"So, Steve tried to break up with me over toothpaste. And I scared him into staying with me." I love you both so much, especially you, Nikki. I really love the honesty of this, because we all know relationships have ups and downs. And it's funny, I've been with my boyfriend for almost five years now, and we argue very rarely now, but we argued a lot in the beginning. There's something to be said about the early stages...you don't really know someone until you live with them, and it takes awhile before you understand each other.
You’re absolutely so right. My boyfriend and I have been together 5 years, and it recently hit the 2 year mark of living together. And the most recent parts of our relationship has been the best. We understand each other so much more, and we’ll obviously always be learning about and one another. It fantastic, and 10x more fun than the beginning parts. This has literally been our honey moon phase ❤️
you're one of the few og youtubers that dont shove everything to their viewers. i love how chill yall are and how real. love your convos too cos yall are hella funny! love the podcast and gonna love this new format too!
This is kind of similar to my boyfriend and my relationship. Long story short we got together at 15, VERY young and VERY immature. We fought ALL THE TIME and had terrible jealously. We were together for a loooong time having big blow up fights, using “breaking up” as a weapon, for a couple years. Don’t get me wrong we were absolutely head over heals in love but we just weren’t compatible and absolutely didn’t know how to communicate. We seriously broke up for 3 months and used the time apart to grow as people. When we got back together we learned how to communicate and the jealously and anger basically went away. We aren’t perfect and still fight sometimes but we never use breaking up as a weapon and we ALWAYS talk it out after a fight. We’ve been together almost 9 years now.
Wow! That's really cool to hear that you guys got through that and are still together. This might be asking for tmi but I'm genuinely curious, do you both really not get jealous anymore? Like even if he talks to another girl or you talk to another guy?
A D No jealousy whatsoever. A lot of it comes with age and maturity. But we also have a lot of trust for each other and don’t give the other person reason to be jealous.
A D For example, he turned 21 before I did. He went out with a lot of people, including lots of girls, and of course I couldn’t tag along because I couldn’t get into the bars. Before I would have been absolutely sick with jealousy over him getting drunk with other girls, but I completely trust him and had no issue with it whatsoever.
He may be faithful but getting drunk with other girls (married couples or just couples are different) is a recipe for disaster. I wouldn't deal with that and I feel normal for that. No offense..I don't mean that sarcastically either..I really mean that I don't mean any harm..this is just my thoughts.
Lizzie Martin It was probably a bad example because it’s not like it’s an all the time occurrence. Probably a better example would be, if we’re invited to his brothers for a party, I would feel comfortable going to bed while he stays up with everyone (yes even if it was just girls). I think it definitely depends on the couple.
I just got out of my first relationship, which also happened to last 5 years. I'm now in my mid-twenties and having to readjust my entire life - even down to stupid things, like grocery shopping for one, instead of two. People like you two, who can be honest about faults in their relationship, but how to make it work anyway, give me hope that true, loving relationships can last. Keep up the good work Nikki, and Steve.
... I thought it was normal to brush your teeth twice a day? Like that's what the dentist tells me to do (I'm Australian) and pretty much everyone I know would give someone shit for not cleaning their teeth at night. Like what?
BessieRAHH yeah idk, i know flossing is super important but i have to brush my teeth twice a day. i like them to feel squeaky clean. never heard of people brushing once a day unless they’re lazy
They aren't saying what's dentist recommended - Nikki's at least is based on opinion probably.I also don't recall where she said she brushes her teeth in the morning only because I've seen this comment about night brushing a couple times and have been a tad confused where that criticism is coming from
Brushing teeth once a day is unheard of where I come from lmao. Just the furry sensation would be so fucking unbearable going to sleep with as well as just the high risk of cavities. Just need to spare 3 minutes....
I’ve heard the “if you take the cheater back don’t bring up the cheating” multiple times but the thing is you can’t ever just forget about the cheating and from time to time you are gonna remember and u r gonna be hurt and your partner is gonna see it and ask you why u r sad
@@juliemargar7444 That is not fair to say.....the cheated on person only has the experience of having a monogamous relationship with the cheater and prob thinks they can handle it. When u cheated on someone, u broke that person. U can't expect them to be just as strong anymore. The cheating became a part of your relationship, due to the cheater, so take responsibility.
i really agree and so strongly feel the same way about relationships and everything they went through. the part that resonated the most with me was when nikki said :you need to find a partner WILLING TO DO THAT WITH YOU" someone that wants to go through that with you and WANTS to work through real issues.
