To the woman in this story, you will overcome this hurdle after listening to your own story. Perhaps it's time to unleash your soul and move on. I feel that you are trying to move on but don't know how, however, retelling your story to May so she can air it, is the first step to filter out your emotions. May you learn and heal from this. It's not healthy to keep holding on to something that no longer exists.
@@ibleegyayongkay7620tos me me, ua cas koj them zoo li koj yog nws tus nraug hmoob dais siab tus poj niam nas? Tsis yog koj yog nws tus poj niam lod?? Put yourself in the woman’s shoes, if you were deeply involved with your childhood sweetheart, I am sure koj yeej rau nws txhai khaub thiab.
Crazy stalker vibes. No one wants their sons or daughters to meet a person like this. I know it’s easier said than done but it’s time to let go and move on with your life. Like you said in the beginning, you were both very young. It was young love. Sure you were crazy for one another at one point but he moved on. I can tell you right now, the dude is not reminiscing you when he hears this. He’s going to church and praying to god you forget about him. Men move on easily. An ex girlfriend is usually nothing more than that to them. But now to him, you are a crazy, pathetic, narcissistic stalker. He probably cant eat or sleep or live his life peacefully because of you. Move on for good, please. And that’s for your own good too.
@@npaujbaisyeah he made promises, when they were both 14 and 15. Get that over your head!! They barely got out of diapers at that age. People make promises to one another all the time and they still don’t end up together forever. Husband and wives make vows and they don’t even last. Get over it.
Young teenage love- yes, we all have our own story. Please move on, sis. Your ex-boyfriend already did. Parents can be very harsh, but remember you guys were still kids/babies when you both wanted to get married. I feel for you in your story, but stop searching for him cause he already stopped searching for you. You are only causing drama to him and his new wife. Go be content with your new husband. You said he loves you and treats you well so don't mess it up for yourself.
That's very true. In the end if a man finds someone else they will forget you no matter what. They are deferent from a woman.. So don't never trust a man they can change anytime..
This story hit home for me, I cried listening to your story. No one will understand unless they have gone through the same experience . To the sister in this story, forgive him, forgive yourself and love yourself. No one else will love you unless you love yourself and see your value. I’m glad you got some closing remarks from him, I hope that sharing your life story will help you close this hurtful chapter of your life so that you will be able to move forward with your life. Be grateful and be happy for what you have. What you hold today is what is meant to be yours.
I have gone thru very similar experience, but after i got well and got over him, i agreed it was stalker crazy. I totally understand her, but i still think she's psycho crazy obsessive and needs to get over him.
Love hurts, especially the ones that got left behide. Move on and live your live. Don’t live in the past anymore. We all grow…what was once important today will not be tomorrow. He left you and moved on a long time ago. You guys were never meant to be….love your husband and live your life. Don’t think about him anymore and let him live his life. Heal and mend your heart. Telling your story is the beginning….
I hope as an adult you now understand this guy never loved you. He only wanted what he couldn’t have, and once he had you and he knows you love him more than he loves you, his little love he had for you stopped. You destroyed your life for someone who didn’t deserve your love. I hope you can find peace
Wow lady this is no longer love. It's called obsession/mentalhealth issues. At some point you've got to learn to let go. You've got to understand that both of you were kids...move on lady!! I understand he made a promise but sometimes things don't work out. You're lucky they didn't call the police. Your obsession is too tense for anyone to deal with. You can't let go. Please find peace within yourself.
I hope you listen to your own story and heal your soul. If your husband today loves you, that's what you should focus on. Life is too short to waste on someone who manipulated you and was so easily able to move on. Love yourself.
Tus mi vivncaus aw, tsis txhob nco lub neej qub lawm mog. Tus txiv neej ntawv nws twb muab koj tso tseg hnub uas nws hu police tuaj coj koj rov qab lawm mog. Tsuas yog koj ruam es thiaj tseem nco nws los txog rau niaj hnub no xwb os, nyob rau hauv koj tus mi hluas nraug lub siab ces twb tsis muaj koj lawm mog. Kajtsij mus hlub2 tus ntawm koj ib sab xwb es koj lub kua muag thiaj tsis los mog. Ua ib siab tsis txhob nco nws es mus ua lib neej kom zoo es nws thiaj li nco koj mog yog koj tseem nco nws ces nws haj tseem yuav ntxub koj nawb tus mi vivncaus aw. Hlub koj tus txiv thiab hlub koj kheej mog es thiaj li muaj nqes nawb.
