Honestly lack of words to praise her. The more you listen, the more you want to listen to her. She is undoubtedly blessed with beautiful thoughts n words, from which she is helping humanity. The woman like her is a gem to her family. May Allah bless her here n hereafter!
Assalam u alaikum! Dealing with toxic family members is toughestttt thing in the world bcz v can't leave them 😭😭 u've changed my perception towards them & resolved my biggesttt problem Jazak Allah for this informative podcast.🙏🤍
This podcast is a gem . Simply love it. Already listened to it 4 times. Jazakallah khair. When ma'am comes , it just goes to another level. May Allah bless you both with long life and health .
Assalam u alaikum. Maam I must say that we as muslimahs need strong and dynamic women like u as our mentor's. And sir I salute ur way of balancing things, accepting many wrong things in men which is really a symbol of courage being a man ur self.
Ali bhai and Dr. Asiya Madni always doing a great job in regards to family counseling and issues. It's helping out the society in many ways. May ALLAH PAK bless you both with lots of happiness.
Is guftgu ko sun kar mujhe ehsas hua yeh meri apni soch aur uspar amal paira hona tha chand sal mein hi sare hi log mujhse ziyadah kisi ko aql mand aur izzat wali khatoon nahin.... 70+ eyer mein apki guftgu ne samjha diya . Jjazakul lahu khairan kaseera.
ماشااللہ علی بھائی آپ جب بھی ان محترم خاتون کے ساتھ بات کرتے ہیں تو سمجھ آتی ہے کہ اگر اللہ تعالی عورت کو اچھا ذہن دے دے تو دنیا بھی جنت اور آخرت میں بھی جنت۔ اللہ کرے ہمارے بچے، بچیاں ان محترم خاتون کی باتوں کو سمجھ کر اس کے مطابق عمل کر پائیں، آمین
Aslam o Alaikum Ali bhai am from Paris. last 1 year sy apko follow kia hai Alhmdulillah bht faida hoa hai abi bhi bht si galti gunah ho jata hai Allah pak mjhy Rah e haddaytt py chlny ki tofiq attaa frmaye Ameen ♥️
behtreen baten kahi aap logon ne.. likin ik baat kahoongi yahan per kch logon ki zindagiyan poori poori isi tug of war mai guzar jaati hai literally poori life..
Maa Sha Allah such a beneficial session…and really the book of Aid al Qarni named Don’t be Sad is not only the best medicine for people who are suffering from depression but also for everyone who wants a stable and crisp mindset.
Sir I have learnt a big lesson from this podcast that how to deal with toxic People. Mam Asia explained it very well.😊Sir plz do a podcast with mam about Sahabias so that we know more about their life ❤😊
*ماشاء الله تبارك الله* Such an amazing and excellent podcast. Great Analysis with tremendous wisdom. Excellent communication skills. May *ALLAH SWT* grant you all tremendous rewards in both worlds. *آمين يارب العالمين*
I agree with Ma'ams point on individuality, diverting your mind by keeping yourself busy and knowing that you are not the problem in case of narcissists but I don't agree that you must not distance yourself from narcissists.. If physically its not possible as in most cases then emotionally you have to do it else you will also acquire narcissists behaviour and become toxic.. and no amount of care or love from you will change them unless they themselves want to change it (ofcousre nothing is impossible for ALLAH. But where is the test then if every narcissists get better one day.) It's sort of wired in their brain and they don't see anything wrong in it. You can sympathise with them but you can't be emotionally attached to them else you will be abused emotionally and mentally. Your energy will be sucked up. Their favourite weapon is projecting their shortcomings on you and gaslighting you. Detaching emotionally will not let it happen to you and they will be happy thinking that they have achieved their goal. And always pretending to be agreeing with them also won't work as they are very smart and will see through it and ask you to do more difficult things increasing levels everytime. So, once in a while openly disagree as well to give them the satisfaction that they reached your nerves. It's all a game for them and you have to play that game. But play the game setting your own rules. This will help you protect yourself and your children. Do your best as much as you can but never keep on sacrificing yourself because in the end you will end up empty shell. Knowing when to put the break in their list of demands and knowing that you are human too will help in long run. Note:- please don't come after me for this thing. It's your choice whether you want to follow this or not. Also if anyone claims that the other person is narcissists without inspecting ownself for those trait then most likely you are narcissist yourself. If you think it's impossible for you to be a narcissist then that is a red flag.
