You deserve it too. You forced her to marry you. How do you feel if you were forced to marry a person you don't love. Good thing she didn't call the cop for.
How could her dad hit her when she came back 😥. I could never do that to my daughters. Older generations are just too cruel only thinking of their face and nothing else. 🤦♂️
I don't pity this guy and his family. If it was the other way around and the guy is force to marry her or someone who doesn't like, I'm sure he would run away with his lover and never return home. It's him/his parents fault for forcing someone who dont love you to be with you. I think what she did was justified, she's only looking for her own happiness. I'm surprised him/his parents/her parents aren't locked up in jail for forcing someone to give up her life.
Tus tub aw, Ca Koj lub neej yuav txaus tu siab ua luaj li os, Koj mas Txawj xav, thiab Txawj tham kawg li. Thov kom Koj ho tau ntsib ib tug hlub2 Koj os mog, txhob tag kev cia siab rau poj niam nawb , tseem tshuav tus puav zoo2 thiab os.
Its very common for hmong men to force marriages back in the old days and even some today too. Those who said he deserved it, it wasn't completely his fault. His dad also forced him to be the "man" every old hmong men think they're supposed to be/act. eventhough he said no because he knew she didnt love him. And he even tried to help her escape. Its all them OGS fault. I hope all who take on this old tradition and think its okay, dies out. And i hope this force marriage no longer continue in our hmong culture. Its a really sad and miserable life to see and hear. I feel bad for both.
I find it hard to believe that this is still happening in the state especially in today's time. But I can be wrong too. There's still a few very outdated hmong families out there. But this kind of sex trafficking and kidnapping still definitely occurs in the third world countries.
Neej uas txaum rau tus poj niam no lawm mas neej yuav tsum hlub thiab pab nw mus kom tag nw lub neej tiam no. Pab lis kos xwb tsis tau tag neej txoj kev lim hiam.
Koj nim txawj tu siab thiab koj tus nism tseem tu siab tshaj koj 1000 npaug nas koj tu koj tus QAU xwb koj txiv tseem yuav nrog koj deev nws thsum tsis tau puv 3 tag kis ne muab koj tus QAU tso rau log cam es xyuas roob rauj xwb mas
You, your parents and girl's parents are messed up people. All of you had skewed up this innocent girl's life. She should had put all of you in jail when she broke her foot.
This uncle please move on..u need some encouragement that u are good enough to move on..she aint the only one..now theres poj laib everywhere go explore..u can be handsome if u love yourself..please love yourself.
If you force someone to marry you, don’t expect them to love you. You can have their body but not their heart. The person will always recent you because you stole her life and her freedom to choose.
That was 1 out of 100 hmoob parents. 99 of them would rather take the silver bars and silver coins, then beat the crap out of the girls to go or them girls will cause shame on their ancestors.
We can’t change history only learn from it, can’t put any blame on anyone that’s how things run back then . Even the other races have their own bad, we as Hmong are a lot better now then 20 years ago
This is a life lesson for all to learn from. Parents should never force their children to marry someone they do not love. You should never force someone to marry you. And if the person you marry loves you, will do anything for you, then stay. Love can and will flourish if only YOU allow it. Good lesson for everyone to learn from.
Yog los mas tu tij laug aws, txoj niag kev ua yus hlub luag es luag ho hlub lwm tu no mas zoo yam txoj hluas es ib tug tsis muab txiv kom tu nrho ces ua lub niag neeg yeej khuam siab khuav li o.
Cas txiv neej hmoob es muaj plhua ua luaj li. Tim cov laus 99% los tim tus txiv 1%. Ua rau tus pojniam plam tus nws hlub los tseem muaj plhu hais tias pojniam phem pojniam nkhaus. Thaum kawg tus hluas nkauj hluas nraug rov sib tham tsi sib tau los hais cuag li npam tus pojniam. Twb yog tim koj (tus txiv) ntag... txiav nkawv kev hlub. Koj yog txiv neej yog koj hais 1 los tias koj tsi nyiam nws lawv yeej kawg tso neb nyias mus nyias. Tabsis koj nyiam nws ces koj ua li koj niam koj txiv hais. Sim muab thaub no yuam yuav, yuam nrog cov pog laus2 dab2 tuag pw saib thaub ua zoo los ua phem rau pog laus.
Tsis sib nyiam mag sib yuam sib yuav xwb ces ua li nej cov txiv neej hais os nws lub siab twb tsis tuag ces yeej kawg neej puas xwb kuv yeej tsis blame koj tus poj niam thiab.
Could have saved all the heartache by letting the two who wanted to be married, get married. Only the Hmong and one other ethnicity practice this type of barbaric human trafficking. Don’t ever force anyone to be with you if they don’t want to be with you. You want all their heart, soul and body. The man in this story didn’t have a loud enough voice to stand for himself nor his wife back than.
You can't blame anyone but your dad (bc he was the first one to initiate) and her parents (bc they pushed the situation). You're not entirely innocent either bc you had no balls to stop this marriage. And you had no balls to divorce her. U knew she doesn't love you and u caught her cheating, but you continue to keep her caged in with you. I feel so sad and mad for her.
