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  • @aic0809
    @aic0809 28 дней назад +324

    This man is pure wickedness.

  • @Jasmynshawntel
    @Jasmynshawntel 28 дней назад +291

    He's forever gaslighting her ugh

    • @janedough6410
      @janedough6410 25 дней назад

      She's allowing herself to be gaslighted.

    • @koblakumah9947
      @koblakumah9947 24 дня назад +2

      The red flag is too obvious

  • @janedeane3656
    @janedeane3656 28 дней назад +354

    Dude took an enormous red pill before he got to the show! Sandia can do 15x better.

    • @ddoubleu170
      @ddoubleu170 28 дней назад +6

      Seriously!

    • @janedeane3656
      @janedeane3656 28 дней назад +25

      @@ddoubleu170 hes literally projecting while reciting podcast lines about how women are 'too emotional and immature'

    • @afrocaribbelle
      @afrocaribbelle 28 дней назад +14

      ​@@janedeane3656 and has the audacity to tell her she does not have a mind of her own! Clearly he can't think for himself. He sounds brainwashed. How you learn to be a man from those podcasts baffles me. 🤯 Girl, there are great men out there with great mindset and spirit. Run for your life!

    • @bossK78
      @bossK78 28 дней назад +2

      Lol no she can't. And neither can you.

    • @bossK78
      @bossK78 28 дней назад

      Alot of us men have taken the red pill btw. Exposing yall BS.

  • @andreaherron968
    @andreaherron968 28 дней назад +172

    When a person says that they don't like to be questioned it's usually because they lie alot

  • @_heyitsfrenchy
    @_heyitsfrenchy 28 дней назад +221

    He is so disrespectful toward her

    • @juanyelwhite4027
      @juanyelwhite4027 20 дней назад

      He is only doing she she allows. This dude would kick rocks because I’m not allowing no peanut head man talk to me or treat me like I am a low class citizen. Ain’t no way in the world I’m dealing with that bull.

  • @ivyind
    @ivyind 28 дней назад +293

    Safaree is over critical of Sandia

    • @TSBOFRLM
      @TSBOFRLM 28 дней назад +25

      Exactly! Narcissism is a spirit and they all act the same!

    • @ruthquetant7375
      @ruthquetant7375 28 дней назад +35

      Looks like a mix between safaree and bevus and butthead!!

    • @knrb7137
      @knrb7137 28 дней назад +3

      I said the same thing! When I first saw him, I said that he looks like Safaree.

    • @midheaven_mimi
      @midheaven_mimi 28 дней назад +17

      Not Safaree! 😂😂

    • @Anewme92142
      @Anewme92142 28 дней назад +4

      😂😂

  • @YaaKesha
    @YaaKesha 28 дней назад +176

    Leave that man alone! Let him be a headache to someone else. Questioning is apart of communication but she wouldn’t have to ask questions, if he provided more clarity and less attitude. RUN!!!

    • @adriennenicoles598
      @adriennenicoles598 25 дней назад +3

      This is what manipulators do, so you will stop questioning them and just let the abuse happen. Anyone who tries to silence you and make you walk on eggshells in a relationship is definitely someone you should run as fast as you can from

  • @mwakamatembo7606
    @mwakamatembo7606 28 дней назад +138

    This guy will mentally traumatize her

  • @ceecee8924
    @ceecee8924 28 дней назад +98

    I love all the women in this comment section recognizing the red flags. We've come a long way. So proud of us 😊

  • @SierraGINSPIRE
    @SierraGINSPIRE 28 дней назад +170

    When a man laughs at you RED FLAG !

  • @jazzyobiageli2053
    @jazzyobiageli2053 28 дней назад +128

    The way he talks to her is triggering and it’s painful to watch!!

  • @KelliKarine
    @KelliKarine 28 дней назад +194

    I just want to give her a HUG. He can Gooooooo! She doesn't deserve this... Noone does.

    • @TheMwendaa
      @TheMwendaa 28 дней назад +10

      She is sooo sweet! She really doesn't

    • @chinenyeodozi7677
      @chinenyeodozi7677 28 дней назад +5

      Give her a hug for being stoooooopid? He has shown her he has no respect for her and she keeps pushing him. She knows he doesn't want her.

