K. Michelle - Can't Raise A Man [Official Video]

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  • Опубликовано: 25 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 15 тыс.

  • @Aubreyholman4411
    @Aubreyholman4411 10 месяцев назад +989

    This song never gets old.
    2024 and still listening

    • @Pearlsqueen1
      @Pearlsqueen1 10 месяцев назад +5

      Ikr… 2024 and it still sounds as good!❤

    • @sakiyacoe7447
      @sakiyacoe7447 8 месяцев назад +4

    • @shawnni3014
      @shawnni3014 8 месяцев назад +5

      Facts ❤❤

    • @TravonHerring
      @TravonHerring 8 месяцев назад

      Cjchftsdfndjdodff

    • @thewiseone6049
      @thewiseone6049 7 месяцев назад +3

      And you'll either be single or a single mother beyond 2024 😅😅 - yall sideline cheer each right into being miserable

  • @JamesTheBaddie
    @JamesTheBaddie Год назад +1327

    "You wonder why he acts like a boy. Because he wasn't raised right before you." That line hits fr. This gotta be my favorite song by K. Michelle alongside Cry.

  • @sierrap7588
    @sierrap7588 4 года назад +4427

    It’s 2020 now and I’m still playin this smh 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @maggiejohnson1035
    @maggiejohnson1035 Год назад +470

    The industry screwed her. She's amazing ❤🎉

    • @Juiana-fc6yy
      @Juiana-fc6yy 10 месяцев назад +6

      no fr

    • @oanatienko
      @oanatienko 9 месяцев назад +5

      💯

    • @kimerietate8372
      @kimerietate8372 9 месяцев назад +9

      These new generation like bullshit "music."

    • @Luvzzarii
      @Luvzzarii 3 дня назад

      Which generation you referring to💀​@@kimerietate8372

  • @charlenes4061
    @charlenes4061 4 года назад +863

    Domestic violence survivor #still standing #more then a conqueror with Christ ladies stand up for yourself

    • @almanzarsglock5047
      @almanzarsglock5047 4 года назад +10

      God Bless You!!

    • @blancaquiroz3850
      @blancaquiroz3850 4 года назад +3

      Howd you do it ?

    • @charlenes4061
      @charlenes4061 4 года назад +11

      @@blancaquiroz3850 I prayed him out of my house and he left

    • @jasminedrake2614
      @jasminedrake2614 4 года назад +8

      Going through that same situation now! Trying to find the best way to move forward

    • @charlenes4061
      @charlenes4061 4 года назад +10

      @@jasminedrake2614accept Jesus Christ as your personal savior. And he will heal you from the inside out Isaiah 43:19 Psalm 27:10 Jeremiah 23:12 God love you the way you are all you have to surrender all to him. God bless you ❣️💙💜💜♥️

  • @jamillionsmith1291
    @jamillionsmith1291 3 года назад +1495

    This song will never be forgotten because it’s a true story 🥺🥺❤️

    • @stlhittztv2910
      @stlhittztv2910 3 года назад +1

      ruclips.net/video/_fz8YL6ynP4/видео.html

    • @beautifulherizon1011
      @beautifulherizon1011 3 года назад +18

      My national anthem!!!💯💯💯

    • @mrs.banderas7314
      @mrs.banderas7314 3 года назад +7

      💯 💯

    • @maymay-lu2ic
      @maymay-lu2ic 3 года назад +12

      This song got me threw the tuffest part of learning about love

    • @drunkengerberkid3262
      @drunkengerberkid3262 3 года назад +11

      If this song is something that you will never forget then chances are you dated a bum and if a man is relying on his mama to become a man that should have been your first sign to walk the other way... 🤣

  • @krissy3358
    @krissy3358 4 года назад +974

    I’ve come to the conclusion that if you hear someone say “listen” at the beginning of a song, turn it up its gon be 🔥

  • @janntreharne2956
    @janntreharne2956 7 месяцев назад +11

    I’m glad my son is a great and loving young man ❤

  • @tgirl8955
    @tgirl8955 4 года назад +927

    ‘You ain’t never gonna change NOBODY.’ And that’s facts

  • @leeahpogues4909
    @leeahpogues4909 4 года назад +985

    It makes me cry so hard because these are things our mothers and grandmothers should warn us about but the pattern just continues

    • @stlhittztv2910
      @stlhittztv2910 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/_fz8YL6ynP4/видео.html

    • @iesha9847
      @iesha9847 3 года назад +7

      💯

    • @zl92
      @zl92 3 года назад +20

      So true. I'm still young so I'm learning.

    • @MJ-gj6mj
      @MJ-gj6mj 3 года назад +24

      Sometimes it takes the pain to actually wake up whether emotionally or physically. Just because you've dealt with or are dealing with a man like this doesn't mean you have to stay. Break the pattern!

    • @EvilDarkskin
      @EvilDarkskin 3 года назад +23

      Women can't give you man advice. Your dad has to teach you about men.

