These 24 hr shifts are horrible for everyone. They're inhumane to healthcare workers. Plus I wouldn't want to be delivering with a doctor who is running on 23 hours with no sleep. Doctors are human. Tired humans make mistakes.
@@tbair200 They can't. They don't. The human body is not adapted for that. But that is what we are expected to accept for the people who are supposed to keep the rest of our bodies working.
It’s shocking how horribly we treat the people we need the most in society : doctors, nurses, teachers, social workers, police officers, etc. We need to re-examine our values as a society.
I quit my my job as an RN last two years ago after almost 9 years in the field. It was not an easy decision, but life is too short to dread going to work everyday. No amount of money can buy real happiness, but friends I'm not asking you to resign from your job or abandon your business but be wise!
@eiraAntoinette right now I run my own business and While I was still in service I planned towards early retirement, making about 2k weekly from my retirement investment portfolio trying so much to build more side hustles and extra income
wow impressive you're making quite a fortune speaking of in vesting I have heard many people talk about it but I don't really know how to start and make a good inve stment, can you explain?
My OB just did the same thing. She told me the same thing, a big corporation took over and told her that she had to shorten her visits to 5-10 minutes. I’m high risk and I she made sure my mental health and as well as the health of my baby and myself was in tip top shape. I’m following her to her new practice.
I’m so glad you talk about the short office visits. I left my OB because I felt like they didn’t have time for me. I had a healthy pregnancy, but it just felt like they had no idea who I was and didn’t seem concerned about my feelings or desires. It was very uncomfortable. I’m glad to see there are docs who care😊❤️
This video spoke to my soul. I've been a registered nurse for 14 years now. While I loved caring for patients, I hated everything about our healthcare system. It doesn't let you be the best you can be as a health care provider. You're always rushed. You don't feel supported for the most part and in some cases, it feels unsafe (for you/patient). I stepped away from my job during the pandemic. I don't know if I'll be going back to be honest. But like you, I realized that my mental health and time with my family was more important and I didn't want to look back and realize I'd missed most of my life because of my job. Wishing you all the best in your new career endeavors.
Thank you for sharing your story. That's so crazy they make doctors work 24 hour shifts so often. You are awesome! I think it's so great that you knew it wasn't working for you and made a change.💓
Girl, you are the sanest person to decide those are horrible working conditions - for both you AND the laboring people. As someone who gave birth in a hospital with a doctor like this once and then decided NEVER again, I can tell you it’s also a super bad situation for a laboring person and all other patients. Congratulations, you now have the opportunity to start a new practice of your own that puts the humanity and sustainability in labor and delivery because lord knows we need it!
Dr ali, i can totally relate to what you are saying. Im a doctor myself and left a very toxic work environment. I felt like i was giving for lack of a better term "half assed healthcare" bc of the demand expected. Please know that this is the best thing you can do for yourself. Someone told me "you werent burned out. You were exploited" which made the decision to leave easier. Best wishes to you, cant wait to see your future content❤❤
I love this for you!! And I just want to say thank you so much for sharing this side of medicine with us. As a rising second-year medical student interested in OB, it still feels so taboo to ask physicians questions about their work-life balance or how they cope with rough work schedules.
This was so inspiring as I switched to be a nursing major so I can be a nurse midwife and women’s health nurse practitioner instead of an OBGYN. I have so much respect for OBGYNs because seeing how they worked in the clinic and then were often called to the hospital for an emergencies since they were also on-call on the days they were working in the clinic. Big ups to you Dr. Alirod!
I had all my babies with midwives, they were the best. My nieces and DIL all had babies with OBGYN's and there is no way I would, the OBGYN was in the room to just deliver the baby, my midwives were there for my whole labor and delivery being a nurse and helping out with breathing or whatever else was needed. Thanks for being a midwife.
Thank you so much for being open and honest about the struggles OBs face. I chose to have home births because I didn’t want a provider who was run ragged like that. I have nothing against OBs but I could see the stress they were under with my first birth (a hospital birth) and just knew they couldn’t physically give me the time and attention I needed during labor because they were stretched so thin. Medical staff have stopped being treated humanely and it’s not okay.
Blessing in Disguise for the rest of us that you had to make the decision you made; otherwise, the rest of us would never have "met" you. I recently discovered your channel. I have learned more from you in recent weeks than I have in my 64 years on Earth!
I’m SO happy for you. It’s so sad to see hear that you were expected to do ALL of that work & somehow be happy & healthy, mentally. I can’t imagine seeing patients in 5 or 10 minute slots. I’m happy that you’re choosing you first. I’m praying for you girlie. So happy for you!
I worked in community mental health and saw that the medication prescribers there had 15-min appts and thought it was INSANE. 5 to 10 is beyond fathomable!!!
It's refreshing to hear this from an attending! I live and work in Trinidad 🇹🇹 as a GP. I worked for a while in A&E and one of my residents said to me on a shift "You have 15 mins max to spend with each patient, this is not a GP visit". I was so flabbergasted and left the job to fulfil a GP role in a private practice. I love it now as I get the opportunity to spend different time slots with different patients. I also worked in a OBGYN department at my previous hospital and enjoy the gynae side of it e.g. performing pap smears. You are so right pap smears CANNOT be rushed especially to first timers. In addition, many non-first timers I encounter have had a traumatic experience so it takes a lot of time relaxing them! I also walked away from working at the hospital due to the horrible way it was affecting my life. I have a little one as well and working a hospital's schedule did no good for me as I would just be grumpy on my days off as I was too exhausted to perform basic socialisation! Recently, I decided to start up a Printing business as well as do more house/work visits for patients. And I am going to make more time to pour into my RUclips channel! Thanks so much for sharing this as many of us are in the same boat.
