Quitting YouTube + Protecting My Kids

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  • Опубликовано: 4 дек 2024

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  • @lacecocoa6272
    @lacecocoa6272 10 часов назад +59

    I respect your decision. Because it is important to protect yourself and your kids, especially with the two trifling individuals or the other end of the dusty sour earth that they dwell in. You have to protect yourself and your children. The courts definitely be failing women and children. It definitely pisses me the hell off.

  • @deborahday3026
    @deborahday3026 10 часов назад +37

    You are a fantastic mother, Periodt! When I saw you in the kitchen cooking and preparing food (in an earlier video) with the kiddos in spite of this newfound "condition", I was blown. If I did not know that things have changed, somewhat, I would have never known by your behavior and upbeat spirit. God's got you and your children in his hands. 💛

  • @laniyah_Love
    @laniyah_Love 10 часов назад +40

    I will be watching from the sidelines as always. You will always get a thumbs up and now I will start to comment. You deserve it and I support this channel.

  • @melodycaraballo6248
    @melodycaraballo6248 10 часов назад +26

    No matter what you decide, I respect your decision! We love you no matter what! Now yes we will miss seeing you but you gotta do what you gotta do!! Love you bestie ❤

  • @rushyc9283
    @rushyc9283 10 часов назад +27

    OMG, I howled at your statement when the video first started❤❤❤ too funny😂😂

  • @Acirfa7
    @Acirfa7 5 часов назад +6

    I love you Valencia, your testimony via your vlogs has reinforced what 'I be going thru, # it ain't an isolated experience'... and without being too verbose- you rock! You're an awesome mom, lady, sister, black woman and so much more! You inspire me and just know that your vulnerability in these social media streets is powerful, thank you and for having the courage to share, respect.

  • @denisewilliams8487
    @denisewilliams8487 10 часов назад +11

    We LOVE YOU Valencia and your children and I've been praying for you guys and your health. GOD GOT YOU

  • @kimnewell3573
    @kimnewell3573 7 часов назад +10

    Commenting and engaging because I love your channel. Always thumbs upping before I even get through the vlog. Izzy is a trip 😂😂, he said don't ever say that again 😂.❤

  • @lachondrarice2282
    @lachondrarice2282 10 часов назад +18

    C’mon Izzy with the love .. aweeee 🥰

  • @moniquemullen5509
    @moniquemullen5509 8 часов назад +9

    "I would eat a Jean jacket" had me rolling with laughter ! And I needed that today, thank you gurl.

  • @vetteempower3546
    @vetteempower3546 10 часов назад +13

    We should all comment and leave sis some ♥️♥️♥️♥️. Sending lots of love and our support of the growth of your channel 🙏🙏

  • @kimbyts9045
    @kimbyts9045 7 часов назад +4

    Whatever you do I stand 10 toes down with you. I love watching other people decorating their house for the holidays.

  • @Katsplace.
    @Katsplace. 2 часа назад +2

    I have watched you from the beginning, and I know God got you no matter what you decide to do. Sending you my love and prayers. Stay strong 💪. You got this🙏❤

  • @faithmccune9117
    @faithmccune9117 6 часов назад +4

    I've watched you since I was in high school and lord voldmort tgtgigi. Im so proud of you for how you overcame and are overcoming everything. Much love!!!

  • @selfcarebeautyandbodyllc
    @selfcarebeautyandbodyllc 10 часов назад +8

    If you must go, I'll miss you and the kiddos! I'm gonna stand ten toes down no matter what you decide!💝

  • @djoy4ly317
    @djoy4ly317 9 часов назад +6

    Valencia, I know you will make right decision which I will support. Just let us know what we can do to help you. Your well-nurtured youtube community is out here thriving and always welcoming your sunshine and watering ( Girl , you have me crying over here in laughter with your most expressive self!) 😂. Keep your joy and keep it moving! MamaDee, North Carolina

    • @Valenciatheyoutuber
      @Valenciatheyoutuber  9 часов назад

      I’m so grateful for this community and all the love y’all have shown me and my children. ❤️

  • @lexhall6863
    @lexhall6863 11 часов назад +17

    The first 40 seconds had me hollering 😅 😂

  • @dorianwilliams268
    @dorianwilliams268 7 часов назад +4

    Always good to see you ❤God bless you Valencia and may you get continued healing in your body and mind in Jesus name🙏🏾

  • @growingfuturesfarmgardenpa5540
    @growingfuturesfarmgardenpa5540 10 часов назад +10

    Baby boy check the problem quick don’t ever say that touched my whole heart he loves his mom ❤❤❤

  • @dwmmshouseofharmony4966
    @dwmmshouseofharmony4966 10 часов назад +8

    Im stuck with my jaw dropped on the first clip honey.. I'm sorry I'm just so sorry that it's been so difficult and that nothing had gotten better after all these yrs😢

    • @Valenciatheyoutuber
      @Valenciatheyoutuber  10 часов назад +6

      It’s ok trust me friend I didn’t miss out on my children growing up so there’s nothing to be sorry about. I just don’t have energy to argue with impossible situations.