tus me muam aw... pab koj tu siab kawg li os mog, kuv los kuj zoo li koj zaj no thiab uas kuv tsis hloov siab tsis pauv cov lus cog tseg, wb sib tham tau 5 lub xyoo li mam tau kev tso cai los sib yuav ov mog, niaj hnub niam no wb kuj sib hlub ua neej zoo li ib zej ib tsoom lawm thiab, es kuv mloog koj zaj neej neeg no mas kuv nim quaj quaj hlub hlub koj kawg li os mog tus me muam aw....om,
Sister, I understand where you're coming from and feel so bad for you. If you love someone, you have to let them go as long as they're happy. Please love yourself and forget about your ex. Always live in the present and love the person next to you. May God heal your heart so you can love and live in peace ❤️
It is hard when she had put in so much trust in him and sacrificed so much to be with that boy. She lost her parents and siblings love. Of course, she would be angered and held onto the past when he betrayed her. After everything they both went through, how could the boy just give up on them. How can the girl accept something that can be so disbelievable to her and not something she can comprehend when the boy has promised so much to her. She needed closure, and he didn't give her that. He made up a lie about her killing his bird to end things between them. Truthfully, he probably just got tired of their situation and developed feelings for the girl he was hanging out with after her. I hope this woman finds peace in herself before she passes so her soul can move on. 😢
@@nancy2vue Nancy, I do agree with you. But sometimes it's better to not get any closure. No matter what the answer is, we will try to deny it. I know it's not easy to move on because I have been through it myself. However, I learned to forgive, forget and love myself. Every day is a new day to start a something different and I hope she can move past the pain. 🫂🫂
@ms.mainou So have I, I've been through it too. I tried to forget, but it kept coming to hunt me, giving no peace to me. After 5 years, I finally got my closure with that person and peace, I have finally received. I was able to move on mentally, spiritually, and physically. There was no more lingering inside of me. I'm sure she is still angry and unacceptable about him giving up so suddenly after everything, in hopes that he would have regrets not choosing her. Only she can make that choice for herself to save her soul even though she didn't get the closure she needed. People deal with this situation differently, ither difficultly or simply. Mai Nou, I don't know what you went through, but I am glad you're able to let go and move on without closure. I had it a little difficult because that person took what is special of mine, kept me hanging around, harassed me, played the victim, etc. He fucked with my mind, and emotion. I have beliefs he would love me honestly again, but surely, he never did. It took 5 years to stay strong and not return to him, but I kept going back because there were answers I needed. Later, I realized what was going on, and it all made sense to me. I enforced for closure and was able to free myself from that situation. Honestly, it is different from everyone, and her situation really messed her up mentally and emotionally. It is all on her to deal with it. Nobody can tell her what to do unless she come to realize it herself.
Leejnus daisiab.., tus vicncaus txivneej ces lawm tau saj yus tag ces lawm muab yus tsij kibnyiab os…, I feel your pains.., peb pojniam nrog tus txivneej twg thawjzaug ces peb yeej ciasiab rau tus txivneej ntawd os…let him go he doesn’t deserves you
Koj zaj dab neeg tu siab kawg tab si nco ntsoov hais tias hlub koj tus kheej ua ntej koj tus hluas nraug ntshes koj xav hnov in los lus tseeb ntawm nws xwb zoo qhov koj ua tau ib siab mus tau lub neej zoo lawm tab si tick hnub no txhib nco txog nws lawm os mog ua lub neej zoo zoo kom lwm hnub nws laus laus nws thiaj khuv xim koj xwb mog
Girl, I wouldn't even give this dude the time and day with this story! He totally ruined the good in your relationship many times! I wouldn't miss him, but feel like I wasted tears and energy on him. Don't waste anymore time thinking about him.
Cas yuav hais tau tu siab ua luaj li os sister aw lub neej thaum hluas ces tsis paub tab dab tsi ces thiaj li ua mus ua los li no es ziag no laus lawm ces tsis txhob khuv xim es rau 2 siab ua u lub neej xeem nws ntag ho es Cas tseem pheej yuav khuv xim nws ua dab tsi na
Nrog koj tu siab kawg li os me niam laus. Ua ib siab tso nws mus os mog.... koj lub neej thiaj li kaj siab. Hlub koj tus kheej os. Txhob muab koj lub neej pov tseg rau ib tug neeg ua tsis hlub tsis nco txog koj lawm os.
I like this tone better than those stories that the person told his/her story gave lectures. It’s even harder to listen to when they’re the one in the wrong or the annoying one. 😅
May didn't used to do that. Her older stories were really just stories. Don't know what happened cause all the new ones are all lectures. They aren't even stories anymore.
@@monkeybanana9269 I agree. Now, I would usually go to the comments before listening to her stories so I don't get frustrated. It's like why tf is a cheater giving lectures to complain about his wife, her family, and children when he was the one that fucked it up??! OMG! The audacity!!🙄🙄
kav tsij ua ib siab os.txhua yam ces yog tim yus xwb os mog kav tsij mus nrhiav ua dua tus tshiab os. kev hlub nyob g tau mus ib txhis koj g tau taub txog txoj kev hlub os
Ca zoo li Kj g paub muaj Siab muaj ntsw li na luag niam luag txiv twb g nyiam yu e yu ho khuv xim luag tu tub ua luaj li na nw twb g hlub Kj lawm na Kj nriav txhua txoj hau kev ntsib nw lo nw twb g ke Kj yuav tsum paub tu siab thiab ri siab hlo mog tu me niam tsev aw txiv neej ce thaum luag muaj dua tu tshiab lawm ce Kj tsua yog ib vuag dua rau luag lawm xwb
Koj mas yog siab dev tiag2 li lau, cas koj yuav tsis paub txaj muag thiab tu siab kiag li os....zaum tas zaum dua lawv tsev neeg twb tsis tos txais koj na, txhua zaus lawv hu police tuaj coj koj tas li los koj siab dev tiag2 li os.
A promise as kids is nothing…yall were young n dumb…you spent half your lifetime not doing better but chasing after someone who wants nothing from you. Like you, the more someone chase after u the more u hate them…it wasnt cus u loved him its more of you wanted someone that you couldnt have…time to let go woman!!