I'm happy you left that stress environment behind. Our health care is insane in this country. I have to flight to Guatemala to see my OB & General Doctor that I have known for years. So proud of you Chica ❤
This is the reality of obgyn nowadays. Unfortunately, big corpo made it unsustainable. Good luck to anyone who went to obgyn, it’s only gonna get tougher. Yall are underpaid too. Anyone that does 24hr shifts or do unpaid labor, or cover inbox, or are on RVU salary- it’s a tough world. Wish u success. Stay strong, maintain balance. God bless
I am so happy for you. It takes courage. Glad you noticed the changes and you took action for your own well-being. You must take care of yourself first, always! Much love ❤️
When I worked ambulance the 10 min on scene time was coming in. For some patients, getting them out of the house takes ten minutes 😂, let alone an assessment, vitals, or any kind of interventions. I’m glad you’ve found a better workflow. Physician, heal thyself. You can’t help your patients if you’re barely hanging on yourself.
I completely understand and support you. I did the same thing in my career (I'm not a doctor but worked a very high stress job with often long, unpredictable hours). You have so much to offer as a woman, doctor, mom, wife. Keep talking, I love listening to you.
Hi Dr. Ali, I was a pediatrics resident and I was in a small program that did not do a great job of giving support and I dealt with a lot of loneliness and basically I started having a lot of health issues because of this and that all snowballed a lot and became basically a huge nightmare - I have been through, so long story short I couldn’t finish and didn’t sit for the boards. Fortunately Im doing a lot better now.
Listening to you was so sobering. I use to go to a doctor who was only allowed to spend maybe 10 minutes per visit. I have a lot of issues and I always felt like a number, gotta get in and out in the allotted time. God forbid you mentioned something that was not your original reason for coming in. Eventually I got sick of the care I was receiving so I decided to go with a concierge doctor and I love it. She spends as much time as needed to provide good healthcare, I have 24 hour access to her if needed. That being said I do pay extra for this service which is wrong in my opinion. Healthcare is a right not a privilege and we all should have access to it without having to pay extra. Like you said the system is broken and I commend you for seeing that and taking care of yourself first and foremost. You can’t provide the care your patients need and want if you’re running on empty. Look forward to seeing what the future holds for you.
Aww honey u did what is right for you ri❤ ur absolutely right! You also have to be a good mother too and u can’t if ur not urself! Ur such a heart warming person! I love it!! Don’t feel guilty
im european obgyn working im the hospital fulltime. i work 24 h shifts too, i have like 6-8 per month. if im not 24 i see 40-50 pts per day in 8 hour work day. its grueling, ppl cant really understand the lifestyle, relationships with us are challenging. but thats just how it is. and ive been doing it for 9 yrs!
I think it's great that you realized that you could not do this anymore and I think that is positive because I think we are very you know there's a lot we do when our jobs doesn't mean that were good it's good for our good for you for realizing that
You are a Very caring lady👈 and I sooo much thank you for how you care for girls/women in all👃I can tell you loved your job and whether you find something sooner or later I only wish you the very very best👃Health matters for everyone out there but you need to also take care of your own health. Godbless people like you! jason m.
The schedule you had is the norm in Croatia for almost all hospital specialities, including ObGyn of which I am resident myself. 24h shifts for sometimes 8 times a month. But we have the option of working in office out of hospital only which I am going to do. That work schedule is not worth the money or my inner peace. ❤
How can they expect you to properly care for anyone while not having enough sleep. It just shows you take your job seriously and you took your oath seriously! You left a job that expected you to work on auto pilot! Thank you for clearly going into the medical field to care for people. I lost my mother to cancer last year and her oncologist would spend 20 minutes every visit asking questions and speaking into his laptop. He never remembered her name even though he seen her 2-3 times a month. One visit he told us a Spot on her lung hadn’t grown since 3 years prior when her lung had collapsed. My mothers lung never collapsed and she hadn’t seen a physician 3 years prior. We told him this and he rushed us out. You should be happy with your decision because you are a real doctor who cares. Thank you
I’m glad you made the healthy decision. It’s good that you’re putting yourself first this time, because it’s easy to take care of people when you love it and forget about yourself. But the problem comes when you’re putting extra heavy yokes on yourself. Take care of yourself and don’t feel guilty, cuz Jesus said “My yoke is easy, and my burden is light” and we should take His yokes and burden. So He doesn’t want you stressing out and it’s good that you left. ❤
I'm so sorry you were put in such an impossible position. These formats aren't what's best for either doctors or patients. I loved my OBs and the office so much. I went in for an annual last week and gave one of my nurses a huge hug. They were calming, comforting friends to a first and second time mom who just needed to know my babies and I were in safe, trusted hands. We were ❤ Bonds like that take time. Mental health is extremely important for both the doctors and nurses taking care of patients at such a vulnerable (but exciting) time in our lives and for the patients who need that expert support and care. Health care is really broken and the outlook is a bit scary. I'm very happy for you that youre taking care of yourself and that we'll still get to hear from Dr Alli. For some of us, time w you fills in the gaps of what our doctors wish they could provide.
Wow. Lots of respect for you being honest with yourself ( and your viewers ). I don’t understand how anybody could be okay with this, especially in such a sensitive speciality. It’s refreshing that you even recognize how important, vulnerable and invasive obgyn exams are for women. Most Drs don’t get it or care. Honestly I think you have to have a very cold side to be an obgyn. Anyway, glad you left that stressful, toxic situation. Best.
I got really close with my OBGYN, she even came in on her off day to deliver my baby when things started getting complicated. I was so relieved when she showed up to deliver and in shock. I brought her chocolates and a newborn photo to my post-op appointment and everything. ❤
The fact that doctors have a certain amount of time with each patient makes me so upset. 🥺 i didn’t know that .. I learned something new. I’m currently take prerequisites for nursing school to get my associates as an RN.