Agree with this post 100% I lived with a narcissist for 20 years. I have given everything to keep the family together. Now in court for a divorce that is imposed on me. Empty shell is best description of what i am right now. I wanted to leave this toxic relationship for years but was forced by parents to stay. Don't know what could i have done differently to not be in this situation. Everyone from both sides of the family stands by me. But no amount of support means anything to what i have lost... 25 years of my life!! If you see nothing is working pack and leave is what i would tell a narcissist's wife or husband.
@@saimamaqsood3922 May ALLAH heal you. It's very sad how other people don't see the signs and you are left in this mess all alone. May ALLAH ease your life now. And Yes leaving a narcissist is the best advise.👍 Only awareness among mass population will help victims leave without losing so many years of life.
@@saimamaqsood3922 i too agree 100 % and can feel your pain ..... May Allah heal you, have gone through the same and wasted may whole life, pray for me too dear sisters 🌷
But I feel more than 50% of people nowadays are narcissists. Very difficult to deal with. May Allah heal everyone and make ease for every difficulty. Aameen
Narcissists maazrat ke sath kabhi kabhi Walden khud banate hai. Apne bachon ko especially larkon ko ese raise karte hai Bachpan se jawani tak woh boys parents pe dependant hote hai. Beta khana khaa kar ammi ko bulata hai ki ammi le kar jao dastarkhan. I mean, khud to uthaa sakte ho na. Aur phir maa baap ki khidmat karne ki baat karte rehte hai. Khidmat to abhi karni hai na aur kab karni hai phir? Bacha zid kar raha hai to Har zid puri karte hai bacha ghussa dikhata hai to parents us ko chup karane ke liye us ki baat mante hai. Hote hote bacha jawaan ho jata hai tab to Esa lagta hai ki parents jawan bete ke ghussa na dekhne ke liye woh tab bhi baat mante hai. Beta namaz nahi parta to parents kuch nahi batate is dar se ki ghussa na ho jaen. Allah maaf karden aur hidaayat pe rakhen hum sab ko
narcissist are no easy to deal with. One can become sick while living with such toxic mentality ppl. No matter how nice you try behave with them, they only care about themselves, not even their own kids. such evil they are! may Allah Protect us from their evilness.ameen
Assalam u alaikum its helping me alot whenever ma'am comes with sir muhammad ali please its a request do more on this topic marriage related and tarbiah of kids for newly weds bride please i need this jazakallah 👍
AOA congratulations for touching such a burning issue of our society۔۔۔hats off to Mr Muhammad Ali and really nice to listen to Dr Asia ۔۔her way of speech and elaborating issues is amazing❤۔۔۔Very nice opinion of Mr Muhammad Ali about discussing family rights in Jumma prayer sermons۔۔۔I really appreciate this point of him👍its need of the time actually۔۔۔JazakAllah khair 🌹
May Allah Bless you and your family. It was the first time I listened to her. Have to say, she is far better than any therapist/counsellor in UK! So much knowledge with a balanced viewpoint. This is what the noor of Iman is.Goes straight into the heart. Ever so grateful to you.
Asalam o Alaikum wa rehmatullah!! Alhumdulillahi rub il alamin... Bahtreen topic.. Its seems u r talking to me... Stay blesed.. Allah berket day ameen 💕
اسلام عليكم Ma'am please can u also recommend a book (easy to understand) for the unmarried girls? Wanna prepare for not facing those hectic marriage issues. Just wanna live and let live others happy In Shaa Allah. جذاك الله خيرا
Pyari or behad intellectual aunty or brother Allah bless you 🙏♥️ Aap k liye mere pas words nahin Masha Allah behtreen andaze bayan or on points ko itne pyare tareeqe se samjhana jiski hum sub ko behad zaroorat hy Allah pak se hr dum aap tamam behtreen personalities k liye duaen hn hamesha rahengi Inshallah Aameen Suma Aamin ya Rabul 🙏
Alhamdulillah! You touch this topic also. May Allah help you in addressing all the masails of mashra. "Zabardst" podcast. Love you aunty. Both of you are charm!✨️ May Allah grant you high status in duniya n akhirah. Aameen Muhammad Ali! Sir✨️🙌🏼
Assalamualaikum.mashaaAllah what an intellectual women.wonderful.never ever seen a women speaking like this in my entire life.super intelligent and logical answers.
