Leave those alone who can’t put your best interests first. Trust me… it’s a waste of time and energy. Take the highway. I’m not referring specifically to anyone in particular. My last roommate was a nightmare for example of someone who chose to put my best interests on the back burner. No matter how much I cared for himself when he was sick and couldn’t help his own self let alone walk his DOG I took care of them both. He lol just couldn’t care less about me at all. Understand how I feel horrible. 😢 anyone who consider my friendship as a second thought then 🖕🏿 is how I have to deal with my life as it relates to strangers. wtf 😳
This song is why am still single been with too many of these sorts of men. Just want a man who will do me right and treat me better then have ever been treated is probably the only way I would not be single l.
Love this!! It's almost like it was written about me & my ex boyfriend. I was way down his list of priorities. After 2yrs Id had enough of the heartache & walked away... Then 6mths later met my now fiancé... Who willing tells whoever asks that I am his Queen & everything he does is for US. After a failed marriage then a narcissistic boyfriend, I never thought I'd find love again... it found me ❤️
You are exactly right love comes into people’s lives when God decides it’s time. Remember we all have standards for who we want to love and care for. Don’t drop your standards they don’t make you weak. Find someone who fits your standards and who wakes up calling you their all. You deserve the world and don’t let one person ruin that!❤️
As I'm planning my leaving a shitty situation after many many years. When he tries to love bomb I turn to this song. It's perfect to remind me of my worth
Me crying so early in the bathroom, but my kids are waiting outside because they want pancakes. Momma has to wiped her tears 😭 and wash her face and continue with my day like nothings happening 😭😢
Omg I'm so very proud of you!! Your going to go places in life just because of that. I know it was hard but you managed ❤❤you have a heart of gold dear
I needed this song....I truly only want healing and for him to be proud of himself.. find someone who will love him with fierce deep undying love that I have, but this time... keep true to himself and her so he can be happy... I don't need to be putting him down, we all make mistakes, lord knows that I made some too... thank you for this song!!
I needed this song.. currently going through this currently and trying to find a way to get away.. I don't want to run his name through the dirt.. all I know is this song is on point 💯
You would have to know how bad I was when I was before we met to really know the person I am today. Not everyone has went through what we went through. The fire. The flood. Storage unit flood. Losing the restaurant. The other restaurant closing down. If we had a picture perfect life without the tribulations I'm sure we would have had a better story. We always were a good team when we worked together. How many people could live within ten feet of their spouse with zero "space" away from each other and not go nuts and kill each other. When we had money and could make memories we were happy. Dining out, doing things, I am sorry you went from rich to poor. It is something that hurts my heart and embarasses me to be around your family and friends. You said sex and peanut butter. You didn't mean it. I don't want it either. I know if I made 400,000.00 a year you would enjoy spending more time with me as well. The door works both ways.
Yes this song the first time I heard it was about our relationship everything she says is exactly what I am and was dealing with I really hope that someday I will meet someone that will put me First because I know I would put them first God knows I have tried for over 20 plus years and still got me no where Honestly I tried Dear Lord I have I am so sad 59 years of age and feel like all I want is to be put first and Loved before I leave this world thank you God Bless 😢Tamirae
This song is so reaffirming all of my reasons for remaining single for the last 16 years. Single since age 48, sometimes a bit lonely however it is far better than to ever settle for taking last place ever again in my life.
It's almost like this is written for me and my ex. Where was this when i was going through everything, and walked away?? Beautiful song! I'm in an amazing relationship, with an amazing young man, and genuinely couldn't be happier, but I 100% have this song on repeat. LOVE ITTTTT
Wow !!! This sure hits home like a wrecking ball !!! Dam had me teary eyed , I couldn’t come up with why I’m leaving until I heard this song, we always fought he said /she’s begging for attention , this is what I needed to say 🦄🦄🦄🦄
he left me 9/18/22 and this song just reminds me of what he didn’t do but yes i do miss him so much and i haven’t lost the feelings i have for him but i truly wish him the best he was a good person and i know he just wasn’t in the right place and i hope one day me and him will reconnect
Ik this I about a relationship, but this makes me think of my dad. I found out for myself why my mom left, and then the way he chooses his new fiance over his BIOLOGICAL Daughter and son. When she sings, "stay home when he wanted to", he would come home after all day at work then leave me alone and drive and hour and a half to her. When she says fight for me love, when she insulted me he chose her and defends her over me. 😔
It is open to interpretation. It can mean whatever feels right to you. I love you. If you need something to believe in, start with yourself. Be strong. I know it's hard. My dad did the same. He does so much for my stepmom's kids, but barely says anything nice to me.