  • @BriannaKimmes
    @BriannaKimmes 9 месяцев назад +177

    2024 gang💕 still obsessed with this song

  • @mommycat1420
    @mommycat1420 7 месяцев назад +224

    It's 2024 and still listening to K.Michelle

  • @markeyonnagreen4827
    @markeyonnagreen4827 5 лет назад +912

    Girl you killed that song😍😍😍😘

  • @sarahmccoy358
    @sarahmccoy358 3 года назад +587

    More woman need to hear this song and it's meaning.. Don't lose yourself trying to please someone else!

  • @kyeshawilliams679
    @kyeshawilliams679 4 года назад +8925

    The reason this song has so many dislikes is cus people don't like to hear the truth. This woman is singing straight facts👸💪

  • @takialucas-drakes3797
    @takialucas-drakes3797 11 месяцев назад +77

    I raised two young men. I did not raise my ex spouse. God is Great. Love Wins. Chins up Strong ladies and girls. Excellent Job, K. Michelle ⭐🎤✌🏾⛪

  • @destinydoingher8404
    @destinydoingher8404 3 года назад +4427

    “If his momma couldn’t do it what makes you think “💯🥺

  • @Jmeme06
    @Jmeme06 3 года назад +8593

    It's 2022 and I'm still in love with this song 😩

  • @naquirarivers594
    @naquirarivers594 6 лет назад +910

    this song tells nothing but the truth

  • @JayahWhites
    @JayahWhites 3 месяца назад +615

    2024 anyone??

    • @Millygurl4L
      @Millygurl4L 2 месяца назад +5

      Me

    • @Jacklyn-x9p
      @Jacklyn-x9p Месяц назад +11

      I'm always here lol these men don't care they wanna be babies. If I got into what I've had to do including killing spiders for men who are over 6 feet and in 5 feet don't get me going 😂

    • @Keyen-o5e
      @Keyen-o5e Месяц назад +1

      Wassup

    • @serenityarmstrong1942
      @serenityarmstrong1942 Месяц назад +2

      2045

    • @emiilyjaane7
      @emiilyjaane7 Месяц назад +1

      I'll be here til I die lmao

  • @teiganmichele2433
    @teiganmichele2433 3 года назад +2296

    When your teenage daughter sends this song to you about her father, speaks volume! 2021 I can't raise a man.

  • @zaydensmama11
    @zaydensmama11 3 года назад +404

    🗣" If his mama couldn't do it, what makes you think? YOU CAN'T TRAIN THAT BOY TO BE A MAN, IT'S TOO LATE" Felt 👏🏽 that👏🏽

    • @cilla4000
      @cilla4000 Год назад +7

      Facts

    • @duty1st926
      @duty1st926 9 месяцев назад +4

      Loovvveee thus line & will sing it trying to sound like the Queen K. MICHELLE...& my now ex-MIL would yell over the words, *"You knew he was a cheater & an alcoholic when you met him'"*
      Love K Michelle.

    • @crystalMcDaniel-g8h
      @crystalMcDaniel-g8h 9 месяцев назад +2

      💯

    • @PeachesDavis-ik4em
      @PeachesDavis-ik4em 8 месяцев назад +1

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  • @angielahijadelrey
    @angielahijadelrey 5 лет назад +3791

    When my now, exhusband of 14 years left me pregnant, with baby #5; for a 19 yr girl i had this on replay all day!!!!!! Thank God thanks for this song! Kept my head held high and now have an amazing husband that took on all my kids and we now have an almost 2 yr old 😂

    • @jefferywilliams4090
      @jefferywilliams4090 5 лет назад +55

      That's great👍

    • @mianastar
      @mianastar 5 лет назад +70

      I'm so happy for you!

    • @MrGreenelight
      @MrGreenelight 5 лет назад +60

      Angie, what role did you play in that?
      There is a saying, Do it to me once, shame on you. Do it to me twice, shame on me.
      Do it to me five times, its like what the Fuck?

    • @nessawithsmiles
      @nessawithsmiles 5 лет назад +227

      MrGreenelight um..... she said he LEFT AFTER BABY NUMBER FIVE. She didn’t say he left after each child. So we are placing blame where it should go.. and that’s with her ex

    • @MrGreenelight
      @MrGreenelight 5 лет назад +16

      @@nessawithsmiles , Neither did I say he left each time.
      Baby # 5 at 19, where is the logic in that? then does the same thing again.
      Wash and repeat.....

  • @jizzlet7705
    @jizzlet7705 Год назад +66

    Been abused for 8 years didn't know how to leave it was always so hard to figure out an exit plan but God Favored Me

    • @ladypmzzz6431
      @ladypmzzz6431 5 месяцев назад

      Amen

    • @katrinagallagher2044
      @katrinagallagher2044 4 месяца назад +1

      I hope I can do the same.

