I CANCELLED A DATE - I met her in person for the 1st time and said the photos she had sent were not recent pictures of her or she had used a filter. She had the nerve to get upset with me. I just walked away and called a buddy to hang out with instead. We hooked up with 2 hotties that night. FYI - the fake girl tried calling me for days after. I finally blocked her.
I have WALKED 8 times in the last year from "first dates" due to the same thing: she (they) obviously posted pictures that were 5-10 years old, AND 25-40 pounds ago. No damn way I'm staying on that date. I told them all straight away, "Hey we need to both go home. You misrepresented yourself with old pictures. You don't look like your pictures, and I don't tolerate deception." Each time, these woman are shocked that I walked. Apparently most men just go through with the date. Oh hell no.....
That's really weak that someone tried to call him out for having a beard. His beard is NATURAL. It's not fake, it's a part of him, and he maintains it well.
Okay, who is going to take the shame for raising someone to be so stupid? It's like they don't realize that technology is not a part of your genetic makeup. Just because your phone seems to be surgically attached doesn't mean you were born with it. In fact, I wouldn't be the least bit surprised if the next cosmetic surgery craze amongst women is implanting their phones somewhere on their bodies. Imagine changing your arm every year because a new model of arm came out.
Which is exactly where this problem really got started, with beauty contestants and models . They needed highly-paid make-up aritist's and expensive make up though, and even then I was never attracted or botherered to watch. Masks, however they are constructed, have always turned me right off. I am not saying a bit of lippy or eye shadow is a big thing but now what with plastic, botox and very good makeup - even in person all you are really seeing is a mask.
Absolutely. A no-makeup date tells you 2 things: 1) the woman has the personal confidence and fortitude to not have to doll up all the time. I don't think enough women understand how truly attractive that actually is; and 2) what she actually looks like with absolutely no filters... this is what you'll see most of the time if you end up in a relationship, so you *both* better be comfortable with it. I married my no-makeup girl. And I rejected plenty of cosmetics queens. If you have to spend 90 minutes painting yourself up to feel presentable at tim horton's, well, you're not the girl for me.
The catfishers who get rejected are missing the point entirely. It’s about dishonesty. If a person’s introduction is a fake version of themselves, they’re going to lie about other things too. Waste of time.
The beauty filter is the greatest curse on our women the world has ever seen. It gives them false confidence and insecurity that could drown the most prideful of humanity. Its so destructive and foul and I despise the applications that use them. (Our own phones may have the technology built into smooth and refine our flaws already.) Flaws are beautiful. Not all women are gorgeous, but flaws aren't bad they make you distinct. Learn to be okay with what you see in the mirror.
Pretty bad when you do makeup,fakeup,Botox,fillers,etc. then top it all off with filters. Must be difficult to look in a mirror or go out in public. Crazy stuff.
You actually shouldn't use filters at all. You are what you are and you ain't what you ain't. Same goes for weaves and lashes and BBLs and push up bras.
Once you are in a committed relationship and your partner is okay with those enhancements when you two go out that is the time to use them. Otherwise it is like ordering a porterhouse steak on the menu and getting a slice of meatloaf on the plate. Entitlement is as entitlement does.
I'm in my 50's and stopped trying to date over a year ago but would estimate that 90% of the women online are using either old dated pictures or filters. Many seemed only interested in free food at a nice restaurant then vanishing. What I did learn is if you're not a 6'2" Chad you'll be used as a Free Meal Ticket and Walking ATM.
I'm a six two "Chad" and still get used for expensive dinners. I once got a message saying I was the second most popular guy in my region ( 2.5 million) and it still sucked so bad I deleted the account.
Good day, peeps. Hope everyone has a bIessed day today 🙏🏾. Now, let’s unpack this. I find it funny that the ones who get triggered by what that cop had to say about ladies using filters are the same ladies who use those same filters.
To the chick who chose the one out of 100. No, she likely chose those 100 guys out of thousands, if not tens of thousands of guys, Then she whittled down those candidates to ONE. So, the ACTUAL GUY who would have treated her well was NOT within the scope of the 100. He was most likely within the crowd of thousands that she immediately rejected. He didn't make it into the 100 she chose as possible candidates. And it also follows that most ladies will choose the top 1% of men and be willing to share them. It should also be noted that, as stated above, 100 IS ONE PERCENT OF 10,000.
I heard about a guy who created two dating accounts. All the same photos but one account all photos were digitally filtered, on the other they were not filtered. He said the one not filtered got ZERO responses, while the filtered one got a TON of responses. He didn’t reply to any of those responses and he actually got nasty replies because he didn’t respond back.
If you're using filters on your pictures then you are making the conscious decision to attract someone using deception. If that someone then gets up and leaves within 60 seconds of that first meeting, you have no one to blame but yourself.