This is so crazy. I am in the same situation that you were in. I have been dating my boyfriend for 10 months and we have gone on a break before over something stupid that we don’t remember but we are still having petty fights and recently he said that if things don’t change he can’t do it anymore. But watching this video has given me hope that we can learn to work through our problems and find better ways to solve them 💗 thank you
That is really good advice when it comes to relationships. Honest communication without judgments. Being real but also rational and respectful. Harbored built-up resentment is the bane to any relationship.
You two are great and remind me of a time far and away....never lose that communication you have. We made that mistake and 18 years later devastation happened. Now we are finding that friendship bond that got buried in the day to day and while it is nice it's also a painful mirror. Keep talking...
Incredible content. This is basically a masterclass in healthy, truly long-term relationships, and you're giving it out for free. It's no exaggeration on my part to say that this video is something every person longing for a healthy LTR should study. It's something not taught by mainstream society, and especially the mainstream media's ever-growing influence on our lives.
I can’t go to sleep with unbrushed teeth. It doesn’t sit right with me. I just can’t do it. I brush twice a day and I also floss everyday, although I only do it at night.
Saaaaame I wouldn’t be able to sleep either if I didn’t. I always brush my teeth 2-3 times a day, ESPECIALLY before bed. I love Nikki but I’m with Steve on this one, once a day is disgusting
I used to do that, until I got into a slump and had to let go out of mental exhaustion. It's not a fun place to be, and it might happen to you. Hopefully it doesn't.
Im not shocked that Nikki is with Steve at all. Good chemistry. Steve seems like a great guy. Good lookin dude, good personality, sense of humor, sensitive, unique. Not sure why some seem suprised . You guys are a great couple. You both compliment each other well.
True communication is the secret to lasting love. When you can truly put yourself in the other person's shoes and understand them by validating their experience it is life changing.
Well, it's because vulnerability leaves you wide open. you you ok weak to others and your woman will most definitely even if they don't admit it, lose respect for you.
i always thought of nikki and steve as the perfect couple but its reassuring to know they had problems like everyone else but in the end built an even stronger relationship. love you guys
I love how real they are. Like their video where they fought about a Batman costume. Every couple has their ups and downs,but if they keep it going,that's all that matters.
I freaking love the stikki show! Just like the podcast, love ittt! And basically all content, if you're happy making it, I'm happy watching/listening to it ❤️
I couldn't agree more. I use to be that way too and used it as a weapon as well. I had been in a horrible, horrible marriage that ended. Well, with the guy I met after... Aka my husband now, I took out all of my past issues on him and that wasn't fair at all. I have learned so much about relationships, and I'm so thankful for my husband's patience. I hated the fact that Everytime I would use the breakup words as a weapon, I caused him so much hurt. I never wanted to hurt him and I realized I was doing just that. I'll never ever do that again. Ever!!
my boyfriend is the same.... he speaks in a way that makes others feel unheard. he also says things passionately and also sometimes giggles while he talks.
YAAAASSSSS THIS IS WHAT WE WANT!!!! SGC PLS YOU GUYS HAVE TO IN UNISON SAY "NOW THATS A STIKKI SITUATION." PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THE GODS MYTHOLOGY INCLUDED
I love this new concept. We are learning so much more about you two. I love how he is learning to be more spiritual too. Communication is key and I think you both have it down.
I love this format so much!! It's so fun to watch you guys still bicker and troll each other as usual, but then also have serious conversations. I love your podcast too, but it's awesome to be able to see you guys!
Excellent!!! I LOVE most of your podcasts, the one about Missionary position was by far the best one yet. This vlog promises to be just as interesting and relevant. I love Tasty Tuesday’s, and the two of you together are prime!
That's a sweet way of dealing with stuff. If I'd heard those words "I cant do this" I am literally out. Shut down. Switch off. Move on. Bye. That's an unbreakable arrow in my mind.