    • @nununicole9408
      @nununicole9408 28 дней назад

      What did Chris do wrong exactly besides ask her to speak for herself and stop letting other people dictate how and when she moves as a grown woman

    • @malakaimusa1476
      @malakaimusa1476 27 дней назад +7

      ​@@nununicole9408It's the way he says it. He is mean. She is trying to communicate how she feels and he doesn't give a damn. What partner tells their other partner you were doing this pointless crying. Naaaahhh fam

    • @lamino8-tg6ro
      @lamino8-tg6ro 22 дня назад

      Some black women are so desperate for a man. This guy is so rude😏

  • @SpiritualQueenVibes
    @SpiritualQueenVibes 28 дней назад +129

    He's not even all that he really should calm down he's feeling himself way to much

    • @thepearl7289
      @thepearl7289 28 дней назад +10

      and, he becomes less and less each time he opens his mouth

    • @TY00000
      @TY00000 19 дней назад

      WAAAAAY too much

  • @patienceisavirtue
    @patienceisavirtue 28 дней назад +127

    He doesn’t like to be questioned?!?!?!!! Chile!

    • @GotGood77
      @GotGood77 28 дней назад +11

      I dated someone like this who said he didn't like to be questioned. Even about the simplest things and it brought me down

  • @dearmingmogul2010
    @dearmingmogul2010 28 дней назад +129

    I don’t know what show this is, but he doesn’t like her at all. If they are in a relationship he has no respect for her. She needs to leave him alone quickly !!!!

    • @elizabethasikpo2847
      @elizabethasikpo2847 28 дней назад +11

      He doesn't like women period. He said it in so many words in the 1st episode.

    • @dearmingmogul2010
      @dearmingmogul2010 28 дней назад

      @@elizabethasikpo2847 that makes so much sense. This was hard to watch and it’s just the clip. What show is this?

    • @pcserialmom4560
      @pcserialmom4560 26 дней назад

      @@elizabethasikpo2847
      Right, when he said he doesn’t trust women.

    • @pcserialmom4560
      @pcserialmom4560 26 дней назад

      @@dearmingmogul2010
      It’s called “The Never Ever Mets” and it comes on Fridays at 8pm ET. These are people who had an online relationship and just finally met for the first time on this show.

  • @Purpose-es8ce
    @Purpose-es8ce 28 дней назад +58

    Nothing has to be this hard. Let him be.

  • @afrocaribbelle
    @afrocaribbelle 28 дней назад +36

    "i don't really like being questioned." Girl, run!

  • @GotGood77
    @GotGood77 28 дней назад +70

    Ooo omg I know someone exactly like this. Rude and narcissist. He is a professional gas lighter x10. He is so full of himself. Then saying she's talking to him crazy when she is trying to communicate. This was actually triggering to watch omg

  • @desrenerankine9983
    @desrenerankine9983 28 дней назад +51

    Girl leave that boy too many red flags.. ruuuuun

  • @avionelle
    @avionelle 28 дней назад +37

    If gaslighting was a person...🤦🏾‍♀

  • @SierraChantal
    @SierraChantal 28 дней назад +19

    If a man has such a negative view of you and you aren't even in a serious relationship yet, you should just cut your losses.

  • @Neisyjay
    @Neisyjay 28 дней назад +99

    This is hard to watch

  • @sweetrose_5
    @sweetrose_5 28 дней назад +19

    Someone doesn't have to TELL you they DON'T want YOU... when
    THEIR actions show it 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @nellyismotivated7839
    @nellyismotivated7839 28 дней назад +34

    Chris is a narcissist! She can do much better.

  • @stvvbee
    @stvvbee 28 дней назад +19

    Why is this young lady still tolerating this crazy man?