    • @keaunarose9965
      @keaunarose9965 3 месяца назад

      @@katrinagallagher2044 You can just pray and ask God to give you the strength to leave him.

  • @Kimray57
    @Kimray57 2 года назад +589

    I remember hearing this for the first time. I was in a toxic relationship and my mom had passed in 2012 and my relationship isolated me away from my family. I’ll be honest this song hit me hard but I didn’t listen. I left him years later after we lost our daughter. I gave my life back to God and went single on purpose initially for a year and continued for two more years. After healing and finding myself again… I was able to love someone without the pain from my past. It’s just crazy how revisiting a song is almost like transporting yourself back in time watching yourself go through that as if it was yesterday. That part of me died years ago but seeing that girl again makes me mourn for her failed hopes and dreams and the abuse her genuine love went through. ❤️ But the woman I am knows that killing that part of myself off was so that I can have what I have now. She was right… I just had to decide to do better with my life. Lots of wisdom in this song.

    • @bfree4830
      @bfree4830 2 года назад +12

      So happy for you ❤️

    • @starmiska8191
      @starmiska8191 2 года назад +11

      I'm really sorry that all happened to you :( you didn't deserve it and I'm happy you are out of that relationship :))) 💙

    • @cartesiajones1598
      @cartesiajones1598 2 года назад +5

      Exactly true spoken facts 💯👏

    • @prettygirl3846
      @prettygirl3846 2 года назад +2

      Who cares

    • @jiyu9277
      @jiyu9277 2 года назад +15

      @@prettygirl3846 what do you get out of being rude

  • @shon_J
    @shon_J 5 лет назад +1823

    This song speaks volume ......If his mama couldn't do it what makes you think you can hmmmm

    • @shon_J
      @shon_J 5 лет назад +28

      @@patricepierre9548 that's why I go off facts real life action. Realistic shit

    • @latashabattle2953
      @latashabattle2953 5 лет назад +10

      ladii rhedd AMEN!!

    • @twanjohnson6732
      @twanjohnson6732 5 лет назад +5

      Yessssss

    • @Renae12234
      @Renae12234 5 лет назад +5

      Yes

    • @shantayfun7043
      @shantayfun7043 5 лет назад +2

      ladii rhedd lmao you need this song and ik but I am I 5 th

  • @December_Capricorn
    @December_Capricorn 8 лет назад +143

    Whenever a Black woman starts off a song with "Listen"....it's about t be that business! Go K.Michelle!

  • @aalonii
    @aalonii Год назад +165

    this song will never get old , still listen to it till this very day

  • @_d___802
    @_d___802 4 года назад +3499

    who else is listening to this during the quarantine

  • @tiffanypfl
    @tiffanypfl 10 лет назад +622

    This song is amazing, why can't people understand the difference between real music and bullshit. Love this.

  • @daysleeper4792
    @daysleeper4792 8 лет назад +911

    This is what is so special about K.Michelle, she writes songs about things we can all relate to. This is some real life shit. Haven't we all been in a relationship where we thought our love would be enough to change that person?

    • @JEHOVAHRECORD
      @JEHOVAHRECORD 8 лет назад +5

      Jacqueline Jeunesse that's how a artist get fans

    • @daysleeper4792
      @daysleeper4792 8 лет назад +14

      Legacy Absolutely! I can't relate to songs about ho's and diamonds and Maybachs and Hennessey and all that shit that's popular nowadays, I love music that speaks on real life shit, love and heartache and the daily emotions we all experience. K.Michelle is so good at that, she deserves so much more recognition and praise than she gets ❤

    • @JEHOVAHRECORD
      @JEHOVAHRECORD 8 лет назад +8

      Jacqueline Jeunesse yah I feel you.im the same way thats why I listen to regae artist alot they have great message

    • @justmeecefamily8107
      @justmeecefamily8107 7 лет назад +6

      Jacqueline Jeunesse you're right and you're a very good person thank you that was a very good speech

    • @vanattemoraa1454
      @vanattemoraa1454 7 лет назад +3

      Jacqueline Jeunesse same sentiment

  • @Kksworld01
    @Kksworld01 9 месяцев назад +1321

    It’s 2024 who still here after all this time❤❤❤

  • @jesswonderwoman6739
    @jesswonderwoman6739 4 года назад +356

    I had my son when I was 19... he's 13 now and he's SUCH A GENTLEMAN already! He's Got A Little Girlfriend (I think, I'm just being a nosey mama lol) but the level of respect he has for women and the way that he Carries himself as such a man! Makes me proud!❤... So I know I doing something right 🧘‍♀️and yet his father (Whom He Hasn't Seen In 4 Years! Of Failed Promises!) is the EPITOME of this song! 🤦‍♀️😔

    • @lovelyerie457
      @lovelyerie457 4 года назад +13

      Go girl

    • @cherrajoseph8601
      @cherrajoseph8601 4 года назад +12

      You are doing a great job❤❤.