Nikki I've just realised, the majority of your stuff I watch, I often watch it because of your dynamic with Steve - I often watch the first 2 mins of your Tasty Tuesdays and then skip to the last 2 mins where you give it to Steve and then you have a little bit of banter and jokes together and it's really funny and sweet.. This isn't me saying I don't like your solo content, or that I like Steve's content over yours (I don't actually think I'm even subscribed to Steve) it's me saying that when you both combine and do a video together it's reliably very very good stuff. This is why I think that you've gotten so many hits on your JK News videos when you're together, your comedy kind of multiplies off each other and goes from very funny solo to absolutely hilarious together. It's why I've listened to all of your 'Sh*t they don't tell you' podcasts, you're both very knowledgable and funny people, and together you really crack me up. So I'm glad you're doing this new format together, keep it up, but don't give in to too much pressure to be together all the time otherwise you might find you don't have enough space in your relationship and it might affect your quality of comedy (or the quality of your relationship as a whole!). Anyway, thankyou for being a positive influence in my life and in the lives of the rest of your fans, and keep it up. Say hi to Franklin for me x
I think this was the most entertaining video on RUclips I ever watched... Like seriously! I laughed until I cried, I learned something and I had to say "awww Steve" three times 😁
Steve I understand that predicament completely, I often encounter people who out of completely nowhere (to me at least) think I'm super full of myself, arrogant, looking down on everyone around me, which is pretty astonishing since that's fairly incompatible with the fact that until recently I had 0 self esteem what so ever. Something in the way I speak and the way I act makes me come across that way. It's a struggle
I'm in the same boat. I've noticed a lot of nice, humble, caring, altruistic, down-to-earth people are as well. What I think it is is that when we're out in public, we either display so much intense inner conviction-or so much insular, apathetic confusion, hurt, lostness-that to the outside-looking-in, we look so into-our-own-world, "and are therefore stuck-up". I really think that's the case from my years of observations, after repeatedly having people tell me they thought I was stuck-up but were wrong once they got to know me more, and after having experimented by adjusting my behaviour many times to account for this; this is also after observing and studying why this happens to many other people. So I'm thinking the extroverted population at large focuses more on maintaining appearances and making quick initial judgments, so if they see an introvert/a quiet person who sticks out in their aura (presence), as if they are not a part of the larger collective (because of so much inner confidence, or low self-esteem), they default to categorizing these people as _other_ instead of _same._ Then if these _questionable_ introverts speak in a calm, aloof way instead of extroverted elatedness like they're used to, or in a calm and warm way, they default to thinking that these people's calmness, aloofness, and being-in-their-own-world is due to them being stuck-up and arrogant, failing to consider all other possibilities that don't involve labelling them as people-to-be-wary-of. People probably act incredibly tentative around you when they first meet you, right? They probably also are the ones approaching you, not the other way around, and it's probably also the really extroverted ones. It's them feeling you out because your presence sticks out while being aloof (rare), and this inability to pinpoint why you stick out leads to them being proactive and feeling you out to see if it's because you're a stuck-up asshole or not. I don't know why people don't default to just thinking you're just innocently minding your own business, but it's probably because a calm, aloof introvert with a strong presence is so rare to them, being surrounded by many sociable people and so many quiet introverts with invisible/conforming presences; basically it's them lacking perspective while trying to reconcile and understand their unease about you. This is all just speculation on the little information you gave. But if all this is an accurate assessment: if you want less people to assume you're an asshole, present yourself as being less aloof and insular; be more gregarious and warm. However, many people find a certain sexiness and intrigue in being confident and aloof, so you might want to balance that strategy or apply it only in certain situations. PS: Now that I think about it, I'm realizing people only started to mention they were wrong about me after I happened to be in my gregarious and warm moods, being less insular.
This was absolutely awsome, I had a massive smile on my face the entire time I was watching it and was dying laughing at several parts. My husband is also one of those adamant about things when he is wrong.
OMG... Nikki I did the exact same thing with a 150 lb solid wood table when my now husband of 21yrs tried to break up with me early on in our relationship! It's so freaky how you described the exact actions I did. I never thought I'd have anything to relate to you... Huh we can be rage sisters! Lol
Oh - and you are absolutely right, Nikki: flossing is way more important than brushing. I also brush only once a day, but I floss all the time. I haven't had a cavity since 1996.
I think there are two hurdles that my bf and I had to overcome when getting together. I’m really sensitive and he’s really sarcastic. So I got mad at him a lot for being sarcastic and it hurt my feelings. He had to learn what not to say and I had to learn to just laugh at some of his sarcasm that perhaps I was being overly sensitive about. Also I’m very open and in his last relationship she would lash out at him and it would come out in an evil way. Whereas with me, I just say what bothers me when it bothers me. I don’t let it all out at once. He had to get accepting with that. I think he helped me become a little less sensitive and I helped him become a little more.