  • @CynNage
    @CynNage 28 дней назад +24

    I don't know why it takes us to realize that dudes not be into us, we just forcing things 😭
    Go home nana, you deserve so much better ❤

    • @AmberColeman-gq1wn
      @AmberColeman-gq1wn 28 дней назад +3

      The pillow talking and mind games. When they isolate you, telling you one thing- then switching up the very next second. It shocks the system, especially if you honestly have no bad intentions towards the guy to begin with.
      A lot of times you actually do leave these kind of guys alone- then they come back around on the sly- trying to connect or communicate with you. I bet he’s that type too. SMH

  • @mauryabrown6949
    @mauryabrown6949 28 дней назад +11

    Using the word immature while being immature 🤯😳
    His emotional intelligence is telling, not being able to provide reassurance n clarity n the talking stagiest of a relationship is crazy

    • @nunucantgetin
      @nunucantgetin 24 дня назад

      hes gaslighting the HELL out of her and its scary to watch! now she just sits there and takes it and NOW sides with him?? 😧 he has her brainwashed it’s SAD. i wish she would’ve brought up to the therapist him saying he sleeps with women then stops talking to them a few days later! he continues to paint this picture of her being “annoying” and overly emotional. 😵‍💫

  • @rayecaters2u
    @rayecaters2u 28 дней назад +20

    God will bless Sandia with A 👑.
    My Haitian sista deserves better! 🇭🇹

  • @SunshineKK99
    @SunshineKK99 28 дней назад +11

    This is what emotional abuse looks like! Right here!!!

  • @kegomoditswehendriks5028
    @kegomoditswehendriks5028 28 дней назад +9

    This girl showing us how some of us are in relationships that are not working out

    • @Magique88888
      @Magique88888 25 дней назад

      You’re right that’s why people want her or so bad

  • @ddavis8988
    @ddavis8988 28 дней назад +29

    I wonder if this show has a quitting clause.
    Penalty for not making it to the end of the show.

    • @ddavis8988
      @ddavis8988 28 дней назад +4

      @camary99
      Nobody is disputing that. But there have been plenty of reality show participants who stayed on and kept trying because of the check. Can't ignore that. Right or wrong.

    • @camary99
      @camary99 28 дней назад +2

      @@ddavis8988 I totally agree! 👁️👈🫶

  • @lucys6996
    @lucys6996 28 дней назад +19

    Beautiful one. Please remove yourself from this madness. You deserve 1000x better than this mule.

  • @BeautyGraphicDesigner
    @BeautyGraphicDesigner 28 дней назад +18

    It’s giving lemme get my clout from this show 🤔 Homegirl should’ve left THE MOMENT he expressed that she’s not his girl. Like duhhh that’s obvious but why are you going out of your way to share that esp when you’re here to see if there’s any romantic potential. 🥴

  • @mwakamatembo7606
    @mwakamatembo7606 28 дней назад +15

    We need the full episode 😢

    • @LOfficielM
      @LOfficielM 28 дней назад

      If you have HBO Max, the episodes are on there.

  • @elizabethwangui8028
    @elizabethwangui8028 28 дней назад +26

    This guy is Toxic

  • @nashudaaugustine4686
    @nashudaaugustine4686 27 дней назад +5

    He is manipulating her, making her feel like she is crazy. He is emotionally abusing her. Making her feelings invalid and then saying everything is good and perfect. She needs to know her worth.

  • @MzSweetzTalk
    @MzSweetzTalk 28 дней назад +12

    If I can’t ask questions, it time to go!

  • @caramel-cutie065
    @caramel-cutie065 27 дней назад +7

    He acts like he can’t STAND her! The disrespect of it all is so cringe worthy. And does he realize if she goes home, he’s going home too? Uuggh.🤦🏽‍♀️. And one more thing, these two remind me of Paige and Chris from Married At First Sight. Jesus take the wheel.

  • @sheenahill9819
    @sheenahill9819 28 дней назад +10

    She’s dealing with a narcissist

  • @ZanasWorld2.0
    @ZanasWorld2.0 28 дней назад +7

    Is she doesn’t walk away now, she’ll learn the hard way.

  • @meandmy2cents309
    @meandmy2cents309 27 дней назад +4

    He’s not even looking at her. The disrespect is beyond ridiculous. Why is she still talking to him?! My bags would have been packed.

  • @twentyshadesofkay2882
    @twentyshadesofkay2882 18 дней назад +4

    This man showed her exactly who he was on day one when he was talking to the men. He's verbally abusive. She has low self esteem to allow him to keep disrespecting her.

  • @AshBoogie24
    @AshBoogie24 28 дней назад +10

    If she don’t leave that man !

  • @tonyathorpe2064
    @tonyathorpe2064 28 дней назад +10

    These two aren’t a match.