    • @jesswonderwoman6739
      @jesswonderwoman6739 4 года назад +19

      These comments got me all teary eyed! I'm always wondering if I'm doing right by him and worried if he's missing out on something because I'm a single mom and he's a teenager growing into a young man and he's gonna be 14 in a few months (damn I feel old lol) he's already taller than me lol... but you guys kind words touched my heart! and he sees me crying and he's right there checking on his mama to make sure I'm Ok! I really lucked out! So I Thankyou...

    • @cherrajoseph8601
      @cherrajoseph8601 4 года назад +7

      @@jesswonderwoman6739 Continue to be great❤❤ he is very lucky and blessed to have you 🙏.

    • @Thatonegir321
      @Thatonegir321 3 года назад +4

      you go girl

  • @anthonyhollis8566
    @anthonyhollis8566 3 года назад +380

    Being a man myself this beautifully well written song gives me a sense of pride knowing my wife to be has a real man in her life, a man who will have her back no matter what. ❤️❤️💯💯

  • @annettesofine23
    @annettesofine23 3 года назад +882

    I won’t ever allow a man to disrespect me NO MAN!

  • @Maree15
    @Maree15 6 месяцев назад +72

    It's 2024 and this women still gives me chills 😢😞😭

  • @janiylaedwards3695
    @janiylaedwards3695 5 лет назад +559

    Now I know I'm not the only one in 2019 still listening to this song...... 2019 fam where you at?! ;)

  • @jkorzxox1346
    @jkorzxox1346 8 лет назад +371

    She's outspoken and outgoing, but so is her talent. I'm so proud of her

    • @emojiface750
      @emojiface750 8 лет назад

      jkorzxox

    • @lovelygoldensparrow
      @lovelygoldensparrow 8 лет назад +3

      I like that he's outspoken & outgoing. Its shows in her work. & its beautiful:)

    • @TrenWynn01
      @TrenWynn01 8 лет назад

      jkorzxox (

    • @lizaanderson8216
      @lizaanderson8216 8 лет назад +2

      Dooon't miss oooout oon millions of s*ху girls nеar yоu => twitter.com/2a88670dd46bfb0ec/status/801992405775826944 К Мiсhelle Cаn t Rаisee A Man Оfficial Videoooo

    • @mzsasha831
      @mzsasha831 8 лет назад +3

      jkorzxox 👍🏼👍🏼

  • @KarriBaby
    @KarriBaby 7 лет назад +385

    This song is so meaning ful please don't let this song die ladies and gentlemen! We need our children to hear this song when they start dating

    • @kennethbest5282
      @kennethbest5282 6 лет назад +2

      Aomdsk

    • @catherha1
      @catherha1 6 лет назад +5

      It'll never die. It's an official classic in my book

    • @teenathomas9060
      @teenathomas9060 6 лет назад +2

      😂

    • @breanniaduncan1511
      @breanniaduncan1511 6 лет назад +3

      Me and my bf argue all the time when I play this song

    • @judahfari
      @judahfari 6 лет назад +2

      I play this an cry for my 4 years old sister an Keisha Cole love she know the words really well

  • @kimberlyferguson7165
    @kimberlyferguson7165 Год назад +37

    Real ones understand K! Truth brings light it hurts now but when you see you will be free! I tell young women this! Never ever settle. I'm 48 and I can make my own plate. I refused to accept this at 18! Men know when women don't love themselves and didn't grow up with a dad and think he can give you what you didn't have growing up. It's not going to ever work!

  • @VibingWithQS
    @VibingWithQS 4 года назад +255

    No matter how hard you try, you can't raise no man🦋

    • @chrissexion8355
      @chrissexion8355 4 года назад +3

      A woman will never raise a man!

    • @VibingWithQS
      @VibingWithQS 4 года назад +1

      @@chrissexion8355 of course dear, just quoting the song boo🦋

  • @thatlamedudeworld2514
    @thatlamedudeworld2514 6 лет назад +1127

    It’s been about 5 years this SHIT deserve a GRAMMY‼️

  • @patricebarrett5845
    @patricebarrett5845 4 года назад +159

    “He wasn’t raised right before you ! Girl you ain’t me a gone change nobody” preach K!!!!

    • @stlhittztv2910
      @stlhittztv2910 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/_fz8YL6ynP4/видео.html

  • @JT-pb3fx
    @JT-pb3fx 11 месяцев назад +62

    I'm a man who treats a woman with respect, love and passion, but K. Michelle got me hiding my face in a corner after watching this😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @MatthewCoast
    @MatthewCoast 3 года назад +3043

    Stop taking a man’s crumbs and trying to turn it into a loaf of bread. Get into abundance and let men prove to you that they’re worthy to be in your life instead of the other way around.

