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  • Baby mamas, single mothers, deadbeat dads, absent fathers: these polarizing terms are commonplace in today's African-American community. Why are 72% of black children are born out of wedlock, and being raised by single mothers?
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  • @FlyGemini79
    @FlyGemini79 6 лет назад +347

    The Black community is way too comfortable with folks having multiple kids with multiple partners. I met this dude with 7 kids and 6 BM's. 36 years old smh The sick part is that since its become normalized, people who chose to be responsible are looked at like something is wrong with them when they dont have kids. That shit is sick and nasty.

    • @velfcookie4734
      @velfcookie4734 6 лет назад +64

      I get this every time "Do you have kids?" Um no? "(o_o) wow why not?" SMH is it so strange to see a single woman without kids?????

    • @FlyGemini79
      @FlyGemini79 6 лет назад +34

      Shalea Shaw girl i have gotten so many ignorant responses when i tell folks i dont have kids. From Black men AND Women.

    • @TheMissionOfSubmission
      @TheMissionOfSubmission 6 лет назад +70

      Go on Facebook and make a post about being glad you don't have kids. A bunch of single moms will come after you😭😂😂

    • @princesscam5002
      @princesscam5002 6 лет назад +28

      Omg finally someone who gets it! You’re so right about it being normalized!! And just like the other women said on this thread, I’m ALWAYS asked “when you having kids?? Come on have kids!” I get pissed because who are they to even try to make me feel bad for not having any!!! Like I’m breaking the damn law for choosing not to have children. Oh and get this, I’m married and my husband have two teenage sons. So honestly, I’m good!!

    • @zztoppz9948
      @zztoppz9948 6 лет назад +2

      I totally agree

  • @Laoriginal718
    @Laoriginal718 5 лет назад +140

    It’s 77.8% now. It’s ridiculous and disgusting.

    • @alicia7737
      @alicia7737 4 года назад +2

      La Original 😢

    • @victorjohnson4971
      @victorjohnson4971 3 года назад +17

      As single mothers percentages increases so do prison population

    • @joshuatruvillion3044
      @joshuatruvillion3044 3 года назад +3

      @Naturalist nope wrong its 93 % 2021

    • @nolimit8733
      @nolimit8733 3 года назад +3

      @@joshuatruvillion3044 damn are u serious???

  • @azuzajones6654
    @azuzajones6654 8 лет назад +263

    So glad I'm a young black guy at 23 and childfree.

    • @BlackBusyBody
      @BlackBusyBody 7 лет назад +53

      azuza jones stay that way until you marry a woman you truly love and she loves you back and guys agree to have children

    • @vanbrown5143
      @vanbrown5143 6 лет назад +17

      Stay that way !

    • @immadomenow
      @immadomenow 6 лет назад +52

      you are SUPPOSED to be child free at 23 and unmarried buddy.

    • @TheMissionOfSubmission
      @TheMissionOfSubmission 6 лет назад +25

      Same... Well you're 24 now, and I'm 23. Mom and dad made sure they did it right, so I will too.

    • @zztoppz9948
      @zztoppz9948 6 лет назад +3

      @@TheMissionOfSubmission So proud!

  • @AuthorLHollingsworth
    @AuthorLHollingsworth 6 лет назад +125

    Im 36 and don't have any kids. I refuse to bring a kid into an unmarried household.

    • @keylimepie797
      @keylimepie797 5 лет назад +36

      I'm 38, black, no kids and refuse to become another statistic.

    • @Anony584
      @Anony584 5 лет назад +7

      Jamilla Dobson That’s guaranteed child support bc most men that get married aren’t Pookie and Ray

    • @lydiamusima5840
      @lydiamusima5840 4 года назад +7

      BUTLERU this is what black women have been groomed to believe. They simply become baby mama as that seems to the last option to keep a man. They’ve been taught to lower their standards, be independent and masculine and in the end don’t attract a man of means but the broke dusties.

    • @abitofeverythingbynastassi6273
      @abitofeverythingbynastassi6273 4 года назад +20

      Same here and i'm 30. Everyone on my block has 2 babydaddy...I'm just finishing my bachelors degree soon!

    • @NoName-be8vp
      @NoName-be8vp 4 года назад +2

      Lydia Musima you sound like you watch Chrissie! Do you? Cause I do too! 😊😊

  • @whooelse9444
    @whooelse9444 6 лет назад +162

    Its damn near 80% now smh.

    • @mrhaha1980
      @mrhaha1980 5 лет назад +6

      whoo else I’ll say 90

    • @MartellThaCool
      @MartellThaCool 5 лет назад +16

      92% nowadays

    • @ngumlovered7566
      @ngumlovered7566 4 года назад +1

      It’s truly sad to see 😞

    • @whooelse9444
      @whooelse9444 4 года назад +9

      @@ngumlovered7566 its all about choices & its getting pretty tiring explaining what kind of men a lot of these women are choosing.

    • @mayasanders1046
      @mayasanders1046 4 года назад

      @@whooelse9444 right

  • @lydiamusima5840
    @lydiamusima5840 4 года назад +143

    The baby mama crisis also stems from settling for less, with guys who aren’t financially stable and simply leave

    • @kingmonde
      @kingmonde 4 года назад +18

      I wish birth control was mandatory until you could prove you don't need it. I wish men had the pill, I can guarantee men are more likely to take the pill than women, I guarantee men are more likely to take the pill than wear condoms.

