If you never physically abused your woman or child, you shouldn't have to fight to see your kids... Cheating alone or leaving her to be with another woman shouldn't be a reason to have to go through that, but many times it is.
I shut none virtuous women down by asking them the following question. "Are you a truly virtuous woman?" They either deflect, try to change the subject or back off. If a woman says she doesn't know what a virtuous woman is then she is not a virtuous woman. If only I knew a long time ago what I know now I could have avoided a lot regret and heartache. Yet I have truly moved on and my eyes are wide open now. I'm 44 years old and never been married. I don't have any kids. When people ask me why I tell them because I know too much that's why. Then they would very quickly change the subject. It's a classic rock song that I like but didn't realize it was a warning. I used to be a simp but since I woke up that song as I look back was and is a prophetic warning. American Woman by The Guess Who. This is a very powerful video and a good lesson.
Listen, I'm my 50s now. The rest of the culture is just now catching up to me. This thing goes back deeper than these women now, your mother, grandmother, deep. I'm not going to even give my stuff away because other people start to coin it as theirs. But I will say this, If you are trying to build, you are better off building by yourself because it's a low number of women that can understand that.
They won't get it until they are in there 40s this y cougars be trying to get younger guy so now they can build with them.. but they don't realize its too late because the younger man is going to do the samething they did when they was younger .. play around then leave ..😮
I am 57 and you are correct, it is almost impossible to build when you have a woman. The majority of women will spend just as fast as you can earn, even when you make mid six figures.
4:20 the reason behind this is for centuries we have taught men to control our emotions whilst we have taught women for centuries to allow their feelings to control them
I used to be one of those guys that thought that I wasn’t complete unless I had a woman with me , boy was I wrong , been divorced now going on 8 years and I’ve never known peace and quiet until after my divorce 👍🙏
I feel you on that, just got out of a one year relationship where I was paying everything so she can save up her money nothing but complaints trying to help her stack her money up. Lost my job still was paying everything more complaints.. An now, I'm out of relationship , an I can breathe again play Toni Braxton in the background lol😮 who says women are the only ones waiting to exhale..lls😂😂 enough is enough bring back black love .. when man an women work together in a relationship because a family isn't all about money . 🎉
That’s FA SHHT SHO. Prizes Benefit THE PERSON WHO WON SAID PRIZE. Pimpin’, CAN YOU TELL ME THE VALUE THAT A FEMALE HAS WITH HER CLOTHES ON? I can cook and clean and encourage myself.
No it's horrible when the parent is there in your face and never show you anything other than laziness and selfishness I rather for the parent to be gone for all that
facts because my mom was toxic and terrible, she didn't treat me the right way and I am the only child who needed his mother for love but I realized how much pain I had in my life and marriage.
6:55 naw the reason is EXACTLY what dude said WE SHOULD NOT HAVE TO FIGHT TO SEE OUR CHILDREN! To women EVERYTHING MUST be a fight! They don’t understand how to have a disagreement it MUST be a fight!
You darn right bro ❗ To me they want to fight and not listen even when we try to talk in a respectful manner.Was married to one for 18 years, last 6 years was hell and got out of it before it destroyed me.
Genesis 3:17 [17]And unto Adam he said, Because thou hast hearkened unto the voice of thy wife, and hast eaten of the tree, of which I commanded thee, saying, Thou shalt not eat of it: cursed is the ground for thy sake; in sorrow shalt thou eat of it all the days of thy life;
I took the fuckery out of the baby mama drama, by getting full custody of the kids and letting her live her life and NOT bringing the BS around me or mines. my kids are happier no false promises,lies or heart break on them dealing with the mom life is great
16:08 “Narrow down”, Not “narrate”. “Narrow down”: to systematically dismiss weaker options so as to find the most compatible/best option available. “Narrate”: to verbally describe a situation. Usually as the situation is happening. I’m not putting you down, I’m only trying to inform. Im a fan of your channel, keep up the great work! I insist others correct me when I speak inaccurately, so I hope that this is only seen as the constructive criticism this is intended to be. Thank you for the great videos!
Jeremiah 31:22 [22]How long wilt thou go about, O thou backsliding daughter? for the LORD hath created a new thing in the earth, A woman shall compass a man.