  • @soulchildlady
    @soulchildlady 5 лет назад +5126

    Who is listenning To this in 2019? This is so relatable. Smh

  • @CaUgHtChYuSliPpN
    @CaUgHtChYuSliPpN 7 лет назад +738

    The worst feeling is giving your all to be betrayed. Its a cold feeling

  • @danielhale9664
    @danielhale9664 5 месяцев назад +88

    Who's going be here in 2025?

  • @Masilladoll
    @Masilladoll 8 лет назад +312

    I love how she depicts different types of bad relationships. great message 💖

  • @pastelshades2860
    @pastelshades2860 9 лет назад +282

    "It's gonna take more than a miracle to change him, just let him go. Tell me when will you decide to do better with your life." This is the real message I get out of this song and I think it's important for young woman to hear it.

    • @johnxiong6794
      @johnxiong6794 9 лет назад +1

      I lovy you hots girl

    • @stilllearning9402
      @stilllearning9402 9 лет назад +2

      +Theresa W actually you are 100% right.

    • @triciaderrickson1385
      @triciaderrickson1385 9 лет назад +4

      +Theresa W Not just young giiirllss..

    • @pastelshades2860
      @pastelshades2860 9 лет назад +1

      Tricia Derrickson you are right

    • @lonniebonelmore4536
      @lonniebonelmore4536 9 лет назад +1

      +Theresa W yes so when u have a kid u have to take care of him/her no matter what if ur getting pregnant for no reason ur a horrible person

  • @maliksworlss6176
    @maliksworlss6176 3 года назад +388

    Playing games like he'll never lose you- i felt that

  • @Arandomwoman
    @Arandomwoman Год назад +43

    I consider this song the Revelations of a dusty theme. Thank you, K. Michelle. God bless you.

  • @akua8101
    @akua8101 7 лет назад +231

    "He's already grown what you gonna do?" 💓😍⁉️

  • @shareemosley2850
    @shareemosley2850 3 года назад +267

    This song will Always be the REALEST SONG OUT PERIODTT

    • @stlhittztv2910
      @stlhittztv2910 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/_fz8YL6ynP4/видео.html

  • @kayt7059
    @kayt7059 4 года назад +307

    Couldn't raise him, left him, found a man who needed to be appreciated nt raised❤️

  • @chabelmarte8811
    @chabelmarte8811 3 месяца назад +12

    This is what is so special about K. Michelle she writes songs about things we can all relate.❤

  • @manifestqueen9108
    @manifestqueen9108 5 лет назад +239

    Thank you for putting drug use in this as well, it's not just cheating in relationships that destroys the trust and etc.

    • @MissKarma1000
      @MissKarma1000 4 года назад +16

      Absolutely!!! Drugs and alcohol have destroyed many many relationships

    • @drislady
      @drislady 4 года назад +5

      OMG, yes!! Drugs and alcohol play a major factor. It answers a lot of questions about his behavior as well.

    • @fioresolerjacobs8028
      @fioresolerjacobs8028 4 года назад +6

      Yes it’s true it destroyed us after 15 years now I’m here just staying strong for our son. God has a plan and I trust him as much as I miss him.

    • @latricecarr9680
      @latricecarr9680 4 года назад +4

      That's real talk about the drug statement

    • @xoxo2752
      @xoxo2752 4 года назад +1

      @@fioresolerjacobs8028 wow.. thats very inspirational. its incredible how you manage to be strong after what you've gone thru.

  • @avivausifo6632
    @avivausifo6632 3 года назад +500

    Why they don't make songs like these anymore 😭I swear back in the days were so much better and that's a fact 😌

  • @naomibutcher1259
    @naomibutcher1259 4 года назад +123

    Knowing what she's been through in her past with abuse and her singing this song proves she is a strong woman

    • @stlhittztv2910
      @stlhittztv2910 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/_fz8YL6ynP4/видео.html

  • @JackiMareena
    @JackiMareena Год назад +22

    I so miss this era, for real I love K's amazing voice, no auto tune just raw dam talent, shyt hard to find nowadays lbvs

  • @keundrajordan2545
    @keundrajordan2545 4 года назад +359

    It’s 2020 & this song is still so accurate.

    • @XD-le4js
      @XD-le4js 4 года назад +1

      and nowadays as for the last couple decades more than ever

    • @shavolspaulding1467
      @shavolspaulding1467 4 года назад

      And unfortunately it will always be accurate

    • @liljj230
      @liljj230 4 года назад

      Cro

    • @liljj230
      @liljj230 4 года назад

      Fr

  • @tiffanyramirez2121
    @tiffanyramirez2121 8 лет назад +144

    I learned this 6 years and 3 kids later! Ladies, quit while you're ahead of the game. You Can't Raise A Man.

    • @Aristocratic13
      @Aristocratic13 8 лет назад +7

      Damn

    • @allisonfoste1956
      @allisonfoste1956 8 лет назад +4

      Kill

    • @DHQDisney
      @DHQDisney 8 лет назад +6

      Your lucky it took me 8 years three sons and a miscarriage to learn

    • @charlissesmith3506
      @charlissesmith3506 8 лет назад +15

      Together for a year then his true colors started to show. after 5 months of his true self, I bounced.and it took that long because i was giving him opportunities to grow. Definitely wasn't giving him years. no kids. We as women gotta stop putting up with foolishness for years.