Tsis yog phem nraug es tau quaj, niag ruam nraug xwb. Pick someone your own level/size people. Twb yog cov mi nyuam puag thauv lawm xwb es koj, koj niam koj txiv, nws niam nws txiv, thiab txhua tus neeg laus uas pab nej kaw nws thiaj tsis tau nkag nkuaj os. Yog cov mi nyuam nim no ces nej txhua tus twb tau mus nrog lawv cuab qhov quav nram jail. Yog yuav muab hais liam mas nej liam tshaj. Lawv twb hais tias siab phem li lub ntsej muag no ne. It’s awesome that she plugged enough courage to leave you. Koj rapped nws tau 20+ xyoo txaus rau ob peb phav nqi koj txiv them rau nws txiv lawm os. Koj txiv los twb laus lawm qaub ncaug nqhuab, ntshav puas khiav zoo lawm tsam xav xav txog nchos koj poj niam ces plawv ho nres thiab. Muab hais los tus ruam tshaj ces yog koj thiab koj niam. Txiv yawg qaub ncaug twb nrog zig rau niam tais tus ntxhais xwb los niam pog thiab tub mas tseem qhuas tias nkawv nim tau nyab mos ab
Peb cov txiv neej tseem muaj tus ruam npaum li no thiab koj tsis zoo nraug lo yeej muaj tug hlub koj na nws twb ua phem npaum no lo tseem thawj nws li tug dev xwb
Koj hais yog kawg lawm os Nyajteeb Vaj. Ruam npaum tus txiv neej no ces thiaj li ua npua tiv aws los mus txog niaj hnub no los mas. Kuv mas yog kuv txawm yuav tsis zoo nraug los yeej muaj ib tug tsis zoo nkauj yuav phim kuv thiab nav. Yog kuv ces muab nws ncaws tawv puag ntxov lawm os.
Leej niam txiv no mas duam tshaj plaws nrho rau tus txiv tsev no niam thiaj txiv. Tsim nyog tus poj niam no tsi hlub kj. Tus txiv tsev no has ruined her entire young adult life.
yog koj tus poj niam tuag no ces koj txiv coj los pam nawb nws tsis txhaum os koj ntxiv neb yog tus txhaum cas yus rov qab muab yus txoj kev npam los piav lau kuv ntxub cov neeg yuam neeg
Yog muab hais tiag mas tsis yog tim tus txiv tsev no. Yog muab hais los tiag yog tim 2 tog niam txiv ntawm nws thiab nws tus poj niam xwb. Tus poj niam no muaj hmoo uas nws tus txiv tseem hlub nws txawm nkawv twb tsis tau ua nkauj nraug hlo li. Muab piv rau tej tug lawv twb nyiam2 lawv thiaj yuav los thaum kawg lawv twb tseem tsis xav hlub tseem mus tham hluas nkauj poj nrauj thiab yuav niam yau kiag. Tus poj niam no yeej tsis sawm zoo. Ntshe nws xav hais tias nws mus tau tus nws hlub2 thiab nyiam2 ces nws lub neej yuav zoo2 no pob. Yog yuav zoo npaum li nws xav ces luag tej sib2 nyiam sib hlub luag yeej tsis raug tso tseg ua poj nrauj li os
Yus tsis zoo nraug cas tsis mus yuav kom tus phim yus, txhob tus siab tim yus tus kheej xwb. Yeej tseem muaj cov phem nkauj yuav phim koj txhob tas kev cias siab.
If he have a gf and was force to married her he probably would left Her and married his gf. He should’ve put Himself in her shoes. Love come From the heart not by force.
Tus mi nus aw txhob tu siab thiab txhob yah kev cia siab ma. Tus neeg muaj lub siab zoo2 li koj tsis tau ntsib tus neeg siab zoo li koj xwb os. Koj paub nav? Sim mi neej no kuv tus kheej xav hav tias yog muaj ib tug txiv neej es nws txawm phem nraug, qig taub, do hau los yog nws siab zoo2 hlub kuv , hwm kuv es noj los 2 leeg noj sib xws , hos Nyiaj txiag me thiab ntau los tso ua ib pob thiab tus mi txiv tseem tso pob Nyiaj rau tus mi Poj niam ua tus khaws ntshe kuv yuav xaiv tus ntawd lawm xwb mog es txhob tag kev cia siab tej zaum tus zoo los tsis tau txog xwb mog.
I feel as if it was part her fault too. Yes she was kidnapped and forced but she's in America and she was in the hospital for trying to escape with the help of her husband or soon to be husband but she didn't seek help. She was trying to protect her family but they didn't care to protect her. Everybody have a part in this story. I can empathize with her more if this was in Laos.
Koj tshua nws qlib os uncle... Tiam no koj yug los phem nraug Los twg yog tiam tas no koj zoo zoo nraug thiab dag nws muaj me nyuam es koj tsis yuav. Nws thiab mus noj tshuav tuag lawm. Tiam no nws thiab li nco ntsoov Los ntsim koj lub siab lub ntsw. Txog Kev npam tiam daul Los thiab li uas rau koj pheej nraug thiab qlee taub. Tsis zoo nraug li luag os.
Cas koj txiv neb yuav ua Tau tej niag uas RUAm 2 li yav thaum ub uas tseem nyob lub neej Tim los tsuas,. Tsam no nej tseem tsis Tau hloov, neb lub neej thiaj tsis muaj Kev kaj siab
Thaub koj ces tab tom haum xwb luag tsi nyiam koj es koj quab yuam luag yuav ces koj thiaj tau txoj kev mob hlwb cia ua 1 qho kev kawm rau peb cov hmong ruaj222 kawm nawb
Yus dab dab tuag yuav tsum mus nrhiav kom tau tus dab tuag li yus koj txiv neb ob txiv tub lub hlwb npwb npwb lub hlwb qub qub yog xab maim no ces neb raug dub plev kua quav tshau lug lawm xwb.