Zaj dab neeg no cas yuav tu tu siab ua luaj li og thov kom nkawv rov tau los sib yuav ib zaug ntxiv rau yav laus og..kV mloog es kV nim los los kua muag li og 😭😭😭
Me nkauj hmoob!!! Cas yuav hais tau tu siab ua luaj li ko nas lov ua rau kuv me kua muag poob si laws ntxaum ntxiav kuv tej nqaws tsho ua rau tsim dheev txog tus me neeg uas kuv hlub thiab nco 😢😢😢😢😢😢😂😂😢😢😢😢😢
Tu viv ncau ca koj g txawj xav li yog kv ce twb tu siab thaum nw lub lawv tuaj ntes koj lawm mu nriav kom tau tu neeg hlub koj rau siab ua you lub neej kom zoo rau nw khuvxim mog ca peb ua neeg nyob nim ib leeg muaj ib zajdab neeg tu siab os 😢
I think what she needed was closure. I went thru something similar for 10 years over a dude who cheated on his gf. But the simple truth is he was just a f boy. He's still single to this day. I believe he got what he deserved.
Sister, ua ib siab txhob nco nws lawm. Life goes on. Nws txoj kev phem rau koj, yog ua kom koj ua taus ib siab. He's not worth for your time and your love. Txhob tig ntsia ncaj nws lawm mog. He loved you but not enough to protect and married you.
G sib tau ces yg qhov zoo lm o me viv ncaus aw. K muaj zaj zoo li kj thiab ua2 thaum kawg tau kiag twb g txog twg o yeej kawg rau qhov nyia mus nyia xb vim lawv tsev neeg twb g nyiam yus
Stop being crazy and let him go. You went off to marry and he did too. Move on with your life stop dreaming on a relationship you will never have. He not going to come back to you.
Tus neeg luag tsis hlub yus lawm ces ua ib siab os mog txhob muab koj lub neej los xiam ib zaug tag ib zaug tuaj es pheej tsis hlub tus nyob ntawm koj ib sab but tus koj pheej khuv xim thiab tsis tau xwb nawb! Koj ua li no rau txhua lub neej koj muaj ces koj cov neej yuav liam sim tag txhua zaus! Tus neeg luag tsis hlub yus lawm ces tso mus txhob nco thiab khuv xim qhib siab mus hlub tus yus tau yus yuav niaj hnub puag yus txhua lub sijhawm xwb mog..
Sorry i don't feel sad or sorry bc this is jus puppy love that u never got closure for. U guys were jus kids. I don't approve kids marrying kids either. U need to experience real love, not puppy love.
Madddd stalker vibes, regardless if she needed closure or not, he made it clear he wanted nothing to do with her. He’s still an ass, don’t get me wrong. But not everyone is promised closure, and promise are not made to always last. Imagine if the roles were reversed, she would’ve got a protection order already. Smh.. Good story tho May! Lol
oh my,,,,, Woman he no longer loves you. Only love those who love you back. In the end, the only person that really loves you is yourself. Love yourself first. Please wake up and smell the coffee. Nws tsis hlub koj lawm. Txhob tus siab.
Tus sister, rov hlub yus tus kheej. Let him go, he’s got his own family and has moved on a long time ago. The past is in the past, let it all go. Love your now husband and move on.
Xob tu siab mog me Niam tsev, Koj yuav tsum xav hais tias Neb twb sib Zog npaum li ntawd lawm twb tsi sib tau ces Neb tsi Yog Ntawv Niam Txiv thiaj tsi sib tau ces Ua ib siab tu siab nrho Xob hais txog, Xob xav txog, Thiab Xob nco2 lawm thiaj qab siab Ua Neej thiab Noj qab nyob zoo nawb mog. Yog koj Ua tshaj qhov kod lawm ces Yog koj raug tus dab Nkauj Nraug lawm xwb os mog. Qhia rau koj paub hais tias muaj dab no nawb, dab mas muaj tiag2 ov. Tsi Yog Kuv dag Koj, tsi Yog Kuv hem Koj os mog.
Dang, you are crazy. As a mother, you’re a bad kid. As your ex boyfriend’s wife, you’re a crazy scary stalker. You got your answer the day he got married girl. Tsi paub tu siab li.
How is he still leej nus dai siab when he no longer wants and loves you? He loved you, but when he found someone else, he only used the parents as the excuse to get away from you. You need to stop trying to be a homewrecker and a stalker. He doesn't want you so move on if you have any pride and shame.
Sau koj lub suab mu hlub koj Tu txij nkawm os tu me viv ncau yog koj tau nw lawm xyov nw pua hlub koj li koj tu tam sim no os me viv ncau koj xav yuam kev lawm os e koj thiaj tseem pheej nkim sij hawm rau nw os txiv neej siab phem heev li os.
Wow, you really loved him. I can hear your pain and struggle in this story. Too bad he didn’t have the same love towards you! Move on and make a better life for yourself. That’s the only way, they will regret you. He’s not worthy of you!
A woman's love is as deep as the ocean and your ❤ for him is so deep that youre still hurting to this day. A person who says one thing and does another can drive a person crazy to the point of stalking. However, its all in the past. U got the closure u need when he call the cops on you ces tu siab nhro rau tu neeg tsis hlub yus tiag es ua ib siab nawb. Live and enjoy life. It is true that when you live life freely and happily they will have some sort of regret. Let him have that moment.