Correct lyrics: Everybody's asking what the hell happened Wonderin' why it all went wrong Mama always said, "If you can't say something nice Then don't say anything at all" And I've got my side of the story and he's got his side, too So I ain't gonna go and tell you what he did But I'll tell you what he didn't do Treat me right, put me first, be a man of his word Stay home 'cause he wanted to Always fight for my love, hold on tight like it's something That he couldn't stand to lose The devil's in the details, I won't tell the hell that he put me through All I know is in the end, it wasn't what he did No, it was what he didn't do I'm already halfway over him and I ain't taking time to turn around So I'ma take the high road, even though we both know I could run him out of this town That's just dirty laundry, I don't need to wear the truth So I ain't gonna tell you everything he did But I'll tell you what he didn't do Treat me right, put me first, be a man of his word Stay home 'cause he wanted to Always fight for my love, hold on tight like it's something That he couldn't stand to lose The devil's in the details, I won't tell the hell that he put me through All I know is in the end, it wasn't what he did No, it was what he didn't do I ain't met the right one yet but I know when I do He'll treat me right, put me first, be a man of his word Stay home 'cause he wanted to Always fight for my love, hold on tight like it's something That he can't stand to lose The devil's in the details, I won't tell the hell that he put me through All I know is in the end, it wasn't what he did No, it was what he didn't do And all I know is in the end, it wasn't what he did No, it was what he didn't do
I needed this song. I used to fight for us, and tell my side. Now I'm just done. He knows and I know what he did and what he didn't do and that's all that matter,. He can go and make me the bad guy in his store. It no longer matters to me. I tried so hard to stay in his life when he didn't want me there all along.
I hope you left girl, I just left today. Packed up all of my stuff moved out our home & kissed the dogs goodbye & hit the road & haven’t looked back! You choose you bc you deserve more & you matter more THAN ANYTHING! ❤
This song reminds my Mom and I of my biglogical father. Her and I had to get out of the relationship when i was 10 months old. We moved back home and two years later Ma married a man that treats her the way she deserves to be treated.
My husband had an affair, I think it's over, but just can't make myself trust him. This song reminds me of how HE was( the opposite of the lyrics) for 22 years, but now they describe him/ us perfect. Makes me realize I can leave and DO deserve to find a man that will put me 1st, be a man of his word.....22 years is hard to let go, but when a song like this describes him NOW, that 22 years are erased. THIS song, several of hers makes me feel less alone and that I CAN have that.
I'm 13 on my mom's phone but I know that I know nothing about relationships but in my feelings I sing this about a friend of mine but I really sing it because of my mom and some of the relationships she's been in I know she's going through some stuff and won't say anything about it but I know she's hurting so I want to be here for her so I sing this song to her all the time and it makes her day.
We have no idea how strong we are till being strong is our only choice.
Story of my life
Yes
the part that me was mama all way's say's if you don't have nothing nice to say then don't say it at all
Leave those alone who can’t put your best interests first. Trust me… it’s a waste of time and energy.
Take the highway.
I’m not referring specifically to anyone in particular. My last roommate was a nightmare for example of someone who chose to put my best interests on the back burner. No matter how much I cared for himself when he was sick and couldn’t help his own self let alone walk his DOG I took care of them both. He lol just couldn’t care less about me at all. Understand how I feel horrible. 😢 anyone who consider my friendship as a second thought then 🖕🏿 is how I have to deal with my life as it relates to strangers. wtf 😳
The fact that there’s no dislikes on this right now… says a lot about how pure this song is ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
gotchu
Bruh now there 17 dislikes😂 idek how tho
10 NBC
People just want to contradict you
It's sad in less then a week there Is 37 dislikes 😢😢
This song is why am still single been with too many of these sorts of men. Just want a man who will do me right and treat me better then have ever been treated is probably the only way I would not be single l.