Honestly lack of words to praise her.
The more you listen, the more you want to listen to her.
She is undoubtedly blessed with beautiful thoughts n words, from which she is helping humanity.
The woman like her is a gem to her family.
May Allah bless her here n hereafter!
Plz share name of the lady. In these podcast
She is MUGHEERA LUQMAN'S MOTHER
And to have a child like @mugheera luqman is cherry on top mashaAllah. How blessed this family is! ❤
Assalam u alaikum!
Dealing with toxic family members is toughestttt thing in the world bcz v can't leave them 😭😭 u've changed my perception towards them & resolved my biggesttt problem Jazak Allah for this informative podcast.🙏🤍
Same here
Same here
MAY ALLAH PAK BLESSS YOU WITH EASE AND PEACE AMEEEEN SUM AMEEEN
Allah tala Ussai shefa karaii.. Aameen ya Rabb...
Guess what u can leave them!
Dr. Asiya is kind a dose for me. I love to listen her after few days.
This podcast is a gem . Simply love it. Already listened to it 4 times. Jazakallah khair. When ma'am comes , it just goes to another level. May Allah bless you both with long life and health .
MashaAllah such a soothing voice she has. Every word out of her mouth is Precious. A REAL QUEEN! 👑
Assalam u alaikum.
Maam I must say that we as muslimahs need strong and dynamic women like u as our mentor's. And sir I salute ur way of balancing things, accepting many wrong things in men which is really a symbol of courage being a man ur self.
This is called a balanced and practical talk. Love it.
JazakAllahu khayrn brothers aap logo ki waja se hamari life m itni changes aa rhi hain aap logo ne deen ko itna beautifully explain kia h
Yes All the youth club members are gem.
@@Sajidedits02 G! They all are precious we need more brothers like them
Yesssss.......mujhe bhi bahutttttt knowledge mili hai
Ali bhai and Dr. Asiya Madni always doing a great job in regards to family counseling and issues.
It's helping out the society in many ways.
May ALLAH PAK bless you both with lots of happiness.
This is the first time I got a very positive yet realistic perspective on dealing with with toxicity and narcissism. MashaAllah
Really glad to see the great women like her who genuinely care for men and understand them.
Is guftgu ko sun kar mujhe ehsas hua yeh meri apni soch aur uspar amal paira hona tha chand sal mein hi sare hi log mujhse ziyadah kisi ko aql mand aur izzat wali khatoon nahin.... 70+ eyer mein apki guftgu ne samjha diya . Jjazakul lahu khairan kaseera.
ماشااللہ علی بھائی آپ جب بھی ان محترم خاتون کے ساتھ بات کرتے ہیں تو سمجھ آتی ہے کہ اگر اللہ تعالی عورت کو اچھا ذہن دے دے تو دنیا بھی جنت اور آخرت میں بھی جنت۔ اللہ کرے ہمارے بچے، بچیاں ان محترم خاتون کی باتوں کو سمجھ کر اس کے مطابق عمل کر پائیں، آمین
I think woh sirf kawateen ki hi nai dono taraf se baat samjhana chahti ...mard should have to be
Tru
This was an awesome podcast learned alot from auntie please invite her more often.
one of the best conversation on youtube...Alhamdulillah...no words to describe.
Aslam o Alaikum Ali bhai am from Paris. last 1 year sy apko follow kia hai Alhmdulillah bht faida hoa hai abi bhi bht si galti gunah ho jata hai Allah pak mjhy Rah e haddaytt py chlny ki tofiq attaa frmaye Ameen ♥️
behtreen baten kahi aap logon ne..
likin ik baat kahoongi yahan per kch logon ki zindagiyan poori poori isi tug of war mai guzar jaati hai literally poori life..
Maa Sha Allah such a beneficial session…and really the book of Aid al Qarni named Don’t be Sad is not only the best medicine for people who are suffering from depression but also for everyone who wants a stable and crisp mindset.