    • @cabalogia
      @cabalogia 4 года назад +17

      Its the never ending cycle. Chad and Tyrone are just too sexually arousing for women to keep their legs closed.

    • @mayasanders1046
      @mayasanders1046 4 года назад

      @@cabalogia 🤣🤣

    • @tianathompson2725
      @tianathompson2725 4 года назад

      Very true 💯

    • @averagecitizen863
      @averagecitizen863 3 года назад

      @@annajt19 that's the real issue they need to adress in the documentary lmao

  • @xxPantherBabe
    @xxPantherBabe 5 лет назад +93

    So why does society shame women who choose to be patient & wait for marriage and have a great suitor as a father ..why are we looked down upon as less than because we choose not to have kids until it makes sense to have kids?

    • @sigmasiren7
      @sigmasiren7 2 года назад +10

      Ppl always look at ppl strange when they stray from the norm, even when the norm is toxic. I pay ppl like this no mind because they are obviously sheep who can’t think for themselves. Do you.

    • @Sakeenawatley231
      @Sakeenawatley231 2 года назад +3

      Exactly.

    • @E.M.Favour
      @E.M.Favour Год назад

      It’s bec they all trying to get you to do the same. Also bec this days promiscuous women are being separated, if anyone says anybody about the feminist comes slap on the wrists with the woke bullshit

    • @donnapoolejackofalltrades7827
      @donnapoolejackofalltrades7827 Год назад

      God bless you for better berry looking. Don't settle for thrash .

    • @markdavids2511
      @markdavids2511 2 месяца назад

      I’ve never heard of this, does this go on in the black community?,

  • @ngugi7279
    @ngugi7279 4 года назад +26

    cut the welfare system and see the number drop drastically

    • @tianathompson2725
      @tianathompson2725 4 года назад +2

      Exactly 💯

    • @EXILERIDING
      @EXILERIDING Год назад +1

      Exactly… child support too … less births for certain…

    • @Alexandriah.Washington
      @Alexandriah.Washington 11 месяцев назад

      @@EXILERIDINGChild support has to be paid by both parents. It’s the law. Children are NOT free.

  • @sandrajohnson61
    @sandrajohnson61 6 лет назад +107

    Birth control has been around since the 6o's .......I don't understand why this is still happening at this number.

    • @kingmonde
      @kingmonde 4 года назад +12

      @John Smith I wish birth control was mandatory until you could prove you don't need it. I wish men had the pill, I can guarantee men are more likely to take the pill than women, I guarantee men are more likely to take the pill than wear condoms.

    • @lovebug6388
      @lovebug6388 4 года назад +15

      @@kingmonde they tried that already and due to the male reproductive system, haven't found one effective yet. Furthermore, the male population bitched, moaned, and complained about their rights being tread while steadily throwing women's reproductive rights under the bus. It's not just "a pill". It's a hormone that jacks up the womans adrenal and pituitary glands. It also messes with her neurotransmitters and can cause other health issues NOT related to menstruation such as depression, anxiety/ panic attacks, early onset osteoporosis, fibromyalgia, migraines, nosebleeds, osteoarthritis, blood clots and heart problems. So rather than simply utilizing condoms AND the pull out method or getting a vasectomy that has minimal down time and is reversible, they threw a huge tantrum.

    • @devonjenkins6829
      @devonjenkins6829 4 года назад +2

      @@lovebug6388 men complained bitches and moaned.. I think you're confused those are the feminist. ..

    • @bxndo5ive
      @bxndo5ive 4 года назад +19

      Low IQ and no self control. These people reproduce at a high rate and don’t consider the consequences of their actions.

    • @devonjenkins6829
      @devonjenkins6829 4 года назад +3

      @@s.mclovin800 smh a man can't have kids so there is no blame to put on the men. Also if you understand that men don't want kids youre implying that these women do.

  • @elijahmack6263
    @elijahmack6263 7 лет назад +98

    iam 42 years old and i dont have any kids

    • @kamman3136
      @kamman3136 6 лет назад +3

      Elijah Mack i have kids and then leave cant be bothered girls love me and ask for a kid i say ok cool they dont wana be alone

    • @BrightOrange17
      @BrightOrange17 5 лет назад +4

      Elijah Mack you still failed.

    • @Tj-kg5iw
      @Tj-kg5iw 5 лет назад +7

      @@BrightOrange17 i don't make enough to take care of kids -- why elijah failed ?

    • @Aristocratic13
      @Aristocratic13 4 года назад +1

      My hero

    • @RodRod82
      @RodRod82 4 года назад +5

      Ain't nothing wrong with that kids are more of a liability nowadays instead of a investment.

  • @soulfulman1971
    @soulfulman1971 4 года назад +52

    I'm 48 years old and I don't have any kids. One, because I've never been married. Two, because I love my fiancee too much for her to be just my baby's mama. And three, I'm not having any bastard babies. That would be an embarrassment to them.

    • @misha9856
      @misha9856 4 года назад +11

      True 💯 plus in this generation it's no guarantee marriage will last long anyways. This world is filled with lust.

