INNER CHILD REPARENTING: How to Start Parenting Your Inner Child | Wu Wei Wisdom

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  • @WuWeiWisdom
    @WuWeiWisdom  3 года назад +5

    VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT! 👉👉
    ▶️ The Inner Child Explained: How to Love Guide & Heal Your Inner Child ruclips.net/video/BM0lmfBlE2E/видео.html
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    ▶️ Healthy Inner Child Reparenting: How to Be A Good Parent to Your Inner Child ruclips.net/video/BM0lmfBlE2E/видео.html
    ▶️ 3 Question to Ask Your Inner Child: Inner Child Healing Exercises ruclips.net/video/gAQHOI3asHA/видео.html
    ▶️ Meeting Your Inner Child: Inner Child Types & How to Connect to Your Inner Child ruclips.net/video/_WazOFj7V6k/видео.html
    ▶️ Finding Your Higher Self: The Spiritual Self (Shen) Explained ruclips.net/video/YeJ7_u5gp3s/видео.html
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  • @bernadettemeade7259
    @bernadettemeade7259 3 года назад +14

    You say we create these negative emotions, each time I try to be in relationship I experience high anxiety and panic attacks, I'm not aware of specific negative thoughts at that moment, completely hijacked. I am afraid of being shamed, punished, taken over, giving myself up or abandoned. I recognise I have always looked outside of myself for validation and approval, by being a people pleaser. Afraid if someone really knew me warts and all. See myself as weak, victim, powerless, struggle with a sense of inner agency. Live in my head trying to work out how to be loved.

    • @moh273
      @moh273 3 года назад

      Love come when a person exerts it to others

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  3 года назад +1

      Hi Bernadette Meade, thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. You may find our Love and Relationships Video Playlist helpful: ruclips.net/p/PL9NQ_PWX4zID3yxrdCbbZFuKHCwgV6qhX Alex + David x

  • @The_Jas_Singh
    @The_Jas_Singh Год назад +2

    I can't tell you how much your teachings and wisdom have helped me! Finally managed to come to unity and understanding with my Ego (inner child) and already, things are improving for me each day. God Bless you!

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Год назад

      Glad I could help! Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @pebetsemaepa5454
    @pebetsemaepa5454 3 года назад +5

    You are such a beautiful & inspiring couple 💑 You look good, happy and healthy together. One just can't thank you enough for the priceless insight and wisdom you impart. Keep descipling

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  3 года назад

      Hi Pebetse Maepa, thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. Alex + David x (ps. we have a new online workshop you may be interested in: buytickets.at/wuweiwisdom/532475 )

  • @runwiththewind3281
    @runwiththewind3281 3 года назад +3

    Happy good Saturday morning to you wu wei wisdom

  • @XX-ux8qd
    @XX-ux8qd 3 года назад +1

    U are the father and mother I never had
    Don't know how to appreciate

  • @bhrismaw-q
    @bhrismaw-q Год назад +2

    I wish i knew all this a year ago, nearly gave myself a nervous breakdown over letting my emotions rule me.... Oh the story I could tell

  • @kcd7836
    @kcd7836 3 года назад +8

    Thank you for all your teachings - so true and insightful🙏

  • @clare8994
    @clare8994 Год назад +1

    Thank you … I did say negative things to my own children and my attention and affection was conditional depending on how well they performed at school, in sports etc. This has negatively affected them and they are now dealing with rlf whilst I am dealing with guilt and regret.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Год назад

      Hi clare8994,
      Thank you for sharing your personal experience with such honesty and vulnerability. Acknowledging past actions and their impact on your children is a significant and brave step. It's important to remember that growth and healing are possible for both you and your children. Dealing with guilt and regret can be challenging, but it's a part of the journey towards understanding and reconciliation.
      It might be helpful to have open conversations with your children, acknowledging the past and expressing your desire to support them now. Healing is a process that can bring families closer together when approached with love, honesty, and a willingness to understand each other's experiences.
      Remember, our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community is a supportive space where you can find guidance and connect with others who may have similar experiences. You're not alone in this, and it's commendable that you're taking steps to address these issues.
      Sending you and your family strength and compassion on your journey towards healing.
      Regards,
      David

  • @teresakenny6975
    @teresakenny6975 Год назад +1

    Thank you both so much for this lesson. 🙏

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Год назад +1

      Our pleasure! Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event. More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023. Kind regards, David.