You should never talk down on yourself uncle/ brother. You gotta love yourself first. Sorry to hear about your story. I feel bad for the both of you. Good luck!
Wow you deserve it for forcing her to married you. Your family and her family mess up your life and her.. Even you are not handsome you should married someone who love you and willing to be with you. Not forcing someone to married you because you feel like you can't find a wife.
Peb ib tsoom txiv tsev hmoob aw lub ntuj U S A no tsoom txiv tsev yuav tau nco qab ntsoov tias quab yuam Tsis tau leej twg yuav nej lawm nej yuav. tus luag nyiam 22 nej xwb es kom luag thiaj fwm nej thiaj tsis rau kev lwj siab mob ntsws mog. txhob ruam 22 li cov og lawm lub ntuj no tsis ua hauj lwm lawm tsis ntxhob 22 siab tu siab rau yus tsis zoo nraug los yus muaj siab muaj ntsws ib tug tib neeg lawm yeej yuav tsum muaj tus nyiam yus xwb txhob tu siab yus yug los ua neeg yus yeej muaj yus ib qhov zoo 22 nrog nawb. nriav tus luag nyiam yus luag thiaj hlub yus ho peb tsoom ntxhais ces peb niam tsis muaj txoj cai xaiv tus peb hlub peb ntshaw es niam mag yus niam yus txiv muab yuam yuav xwb los txhob tu 22 siab tej zaum tos cov laus ho kom yus yuav tsev neeg ntawv los lawv kuj paub tias tsev hmoob ntawv coj zoo thiab yuav hlub yus no es laus 22 lawn ces ua ib siab. yus lub neej thiaj tsis txom nyem yuav tus phem nraug luag thiaj hlub22 yus es yus thiaj nyob kaj siab cuag li ib niag poj nom xwb es thiaj tsis poob ntsej muag rau luag tej.
The husband or the father? Lol. It's the old folks traditional way back then. It's a very stupid traditional way too. But I blame the father and her father didn't give a rats ass about her anyways.
Neej yuam kev ces zoo li no, txhob tusiab cia nyias nti nyias kaub puab kom txog hnub tuag. Txob mob vim koj twb tsoob nws tau 21 xyoo lawm...zoo siab tias koj yuav tsis tau tha nws lawm no ma...
Koj txiv xav Hais tias Ntshe xaj maim no poj niam tseem Yuav zoo li Thaum 1975 no koj txiv puaub COV poj Niam Tam Sim no tsawg kawg li, koj txiv thiaj yuam koj UA li koj Txiv Hais na has tsis work li os
Not sure why everyone is blaming the guy. Yes, she was force to marry him but if she really wanted to leave, she should have left and never look back but she kept going back and forth.
You all done mess this girl’s life up. If you knew she didn’t like you, you should have let her go no matter what. I would have told the hospital I was escaping a force marriage.
You, your dad and her dad should be put in jail for forcing a 16 year old girl to marry. She was a child. She had not place to go...good that she didn't commit suicide. You still have nerve to talk about the bad things she has done in her life. You made her this way. Shame on you!
Ua neeg nyob hauv ntuj qab plab no koj phem nraug los yeej muaj tus phem nkauj phim koj hos koj phem nkauj los yeej muaj tus phem nraug phim koj tiam sis txhua leej txhua tus yeej nyiam tus zoo nkauj zoo nraug xwb es thiaj muaj txoj kev nyuab siab nawb.
Tsis tsimnyog nej muab nws yuam yuav koj. Cas tsis mus nrhiav tus phim yus thiab nyiam yus thiaj sib hlub. Koj txawm tau lub cev los tsis tau lub siab yeej tsis muaj nuj nqis
Ua cas koj ho pom tus niam tsev no siab phem? Nws ua ib zaug neeg xwb. Nws lub neej raug quab yuam. Txog thaum kawg tsawm yog tus phem thiab. Qhov nws ua twb pauj tsis tau qhov nws raug quab yuam me me li.
Koj txiv twb nqhis nqhis koj tus cousin qaub ncaug tshuav nrog lawm xwb mas es thaub laus thiaj ua heev ua luaj kom koj tua npe yuav los mos. Txog txij thaub hais tau tawm tias koj tsis yuav ces thaub yuav no ces nws twb muab pog yaim yaim nchos nchos hauv siab txaus lawm mas thaub aw. Cov txiv uas xaiv nyab rau tub los niam xaiv vauv tau ntxhais ces tsuas muaj tib zaj no dhos xwb..period...case close.
Hmoob hnov tsi taus 1 tus nkauj hmoob raug nyiag raug yuam mus yuav suav tabsis qhov 2 pab hmoob no ua tsi txawv qhov raug nyiag mus yuav suav. Hmoob li hmoob tsuas hais tias hmoob zoo tabsis hmoob phem li phem, hmoob tsi pom tsi kam leeg hmoob kev phem... li pab txiv tub no. Muab luag nyiag muab luag yuam los yuav ua rau luag kev cia siab rau lub neej ploj tag los tseem hais tias luag phem luag nkhaus. Hoyo, pojniam tsi qhia tubceevxwm vim pojniam paub tias qhia ces pojniam tsi muaj chaw nyob xwb, yog pojniam qhia tubceevxwm ces nej pab txiv tub, niam tais yawm txiv txhua tus tau mus ua cov dub loj2 pojniam hauv kuaj... ces nej mam li paub tias raug yuam yuav tus yus tsi nyiam zoo li cas.
