Doubting Your Friend's Relationship | Made In Chelsea
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- Опубликовано: 27 ноя 2021
- Ollie Locke and Liv fall out over her rekindling romance with her ex Tristan. Will this mean the end of their friendship? Or will Ollie finally come round to the idea of Tristan and Liv?
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If you don’t want your friends and family to form negative opinions about who you are with don’t go running to them in tears every time they make you cry.
It’s a lot easier to forgive someone who hurts you than it is for to forgive someone for hurting someone you love.
It’s a lot easier to look past the continue disrespect of yourself than it is to look past the continual disrespect of someone you love.
Humans are simply better at protecting and loving other people than we are at protecting and loving ourselves.
Well said
Exactly
💯
Absolutely! So spot on!
True it’s constantly annoying that two people who aren’t meant to be together, get together share their problems to friends, break up, cry and then start over again. Friends and family end up being in the relationship when they shouldn’t have to.
Ollie is just looking out for his friend Liv. He is right to be concerned, as Liv and Testy Tristan have been on and off for a year! Liv has been in tears over Testy in every ep of this series!! This relationship won't last, and Liv will regret going back.
I get them both but I think they’re both going about it quite badly. Ollie is taking on this issue too dearly when we all know there’s no getting in someone’s way when they’re in love, they’ll learn on their own. Liv is expecting constant pity and coddling but if that was her loved one miserable with their bf, she would understand it a lot differently so she didn’t need to say that to Ollie, it’s a bit manipulative..
Liv is very immature and toxic at times. Her relationships won’t ever work out until she does work on herself. It’s all very dramatic, she doesn’t treat people great, and her friends condone her behaviour & coddle her which leads to this.
She treated Ollie disgustingly
And he irony is that he cares more about her than she does about herself.
Ollie you are a amazing friend.
period.
I absolutely love Ollie and Gareth
@@lisaspencer1766not Gareth
Liv has a few toxic behaviours, and her friends, especially Ollie have coddled her for too long and now believe their opinions are enough to control her actions. She should stop running to them with her problems with Tristan and her friends need to let her make her own mistakes. Neither side should be surprised by each’s entitlement
I thought what Liv said to Ollie about having other friends was so crass. She clearly hurt his feelings and given their friendship history I was expecting her to be a lot more sensitive towards Ollie. Ollie should stop caring and take a step back from Olivia and all she wants.
Liv loves toxic and loves a toxic partner. She is toxic to nice ppl but when her bf is toxic she runs back to him with open arms.
Toxic liv strikes again.... It's always everyone else's fault and not her own. They support her when she's upset and hurting but also want them to support her when she chooses to go back to the person who hurt her and expect her friends not to have an opinion after involving them to the point where they have there own opinion. Sometimes she's amazing but when it comes to these types of situations which she often finds herself in (common denominator) she's completely selfish.
Damn ☹️ this is one relationship she should try and hold on to. He’s a great friend to her.
Is Tristan really worth losing a friend over?
Liv is so loved n protected with gud friends who care she'll regret it
She is totally wrong, Tristan and Liv are not a good couple, never gonna work
Stop telling your friends the negatives then maybe they won’t have opinions.
If you don’t want negative opinions, DON’T tell people about the negatives. People like liv annoy me, they cry to everyone about how the other persons so terrible, then say “why are you being so negative and unsupportive?” 🙄
Get a grip and keep it to yourself or be prepared for people’s opinions.
LOL, spot on!
this is why you just listen to friends woes without getting to involved.
This relationship is exactly the same as when liv was with Digby!!pattern repeating itself
Exactly. Olivia is the common denominator. She bad mouths her boyfriends to the point that all her friends hate the guy meanwhile the guy (Digby and Tristan) is a perfectly nice guy and she is the one being an abusive girlfriend. Olivia is really toxic.
Liv was fucking horrible to digby I hated her when she did that cause all he was trying to do was love her
Absolutely agree,she destroys her own relationships and then wonders why no likes the bloke after she splits with them about 40 times and bad mouths them to everyone
I know. She never learns.
