Honestly lack of words to praise her. The more you listen, the more you want to listen to her. She is undoubtedly blessed with beautiful thoughts n words, from which she is helping humanity. The woman like her is a gem to her family. May Allah bless her here n hereafter!
Is guftgu ko sun kar mujhe ehsas hua yeh meri apni soch aur uspar amal paira hona tha chand sal mein hi sare hi log mujhse ziyadah kisi ko aql mand aur izzat wali khatoon nahin.... 70+ eyer mein apki guftgu ne samjha diya . Jjazakul lahu khairan kaseera.
Assalam u alaikum! Dealing with toxic family members is toughestttt thing in the world bcz v can't leave them 😭😭 u've changed my perception towards them & resolved my biggesttt problem Jazak Allah for this informative podcast.🙏🤍
This podcast is a gem . Simply love it. Already listened to it 4 times. Jazakallah khair. When ma'am comes , it just goes to another level. May Allah bless you both with long life and health .
Assalam u alaikum. Maam I must say that we as muslimahs need strong and dynamic women like u as our mentor's. And sir I salute ur way of balancing things, accepting many wrong things in men which is really a symbol of courage being a man ur self.
Ali bhai and Dr. Asiya Madni always doing a great job in regards to family counseling and issues. It's helping out the society in many ways. May ALLAH PAK bless you both with lots of happiness.
ماشااللہ علی بھائی آپ جب بھی ان محترم خاتون کے ساتھ بات کرتے ہیں تو سمجھ آتی ہے کہ اگر اللہ تعالی عورت کو اچھا ذہن دے دے تو دنیا بھی جنت اور آخرت میں بھی جنت۔ اللہ کرے ہمارے بچے، بچیاں ان محترم خاتون کی باتوں کو سمجھ کر اس کے مطابق عمل کر پائیں، آمین
Aslam o Alaikum Ali bhai am from Paris. last 1 year sy apko follow kia hai Alhmdulillah bht faida hoa hai abi bhi bht si galti gunah ho jata hai Allah pak mjhy Rah e haddaytt py chlny ki tofiq attaa frmaye Ameen ♥️
behtreen baten kahi aap logon ne.. likin ik baat kahoongi yahan per kch logon ki zindagiyan poori poori isi tug of war mai guzar jaati hai literally poori life..
Maa Sha Allah such a beneficial session…and really the book of Aid al Qarni named Don’t be Sad is not only the best medicine for people who are suffering from depression but also for everyone who wants a stable and crisp mindset.
*ماشاء الله تبارك الله* Such an amazing and excellent podcast. Great Analysis with tremendous wisdom. Excellent communication skills. May *ALLAH SWT* grant you all tremendous rewards in both worlds. *آمين يارب العالمين*
I agree with Ma'ams point on individuality, diverting your mind by keeping yourself busy and knowing that you are not the problem in case of narcissists but I don't agree that you must not distance yourself from narcissists.. If physically its not possible as in most cases then emotionally you have to do it else you will also acquire narcissists behaviour and become toxic.. and no amount of care or love from you will change them unless they themselves want to change it (ofcousre nothing is impossible for ALLAH. But where is the test then if every narcissists get better one day.) It's sort of wired in their brain and they don't see anything wrong in it. You can sympathise with them but you can't be emotionally attached to them else you will be abused emotionally and mentally. Your energy will be sucked up. Their favourite weapon is projecting their shortcomings on you and gaslighting you. Detaching emotionally will not let it happen to you and they will be happy thinking that they have achieved their goal. And always pretending to be agreeing with them also won't work as they are very smart and will see through it and ask you to do more difficult things increasing levels everytime. So, once in a while openly disagree as well to give them the satisfaction that they reached your nerves. It's all a game for them and you have to play that game. But play the game setting your own rules. This will help you protect yourself and your children. Do your best as much as you can but never keep on sacrificing yourself because in the end you will end up empty shell. Knowing when to put the break in their list of demands and knowing that you are human too will help in long run. Note:- please don't come after me for this thing. It's your choice whether you want to follow this or not. Also if anyone claims that the other person is narcissists without inspecting ownself for those trait then most likely you are narcissist yourself. If you think it's impossible for you to be a narcissist then that is a red flag.