    • @theunknownone9046
      @theunknownone9046 7 лет назад +4

      Charlisse Smith , relatable except its impossible for me to have kids since im a dude...

  • @trinaj9749
    @trinaj9749 5 лет назад +186

    When she said "Run for the hills"...Amen to that.

  • @JovankaFudge
    @JovankaFudge 8 месяцев назад +2

    I love the lyrics to this song!

  • @Evansm1986
    @Evansm1986 4 года назад +543

    Raised by a single mother and grew into a great respectful man! Some folks just don’t know how to grow up and never will. I love this song because as a gay man I ran into a few grown ass men who act like boys and there isn’t any help for any of them!

    • @MARINALOVEDSK1
      @MARINALOVEDSK1 4 года назад +9

      Some mothers handicap their sons. Sad.

    • @cjturner2008
      @cjturner2008 4 года назад +7

      As A Gay Man myself
      I 1000%Agree

    • @rebekahbailey2984
      @rebekahbailey2984 4 года назад +2

      boy shut up youre full of it

    • @omonaijaj
      @omonaijaj 4 года назад +3

      @@rebekahbailey2984 🤔

    • @Evansm1986
      @Evansm1986 4 года назад +8

      @@rebekahbailey2984 sorry to see your heart is filled with hate.

  • @munchiebrown5289
    @munchiebrown5289 3 года назад +66

    "tryna talk to em can't get through, every day he's a different dude" felt this on my soul 😥

  • @cziganyy
    @cziganyy 8 лет назад +189

    This video is so deep

  • @Notbothered1
    @Notbothered1 29 дней назад +1

    😢 this was needed.

  • @allaboutgrande1115
    @allaboutgrande1115 7 лет назад +73

    Now this is what I call real music no ass shaking just a simple beautiful message

  • @lisagoeing9797
    @lisagoeing9797 8 лет назад +53

    k Michelle has always kept me strong on this song

  • @adriennesimpkins2275
    @adriennesimpkins2275 4 года назад +62

    This song helped me out a lot when I broke up with son's father who was controlling and abusive to me thank you father for delivering me out of domestic violence everyone says I'm weak but Jesus says I'm strong and I'm a fighter and a survivor

    • @deslynwalters4262
      @deslynwalters4262 4 года назад +4

      Thank God you got out of that situation.Keep fighting for you and your son Adrienne.God forbid this happens to you again.Stay strong and be of good courage.God's richest blessings to you and your son you are gonna make it.

    • @adriennesimpkins2275
      @adriennesimpkins2275 4 года назад +1

      @@deslynwalters4262 thank you God bless you🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @natassjagale9897
      @natassjagale9897 4 года назад +2

      🙏💜🙏💜🙏🤗💪

    • @AMEJUS3
      @AMEJUS3 4 года назад +1

      You aren’t weak by no means I was in 2 abusive relationship so people don’t know the feeling and danger unless they are in those shoes. But God has blessed me with the most amazing husband.

    • @anjelicajohnson1909
      @anjelicajohnson1909 3 года назад

      Same my daughter wasnt about to grow up in that mess thank you god

  • @GailBecker-MSED-CM-Author
    @GailBecker-MSED-CM-Author Год назад +55

    I will never grow tired of this song! I just said this very thing to my friend!!! Thank YOU, GOD, for giving the Gifts and Talents of music, writing, and singing because they are so very therapeutic. I love you, K. Michelle, for writing songs about real situations we all go through! Music, like laughter, releases negative energy as well as relieves stress; thus, adds longevity. 👏🏽❤👏🏽

  • @ms.rolltide256
    @ms.rolltide256 2 года назад +260

    2022 still hits hard. Very nostalgic for me 😌

  • @geekyswagger8426
    @geekyswagger8426 6 лет назад +174

    "He got older but never grew. For his life he couldn't tell the truth playing games like he'd never lose you."She hit this track running.Kimberly had some things to get off her chest, and I'm here for it bish!!! 🍵🍵🍵

    • @alyssaklein1048
      @alyssaklein1048 5 лет назад +3

      This song is everything I've been through so much crap with guys including abuse.

  • @mc-rb7mj
    @mc-rb7mj 5 лет назад +348

    This song true ASF if he don't treat his mama right what makes you think he gone treat you right?🙄🙄🤔

    • @praisemusic8708
      @praisemusic8708 5 лет назад +14

      I was always told the way a man speaks to and treat his mom thats how he's going to do his woman.