Good for you! I have watched and followed many drs on social media and I have never understood how they survive those crazy hours. I mean they don’t let pilots work that long I don’t see why they allow drs work insane hours!
L&D nurse here, would never become an OBGYN for all the reasons you just described. It’s a very tough job! I’m not a physician, but I agree 100% with everything you had to say concerning the broken system! I want out as well.
So sorry u went through that Glad u left that toxic work environment cause you need ur sleep and working 24+ hrs is not healthy. Im glad you do qhat you love on your own terms.
I’m an obgyn sonographer now working in private practice. For us it’s the opposite. I used to be a general sonographer (including obgyn) at a hospital! I was hired to work the weekend graveyard shift! 7pm-7am every Friday- Sunday I missed out on time with family and my kids and it really messed up my sleep cycle. It’s been 7 years since i quit the hospital and i still don’t sleep the same as before. At one point i had three jobs bc i couldn’t get a full time in a private practice and they took away one of my nights and i couldn’t pay my bills working two 12 get shifts! So i did part time for an ob in the afternoon and mobile ultrasound weekday mornings! That was the roughest 4 months of my career! Once i got a full time i quit them all! I will never go back to hospital work again
I understand the caring about your patients, when I was pregnant with my second daughter I had been thinking about wanting a VBAC because I only had 1 csection prior so I brought it up to my doctor and told her I wanted to try for a vbac and she asked if I was sure and I said yes and she just goes okay I'll have the nurse bring you paperwork & the nurse brought me in a paper with literally a whole list front and back stating all the things that could go wrong with a vbac & asked me to sign it and then they took the paper back and I immediately got the worst anxiety after reading all that ,I remember getting back to my car and immediately started crying & feeling bad because I felt selfish for wanting a vaginal birth because of all the things that could go wrong and the bad things that could happen to the baby. It was a Horrible experience I wish I had a caring doctor that talked to me about everything.
TLDR: she quit her job after 3 yrs because the healthcare system prevented her from doing her job. This is so so sad and the system is so broken to kick out the people who love the actual work.
I was a Nanny for kids of a great Obgyn. She is an amazing doctor. I don't know how she has kept her schedule and sanity. She would work all day in the office, going back and forth for deliveries and surgeries. Her practice rotated shifts too. She would be on call 24 hours and often have appointments in the office immediately after instead of going home to rest. I asked her how she physically did that, performing surgeries being sleep deprived. She said she learned in residency. I can't understand why 24 hour shifts are the norm. I believe doctors need to be alert and rested to be mentally sharp . I applaud you for recognizing your limits and making changes.
I can’t even imagine how overly exhausted you must have been. That lifestyle is not sustainable for anyone. So happy you found the courage to change it! 💕
In Canada each province has a single health care insurer. Our issues are money and lack of specialists and general practice. Waits might be longer, but you get decent care. I had a hysterectomy and my consult was quick! I waited less than three weeks. It was a teaching hospital and the appointment didn't have a time limit. The resident working my case explained everything in detail. I think my whole appointment was 90 minutes. Shocker that surgery was booked so fast, but it was gyno oncology and gad a dedicated OR at our women's hospital. Twelve days later I had surgery and training hospitals tend to give more time. Your schedule and life were misery, thus, leaving was right.
Patients don't want doctors exhausted and unstable while due to sleep deprivation. Hospitals shouldn't allow 24hr shifts. Even truck drivers have limitations.
I'm so PROUD OF & HAPPY FOR you..... I hope you're never (or at least less often than others) targeted by the amerrKLANmedikkkal system for being a decent human: BECAUSE (it sounds like you are well aware that) THEY WILL consider a moral professional to be a PROBLEM. And because I'm TeamPARENTS>procreators, I love your Parents for raising you to be a REAL ONE!!! Sending Energies of Wellness & Protection and Ancestral Guidance as you make your way through the mayonnaisian devil's lair!!! 💜✊🏽💜
My GYN has the last patient of the day. Or started with a 1 inch diameter virgin vagina, and I had to have pelvic exams in the OR. I was able to start dilators, but a speculum can be a huge accomplishment. So, sometimes, I need to take a break while it's being opened to readjust. She never locks it open, just holds it long enough to get her samples. That has been greatly empowering to me.
I’m a PA and I opted for 3 home births with a midwife bc of these problems within “the system”. It’s set up in direct opposition to patients best interest (and their care provider!) and it is not ok. I had amazing, peaceful, healing home water births with a midwife and doula who never left my side. I paid them totally out of pocket, but it was still WAY less than a hospital/ob charge, and the value was a million times more. The system is abusing women. Pregnant women and their physicians.
i’m a nursing student that’s considering going to med school to become an OB/GYN instead of a midwife - i’m terrified!! i’m hoping i can shadow OBs & nurse midwife’s to decide officially but i love getting to build a relationship and seeing everything from visit to delivery (: this tells a lot !
No doctor should ever be allowed to working for 24h straight. I would not wish to be operated by anyone who's been on for 20+ h. And it's not just me, read Dr. Russell Foster's book Life Time. He's a researcher on sleep and talks a lot about shift workers.
We need to train more staff because it is not healthy and prevents people from having a regular life. I also think it is dangerous for the patient to have an exhausted doctor.