LOVE the new format! So nice to just feel like we are hanging out with you guys! Also, I relate SO HARD as I also married a Steve. So yeah, basically bffs. Haha
This Show was AWESOME!!!! Love you guys! Yall really make JK Party better whenever you guest star on there. I cant wait for more episodes of This show!
The Stikki show is such a cute name, nikki is so gorgeous💟💟 Also team nikki as long as your flossing twice a day to avoid cavities between your teeth you don't need to brush your teeth twice a day
I wonder what would have happened if Steve got an ax and broke down the bathroom door while Nikki was inside crying. 🤔 A wasted "Here's Johnny!" moment. He would comfort him after of course. 😁
The question is not why Steve it's why not Steve that man is an Absolutely funny,honest,nice and you can tell he loves Nikki to pieces.. that is what a real partner is about being your better half if you... One Love girl ✌💟
See me and my husband is kinda like this... Were the beginning of our relationship honestly was no good.. But longer we have been together the more we love and understand each Other 💕💕
i knew you guys were funny by watching you in jkp but now i know you are actually amazing people and amazing couple, i think it's so awasome you had find a way to communicate and overcome any issue, you are inspiring! Edit: Also the cat is sooo cute!
Also I related with Nikki 100% on this video from brushing teeth once a day, and also wishing I had my boyfriend’s patience but getting annoying when he laughs when he doesn’t agree with something. He also thinks it’s gross that I flush the toilet with the toilet seat up lmao
Omg you guys are comedic versions of my husband and I. Very similar personality traits 😂 I will need to take the arguing lessons though. We are still working on the little things turning into big things
"So, Steve tried to break up with me over toothpaste. And I scared him into staying with me."
I love you both so much, especially you, Nikki.
I really love the honesty of this, because we all know relationships have ups and downs. And it's funny, I've been with my boyfriend for almost five years now, and we argue very rarely now, but we argued a lot in the beginning. There's something to be said about the early stages...you don't really know someone until you live with them, and it takes awhile before you understand each other.
You’re absolutely so right. My boyfriend and I have been together 5 years, and it recently hit the 2 year mark of living together. And the most recent parts of our relationship has been the best. We understand each other so much more, and we’ll obviously always be learning about and one another. It fantastic, and 10x more fun than the beginning parts. This has literally been our honey moon phase ❤️
Jenn Righter such a spoiler ass
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The Stikki show is an awesome name.
Sticky. The good kind of sticky. Hehe
you're one of the few og youtubers that dont shove everything to their viewers. i love how chill yall are and how real. love your convos too cos yall are hella funny! love the podcast and gonna love this new format too!
holy shit picturing Nikki breaking a glass coffee table is the funniest thing ever to me my god I wish I could have seen that.
So it's official. It's Steve and Nikki not Nikki and Steve. Bart is so happy rn.
Lol true. Although “The Neve Show” doesn’t work quite as well as “The Stikki Show.” Knowing Bart, he’s happy anyway.
Geo is quaking
Geo: **Triggered** 😂 jk love u Geo
Hahahaha. I was just thinking that! Awesome!!
Nice
This is kind of similar to my boyfriend and my relationship. Long story short we got together at 15, VERY young and VERY immature. We fought ALL THE TIME and had terrible jealously. We were together for a loooong time having big blow up fights, using “breaking up” as a weapon, for a couple years. Don’t get me wrong we were absolutely head over heals in love but we just weren’t compatible and absolutely didn’t know how to communicate. We seriously broke up for 3 months and used the time apart to grow as people. When we got back together we learned how to communicate and the jealously and anger basically went away. We aren’t perfect and still fight sometimes but we never use breaking up as a weapon and we ALWAYS talk it out after a fight. We’ve been together almost 9 years now.
Wow! That's really cool to hear that you guys got through that and are still together. This might be asking for tmi but I'm genuinely curious, do you both really not get jealous anymore? Like even if he talks to another girl or you talk to another guy?
A D No jealousy whatsoever. A lot of it comes with age and maturity. But we also have a lot of trust for each other and don’t give the other person reason to be jealous.
A D For example, he turned 21 before I did. He went out with a lot of people, including lots of girls, and of course I couldn’t tag along because I couldn’t get into the bars. Before I would have been absolutely sick with jealousy over him getting drunk with other girls, but I completely trust him and had no issue with it whatsoever.
He may be faithful but getting drunk with other girls (married couples or just couples are different) is a recipe for disaster. I wouldn't deal with that and I feel normal for that. No offense..I don't mean that sarcastically either..I really mean that I don't mean any harm..this is just my thoughts.