  • @jemiah9437
    @jemiah9437 3 года назад +25

    I’m 27 and no kids 🙏🏾

  • @Melanie-le6mw
    @Melanie-le6mw 5 лет назад +54

    They keep gettin pregnant by Men who don’t want them... I don’t get it smh

    • @72defender
      @72defender 4 года назад +13

      It’s their lack of self esteem!
      Desperately trying to attach themselves to any man who shows them interest, thus, the insistence on having kids at all costs.

    • @18Tyeontra
      @18Tyeontra 3 года назад +2

      A lot of women think the grass is greener on the other side so they cheat thinking they can replace the baby father, but when the new dude just wanted to fuck, Now they know they mess their family up for nothing so they go after the baby dad for child support and have the kid thinking dad left for no reason.

    • @kaitocreationsandvlogs8198
      @kaitocreationsandvlogs8198 3 года назад +1

      @@72defender I don't think that's true there are a lot of single guys out there who wanna have a family so I'd make sense if those guys didn't exist

    • @msmon6523
      @msmon6523 3 месяца назад +1

      As from experience there own Father's did not want them so the cycle repeats. Even though I had a stepdad I still subconsciously chased the love of my real father.
      I was molested by my grandfather and my dad's brother and cousin.
      Black women face incest we are not allowed to talk about either and her called being fast and asking for it. It's so deep it took me to 36to realize.

  •  6 лет назад +47

    If black live matter had any real interest in helping their people, this would be topic #1. Irresponsible procreation has become the norm in black American culture, and it's the root cause of their endemic poverty. Until they get their sexual behavior in control, nothing will change. Their children will grow up basically illiterate, worshiping bad musicians and athletes, and end up unemployed, on welfare, and often violent. Then, BLM complains about police responses? Silly.

    • @Spokentruths725
      @Spokentruths725 6 лет назад +7

      Ashok Hegde it will never happen as long as both parties (man and woman) blame eachother vs taking accountability. As a young black woman i dont know why so many females are against bc. They say it can cause complications but so does having a baby by someone who might not be around or he might be around but not a good father.

    • @glennsmith6071
      @glennsmith6071 5 лет назад +1

      True

    • @MsBFam
      @MsBFam 5 лет назад

      Preach

    • @diasporaafortiori5180
      @diasporaafortiori5180 4 года назад

      Mass incarceration of black men for non violent crimes has nothing to do with it?
      While passing judgment on our community, please explain to me why metal detectors are in predominantly black schools... How many black school shooters have there been?

    • @DoveVzn
      @DoveVzn 4 года назад +1

      This !!! This this this. I tried to explain this to a man who claimed to be “pro black” but had babies everywhere. He ain’t want to hear it. They don’t want to acknowledge the real problems that start within us first.

  • @lr2ldn
    @lr2ldn 3 года назад +15

    72%. That is ATROCIOUS.

  • @MAC9949
    @MAC9949 6 лет назад +52

    A lot of people are claiming that it is a pre slavery phenomenon.Yet it is clear that before 1965, it was extremely low!
    Also, Africans have traditionally high marriage rates and divorce came with colonialism.It did not exist before

    • @Aristocratic13
      @Aristocratic13 4 года назад +4

      GERALD710 Yeah if anything slavery helped keep families together. It's the culture that's the problem

    • @TalkyoshetTv
      @TalkyoshetTv 3 года назад +3

      Just a bunch of dumb excuses 😂

    • @kman-mi7su
      @kman-mi7su 2 года назад +4

      It is born of the victimhood mentality so many of among us have. It from that which excuses are used to not take responsibility to change course. Frankly I'm sick and tired of hearing that tired old bullshyt argument from people who've never been a slave and don't know the first thing about what it really was to be one. My ancestors were slaves at one point, yes, I'm not.

    • @Emma-ct6dk
      @Emma-ct6dk 2 года назад +2

      When something goes wrong in this community they always blame slavery when in reality there is a lack of accountability.

    • @Alexandriah.Washington
      @Alexandriah.Washington 11 месяцев назад

      @@kman-mi7suSlavery does continue to impact the Black American community since we were looked upon as less than a whole person and treated accordingly. Although racism, injustice, and inequality still exist in America, this should not cause the Black American community to continue to cause self-affliction, suffering, and destruction amongst themselves.

  • @flighter7713
    @flighter7713 4 года назад +66

    Absentee fathers are not always thugs! A lot of them are college-educated!

    • @mynameisnotimportant2854
      @mynameisnotimportant2854 3 года назад +9

      And come from good families

    • @e_d_d_d
      @e_d_d_d 2 года назад +3

      💯💯💯

    • @Tragic.Kingdom
      @Tragic.Kingdom 2 года назад +1

      Some even millionaires like the late
      eazy E, Dr Dre ,

    • @BlankestKnight
      @BlankestKnight 2 года назад +3

      @@Tragic.Kingdom Rappers and athletes aren't good examples of educated responsible BM. Those types are well known for sleeping around recklessly.

    • @IamAWESOME3980
      @IamAWESOME3980 Год назад

      Steve job?

  • @GoddesssofMind
    @GoddesssofMind 2 года назад +5

    33 and child free. At my age that makes me a social outcast and weird. Idc. I’d rather have a drink in my hand than a baby on my hip with no ring on my finger. Nope baby mama life not for me.