I’m pregnant with my 2nd baby my first OB left the practice closest to me she was an angel 🥹 so my current OB isn’t the greatest but due to transportation issues I have to stick with him every appointment I have it’s so rushed if I have questions he answers very quickly & is already trying to walk out the door I know every OB is different but sometimes I just leave the appts with no answers because I feel to awkward to stand my ground but I’m so very glad you took your mental health seriously not many will especially in this generation good luck dr.Ali sending virtual hugs 💗🫶🏻
Do other countries ask their medical professionals to work 24 hour shifts? This sounds unsafe. I wouldnt want the person delivering my baby to be so sleep deprived. Thank you for sharing your experience!
As a medic from another country, yes 24 hour shifts exist in all specialties not just obgyn but also internal medicine, pediatrics and general surgery. I guess the only speciality that I know that doesn’t do this would be emergency medicine and anesthesiology
This is horrible. And i think this spans across many careers. There is such a lack of balance and care for most people it is sad. I hope one day things will change.
I am a mortician and in one funeral home I worked for, I worked all day and all night (with short naps in between and hardly had time to shower or eat) and only had two days off per month. An those two days I was on call and had the phones. I had to bring my kids to the funeral home to sleep In sleeping bags on the office floor many nights while I was embalming. And I was salaried so wasn’t eligible for overtime pay. I only made $32,000 annually. This employer burned everyone out and even killed one employee due to exhaustion. He fell asleep behind the wheel of a removal van on the way to pick up a body. (I have fallen asleep many times the same way but luckily did not crash). Me and my husband both worked for this employer and he is now disabled because of this. I have permanent injuries due to not having proper equipment because the boss was too cheap to purchase it for our safety.
It seems like you can't be an OB hospitalist and have a private practice. As an orthopedic surgeon this was our life for 5 years in residency. One 1week I did 147 of 168 hours up doing trauma call and surgeries. The hours I did made me hate the field and as a busy doctor you cant sometimes.
As a patient I hate 24 hour shifts. I don't want my doctor exhausted when caring for me and my babies. No human is at their best when that exhausted. That promotes subpar care and is unsafe.
I just don't understand how 24 hr shifts are legal. Health care definitely broken! Glad you left and your doing much better now. Always take care of yourself!!
I'm a licensed therapist working in community mental health and this strongly resonated with me. Healthcare in the US is a broken system and many of my own colleagues have voiced similar issues you are bringing up. It's not the "Difficult" patients that make me want to quit, it's the bureaucracy, endless discussion of "Billable services" and just the simple fact that even if you don't work at a hospital or crisis unit the schedule and demands are grueling. I cannot get to some things fast enough and I consider myself highly efficient. The side effects of emotional exhaustion and burn out that these schedules create often lead to mistakes that cost patient lives and immense amount of stress on the provider's end.
These are also some of the reasons that women choose to have homebirths at the care of a midwife. My appointments with my certified nurse midwife are 1 hr long. We can go over every detail and question I have. By the end or 9 months, she knows me well and I feel safe with her guidance and judgment calls. She only takes 3 births per month so she's very much present and well rested. I would truthfully not feel safe in the hands of an OB that has had to birth 17 babies before me and is on hour 23. OBs are very necessary for emergency situations and complicated pregnancies and births. It is a shame that our Healthcare system doesn't put more value in them. It is also a shame that in the US there is no system of a midwife working with the hospital hand in hand like in some European countries. It must be so frustrating to go through all that schooling only to be managed by a company that cares more about the money than the patient. I have close doctor friends, they became doctors to help people and dedicate time to educate patient, not to be rushed. I'm so sorry you were forced to resigned due to those circumstances. It is obvious you love your career and love your patients. You should be able to give them the care you wish to give them.
Can you do a video on heavy periods? Like fluding yourself bad. Doctors say it’s fibroids. I use to have them, no problem. They were removed. However came back. After I hit 40, periods got insanely heavy.
Good luck finding a "good" obgyn in Arizona. I picked one based on Google reviews and they never answered the telephones. In my opinion my best experience is a obgyn at the hospital.
@@alirodmd so glad you got out of that situation, sounds like the contract you signed wasn’t at all the practice it turned out to be after the new management take over. It sounds like the new workplace is much more fulfilling!
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These 24 hr shifts are horrible for everyone. They're inhumane to healthcare workers. Plus I wouldn't want to be delivering with a doctor who is running on 23 hours with no sleep. Doctors are human. Tired humans make mistakes.
24 hour shifts seem like a terrible environment for everyone involved! How on earth can someone function properly ?!?!?
@@tbair200 They can't. They don't. The human body is not adapted for that. But that is what we are expected to accept for the people who are supposed to keep the rest of our bodies working.
yes its due to greed to milk you for every drop of life you have left to make money for some fat cat.
It’s shocking how horribly we treat the people we need the most in society : doctors, nurses, teachers, social workers, police officers, etc. We need to re-examine our values as a society.
I quit my my job as an RN last two years ago after almost 9 years in the field. It was not an easy decision, but life is too short to dread going to work everyday. No amount of money can buy real happiness, but friends I'm not asking you to resign from your job or abandon your business but be wise!
I don't really like my job but I love what it provides for me and my family. This pandemic has people rethinking working
why did you hate your job?
What do you do now and how did you plan yourself before quitting?
@eiraAntoinette right now I run my own business and While I was still in service I planned towards early retirement, making about 2k weekly from my retirement investment portfolio trying so much to build more side hustles and extra income
wow impressive you're making quite a fortune speaking of in vesting I have heard many people talk about it but I don't really know how to start and make a good inve stment, can you explain?
My OB just did the same thing. She told me the same thing, a big corporation took over and told her that she had to shorten her visits to 5-10 minutes. I’m high risk and I she made sure my mental health and as well as the health of my baby and myself was in tip top shape. I’m following her to her new practice.