    • @sabrenamansfield5252
      @sabrenamansfield5252 5 лет назад +2

      And this is what I'm saying about my 22 year old son he got this girlfriend and everything treat me like trash and I'm looking at her if he treats me like this what make you think he's going to treat you any better

    • @jasonkimble2363
      @jasonkimble2363 5 лет назад +3

      And maybe she looking at you like, "is she bout to knock the dog shit out him like I will if he tries that wit me!! "

    • @melissaruth2905
      @melissaruth2905 5 лет назад

      Hkl

    • @kimberlyfarnch4681
      @kimberlyfarnch4681 5 лет назад +2

      @@sabrenamansfield5252 I'm sorry and I'm not trying to be disrespectful but you allowed him to disrespect you cause I have two grown ass boys who are out there own there own because they're are disrespectful don't want to listen to anyone

  • @markmenez4097
    @markmenez4097 Год назад +39

    This song speaks volumes and truth to this day still . ❤❤

  • @IAmEverythang
    @IAmEverythang 10 лет назад +201

    Powerful message and song, stop wasting your time ladies if his momma failed you definitely will too. Shoutout to all the real Men who were raised right and knows how to treat real Women.

    • @mariefraser3667
      @mariefraser3667 10 лет назад +2

      This song is tight Kmichelle is an awesome songwriter

    • @IAmEverythang
      @IAmEverythang 10 лет назад +1

      Marie Fraser This certainly is one of my favorite songs by her. That's amazing and (cost effective) to be writing her own songs.

    • @ms3rings
      @ms3rings 10 лет назад +1

      So Righteous is That

    • @IAmEverythang
      @IAmEverythang 9 лет назад +1

      Go on girl, you did it with this song.

    • @invincible203
      @invincible203 9 лет назад +2

      Real women? Where? Can they cook, clean, take care of kids, not rely on a man? No? They aren't real women then!

  • @tonyaevans6767
    @tonyaevans6767 2 года назад +791

    It’s 2022 and this is still my jam I love k Michelle for this 🥰🥰

    • @gangstacat4236
      @gangstacat4236 2 года назад +9

      You just like my mom she be listening to the song over and over and over

    • @reactwithrosah79
      @reactwithrosah79 2 года назад +2

      Honestlyyyyyy

    • @tamikam6982
      @tamikam6982 2 года назад +8

      It just hit different in 2022. Men will never change.

    • @paulnganga659
      @paulnganga659 2 года назад +1

      I can't imgn I shakes her hand this month

    • @kenyattatucker1279
      @kenyattatucker1279 2 года назад +1

      I love K Michelle

  • @taythompson769
    @taythompson769 6 лет назад +371

    This song deserves a Grammy. HANDS DOWN.

  • @rudolphmcneill515
    @rudolphmcneill515 6 месяцев назад +3

    Mmmm. You can absolutely tell that she's singing from her, hearts, soul, and experiences. YESSS!! ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @whitneylashay6665
    @whitneylashay6665 5 лет назад +1674

    Hell naw the only man I'm raising is my son to be a good hearted and respectful man💗

    • @jamesgibson3722
      @jamesgibson3722 5 лет назад +36

      Whitney LaShay, I "RESPECT" your comment. GOD BLESS YOU MS.LADY!!

    • @jackiejackie4207
      @jackiejackie4207 5 лет назад +19

      👏👏Amen👏👏. I agree with u 💯💯

    • @jamaelwilliams8677
      @jamaelwilliams8677 5 лет назад +18

      Good for you we need more women and mothers like you 💖❤️

    • @abbeybennett2436
      @abbeybennett2436 4 года назад +10

      Me too 🤔

    • @rdobsrenee9460
      @rdobsrenee9460 4 года назад +10

      Thanking you in advance

  • @nomalungelolinda2281
    @nomalungelolinda2281 8 лет назад +81

    This song speaks so much truth. I wish I had heard this song 6 years ago.

  • @mariamee7374
    @mariamee7374 4 года назад +334

    Crazy how this song is still accurate

  • @Maci_yrish
    @Maci_yrish 4 месяца назад +5

    K-mitchelle you should have a platinum song/album I think your music is amazing,
    Love from Nairobi Kenya 🇰🇪.
    2024

  • @SrslyStanYa
    @SrslyStanYa 4 года назад +1199

    “If his mama couldn’t do it what makes you think you could train a boy to be a man” that’s facts right there. It’s a lost cause,💆🏾‍♀️you just have to let go and be a Ciara leaving Future ‘cause he belongs to the streets’🤷🏽‍♀️💁🏾‍♀️ it is what it is

  • @ChurchOfGod44
    @ChurchOfGod44 3 года назад +88

    I am proud of K.Michelle for this song.... Amen

  • @reneewhite7875
    @reneewhite7875 7 лет назад +145

    Her best song ever!!!!!