Ollie is everything in this. Liv... You've needed to grow up for a few years now. Every single red flag is up, it's not gonna work, listen to those who LOVE you. Not some fucking guy, from the beginning you knew it wasn't gonna go anywhere. He's a tool. Again, Ollie the way you held yourself 👏👏
Liv is the problem in all her relationships! With friends & boyfriends.
Clear as day, and anyone defending her just doesn't want to see her flaws.
She is so manipulative!
Olivia is so toxic. She is the one creating all these issues and causing her friends to bully Tristan via her gossiping about tristan. Then at the same time she is obsessed with Tristan because she knows he is a good guy who hasn't done much to hurt her. People need to wake up to her manipulation and see that she is the problem. This is exactly the same patter she used whe dating Digby, another really nice guy.
I actually had a ‘really close friend’ who didn’t want to be friends with me anymore because of this guy she was dating and I didn’t like him. Tbf even she didn’t really like him that much.
They broke off 2 months after I had to completely cut her out of my life I do think it wasn’t because of that guy. I think it was her ego that was hurt more. But honestly it’s such a mind fuck.
What Ollie said is correct: a relationship is part of the friendship group, and if a friend doesn't like the person you're dating, that is a red flag.
I love Liv but this has really irritated me. Ollie and Gareth, picked her up over and over again and helped her to feel better without Tristan. So it's like a slap in the face to turn around and act like it doesn't matter what they think. I am all for you need to do what makes you happy but you also need to accept that some are going to struggle with that.
Liv is acting so entitled. Are friends only there to comfort you when you continually go back to a situation that's never worked??
People think that. But I believe sometimes people being real is important because that’s how you grow as a person
I really like Ollie
After 22 seasons I've never known anyone to have this much drama in there life. It must be real.
Dreams turn out to be real sometimes
For goodness sake, how old is this women..!! “ if you don’t have the time to look after me “ Maybe grow up and look after yourself.. 🤨😏
Shes gonna regret this.....
Wow, what has Ollie done to his face?
Ollie is such a good friend ❤
It looks like she has trouble loving herself and don’t know why but it seems she has nothing to do in her life so she can’t keep herself busy and runs back and forth to a relationship she knows it doesn’t work. She can’t deal with breakups on her own so she runs to her friends badmouthing the guy and then gets crossed with them for not liking him when she runs back to them.. I really think she should go to therapy , but she probably sees that like something negative like most of the society instead of a help for your mental health, even more when you’re in the public eye…
Is this the same Liv who paired up with that Canadian girl to 'take down Tristan'? The same Liv who was supposedly furious about being lied to? The one who dramatically threw her silver necklace, claiming she wanted diamonds? Did Tristan give her diamonds to get her to forsake what's left of her dignity and crawl back to him, or was she just plain desperate for this mirage of a relationship? The fact that all of her friends are more concerned about the effect of her decision than she is shows that her decision-making is the problem. But she won't see it until it's too late, only to then demand support from the same friends she ignored.
This show is just funny, it makes me laugh. There are TV shows that could base some of their scripts on this show and be well entertaining. Liv is like a Lion she marks her territory real hard. Yes, she sabotaged Tristin and the Canadian girl's relationship to get him back. I am sure Liv will break up with Tristin again, go crying to her friends and then will repeat the sabotaging once he tries to move on. lol
Fast forward to end of the season and another dramatic break up.
Liv is a grown woman who can make her own decisions, however if her friends have to be the ones to listen to the fallout, be there for her physically and emotionally everytime then they are entitled to say I can't do this again.
She has to realise that as a grown up you need to deal with conflict in a relationship without involving your whole friendship group. People have rows and mess up but you need to be emotionally mature enough to deal, and unfortunately she isn't.
This is more than a standard conflict. If Ollie is saying that Tristan keeps making her cry (which she did not deny), then she is insane for going back to him.