  • @NOV123
    @NOV123 4 года назад +20

    Have children but don’t raise them on a yearly income of less than 30k a yr. I hate to see children suffer by living in high crime poor urban areas. It brings a tear to my eye when I witness a child being raised amongst criminals. As a parent, you’re leading a lamb into slaughter. And it’s just not fair! Poor and pregnant definitely isn’t a good combo.

  • @vmutuma
    @vmutuma 6 лет назад +19

    I watched an old 1980s documentary and at that time 50% of black children were living in single parent households. The situation has been getting much worse!

  • @mikearicks77
    @mikearicks77 3 года назад +7

    44 with ZERO KIDS. 2 parent household, 7 other siblings, all of which have kids by different people. And I'm the odd one?
    No thanks.

    • @lbrown9570
      @lbrown9570 2 года назад +1

      Stay Blessed. Amen!

  • @GodfatherXXI
    @GodfatherXXI 6 лет назад +23

    This African slavery connections is bull. We had the biggest families from 1870s to the 1940s.

  • @adamhonestyanddecency5054
    @adamhonestyanddecency5054 6 лет назад +31

    How on earth can the black fatherless rate be a result of something hundreds of years ago, when it was forty three percent lower than it is now just fifty three years ago?
    Someone want to help me with this? Didn't this video contradict itself?

    • @jacksonatwork5942
      @jacksonatwork5942 3 года назад +4

      Excuses, excuses. One can't intellectualize selfish, poorly executed choices. Birth control and the "free love", "do as you will" movements of the 60's gave people a sense of being sexually invincible with a license to self-indulge. Once the seeds of this type of thinking were sown, the crops of family breakdown, child poverty, STIs (social diseases) and a host of other issues grew with abandon. Hard to get the tiger back in its cage now that it's loose and running wildly. Our intellectuals should dedicate more time to correcting the situation and less trying to explain it away.

  • @kwamebushman606
    @kwamebushman606 3 года назад +14

    I'm a "strong black woman" or "I'm a strong queen". It's an interesting experiment in America that will not end well. We don't have this in Africa mate

  • @hajeraa
    @hajeraa 4 года назад +16

    This is so terrifying.
    People need to do better.

  • @devonjenkins6829
    @devonjenkins6829 4 года назад +13

    Nobody's telling you women not to have sex.. just stop having kids outside of marriage GotDamn. . Like how hard is to not have a baby fr honestly.

  • @theduke6174
    @theduke6174 3 года назад +5

    It's not because of slavery or Africa.
    The MAJORITY of Africans practice monogamy today!
    Why not blame legislation that pushed the men out of the home so the mothers could claim more from Uncle Sam ??

    • @Alexandriah.Washington
      @Alexandriah.Washington 11 месяцев назад

      If the men were earning enough to take care of their families, then the women would not have relied on Uncle Sam. Some Black American families were suffering from poverty due to the Black American male’s inability to financially support their families. Therefore the Government stepped in to feed their impoverished families.
      There were millions of Black families who never received “welfare payments” because their fathers worked hard and were paid well enough to support their families. Most Black American women are NOT going to let themselves and their children suffer and starve while waiting for their Black American man to get a job.
      Black American men still didn’t take advantage of the opportunities available in the richest country on the planet, America. Black American men dropped out of college at an alarming rate during the seventies, eighties, and nineties and continued to refuse to obtain a college education, often relying on blue-collar jobs and training. Most of these jobs disappeared with the rise of the technology.
      Males of other races and culture, including “Immigrants”, took advantage of opportunities that were put in place for Black American men, becoming more financially successful. Black American women also took advantage of the opportunities available in America, which resulted in the financial imbalance of the Black American family. As of today, Black American women are the ONLY women in the world who out-earn their male counterpart, Black men.
      These educational opportunities resulted in the separation of Black Americans based upon financial classes. Those stuck at the bottom class are often uneducated, unemployed, baby mamas, baby daddies, welfare recipients, criminals, druggies, impoverished, gangs, poor neighborhoods, etc.

  • @Prophet293
    @Prophet293 4 года назад +8

    75% now, market is soaring

  • @912deborah
    @912deborah 5 лет назад +14

    I knew a guy who had 4 kids at the age of 15. He 26 now and he lost count. Smh
    Ppl are surprised I don’t have kids at 27 even though I have “those child bearing hips”. I’m wait until I’m married

  • @avawilliams5827
    @avawilliams5827 5 лет назад +12

    I just turned 20 and I REFUSE

  • @1968dogg
    @1968dogg 6 лет назад +9

    LIES!!!!!!!! WELFARE, WELFARE, WELFARE

  • @roolyfe
    @roolyfe 3 года назад +8

    I would never date a baby momma

  • @demiurge9212
    @demiurge9212 5 лет назад +28

    Promiscuity should be illegal.

    • @Melly16yr10
      @Melly16yr10 3 года назад +1

      I agree causes more harm then good

  • @madeinbrooklyn7717
    @madeinbrooklyn7717 6 лет назад +33

    Lack of self control !

  • @m.b.1702
    @m.b.1702 3 года назад +7

    I wish more Black Men & Women would make better decisions when it comes to safe sex.

  • @sophiadavenport3959
    @sophiadavenport3959 6 лет назад +19

    I'm so grateful that my father loved me and my siblings unconditionally.