Thank you for being so honest - If you neglect self-care, you'll be ill-equipped to care for others. Best wishes to all your future aspirations ❤
I’m so glad you talk about the short office visits. I left my OB because I felt like they didn’t have time for me. I had a healthy pregnancy, but it just felt like they had no idea who I was and didn’t seem concerned about my feelings or desires. It was very uncomfortable. I’m glad to see there are docs who care😊❤️
This video spoke to my soul. I've been a registered nurse for 14 years now. While I loved caring for patients, I hated everything about our healthcare system. It doesn't let you be the best you can be as a health care provider. You're always rushed. You don't feel supported for the most part and in some cases, it feels unsafe (for you/patient). I stepped away from my job during the pandemic. I don't know if I'll be going back to be honest. But like you, I realized that my mental health and time with my family was more important and I didn't want to look back and realize I'd missed most of my life because of my job. Wishing you all the best in your new career endeavors.
Thank you for sharing your story. That's so crazy they make doctors work 24 hour shifts so often. You are awesome! I think it's so great that you knew it wasn't working for you and made a change.💓
Girl, you are the sanest person to decide those are horrible working conditions - for both you AND the laboring people. As someone who gave birth in a hospital with a doctor like this once and then decided NEVER again, I can tell you it’s also a super bad situation for a laboring person and all other patients. Congratulations, you now have the opportunity to start a new practice of your own that puts the humanity and sustainability in labor and delivery because lord knows we need it!
Dr ali, i can totally relate to what you are saying. Im a doctor myself and left a very toxic work environment. I felt like i was giving for lack of a better term "half assed healthcare" bc of the demand expected. Please know that this is the best thing you can do for yourself. Someone told me "you werent burned out. You were exploited" which made the decision to leave easier. Best wishes to you, cant wait to see your future content❤❤
I love this for you!! And I just want to say thank you so much for sharing this side of medicine with us. As a rising second-year medical student interested in OB, it still feels so taboo to ask physicians questions about their work-life balance or how they cope with rough work schedules.
This was so inspiring as I switched to be a nursing major so I can be a nurse midwife and women’s health nurse practitioner instead of an OBGYN.
I have so much respect for OBGYNs because seeing how they worked in the clinic and then were often called to the hospital for an emergencies since they were also on-call on the days they were working in the clinic. Big ups to you Dr. Alirod!
I had all my babies with midwives, they were the best. My nieces and DIL all had babies with OBGYN's and there is no way I would, the OBGYN was in the room to just deliver the baby, my midwives were there for my whole labor and delivery being a nurse and helping out with breathing or whatever else was needed. Thanks for being a midwife.
Thank you so much for being open and honest about the struggles OBs face. I chose to have home births because I didn’t want a provider who was run ragged like that. I have nothing against OBs but I could see the stress they were under with my first birth (a hospital birth) and just knew they couldn’t physically give me the time and attention I needed during labor because they were stretched so thin. Medical staff have stopped being treated humanely and it’s not okay.
Blessing in Disguise for the rest of us that you had to make the decision you made; otherwise, the rest of us would never have "met" you. I recently discovered your channel. I have learned more from you in recent weeks than I have in my 64 years on Earth!
I’m SO happy for you. It’s so sad to see hear that you were expected to do ALL of that work & somehow be happy & healthy, mentally. I can’t imagine seeing patients in 5 or 10 minute slots. I’m happy that you’re choosing you first. I’m praying for you girlie. So happy for you!
I worked in community mental health and saw that the medication prescribers there had 15-min appts and thought it was INSANE. 5 to 10 is beyond fathomable!!!
It's refreshing to hear this from an attending! I live and work in Trinidad 🇹🇹 as a GP. I worked for a while in A&E and one of my residents said to me on a shift "You have 15 mins max to spend with each patient, this is not a GP visit". I was so flabbergasted and left the job to fulfil a GP role in a private practice. I love it now as I get the opportunity to spend different time slots with different patients.
I also worked in a OBGYN department at my previous hospital and enjoy the gynae side of it e.g. performing pap smears. You are so right pap smears CANNOT be rushed especially to first timers. In addition, many non-first timers I encounter have had a traumatic experience so it takes a lot of time relaxing them! I also walked away from working at the hospital due to the horrible way it was affecting my life.
I have a little one as well and working a hospital's schedule did no good for me as I would just be grumpy on my days off as I was too exhausted to perform basic socialisation!
Recently, I decided to start up a Printing business as well as do more house/work visits for patients. And I am going to make more time to pour into my RUclips channel! Thanks so much for sharing this as many of us are in the same boat.
I'm happy you left that stress environment behind. Our health care is insane in this country. I have to flight to Guatemala to see my OB & General Doctor that I have known for years. So proud of you Chica ❤
Why don't you live in Guatemala? It sounds simpler, nicer, more human-based.
Omg the accuracy 😮 I’m a doctor too and you describe it all so well
I am a former private practice obgyn who recently quit! Congratulations, I’m so happy for you!
Good for you!
Your health is your wealth!!! Glad you followed your instinct to do what you love but, it allows you to still live.
This is the reality of obgyn nowadays. Unfortunately, big corpo made it unsustainable. Good luck to anyone who went to obgyn, it’s only gonna get tougher. Yall are underpaid too. Anyone that does 24hr shifts or do unpaid labor, or cover inbox, or are on RVU salary- it’s a tough world. Wish u success. Stay strong, maintain balance. God bless
I am so happy for you. It takes courage. Glad you noticed the changes and you took action for your own well-being. You must take care of yourself first, always! Much love ❤️
Good for you!!! I am sorry you had to go through this.
You go girl! I hope you're doing well. ❤ God bless you
More people need to talk about this,thank you for speaking up.
When I worked ambulance the 10 min on scene time was coming in. For some patients, getting them out of the house takes ten minutes 😂, let alone an assessment, vitals, or any kind of interventions. I’m glad you’ve found a better workflow. Physician, heal thyself. You can’t help your patients if you’re barely hanging on yourself.
