Man thats so shitty, I literally went through the same exact thing with this girl we had the next few months planned out with each other, we'd say I love you, I dedicated everything to her/us and I was planning on moving to be with her only for her cheat on me and the crazy thing is she's in vegas too lmao. Idek what to say or if you want advice but I'd say don't beat yourself up about it, it's not your fault, you thought he was being truthful and him being a shitty person is all on him. I'm taking my experience as a learning experience to not be so gullible next time and make excuses for people when like you said "they can't seem to make time for you" or "always have some sort of excuse" if someone seems like they're half-assing something then that's how I'll see it vs trying to justify it bc it'll only end up hurting me. I used to be pretty upset about it but now even to this day I get filled with so much rage thinking about it, I can't really even cry about it, she's even tried to readd me on snapchat like once or twice a month since all this happened and ive just ignored her. Bc imo thatd be such a stupid thing to do to myself. All I can say is focus on you and the none shitty people around you, and if you don't really have decent people around(bc I dont) then just make it about you and do whatever you enjoy and makes you happy. Sorry for writing so much but ik how it feels but trust me eventually you realize you can be pretty happy and feel pretty fulfilled on your own, I just turned 25 too but I don't think there's a need in rushing to settle down if the conditions aren't right ya know? Either way good luck it gets better trust me
I completely agree with everything you’re saying, and I will continue to focus on myself. Thank you for caring and sharing your experience. It’s appreciated.
The number one thing that keeps me from trying to date these days is just how common cheating seems to have become, and how so many people seem not to take it seriously anymore. There's almost nothing I hate more than a cheater, and I rarely, if ever, care about the context. The circumstances have to be extreme for that to matter to me. Affairs are for scumbags.
Man thats so shitty, I literally went through the same exact thing with this girl we had the next few months planned out with each other, we'd say I love you, I dedicated everything to her/us and I was planning on moving to be with her only for her cheat on me and the crazy thing is she's in vegas too lmao. Idek what to say or if you want advice but I'd say don't beat yourself up about it, it's not your fault, you thought he was being truthful and him being a shitty person is all on him. I'm taking my experience as a learning experience to not be so gullible next time and make excuses for people when like you said "they can't seem to make time for you" or "always have some sort of excuse" if someone seems like they're half-assing something then that's how I'll see it vs trying to justify it bc it'll only end up hurting me. I used to be pretty upset about it but now even to this day I get filled with so much rage thinking about it, I can't really even cry about it, she's even tried to readd me on snapchat like once or twice a month since all this happened and ive just ignored her. Bc imo thatd be such a stupid thing to do to myself. All I can say is focus on you and the none shitty people around you, and if you don't really have decent people around(bc I dont) then just make it about you and do whatever you enjoy and makes you happy.
Sorry for writing so much but ik how it feels but trust me eventually you realize you can be pretty happy and feel pretty fulfilled on your own, I just turned 25 too but I don't think there's a need in rushing to settle down if the conditions aren't right ya know? Either way good luck it gets better trust me
I completely agree with everything you’re saying, and I will continue to focus on myself. Thank you for caring and sharing your experience. It’s appreciated.
The number one thing that keeps me from trying to date these days is just how common cheating seems to have become, and how so many people seem not to take it seriously anymore. There's almost nothing I hate more than a cheater, and I rarely, if ever, care about the context. The circumstances have to be extreme for that to matter to me. Affairs are for scumbags.
You deserve so much better. I really hope you're doing fine ❤
@@MutantSauruzzz thank you