Really nice book
I've downloaded it 😊
Apa is amazing.pinning the right point.Muhammad Ali bhai is asking such pertinent question family issues ki rug per haath hai.MashAllah wala...
یا اللہ رب العزت.... ہمیں اپنی رحمت سے کبھی بھی مایوس نہ ہونے دینا... ہمارا بن جانا اور ہمیں اپنا بنا لینا... آمین یا رب العالمین
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What a fantastic intelligent nuanced conversation… both speakers were so sensible . Thank you so much
Amazing talk Ustaza Asia May Allah give her more wisdom and enable her to help others .
If anyone is having her contact . Please forward. Im in need
Sir I have learnt a big lesson from this podcast that how to deal with toxic People. Mam Asia explained it very well.😊Sir plz do a podcast with mam about Sahabias so that we know more about their life ❤😊
Ma sha ALLAH bht zaber10. Ehtreen samjhana ma sha ALLAH ALLAH SALAMAT RKHY AAMEEN ALLAHUMMA AAMEEN
*ماشاء الله تبارك الله*
Such an amazing and excellent podcast. Great Analysis with tremendous wisdom. Excellent communication skills. May *ALLAH SWT* grant you all tremendous rewards in both worlds.
*آمين يارب العالمين*
Assalamo alekum ap sabhi plz mere 3 month baby yusuf ke liye dua kare plzzz allah usko sifa ata kare ameen🤲🤲🇮🇳
Allah jald complete shifa de yusuf ko. Aameen ✨
Amin
Ameen...
Beshak ALLAH PAK shifa ata farmya ga sister dua krayn or yakeen rakhy hain ALLAH PAK py...
Ameen
I am Also a woman & i am in love her & i wish i could be like her. ❤️
MashaAllah, I learned a lot from this video, JazakaAllah
This issue is really really critical... much needed podcast.. it should be address more.
She understood the human psychology so well that deserves commendation...
I agree with Ma'ams point on individuality, diverting your mind by keeping yourself busy and knowing that you are not the problem in case of narcissists but I don't agree that you must not distance yourself from narcissists..
If physically its not possible as in most cases then emotionally you have to do it else you will also acquire narcissists behaviour and become toxic.. and no amount of care or love from you will change them unless they themselves want to change it (ofcousre nothing is impossible for ALLAH. But where is the test then if every narcissists get better one day.) It's sort of wired in their brain and they don't see anything wrong in it. You can sympathise with them but you can't be emotionally attached to them else you will be abused emotionally and mentally. Your energy will be sucked up. Their favourite weapon is projecting their shortcomings on you and gaslighting you. Detaching emotionally will not let it happen to you and they will be happy thinking that they have achieved their goal. And always pretending to be agreeing with them also won't work as they are very smart and will see through it and ask you to do more difficult things increasing levels everytime. So, once in a while openly disagree as well to give them the satisfaction that they reached your nerves. It's all a game for them and you have to play that game. But play the game setting your own rules. This will help you protect yourself and your children.
Do your best as much as you can but never keep on sacrificing yourself because in the end you will end up empty shell. Knowing when to put the break in their list of demands and knowing that you are human too will help in long run.
Note:- please don't come after me for this thing. It's your choice whether you want to follow this or not.
Also if anyone claims that the other person is narcissists without inspecting ownself for those trait then most likely you are narcissist yourself. If you think it's impossible for you to be a narcissist then that is a red flag.
Agree with this post 100%
I lived with a narcissist for 20 years. I have given everything to keep the family together. Now in court for a divorce that is imposed on me. Empty shell is best description of what i am right now. I wanted to leave this toxic relationship for years but was forced by parents to stay. Don't know what could i have done differently to not be in this situation. Everyone from both sides of the family stands by me. But no amount of support means anything to what i have lost... 25 years of my life!!
If you see nothing is working pack and leave is what i would tell a narcissist's wife or husband.
@@saimamaqsood3922 May ALLAH heal you. It's very sad how other people don't see the signs and you are left in this mess all alone. May ALLAH ease your life now.
And Yes leaving a narcissist is the best advise.👍
Only awareness among mass population will help victims leave without losing so many years of life.