You did the right decision at the right time🎉
Good for you!!! Live the life you want girl! This is awesome
I completely understand and support you. I did the same thing in my career (I'm not a doctor but worked a very high stress job with often long, unpredictable hours). You have so much to offer as a woman, doctor, mom, wife. Keep talking, I love listening to you.
I love seeing a more relaxed Ali. Love you!
I love you more!
Omg i loved her!! I find myself unhappy with my job. But i also want to be grateful and see the bright side of things for so long…
Hi Dr. Ali, I was a pediatrics resident and I was in a small program that did not do a great job of giving support and I dealt with a lot of loneliness and basically I started having a lot of health issues because of this and that all snowballed a lot and became basically a huge nightmare - I have been through, so long story short I couldn’t finish and didn’t sit for the boards. Fortunately Im doing a lot better now.
We’re all happy for you! 💕
Thank you so much! Such a difficult decision but slowly feeling like myself again and finding happiness!
It's all about finding the right work environment with the right people! Changes everything
Listening to you was so sobering. I use to go to a doctor who was only allowed to spend maybe 10 minutes per visit. I have a lot of issues and I always felt like a number, gotta get in and out in the allotted time. God forbid you mentioned something that was not your original reason for coming in. Eventually I got sick of the care I was receiving so I decided to go with a concierge doctor and I love it. She spends as much time as needed to provide good healthcare, I have 24 hour access to her if needed. That being said I do pay extra for this service which is wrong in my opinion. Healthcare is a right not a privilege and we all should have access to it without having to pay extra. Like you said the system is broken and I commend you for seeing that and taking care of yourself first and foremost. You can’t provide the care your patients need and want if you’re running on empty. Look forward to seeing what the future holds for you.
Aww honey u did what is right for you ri❤ ur absolutely right! You also have to be a good mother too and u can’t if ur not urself! Ur such a heart warming person! I love it!! Don’t feel guilty
❤You are HUMAN we understand. ❤ sending you lots of hugs Dr. Ali.
Thank you for sharing. You seem so happy and that is wonderful. You have to find what makes you happy.:)
I’m happy to hear that you are happy! It is eye opening for us moms what our doctors go through for us ❤
They do it for themselves primarily though. Lol. Huge money.
You made the right decision, I've been through the same and started to quit private clinics one by one....
Good luck, you're awesome...
Glad you made the change that you needed to make.
im european obgyn working im the hospital fulltime. i work 24 h shifts too, i have like 6-8 per month. if im not 24 i see 40-50 pts per day in 8 hour work day. its grueling, ppl cant really understand the lifestyle, relationships with us are challenging. but thats just how it is. and ive been doing it for 9 yrs!
Gracias por escucharme y hacerme caso. U da best 💜💜💜
I think it's great that you realized that you could not do this anymore and I think that is positive because I think we are very you know there's a lot we do when our jobs doesn't mean that were good it's good for our good for you for realizing that
Good for you 👏🏽👏🏽 all the best
Great video. Thank You Doctor
You are a Very caring lady👈 and I sooo much thank you for how you care for girls/women in all👃I can tell you loved your job and whether you find something sooner or later I only wish you the very very best👃Health matters for everyone out there but you need to also take care of your own health. Godbless people like you! jason m.
The schedule you had is the norm in Croatia for almost all hospital specialities, including ObGyn of which I am resident myself. 24h shifts for sometimes 8 times a month. But we have the option of working in office out of hospital only which I am going to do. That work schedule is not worth the money or my inner peace.
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I look forward to your upcoming video. I’m interested in OBGYN. Im a 3rd year medical student 😢😅
How can they expect you to properly care for anyone while not having enough sleep. It just shows you take your job seriously and you took your oath seriously! You left a job that expected you to work on auto pilot! Thank you for clearly going into the medical field to care for people. I lost my mother to cancer last year and her oncologist would spend 20 minutes every visit asking questions and speaking into his laptop. He never remembered her name even though he seen her 2-3 times a month. One visit he told us a Spot on her lung hadn’t grown since 3 years prior when her lung had collapsed. My mothers lung never collapsed and she hadn’t seen a physician 3 years prior. We told him this and he rushed us out. You should be happy with your decision because you are a real doctor who cares. Thank you
I’m glad you made the healthy decision. It’s good that you’re putting yourself first this time, because it’s easy to take care of people when you love it and forget about yourself. But the problem comes when you’re putting extra heavy yokes on yourself. Take care of yourself and don’t feel guilty, cuz Jesus said “My yoke is easy, and my burden is light” and we should take His yokes and burden. So He doesn’t want you stressing out and it’s good that you left. ❤
I'm so sorry you were put in such an impossible position. These formats aren't what's best for either doctors or patients. I loved my OBs and the office so much. I went in for an annual last week and gave one of my nurses a huge hug. They were calming, comforting friends to a first and second time mom who just needed to know my babies and I were in safe, trusted hands. We were ❤ Bonds like that take time. Mental health is extremely important for both the doctors and nurses taking care of patients at such a vulnerable (but exciting) time in our lives and for the patients who need that expert support and care. Health care is really broken and the outlook is a bit scary. I'm very happy for you that youre taking care of yourself and that we'll still get to hear from Dr Alli. For some of us, time w you fills in the gaps of what our doctors wish they could provide.
Wow. Lots of respect for you being honest with yourself ( and your viewers ). I don’t understand how anybody could be okay with this, especially in such a sensitive speciality.
It’s refreshing that you even recognize how important, vulnerable and invasive obgyn exams are for women. Most Drs don’t get it or care. Honestly I think you have to have a very cold side to be an obgyn.