Ua neeg nyob cas yus tsis saib seb yus puas phim luag tso mam li yuav luag? Yog koj yug los ua ib tug neeg zoo zoo nraug es muaj ib tug uas koj twb tsis nyiam ib qho li cia li txhom koj yuav no koj puas tuag siab hlub thiab ma? Koj twb ua rau nws lub neej tiam no puas tsuaj tag tsim nyog koj nyob txom nyem li koj lawm thiab. Cov txiv neej 75 thiaj li xav tias poj niam ces yus muab nws yuam tau nws lub cev tag ces nws yuav ncawg yus no tab sis tsis yog txhua tus yuav ua li ntswd. Yog nws qhia tub ceev xwm ces koj txiv nej mag hlob kav hlau tag lawm mav. Tej yam no ua tau tsim txom tib neeg tiag tiag li.
Aib txiv hlwb ntse...thaub no hlwb ruam hos. Txiv yawg nqhis tus ntxhais ntawd tas mad tiam sis yog ntxhais lawm ces txiv yawm yuam tub tua npe yuav thiaj coj los ze kom txiv yawg tau nchos hauv kev xav xwb. Tub thiab niam pog m hlwb tsawg, nkawv cav qhuas tias tau pojniam tau nyab. Tub mas nim mus txhom txhom pog li hluas nraug. Txiv yawg mas twb rau siab ntso qaub ncaug nrog zig.
She was only 16 years old, All you adults was supposed to protect her but you people kidnap her and forced her to into a marriage she didn't want. You should've told your father you don't like her. You deserve the treatment she put you through. You should've marry someone that love you. I don't feel sorry for you.
Hmoob txoj niag kev zij poj niam mas liam tiag tiag
Txhob hais tias koj tu siab. Tim koj txiv neb es nws lub neej thiaj puas tag lawm ntag. Nws yog tus yuav tu siab rau koj hos
You deserve it too. You forced her to marry you. How do you feel if you were forced to marry a person you don't love. Good thing she didn't call the cop for.
How could her dad hit her when she came back 😥. I could never do that to my daughters. Older generations are just too cruel only thinking of their face and nothing else. 🤦♂️
‘Cause they rather take the silver bars & silver coins, but for you, you bring in your own 💵
I don't pity this guy and his family. If it was the other way around and the guy is force to marry her or someone who doesn't like, I'm sure he would run away with his lover and never return home. It's him/his parents fault for forcing someone who dont love you to be with you. I think what she did was justified, she's only looking for her own happiness. I'm surprised him/his parents/her parents aren't locked up in jail for forcing someone to give up her life.
Tus tub aw, Ca Koj lub neej yuav txaus tu siab ua luaj li os, Koj mas Txawj xav, thiab Txawj tham kawg li. Thov kom Koj ho tau ntsib ib tug hlub2 Koj os mog, txhob tag kev cia siab rau poj niam nawb , tseem tshuav tus puav zoo2 thiab os.
Zaj neej neeg no ua rau peb mob siab yuav tsum ua kev kawm rau peb haiv Hmoob, cov txiv neej Hmoob, cov neeg laus ua pheej muaj tej ntxhais yuam mus yuav tus nws tsis txaus siab thiab hlub. Kom peb cov Hmoob txhua tus kawm txhob sib yuam yuav lawm. Tsis xaus rau txoj kev zoo li zaj no. Xiam rau tus ntxhais Hmoob no lub neej mus ib si. Lub neej yeej mus tsis kawg rau txoj kev no li. Twb yog tim cov neeg laus xwb.
Its very common for hmong men to force marriages back in the old days and even some today too. Those who said he deserved it, it wasn't completely his fault. His dad also forced him to be the "man" every old hmong men think they're supposed to be/act. eventhough he said no because he knew she didnt love him. And he even tried to help her escape. Its all them OGS fault. I hope all who take on this old tradition and think its okay, dies out. And i hope this force marriage no longer continue in our hmong culture. Its a really sad and miserable life to see and hear. I feel bad for both.
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I find it hard to believe that this is still happening in the state especially in today's time. But I can be wrong too. There's still a few very outdated hmong families out there. But this kind of sex trafficking and kidnapping still definitely occurs in the third world countries.
I feel sorry for this girl. Her life was ruined by this forced marriage.
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Neej uas txaum rau tus poj niam no lawm mas neej yuav tsum hlub thiab pab nw mus kom tag nw lub neej tiam no. Pab lis kos xwb tsis tau tag neej txoj kev lim hiam.
Koj nim txawj tu siab thiab koj tus nism tseem tu siab tshaj koj 1000 npaug nas koj tu koj tus QAU xwb koj txiv tseem yuav nrog koj deev nws thsum tsis tau puv 3 tag kis ne muab koj tus QAU tso rau log cam es xyuas roob rauj xwb mas
To the girl, I’m sorry that you had to experience such pain and misery.. Life is so unfair to you.. May you find love and happiness..
Your wife was forced to marry you, cant expect love from her.
You, your parents and girl's parents are messed up people. All of you had skewed up this innocent girl's life. She should had put all of you in jail when she broke her foot.
Txoj kev txij nkawm thov tsis txhob quab yuam ntxiv lawm. Mloog zaj neej neeg no tas ces tsim nyog peb Hmoob nyob hauv kub qab ntuj no yuav tsum hloov kom tas thiab tseg kiag txoj kev yuam cai no mus txhob siv lawm. Tshwb xeeb tshaj cov Kwv tij Hmoob nyab laj tseem sij poj niam yuav. Tej no nws tsis yog kev Vam meej nawb.