  • @shaneilrushing6337
    @shaneilrushing6337 28 дней назад +11

    He is mean smh she did really good holding her composure

  • @ivannaturner8276
    @ivannaturner8276 28 дней назад +14

    SOME OF THESE FOLKS ARE JUST FAKIN TO TO STAY ON TV!!🙄🙄🙄

    • @user-bk1hg3gl9j
      @user-bk1hg3gl9j 25 дней назад +2

      That would be her bc she can leave …

  • @stacyo.1080
    @stacyo.1080 27 дней назад +4

    Girl, he doesn’t like you so please move on. You deserve someone who is kind and loving to you. I hope you are no longer with this fool.

  • @MissLaddyd1
    @MissLaddyd1 28 дней назад +5

    Chris is there for the tv appearance. There will be no relationship. This is the start of an abusive relationship if she thinks it's worth her effort

  • @MarianSylla
    @MarianSylla 28 дней назад +13

    This guy used this lady to get on the show. He’s not remotely interested in having a relationship with her whatsoever. He just wanted screen time.

  • @juliajulia1835
    @juliajulia1835 24 дня назад +3

    He doesn't like her, she needs to realise this. He's always critical at the same time being mean about it.

  • @njokindungu6770
    @njokindungu6770 26 дней назад +3

    "I will show you then" Sadia when will you leave?? at this point I'm just blaming her

  • @no1strawberricherri
    @no1strawberricherri 27 дней назад +2

    I can’t wait to see this episode with their session with Dr. Ramani! It should reveal to Sandia everything she needs to know and how to stay away from Chris.

  • @cosmic_sunflower3864
    @cosmic_sunflower3864 13 дней назад +1

    When things get to this point, your absence and silence is all that man needs.

  • @priscillap7861
    @priscillap7861 28 дней назад +6

    He doesn’t like her

  • @wellok5778
    @wellok5778 28 дней назад +14

    Arrogant

  • @plovie9376
    @plovie9376 28 дней назад +8

    Honey you are worth more than this..he isn't what you want

  • @WALLACE0000
    @WALLACE0000 28 дней назад +12

    RRRRUUUUUUNNNNN YOUNG LADY

  • @lyrene6029
    @lyrene6029 21 день назад +2

    We accept the love we think we deserve. -unkown

  • @PM-xd6nv
    @PM-xd6nv 28 дней назад +3

    Sandia needs to go watch Tony Gaskin’s “He Don’t Want You!!”.

  • @shawnburt2265
    @shawnburt2265 23 дня назад +2

    Chris is disrespectful to her and treats and speaks to her like a child, girl run this man is no good for you

  • @katrinaraymond9726
    @katrinaraymond9726 25 дней назад +3

    I really cant see a match between these two, how did they get this far 😮

  • @MarjorieParaison
    @MarjorieParaison 28 дней назад +6

    Seafarer Chris is stressful and for the Miami screeeets

  • @relaxwithnature6532
    @relaxwithnature6532 24 дня назад +2

    He’s right because if he spoke to me like that it’s a wrap.

  • @alphineapondi2668
    @alphineapondi2668 28 дней назад +12

    That was cringe to watch 🤪

  • @Mary-os9eq
    @Mary-os9eq 26 дней назад +2

    Sandia, please give up. He is not worth it. The same way he got up and walked out on you , you need to reciprocate.❤

  • @hudihoodz
    @hudihoodz 28 дней назад +7

    If one quits, do they both go home?

  • @janedough6410
    @janedough6410 25 дней назад +2

    Sandia is fully aware of Chris mindset day one. IDK why she's hanging around for the abuse.

  • @lakia1015
    @lakia1015 28 дней назад +5

    RUN GIRL RUN

  • @asteriatuvatilamagnus3037
    @asteriatuvatilamagnus3037 16 дней назад +3

    she deserve better than that

  • @Sheiswavy2
    @Sheiswavy2 27 дней назад +2

    Oh honey he crazy and you can tell he was never allowed to express his emotions as a kid bc look how he is suppressing her emotions. She needs to leave asap

  • @stacylewis410
    @stacylewis410 28 дней назад +3

    He narcissistic. He don't like her instead just letting her go he breaking down her self esteem.