Anyway, glad you left that stressful, toxic situation. Best.
Good for you! Call is so exhausting!
I got really close with my OBGYN, she even came in on her off day to deliver my baby when things started getting complicated. I was so relieved when she showed up to deliver and in shock. I brought her chocolates and a newborn photo to my post-op appointment and everything. ❤
The fact that doctors have a certain amount of time with each patient makes me so upset. 🥺 i didn’t know that .. I learned something new. I’m currently take prerequisites for nursing school to get my associates as an RN.
Good for you! I have watched and followed many drs on social media and I have never understood how they survive those crazy hours. I mean they don’t let pilots work that long I don’t see why they allow drs work insane hours!
L&D nurse here, would never become an OBGYN for all the reasons you just described. It’s a very tough job! I’m not a physician, but I agree 100% with everything you had to say concerning the broken system! I want out as well.
Thank you for sharing!
So sorry u went through that
Glad u left that toxic work environment cause you need ur sleep and working 24+ hrs is not healthy. Im glad you do qhat you love on your own terms.
I’m an obgyn sonographer now working in private practice. For us it’s the opposite. I used to be a general sonographer (including obgyn) at a hospital! I was hired to work the weekend graveyard shift! 7pm-7am every Friday- Sunday
I missed out on time with family and my kids and it really messed up my sleep cycle. It’s been 7 years since i quit the hospital and i still don’t sleep the same as before. At one point i had three jobs bc i couldn’t get a full time in a private practice and they took away one of my nights and i couldn’t pay my bills working two 12 get shifts! So i did part time for an ob in the afternoon and mobile ultrasound weekday mornings! That was the roughest 4 months of my career! Once i got a full time i quit them all!
I will never go back to hospital work again
I understand the caring about your patients, when I was pregnant with my second daughter I had been thinking about wanting a VBAC because I only had 1 csection prior so I brought it up to my doctor and told her I wanted to try for a vbac and she asked if I was sure and I said yes and she just goes okay I'll have the nurse bring you paperwork & the nurse brought me in a paper with literally a whole list front and back stating all the things that could go wrong with a vbac & asked me to sign it and then they took the paper back and I immediately got the worst anxiety after reading all that ,I remember getting back to my car and immediately started crying & feeling bad because I felt selfish for wanting a vaginal birth because of all the things that could go wrong and the bad things that could happen to the baby. It was a Horrible experience I wish I had a caring doctor that talked to me about everything.
TLDR: she quit her job after 3 yrs because the healthcare system prevented her from doing her job. This is so so sad and the system is so broken to kick out the people who love the actual work.
I was a Nanny for kids of a great Obgyn. She is an amazing doctor. I don't know how she has kept her schedule and sanity. She would work all day in the office, going back and forth for deliveries and surgeries. Her practice rotated shifts too. She would be on call 24 hours and often have appointments in the office immediately after instead of going home to rest.
I asked her how she physically did that, performing surgeries being sleep deprived. She said she learned in residency.
I can't understand why 24 hour shifts are the norm. I believe doctors need to be alert and rested to be mentally sharp . I applaud you for recognizing your limits and making changes.
I can’t even imagine how overly exhausted you must have been. That lifestyle is not sustainable for anyone. So happy you found the courage to change it! 💕
Preach!!!❤ I feel the same way about our clinic.
In Canada each province has a single health care insurer. Our issues are money and lack of specialists and general practice. Waits might be longer, but you get decent care. I had a hysterectomy and my consult was quick! I waited less than three weeks. It was a teaching hospital and the appointment didn't have a time limit. The resident working my case explained everything in detail. I think my whole appointment was 90 minutes. Shocker that surgery was booked so fast, but it was gyno oncology and gad a dedicated OR at our women's hospital. Twelve days later I had surgery and training hospitals tend to give more time.
Your schedule and life were misery, thus, leaving was right.
I always hate how short my visits are :( I always feel unheard or dismissed.
GOOD FOR YOU !!!!!!!!!!
Loved this! ❤
You are amazing 🩷🩷🩷 glad you chose to leave. Never sacrifice mental health 💓
Came here from Kevin Jubbal's reaction video to drop a like. Thanks for sharing.
❤❤❤happy for you
Patients don't want doctors exhausted and unstable while due to sleep deprivation. Hospitals shouldn't allow 24hr shifts. Even truck drivers have limitations.
I'm so PROUD OF & HAPPY FOR you.....
I hope you're never (or at least less often than others) targeted by the amerrKLANmedikkkal system for being a decent human: BECAUSE (it sounds like you are well aware that) THEY WILL consider a moral professional to be a PROBLEM.
And because I'm TeamPARENTS>procreators, I love your Parents for raising you to be a REAL ONE!!!
Sending Energies of Wellness & Protection and Ancestral Guidance as you make your way through the mayonnaisian devil's lair!!! 💜✊🏽💜
The way u are explaining,z the same way I also explain to my patients
My GYN has the last patient of the day. Or started with a 1 inch diameter virgin vagina, and I had to have pelvic exams in the OR. I was able to start dilators, but a speculum can be a huge accomplishment. So, sometimes, I need to take a break while it's being opened to readjust. She never locks it open, just holds it long enough to get her samples. That has been greatly empowering to me.
I’m a PA and I opted for 3 home births with a midwife bc of these problems within “the system”. It’s set up in direct opposition to patients best interest (and their care provider!) and it is not ok. I had amazing, peaceful, healing home water births with a midwife and doula who never left my side. I paid them totally out of pocket, but it was still WAY less than a hospital/ob charge, and the value was a million times more. The system is abusing women. Pregnant women and their physicians.
i’m a nursing student that’s considering going to med school to become an OB/GYN instead of a midwife - i’m terrified!! i’m hoping i can shadow OBs & nurse midwife’s to decide officially but i love getting to build a relationship and seeing everything from visit to delivery (: this tells a lot !