Men need to realize women don't have as much power with the children as they think. If you do right and she acts up, you can get custody of your child. She does not have all the say y'all made that child together
I started out that way young, I learned in highschool its best to not go after low hanging fruit, it will mess up your standards and mess up your confidence and logic.
"If women are the prize, what kind of prize are they? Grand? Booby? Consolation? Cracker Jack?"is a question that I've asked myself and others for a couple of decades now.
I’ll never understand a woman that doesn’t want their children’s father involved in their children’s lives. My parents were divorced when I was 11. My mother never kept us from our daddy and NEVER spoke ill of him nor did she allow anyone else to do that.
I think if the government stop giving women outs when it comes to child support and grants and give custody to the man we would see more marriages and have less baby mama's
I have told and ask several of my girl friends what women can bring in my life, what do they really bring to the table and can offer to better my life in any given way. Truth is all agree that most women dont got anything else to offee other than sex espeically when they are young since even if they can have or can develop potential, they are not there yet. Especially for a grown man over 30 years old.
I have never had too fight too see my kids ever because the day I can't see my kids child support stop I been too jail plenty times so no I ain't for no games lock me up and everything stop and I'll go back to working on cars
Around 16:28 where you explain "Fun Girls" it would be funny if you'd have put that scene where Dan Draper of Mad Men was out on a date and the chic he was with ran into some chic she knew from College that was with some older dude that bought her a Ring and was showing it to her...later on Dan said to her "She was a Party Girl." That's exactly like the women you are talking about here!
This lady at 6:03 is talking pure facts. I have been saying this for a long time. Don't feel sorry for these black men when they have to pay child support or alimony. The system works exactly as it should. It was designed to curb irresponsible behavior and help men make better decisions about women. A lot of men seem to believe that a woman might not be suitable for marriage but somehow she is suitable to carry his seed. Or kids first, then marriage later. It's a twisted way to approach serious decisions. It's like putting the carriage in front of the horse.
An emotionally needy woman, is a spiritually dead & empty woman. This is why she needs someone else to make her happy. Before you get with someone, you should already be happy as a person.💡 And yes; Bring happiness, encouragement & inspiration to a relationship; Not toxicity & self-intitlement.💡😉
My black baby mamma said if i fight for custody she would put me in prison so i decided to fight for my son within a year of fighting for custody i was in prison for 14 months in a maximum prison
The funniest thing for me with this whole gender drama topic is that a long time ago.... it was actually my mother who told me "a real man dont argue with a woman and as a man you gotta understand that your fighting a spirit charged by emotions that refuses to reason" and it turns out to be very true 30 odd years later..... but it was my father that showed me the way.... never complain never give up never hand anyone a win. That combination of male leadership and female helped me realize im better by myself. I got 2 piece of shit BM's and 5 kids witch i enjoy the fact they kno ill never be the beta they want me to be... let em be thots and teach my kids what i know and its working well for me
Public service announcement feelings and thoughts are one in the same people when a woman says she "feels" she is saying she "thinks" cannot feel anything without first perceiving it through your mind. Your feelings are Your thoughts. Neither are confirmations.
I had a son with a woman who has bpd... Borderline personality disorder. N lemme tell u it was so toxic I almost checked myself into a mental hospital cuz I thought I was goin crazy... N if u know me, I'm as sane, chill, calm n peaceful person wit a huge heart. Women are all becoming narcissistic. Not all, but a huge majority
There's a lot of peace, when you decide not to put up with any bs and drama
Yeah, I'm there and been there over 10 Yeats now. True..
REAL TALK
That
Incel
And the chuch said Amen
1:05
"Dont independent yo ass single to death!"
You can't lead with feelings. That sums up why we need more men in every industry, everywhere.
If you never physically abused your woman or child, you shouldn't have to fight to see your kids... Cheating alone or leaving her to be with another woman shouldn't be a reason to have to go through that, but many times it is.
I shut none virtuous women down by asking them the following question.
"Are you a truly virtuous woman?"
They either deflect, try to change the subject or back off.
If a woman says she doesn't know what a virtuous woman is then she is not a virtuous woman.
If only I knew a long time ago what I know now I could have avoided a lot regret and heartache.
