DO I HAVE TO TELL MY SPOUSE MY PAST? HOW MUCH IS TOO MUCH?

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  • Опубликовано: 27 дек 2024

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  • @sunshineanddaisies_
    @sunshineanddaisies_ 3 года назад +78

    "God already prepared their heart to receive that sin/whatever you need to get off your chest with grace" 🥺

  • @NowSoar
    @NowSoar 3 года назад +106

    So much fun making videos with you, Honey! ✝️🤗💜

    • @NowBloom
      @NowBloom  3 года назад +14

      Thanks for your wisdom and insight hehe 💕🙏

  • @caitlyn8530
    @caitlyn8530 3 года назад +53

    God bless your marriage!
    This is so something I want. A marriage that represents Jesus.
    Blessings! 💙

    • @NowBloom
      @NowBloom  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much! You’re so sweet 💕

  • @steveandsusan
    @steveandsusan 3 года назад +26

    Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.

  • @justinbeiber1201
    @justinbeiber1201 3 года назад +18

    Clicked on this right away… I’ve been binging your videos. I’m 22 so young and God showed me my husband just like you in some short time. Life is changing so fast and God is working in my life season after season so drastically it is quite overwhelming. I have a high body count and the guy I’m dating now doesn’t. In the past two months getting closer to him I decided I want to wait with him as he is waiting himself. We haven’t talked sex yet but I’m worried when I do if I share my past about sex and how high my body count is before knowing Christ it will hurt him. I went from being extremely sexually active to being saved and waiting just within two months. This video was for me thank you. ❤️

    • @Bhandarikame
      @Bhandarikame 2 года назад

      😰😰😂🤣🤣
      Built a home on cock miss and leave him
      May god have mercy on him and save him from you,,,,and u join brothel in the name of god u will feel every customer is god sent😜😜

    • @philly1076
      @philly1076 2 года назад +1

      how high is high?

    • @wicket_gate
      @wicket_gate 2 года назад +1

      It's better if you tell him earlier before both of you get emotionally invested. I say this because the girl I had a similar experience. Before I started dating her, I asked what her body count was. She said three but her friends told me more than 10. I looked her in the eyes and said "don't lie to me simply because you wanna be with me." She later confessed it was 15. I couldn't sleep for a week.

    • @philly1076
      @philly1076 2 года назад

      @@wicket_gate that's friends for you. That's why I dont keep anyone close to me.

    • @wicket_gate
      @wicket_gate 2 года назад

      @@philly1076 they were her friends not mine. I also appreciate privacy but I have nothing shady on me to hide. If you do shady stuff, that’s when you live in fear

  • @nikkiisrael2708
    @nikkiisrael2708 3 года назад +7

    Amen!
    Oh my goodness! I was in a time of worship, and then came straight to your video, and now I’m sitting on the floor weeping.
    As Adam was praying that is….
    It was a beautiful video and I really appreciate your openness and honesty. I love the truth and I am so blessed by you both being so vulnerable. I just want to say thank you for this video, because it has really helped me.
    And I also want to say OMG! My past I thought was in the past! Because the kind of stuff I have experienced and been through, you would not want to share in church

  • @Nenlilu
    @Nenlilu 3 года назад +12

    You two are such a blessing and an inspiration. I found out about your channel from Carlos (throne of positivity), and I really love your content. God bless you guys 🙏🏼

    • @NowBloom
      @NowBloom  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for your support that’s amazing to hear 😍🙏

  • @BiolaJinadu
    @BiolaJinadu 3 года назад +11

    God bless you both. You've been a blessing to me since I stumbled on your channel two weeks ago ❤️
    The prayer at the end was so refreshing. Thank you Father for Sarah & Adam. I pray Your hand on their lives continues to be so strong and evident. I pray You open great doors for them locally and internationally. I pray You keep their eyes focused and clear so they can see what You've called them to do and that their path keeps shining brighter and brighter, in Jesus name. Amen 🙏🏼

  • @yemialade7
    @yemialade7 2 года назад +7

    Another timely message for me. Thank you so much guys, God definitely speaks to me through your videos ❤

  • @kevinantonmanansala3396
    @kevinantonmanansala3396 2 года назад +4

    Thank you for your heart of transparency and vulnerability! God bless you guys both