Lizzie Martin It was probably a bad example because it’s not like it’s an all the time occurrence. Probably a better example would be, if we’re invited to his brothers for a party, I would feel comfortable going to bed while he stays up with everyone (yes even if it was just girls). I think it definitely depends on the couple.
I just got out of my first relationship, which also happened to last 5 years. I'm now in my mid-twenties and having to readjust my entire life - even down to stupid things, like grocery shopping for one, instead of two. People like you two, who can be honest about faults in their relationship, but how to make it work anyway, give me hope that true, loving relationships can last. Keep up the good work Nikki, and Steve.
Nikki I like this new format
Y'all's relationship advice really hit home
... I thought it was normal to brush your teeth twice a day? Like that's what the dentist tells me to do (I'm Australian) and pretty much everyone I know would give someone shit for not cleaning their teeth at night. Like what?
BessieRAHH yeah idk, i know flossing is super important but i have to brush my teeth twice a day. i like them to feel squeaky clean. never heard of people brushing once a day unless they’re lazy
They aren't saying what's dentist recommended - Nikki's at least is based on opinion probably.I also don't recall where she said she brushes her teeth in the morning only because I've seen this comment about night brushing a couple times and have been a tad confused where that criticism is coming from
Nikki went from a solid 8 to a 4 with that "once a day" crap. Steve has more patience than I do for sure.
loool no one cares
Brushing teeth once a day is unheard of where I come from lmao. Just the furry sensation would be so fucking unbearable going to sleep with as well as just the high risk of cavities. Just need to spare 3 minutes....
This is what a healthy relationship looks like....
I honestly feel like people aiming for a happy relationship should study this video.
I’ve heard the “if you take the cheater back don’t bring up the cheating” multiple times but the thing is you can’t ever just forget about the cheating and from time to time you are gonna remember and u r gonna be hurt and your partner is gonna see it and ask you why u r sad
@@juliemargar7444 That is not fair to say.....the cheated on person only has the experience of having a monogamous relationship with the cheater and prob thinks they can handle it. When u cheated on someone, u broke that person. U can't expect them to be just as strong anymore. The cheating became a part of your relationship, due to the cheater, so take responsibility.
i really agree and so strongly feel the same way about relationships and everything they went through. the part that resonated the most with me was when nikki said :you need to find a partner WILLING TO DO THAT WITH YOU" someone that wants to go through that with you and WANTS to work through real issues.
This is so crazy. I am in the same situation that you were in. I have been dating my boyfriend for 10 months and we have gone on a break before over something stupid that we don’t remember but we are still having petty fights and recently he said that if things don’t change he can’t do it anymore. But watching this video has given me hope that we can learn to work through our problems and find better ways to solve them 💗 thank you
I like how sincere you are
That is really good advice when it comes to relationships. Honest communication without judgments. Being real but also rational and respectful. Harbored built-up resentment is the bane to any relationship.
You two are great and remind me of a time far and away....never lose that communication you have. We made that mistake and 18 years later devastation happened. Now we are finding that friendship bond that got buried in the day to day and while it is nice it's also a painful mirror. Keep talking...
I loved this. Steves sense of humour is so dry and I love it.
I can't wait to find a partner that loves me like Steve loves you and love someone the way you love Steve. #couplegoals
Incredible content. This is basically a masterclass in healthy, truly long-term relationships, and you're giving it out for free.
It's no exaggeration on my part to say that this video is something every person longing for a healthy LTR should study. It's something not taught by mainstream society, and especially the mainstream media's ever-growing influence on our lives.
Please never break up
I can’t go to sleep with unbrushed teeth. It doesn’t sit right with me. I just can’t do it. I brush twice a day and I also floss everyday, although I only do it at night.
You brush twice at night?
Vincisomething no they brush once in the morning and once at night then only floss at night lol
Saaaaame I wouldn’t be able to sleep either if I didn’t. I always brush my teeth 2-3 times a day, ESPECIALLY before bed. I love Nikki but I’m with Steve on this one, once a day is disgusting
I used to do that, until I got into a slump and had to let go out of mental exhaustion. It's not a fun place to be, and it might happen to you. Hopefully it doesn't.
@@Crabrangoonz You shouldnt brush more than twice a day. Too much brushing can damage your theeth's enamel.