Txhob nco lawm os sister aw tus txiv neej mloog2 niam txiv lus li no niam txiv twb tsis nyiam kj txawm kj yuav tau los yeej tsis kawg os kav tsij r2 siab ua neej xwb txhob nkim lub sij hawm mus nco ib tug neeg ua r yus tag txoj kev cia siab ua neej os r siab ua neej xeem nws xwb lawv thiaj khum xim thiaj nco yus os mog
Omg, the stress u put yur parents thru! I hope your kids never put u thru such a thing. I feel so sad for your parents for having a daughter like u who caused them stress over and over again.
This story is sad and hits home. I experienced similar hurt and betrayal; however, you need to find it in yourself to let him go. You also have to forgive yourself. Love yourself.
This story is kind of like my ex and I. My ex-girlfriend told me: "I love you but I don't like you. I have no feelings for you". Sounds like he loves you but he no longer has feelings for you because he met someone new who he truly likes. Thus the saying, "Seasons change, people change, feelings change".
Move on lady, if he truly loves you he won't left you to married someone else. Paub tu siab thiab mas. Zoo li ko es lawv thiaj ntxub koj npaum ko mas.😢
Txiv neej lub siab yeej phem lim hiam mog tus vicaus . Thaum lawv muaj tus tshiab lawm ces tej lus nws hais rau koj yeej oli tag lawm nws yeej tsis hlub koj li tej lus cog tseg . Zoo siab rau koj lub neej Nrog koj tus txiv cov menyuam tsis txhob nco tus neeg liam siab phem mog tus vicaus
To the woman in this story, you will overcome this hurdle after listening to your own story. Perhaps it's time to unleash your soul and move on. I feel that you are trying to move on but don't know how, however, retelling your story to May so she can air it, is the first step to filter out your emotions. May you learn and heal from this. It's not healthy to keep holding on to something that no longer exists.
Tus pojniam phem ces yuav nyob qhov twg los yeej ua kom yus tej niam txiv muaj teeb meem vim nws xav tau yus tus txiv mus ua nws tus
@@ibleegyayongkay7620tos me me, ua cas koj them zoo li koj yog nws tus nraug hmoob dais siab tus poj niam nas? Tsis yog koj yog nws tus poj niam lod?? Put yourself in the woman’s shoes, if you were deeply involved with your childhood sweetheart, I am sure koj yeej rau nws txhai khaub thiab.
Nrog koj tu siab kawg tus tswv hauv zaj neej neeg..😢😢😢
Guys take this as a lesson. Don't promise a girl if you can't hold your end of the bargin. Some girls really take what you say and promise to heart.
True, but it goes both ways also.
Crazy stalker vibes. No one wants their sons or daughters to meet a person like this. I know it’s easier said than done but it’s time to let go and move on with your life. Like you said in the beginning, you were both very young. It was young love. Sure you were crazy for one another at one point but he moved on. I can tell you right now, the dude is not reminiscing you when he hears this. He’s going to church and praying to god you forget about him. Men move on easily. An ex girlfriend is usually nothing more than that to them. But now to him, you are a crazy, pathetic, narcissistic stalker. He probably cant eat or sleep or live his life peacefully because of you. Move on for good, please. And that’s for your own good too.
He made promises to her and then suddenly dropped her. All she needed was closure.
@@npaujbaishe closed the chapter when he got married to his wife and when he called the cops on her. What else does she need?
A F'ing Men! This girl is crazzzzy!
Omg, lady. Be smart, have some pride in yourself, and move on.
@@npaujbaisyeah he made promises, when they were both 14 and 15. Get that over your head!! They barely got out of diapers at that age. People make promises to one another all the time and they still don’t end up together forever. Husband and wives make vows and they don’t even last. Get over it.
Young teenage love- yes, we all have our own story.
Please move on, sis. Your ex-boyfriend already did. Parents can be very harsh, but remember you guys were still kids/babies when you both wanted to get married. I feel for you in your story, but stop searching for him cause he already stopped searching for you. You are only causing drama to him and his new wife.
Go be content with your new husband. You said he loves you and treats you well so don't mess it up for yourself.
Never love someone more than yourself.
That's very true.
In the end if a man finds someone else they will forget you no matter what. They are deferent from a woman.. So don't never trust a man they can change anytime..
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Yog kawg hnub no kuv mam paub
This story hit home for me, I cried listening to your story. No one will understand unless they have gone through the same experience . To the sister in this story, forgive him, forgive yourself and love yourself. No one else will love you unless you love yourself and see your value. I’m glad you got some closing remarks from him, I hope that sharing your life story will help you close this hurtful chapter of your life so that you will be able to move forward with your life. Be grateful and be happy for what you have. What you hold today is what is meant to be yours.
I have gone thru very similar experience, but after i got well and got over him, i agreed it was stalker crazy. I totally understand her, but i still think she's psycho crazy obsessive and needs to get over him.
Love hurts, especially the ones that got left behide. Move on and live your live. Don’t live in the past anymore. We all grow…what was once important today will not be tomorrow. He left you and moved on a long time ago. You guys were never meant to be….love your husband and live your life. Don’t think about him anymore and let him live his life. Heal and mend your heart. Telling your story is the beginning….
I hope as an adult you now understand this guy never loved you. He only wanted what he couldn’t have, and once he had you and he knows you love him more than he loves you, his little love he had for you stopped. You destroyed your life for someone who didn’t deserve your love. I hope you can find peace
Wow lady this is no longer love. It's called obsession/mentalhealth issues. At some point you've got to learn to let go. You've got to understand that both of you were kids...move on lady!! I understand he made a promise but sometimes things don't work out. You're lucky they didn't call the police. Your obsession is too tense for anyone to deal with. You can't let go. Please find peace within yourself.