  • @lasaundrahagans2103
    @lasaundrahagans2103 9 часов назад +9

    I definitely will support now and in the future…🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @FocusOnWhatYouLove-t6c
    @FocusOnWhatYouLove-t6c 10 часов назад +17

    Besfren baby that is me too. My daughter is graduating from Nursing school this week and her donor had zero to do with it, but he is going to the graduation as if he did anything. Omg!!! But I'm a be there loud and proud for my baby girl 💜💜💜💜💜

    • @Valenciatheyoutuber
      @Valenciatheyoutuber  10 часов назад +4

      Chileeeeeeeeeeeeeee 😅 I know thats right proud mom moment. They always show up like they been there BUT its for your daughter and thats important for her to have mom AND dad there. Im proud of you for sharing the moment with him.

    • @FocusOnWhatYouLove-t6c
      @FocusOnWhatYouLove-t6c 10 часов назад +3

      @Valenciatheyoutuber yessssss!!! Gonna celebrate my baby. Exactly lol thank God I only have to see him for photo ops, graduations, award ceremonies stuff like that. Take care of yourself beautiful dont stress about Vlogmas we will watch whatever you post 💜

  • @veliciahiley7652
    @veliciahiley7652 4 часа назад +2

    Valencia , your one liners are so next level. You have to pause the video and cry laughing. Love you girl, you are an amazing woman, mom, sister and friend to many. ❤

  • @lilbits693
    @lilbits693 7 часов назад +3

    I don’t comment a lot but I’m praying for you and those blessings of yours! Keep your spirit up and live life!❤

  • @mauricecarter1
    @mauricecarter1 Час назад

    Im just glad you are here with us Vee. Love you.

  • @CandiceForeverEver
    @CandiceForeverEver Час назад

    I’m so so happy you decided NOT to ghost us. I love watching your videos! You are so positive, inspiring and super funny!
    If you could upload everyday, I would be happy…. Plus it would be great for your POCKETS.
    As far as video ideas, just showing us how you navigate each… even if you film those quiet fly on the wall kinda vlogs. Love you girl! I’m always happy to see you.

  • @MomsMoneyMindset
    @MomsMoneyMindset 10 часов назад +14

    When you checking on your best friend's page each day to see if I missed a notification 😅
    p.s. That Qtip in the ear is something different ain't it best frennn 😂 And praying you get to enjoy all the wonderful things you want to experience and prayers that you do not lose your vision. 🙏

  • @donnahaliburtonharris5611
    @donnahaliburtonharris5611 10 часов назад +5

    Protect those wonderful peeps at all cost❤❤. They are young and very impressionable.

  • @MYLIFISNEW
    @MYLIFISNEW 21 минуту назад

    Hi Vee, encouragement is always needed so thanks keep your head up. I do pray for you and your family. Even though times get tough we can at least count on prayer. God will get us through it all.

  • @ajc7175
    @ajc7175 10 часов назад +8

    Hoping you are well. Please, processed sugar is associated with vision issues (among other things). Sugar free diet will be a blessing for you ❤

  • @Gigi-rj3dj
    @Gigi-rj3dj 27 минут назад

    That Izzy is just a little love bug. That was so sweet. 😘 I will savor Vlogmas since I will be going thru V withdrawal in January when you cut us back. Still praying for a complete healing of your vision. 💖🙏🏽✌🏽☮️

  • @thelatoyalawrence
    @thelatoyalawrence 9 минут назад

    Praying for you, girl!🙏🏾❤️

  • @KAN-u1x
    @KAN-u1x Час назад

    Valencia, first of all you are very loved! I wouldn’t be surprised if all that tremendous stress in your recent past may of exacerbated your condition. That’s why I’m so happy you are moving to a more happy place, focusing on you and your family, and planning to enjoy life more, travel and dwell in your hearts desires! Praying for you my friend! God has you!❤🎉💯

  • @elody30
    @elody30 11 часов назад +8

    Ok best friend!
    You seem in great spirits!Hi Gigi!!👋🏾👋🏾

  • @chinadollktb
    @chinadollktb 10 часов назад +6

    Hey Friend, I have been watching for so long and rarely comment, your vlogs helped me get thru my divorce from a service member, I still love your good Morning song, what are some other beautiful traditions that you share with your beautiful family!!!