  • @DEEPbodylove
    @DEEPbodylove 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you yet again. I am going to watch it again. It really is changing my practice already and definitely impacting on my personal journey. Regards Liz x

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  8 месяцев назад +1

      Hi Liz,
      Thank you for your kind words! We're delighted to hear that the video is positively impacting your practice and personal journey. Keep up the great work, and remember to be patient and compassionate with yourself along the way.
      Kind Regards,
      David

    • @DEEPbodylove
      @DEEPbodylove 8 месяцев назад

      @@WuWeiWisdom thank you and noted. :)

  • @davidcsercsics6933
    @davidcsercsics6933 3 года назад +4

    I really love these videos. They help preserve sanity for me as I work to rebuild my existence. Thank you!

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  3 года назад

      Hi David Csercsics, thanks for watching! We're glad the videos are helping you. Alex + David x (ps. we have a new online workshop you may be interested in: buytickets.at/wuweiwisdom/532475 )

  • @sueb6662
    @sueb6662 3 года назад +1

    Great video thank you. So the inner child’s voice is the loudest in our head.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  3 года назад +1

      Yes, it can be if we do not control it. The out of balance inner child can be very 'yang' (forceful, extrovert, dominating) x

  • @WeiMokwei
    @WeiMokwei Год назад +1

    Hi David n Alex
    It was very interested to know about the inner child
    characters which I didn’t know what was inner child
    Thanks for it Yeah you are right David I am learning to know myself Thanks for the support n guidance ❤

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Год назад

      Glad you enjoyed it. Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Kind regards, David.

  • @susanhuling9577
    @susanhuling9577 Год назад +1

    Such helpful information!

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Год назад

      Hello Susan, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @mirelladlima5278
    @mirelladlima5278 3 года назад +3

    Very True. I am creating my own emotions and as Alex says it is necessary to question why am I feeling and how can I not react but pause take a step back and respond in a conscious way with inspiration from our supreme human spirit, our sheb, our intuition, our inner wisdom not my inner child. Tks 🙏

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  3 года назад

      Hi Mirella D'Lima, thanks for sharing your thoughts! We value your support. Alex + David x (ps. we have a new online workshop you may be interested in: buytickets.at/wuweiwisdom/532475 )

    • @rinaward3195
      @rinaward3195 3 года назад +1

      I have just heard the video for a second time and will practice 'I believe, I think, I choose instead of I feel'. Keep practicing everyone, it's the same as going to a gym, we can't get results in one session.

  • @yohanessunjoko2837
    @yohanessunjoko2837 3 года назад +3

    Hallo David and Alex, thanks for today's video, i'm so eager to watch..have a wonderful day

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  3 года назад

      Hi Yohanes, thanks for watching! We always appreciate your support. Alex + David x (ps. we have a new online workshop you may be interested in: buytickets.at/wuweiwisdom/532475 )

  • @clare8994
    @clare8994 Год назад +1

    Perhaps you could do a teaching on the point I raised . I think it would be helpful to a lot of people, many of whom would not admit to treating their own children this way.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Год назад

      Hi clare8994,
      Thank you for suggesting a topic for a future teaching. It sounds like you have a thoughtful and potentially impactful idea in mind. Addressing issues around how people treat their children, often unconsciously mirroring their own upbringing, could indeed be beneficial to many. It's an important area that touches on self-awareness, parenting, and breaking cycles from the past.
      We appreciate your input and will certainly consider this topic for a future video. It's insights from viewers like you that help us create content that is truly helpful and relevant.
      Thanks again for your suggestion and for being a part of our community.
      Regards,
      David