I hope you listen to your own story and heal your soul. If your husband today loves you, that's what you should focus on. Life is too short to waste on someone who manipulated you and was so easily able to move on. Love yourself.
Tus mi vivncaus aw, tsis txhob nco lub neej qub lawm mog. Tus txiv neej ntawv nws twb muab koj tso tseg hnub uas nws hu police tuaj coj koj rov qab lawm mog. Tsuas yog koj ruam es thiaj tseem nco nws los txog rau niaj hnub no xwb os, nyob rau hauv koj tus mi hluas nraug lub siab ces twb tsis muaj koj lawm mog. Kajtsij mus hlub2 tus ntawm koj ib sab xwb es koj lub kua muag thiaj tsis los mog. Ua ib siab tsis txhob nco nws es mus ua lib neej kom zoo es nws thiaj li nco koj mog yog koj tseem nco nws ces nws haj tseem yuav ntxub koj nawb tus mi vivncaus aw. Hlub koj tus txiv thiab hlub koj kheej mog es thiaj li muaj nqes nawb.
This story is so sad. He broke his promise to her. I think she just needed closure. I hope she find happiness 😢
tus me muam aw... pab koj tu siab kawg li os mog, kuv los kuj zoo li koj zaj no thiab uas kuv tsis hloov siab tsis pauv cov lus cog tseg, wb sib tham tau 5 lub xyoo li mam tau kev tso cai los sib yuav ov mog, niaj hnub niam no wb kuj sib hlub ua neej zoo li ib zej ib tsoom lawm thiab, es kuv mloog koj zaj neej neeg no mas kuv nim quaj quaj hlub hlub koj kawg li os mog tus me muam aw....om,
I’ve gone through this. Life is too short. There’s someone else even more special waiting for you.
Sister, I understand where you're coming from and feel so bad for you. If you love someone, you have to let them go as long as they're happy. Please love yourself and forget about your ex. Always live in the present and love the person next to you. May God heal your heart so you can love and live in peace ❤️
It is hard when she had put in so much trust in him and sacrificed so much to be with that boy. She lost her parents and siblings love. Of course, she would be angered and held onto the past when he betrayed her. After everything they both went through, how could the boy just give up on them. How can the girl accept something that can be so disbelievable to her and not something she can comprehend when the boy has promised so much to her. She needed closure, and he didn't give her that. He made up a lie about her killing his bird to end things between them. Truthfully, he probably just got tired of their situation and developed feelings for the girl he was hanging out with after her.
I hope this woman finds peace in herself before she passes so her soul can move on. 😢
@@nancy2vue Nancy, I do agree with you. But sometimes it's better to not get any closure. No matter what the answer is, we will try to deny it. I know it's not easy to move on because I have been through it myself. However, I learned to forgive, forget and love myself. Every day is a new day to start a something different and I hope she can move past the pain. 🫂🫂
@ms.mainou So have I, I've been through it too. I tried to forget, but it kept coming to hunt me, giving no peace to me. After 5 years, I finally got my closure with that person and peace, I have finally received. I was able to move on mentally, spiritually, and physically. There was no more lingering inside of me. I'm sure she is still angry and unacceptable about him giving up so suddenly after everything, in hopes that he would have regrets not choosing her. Only she can make that choice for herself to save her soul even though she didn't get the closure she needed. People deal with this situation differently, ither difficultly or simply. Mai Nou, I don't know what you went through, but I am glad you're able to let go and move on without closure. I had it a little difficult because that person took what is special of mine, kept me hanging around, harassed me, played the victim, etc. He fucked with my mind, and emotion. I have beliefs he would love me honestly again, but surely, he never did. It took 5 years to stay strong and not return to him, but I kept going back because there were answers I needed. Later, I realized what was going on, and it all made sense to me. I enforced for closure and was able to free myself from that situation. Honestly, it is different from everyone, and her situation really messed her up mentally and emotionally. It is all on her to deal with it. Nobody can tell her what to do unless she come to realize it herself.
Leejnus daisiab.., tus vicncaus txivneej ces lawm tau saj yus tag ces lawm muab yus tsij kibnyiab os…, I feel your pains.., peb pojniam nrog tus txivneej twg thawjzaug ces peb yeej ciasiab rau tus txivneej ntawd os…let him go he doesn’t deserves you
Koj zaj dab neeg tu siab kawg tab si nco ntsoov hais tias hlub koj tus kheej ua ntej koj tus hluas nraug ntshes koj xav hnov in los lus tseeb ntawm nws xwb zoo qhov koj ua tau ib siab mus tau lub neej zoo lawm tab si tick hnub no txhib nco txog nws lawm os mog ua lub neej zoo zoo kom lwm hnub nws laus laus nws thiaj khuv xim koj xwb mog
Girl, I wouldn't even give this dude the time and day with this story! He totally ruined the good in your relationship many times! I wouldn't miss him, but feel like I wasted tears and energy on him. Don't waste anymore time thinking about him.
Tus neeg Yus hlub tshaj ces yeej yog tus Yus tsis tau. Tu siab heev.