I met ONE woman on Puddle of Frogs. She was so heavy she needed help out of her car, and was smoking a cigarette -- I asked for a hiking partner. Photos were a minimum 8-10 years old - she described herself as a Harley rider but admitted she hadn't ridden in years.
I literally stood next to a date looking around the restaurant for her. She was at least 150 pounds heavier and a decade older. Another date looked about 25 years older , grey hair, I was 30 and looked 21. I could have passed for her grandson.
I know that using these filters is a kind of fraud. However, I can understand the reasons that lead some people to use them. A person can be a fantastic human being, someone who charms anyone who starts to have some kind of interaction with them. However, we are attracted to beauty. It is one thing to meet someone at a party, a get-together with friends, at school or at work. In these cases, you can take the time to get to know the person, beyond their outward appearance. However, on dating apps, what will make someone interested in interacting with another person is their outward appearance. I am white, and I prefer thin women. However, I have dated a chubby woman, who had an angelic face, and was a first-rate human being. I have also dated a black woman, who was missing a few teeth (very humble). But she was very beautiful, with a perfect body, and with "skills" that were highly appreciated. Let's stop being hypocrites.
A man who's a 4 looks into a mirror, smiles, and thinks "I look pretty good for a 4!" A woman who's a 4 looks in a mirror, frowns, and thinks "But I'm a 10!"
Just prepare! The lips eyelashes hair and…i probably forget some. Hooked up you are expected to finance that. And still confirm how beautiful she looks…one hour after getting up! “Nothing wrong with that”… but be prepared 💪
Tired of all these posers online pretending to be people that they aren't. I was an outstanding trainer, former Kanto champion, Sinnoh multi champion, never won Johto. I was a perennial contender on the world stage, but I ran into a Lance problem. Which brings me to my point. I would never pretend I was a world champion. I'm still a hall of famer. In fact, most have sympathy. I mean a lot of trainers didn't win world championships because of Lance. It's nothing to be ashamed of. Hell not even Tobias could beat Lance
Yep! This female turned down all the possible good men 100 per her because, they didn't natch her high standard. Then she picked the ONE guy in that 20% that everyone's chasing and even he said, ah no. The Gods were looking out for the men this time.
4:28 She lied about her looks catfishing the guy then says she wasn't trying to catfish him. She is inherently not an honest person and you can be sure the entire relationship you have with her will be filled with the same and she will justify it through her entitlement. 8:20 Is pure entitlement cope. She forgot she is the gatekeeper of s3x and he is the gatekeeper of relationships...she wants to control the whole process. It has to be some real bitter humble pie to realize you are not the prize after all.
"You're beautiful without filters" whilst using a filter herself. lmao These filters are getting out of hand too. The AI is way too powerful now and can fool even the trained eye.
You know that shit stings for the last girl because she looks pretty good, but hell cultural differences are a thing that can negatively impact a relationship the difference in that situation being that you put all your eggs in one basket while he was scoping the field.
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I CANCELLED A DATE - I met her in person for the 1st time and said the photos she had sent were not recent pictures of her or she had used a filter. She had the nerve to get upset with me. I just walked away and called a buddy to hang out with instead. We hooked up with 2 hotties that night. FYI - the fake girl tried calling me for days after. I finally blocked her.
I have WALKED 8 times in the last year from "first dates" due to the same thing: she (they) obviously posted pictures that were 5-10 years old, AND 25-40 pounds ago. No damn way I'm staying on that date. I told them all straight away, "Hey we need to both go home. You misrepresented yourself with old pictures. You don't look like your pictures, and I don't tolerate deception."
Each time, these woman are shocked that I walked. Apparently most men just go through with the date. Oh hell no.....
That's really weak that someone tried to call him out for having a beard. His beard is NATURAL. It's not fake, it's a part of him, and he maintains it well.
Okay, who is going to take the shame for raising someone to be so stupid? It's like they don't realize that technology is not a part of your genetic makeup. Just because your phone seems to be surgically attached doesn't mean you were born with it. In fact, I wouldn't be the least bit surprised if the next cosmetic surgery craze amongst women is implanting their phones somewhere on their bodies. Imagine changing your arm every year because a new model of arm came out.
The pot calling the kettle black.
Someone felt called out 😂
That's what they do. They compare apples to oranges.
@@elonever.2.071What do you mean? Filters are fake and women shouldn't use them! A man with facial hair is normal and natural.
Turning down 100 men doesn’t make you more attractive to the 1 you choose.
No, but it does save those 100 men a lot of grief.
It is even more troubling when they expect men to treat them like Miss America in real life.
Which is exactly where this problem really got started, with beauty contestants and models . They needed highly-paid make-up aritist's and expensive make up though, and even then I was never attracted or botherered to watch. Masks, however they are constructed, have always turned me right off.