  • @lshine5368
    @lshine5368 3 года назад +2

    Have a blessed day
    Appreciate the teaching 🙏💐

  • @mozartrn1
    @mozartrn1 3 года назад +4

    Very helpful how the inner child has been explained here providing more understanding for me. Thank you so very much 💚

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  3 года назад

      Hi Diane, thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. You may find our Inner Child Video Playlist helpful: ruclips.net/p/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq Alex + David x (ps. we have a new online workshop you may be interested in: buytickets.at/wuweiwisdom/532475 )

  • @saalexmarinkovic4948
    @saalexmarinkovic4948 3 года назад +2

    Thank you again and again.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  3 года назад

      Your welcome Alex! (ps. we have a new online workshop you may be interested in: buytickets.at/wuweiwisdom/532475 )

  • @judithwallace2091
    @judithwallace2091 3 года назад +1

    Great video! So grateful for Wu Wei!

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  3 года назад

      Thank you Judith! x (ps. we have a new online workshop you may be interested in: buytickets.at/wuweiwisdom/532475 )

  • @soundbeats123
    @soundbeats123 3 года назад +2

    Love your content, always get something out of it, thanks so much

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  3 года назад

      Thank you! x (ps. we have a new online workshop you may be interested in: buytickets.at/wuweiwisdom/532475 )

  • @marykavanagh531
    @marykavanagh531 3 года назад +2

    Amazing as always 😍😍

  • @amydavidson7166
    @amydavidson7166 3 года назад +1

    When you say stop, I think of stopping the carousel to let the nurturing loving parent onto the carousel to join in the fun, to make sure my inner child is parented w/inner guidance, love & tenderness. Guiding the inner child back to a place of positive reinforcement, positive parental voice.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  3 года назад

      Hi Amy Davidson, thanks for sharing your thoughts! We value your support. Alex + David x

  • @noormousa11
    @noormousa11 3 года назад +1

    Plz can you make a video on how to give the right amount of attention to the inner child and how to make it feel special in a healthy way .

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  3 года назад +1

      Great question! We'll add this to our video topic list. x

  • @noormousa11
    @noormousa11 3 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for this video and for this amazing channel and wisdom ❤️🙏🌹

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  3 года назад

      Hi ItsNoor Sharaf, thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. Alex + David x (ps. we have a new online workshop you may be interested in: buytickets.at/wuweiwisdom/532475 )

  • @littlelizzie5092
    @littlelizzie5092 3 года назад

    Great video, learn soo much
    Thank you. You are both amazing! ❤️💙

  • @neoloaded
    @neoloaded 2 года назад +1

    Thanks David and Alexandra for this great info!
    At its core - can we think that mindfulness / insight meditation is the key to resolving these issues - i.e. mindfully watch the origin of emotions and learn to not associate with them in a reactive manner?

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  2 года назад

      Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @christophergrasso8572
    @christophergrasso8572 3 года назад +2

    Great videos and thank you so much. I understand what your saying but where and how do I start? Meditation? Write stuff down? See a therapist ?

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  3 года назад +1

      There are lots of ways to begin :). The next time you experience a red-light emotion, you could start by asking yourself 'what am I thinking right now that is creating this feeling?' Now you are beginning the Golden Thread Process. This video will also help explain the basics of the process: ruclips.net/video/5N7sC1yGZO4/видео.html - we also have a workshop coming up that may help you: buytickets.at/wuweiwisdom/532475 x

    • @christophergrasso8572
      @christophergrasso8572 3 года назад

      @@WuWeiWisdom Thank you so much!

  • @sullivancalgary
    @sullivancalgary 21 день назад +1

    Emotions are like kids in a car. You can't let them drive. But you can't lock them in the trunk.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  21 день назад

      Hi,
      What a wonderful metaphor! Emotions, much like the Inner Child, are important passengers on the journey of life. While they shouldn't take the wheel and control our direction, we must acknowledge and guide them with love and understanding, rather than suppress or ignore them. This balance allows our Shen spirit to shine and keeps us aligned with the principles of the Tao.
      If you'd like to dive deeper into this wisdom, join our free Wu Wei Wisdom community here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/.
      P.S. Exciting News!
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      Looking forward to sharing this journey with you!
      Kind Regards,
      David

  • @noormousa11
    @noormousa11 3 года назад +2

    Ok i really understand that i am the creator of my emotions ,but can i let my inner child who's been suppressed for so many years to express and feel those emotions and just cry them out and then parent it by love and compassion and switching the belief?