Cas yuav hais tau tu siab ua luaj li os sister aw lub neej thaum hluas ces tsis paub tab dab tsi ces thiaj li ua mus ua los li no es ziag no laus lawm ces tsis txhob khuv xim es rau 2 siab ua u lub neej xeem nws ntag ho es Cas tseem pheej yuav khuv xim nws ua dab tsi na
Txawm yog nkauj, nraug sib hlub npaum licas tau cog lus txij ntuj los thaum kawg nws twb tsis xaiv yus lawm ces yus yog tus swb lawm e ua ib siab yus rov hlub yus tus kheej xwb saib yus kom muaj nqis . Yog nws twb ntxeev siab tau rau yus lawm ces nws yog yus tus yeeb ncuab lawm xwb tsis yog leejnus dai siab os niamtais aw..
Wow such a heart breaking story. I as a parent will not interfere with my children’s love life but let them learn and grow from it.
Tu siab kawg li o rau2 siab ua kj lub neeej kom zoo xb o
Nrog koj tu siab kawg li os me niam laus. Ua ib siab tso nws mus os mog.... koj lub neej thiaj li kaj siab. Hlub koj tus kheej os. Txhob muab koj lub neej pov tseg rau ib tug neeg ua tsis hlub tsis nco txog koj lawm os.
😢😢mloog thaum xaus kiag tu siab kawg li os sister aw 😢😢ua ib siab mog cia ua ib zaj neej neeg lawm xwb mog
I like this tone better than those stories that the person told his/her story gave lectures. It’s even harder to listen to when they’re the one in the wrong or the annoying one. 😅
Seriously she needs to stop giving lectures in between the story. We just want to listen to the story only
@@jasmineflower7115it's the people who wants to lecture, she only tells them how krazy people. Lol
I agree! The lecture are boring asf!
May didn't used to do that. Her older stories were really just stories. Don't know what happened cause all the new ones are all lectures. They aren't even stories anymore.
@@monkeybanana9269 I agree. Now, I would usually go to the comments before listening to her stories so I don't get frustrated. It's like why tf is a cheater giving lectures to complain about his wife, her family, and children when he was the one that fucked it up??! OMG! The audacity!!🙄🙄
kav tsij ua ib siab os.txhua yam ces yog tim yus xwb os mog kav tsij mus nrhiav ua dua tus tshiab os. kev hlub nyob g tau mus ib txhis koj g tau taub txog txoj kev hlub os
Vim koj lo lu tia tseem hlub kv
Kv thiaj li mu ua neej g kawg
Ib nrab neej lawm lo g tuag siab
Truth is, he never loved you enough. He doesn’t deserve your love. I hope you find happiness. Men ain’t $hit. Remember that🙂
He was a kid and didn’t know what love was. Even some men don’t know what love is.
Yog koj txawj tu siab ces txhob xav txhob hais txog tus txiv neej ntawm kom lawm ma
ฟังไปร้องไห้ไป.ฉันมีชีวิตที่คล้ายๆแบบนี้.ช่วงที่ไกล้ตอนจบนี่ฉันมีน้ำตาไหลเป็นทางเลยพี่สาวถึงคุณจะพรากคนรักไปให้คนอื่นก็ถือเสียว่าศิลไม่เสมอกันเลยไม่ใช่เนื้อคู่.โอ่ฉันสงสารควาใรักของคุณมาก.
I like this story. Many of us keep this old love in our hearts and thoughts.
Ca zoo li Kj g paub muaj Siab muaj ntsw li na luag niam luag txiv twb g nyiam yu e yu ho khuv xim luag tu tub ua luaj li na nw twb g hlub Kj lawm na Kj nriav txhua txoj hau kev ntsib nw lo nw twb g ke Kj yuav tsum paub tu siab thiab ri siab hlo mog tu me niam tsev aw txiv neej ce thaum luag muaj dua tu tshiab lawm ce Kj tsua yog ib vuag dua rau luag lawm xwb
Thaum nw tau yus txaus2 lawm ce nw yeej ua tau ib siab lawm os txiv neej lub siab na
Koj mas yog siab dev tiag2 li lau, cas koj yuav tsis paub txaj muag thiab tu siab kiag li os....zaum tas zaum dua lawv tsev neeg twb tsis tos txais koj na, txhua zaus lawv hu police tuaj coj koj tas li los koj siab dev tiag2 li os.
I think very few will experience true love soul mate kind of love in their lifetime, meaning it goes both ways to the end.
A promise as kids is nothing…yall were young n dumb…you spent half your lifetime not doing better but chasing after someone who wants nothing from you. Like you, the more someone chase after u the more u hate them…it wasnt cus u loved him its more of you wanted someone that you couldnt have…time to let go woman!!
For real. She could have focused on chasing after a career instead of a man. 🙄
Zaj dab neeg no cas yuav tu tu siab ua luaj li og thov kom nkawv rov tau los sib yuav ib zaug ntxiv rau yav laus og..kV mloog es kV nim los los kua muag li og 😭😭😭
Thov qhuas koj txoj kev hlub loj kawg
Me nkauj hmoob!!! Cas yuav hais tau tu siab ua luaj li ko nas lov ua rau kuv me kua muag poob si laws ntxaum ntxiav kuv tej nqaws tsho ua rau tsim dheev txog tus me neeg uas kuv hlub thiab nco 😢😢😢😢😢😢😂😂😢😢😢😢😢
Mob siab yuav.tsuag tiag2.thaum ib.tug.neeg yus.hlub tshaj plaws hai rau.yus tias.kom.yus qia yus lub siab.rau ib.tug.ntshiab tus siab.ib sim neej😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Tu viv ncau ca koj g txawj xav li yog kv ce twb tu siab thaum nw lub lawv tuaj ntes koj lawm mu nriav kom tau tu neeg hlub koj rau siab ua you lub neej kom zoo rau nw khuvxim mog ca peb ua neeg nyob nim ib leeg muaj ib zajdab neeg tu siab os 😢
I know it it’s hard
Mob npaum cas ces nco npaum Ntawv thiab txhais khau no leej twg tsis tau rau ces hais los tsis paub.