Kwv tij pab koj tus siab heev li os, ua neej nyob tsis nyiam yus,tseem yog yus poj niam thiab ua lub neej cis kav siab li nawb.
This uncle please move on..u need some encouragement that u are good enough to move on..she aint the only one..now theres poj laib everywhere go explore..u can be handsome if u love yourself..please love yourself.
Good story. Thank u for sharing ur story
If you force someone to marry you, don’t expect them to love you. You can have their body but not their heart. The person will always recent you because you stole her life and her freedom to choose.
Ntsej muag qig taub qia neeg li koj ces nyob twj ywm tos koj tus niam mus deev deev txaus rov los koj thiaj tau paum ua nawb ntsej muag txhav luag tug
Hahaa love how you explained it🤣
Nyuam qhuav ntxim cov txiv neej es mus zij luag los ua yus poj niam ces li ko thiaj paub. Luag twb tsi nyiam yus na mus yuam luag los.
Tu me txiv neej siab zoo likj kj muaj tsawg tulimog
Koj tus poj niam siab zoo tshaj koj lawm ntau npaug, vim nws tsis yuam koj yuav nws. Koj thiab koj tsev neeg mas tseem2 yog cov neeg tsis muaj siab muaj ntsw. Tsis paub hlub leej twg, nej tsuas xav txog nej tus kheej xwb.
Koj tus poj niam ces tseem2 yog yug los xiam tiam vim muaj cov neeg li koj los cuam tshuam.
Koj hai yog lawm os.....I feel love her so much
Koj hais yog kawg. Txog qhov kawg, yug ua poj niam Hmoob ces yij yog tus txhaum tas li vim tsawm tshuav cov neeg zoo li no coob heev.
Tu siab tshaj!!! Ua rau kuv Chim tshaj
My older sister was also bridenap back in the late 80’s. She didn’t like the guy, Thankfully my parents did not allow it and got my sister back. 👍🏼
That was 1 out of 100 hmoob parents. 99 of them would rather take the silver bars and silver coins, then beat the crap out of the girls to go or them girls will cause shame on their ancestors.
ThePrincessWorrior yes I’m glad my parents weren’t those selfish greedy money hungry people.
Or face saving ego saving ogs
Tsis txhob quab yuam ib tus neeg los nrog yus ua neej! Thaum xub thawb koj yeej paub zoo zoo meej meej hais tias nws yeej tsis nyiam koj, koj nrog koj tsis tso nws mus thaum ntxov!
Nyob mekas teb lawm tseem siv cov laus tej nlag Tswv yim qias2 neeg li ntawd , sawv daws puas pom!!!
We can’t change history only learn from it, can’t put any blame on anyone that’s how things run back then . Even the other races have their own bad, we as Hmong are a lot better now then 20 years ago
This is a life lesson for all to learn from. Parents should never force their children to marry someone they do not love.
You should never force someone to marry you.
And if the person you marry loves you, will do anything for you, then stay. Love can and will flourish if only YOU allow it.
Good lesson for everyone to learn from.
Yog los mas tu tij laug aws, txoj niag kev ua yus hlub luag es luag ho hlub lwm tu no mas zoo yam txoj hluas es ib tug tsis muab txiv kom tu nrho ces ua lub niag neeg yeej khuam siab khuav li o.
Cas txiv neej hmoob es muaj plhua ua luaj li. Tim cov laus 99% los tim tus txiv 1%. Ua rau tus pojniam plam tus nws hlub los tseem muaj plhu hais tias pojniam phem pojniam nkhaus. Thaum kawg tus hluas nkauj hluas nraug rov sib tham tsi sib tau los hais cuag li npam tus pojniam. Twb yog tim koj (tus txiv) ntag... txiav nkawv kev hlub. Koj yog txiv neej yog koj hais 1 los tias koj tsi nyiam nws lawv yeej kawg tso neb nyias mus nyias. Tabsis koj nyiam nws ces koj ua li koj niam koj txiv hais. Sim muab thaub no yuam yuav, yuam nrog cov pog laus2 dab2 tuag pw saib thaub ua zoo los ua phem rau pog laus.
Tsis sib nyiam mag sib yuam sib yuav xwb ces ua li nej cov txiv neej hais os nws lub siab twb tsis tuag ces yeej kawg neej puas xwb kuv yeej tsis blame koj tus poj niam thiab.
zoo siab os me muam ua tsaug ntau2 nawb koj hais tau zoo kawg lis os 0k
Could have saved all the heartache by letting the two who wanted to be married, get married. Only the Hmong and one other ethnicity practice this type of barbaric human trafficking. Don’t ever force anyone to be with you if they don’t want to be with you. You want all their heart, soul and body. The man in this story didn’t have a loud enough voice to stand for himself nor his wife back than.
So sad for this man. Being ugly and poor is not easy. 😭
Don’t need to feel sorry for her, she got what she deserved.
It’s not really her fault for being a horrible wife, you can’t force someone to love you, she will only despise you because of it.
May, can u read the title in the beginning. I don't know how to read in hmong. Thank you.
By listening to a lot of dab neeg, I had learned lots of new hmong words.
You can't blame anyone but your dad (bc he was the first one to initiate) and her parents (bc they pushed the situation). You're not entirely innocent either bc you had no balls to stop this marriage. And you had no balls to divorce her. U knew she doesn't love you and u caught her cheating, but you continue to keep her caged in with you. I feel so sad and mad for her.