  • @Train1900
    @Train1900 5 лет назад +13

    The Black Community is a 21st Century Breeding Farm. Which Way is Up?

  • @Anonymous-ux3tu
    @Anonymous-ux3tu 4 года назад +6

    I had to research this before I commented. This is shocking. I was always taught were all the same under our skin I dont get how this could happen.

  • @NOV123
    @NOV123 4 года назад +14

    Black women get babies NOT wedding rings! Just the way it is unfortunately.

    • @NOV123
      @NOV123 3 года назад +3

      @Aj Soprano Exactly. And the only reason that ends up happening is usually because of men and their selfish nature of not wanting to wear a condom and feel the “full effect”. Sorry, just keeping it real!!

    • @albertrobinson4133
      @albertrobinson4133 2 года назад +4

      A lot of em aren’t marriage material and want thugs

    • @BlankestKnight
      @BlankestKnight 2 года назад +3

      You have to earn a wedding ring. Nobody really has to qualify for a baby, you just have to sleep around unprotected. I think black women go that route because it's easier. It just requires offering up your body and nothing more.

  • @amiehopkins
    @amiehopkins 4 года назад +14

    The father of my two daughters is Nigerian and his dad was a deadbeat, thus, he never learned how to be a man. We were married and he divorced; he’s not even 40 and been married and has initiated the divorce all three times. It’s not an African - American culture vs African culture - men are lost, in general.

    • @kingmonde
      @kingmonde 4 года назад +2

      Did you know he was married before you married him?

    • @amiehopkins
      @amiehopkins 3 года назад +1

      The woman he was initially married to was married to an American citizen for a green card while she was engaged to him. Yes, this is what they do.

  • @antoniopall5355
    @antoniopall5355 6 лет назад +9

    That's it? They call it an epidemic and do a few seconds of video? Well, that's one of the problems!

  • @ezratay1
    @ezratay1 7 лет назад +18

    Where is this movie/documentary? Please provide the link.

  • @AuthorLHollingsworth
    @AuthorLHollingsworth 6 лет назад +9

    Now a days people brag about having baby momma's and baby daddy's, but nothing about marriage. Whatever happened to marriage in the Black Community? There are some people that I know that have never been to a wedding. Things have to change, and quick. Sad!

  • @reason4fairness
    @reason4fairness 6 лет назад +25

    I blame love and hip hop

    • @haddydrammeh1556
      @haddydrammeh1556 5 лет назад +11

      Lmfao!!! You see how cardi b got put on we value promiscuous behavior!!!

  • @misstiibleu3711
    @misstiibleu3711 6 лет назад +7

    I'm a single mother my daughter's dad is white and a deadbeat how is it a black man issue?

    • @MSR-ok9xl
      @MSR-ok9xl 5 лет назад +6

      Because of those 72% single moms more than 70% got knock up by black men. And this issue isn't as bad in the white, latino or Asian community.

    • @derricklyons2232
      @derricklyons2232 5 лет назад +1

      @desertdetroiter they love thug aint shit niggas.

    • @BrightOrange17
      @BrightOrange17 5 лет назад +4

      Misty Blue bitcg cuz it’s more common in black families. Stop playing stupid you know what they’re talking about

    • @derricklyons2232
      @derricklyons2232 5 лет назад +2

      @@MSR-ok9xl most black women love ain't shit men.

    • @maverick6775
      @maverick6775 3 года назад

      cap

  • @mosapedoterrorist7529
    @mosapedoterrorist7529 4 года назад +6

    They will lay waste to their own communities,

  • @Alexandriah.Washington
    @Alexandriah.Washington 11 месяцев назад

    I became married first then birthed my three children by my husband after two years of marriage. I installed these morals and values in my children who are also waiting for marriage before having kids. This generational cycle of “out-of-wedlock” births….including teenage pregnancy, are the leading causes of poverty in the Black American community….has been broken in my family.
    I am still confused as to why the number of
    “out-of-wedlock” births continue to rise, despite the availability of birth control since the mid sixties. These numbers will continue to increase with the fall of Roe v. Wade.
    BTW: White women and other non-Black women are the fastest growing demographic of
    “single baby mamas” in America. Over 95% of these “out-of-wedlock” births are fathered by Black American men.

  • @yalarosae
    @yalarosae 2 года назад +2

    And funny enough, the people who are the most visible like celebrities continue to do the same thing. Never been more thankful to be born black with both parents

  • @MartellThaCool
    @MartellThaCool 6 лет назад +8

    Damn. Majority of black women ended up being single mother's. Say no to single mother's and they're all used good's

  • @dlrexpressllc
    @dlrexpressllc 4 года назад +8

    This is crazy

    • @kingmonde
      @kingmonde 4 года назад +2

      I wish birth control was mandatory until you could prove you don't need it. I wish men had the pill, I can guarantee men are more likely to take the pill than women, I guarantee men are more likely to take the pill than wear condoms.

    • @dlrexpressllc
      @dlrexpressllc 4 года назад

      @@kingmonde I would take the pill lol

    • @kingmonde
      @kingmonde 4 года назад

      @@dlrexpressllc so would I, lol.