@@saimamaqsood3922 and best way on journey of healing is to accept that you couldn't have done anything else and fault is not upon you.💓
@@saimamaqsood3922 i too agree 100 % and can feel your pain ..... May Allah heal you, have gone through the same and wasted may whole life, pray for me too dear sisters 🌷
So so true. Agree 100%
But I feel more than 50% of people nowadays are narcissists. Very difficult to deal with. May Allah heal everyone and make ease for every difficulty. Aameen
Narcissists maazrat ke sath kabhi kabhi Walden khud banate hai. Apne bachon ko especially larkon ko ese raise karte hai Bachpan se jawani tak woh boys parents pe dependant hote hai. Beta khana khaa kar ammi ko bulata hai ki ammi le kar jao dastarkhan. I mean, khud to uthaa sakte ho na. Aur phir maa baap ki khidmat karne ki baat karte rehte hai. Khidmat to abhi karni hai na aur kab karni hai phir? Bacha zid kar raha hai to Har zid puri karte hai bacha ghussa dikhata hai to parents us ko chup karane ke liye us ki baat mante hai. Hote hote bacha jawaan ho jata hai tab to Esa lagta hai ki parents jawan bete ke ghussa na dekhne ke liye woh tab bhi baat mante hai. Beta namaz nahi parta to parents kuch nahi batate is dar se ki ghussa na ho jaen. Allah maaf karden aur hidaayat pe rakhen hum sab ko
narcissist are no easy to deal with.
One can become sick while living with such toxic mentality ppl.
No matter how nice you try behave with them, they only care about themselves, not even their own kids.
such evil they are!
may Allah Protect us from their evilness.ameen
U r right
Ameen😢
Ameen
Waa really nice and great session 👏 👍
JazakAllah o khairan.. such a amazing and fruitful podcast.. much needed one..
Assalam u alaikum its helping me alot whenever ma'am comes with sir muhammad ali please its a request do more on this topic marriage related and tarbiah of kids for newly weds bride please i need this jazakallah 👍
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She is amazing ...Ma Sha Allah
Jazakillah Ali Bhai and Aunty... It really helped me out... I think I'll listen it again n again.. Need more podcast like these...
AOA congratulations for touching such a burning issue of our society۔۔۔hats off to Mr Muhammad Ali and really nice to listen to Dr Asia ۔۔her way of speech and elaborating issues is amazing❤۔۔۔Very nice opinion of Mr Muhammad Ali about discussing family rights in Jumma prayer sermons۔۔۔I really appreciate this point of him👍its need of the time actually۔۔۔JazakAllah khair 🌹
Allah pak apko sehat tandrusti ata kry ap n is podcast k end p bat smjhai by God ap n meri problem solve kr di
Masha a Allah Amazing topic 💕
Thank you soo much Mohammad Ali Bhai
Barak Allah
It really really help me alot. . . Maam nd sr muhammad Ali. . MashaAllah great talk.
May Allah Bless you and your family.
It was the first time I listened to her.
Have to say, she is far better than any therapist/counsellor in UK!
So much knowledge with a balanced viewpoint.
This is what the noor of Iman is.Goes straight into the heart.
Ever so grateful to you.
OK
Mashallah yar ap in aunty ko hamesha bulaya karin plz in ki batain dil main utar jati hain also kindly invite prof doc javed iqbal
Assalamalaykum
Very useful and guide me this lecture..jazakallahu khair
I must practice All these things..
In Shaa Allah
Aaplogo ki solution bahut aachi hai Allah un aurat o ki islamko janne ki taufic aada kare
can’t explain how much i adore mam Asiya...! ♥️
Mujy aisy leg raha ha k mujhy bahtreen andaz mein samjha rehy hein
JAZAKALLAH
JAZAKILLAH
ALLAH AML K TOUFIQ DY MUJHY OR SUB KO AAMEEN
jazak Allah
worth listening conversation
MashaAllah awesome lecture 👏
It's a life changing session for me 😌 from now I start working on it
Jazakallah khair
She is a power hub! Literally, what a dynamic woman🤍may rabb preserve her and reward her immensely for her efforts ameen💕
Ameen
Honestly speaking i could not know the name of aunty but she is more intelligent than all men in youth club 😜 love her to bits.
She is mother of mughairah luqman of youth club
MashAllah
Acha Masha Allah
MashaAllah boht achhi conversation thi ..especially how to deal with toxic people... jazakumullah khair
اللہ تبارک وتعالیٰ آپ کو ہمیشہ خوش رکھے آمین یا ربّ العالمین ❣️❣️
Fantastic topic. Thank you
Mashallah amazing speech 😘
Mashallah bhot achi malumat
Ma Sha Allah! Best ever conversation I have heard on RUclips! May Allah swt give Jaza e khair to the ustaza and to the host!
Masha ALLAH ,plz do a session with Sahil Abt waqia Karbala ,it will clearify our vision
Asslam O Alikum
Mohammad Ali Bhai plz make a social media platform where you can answer our questions. Please sir
جَزَاكَ اللّٰهُ
بہت مسلۓ حل ہو گٸے ہم سب کے
Ma Sha Allah, amazing discussion. You really pin point all the important aspects that we are dealing with our lives, now a days.
I am grateful tou you for beautiful program.lam learing about deen.l do'nt have words to prais of you both.wondel of thanks.
Mashallah ❤mashallah what a beautiful talk 💯subhan Allah 👍🏻❤️
Thank you so much Ali Bhai for such a great podcast again
May Allah guide all of us....Lots of love from india!
❤️
🌹
mashaallah very nice explanation..
Asalam o Alaikum wa rehmatullah!! Alhumdulillahi rub il alamin... Bahtreen topic.. Its seems u r talking to me... Stay blesed.. Allah berket day ameen 💕
اسلام عليكم
Ma'am please can u also recommend a book (easy to understand) for the unmarried girls? Wanna prepare for not facing those hectic marriage issues. Just wanna live and let live others happy In Shaa Allah.
جذاك الله خيرا
inshaAllah
MashaAllah very good thanks for giving the best power energy talking about Islam and 🕋🕋🙏🤲👍👏
please make a video series on life of prophet Mohammad (PBUH) like tale of exclence there are movies on him but they all show the face of characters .
Super Excellent 👍👍👍
Honestly I have no words for this podcast and on of views of Mam Asiya... Very logical points... Plz tell me how can I contact mam Asiya...
Love this podcast thankyou so much
This is very important topic for discuss... Now these types of conflicts highly increasing in all homes
Kindly come more and more with different topics too, we appreciate the thoughts, Alhamdulillah...
This lady is blessing not only for faimly but also fr society....
Mashallah very beautiful and logical conversation regarding relation between wife and husband as well as family....
This lecture is a blessing !!
Sir please brings a lecture
About to acchive succes accordingnly islam
Very informative and lesson taking talk.
Pyari or behad intellectual aunty or brother Allah bless you 🙏♥️
Aap k liye mere pas words nahin
Masha Allah behtreen andaze bayan or on points ko itne pyare tareeqe se samjhana jiski hum sub ko behad zaroorat hy
Allah pak se hr dum aap tamam behtreen personalities k liye duaen hn hamesha rahengi Inshallah Aameen Suma Aamin ya Rabul 🙏
Really great 👍 👌 👏
I AM CRYING.......YOU HAVE RESOLVED MY IN LAWS PROBLEMS
JAZAKALLAH
Alhamdulillah! You touch this topic also.
May Allah help you in addressing all the masails of mashra.
"Zabardst" podcast.
Love you aunty. Both of you are charm!✨️ May Allah grant you high status in duniya n akhirah. Aameen
Muhammad Ali! Sir✨️🙌🏼
Masha Allah
Assalamualaikum.mashaaAllah what an intellectual women.wonderful.never ever seen a women speaking like this in my entire life.super intelligent and logical answers.
Oooo I am waiting sir
❤❤❤
Love it
Jzakalla khair an kaseera
being toxic is very tough to understand until you are living in it . but some what has been very well described........
I got it... I got the exact way to respect myself at last... Ufff... It took alot of years to find my answer...
Jazza Allah kahire
Sir Mohammed Ali is really a very good teacher ma shaa Allah.
Much needed amazing podcast
I wish every girl and boy must listen this episode for making their life easier... And may Allah give reward to both memtors❤
Jazak Allah khair kaseera
Giving and sacrificing is the key point. Well said barakAllah ✨
From both side 🖤
جزاک اللہ خیر کثیرا
Last 10 minutes discussion is too good plzzzzz guide more about toxic people parents wives husbands children etc jzakllah