Ua cas koj tsis yog kuv tus hlub lau...Vim koj txoj kev hlub thiab kuv txoj ruaj khov tib yam nkaus...
Tsuas muaj yus hlub kom tau lawv xwb, tsis muaj hnub lawv yuav hlub kom tau yus li...
I think what she needed was closure. I went thru something similar for 10 years over a dude who cheated on his gf. But the simple truth is he was just a f boy. He's still single to this day. I believe he got what he deserved.
That's right. He was just a boy. So was she. But she took it far 😢
Cas peb poj niam txhoj kev ruam es txiv neej dag ib ob lus rau yus xw los nim to2 ua neej laus tag los lub siab tseem mob o 😢😢
Let go of the broken promises.
Sister, ua ib siab txhob nco nws lawm. Life goes on. Nws txoj kev phem rau koj, yog ua kom koj ua taus ib siab. He's not worth for your time and your love. Txhob tig ntsia ncaj nws lawm mog. He loved you but not enough to protect and married you.
G sib tau ces yg qhov zoo lm o me viv ncaus aw. K muaj zaj zoo li kj thiab ua2 thaum kawg tau kiag twb g txog twg o yeej kawg rau qhov nyia mus nyia xb vim lawv tsev neeg twb g nyiam yus
Stop being crazy and let him go. You went off to marry and he did too. Move on with your life stop dreaming on a relationship you will never have. He not going to come back to you.
Koj p nco thaum i wb mu ua si lawm os leej nus dai siab😭😭😭
Promise are meant to be broke so never promise anyone if you can do it
Tus neeg luag tsis hlub yus lawm ces ua ib siab os mog txhob muab koj lub neej los xiam ib zaug tag ib zaug tuaj es pheej tsis hlub tus nyob ntawm koj ib sab but tus koj pheej khuv xim thiab tsis tau xwb nawb! Koj ua li no rau txhua lub neej koj muaj ces koj cov neej yuav liam sim tag txhua zaus! Tus neeg luag tsis hlub yus lawm ces tso mus txhob nco thiab khuv xim qhib siab mus hlub tus yus tau yus yuav niaj hnub puag yus txhua lub sijhawm xwb mog..
Koj yog ib tug ntxhais kawv ncauj kawg thiab
Sorry i don't feel sad or sorry bc this is jus puppy love that u never got closure for. U guys were jus kids. I don't approve kids marrying kids either. U need to experience real love, not puppy love.
Madddd stalker vibes, regardless if she needed closure or not, he made it clear he wanted nothing to do with her. He’s still an ass, don’t get me wrong. But not everyone is promised closure, and promise are not made to always last. Imagine if the roles were reversed, she would’ve got a protection order already. Smh..
Good story tho May! Lol
Nice love story
oh my,,,,, Woman he no longer loves you. Only love those who love you back. In the end, the only person that really loves you is yourself. Love yourself first. Please wake up and smell the coffee. Nws tsis hlub koj lawm. Txhob tus siab.
Tus sister, rov hlub yus tus kheej. Let him go, he’s got his own family and has moved on a long time ago. The past is in the past, let it all go. Love your now husband and move on.
Xob tu siab mog me Niam tsev, Koj yuav tsum xav hais tias Neb twb sib Zog npaum li ntawd lawm twb tsi sib tau ces Neb tsi Yog Ntawv Niam Txiv thiaj tsi sib tau ces Ua ib siab tu siab nrho Xob hais txog, Xob xav txog, Thiab Xob nco2 lawm thiaj qab siab Ua Neej thiab Noj qab nyob zoo nawb mog. Yog koj Ua tshaj qhov kod lawm ces Yog koj raug tus dab Nkauj Nraug lawm xwb os mog. Qhia rau koj paub hais tias muaj dab no nawb, dab mas muaj tiag2 ov. Tsi Yog Kuv dag Koj, tsi Yog Kuv hem Koj os mog.
Ua ib siab os. Tsis need tus tsis hlub tiag
Dang, you are crazy. As a mother, you’re a bad kid. As your ex boyfriend’s wife, you’re a crazy scary stalker. You got your answer the day he got married girl. Tsi paub tu siab li.
Xiam tiag tiag
How is he still leej nus dai siab when he no longer wants and loves you? He loved you, but when he found someone else, he only used the parents as the excuse to get away from you.
You need to stop trying to be a homewrecker and a stalker. He doesn't want you so move on if you have any pride and shame.
He's her leej nus dai siab. She doesn't necessarily have to be his leej muam dai siab and sadly is doesn't sound like it.
Don’t be a crazy stalker it will only make you look low and desperate 😅
Cas tu siab luaj li os txiv neej ma siab phem heev li os 😭😭😭😭😭
Sau koj lub suab mu hlub koj Tu txij nkawm os tu me viv ncau yog koj tau nw lawm xyov nw pua hlub koj li koj tu tam sim no os me viv ncau koj xav yuam kev lawm os e koj thiaj tseem pheej nkim sij hawm rau nw os txiv neej siab phem heev li os.