Love this!! It's almost like it was written about me & my ex boyfriend. I was way down his list of priorities. After 2yrs Id had enough of the heartache & walked away... Then 6mths later met my now fiancé... Who willing tells whoever asks that I am his Queen & everything he does is for US. After a failed marriage then a narcissistic boyfriend, I never thought I'd find love again... it found me ❤️
Awesome, I'm happy for you, made me a believer in love again... blessings.
You are exactly right love comes into people’s lives when God decides it’s time. Remember we all have standards for who we want to love and care for. Don’t drop your standards they don’t make you weak. Find someone who fits your standards and who wakes up calling you their all. You deserve the world and don’t let one person ruin that!❤️
same
I feel this! Couldn’t have said it better
Can't wait for that day. It's kinda hard when ur in the person's house. Who is a severe alcoholic.
As I'm planning my leaving a shitty situation after many many years. When he tries to love bomb I turn to this song. It's perfect to remind me of my worth
Hi! How are you now...? ❤
Me crying so early in the bathroom, but my kids are waiting outside because they want pancakes. Momma has to wiped her tears 😭 and wash her face and continue with my day like nothings happening 😭😢
❤
Us mamas gotta be strong for our littles
Been there too, your worth so much more
Stay strong girl 💪
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💖 Just hug them, it helps. Pancakes can wait 😊
Be with someone who wants to be with you ♡
Omg! I love this song ! Where was this song when I needed it and walked away from my ex to find better and found my husband ❤️❤️
Hello 👋 how are you doing?
Omg I'm so very proud of you!! Your going to go places in life just because of that. I know it was hard but you managed ❤❤you have a heart of gold dear
@@aroramcconnell6077 thank you!
@@sarahcastanon4507 your welcome
I am on that journey as of 3 days ago. The pain feels unbearable but I have to do this. Thank you for the inspiration
I needed this song....I truly only want healing and for him to be proud of himself.. find someone who will love him with fierce deep undying love that I have, but this time... keep true to himself and her so he can be happy... I don't need to be putting him down, we all make mistakes, lord knows that I made some too... thank you for this song!!
So loving and mature of you. Blessings your way from Texas!
Perfect song ever
I just heard this song today, now i played it more than 20x just this day
I needed this song ❤️❤️❤️❤️,made me realize I’m worth more than just sitting here and waiting for him. I can relate to this song
Stay strong 💪
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YES!!!!! Love this song...It speaks volumes and it speaks truth....
This song says it perfectly.
I love this song. It reminds me of someone that I truly love. They are with me in my heart always and forever.
I'm in a healthy and awesome relationship but I got this song on repeat. awesome song 😍❤
Literally me 😂
I hope some day I'll be in a healthy and awesome relationship and marriage too.
Same, girl. Same.
Beautiful song yes definitely
Damn I didn’t want to cry but here we are😭❤️
My grandma lizzy comes into my thoughts reading your comment. Thanks.
How the heck have I not heard this on the radio yet!?!???!
I did on SiriusXM yesterday
I don't like new country, but I like this. Says a lot without saying a lot.
Stick up for your self I love it this like my favorite 💕 song l liked it ❤
Hello 👋 how are you doing?
Brilliant song
I needed this song.. currently going through this currently and trying to find a way to get away.. I don't want to run his name through the dirt.. all I know is this song is on point 💯
How you doing now? You get out?
I'm definitely trying to figure out
Great song.. treat me right put me first..
I’ve spent 2 decades hoping he’d eventually change or that I could change him. I wish I would’ve learned this lesson b4 he stole my best years away.
You would have to know how bad I was when I was before we met to really know the person I am today. Not everyone has went through what we went through. The fire. The flood. Storage unit flood. Losing the restaurant. The other restaurant closing down. If we had a picture perfect life without the tribulations I'm sure we would have had a better story. We always were a good team when we worked together. How many people could live within ten feet of their spouse with zero "space" away from each other and not go nuts and kill each other. When we had money and could make memories we were happy. Dining out, doing things, I am sorry you went from rich to poor. It is something that hurts my heart and embarasses me to be around your family and friends. You said sex and peanut butter. You didn't mean it. I don't want it either. I know if I made 400,000.00 a year you would enjoy spending more time with me as well. The door works both ways.
this song is on repeat all the time when im on youtube
I know this feeling
This song says the truth.