    • @Valenciatheyoutuber
      @Valenciatheyoutuber  10 часов назад +1

      Thank you so much for watching, I'm so glad the vlogs were a source of comfort during a difficult time.❤️

  • @pwilliams4155
    @pwilliams4155 11 часов назад +10

    Hey V! I’d love to see how you make cabbage soup 😋

  • @Mauve77
    @Mauve77 4 часа назад

    Hi Valencia! I love your humor, your faith in the Lord. Your mom is a darling . Your kids are so precious. You surely are raising them right! I would love to continue watching you on RUclips! Please keep it up! God Bless you and your family. Happy Holidays!

  • @Amina-jw1iy
    @Amina-jw1iy 3 часа назад +1

    I’ll miss the kids, ur mother n u if n whn u decide to leave RUclips . But I’ll understand u do wut u need to do for ur family. I’ve been following u since u lived n VA n then moved back to FL. Ur my lil sister n my head. 🙏🏾❤

  • @loralissasmith
    @loralissasmith 10 часов назад +3

    Gurl love watching u❤BEAUTIFUL QUEEN 👸🏻 😍
    DO WHAT U CAN BECAUSE I'M HERE FOR U!!!

  • @jeanetteingram9575
    @jeanetteingram9575 9 часов назад +1

    Continue to reclaim your strength and power! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 for you and your family!!

    • @lblack1961
      @lblack1961 7 часов назад +1

      Amen, in Jesus Precious Name.
      "He is able to do exceedingly, abundantly above all we can ask or think through the power that is within us [His Holy Spirit]" Eph 3:20, 21
      "For with God nothing shall be impossible.” Luke 1:37.
      Whatever He intends to do with you and through you, let Him do it ! It will be better than anything we can ask or think!
      Much love and prayers to and for you, Valencia 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿💗💗💗💗

  • @NaturalJam22
    @NaturalJam22 8 часов назад +1

    ❤❤ so true, never know what others are going through.

  • @Itz__Nini
    @Itz__Nini 10 часов назад +8

    Girl we both have the same feeling about them Bd's I would eat my own____ before....😂😂 love that first clip

    • @Valenciatheyoutuber
      @Valenciatheyoutuber  10 часов назад +4

      😅😅😅😅 because we have things to do like actually raising children, I have no energy to argue.

    • @Itz__Nini
      @Itz__Nini 10 часов назад

      @Valenciatheyoutuber exactlyyy!!!💖😁🤣

  • @ellaella3043
    @ellaella3043 5 часов назад

    Just started watching this video, been keeping up with you for a couple years now. Sending you lots of love from Germany! ❤

  • @lynntow264
    @lynntow264 4 часа назад

    I love your videos my daughter Danielle, started me watching you and your family sadly she’s passed. And yes you have too protect your family. Praying for continued blessings for your family.

  • @roslynbarnett5416
    @roslynbarnett5416 3 часа назад

    Just keep moving forward with all the blessings in the world around you.

  • @chemerejohnson668
    @chemerejohnson668 10 часов назад +2

    Sending you even more Love & Positivity keep going Valencia ❤

  • @TraciChanel
    @TraciChanel 3 часа назад

    You are amazing ❤ I loooove your channel.

  • @vondaculver603
    @vondaculver603 7 часов назад

    Hello Valencia my name is Vonda. I just love your day in the life vlogs. You & your family are in my prayers. Plez don't stop, plez don't quit. You're a beautiful person & a child of God who's hand are on you at all time. Love you hun. Keep being U.

  • @realtalkwithretta1309
    @realtalkwithretta1309 4 часа назад +2

    BEST FRIEND please share the cabbage soup recipe because we will probably all need it after the first of the year. Thank you Best Friend! 🍵🍜🍛

  • @Dauphne
    @Dauphne 10 часов назад +5

    Hello Gigi

  • @naturallymenow
    @naturallymenow 4 часа назад

    Sis just keep being who God created you to be. Love your cooking videos❤

  • @valencia9981
    @valencia9981 3 часа назад

    Sending love ❤

  • @Dauphne
    @Dauphne 10 часов назад +5

    Hi Valencia. Hope your doing well.