Let it be a learning lesson to be better and make wiser decisions on life. Txhob tawv tawv ncauj vim yus niam yus txiv yeej hlub yus tshaj.
Wow, you really loved him. I can hear your pain and struggle in this story. Too bad he didn’t have the same love towards you! Move on and make a better life for yourself. That’s the only way, they will regret you. He’s not worthy of you!
Txob nco os cov neeg siab phem zoo li ko ces yuav los tsis zoo os mog
Txivneej coob coob os me ntxhais aw..lws tus tseem zoo tshaj os tus tsi tau yog tus tsi zoo mog qhib siab mus hlub lwm tus nawb
Kho sb heev os niam ntsuab teev
Omg girl, just move on. He already forgotten about you. I would be scary, too, if i were him or she wife. You're too obsessed with him.
May vaj kuv nyiag nyian koj heev, koj zoo ntxim hlub tiag tiag. Tus me neeg zoo nkaujes!.
A woman's love is as deep as the ocean and your ❤ for him is so deep that youre still hurting to this day. A person who says one thing and does another can drive a person crazy to the point of stalking. However, its all in the past. U got the closure u need when he call the cops on you ces tu siab nhro rau tu neeg tsis hlub yus tiag es ua ib siab nawb. Live and enjoy life. It is true that when you live life freely and happily they will have some sort of regret. Let him have that moment.
I was hoping this story was for me. 😅😅😅
Yog luag twb tsis hlub yus thaum pib tsis kam yuav yus lawm. Txawm yus yuav ua npaum cas los yeej tsis zoo os mw viv ncaus aw. Txawm koj tau nws los ntshe lub neej yeej tsis kawg. Yog luag tsis kam yuav yus lawm yus tseem mus tsim txom nws lub neej ces tseem yuav muaj kev txaum rau yus thiab. Yus tau2 siab mus pib yus lub neej xwb os me viv ncaus. Nws tsis yog yus tus yus thiaj tsis tau.
Poj hmoob es quav dev dhau li lawm os lawv twb hais lus tas2 cas yuav ruam ua luaj li os
Neb kuj tawv cauj kawg kiag
Nws twb ntxeev siab thiab ua txaus nkaus rau koj lawm es tseem khuv xim dab tsis os. Kav tsij moob siab ua koj lub neej kom zoo. Koj niam mob siab yuav ciaj yuav tuag los nws puag nws tus poj niam sov so twb tsis paub koj txoj kev mob.
Wow, mob siab ua luaj os lawv aw
Damn woman. MOVE ON!! you need real professional therapy if you're this stuck on the past.
ho ca muaj li no thiab os hlub yus tus keej ma
Txhob nco lawm os sister aw tus txiv neej mloog2 niam txiv lus li no niam txiv twb tsis nyiam kj txawm kj yuav tau los yeej tsis kawg os kav tsij r2 siab ua neej xwb txhob nkim lub sij hawm mus nco ib tug neeg ua r yus tag txoj kev cia siab ua neej os r siab ua neej xeem nws xwb lawv thiaj khum xim thiaj nco yus os mog
Puppy love gone wrong, get over it lady. Love yourself, respect yourself , move on
Tsis yog leej just Dai siab os yog leej nus ntxeev siab xwb. Yog kuv ces kuv twb tsis nco nws lawm vim li cas koj tseem nco nws
Tus poj niam no tsej tsis pub 100 hom yog yu muaj ib tug ntxhais zoo li no mas yu yuav tus siab heev
Omg, the stress u put yur parents thru! I hope your kids never put u thru such a thing. I feel so sad for your parents for having a daughter like u who caused them stress over and over again.
😂😂😂 14 yo- don’t know how to make rice but want to get marry.
@@MissPeachieexactly! Her parents were jus looking out for her and him!
This story is sad and hits home. I experienced similar hurt and betrayal; however, you need to find it in yourself to let him go. You also have to forgive yourself. Love yourself.
Ntuj aw!! Ntshe sib tau xyov puas yuav kav 5 xyoo os. Tsis sib tau mas nim I love long time/forever but tau ntshe aub thiab miv xwb os neb na!
This story is kind of like my ex and I. My ex-girlfriend told me: "I love you but I don't like you. I have no feelings for you". Sounds like he loves you but he no longer has feelings for you because he met someone new who he truly likes. Thus the saying, "Seasons change, people change, feelings change".
Move on lady, if he truly loves you he won't left you to married someone else. Paub tu siab thiab mas. Zoo li ko es lawv thiaj ntxub koj npaum ko mas.😢
There is no man in this world worth all this trouble.
Pab koj tu siab os 😢
Lady - move on!!! Stop being a homewrecker. Ya were kids! Its puppy love. Stop hurting his wife.
Txiv neej lub siab yeej phem lim hiam mog tus vicaus . Thaum lawv muaj tus tshiab lawm ces tej lus nws hais rau koj yeej oli tag lawm nws yeej tsis hlub koj li tej lus cog tseg . Zoo siab rau koj lub neej Nrog koj tus txiv cov menyuam tsis txhob nco tus neeg liam siab phem mog tus vicaus
Tej tus poj hmoob no vwm dhau lawm
I feel ur sadness, but u did it to yourself.
Please have self respect and move on. People like this guy doesn’t deserve your love aunty!