  • @Millie_the_Mermaid
    @Millie_the_Mermaid 8 месяцев назад

    I was born out of wedlock, but my father is in my life, just not married to my Mom.

  • @caroquintero617
    @caroquintero617 4 года назад +4

    Hey Obama, stop being so selfish, it's always about "Me, me, me". You're not the only one, those black children on the background want a "Daddy" too.

  • @donnapoolejackofalltrades7827
    @donnapoolejackofalltrades7827 Год назад +2

    I am sorry to tell you this ,but it not just black women ,it white women too. I think all men who have children before marry a women should have to give they part of their social security then retire from work .Even if they never marry that person.

    • @donnapoolejackofalltrades7827
      @donnapoolejackofalltrades7827 Год назад

      Grew up in a poor family because my father die young . My mom marry for a second time to man who didn't work much.

  • @dldfarm
    @dldfarm 4 года назад +3

    Sooooo it’s just below the illiteracy rate

  • @redarrow6188
    @redarrow6188 6 лет назад +8

    Democrats are to blame, i have made it my life mission to end this. The number keeps climbing

    • @kingmonde
      @kingmonde 4 года назад +3

      Democrats are the ones who fight for abortion and birth control. Republicans don't want there to be Birth control, they are even banning abortions. Don't be stupid.

  • @4chukwuebuka
    @4chukwuebuka 4 года назад +4

    no no no, stop. Black men need to be wise first before trying to be successful. Like they need to learn entrepreneurship first. Women waiting for men with money makes them baby mama. You see women tend to love men with power money and fame. All these baby mam drama is because women choose the bad boy thug thinking he will be more successful than the quiet boy in school. Women don’t know what the definition of successful men is. They have never seen one because their father are not there or are not one of them. A successful man is not a doctor or a lawyer or engineer, a successful man is a man with business acumen, a man that is wise, a man that know how to handle life and money with wisdom. A doctor, lawyer, pharmacist, rapper, drug dealer, nba nfl player is NOT a successful man.

  • @adrianarodarte7586
    @adrianarodarte7586 6 лет назад +14

    I know 2 African American Beutiful woman. These 2 woman have kids by the same same (Mexican) but both treat him like dirt!!!! They black male him with he kids and child support money!!! The recent BM of his 1 year old is forcing him to marriage and I'm sure as he's thoughts too, she got pregnant on purpose to trap him!!! So now, she tell him " either we get married or I'll call imigration on you* so...they soon to get married!! Him and I been friends for 5 years and now, we had to end our friendship because she oder it to him to end it. The other BM of his 16 n 13 yr old threatens him immigration if he's short in child support!! Like omg what's next with this guy n these horrible woman

    • @K1NGCED
      @K1NGCED 6 лет назад +11

      Lol, that's what he gets for getting Black American Women pregnant and not marrying them first.

    • @thisismetv_
      @thisismetv_ 6 лет назад +7

      This sounds like the thought process of a typical black woman. “Give me what I want, or else” mentality. I’m black and I’ve dated black, white, and hispanic women. I’ve only ever had problems out of black women.

    • @Nancy22150
      @Nancy22150 6 лет назад +1

      Adri Rodarte iQ

    • @TheMissionOfSubmission
      @TheMissionOfSubmission 6 лет назад +9

      That's sad... And black females wonder why they have a bad rep. Black mail should be illegal...

    • @zztoppz9948
      @zztoppz9948 6 лет назад +2

      Ugh this disgust me... ALL Black women are always the issue. Its always ALL not SOME.. Stop categorizing ALL OF US CAUSE WE ARE NOT ALL THE F!CKING SAME

  • @legallybored8876
    @legallybored8876 2 года назад +3

    I honestly also blame music as well. Specifically some of the modern rap and R&B. Literally some R&B songs now just straight up describe everything about sex and same with hip hop now and how it’s been for a while. The culture is being taught to value flesh and instant gratification, rather than to look for the things that matter in a relationship. People are often choosing sexual partners that they would never actually pick to have children with if they had the choice. But sex creates babies so 😐. I don’t condone having multiple sex partners or relationships but I think if people are going to be doing that they need to only be in relationships with people they would actually want to marry and start a family with.

  • @natashaluo5697
    @natashaluo5697 6 лет назад +14

    Exactly why I'm teaching my daughter stay as far way from black men as possible. The only half way decent ones I've seen are Africans. There are some good black American, black British and black Caribbean ones too but they are very few and far between. If you want kids with a black man choose an African,otherwise stick to Hispanic and some flavour of white. Be it Italian, Spanish, Greek or simple white.

    • @xxPantherBabe
      @xxPantherBabe 5 лет назад +4

      Natasha Luo teaching her a form of self hate 👌

    • @zekyiahbrown3781
      @zekyiahbrown3781 4 года назад +4

      Jazz Jackson It may be statically correct but that’s still not the right way to teach your children. Every human being is different It’s unfair and makes things worse actually

    • @Alexandriah.Washington
      @Alexandriah.Washington 11 месяцев назад

      This makes no sense.

    • @Alexandriah.Washington
      @Alexandriah.Washington 11 месяцев назад

      I guess you’re a single baby mama also.

  • @lbrown9570
    @lbrown9570 2 года назад +2

    PRAY & SAVE our CHILDREN. Amen!