Yet I have truly moved on and my eyes are wide open now.
I'm 44 years old and never been married. I don't have any kids.
When people ask me why I tell them because I know too much that's why.
Then they would very quickly change the subject.
It's a classic rock song that I like but didn't realize it was a warning.
I used to be a simp but since I woke up that song as I look back was and is a prophetic warning.
American Woman by
The Guess Who.
This is a very powerful video and a good lesson.
That's a great song by The Guess Who.
@ceestone1 yeah, "they only come out at night - the mean and hungry type"
We all in the same boat bruh.
C.R.O.W- EVIL WOMAN.
Listen, I'm my 50s now. The rest of the culture is just now catching up to me. This thing goes back deeper than these women now, your mother, grandmother, deep. I'm not going to even give my stuff away because other people start to coin it as theirs. But I will say this, If you are trying to build, you are better off building by yourself because it's a low number of women that can understand that.
They won't get it until they are in there 40s this y cougars be trying to get younger guy so now they can build with them.. but they don't realize its too late because the younger man is going to do the samething they did when they was younger .. play around then leave ..😮
I am 57 and you are correct, it is almost impossible to build when you have a woman. The majority of women will spend just as fast as you can earn, even when you make mid six figures.
17:50 "If you look around your circle and you do not feel inspired, you do not have a circle, you have a cage"! That right there!
Im stealing this lol
Right all that makeup you put on and lashes etc but you want an authentic man come on 💙✌🏾🤘🏾
💯 💯 💯 MAKE IT MAKE SENSE 😂OR ATLEAST SOME CHANGE BARS
When my older brother councils me and i hop on here and hear the same message i honestly respect him and you more spade🔥🔥 love ya content
" A man has to lead without this woman's voice" I keep this in my brain forever 🙌🙌🙌
Never marry single mother OR any girl with any debt period.
I’m a single mother. I respect your choice and opinion about not marrying a single mother, I just would like to know why.
4:20 the reason behind this is for centuries we have taught men to control our emotions whilst we have taught women for centuries to allow their feelings to control them
I used to be one of those guys that thought that I wasn’t complete unless I had a woman with me , boy was I wrong , been divorced now going on 8 years and I’ve never known peace and quiet until after my divorce 👍🙏
I feel you on that, just got out of a one year relationship where I was paying everything so she can save up her money nothing but complaints trying to help her stack her money up. Lost my job still was paying everything more complaints.. An now, I'm out of relationship , an I can breathe again play Toni Braxton in the background lol😮 who says women are the only ones waiting to exhale..lls😂😂 enough is enough bring back black love .. when man an women work together in a relationship because a family isn't all about money . 🎉
CONGRATS BROTHER welcome to the frat!😂🙌🏾🙌🏾👊🏽
Anthony Spade , This is perfect! I subscribed right away!
Woman aren’t the prize lol ,
That’s FA SHHT SHO. Prizes Benefit THE PERSON WHO WON SAID PRIZE. Pimpin’, CAN YOU TELL ME THE VALUE THAT A FEMALE HAS WITH HER CLOTHES ON? I can cook and clean and encourage myself.
Only on a game show will baggage be a prize ¯¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@@hmm6415 with Jerry springer as the host!
At all.
Y’all must be pushin 🌈 😂.
A toxic mother/woman is a billion times worse than an absent father/man
They go hand in hand
No it's horrible when the parent is there in your face and never show you anything other than laziness and selfishness I rather for the parent to be gone for all that
facts because my mom was toxic and terrible, she didn't treat me the right way and I am the only child who needed his mother for love but I realized how much pain I had in my life and marriage.
6:55 naw the reason is EXACTLY what dude said WE SHOULD NOT HAVE TO FIGHT TO SEE OUR CHILDREN! To women EVERYTHING MUST be a fight! They don’t understand how to have a disagreement it MUST be a fight!
You darn right bro ❗ To me they want to fight and not listen even when we try to talk in a respectful manner.Was married to one for 18 years, last 6 years was hell and got out of it before it destroyed me.
Top 10 Drizzle moment is CRAZYYY 😂😂😂
“It’s sorcery.”
HAHAHA!!!l
Love it!!!