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  3 года назад +1

      Yes, it is important to allow the child to express, but encourage them to explore and talk about their thoughts, issues and concerns (rather than their emotions), which you can then address and help them resolve as the 'parent'. x

    • @noormousa11
      @noormousa11 3 года назад

      @@WuWeiWisdom thank you ❤️🙏

  • @n_tink9512
    @n_tink9512 Год назад +1

    What about when inner child being told by mother that she doesn’t have enough money to buy them everything? How should i overcome this as an adult parent?

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Год назад

      Hello, As you will appreciate, it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @IAMTatianaIAM
    @IAMTatianaIAM Год назад +1

    Hello therapists, I have a question for you both:
    I had no parents since 1 years old( orphan) and therefore I had no modeling of parenting , I never had kids and therefore I don’t know how to parent . What way would you suggest me to proceed with parenting my inner child if I don’t know how? Please advise . Thank you forward

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Год назад

      Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. As you will appreciate, it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. you reparent by using Truth, honesty and integrity - Shen. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

    • @IAMTatianaIAM
      @IAMTatianaIAM Год назад

      @@WuWeiWisdom ,thank you David for reply. I thought that I expressed my history in a nutshell for you to give me advise. I am off social média for the last 3 years and only one I am on is RUclips.

  • @mariamkhalifa3836
    @mariamkhalifa3836 3 года назад

    I like the title the inner child not mental illness. That sounds more sound than mental illnesses.

  • @galalon2417
    @galalon2417 3 года назад +1

    Can an inner child be so powerful that it can alter your perceptions, amplify feelings, and modulate your sensory input?
    How powerful can be , an inner child?

    • @IAMTatianaIAM
      @IAMTatianaIAM Год назад

      Yes ! The inner child is driving our every action. I am 45 now but my inner child is 4, she is the one who “drives the car”. Wish you healing in your journey.💚

  • @KP-mw6cx
    @KP-mw6cx 3 года назад +1

    ME: Stop digging.
    INNER CHILD: ok.
    ME: phew, that was close. We almost had a huge hole there. * Turns back around to find inner child digging vigorously * 🤦‍♀️😅

  • @amazingalloverfitness-onli1789
    @amazingalloverfitness-onli1789 Месяц назад +1

    I try and try to listen to these videos, I find them hard to follow.
    I can’t uncover any concrete steps to recovery, just a whole lot of talk.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Месяц назад

      Hi @amazingalloverfitness-onli1789,
      Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate your honesty. Wu Wei Wisdom focuses on uncovering the root causes of challenges, particularly in how our Inner Child beliefs shape our decisions and experiences. While it may take time to fully integrate these teachings, the key is to stay curious and patient.
      Here’s a practical starting point:
      1. **Pause and Reflect** - Ask yourself what specific belief or expectation might be causing discomfort or confusion.
      2. **Dialogue with the Inner Child** - Approach your Inner Child with compassion and curiosity, asking, “What do you need to believe you’re safe and valued?”
      3. **Follow a Daily Practice** - Simple practices like mindful breathing or journaling can help bring clarity and focus.
      If you’re looking for additional guidance, please consider joining our free Facebook community: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. It’s a wonderful space for support and sharing experiences.
      P.S. Exciting News!
      I've launched David's Journal, my free newsletter where I'll share deeper insights into Wu Wei Wisdom, Taoism, and my personal journey. For exclusive access to upcoming projects and the chance to shape new content, a paid subscription is also available.
      Subscribe for free or join the inner circle: davidjameslees.com
      Looking forward to supporting you further!
      Kind Regards,
      David

  • @Dreygo81
    @Dreygo81 3 года назад

    I know I feel unlovable just because I don't have teeth