  • @maryjean9881
    @maryjean9881 5 лет назад +4

    It is morally whether you admit or not God never intend black to have out of wedlock that’s against his law.One of the problem that causes that. we refuse to accept God’s that’s why we are in this condition.

    • @kingmonde
      @kingmonde 4 года назад +1

      God is the reason this problem exists. When the Pope tells people that God doesn't want them to use condoms, this is what happens.

    • @maryjean9881
      @maryjean9881 4 года назад +1

      The Best Name In The World..... The pope doesn’t speak the truth about the word of God.he is a leader of a man made religion. So the truth is not in him and he doesn’t lead by the spirit of God. People like that are liar and no body should be listen to him.

    • @kingmonde
      @kingmonde 4 года назад +1

      @@maryjean9881 you speak about man made religion but wasn't it a man made religion that taught you about wedlock?

    • @bxndo5ive
      @bxndo5ive 4 года назад

      Black culture as a whole is immoral and that’s why the suffer more than any other race. Their suffering isn’t because of slavery or whites you’re right it’s due to their rejection of God and His law.

  • @cherylvaughn2215
    @cherylvaughn2215 6 лет назад +5

    all of these comments are valid, but if we want to get to the root of this issue. Let's take a hard look at how easy parents and the system allow for most people to have multiple kids. Imagine if after your first child, and you asked for assistance. You get a TOTAL of 5yrs of food, housing, and medical help. After that....GOOD LUCK!

  • @god563616
    @god563616 14 дней назад

    Where is the full video please? Thank you Lord for my Father being in my life.

  • @cornelljones3311
    @cornelljones3311 5 лет назад +4

    It is morally wrong want is the judge talking about.

    • @e_d_d_d
      @e_d_d_d 2 года назад

      EXACTLY!

  • @Shhbehdjdjs
    @Shhbehdjdjs 8 месяцев назад +1

    And this was 8 years ago its gotten worse

  • @andrewbrand200
    @andrewbrand200 3 года назад +9

    To all the men, having a penis doesn't make you a man, and getting a woman pregnant doesn't make you a father. Actually, these are the least important. Being a man needs love and responsibility. Being a father needs plans and patience besides what is needed to be a man. Before you possess these traits, you'd better just have fun with your hand and magazines, so you can enjoy yourself without ruining others.

    • @Emma-ct6dk
      @Emma-ct6dk 2 года назад +4

      But it is up to us women to choose well. The man will only go as far as the woman allows him to. I think it is important for us ladies to not bring life into this world when we know well the man won’t be around. Men have it in their nature to want to have sx and we women want love. We women are as responsible as men.

    • @BigShowDoG
      @BigShowDoG Год назад

      You need to speak to women not men. Most BW in this country procreate with the degenerates of the race regardless of her economic class

    • @NoDustZone
      @NoDustZone Год назад

      @@Emma-ct6dk No don't you dare try to put the blame on women. Men are supposed to be leaders. This will not stop until men become better.

    • @s.s.9160
      @s.s.9160 Год назад

      ​@@NoDustZone first off, safe sex is a woman's responsibility. Women need to learn to either have self control whenever they get horny, keep your legs close or get your tubes tide. Like Emma said, the man will only go as far as the woman lets him. And also, women need to chose their partners better and not some Ray or Pokie Chad.

    • @s.s.9160
      @s.s.9160 Год назад

      @Mu Hu how about women need to learn not to open their legs whenever they get horny and have some self control. It takes two to tangle. Having a vagina doesn't make you a woman if you don't have some self control and respect.

  • @tomguu7260
    @tomguu7260 5 лет назад +5

    Why is it a crisis when we say baby mama, but not when we say the fatherless?? Says afatherlesschildcries

    • @kingmonde
      @kingmonde 4 года назад

      It's the mamas decision to have have children, nor the father.

  • @jpreddy3665
    @jpreddy3665 9 лет назад +8

    I saw the link to this video from an article and wanted to see the documentary. It was disturbing to find out that one would need to pay to watch it. Share with me why you felt to charge woman who as you stated struggle, to watch a video that could provide insight!? How dare you have the audacity to want to charge a fee and profit off the breakdown of Black American families!!! Disgusting.

    • @bosslady5536
      @bosslady5536 9 лет назад +1

      I didn't know that, I would love to watch the documentary but I refuse to pay for it

  • @jackbarlow4104
    @jackbarlow4104 2 года назад +1

    But why?

  • @NoDustZone
    @NoDustZone Год назад +3

    Hold black men accountable !!!!! Men are supposed to be providers, leaders and have self discipline 🎯

    • @qjtvaddict
      @qjtvaddict Год назад

      Institutionalize women who have kids out of wedlock and let hired people act as parents

    • @TruthSeeker30_
      @TruthSeeker30_ Год назад

      Another clown dictator🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @The-Oneness11
      @The-Oneness11 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@qjtvaddictMy first child was born out of wedlock but fortunately we got married ten months after she was born. My husband actually proposed to me before I even got pregnant. More men need to do the ethically correct thing which is to marry the woman that they impregnate.

    • @CC12398
      @CC12398 8 месяцев назад

      Yrue but as a woman WE are the gayekeepers. Its just the way it is. If woman stop putting up with it it would change.just the way it is.
      Also governments requiring men to not be in the home to recieve help for the baby may have altered the eventual mentality overall?