  • @Shawn27ful
    @Shawn27ful 9 часов назад

    We ❤ you and support you best friend no matter what! And Izzy is soooo sweet! 😊

  • @lisac.5718
    @lisac.5718 7 часов назад

    Good to see you best friend, always thumbing up the video always gonna say something!! love you....

  • @ninajustice9535
    @ninajustice9535 9 часов назад +1

    Hello Sis, you're always in my prayers ❤🙏❤ Sis, I remember back in the day you use to do music (I can't remember if you wrote your own songs) are you still playing the keyboard and singing?

  • @Lyn_33_Blessed
    @Lyn_33_Blessed 11 часов назад +7

    Hey friend 🫶🏾

  • @CeyaireMilon
    @CeyaireMilon 2 часа назад

    Hi Valencia!! I’ve been a subbie since 2015. Your videos helped me through my separation 💯🙏🏽. It’s been put on my spirit to suggest to you to consider a plant based diet, and see how you feel in 2weeks! I say this with love for your spirit as a fellow single mother and human being! Just a humble suggestion 🙏🏽 Blessings and healing energy to you Queen!❤

  • @angyee2023
    @angyee2023 9 часов назад +1

    Keep your head up sis!

  • @rosalynwilliams4191
    @rosalynwilliams4191 7 часов назад

    Post when you can. You would be missed if you disappear. I am blessed. I’m at the eye drs so much I fell like I should get a check. My pressure has been in the 50s. I told my dr I want to see a surgeon. Sometimes we have to do our research and make decisions for ourselves. Thanks for sharing. ❤❤❤❤

  • @fireinbdos
    @fireinbdos 10 часов назад +2

    Intro...hilarious 😂😂😂😂

  • @healthismywealth9668
    @healthismywealth9668 9 часов назад +1

    Sending love from Trinidad and Tobago. 🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹

  • @RaisingLennox
    @RaisingLennox 3 часа назад

    ❤❤❤ Hey BF, I have been with you since the twins were born and you were in VA… I really needed enjoyed the energy you gave and even through the life adversity I had accepted you as my virtual best friend😂🎉😂 Life was just easy with you along the road- I was a single mother of one at that time and now a mother of two from DC; it’s been a true pleasure to be apart of your journey!!! So glad you came back for a check in - it would have REALLY been a shocker to not see you after being apart of so much. I totally understand your need for privacy and healing…. Just know we all support you either way….. maybe you can do a bi monthly check in….. or give us a new “good morning song” to think of you and send you good vibes( you have done so much for us as your best friend’s Energetically and I am sure that we all appreciate you in our lives ( I ❤ surly do ) Wishing you wellness from DC BF

  • @tkla05
    @tkla05 50 минут назад

    My favorite cava order is the falafel pita, very tasty and filling

  • @jessey141
    @jessey141 9 часов назад +1

    ❤️❤️❤️ love you miss V, you're a super woman&mum

  • @erichill612
    @erichill612 7 часов назад

  • @sbaby24girl
    @sbaby24girl 8 часов назад

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @carolsander3470
    @carolsander3470 8 часов назад

    I will miss you if you leave but I can comprehend your decision. Blessings to you and your family×🙏🏾❤️💪🏾👍🏽💯

  • @kellyb117
    @kellyb117 9 часов назад +2

    Herbs To Consider: Eyebright
    Bilberry
    Dandelion
    Nettle
    Please do your own research on the benefits they have for your eyes. ❤ your bestie

  • @michiek8569
    @michiek8569 3 часа назад

    Yes Cava 😋

  • @gloriamoody6025
    @gloriamoody6025 10 часов назад +4

    Hey Valencia & Gigi!

  • @kainyugrace8460
    @kainyugrace8460 7 часов назад

    Just a vacancy! love don't live here anymore .....more singing Valencia!!!!

    • @kainyugrace8460
      @kainyugrace8460 7 часов назад

      I love your singing voice Valencia.....sing Valencia!!!