Neb lub neej txijnkawm nws tsis yog neb xaiv hos yog niam thiab txiv xaiv xwb ces thiaj li phem os txhob tusiab nawv.
Thanks for sharing your story, mister
Tu koj yuav chim yuav tu siab rau yog koj txiv tu yug koj ntag
No, tus kheej xwb os. He was 19 dude...an A-dult.
Tsis yog phem nraug es tau quaj, niag ruam nraug xwb. Pick someone your own level/size people.
Twb yog cov mi nyuam puag thauv lawm xwb es koj, koj niam koj txiv, nws niam nws txiv, thiab txhua tus neeg laus uas pab nej kaw nws thiaj tsis tau nkag nkuaj os.
Yog cov mi nyuam nim no ces nej txhua tus twb tau mus nrog lawv cuab qhov quav nram jail.
Yog yuav muab hais liam mas nej liam tshaj. Lawv twb hais tias siab phem li lub ntsej muag no ne.
It’s awesome that she plugged enough courage to leave you. Koj rapped nws tau 20+ xyoo txaus rau ob peb phav nqi koj txiv them rau nws txiv lawm os. Koj txiv los twb laus lawm qaub ncaug nqhuab, ntshav puas khiav zoo lawm tsam xav xav txog nchos koj poj niam ces plawv ho nres thiab.
Muab hais los tus ruam tshaj ces yog koj thiab koj niam. Txiv yawg qaub ncaug twb nrog zig rau niam tais tus ntxhais xwb los niam pog thiab tub mas tseem qhuas tias nkawv nim tau nyab mos ab
Peb cov txiv neej tseem muaj tus ruam npaum li no thiab koj tsis zoo nraug lo yeej muaj tug hlub koj na nws twb ua phem npaum no lo tseem thawj nws li tug dev xwb
Koj hais yog kawg lawm os Nyajteeb Vaj. Ruam npaum tus txiv neej no ces thiaj li ua npua tiv aws los mus txog niaj hnub no los mas. Kuv mas yog kuv txawm yuav tsis zoo nraug los yeej muaj ib tug tsis zoo nkauj yuav phim kuv thiab nav. Yog kuv ces muab nws ncaws tawv puag ntxov lawm os.
If we all still live back then everybody in here will do the same.....but i am a girl and im so glad my family move to the US....
I get your point, but the stupid thing about these bs is it's almost always the girls' fault.
I blame your parents and her parents for this hotmess!
Leej niam txiv no mas duam tshaj plaws nrho rau tus txiv tsev no niam thiaj txiv. Tsim nyog tus poj niam no tsi hlub kj. Tus txiv tsev no has ruined her entire young adult life.
Brother zoo koj niam koj txiv siab kawg lawm yom...... I feel bad for life😥😥
Hmong life style never changed. Sad. Better to let her go. She spent unhappy 20 yrs with you.
Think about all the however many times she was rapped by him😬
yog koj tus poj niam tuag no ces koj txiv coj los pam nawb nws tsis txhaum os koj ntxiv neb yog tus txhaum cas yus rov qab muab yus txoj kev npam los piav lau kuv ntxub cov neeg yuam neeg
That’s why there’s not too many squeal for movies.😢😭😢😭
Yog muab hais tiag mas tsis yog tim tus txiv tsev no. Yog muab hais los tiag yog tim 2 tog niam txiv ntawm nws thiab nws tus poj niam xwb. Tus poj niam no muaj hmoo uas nws tus txiv tseem hlub nws txawm nkawv twb tsis tau ua nkauj nraug hlo li. Muab piv rau tej tug lawv twb nyiam2 lawv thiaj yuav los thaum kawg lawv twb tseem tsis xav hlub tseem mus tham hluas nkauj poj nrauj thiab yuav niam yau kiag. Tus poj niam no yeej tsis sawm zoo. Ntshe nws xav hais tias nws mus tau tus nws hlub2 thiab nyiam2 ces nws lub neej yuav zoo2 no pob. Yog yuav zoo npaum li nws xav ces luag tej sib2 nyiam sib hlub luag yeej tsis raug tso tseg ua poj nrauj li os
Yus tsis zoo nraug cas tsis mus yuav kom tus phim yus, txhob tus siab tim yus tus kheej xwb. Yeej tseem muaj cov phem nkauj yuav phim koj txhob tas kev cias siab.
Find someone to love you. Women are not the same. Maybe you and your wife are not meant to be.
If he have a gf and was force to married her he probably would left
Her and married his gf. He should’ve put
Himself in her shoes. Love come
From the heart not by force.
Yus phem nraug es ho mus yuav tus zoo nkauj ces kawg ntsib kev nyuab siab lau mo????
Thank you
Tus mi nus aw txhob tu siab thiab txhob yah kev cia siab ma. Tus neeg muaj lub siab zoo2 li koj tsis tau ntsib tus neeg siab zoo li koj xwb os. Koj paub nav? Sim mi neej no kuv tus kheej xav hav tias yog muaj ib tug txiv neej es nws txawm phem nraug, qig taub, do hau los yog nws siab zoo2 hlub kuv , hwm kuv es noj los 2 leeg noj sib xws , hos Nyiaj txiag me thiab ntau los tso ua ib pob thiab tus mi txiv tseem tso pob Nyiaj rau tus mi Poj niam ua tus khaws ntshe kuv yuav xaiv tus ntawd lawm xwb mog es txhob tag kev cia siab tej zaum tus zoo los tsis tau txog xwb mog.