I am not saying a bit of lippy or eye shadow is a big thing but now what with plastic, botox and very good makeup - even in person all you are really seeing is a mask.
A MAN'S FACE IS HIS
AUTOBIOGRAPHY. A WOMAN'S FACE IS
HER WORK OF FICTION.
Oscar Wilde
ANY use of a filter is EXCESSIVE
For the chick using filters - She was showing her human half on screen, but in person, all you see is the GORGON behind the human mask.
First date ... Coffee and NO MAKEUP !
Yes
Absolutely. A no-makeup date tells you 2 things: 1) the woman has the personal confidence and fortitude to not have to doll up all the time. I don't think enough women understand how truly attractive that actually is; and 2) what she actually looks like with absolutely no filters... this is what you'll see most of the time if you end up in a relationship, so you *both* better be comfortable with it.
I married my no-makeup girl. And I rejected plenty of cosmetics queens. If you have to spend 90 minutes painting yourself up to feel presentable at tim horton's, well, you're not the girl for me.
I don't even go online to see the pictures in the first place. It's all fake at this point. All of it.
The catfishers who get rejected are missing the point entirely. It’s about dishonesty. If a person’s introduction is a fake version of themselves, they’re going to lie about other things too. Waste of time.
That is exactly the point. The filters are the first shit test.
Exactly, you're dealing with a liar that won't have any integrity on other issues also.
Tone down the background music, it is difficult to hear/understand the subjects.
The beauty filter is the greatest curse on our women the world has ever seen. It gives them false confidence and insecurity that could drown the most prideful of humanity. Its so destructive and foul and I despise the applications that use them. (Our own phones may have the technology built into smooth and refine our flaws already.) Flaws are beautiful. Not all women are gorgeous, but flaws aren't bad they make you distinct. Learn to be okay with what you see in the mirror.
It's obvious why guy felt catfished. He was catfished.
Women looks rough without filters.
Amen 🙌🙏
I am SUPER lower maintenance and have NEVER used a filter on any of my photos.
They bring it on themselves
5:15 💀😭😅😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💯
He literally has a very well kept, short beard and stash, that's NOT a filter, it's still the real him 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Pretty bad when you do makeup,fakeup,Botox,fillers,etc. then top it all off with filters.
Must be difficult to look in a mirror or go out in public. Crazy stuff.
You actually shouldn't use filters at all. You are what you are and you ain't what you ain't. Same goes for weaves and lashes and BBLs and push up bras.
Once you are in a committed relationship and your partner is okay with those enhancements when you two go out that is the time to use them. Otherwise it is like ordering a porterhouse steak on the menu and getting a slice of meatloaf on the plate. Entitlement is as entitlement does.
This woman is giving advice against using filters, but she herself is using filters. It's like a thief giving advice against being a thief
She was trying to show how much the filter changes her face and when she tried to show her real face it wouldn't allow her to
She said at the start she had one on if you listen
@@zukanator3555
She said she tried but she just couldn't get herself to do it.
@@elonever.2.071 Like a druggie telling you not to get hooked. She has hooked herself, on a fake face she knew was fake - what a mess !!
I'm in my 50's and stopped trying to date over a year ago but would estimate that 90% of the women online are using either old dated pictures or filters. Many seemed only interested in free food at a nice restaurant then vanishing. What I did learn is if you're not a 6'2" Chad you'll be used as a Free Meal Ticket and Walking ATM.
I'm a six two "Chad" and still get used for expensive dinners.
I once got a message saying I was the second most popular guy in my region ( 2.5 million) and it still sucked so bad I deleted the account.
Take the filter off then and stop being a hypocrite, Let's not even get into her black roots.
Social media should require disclaimers that 'actual appearance may vary'. If not it's misinformation.
Good day, peeps. Hope everyone has a bIessed day today 🙏🏾. Now, let’s unpack this. I find it funny that the ones who get triggered by what that cop had to say about ladies using filters are the same ladies who use those same filters.
No, this woman is quite mid. She is NOT gorgeous. Stop the crazy simping.
The "beauty" with the beauty filter is barely plain. I shudder to think what she must look like without filters!
In china some adult streamers have been caught using crazy filters.... as in guys streaming as women for people to pay money to.
We all age, it's nothing to be ashamed about.
Said no 304 ever!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The simp comments calling #3 beautiful are the worst. She just said she's still using the filter.
She decides when to ruin your life
To the chick who chose the one out of 100. No, she likely chose those 100 guys out of thousands, if not tens of thousands of guys, Then she whittled down those candidates to ONE. So, the ACTUAL GUY who would have treated her well was NOT within the scope of the 100. He was most likely within the crowd of thousands that she immediately rejected. He didn't make it into the 100 she chose as possible candidates. And it also follows that most ladies will choose the top 1% of men and be willing to share them. It should also be noted that, as stated above, 100 IS ONE PERCENT OF 10,000.