In the future, everyone will just be Influencers! It's the influencer generation! GenI
I work as OB Hospitalist with a Hospitalist Group. Only inpatient. No call and no clinic!
Could you do a video on cervical ectropion? I have not had much success finding information on this topic.
No doctor should ever be allowed to working for 24h straight. I would not wish to be operated by anyone who's been on for 20+ h. And it's not just me, read Dr. Russell Foster's book Life Time. He's a researcher on sleep and talks a lot about shift workers.
We need to train more staff because it is not healthy and prevents people from having a regular life. I also think it is dangerous for the patient to have an exhausted doctor.
I’m pregnant with my 2nd baby my first OB left the practice closest to me she was an angel 🥹 so my current OB isn’t the greatest but due to transportation issues I have to stick with him every appointment I have it’s so rushed if I have questions he answers very quickly & is already trying to walk out the door I know every OB is different but sometimes I just leave the appts with no answers because I feel to awkward to stand my ground but I’m so very glad you took your mental health seriously not many will especially in this generation good luck dr.Ali sending virtual hugs 💗🫶🏻
Do other countries ask their medical professionals to work 24 hour shifts? This sounds unsafe. I wouldnt want the person delivering my baby to be so sleep deprived. Thank you for sharing your experience!
Yes, several countries also do 24hrs. Not just in OBGYN but other specialities too
As a medic from another country, yes 24 hour shifts exist in all specialties not just obgyn but also internal medicine, pediatrics and general surgery. I guess the only speciality that I know that doesn’t do this would be emergency medicine and anesthesiology
This is horrible. And i think this spans across many careers. There is such a lack of balance and care for most people it is sad. I hope one day things will change.
Your amazing!!!
I am a mortician and in one funeral home I worked for, I worked all day and all night (with short naps in between and hardly had time to shower or eat) and only had two days off per month. An those two days I was on call and had the phones. I had to bring my kids to the funeral home to sleep In sleeping bags on the office floor many nights while I was embalming. And I was salaried so wasn’t eligible for overtime pay. I only made $32,000 annually. This employer burned everyone out and even killed one employee due to exhaustion. He fell asleep behind the wheel of a removal van on the way to pick up a body. (I have fallen asleep many times the same way but luckily did not crash). Me and my husband both worked for this employer and he is now disabled because of this. I have permanent injuries due to not having proper equipment because the boss was too cheap to purchase it for our safety.
It seems like you can't be an OB hospitalist and have a private practice. As an orthopedic surgeon this was our life for 5 years in residency. One 1week I did 147 of 168 hours up doing trauma call and surgeries. The hours I did made me hate the field and as a busy doctor you cant sometimes.
As a patient I hate 24 hour shifts. I don't want my doctor exhausted when caring for me and my babies. No human is at their best when that exhausted. That promotes subpar care and is unsafe.
I just don't understand how 24 hr shifts are legal. Health care definitely broken! Glad you left and your doing much better now. Always take care of yourself!!
I'm a licensed therapist working in community mental health and this strongly resonated with me. Healthcare in the US is a broken system and many of my own colleagues have voiced similar issues you are bringing up. It's not the "Difficult" patients that make me want to quit, it's the bureaucracy, endless discussion of "Billable services" and just the simple fact that even if you don't work at a hospital or crisis unit the schedule and demands are grueling. I cannot get to some things fast enough and I consider myself highly efficient. The side effects of emotional exhaustion and burn out that these schedules create often lead to mistakes that cost patient lives and immense amount of stress on the provider's end.
These are also some of the reasons that women choose to have homebirths at the care of a midwife. My appointments with my certified nurse midwife are 1 hr long. We can go over every detail and question I have. By the end or 9 months, she knows me well and I feel safe with her guidance and judgment calls.
She only takes 3 births per month so she's very much present and well rested. I would truthfully not feel safe in the hands of an OB that has had to birth 17 babies before me and is on hour 23.
OBs are very necessary for emergency situations and complicated pregnancies and births. It is a shame that our Healthcare system doesn't put more value in them. It is also a shame that in the US there is no system of a midwife working with the hospital hand in hand like in some European countries.
It must be so frustrating to go through all that schooling only to be managed by a company that cares more about the money than the patient. I have close doctor friends, they became doctors to help people and dedicate time to educate patient, not to be rushed.
I'm so sorry you were forced to resigned due to those circumstances. It is obvious you love your career and love your patients. You should be able to give them the care you wish to give them.
I'll never understand how:
1. More doctors aren't trained
2. Doctors aren't mandated to get sleep similar to pilots
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@alirodmd What are you doing now? Are you still practicing as a doc??
Can you do a video on heavy periods? Like fluding yourself bad. Doctors say it’s fibroids. I use to have them, no problem. They were removed. However came back. After I hit 40, periods got insanely heavy.
Hi doc, so who would you recommend in Az for an OB?
Good luck finding a "good" obgyn in Arizona. I picked one based on Google reviews and they never answered the telephones. In my opinion my best experience is a obgyn at the hospital.
It doesn’t matter how smart a person is if you are being over worked and lacking adequate sleep you are unable function regardless!
5 minute visits?? That’s absolutely criminal. These PE firms are going to run healthcare into the ground 😢
It’s INSANE that this is what they consider feasible. It’s terrible. Healthcare is so, so broken.
@@alirodmd so glad you got out of that situation, sounds like the contract you signed wasn’t at all the practice it turned out to be after the new management take over. It sounds like the new workplace is much more fulfilling!
They already have run it to the ground sadly