I don’t blame at all. Poor girl.
I feel as if it was part her fault too. Yes she was kidnapped and forced but she's in America and she was in the hospital for trying to escape with the help of her husband or soon to be husband but she didn't seek help. She was trying to protect her family but they didn't care to protect her. Everybody have a part in this story. I can empathize with her more if this was in Laos.
Txiv neej ruam dhau lawm thiab os
Koj tshua nws qlib os uncle... Tiam no koj yug los phem nraug Los twg yog tiam tas no koj zoo zoo nraug thiab dag nws muaj me nyuam es koj tsis yuav. Nws thiab mus noj tshuav tuag lawm. Tiam no nws thiab li nco ntsoov Los ntsim koj lub siab lub ntsw. Txog Kev npam tiam daul Los thiab li uas rau koj pheej nraug thiab qlee taub. Tsis zoo nraug li luag os.
Cas koj txiv neb yuav ua Tau tej niag uas RUAm 2 li yav thaum ub uas tseem nyob lub neej Tim los tsuas,. Tsam no nej tseem tsis Tau hloov, neb lub neej thiaj tsis muaj Kev kaj siab
Koj, koj txiv, nws niam nws txiv moov zoo kawg qhov koj tus poj niam tsi hu police rau nej os. Yog lwm tus ntxhais ces nej mag nyob ncuaj tas lawm os.
Thaub koj ces tab tom haum xwb luag tsi nyiam koj es koj quab yuam luag yuav ces koj thiaj tau txoj kev mob hlwb cia ua 1 qho kev kawm rau peb cov hmong ruaj222 kawm nawb
Yus dab dab tuag yuav tsum mus nrhiav kom tau tus dab tuag li yus koj txiv neb ob txiv tub lub hlwb npwb npwb lub hlwb qub qub yog xab maim no ces neb raug dub plev kua quav tshau lug lawm xwb.
Yog kuv yog koj tus poj niam ces nej mag nyob jail tag tug! Quab yuam luag yuav ua luag siab nrws puas tag los tseem muaj cai tu siab thiab?
Cas zaj yuav ua kuv tshav siab ua luaj li os
Very sad story.... ☹️☹️☹️
tsis pab koj khov siab li os. yus yuam luag los yuav xwb ces tabtom ntxim.
You should never talk down on yourself uncle/ brother. You gotta love yourself first. Sorry to hear about your story. I feel bad for the both of you. Good luck!
Poor girl i hate hmong parents those day i wish all they hmong have only sons no any daughters coz they treated daughters very low class
Wow you deserve it for forcing her to married you. Your family and her family mess up your life and her.. Even you are not handsome you should married someone who love you and willing to be with you. Not forcing someone to married you because you feel like you can't find a wife.
Peb ib tsoom txiv tsev hmoob aw lub ntuj U S A no tsoom txiv tsev yuav tau nco qab ntsoov tias quab yuam Tsis tau leej twg yuav nej lawm nej yuav. tus luag nyiam 22 nej xwb es kom luag thiaj fwm nej thiaj tsis rau kev lwj siab mob ntsws mog. txhob ruam 22 li cov og lawm lub ntuj no tsis ua hauj lwm lawm tsis ntxhob 22 siab tu siab rau yus tsis zoo nraug los yus muaj siab muaj ntsws ib tug tib neeg lawm yeej yuav tsum muaj tus nyiam yus xwb txhob tu siab yus yug los ua neeg yus yeej muaj yus ib qhov zoo 22 nrog nawb. nriav tus luag nyiam yus luag thiaj hlub yus ho peb tsoom ntxhais ces peb niam tsis muaj txoj cai xaiv tus peb hlub peb ntshaw es niam mag yus niam yus txiv muab yuam yuav xwb los txhob tu 22 siab tej zaum tos cov laus ho kom yus yuav tsev neeg ntawv los lawv kuj paub tias tsev hmoob ntawv coj zoo thiab yuav hlub yus no es laus 22 lawn ces ua ib siab. yus lub neej thiaj tsis txom nyem yuav tus phem nraug luag thiaj hlub22 yus es yus thiaj nyob kaj siab cuag li ib niag poj nom xwb es thiaj tsis poob ntsej muag rau luag tej.
This guy makes my blood boil, lol
Why lol
Daim Ntawv Love for being too nice lol
Its this guy’s fault. He f up her life. You cant force love.
The husband or the father? Lol.
It's the old folks traditional way back then. It's a very stupid traditional way too. But I blame the father and her father didn't give a rats ass about her anyways.
Omg!! Hahaha 😂
So what is your point of telling the story? Are you trying to make people feel sorry for you? I actually feel sorry for her and pity you. Lol
Neej yuam kev ces zoo li no, txhob tusiab cia nyias nti nyias kaub puab kom txog hnub tuag. Txob mob vim koj twb tsoob nws tau 21 xyoo lawm...zoo siab tias koj yuav tsis tau tha nws lawm no ma...
vim koj nws lub neej thiaj tsis zoo
Koj txiv xav Hais tias Ntshe xaj maim no poj niam tseem Yuav zoo li Thaum 1975 no koj txiv puaub COV poj Niam Tam Sim no tsawg kawg li, koj txiv thiaj yuam koj UA li koj Txiv Hais na has tsis work li os
Not sure why everyone is blaming the guy. Yes, she was force to marry him but if she really wanted to leave, she should have left and never look back but she kept going back and forth.
May cas koi hai lus yuam kev ua luaj lisnlawm os.