I heard about a guy who created two dating accounts. All the same photos but one account all photos were digitally filtered, on the other they were not filtered.
He said the one not filtered got ZERO responses, while the filtered one got a TON of responses. He didn’t reply to any of those responses and he actually got nasty replies because he didn’t respond back.
If you're using filters on your pictures then you are making the conscious decision to attract someone using deception. If that someone then gets up and leaves within 60 seconds of that first meeting, you have no one to blame but yourself.
Imagine a woman using a slimming filter that looks like you weigh 115#, and you show up on a date weighing 200#.
makeup and filters instantly disqualify any vv0man who does it.
I’m very proud to say I do not have ANY social media and when I say ANY I mean NOT single account on social.
I met ONE woman on Puddle of Frogs. She was so heavy she needed help out of her car, and was smoking a cigarette -- I asked for a hiking partner. Photos were a minimum 8-10 years old - she described herself as a Harley rider but admitted she hadn't ridden in years.
I literally stood next to a date looking around the restaurant for her. She was at least 150 pounds heavier and a decade older.
Another date looked about 25 years older , grey hair, I was 30 and looked 21. I could have passed for her grandson.
I know that using these filters is a kind of fraud. However, I can understand the reasons that lead some people to use them. A person can be a fantastic human being, someone who charms anyone who starts to have some kind of interaction with them. However, we are attracted to beauty. It is one thing to meet someone at a party, a get-together with friends, at school or at work. In these cases, you can take the time to get to know the person, beyond their outward appearance. However, on dating apps, what will make someone interested in interacting with another person is their outward appearance. I am white, and I prefer thin women. However, I have dated a chubby woman, who had an angelic face, and was a first-rate human being. I have also dated a black woman, who was missing a few teeth (very humble). But she was very beautiful, with a perfect body, and with "skills" that were highly appreciated. Let's stop being hypocrites.
A man who's a 4 looks into a mirror, smiles, and thinks "I look pretty good for a 4!"
A woman who's a 4 looks in a mirror, frowns, and thinks "But I'm a 10!"
Just prepare!
The lips eyelashes hair and…i probably forget some.
Hooked up you are expected to finance that.
And still confirm how beautiful she looks…one hour after getting up!
“Nothing wrong with that”… but be prepared 💪
Tired of all these posers online pretending to be people that they aren't. I was an outstanding trainer, former Kanto champion, Sinnoh multi champion, never won Johto. I was a perennial contender on the world stage, but I ran into a Lance problem. Which brings me to my point. I would never pretend I was a world champion. I'm still a hall of famer. In fact, most have sympathy. I mean a lot of trainers didn't win world championships because of Lance. It's nothing to be ashamed of. Hell not even Tobias could beat Lance
Yep! This female turned down all the possible good men 100 per her because, they didn't natch her high standard. Then she picked the ONE guy in that 20% that everyone's chasing and even he said, ah no. The Gods were looking out for the men this time.
In Europe the government banned photoshopping pictures so why use a filter.
A filter can be considered a lie, and jf you're going to lie about your appearance, what other lies you going to say?
4:28 She lied about her looks catfishing the guy then says she wasn't trying to catfish him. She is inherently not an honest person and you can be sure the entire relationship you have with her will be filled with the same and she will justify it through her entitlement.
8:20 Is pure entitlement cope. She forgot she is the gatekeeper of s3x and he is the gatekeeper of relationships...she wants to control the whole process. It has to be some real bitter humble pie to realize you are not the prize after all.
"You're beautiful without filters" whilst using a filter herself. lmao These filters are getting out of hand too. The AI is way too powerful now and can fool even the trained eye.
Hum filters i didnt even know that was a thing. Geeezzz im old lol.
3.10 put a pillow on the face and its all the same below
She says filters makes no difference. Then why use them
Filters, when makeup is just not enough.
Makeup and filters are straight catfishing
3:30 She herself was afraid to show her True self. 😕
Men are not interested anymore. Move on ladies
Create a mirror that has filters on it.
Filters are false advertising lol
5.45 Terminator bar scene
Can anyone say,SHAZAM🌩️
Filters equal lies!
he was right
If it doesn’t do anything, why do you still use it.
Validation. You saw the simps calling the blonde beautiful.
You know that shit stings for the last girl because she looks pretty good, but hell cultural differences are a thing that can negatively impact a relationship the difference in that situation being that you put all your eggs in one basket while he was scoping the field.
Cultural differences = Western feminist
Youth and beauty is a w-m-n SMV. The highest value w-m-n are: Young, Pretty, Virgin's
Filters make a democracy out of beauty..
There are no ugly women..Just various degrees of beauty..
Hell I don't even like my wife with make up on, if she got natural beauty why hide that shyt 😂❤🤘🫠🤩😍