@@Musicienne-DAB1995 yes that's true but any prior relationship has followed the same pattern of involving everyone in any argument or conflict to back her up. She needs a bunch of people to back her up in a conflict but then goes and repeats it all again. She only wants one dimensional people who agree with her, back her and are there for her.
OMG I AM missing MIC!! When is it returning?!
When all your closest friends are telling you that your ex is trouble and you shouldn't get back with them,,,, LISTEN TO YOUR FREINDS. Liv doesn't deserve to have friends like Ollie, when he's the realest and loveliest cast ever to grace us on MIC, and she's spinning it as if he's in the wrong for caring about her reinstated a toxic relationship.... Liv is scared of being alone and will take any companion she can, even if it's her friends ex's. Can't stand the low key high key toxicity of her and the likes of Maeve
I honestly like Tristan and liv together, I think they need time alone to build their foundation together. Liv and Tristan have both made mistakes here but if they’re willing to move on, I wish them all the luck in the world!
same!!! i think she becomes more mature
Olivia, true friends don't go along with everything you say. They will challenge you when it is warranted. You'd have rather he pretended to be happy for you? That's called being fake. A year later, oh how Olly has been vindicated.
Liv always does this ,she like the guy and then in a few weeks they are too much for eachother comes crying to her friends And wanting support , and start allover again later .She is a nice girl but she always goes for the wrong guy time after time .
It doesn’t matter who she goes with Liv will always be the same it’s sad because Ollie and Gareth have been there for her so much my honest advice would be if it doesn’t work out you made now go and lay it
He is right but I’ve learnt just never get involved in someone’s relationship no matter your opinion because you just end up losing a friend or their other half hates you
But they're not getting involved. They are having an opinion, which is that she has made the wrong decision. They are angry with Tristan for shacking up with a rebound while still plugging his ex-girlfriend at the same time and lying to both. Their reaction is perfectly legitimate, and they would be terrible friends if they sat back and watched Olivia make a fool out of herself by crawling back to a man who kept making her cry.
This is giving me binky and Alex vibes all over again 🤦🏽♀️
I ❤ Ollie x 😊
Liv it's going to happen again and you are really going to need ollie.
I get it. He knows it's wrong and that she needs to let go, she knows the smart move would be to let go but she lives him and wants to make it work. Ollie shouldn't have to put on the consoling face over so.ething he knew would happen and she doesn't want to hear their opinions because she knows on some level everyone is right
This aged well.
she’s the new binky
Liv has a pattern and i get it but there's nothing more powerful than when a female realises her self worth and walks away
Eventually she will realise Sometimes love just ain't enough
then its easier to walk with head held high and self respect
While you're with the wrong one you'll never find the right one
Livs friends have been through this so many times they know it will end badly
'there's nothing more powerful than when a female realises her self worth and walks away'
Um sorry, but in this situation, walks away from what? They've both admitted to wrongdoing when they were together so your comment is irrelevant on that level. And when Tristan hooked up with the other blonde, he was single and entitled to do whatever he wanted. Yeah he lied and I don't respect that but he didn't owe anyone the truth. So if you can explain why you're comment makes out as though Tristan was a massive monster and she needs to be saved from him, I'd be grateful. Seeing as she's now gone back I think you'll find that hard to justify
Can somebody pls tell me exactly what the problem is between TRistan and Liv?😂😂
I see both perspectives here and I’m in a similar situation as Liv. She just really likes Tristan and wants to make it work!
Some advice which is always worth keeping in mind is, if someone shows you who they are, believe them. Just something to consider when evaluating relationships!
tbh i've learned over the years you can never help someone realize they're better than their current relationship, all you can do is be there for them, don't take it personally, and give the most ambiguous advice ever. all that's gonna happen otherwise is you will end up resenting each other
Drop me out!
I don't like it when friends get angry because you have not followed things their way... that's not concern. That is control. People have to let those who they care about find their way and support them in their choices... within reason. This situation is not one of those extreme reasons not to just be a normal caring friend.