You all done mess this girl’s life up. If you knew she didn’t like you, you should have let her go no matter what. I would have told the hospital I was escaping a force marriage.
Maybe that time she is still not speaking English well enough. Hahaha 😂
You, your dad and her dad should be put in jail for forcing a 16 year old girl to marry. She was a child. She had not place to go...good that she didn't commit suicide.
You still have nerve to talk about the bad things she has done in her life. You made her this way. Shame on you!
U khaws luag qub ces yeej mob u siab
Ua neeg nyob hauv ntuj qab plab no koj phem nraug los yeej muaj tus phem nkauj phim koj hos koj phem nkauj los yeej muaj tus phem nraug phim koj tiam sis txhua leej txhua tus yeej nyiam tus zoo nkauj zoo nraug xwb es thiaj muaj txoj kev nyuab siab nawb.
Mob siab ua dabtsi nas Thaub aw....koj pojniam twb tsis hlub koj nas. It not worth it check on her....let her go and move on with your life.
Tsis tsimnyog nej muab nws yuam yuav koj. Cas tsis mus nrhiav tus phim yus thiab nyiam yus thiaj sib hlub. Koj txawm tau lub cev los tsis tau lub siab yeej tsis muaj nuj nqis
Cas tsis kom koj txiv yuav kiag xwb nas? Nws nyiam dhau ces kom nws yuav kiag xwb mas
Cov niam tsev zoo nkauj yeej siab phem nawb cov kwv tij aw.........
Ua cas koj ho pom tus niam tsev no siab phem? Nws ua ib zaug neeg xwb. Nws lub neej raug quab yuam. Txog thaum kawg tsawm yog tus phem thiab. Qhov nws ua twb pauj tsis tau qhov nws raug quab yuam me me li.
Yus yog nab tsiav xwb tab sis yus pheej xav mus ua zaj laug ces zoo li koj ntag mas
Are we supposed to feel sorry for this guy? No way!!!
Koj txiv twb nqhis nqhis koj tus cousin qaub ncaug tshuav nrog lawm xwb mas es thaub laus thiaj ua heev ua luaj kom koj tua npe yuav los mos.
Txog txij thaub hais tau tawm tias koj tsis yuav ces thaub yuav no ces nws twb muab pog yaim yaim nchos nchos hauv siab txaus lawm mas thaub aw.
Cov txiv uas xaiv nyab rau tub los niam xaiv vauv tau ntxhais ces tsuas muaj tib zaj no dhos xwb..period...case close.
Hmoob hnov tsi taus 1 tus nkauj hmoob raug nyiag raug yuam mus yuav suav tabsis qhov 2 pab hmoob no ua tsi txawv qhov raug nyiag mus yuav suav. Hmoob li hmoob tsuas hais tias hmoob zoo tabsis hmoob phem li phem, hmoob tsi pom tsi kam leeg hmoob kev phem... li pab txiv tub no. Muab luag nyiag muab luag yuam los yuav ua rau luag kev cia siab rau lub neej ploj tag los tseem hais tias luag phem luag nkhaus. Hoyo, pojniam tsi qhia tubceevxwm vim pojniam paub tias qhia ces pojniam tsi muaj chaw nyob xwb, yog pojniam qhia tubceevxwm ces nej pab txiv tub, niam tais yawm txiv txhua tus tau mus ua cov dub loj2 pojniam hauv kuaj... ces nej mam li paub tias raug yuam yuav tus yus tsi nyiam zoo li cas.
I feel sorry for this guy... but I feel that there’s someone out there that will match him he don’t need to do this to himself....
Ua neeg nyob cas yus tsis saib seb yus puas phim luag tso mam li yuav luag? Yog koj yug los ua ib tug neeg zoo zoo nraug es muaj ib tug uas koj twb tsis nyiam ib qho li cia li txhom koj yuav no koj puas tuag siab hlub thiab ma? Koj twb ua rau nws lub neej tiam no puas tsuaj tag tsim nyog koj nyob txom nyem li koj lawm thiab. Cov txiv neej 75 thiaj li xav tias poj niam ces yus muab nws yuam tau nws lub cev tag ces nws yuav ncawg yus no tab sis tsis yog txhua tus yuav ua li ntswd. Yog nws qhia tub ceev xwm ces koj txiv nej mag hlob kav hlau tag lawm mav. Tej yam no ua tau tsim txom tib neeg tiag tiag li.
Who is this family? I used to live in Lacrosse during1983 til 1991.
Lol
Koj ntseeg koj txiv lub niag hlwb ruam ruam puag thaum xyoo 1800 ne es koj thiaj li tsis tau lub neej kaj siab ntag
Aib txiv hlwb ntse...thaub no hlwb ruam hos. Txiv yawg nqhis tus ntxhais ntawd tas mad tiam sis yog ntxhais lawm ces txiv yawm yuam tub tua npe yuav thiaj coj los ze kom txiv yawg tau nchos hauv kev xav xwb. Tub thiab niam pog m hlwb tsawg, nkawv cav qhuas tias tau pojniam tau nyab. Tub mas nim mus txhom txhom pog li hluas nraug. Txiv yawg mas twb rau siab ntso qaub ncaug nrog zig.
She was only 16 years old, All you adults was supposed to protect her but you people kidnap her and forced her to into a marriage she didn't want. You should've told your father you don't like her. You deserve the treatment she put you through. You should've marry someone that love you. I don't feel sorry for you.
Yog kuv tsev neeg ko nkag nkuaj tag nrho.