  • @r.lekharevathi2031
    @r.lekharevathi2031 6 месяцев назад

    Praise the Lord. Thank God for the biblical holy spirit led insight. Kindly pray for my relationship with God to become stronger and to be on fire for God. Currently waiting on God for his will. Thank you both for this video. God is using your married life as a powerful tool for his kingdom.
    - Saved by Grace from India

  • @coopcoop2191
    @coopcoop2191 2 года назад +2

    I love your videos .. they have helped me soooo much !!! Thank you for your wisdom !!! Keep it up 👍…. SEE YOU AT THE “ TOP”…

  • @madelineelizabeth2516
    @madelineelizabeth2516 2 года назад +2

    Thank you. Prayers. Amen.

  • @peacebob-manuel7287
    @peacebob-manuel7287 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Sarah and Adam for the videos and especially I look forward to the prayers. I can feel the spirit of God whenever you guys speak. Thank you for answering the call. You’ve both been a tremendous blessing to me at this point in my life. May your oil never run dry in Jesus name amen.

  • @LibertyBella21
    @LibertyBella21 2 года назад

    Thank you both SO MUCH for confronting uncomfortable topics like this to save us from heartache down the road!

  • @Mm-em5cv
    @Mm-em5cv 3 года назад +9

    May God bless you exceedingly and abundantly. How Loving of you to pray for us. May all your needs be met in Jesus Mighty Name. Amen.

    • @NowBloom
      @NowBloom  3 года назад

      Thank you so much! 🙏✨ bless you!

  • @nikkiisrael2708
    @nikkiisrael2708 3 года назад +6

    You would not want to share in church LOL
    Well Adam, you and Sarah are now one, so why not do a different channel where you both minister together?
    I love your videos Sarah, but I can see you two being examples of a godly marriage, and ministering to others who are struggling in their relationships and marriages.
    How’s the Lord already already shown you this?
    You have a very powerful testimony and a beautiful marriage and a really truly beautiful love story.
    I am so blessed as I listen to your stories in your videos and can’t wait for more!
    God bless you both
    And thank you also for your prayers.

  • @annepruitt790
    @annepruitt790 2 года назад +2

    Thank you Guys so much ❤️🙏

  • @ladywithmanyinterests
    @ladywithmanyinterests 2 года назад

    You know, every time I listen to you both speak or just Sarah, I see God in both of you - my Spirit is at one with yours, in agreement. I don’t know how best to describe it other than to say you both are certainly led by the Spirit and May He continue to delight in you both.

  • @michellebaptiste7736
    @michellebaptiste7736 2 года назад +2

    Really great information. Thank you for edifying my life

  • @C_ra2013
    @C_ra2013 2 года назад +2

    I like this seating arrangement better 😍😍 How about a short Prayer at the start of the Video.Ask GOD to flow through you when you speak. ❤️ You're awesome, Great Video 🤍

  • @mphodinahthebe938
    @mphodinahthebe938 2 года назад +5

    Just love 'seeing' Jesus through you guys!

    • @ObeyJesusOurLord
      @ObeyJesusOurLord 2 года назад +1

      Love your comment!🙂

    • @NowSoar
      @NowSoar 2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for your lovely comment! ✝️🤗

  • @rivaldopresent9782
    @rivaldopresent9782 2 года назад +1

    You guys rock❤️👏🏽

  • @philomenal6444
    @philomenal6444 3 года назад +2

    Thank you both 🙌🏻 . May you be blessed abundantly ✨😊🙏

    • @NowBloom
      @NowBloom  3 года назад

      Aw thank you so much! 🙏💕

  • @hushsamarathunga2435
    @hushsamarathunga2435 2 года назад

    Thank you both so much 🙏 God bless you both

  • @caitlyn8530
    @caitlyn8530 3 года назад +6

    Sarah would you make a video on how to deal with conflict within a marriage please :)

    • @NowBloom
      @NowBloom  3 года назад +3

      That’s a great topic thank you for the idea! 🙏

    • @caitlyn8530
      @caitlyn8530 3 года назад +1

      Yes please! Thank you!
      And this is off topic ..but I have met someone but his into New Age and he doesn't know Jesus as his personal Saviour. Would you please help me pray for him that the Lord will open his eyes and soften his heart and let him turn to the cross. Please.
      Prayers and love to you and Adam💙🥰

    • @caitlyn8530
      @caitlyn8530 3 года назад

      Him and I aren't dating yet...but I believe God can change him and set him free..because God did that for me. SO I Believe!