She shouldn't run to her friends then crying how horrible Tristan is! She's the problem here. This is her pattern.
And friends aren't only there for the good moments in life. They're there to tell you some some hard truths too. There is a pattern so she shouldn't talk about Tristan to her friends anymore and keep it to herself.
agree!!!
She' s one big pampered pouch..Tristan too good for her.
The way liv is behaving backing rez the slime ball just because Tristan is agood friendof his she's gone down in my estimations. Rez on social media never even posted a picture of Ruby, snake. Eww
Liv is the most toxic drama queen there is.... How can you not expect your friends to hate Tristan when all you have done was run to them every time that fool hurt you... Seriously..dunno if these rich kids have any sense whatsoever!!! She was down right rude to Ollie...
Waiting for Tristan to hurt her again..
*Ollie*..."you said you'd other friends to go cry to,...so GO!"..
Love liv 💗
If those two (olly and partner) are going to be parents, they need to learn more about unconditional love and respecting individual choice even when they disagree with it. The idea that you can or should micromanage someone else's choice of romantic partner is so lacking in awareness and respect for appropriate boundaries. We learn through our own choices, not by judgement and micromanagement. I see this as unconscious narcissism, even if your desire is to protect a person, this approach is totally flawed.
All love is conditional, spoken or unspoken.
Finally someone says how it is bravo!!!
Also in love sometime its hard and especially when you love each other A LOT conflict can get nasty but it doesnt mean its not suitable some people just want more challenges in love then others. Many of my connections were like that difficult but not regretting it. Im glad Liv stands her ground she becomes more authentic.
no one likes athentic people on this show. tristan is authentic
Unconditional love only applies between parent and child(ren).
100% they're being borderline controlling. You get to voice your opinion not impose your opinion.
I cannot stand Liv. She's a selfish, egotistical snob.
There is a pattern on Made in Chelsea (and in the real world if you are paying attention) - those women who think it's clever to go around sleeping with the whole city, women like SOPHIE HERMAN and LIV BENTLEY, talking about "strong independence" and sleeping with every man to prove it. Look at them now. One is securely in her 30s still unable to find "the one", the other is approaching her 30s a broken mess.
Coincidence? I think not. Modern-day Feminism has a lot to answer for.
Once you sleep with someone you can't really see them clearly. Love is blinding.
Or is that, bonding is blinding?
Firstly I never saw Sophie Herman “sleeping around” on MiC, so I’d be interested to know what evidence you’ve seen to the contrary that supports your correlation.
Certainly in the UK & Ireland the pool of good men seems to dwindling, MiC is a just a show but even as a microcosm- how many times does the issue of prioritising partying over literally everything come up, how often does the issues of dishonesty & cheating come up?
Are you mourning the submissive woman who just puts up with all of that & sets her bar that low?? Is that the problem?
Modern day feminism isn't really anything to do with sleeping around.
All it is, is just highlighting the sexism that still exists in society and raising awareness about it so that it can be changed.
I am in my early 30s, I am not married. I have friends of a similar age also not married. Your 30s is only your 2nd decade of your adult life, with people living longer I think it is now unrealistic to have found "the one" (which unfortunately I also dont believe in anymore) by the time you turn 30. Even if you have there is no guarantee you will stay together, we see it every day people divorcing who have been married 5, 10, 20 years even... Sophie seemed really happy with Tom, im sure if whatever broke down between the two of them hadnt she would have said "yes" if he had proposed, I dont think you should be judging her or women like her (like me 😄). I have tried damned hard to make relationships work in the past and they just haven't.
@@sineadkeane9753 Lmao, in your first paragraph you state how "good men are dwindling" and then in your second paragraph you have the audacity to ask if I'm mourning the "submissive" woman haha.
If you think the good men are dwindling, then just ask yourself: "Are you being the sort of woman that a good man would want?"