Toxic Korean Boyfriend Horror Story | That Just Happened | Reading Reddit Stories
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- Опубликовано: 24 авг 2024
- That Just Happened hosts, Von and Sean, are back with another unhinged reddit story, “My Korean boyfriend is having great difficulty with my sexual past!”
What would you do if you were in this situation? Let us know in the comments!
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Interesting discussion.. Great perspective from both sides, Korean & American. Looking forward to many more episodes from you both!
Definitely get what Sean meant with , if he knew he didn’t like it he should’ve left from the beginning. But also don’t think that him making it seem like she was the problem the whole time was correct. I love that you can both have different point of views on it & have that conversation & listen to one another. At the end if you’re in a relationship and you see a red flag (which we all have different things that could be a red flag) it’s just best to leave instead of dragging it.
So men can sleep around and be a good guy but if women do it they are promiscuous and not a good candidate for marriage. I think that’s cruel
Men and women care about different things for a relationship.
I think both were extremely toxic and insecure. I agree with Sean, the guy should've left from the beginning if he couldn't cope with that kind of past. Now, I also consider that it's impossible to let go of a past that someone is constantly bringing to the table. The guy is terrible insecure and emotionally dependent as he's still trying to get back to her. However, the girl isn't prepared to put her past in the past as it's the first topic she mentions on a date, and she also has contact with the exes. No one can live with ghosts.
'They think women don't be doing nothing' me sitting here at almost 30 only having slept with literally 2 guys despite the amount of offers I've received 👁👄👁
I think if he was uncomfortable Sean is right he should’ve left from the start if he considered it a red flag for him. However he stayed and she can’t change what she did in the past so that’s his problem in over coming his own insecurities. If you feel you need to go through your partners devices to feel you can trust them then you shouldn’t be with them. Go Seeking and you shall find. As a woman myself, If I were her though I wouldn’t be THAT open on a first date, I am not saying she should be ashamed of her past I just think it’s a bit much to dive into and lay out on a man especially if he didn’t specifically ask. Those are conversations that will come out more organically and over time and I have found I don’t ask questions I am not ready to know the answers to 🤷🏽♀️
I’m a latina and I actually agree with most things Sean said. Not every thing tho. I agree to some extent like that the guy should have some standards and actually know what he wants. But I definitely hate the fact that he is trying to control her for things that is in her past.
Also she should’ve
been more realistic in a sense that if her past bothers the guy in a way that it becomes a problem in the relationship she should’ve just let him go and move on. Because this is always going to be a problem.
All of us have met a similar person on the way to "settle". Those are the things that makes us know, for me 3 main things: 1) Learn about our true self. 2) Learn to deal better on relationships. 3)Have standards and boundaries.
After that, I started to understand him a bit more and forgive me for the things that happened. Both of us had faults and needed to experience it to grow up.
PD: The guy needs therapy and the girl needs to be more confident on her self, if it was the best time on your life, never let anyone to degrade it or make you feel bad about it.
I am more on the girl's side cos at least she was honest from day one since she decided to be with him and cut all ties with whoever she was casually dating. Secondly, he checked her phone (Without permission) and all the social media apps and then got mad and started to judge her on all occasion. If being a Korean or any guy from different ethnicity who loves to gaslight, compare or gets physical... Its sick.... She was committed to him and tried to find a middle ground so that she can keep her relationship.
Okay Sean man can have body counts as much as they want and not be honest about it but women's or girls have to worry about the so-called consequences... What hypocrisy for real....
Men and women are different mentally when it comes to body count, women don't care nearly as much as men do so you wouldn't understand. Men don't care about a woman's income but women do about men. There's all these various differences.
Thank you for the insight on what men care. And FYI Men do care about women's Income & their Social standing.. It goes both ways... @@npcsenpai1185
@@npcsenpai1185 thats the thing tho, than women also judge men for body count, dont be naive to think women dont care
If there's a red flag in the relationship it's better to leave,,
I think that the conversation should have immediately shut him down as soon as she mentioned his potential to be physical.
Eh, as long as there's no diseases or kids, who gives a shit lol.
" i know some saints that aint really that holy" 😅
I support your views Sean
I guess you should count just relationships, not people you slept with.
However, she should've stayed single longer and finished her degree.
I understand Sean to some extent cuz I was raised in a Christian household so that stuff matters to christians. But as he said everybody should know what they want! And live as they want, unfortunately for women a sexual active life is viewed in a very bad light
She has to run it's a toxic relationship even if there is love.
Sounds like a classic case of narcissistic personality disorder to me… 😬
WOMEN NEVER ADMIT YOUR NUMBER. KEEP IT LOW VERY LOW SINGLE DIGITS. This is why.
Why not just be truthful and find someone who accept you for who you are? If your body-count bothers the guy, just don't go any further.
He’s an Amber Herd swipe left and move on so you both can be happy. He won’t change and you won’t change which is ok. Be happy apart I say😊
I feel Sean is a more cultured person but if as a guy u know dat u can't be with dat kind of person.... u should leave earlier on in d relationship nd nt try to wait it out..... cos, datz ends up making u a two faced person.
I don’t think it’s always insecurity. I wouldn’t prefer my man to have a high body count either. It just a medical thing for me. The risk of any stds is higher. And I also don’t wanna be a part of all those collected germs🦠 😅