    • @NowBloom
      @NowBloom  3 года назад +3

      @@caitlyn8530 yes I will pray for him, I know the Lord can save anyone and open up their eyes, I would just also pray for extra discernment with how you should move forward with this person until the Lord shows you what to do clearly 🙏💕

    • @caitlyn8530
      @caitlyn8530 3 года назад

      Thank you! You're such a blessing! His name is Noah.
      We met last year over Instagram.
      And yes definitely..God should give me wisdom and discernment aswell! Thank youu!
      Much love!

  • @An0maly111
    @An0maly111 3 года назад +2

    I really needed this video. thanks so much !

  • @RASHASA1237
    @RASHASA1237 3 года назад +3

    I really love this be blessed!!!

  • @SJ-jl2bh
    @SJ-jl2bh 2 года назад

    Love you both and am uplifted every time I watch your videos.

  • @joe-lynnbiever1053
    @joe-lynnbiever1053 2 года назад

    I enjoy learning from you both. Thank you for your guidance always I receive and your prayers at the end.

  • @ISUNDERSTOOD
    @ISUNDERSTOOD 2 года назад +1

    Marriage GOALS

  • @lusandavena8588
    @lusandavena8588 Год назад

    I love you guys ❤

  • @Christabel_Jeremiah
    @Christabel_Jeremiah 2 года назад +1

    God bless you Sarah, what do you think about a woman marrying a man she's are 3weeks older than?

  • @henriettacharles6465
    @henriettacharles6465 2 года назад +2

    I’ve been married for almost a year (I am 25). I recently told my husband about the abortion I did when I was 16. He wants a divorce because I betrayed him by not telling him before we got married and I’ve had less value in eyes ever since I told me. I don’t know what to do , please help. He is currently seeing other women and has made it clear that he doesn’t want us to reconcile.

    • @philly1076
      @philly1076 2 года назад +2

      wow, jesus.

    • @wicket_gate
      @wicket_gate 2 года назад +3

      You reap what you sow. Information like that is very important for men. Matter of fact, you'd be surprised that other men have no problem with abortion. He feels disgusted by you and maybe thinks you've lied about a lot of things.

    • @philly1076
      @philly1076 2 года назад

      If he was that bothered about abortion, why didn't he ask you prior to marrying you, about abortion?

    • @wicket_gate
      @wicket_gate 2 года назад +3

      @@philly1076 the guy found after they got married about the abortion. She basically trapped him and then revealed the ugly details

    • @philly1076
      @philly1076 2 года назад

      @@wicket_gate ive never been pregnant, but people make mistakes. It was one when she was a teenager. I know women who have had 4 abortions, which I find shocking.

  • @chemybamford9919
    @chemybamford9919 3 года назад +13

    If God says he forgets our sins, throws them in the sea of forgetfulness and remembers them no more So why should one remember them and announce them. The past is forgiven and behold God has made a new thing. You and your spouse are a brand new slate. That’s the litmus test. Now if it’s a sin you are still harboring then your spouse should know or if they asked you something regards to it then you should always speak the truth. We tend to rehash, reference our pasts when God says Forget the past behold I have made all things new. We are new creations when we receive Christ.

    • @NowBloom
      @NowBloom  3 года назад +19

      Yes for sure I agree they are forgiven! And we are new creations praise the lord 😅 I agree if they ask then yes it’s important to tell the truth otherwise it would be lying to say otherwise. We didn’t mean to rehash as in make a list of everything you’ve ever done and share because that would probably be very damaging! And unnecessary because we don’t need to go to our spouse for forgiveness since our sins have been forgiven :) It is more of being open and honest with your spouse with where you came from and what God delivered you from otherwise it can be hurtful or deceiving to not disclose certain things. 🙏

    • @bec3993
      @bec3993 2 года назад +1

      The body keeps the score

    • @wicket_gate
      @wicket_gate 2 года назад

      only a whores capitalize on "forgiveness" to avoid consequences of their past choices. I'm sure you'd be happy if your man never told you about his "aids" status. Past decisions have a bearing on the future.

  • @sacredhope4731
    @sacredhope4731 3 года назад +1

    This is so good, thanks for this video 🤍