I truly love this song so much 🥺💔
Yes this song the first time I heard it was about our relationship everything she says is exactly what I am and was dealing with I really hope that someday I will meet someone that will put me First because I know I would put them first God knows I have tried for over 20 plus years and still got me no where Honestly I tried Dear Lord I have I am so sad 59 years of age and feel like all I want is to be put first and Loved before I leave this world thank you God Bless 😢Tamirae
Believing it was her fault you broke then hearing this makes you stop and think twice.
This song is so reaffirming all of my reasons for remaining single for the last 16 years. Single since age 48, sometimes a bit lonely however it is far better than to ever settle for taking last place ever again in my life.
I won’t tell the hell he put me through.
Hit my soul hard tonight.
It's almost like this is written for me and my ex. Where was this when i was going through everything, and walked away?? Beautiful song! I'm in an amazing relationship, with an amazing young man, and genuinely couldn't be happier, but I 100% have this song on repeat. LOVE ITTTTT
Hopefully you've broken up and been through the wringer again since!
I love this song
exactly! this song and her voice totally gets it right
I literally love this song so much I listen to it every day
It's like,every lyrics in each of her songs has it all.I love her voice .its natural
Can Completly connect with and relate to this song.. ❤️
I love this song so much I listen to it every day
Wow !!! This sure hits home like a wrecking ball !!! Dam had me teary eyed , I couldn’t come up with why I’m leaving until I heard this song, we always fought he said /she’s begging for attention , this is what I needed to say 🦄🦄🦄🦄
Been listening to this song for a few days now. It's helping me understand that what me and my ex had wasn't right for me. ❤
Girl it's ALWAYS what he didn't DO LOVE THIS SONG GOOD JOB💕💕
So so true.
Love this song
This is the best song in the morning
Its hard to listen to this song with anyone in mind. Still a damn good song that puts me in my feels. When I allow it. 😏
This song changed me
Love this 💝 I can relate to this song !
Hello 👋 how are you doing?
@@jackrussell4481 Hi, I am pretty good thanks and you ?
@@cynthiamartin2619 I’m fine nice meeting you here can we be friends?
Waiting on the man God has prepared for me ❤️
I would have to agree I'm waiting for my right girl that God sends to me
My boyfriend from 6 months broke up with yesterday and now I can fine my worth and work on myself he did me a favor and now it's my time to shine ❤️
he left me 9/18/22 and this song just reminds me of what he didn’t do but yes i do miss him so much and i haven’t lost the feelings i have for him but i truly wish him the best he was a good person and i know he just wasn’t in the right place and i hope one day me and him will reconnect
This resonates with every single woman
Love this song so much 💕
Ik this I about a relationship, but this makes me think of my dad. I found out for myself why my mom left, and then the way he chooses his new fiance over his BIOLOGICAL Daughter and son. When she sings, "stay home when he wanted to", he would come home after all day at work then leave me alone and drive and hour and a half to her. When she says fight for me love, when she insulted me he chose her and defends her over me. 😔
It is open to interpretation. It can mean whatever feels right to you. I love you. If you need something to believe in, start with yourself. Be strong. I know it's hard. My dad did the same. He does so much for my stepmom's kids, but barely says anything nice to me.
I love this song 💚
my new fav
can't understand how these amazing songs and artists don't win awards
Love this song❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You cant please everyone but I needed this song thank you
Love this song I bet he wishes he would’ve done what he should’ve done. Love Carly great album
Such a beautiful voice and a great song!
Can I like this song more than once?!?
Beautiful song!! Great job on the music video!! I love Carly Pearce, her new album is certainly the best!!
Me in a healthy relationship for 4 years, still SCREAMING this cause girl, enough said.
I'm crying ❤❤❤❤
I can relate to this song so much...feel the pain again... 🥺
Love your music
Perfect song as I sit here while my husband decided to go to a concert for 4 days with his buddy’s
Hello 👋 how are you doing?