Im not shocked that Nikki is with Steve at all. Good chemistry. Steve seems like a great guy. Good lookin dude, good personality, sense of humor, sensitive, unique. Not sure why some seem suprised . You guys are a great couple. You both compliment each other well.
Nikki raging over the break up makes me like her more. That's a crazy keeper right there.
True communication is the secret to lasting love. When you can truly put yourself in the other person's shoes and understand them by validating their experience it is life changing.
I don't understand people who make fun of men for being vulnerable.
Well, it's because vulnerability leaves you wide open. you you ok weak to others and your woman will most definitely even if they don't admit it, lose respect for you.
i always thought of nikki and steve as the perfect couple but its reassuring to know they had problems like everyone else but in the end built an even stronger relationship. love you guys
I can’t believe you and Steve almost broke up
:'(
Thank God they made it work
It happens even the strongest couple have their days
I love how real they are. Like their video where they fought about a Batman costume. Every couple has their ups and downs,but if they keep it going,that's all that matters.
I freaking love the stikki show! Just like the podcast, love ittt! And basically all content, if you're happy making it, I'm happy watching/listening to it ❤️
I couldn't agree more. I use to be that way too and used it as a weapon as well. I had been in a horrible, horrible marriage that ended. Well, with the guy I met after... Aka my husband now, I took out all of my past issues on him and that wasn't fair at all. I have learned so much about relationships, and I'm so thankful for my husband's patience. I hated the fact that Everytime I would use the breakup words as a weapon, I caused him so much hurt. I never wanted to hurt him and I realized I was doing just that. I'll never ever do that again. Ever!!
I love the way you two deal with issues. It's awesome.
Nikki is so proud of Gary. Adorable.
I love seeing steve and nikki in videos together. Much love and support
26 minutes and I didn't have to skip a single second! You guys are so funny and I just love your relationship. More of the STIKKI Show please! xx
my boyfriend is the same.... he speaks in a way that makes others feel unheard. he also says things passionately and also sometimes giggles while he talks.
Steve looking serious saying “and thank you for watching the stikki show.” im fucking dead.
YAAAASSSSS THIS IS WHAT WE WANT!!!! SGC PLS YOU GUYS HAVE TO IN UNISON SAY "NOW THATS A STIKKI SITUATION." PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THE GODS MYTHOLOGY INCLUDED
I love this new concept. We are learning so much more about you two. I love how he is learning to be more spiritual too. Communication is key and I think you both have it down.
I love this format so much!! It's so fun to watch you guys still bicker and troll each other as usual, but then also have serious conversations. I love your podcast too, but it's awesome to be able to see you guys!
Excellent!!! I LOVE most of your podcasts, the one about Missionary position was by far the best one yet. This vlog promises to be just as interesting and relevant. I love Tasty Tuesday’s, and the two of you together are prime!
Nikki your tan is so BEAUTIFUL!! You literally glow
I love how Steve is still so passionate about his toothbrush hahah 😂
6:26 I'm in your camp Steve! I can't go to sleep with everything I've eaten all day still on my teeth
That's a sweet way of dealing with stuff. If I'd heard those words "I cant do this" I am literally out. Shut down. Switch off. Move on. Bye. That's an unbreakable arrow in my mind.
Stikki as in Steve and Nikki. Steve my man, finally getting recognition lolz
I love you two so much!!! You two are the most chillest couple and most realest ever...
Nah, you guys are meant to be. Quit playing lol
Oh my fucking gawd! I ALWAYS try to explain that dancing cartoon frog to everyone and NOBODY ever knows what I’m talking about!! The fuck! I love you!
Nikki I've just realised, the majority of your stuff I watch, I often watch it because of your dynamic with Steve - I often watch the first 2 mins of your Tasty Tuesdays and then skip to the last 2 mins where you give it to Steve and then you have a little bit of banter and jokes together and it's really funny and sweet..
This isn't me saying I don't like your solo content, or that I like Steve's content over yours (I don't actually think I'm even subscribed to Steve) it's me saying that when you both combine and do a video together it's reliably very very good stuff. This is why I think that you've gotten so many hits on your JK News videos when you're together, your comedy kind of multiplies off each other and goes from very funny solo to absolutely hilarious together. It's why I've listened to all of your 'Sh*t they don't tell you' podcasts, you're both very knowledgable and funny people, and together you really crack me up.
So I'm glad you're doing this new format together, keep it up, but don't give in to too much pressure to be together all the time otherwise you might find you don't have enough space in your relationship and it might affect your quality of comedy (or the quality of your relationship as a whole!).