  • @EAO-ql8hk
    @EAO-ql8hk 22 дня назад +2

    He only said positive things about her and she only said negative things about him…Hmm, why might that be?🤔 I wonder

  • @checurtis6758
    @checurtis6758 28 дней назад +2

    Be done ma’am!

  • @malakaimusa1476
    @malakaimusa1476 27 дней назад +2

    Wow this guy is crazy. How do you speak to someone like this??? Don't even play me, if you want to leave you can leave. Naaah he doesn't like her at all. He is incredibly mean

  • @terriewithme144
    @terriewithme144 28 дней назад +2

    I can't wait for them to sit down with Dr Ramini!! A narcissist therapist.

  • @43francis81
    @43francis81 28 дней назад +2

    Get UP and RUN GIRL!!!

  • @toribabe1000
    @toribabe1000 16 дней назад +1

    She was raised well

  • @PhetogoNoore
    @PhetogoNoore 26 дней назад +1

    When someone shows you who they are believe them.

  • @itsquitab
    @itsquitab 9 дней назад

    OWN Production Companies has a talent for finding the most disrespectful men. Bring back All the Single Ladies

  • @billiangadi1186
    @billiangadi1186 23 дня назад

    Im in Kenya and could only watch the episodes on RUclips. How can i access the rest? The website says its not available in my region 🤦‍♀️

  • @twylamoses1471
    @twylamoses1471 17 дней назад +2

    He’s a narcissist he’s going emotionally damage this woman she need to go home

  • @tahwillow667
    @tahwillow667 24 дня назад +3

    He’s doing too much 😭

  • @MarthaBurleson
    @MarthaBurleson 9 дней назад

    When a man dont like to be questioned. He has secrets and is not genuine

  • @marieeleonaregeffrard81
    @marieeleonaregeffrard81 27 дней назад +3

    Sandia you can do MUCH better than this.

  • @bippityboppityboo2u
    @bippityboppityboo2u 27 дней назад +1

    His behind needs to be humbled in the worst way. Sis run and never look back..hes rhe type to teybtonqin you back only to neglect you even more...very toxic

  • @asimenyemwakyanjala1363
    @asimenyemwakyanjala1363 28 дней назад +2

    Forcing things. please let him be

  • @jnieviepierre4916
    @jnieviepierre4916 18 дней назад +2

    Girl run

  • @lovenessfrank95
    @lovenessfrank95 28 дней назад +4

    this guy irritates me

  • @webdev9977
    @webdev9977 25 дней назад

    Who would’ve known Oprah loved drama so much

  • @neshamojanay9423
    @neshamojanay9423 24 дня назад +1

    I don't think Safaree particularly care for Sandia.

  • @chanelmitchell1632
    @chanelmitchell1632 24 дня назад +2

    He's Abusive.

  • @Zee-mu1zj
    @Zee-mu1zj 28 дней назад +1

    He doesn't give a sh** about her, man! ...So sad

  • @LoneliseNtshuntshe-jr5ow
    @LoneliseNtshuntshe-jr5ow 22 дня назад +1

    Sandia you worth more than you, this dude is a boy who disrespect you, that's it I would never fight for a relationship with someone like him never

  • @hanneliehector7365
    @hanneliehector7365 18 дней назад +1

    How do we climb through the screen and handle this for lil sis..cause sir sir….oooooo🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤔

  • @workingmomnc3013
    @workingmomnc3013 28 дней назад +1

    Hes werid and they talked online 😂😂😂😂

  • @twentyshadesofkay2882
    @twentyshadesofkay2882 28 дней назад +2

    He's verbally abusive

  • @heathab...._-_
    @heathab...._-_ 28 дней назад +3

    He gives me gemini and Aquarius vibes

    • @afrocaribbelle
      @afrocaribbelle 28 дней назад +3

      He gives me i grew up without any father figure/ male role model to teach me how to be a man, so i learned from those redpill podcasts.

    • @serveriamanning6313
      @serveriamanning6313 28 дней назад +1

      Oh please..he gives azzhole vibes..idgaf about his sign.

  • @NikkiRich174
    @NikkiRich174 28 дней назад

    Honestly If She Like It I LOVE It... 🌹Colored 👓 & Narcissism Does Not Mix!

  • @chanelmitchell1632
    @chanelmitchell1632 24 дня назад

    "I'll show you then" and he has