The "stupid dump truck booty" Bro is 1000 percent accurate
“I ain’t that strong.” 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Genesis 3:17
[17]And unto Adam he said, Because thou hast hearkened unto the voice of thy wife, and hast eaten of the tree, of which I commanded thee, saying, Thou shalt not eat of it: cursed is the ground for thy sake; in sorrow shalt thou eat of it all the days of thy life;
I took the fuckery out of the baby mama drama, by getting full custody of the kids and letting her live her life and NOT bringing the BS around me or mines. my kids are happier no false promises,lies or heart break on them dealing with the mom life is great
These brothers are correct. A hundred percent. They/re very enlightened individuals.
The relationship is the prize 🏆
The man is the prize dude.
First broly was cooking with super hot grease my boi.
16:08
“Narrow down”,
Not “narrate”.
“Narrow down”:
to systematically dismiss weaker options so as to find the most compatible/best option available.
“Narrate”: to verbally describe a situation.
Usually as the situation is happening.
I’m not putting you down, I’m only trying to inform.
Im a fan of your channel, keep up the great work!
I insist others correct me when I speak inaccurately, so I hope that this is only seen as the constructive criticism this is intended to be.
Thank you for the great videos!
Mr Charlston is 💯💯💯 RIGHTS why deze gyas wah be da man eee lawd da Godkings LEADS AND DATS IT. PERIOD!😌🇯🇲🇨🇦🏹
Men have to be careful with the women they want because most of them care about how much you spend on them and not how much love you give them.
Jeremiah 31:22
[22]How long wilt thou go about, O thou backsliding daughter? for the LORD hath created a new thing in the earth, A woman shall compass a man.
In history what women army won wars against men ,never.
Men need to realize women don't have as much power with the children as they think. If you do right and she acts up, you can get custody of your child. She does not have all the say y'all made that child together
This advice makes sense that these dudes are giving now I feel like my question is answered. Thank you for uploading this content.
More like cash trap
But she did say 450, I think she ment 304
Women are never the prize.
I started out that way young, I learned in highschool its best to not go after low hanging fruit, it will mess up your standards and mess up your confidence and logic.
Do another one like this...Great video
Anthony you spitttin STRAIGHT FACTS BROTHER YOU LEGIT STAY LIT 🦾
"If women are the prize, what kind of prize are they? Grand? Booby? Consolation? Cracker Jack?"is a question that I've asked myself and others for a couple of decades now.
Side note. B vitamins complex reverses grey hair
Beauty is skin deep and that goes for both men and women!
❤❤❤❤ Totally agree with the majority of the men 👏
😂😂go buy you uh personality was epic
About, time! Woke
I’ll never understand a woman that doesn’t want their children’s father involved in their children’s lives. My parents were divorced when I was 11. My mother never kept us from our daddy and NEVER spoke ill of him nor did she allow anyone else to do that.
Inspiriting and motivating others 'are' leading, leading takes many forms. That women can't lead is bullcrap.
"Buy you a personality" ... ROFLMAO
That lil wayne meme😂😅😂
That real fact!!!!
Everything you said is facts❤
Drizzle Drizzle.
Wrinkle Wrinkle
Grizzle Grizzle
I think if the government stop giving women outs when it comes to child support and grants and give custody to the man we would see more marriages and have less baby mama's
After Charleston said what he said shawty caught herself when she asked “Don’t you feel” to “Don’t you think”
He and the other men are 100% 👍🏽!!!
Man said "Beat it!!!"
Vid#13 nah homie stop simp'in, men are the prize. Example we provide, protect, maintain, give our resources..
"In the 2024th year of our Lord...", that brother preaching😅
Na bro they the Cracker Jack Prize nowadays 😂😂😂
He speaking TRUTH❤
Man was meant to be the head of the household and that is a person who is in the position to LEAD!! WE AS WOMEN WE ARE THE BACKBONE OF HER MAN..
"Yes you are the prize but we dont want it".😅😅😅
I super agree with your content my brother
I absolutely 💯 agree wit dat Godking realtalk telling em gyals.🇯🇲🇨🇦🏹
I have told and ask several of my girl friends what women can bring in my life, what do they really bring to the table and can offer to better my life in any given way. Truth is all agree that most women dont got anything else to offee other than sex espeically when they are young since even if they can have or can develop potential, they are not there yet. Especially for a grown man over 30 years old.