Thats a very true song
I love this song it's the truth
Love this song😎
Wow!!! This just told my story
So sweet of you
I haven't stopped crying over all this that he put me through all the broken promises all the fake I love yous
Yes on point for me! Whata great song💜
❤❤❤❤❤ so I need this sentence
Correct lyrics:
Everybody's asking what the hell happened
Wonderin' why it all went wrong
Mama always said, "If you can't say something nice
Then don't say anything at all"
And I've got my side of the story and he's got his side, too
So I ain't gonna go and tell you what he did
But I'll tell you what he didn't do
Treat me right, put me first, be a man of his word
Stay home 'cause he wanted to
Always fight for my love, hold on tight like it's something
That he couldn't stand to lose
The devil's in the details, I won't tell the hell that he put me through
All I know is in the end, it wasn't what he did
No, it was what he didn't do
I'm already halfway over him and I ain't taking time to turn around
So I'ma take the high road, even though we both know
I could run him out of this town
That's just dirty laundry, I don't need to wear the truth
So I ain't gonna tell you everything he did
But I'll tell you what he didn't do
Treat me right, put me first, be a man of his word
Stay home 'cause he wanted to
Always fight for my love, hold on tight like it's something
That he couldn't stand to lose
The devil's in the details, I won't tell the hell that he put me through
All I know is in the end, it wasn't what he did
No, it was what he didn't do
I ain't met the right one yet but I know when I do
He'll treat me right, put me first, be a man of his word
Stay home 'cause he wanted to
Always fight for my love, hold on tight like it's something
That he can't stand to lose
The devil's in the details, I won't tell the hell that he put me through
All I know is in the end, it wasn't what he did
No, it was what he didn't do
And all I know is in the end, it wasn't what he did
No, it was what he didn't do
Wow, the right one will come around just be strong.
4 LOVE 💕💕 WHAT EM I GONNA DO
When someone breaks up with me I listen to this and I will cry screaming “ TREAT ME RIGHT PUT ME FIRST BE THE MAN OF HIS WORDS ”
Excuse me the spelling of your name is so pretty but how do you pronounce it
Same here! My mom loves to song so we would sing it together 🫶
This is the best advice I ever heard
I needed this song. I used to fight for us, and tell my side. Now I'm just done. He knows and I know what he did and what he didn't do and that's all that matter,. He can go and make me the bad guy in his store. It no longer matters to me. I tried so hard to stay in his life when he didn't want me there all along.
Sorry friend.let him go he will only leave you better off😘
Stay strong and have faith, you deserve better..I know this feeling.... you are worthy of better...💪✌️💕
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Same
Love it soooo much thank you
This song though it could get someone through everything ❤😢
This song really just makes me shake so sad
This i a very relatable song
I am obssessed with this song as i am now waiting for the right guy to come along and treat right
When you and your significant other are fighting yall need to remember that its you guys versus the problem!!
❤ beautiful song 🎵 ❤
I love my boyfriend but I sick of having to ask to be loved and get bitched at for asking to be loved
Sweetie I just got out of a relationship like that a narcissistic. You shouldn't have to beg for nobody's love do what's best for you.
I hear you going thru the same
Same here
I hope you left girl, I just left today. Packed up all of my stuff moved out our home & kissed the dogs goodbye & hit the road & haven’t looked back! You choose you bc you deserve more & you matter more THAN ANYTHING! ❤
I'll tell you what he didn't do..... 🖤 love is what he didn't do....
I can relate to every single word!
This song reminds my Mom and I of my biglogical father. Her and I had to get out of the relationship when i was 10 months old. We moved back home and two years later Ma married a man that treats her the way she deserves to be treated.
TRUE that wish we did do
Hello 👋 how are you doing?
My husband had an affair, I think it's over, but just can't make myself trust him. This song reminds me of how HE was( the opposite of the lyrics) for 22 years, but now they describe him/ us perfect. Makes me realize I can leave and DO deserve to find a man that will put me 1st, be a man of his word.....22 years is hard to let go, but when a song like this describes him NOW, that 22 years are erased. THIS song, several of hers makes me feel less alone and that I CAN have that.
@Carly Pearce thank you. Your music inspires me.Can’t wait until you come to Denver!
@Carly Pearce absolutely! I honestly have nobody to talk to. It would be great to have someone to talk to.
Thank You Carly Peirce Love this song. You said everything I tried to say to the one that I Love
I'm 13 on my mom's phone but I know that I know nothing about relationships but in my feelings I sing this about a friend of mine but I really sing it because of my mom and some of the relationships she's been in I know she's going through some stuff and won't say anything about it but I know she's hurting so I want to be here for her so I sing this song to her all the time and it makes her day.
He didn’t do nothing to show he felt the same… that’s what I needed from him 🤷♀️
Good song
My new fav song😍❤
All I know is in the end
It wasn't what he did
No, it was what he didn't do.
I felt that.