  • @esonon5210
    @esonon5210 3 года назад

    Is being single simple means not being married? That doesn't mean that fathers aren't involved.

  • @jamilsalih9724
    @jamilsalih9724 2 года назад +2

    Part of it is because there's no point in marriage at all in modern society. It's a raw deal for men .

  • @v77scorpio41
    @v77scorpio41 6 лет назад +4

    I blame the economy for not providing a reliable source of income for black males besides slave wages. It does not encourage men to provide for a family if they know there is no possible way to afford it. So they run....

    • @orlock20
      @orlock20 6 лет назад

      They are doing what rich people do. Rich white families temporarily disown their children when they are of college age so that the kid can be labeled as poor and get financial aid.
      Not getting married gives the women and the child more financial aid if there is no financial trail to the father.

    • @NoDustZone
      @NoDustZone Год назад

      I blame you as a black male for not making sure laws were passed to get you better wages and I blame you for not wearing a condom

    • @Alexandriah.Washington
      @Alexandriah.Washington 11 месяцев назад

      @@orlock20Not true. Most Black men don’t even go to college.

  • @IamAWESOME3980
    @IamAWESOME3980 Год назад

    these blacks, knock women up and then never to see women and children again.

  • @thetreoman
    @thetreoman 4 года назад

    Since when does not being married, mean not living together, not raising your kids or not being in the mothers life? It just means not being married.

    • @AnonymousC-lm6tc
      @AnonymousC-lm6tc 2 года назад

      Unmarried parents are significantly less likely to live together and children don’t have access to the same quality of time and care that children with a father in the home do.

    • @Alexandriah.Washington
      @Alexandriah.Washington 11 месяцев назад

      @@AnonymousC-lm6tcSome fathers should not be in the home.

    • @yoleeisbored
      @yoleeisbored 10 месяцев назад

      Childfren grow up in poverty grow up with domestic violence (moms boyfriends)

  • @jaynette2011
    @jaynette2011 4 года назад +1

    Where is the link to the full movie?

  • @mohammedzakariaali1169
    @mohammedzakariaali1169 6 лет назад +6

    Islam is the answer

    • @Jamaal4Jesus
      @Jamaal4Jesus 5 лет назад +4

      Muhammad had sex with a 9 year old named Aisha.

  • @quattro4468
    @quattro4468 6 лет назад +2

    Now do one on the 56% Americans meme that becam true.

  • @bobfischer2915
    @bobfischer2915 6 лет назад +3

    They all talk responsabilty. Its a word thts has no meaning. Ha.ha crap...

  • @rgiesbrandt
    @rgiesbrandt 5 лет назад +2

    To harken back to African days is pretty bogus!! The video talked about the increase from 1965 to 2013!! If anything historical African influences should have dissipated over that time!!

  • @steveirungu3132
    @steveirungu3132 3 года назад +2

    I would rather live alone period by Steve Irungu Jermaine

  • @Lott0Jay
    @Lott0Jay 5 лет назад +1

    Been knowing this

  • @mightyyehuda
    @mightyyehuda 6 лет назад

    This number it excludes children of divorced parents so the numbers higher

  • @JadaPinkettJr
    @JadaPinkettJr 2 года назад

    Shes not a mam. That's Judge Lynn Toller

  • @Iluv2bblk
    @Iluv2bblk 9 лет назад +9

    great trailer

    • @bosslady5536
      @bosslady5536 9 лет назад

      +MoguldomStudios when does the whole documentary come out?

    • @MartellThaCool
      @MartellThaCool 7 лет назад

      MoguldomStudios do you guys have a physical copy of this video or streaming site please?

    • @frankwillems4341
      @frankwillems4341 3 года назад

      Hello 👋 how are you doing today

  • @williamglane
    @williamglane 8 лет назад +2

    To those wanting to watch the full documentary: you can stream the video online if you register at Hoopla.com. Hoopla is provided through your public library system, so you will need a local library card to access it.

  • @leestyles6687
    @leestyles6687 5 месяцев назад

    Almost at 100%

  • @scooty4115
    @scooty4115 3 года назад

    0:14 MY BOY JESSIE

  • @ryanadams85ra
    @ryanadams85ra 6 лет назад +1

    72%

  • @makemore7667
    @makemore7667 7 лет назад

    where the rest of this?

  • @animalworld3440
    @animalworld3440 3 года назад +3

    Thank you feminism

  • @Veezer11
    @Veezer11 2 года назад

    That sht sick

  • @igetit7470
    @igetit7470 6 лет назад

    This is such hypocracy. The society doesn't even supportive marriage. Most Black men are in jail and a whole lot more are marrying men. So who care about all of this upper class moral shit. Poor women have a right to have babies too.

    • @Emma-ct6dk
      @Emma-ct6dk 2 года назад +1

      Sure but don’t expect society to treat those kids that later become adults as anything less than what they become. We know well now that kids that are raise by single mothers are more like sly to end up in jail

  • @tracuscherry9941
    @tracuscherry9941 5 лет назад +1

    This is why i cant find a black wife! Aleast with white, mexican or whatever. I have chance with starting my own family. Pick yr posion

  • @foreveryoung1461
    @foreveryoung1461 2 года назад

    Ewwwwwww