It's dependent the situation. A woman can lead but men are more suited for action in many aspects.
I have never had too fight too see my kids ever because the day I can't see my kids child support stop I been too jail plenty times so no I ain't for no games lock me up and everything stop and I'll go back to working on cars
Off top that dude was definitely cooking, #13 is straight up #1
Solid..brothers need to hear the wisdom. Sister need to pay more attention.
PREACH BRO 💪🏿 💜 🤞🏿
🔥video 💯🏆...Peace to you my brother ✊🏾
5:58
She didn’t answer the question. Just projected. Glad she said she don’t want children.
My nigga said the sudds 😂😂😂
That's true they're not a prize, more of a headache than anything else!
Around 16:28 where you explain "Fun Girls" it would be funny if you'd have put that scene where Dan Draper of Mad Men was out on a date and the chic he was with ran into some chic she knew from College that was with some older dude that bought her a Ring and was showing it to her...later on Dan said to her "She was a Party Girl."
That's exactly like the women you are talking about here!
Dodged that bullet 30+ years ago!!! Happily married to a beautiful woman!!
he tryna prove a point AND get that number
This lady at 6:03 is talking pure facts. I have been saying this for a long time. Don't feel sorry for these black men when they have to pay child support or alimony. The system works exactly as it should. It was designed to curb irresponsible behavior and help men make better decisions about women. A lot of men seem to believe that a woman might not be suitable for marriage but somehow she is suitable to carry his seed. Or kids first, then marriage later. It's a twisted way to approach serious decisions. It's like putting the carriage in front of the horse.
No it wasn't. Government worked out the money not morally created rules. It's strictly about the money.
2:48 designed to take up space, and bring absolutely nothing to the relationship.💯
The best way to lead a woman in the wrong direction is giving her a lot of choices
Yo Ant what's the name of the movie near the end of the video 19:09 mark
NAH SERIOUSLY
An emotionally needy woman, is a spiritually dead & empty woman. This is why she needs someone else to make her happy.
Before you get with someone, you should already be happy as a person.💡
And yes; Bring happiness, encouragement & inspiration to a relationship; Not toxicity & self-intitlement.💡😉
Heal ladies! 😎 🖐🏿
My black baby mamma said if i fight for custody she would put me in prison so i decided to fight for my son within a year of fighting for custody i was in prison for 14 months in a maximum prison
The funniest thing for me with this whole gender drama topic is that a long time ago.... it was actually my mother who told me "a real man dont argue with a woman and as a man you gotta understand that your fighting a spirit charged by emotions that refuses to reason" and it turns out to be very true 30 odd years later..... but it was my father that showed me the way.... never complain never give up never hand anyone a win. That combination of male leadership and female helped me realize im better by myself. I got 2 piece of shit BM's and 5 kids witch i enjoy the fact they kno ill never be the beta they want me to be... let em be thots and teach my kids what i know and its working well for me
Public service announcement feelings and thoughts are one in the same people when a woman says she "feels" she is saying she "thinks" cannot feel anything without first perceiving it through your mind. Your feelings are Your thoughts. Neither are confirmations.
I'm with you family
Men... We're the straw that stirs the drink!🥃
All facts!!
Are y’all providers? Pop!
7:21 yea he say it men give up because women got control over the situation
Dope ass video 😎
HaHa-"The suds"-lol
SpongeBob for those who know!😄✌️💯
Rezpect to Mr. ♠️ Spade ♠️ viewz . How da gamez are played.
The second vid I'm at my desk giving the #drizzledrizzle hand gesture lls yes sir
I disike broken homes. I never really cared much for broken families. Its sad to learn things the hard way
I had a son with a woman who has bpd... Borderline personality disorder. N lemme tell u it was so toxic I almost checked myself into a mental hospital cuz I thought I was goin crazy... N if u know me, I'm as sane, chill, calm n peaceful person wit a huge heart. Women are all becoming narcissistic. Not all, but a huge majority
Should’ve vetted instead of bedded.
Chuck E. Cheese prizes
The first guy cooked!
They laughing like taking a plan B is a joke wow