That's an incredibly painful situation to deal with. I hope you find strength in moving forward and that you can focus on your own happiness and well-being after such a betrayal.
NTA. OP needs to cut contact with his mother. She is never going to change. Adam made his choices and if she is going to defend a brother who ruins another brother's relationship just because he is miserable, then she clearly does not care about you. Cut her off and move on. You deserve better than both of them. Keep in contact with those that respect you and understand you. I cannot believe your mother would make excuses for your brother's actions and says "I won't talk to you unless you make this right". OP does not have to do anything. He is not the one who ruined the relationship. He is not the one who cheated. If she is going to defend bad behaviour then she needs to learn that she will be left all alone. Actions have consequences.
Op needs to go no contact with both his brother and his mom. His mom is a toxic enabler. Shes a pitiful excuse for a mother. ETA: I commented too soon. 😂
That's an incredibly painful situation to deal with. I hope you find strength in moving forward and that you can focus on your own happiness and well-being after such a betrayal.
OP's putting on a brave face. He still wants his Mom to "pick" him. At least OP has his Uncle.
NTA. OP needs to cut contact with his mother. She is never going to change. Adam made his choices and if she is going to defend a brother who ruins another brother's relationship just because he is miserable, then she clearly does not care about you. Cut her off and move on. You deserve better than both of them. Keep in contact with those that respect you and understand you.
I cannot believe your mother would make excuses for your brother's actions and says "I won't talk to you unless you make this right". OP does not have to do anything. He is not the one who ruined the relationship. He is not the one who cheated. If she is going to defend bad behaviour then she needs to learn that she will be left all alone. Actions have consequences.
Tell Adam thanks he did you a favor..that will drive him crazy.
Op needs to go no contact with both his brother and his mom. His mom is a toxic enabler. Shes a pitiful excuse for a mother.
ETA: I commented too soon. 😂
Thats Adams problem why mom wanna make excuses 4 him he a grown man he created his own mess eff adam
0:59 for shorts
Tysm that was so much help! :D I hope u go viral soon!
Tysm
I didn’t see u comment but I commented the same thing. I’m not trying to copy u or anything
Your brother did that just eff with u
Right or wrong, it's illegal to just change the locks
SO IT WAS OKAY FOR OPs BROTHER TO SEND HIM TEXT ABOUT WHAT HE DID??
0:59 if u came from shorts