Anyway, thankyou for being a positive influence in my life and in the lives of the rest of your fans, and keep it up. Say hi to Franklin for me x
I was not expecting such beautiful advice about relationships. Thanks so much for sharing that. Can't wait for next Thursday. Cheers!
I think this was the most entertaining video on RUclips I ever watched... Like seriously! I laughed until I cried, I learned something and I had to say "awww Steve" three times 😁
I loved this and it's already my new favorite show
Steve I understand that predicament completely, I often encounter people who out of completely nowhere (to me at least) think I'm super full of myself, arrogant, looking down on everyone around me, which is pretty astonishing since that's fairly incompatible with the fact that until recently I had 0 self esteem what so ever. Something in the way I speak and the way I act makes me come across that way. It's a struggle
I'm in the same boat. I've noticed a lot of nice, humble, caring, altruistic, down-to-earth people are as well. What I think it is is that when we're out in public, we either display so much intense inner conviction-or so much insular, apathetic confusion, hurt, lostness-that to the outside-looking-in, we look so into-our-own-world, "and are therefore stuck-up". I really think that's the case from my years of observations, after repeatedly having people tell me they thought I was stuck-up but were wrong once they got to know me more, and after having experimented by adjusting my behaviour many times to account for this; this is also after observing and studying why this happens to many other people.
So I'm thinking the extroverted population at large focuses more on maintaining appearances and making quick initial judgments, so if they see an introvert/a quiet person who sticks out in their aura (presence), as if they are not a part of the larger collective (because of so much inner confidence, or low self-esteem), they default to categorizing these people as _other_ instead of _same._ Then if these _questionable_ introverts speak in a calm, aloof way instead of extroverted elatedness like they're used to, or in a calm and warm way, they default to thinking that these people's calmness, aloofness, and being-in-their-own-world is due to them being stuck-up and arrogant, failing to consider all other possibilities that don't involve labelling them as people-to-be-wary-of.
People probably act incredibly tentative around you when they first meet you, right? They probably also are the ones approaching you, not the other way around, and it's probably also the really extroverted ones. It's them feeling you out because your presence sticks out while being aloof (rare), and this inability to pinpoint why you stick out leads to them being proactive and feeling you out to see if it's because you're a stuck-up asshole or not. I don't know why people don't default to just thinking you're just innocently minding your own business, but it's probably because a calm, aloof introvert with a strong presence is so rare to them, being surrounded by many sociable people and so many quiet introverts with invisible/conforming presences; basically it's them lacking perspective while trying to reconcile and understand their unease about you.
This is all just speculation on the little information you gave. But if all this is an accurate assessment: if you want less people to assume you're an asshole, present yourself as being less aloof and insular; be more gregarious and warm. However, many people find a certain sexiness and intrigue in being confident and aloof, so you might want to balance that strategy or apply it only in certain situations.
PS: Now that I think about it, I'm realizing people only started to mention they were wrong about me after I happened to be in my gregarious and warm moods, being less insular.
Love this format!! I never leave a video/podcast with you two in it without smiling.
Oh my word. I'm going to love this series! Very helpful relationship advice.
I love the "butt stuff" comments! I say the same thing to my husband. You put his butt on the table and he back off super fast.
Holy crap that is really good advice. You two learned and evolved from your mistakes. Pretty damn cool.
This was absolutely awsome, I had a massive smile on my face the entire time I was watching it and was dying laughing at several parts. My husband is also one of those adamant about things when he is wrong.
Brilliant video guys! This is the RUclips I love. Totally relatable, laughed so hard. Half stuff already happened to us! Thank you for sharing!
I frickin love this! So goood! Great addition to the channel, I’m excited for new Thursday content 🙌🏾💗
i'm with steve. nikki, girl, that's naaaaasty.
once in the morning, once at night.
This video was so sweet and genuine😭 (and congrats Nikki on seeing the butt)
you guys are such a genuine couple. I love it
What highlighter Steven be usin
Wow this is great. Have been watching your videos for ages now, but this concept is among my favourites! #stikki
OMG... Nikki I did the exact same thing with a 150 lb solid wood table when my now husband of 21yrs tried to break up with me early on in our relationship! It's so freaky how you described the exact actions I did. I never thought I'd have anything to relate to you... Huh we can be rage sisters! Lol
Omg, this was great Steve just going off about everything! Loved it! Do this more! (But he will never stop moving that table)
Love this!!! You guys are one of the TOP youtube couples. I can’t wait til next Thursday now!!!!