  • @studentnurse4374
    @studentnurse4374 9 часов назад +1

    Whew ! Girl! Day 5 into a box of Always w the wangs & Pearls-this just ain’t the time for me 😭😭😆😆

  • @biancabudgets
    @biancabudgets 8 часов назад

    Me and the hubby ate there for the first time last month. He had the steak and I had the chicken. They were both good but I should’ve gotten the steak with the harissa. I got up and got a side of the harissa sauce. It’s really good

  • @dkeowndk
    @dkeowndk 8 часов назад

    Hello friend ❤! We love you...we understand...gotta do what's best for youand for family!!🫶🏾💃🏾🫶🏾💃🏾

  • @QGuides
    @QGuides 2 часа назад

    💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞

  • @AmazingArtisticSpidey
    @AmazingArtisticSpidey 3 часа назад

    Hey Bestie & Happy Holidays to you You Queen Vee 😎😎😎😎 As far as your decision to quit RUclips Goes, it’s definitely important to keep you & your Family Safe First , so that’s understandable for sure 😎😎😎😎 I’ll still continue to support your RUclips Channel as always Friend, because i enjoy watching your RUclips Videos especially when it comes to your Good Cookin’ & seeing you have an Amazing time with your Family 😎😎😎😎 Your entertaining Videos always bring joy and happiness to my Heart & Soul 😎😎😎😎 I wish you all the Best , Bestie & Happy Happy Holidays to you & your Family 😎😎😎😎

  • @MrMzcurlz1
    @MrMzcurlz1 9 часов назад

    I watch you a lot and rarely comment. I always thumbs up though and am a subscriber. Protect you peace❤

  • @codewithsharen1404
    @codewithsharen1404 9 часов назад

    Love ya!

  • @JustbeingVP
    @JustbeingVP 7 часов назад

    I always wanted to see you do more natural hair content. Or more cooking videos

  • @TheRealityofMartha
    @TheRealityofMartha 7 часов назад

    lol ❤I love you girl

  • @FAITH5879
    @FAITH5879 3 часа назад

    Aht ,Aht no disappearing on us we be sick when we don't see you we give you love and grace cause of your situations

  • @theartistmind7028
    @theartistmind7028 Час назад

    I respect your decision. Lord Valdemort(sp?) is exhausting

  • @francinewalker8149
    @francinewalker8149 6 часов назад

    🤓❤️👍🏽😉

  • @gprincess428
    @gprincess428 8 часов назад

    Can you and Gigi PAHLEEEEAASEEE do another musical episode!!! That was my favorite video. Also can you bring back the intro song for vlogmas

  • @HarperPolo
    @HarperPolo 5 часов назад

    I never had cavabut imade that recipe you showed last time and it was delicious 😂

  • @sunflowergarden8423
    @sunflowergarden8423 9 часов назад

    What is that your putting under your eyes, i think i need that. Love your video's 🥰🥰🥰

    • @Valenciatheyoutuber
      @Valenciatheyoutuber  9 часов назад

      Oh it’s by Pixie under eye gel mask you can find them at target

  • @deborahsparks2199
    @deborahsparks2199 9 часов назад

    😘🙏🙏🥰🙏🙏😍

  • @jessreacts5288
    @jessreacts5288 10 часов назад +4

    Def gone to continue to watch but im so sick of RUclipsrs saying they leaving as the title and really don't!

    • @Valenciatheyoutuber
      @Valenciatheyoutuber  10 часов назад +5

      I’m tired of the Mcdonalds burger looking good as advertised but them fries and apple still gone get ate… whats the big issue best friend. I LOVE YOUUUUUUUU ❤❤❤❤

    • @avasd59
      @avasd59 10 часов назад +3

      Girl I was scared for a lil minute 😂

  • @lavish169
    @lavish169 9 часов назад

    My face in the beginning girl what

  • @jewelminor5526
    @jewelminor5526 8 часов назад

    🤣I would rather!!!

  • @cowgirll8117
    @cowgirll8117 10 часов назад +1

    👋 Valencia hru You look pretty 🩵🩵🩵

  • @Debra-OK1955
    @Debra-OK1955 9 часов назад

    🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @keiaratate4441
    @keiaratate4441 9 часов назад

    Do what’s best for you. You are really close to the 100k subscribers though so maybe wait just so you can get that achievement/plaque?

  • @therealnikkij
    @therealnikkij 5 часов назад

    Felines everywhere feeling judged by Valencia for having special flexibility that they actually enjoy using to do just that.

  • @bhadbougiebudgets3859
    @bhadbougiebudgets3859 9 часов назад +2

    Auntie V you know I’m riding . whatever/whenever you post I’m there ❤️

  • @sandybayes2252
    @sandybayes2252 6 часов назад

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥹