age are marrying girls at least 10-12 years younger then them.
@@Findjq both men and women are biologically designed to bring life on earth. Both can become biological parent of their children. So I assume from your argument that one who lose sperm from his body should lose their independence too.
@@Findjq Both men and women are biologically designed to bring life on earth. So from your opinion I assume that one who lose their sperm should lose their independence too.
In marriage be it arranged or love financial independence and monthly salary, income, earnings should be discussed before marriage..all these things should be clear and discussed before marriage
Sir my question is boy or girl me shaadi ka age kitna hona chahiye suppose that boy is 28 years old and girl ka age kya hona chahiye?
3yrs difference is proper... Maximum 5-6 yrs age difference for now a days
@Adesh0108 great question..will cover in a video soon..
Looks wise gud hu IT me job krta tha but abhi resigned
Kya kru
Find a new job aur kya?
Looks wise gud hai isliye resign kar diye . Looks ka job resign se kya matlab
3 lakh /month 😂 kiski salary hoti hai ?
Mere bhai ki
@chanderguptapurva968 Kya karta hai tumhara bhai ?
tata manage factory
@@mukulab he has done MBA and Msc in physics from reputed colleges.
esi phaltu advice leke apni life barbaad mat kar lena ladko
apni age ke kisi se pucho jaake shaadi = barbaadi
Kya taklif hai appko
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Stop falling such dumb people