Oh - and you are absolutely right, Nikki: flossing is way more important than brushing. I also brush only once a day, but I floss all the time. I haven't had a cavity since 1996.
That was so beautiful. I just saw Steve in a new light.
I think there are two hurdles that my bf and I had to overcome when getting together. I’m really sensitive and he’s really sarcastic. So I got mad at him a lot for being sarcastic and it hurt my feelings. He had to learn what not to say and I had to learn to just laugh at some of his sarcasm that perhaps I was being overly sensitive about. Also I’m very open and in his last relationship she would lash out at him and it would come out in an evil way. Whereas with me, I just say what bothers me when it bothers me. I don’t let it all out at once. He had to get accepting with that. I think he helped me become a little less sensitive and I helped him become a little more.
There are days I don't brush my teeth at all 😂😂😂😂 #disgusting
Same
When I first moved out I forgot to brush for 11 days
@Remy Wilson WTH?! Your parents told you to brush your teeth every night until you moved out or what? LOL
Mari Anna I am laughing so hard over this comment 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It's their teeth so tf what.
Yall should do a podcast together!! Your personalities are so great together!
ItsAlwaysTheQuietOnes REALLY where can I find it and what's it's called??
@@ItsAlwaysTheQuiet01 thank U so much. I appreciate it
Ive been listing to your guys podcast (“Shit they don’t tell you” btw for anyone who doesn’t know!) and I just love you guys so much!
LOVE the new format! So nice to just feel like we are hanging out with you guys! Also, I relate SO HARD as I also married a Steve. So yeah, basically bffs. Haha
This was the best relationship advice I’ve ever heard! Lame or not, it’s very relatable!
I love this already!! Not even 30 sec. in!! So happy to see you guys doing a video together :D
Steve’s arrow thing, aww.
I love The Stikki show. ❤️❤️
your butt's on the table. hahahaha stoppppp. so amazingly relatable.
Love you two so much. I have a lot of fun watching your tasty Tuesdays!
The best video I saw all week. Great advice! Thanks!
This Show was AWESOME!!!! Love you guys! Yall really make JK Party better whenever you guest star on there. I cant wait for more episodes of This show!
Nikki my boyfriend bought me one of your blue lapis necklaces and I’ve been wearing it everyday! I love it!
" I can think of 2 times actually"
"Can you?"
"Yes"
I'm deceased XD
Awww that arrow thing is so beautiful.
Tnx for being so open and honest about your relationship struggles.
I loved this! Can't wait for more!
The Stikki show is such a cute name, nikki is so gorgeous💟💟
Also team nikki as long as your flossing twice a day to avoid cavities between your teeth you don't need to brush your teeth twice a day
I love this video and loved hearing about how healthy your relationship seems to be 😊
NIKKI!!! YOU NEED GRASSHOPPERS MERRRCCHHHH!!! That is all I need in my life!
I wonder what would have happened if Steve got an ax and broke down the bathroom door while Nikki was inside crying. 🤔 A wasted "Here's Johnny!" moment. He would comfort him after of course. 😁
The question is not why Steve it's why not Steve that man is an Absolutely funny,honest,nice and you can tell he loves Nikki to pieces.. that is what a real partner is about being your better half if you... One Love girl ✌💟
The grasshopper story is so hilarious and adorable 😂😂😂
See me and my husband is kinda like this... Were the beginning of our relationship honestly was no good.. But longer we have been together the more we love and understand each Other 💕💕
i knew you guys were funny by watching you in jkp but now i know you are actually amazing people and amazing couple, i think it's so awasome you had find a way to communicate and overcome any issue, you are inspiring!
Edit: Also the cat is sooo cute!
Also I related with Nikki 100% on this video from brushing teeth once a day, and also wishing I had my boyfriend’s patience but getting annoying when he laughs when he doesn’t agree with something. He also thinks it’s gross that I flush the toilet with the toilet seat up lmao
This is an awesome video guys. Seriously, some amazing relationship advise and honesty.
i know what love is now
i can't wait to break my bf's coffee table when he tries to break up with me
Omg you guys are comedic versions of my husband and I. Very similar personality traits 😂 I will need to take the arguing lessons though. We are still working on the little things turning into big things
Nikki’s stikki show.... love it how your doing a little bit of everything. Anything you do is great and awesome Nikki 👏❤️👍😉😍😉
I’m really excited for this new format, it’s so fun