    • @emmanuelthomas7797
      @emmanuelthomas7797 6 лет назад +5

      Renee White Your words are so true. K Michelle words are so true. Black women please stop trying to raise a man, "he's already grown so what you gone do," just love him that's what you can do

    • @moneykay1676
      @moneykay1676 5 лет назад

      Renee White Put up Harry up in a girl

  • @TorryanaBaker
    @TorryanaBaker 4 месяца назад +18

    MY GRANDDAUGHTER LOVES THIS SONG,
    AND SHE SOUNDS WONDERFUL SINGING IT!!!
    SHE'S 4 YEARS OLD, SHE'S DEFINITELY A BORN STAR ⭐⭐
    IM SO GLAD SHE PUT ME ON TO THIS SONG,CAUSR I LOVE IT!!❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Leoprincess3038
      @Leoprincess3038 3 месяца назад +2

      She's a little young for a song like this.......

  • @1963Dman
    @1963Dman 2 года назад +30

    This makes me reflect on the man that raised me....I am so thankful that my mother made the right choice when picking my father...

  • @juliajackson1618
    @juliajackson1618 3 года назад +87

    This song couldn't be more true. THIS SONG IS ICONIC.

    • @stlhittztv2910
      @stlhittztv2910 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/_fz8YL6ynP4/видео.html

  • @naomisantoro3845
    @naomisantoro3845 4 года назад +93

    You can not raise a MAN! A man changes because he wants to! 💯

  • @RellaWilliams
    @RellaWilliams 4 месяца назад +21

    2024 and still love this song

  • @tariuspoole1144
    @tariuspoole1144 5 лет назад +183

    It’s 2019 my girl still won’t stop playing this shit when she mad 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @Cckrocks60
    @Cckrocks60 2 года назад +244

    I just came out of a very toxic relationship , 1 year and 5 months . And even tried to be friends with him after . I can’t do anything but let him go . This song explains it all . Love and support to all the independent females and young queens out here . ♥️ We all deserve better .

    • @icycandiee6343
      @icycandiee6343 Год назад +3

      GOOD FOR YOU, DARLING!!! Hopefully you'll find a healthy, strong and happy relationship!!

    • @rosalindbowser1540
      @rosalindbowser1540 Год назад

      ❤ ta1o ab

    • @rosalindbowser1540
      @rosalindbowser1540 Год назад

      Straight facts Diva we queesp0😅😅😅😅pp

    • @PAPERWEIGHTPRODUCTIONS
      @PAPERWEIGHTPRODUCTIONS Год назад

      Damm

      I feels
      U

    • @Just_Hendrixx
      @Just_Hendrixx Год назад +1

      Just broke up today for good. Turned into domestic violence. Every word spoken is pure truth. Thank you for the support Queen!! You deserve the world love! 💜

  • @Virtuouswoman78
    @Virtuouswoman78 4 года назад +109

    Point blank ladies LISTEN TO ALL THE WORDS . IF HES DOING ALL THIS
    LET HIS ASS GO
    You're GOOD ALL BY YOURSELF !!
    CUZ YOU BEEN ALONE THE WHOLE TIME

    • @stlhittztv2910
      @stlhittztv2910 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/_fz8YL6ynP4/видео.html

    • @zl92
      @zl92 3 года назад +2

      Period. We can be independent too.

  • @TestimonieswithNala
    @TestimonieswithNala 2 месяца назад +1

    When I was stuck in a horribly abusive relationship with my BD the Lord would have this song playing in my head randomly in the car and GURL EVEN AT WORK. Gods even ministering to me know through this song. So crazy. Thank you Jesus for helping me let this lil boy go 💕

  • @Soprettynbad
    @Soprettynbad 4 года назад +381

    Best song to clean to baby you’ll clean the whole damn house 🤣🤣

  • @kastrie89
    @kastrie89 4 года назад +58

    I've loved a man for 13 years of my life and it's only NOW that I'm FINALLY in a place in my life when I realize that I deserve MORE than the bullshit he's given me. I can't tell you how much this song hits me right now and it's SO necessary.

    • @stlhittztv2910
      @stlhittztv2910 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/_fz8YL6ynP4/видео.html

  • @shaieshabell9383
    @shaieshabell9383 5 лет назад +172

    Its gonna take more than a miracle to change him just let him go💯 When will you decide to do better with your life💯🙏🙌

    • @moneykay1676
      @moneykay1676 5 лет назад +1

      Hi I want to be your friend

    • @mayhappythomas8827
      @mayhappythomas8827 5 лет назад

      100%

    • @MISSLOVELY_REE
      @MISSLOVELY_REE 4 года назад +1

      Yes girl the ❤ isnt there anymore call me out my name and cheats on me and very disrespectful more than a miracle

    • @jtrillguzman9641
      @jtrillguzman9641 4 года назад

      @@MISSLOVELY_REE
      ruclips.net/video/3I8OmXsSUDY/видео.html

    • @msoddballz5763
      @msoddballz5763 4 года назад

      Best part of the song.

  • @lexiainbinder-hh6id
    @lexiainbinder-hh6id 18 дней назад +1

    Ty for giving me the strength to leave this man, even after 10 years