Agree with this post 100% I lived with a narcissist for 20 years. I have given everything to keep the family together. Now in court for a divorce that is imposed on me. Empty shell is best description of what i am right now. I wanted to leave this toxic relationship for years but was forced by parents to stay. Don't know what could i have done differently to not be in this situation. Everyone from both sides of the family stands by me. But no amount of support means anything to what i have lost... 25 years of my life!! If you see nothing is working pack and leave is what i would tell a narcissist's wife or husband.
@@saimamaqsood3922 May ALLAH heal you. It's very sad how other people don't see the signs and you are left in this mess all alone. May ALLAH ease your life now. And Yes leaving a narcissist is the best advise.👍 Only awareness among mass population will help victims leave without losing so many years of life.
@@saimamaqsood3922 i too agree 100 % and can feel your pain ..... May Allah heal you, have gone through the same and wasted may whole life, pray for me too dear sisters 🌷
Sir I have learnt a big lesson from this podcast that how to deal with toxic People. Mam Asia explained it very well.😊Sir plz do a podcast with mam about Sahabias so that we know more about their life ❤😊
Asalam o Alaikum wa rehmatullah!! Alhumdulillahi rub il alamin... Bahtreen topic.. Its seems u r talking to me... Stay blesed.. Allah berket day ameen 💕
Assalam u alaikum its helping me alot whenever ma'am comes with sir muhammad ali please its a request do more on this topic marriage related and tarbiah of kids for newly weds bride please i need this jazakallah 👍
AOA congratulations for touching such a burning issue of our society۔۔۔hats off to Mr Muhammad Ali and really nice to listen to Dr Asia ۔۔her way of speech and elaborating issues is amazing❤۔۔۔Very nice opinion of Mr Muhammad Ali about discussing family rights in Jumma prayer sermons۔۔۔I really appreciate this point of him👍its need of the time actually۔۔۔JazakAllah khair 🌹
Assalamualaikum.mashaaAllah what an intellectual women.wonderful.never ever seen a women speaking like this in my entire life.super intelligent and logical answers.
Asslam u alaikum Mashallah you both of you helped many people like me. Ase laga ki jaise mere liye hi aya vdo. Kuch hai baten vo sahi me kafi logo ko Asa hi laga hoga. As u said toxic people hote hai and yes har jagh hote ham apne aap par tawajjo dena chahiye best aunty. And unko Tabib mentality se treat kare best Ali bhai. Zazakallah
May Allah Bless you and your family. It was the first time I listened to her. Have to say, she is far better than any therapist/counsellor in UK! So much knowledge with a balanced viewpoint. This is what the noor of Iman is.Goes straight into the heart. Ever so grateful to you.
Pyari or behad intellectual aunty or brother Allah bless you 🙏♥️ Aap k liye mere pas words nahin Masha Allah behtreen andaze bayan or on points ko itne pyare tareeqe se samjhana jiski hum sub ko behad zaroorat hy Allah pak se hr dum aap tamam behtreen personalities k liye duaen hn hamesha rahengi Inshallah Aameen Suma Aamin ya Rabul 🙏
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Honestly lack of words to praise her.
The more you listen, the more you want to listen to her.
She is undoubtedly blessed with beautiful thoughts n words, from which she is helping humanity.
The woman like her is a gem to her family.
May Allah bless her here n hereafter!
Plz share name of the lady. In these podcast
She is MUGHEERA LUQMAN'S MOTHER
And to have a child like @mugheera luqman is cherry on top mashaAllah. How blessed this family is! ❤
Dr. Asiya is kind a dose for me. I love to listen her after few days.
Really glad to see the great women like her who genuinely care for men and understand them.
MashaAllah such a soothing voice she has. Every word out of her mouth is Precious. A REAL QUEEN! 👑
Is guftgu ko sun kar mujhe ehsas hua yeh meri apni soch aur uspar amal paira hona tha chand sal mein hi sare hi log mujhse ziyadah kisi ko aql mand aur izzat wali khatoon nahin.... 70+ eyer mein apki guftgu ne samjha diya . Jjazakul lahu khairan kaseera.
This is the first time I got a very positive yet realistic perspective on dealing with with toxicity and narcissism. MashaAllah
Assalam u alaikum!
Dealing with toxic family members is toughestttt thing in the world bcz v can't leave them 😭😭 u've changed my perception towards them & resolved my biggesttt problem Jazak Allah for this informative podcast.🙏🤍
Same here
Same here
MAY ALLAH PAK BLESSS YOU WITH EASE AND PEACE AMEEEEN SUM AMEEEN
Allah tala Ussai shefa karaii.. Aameen ya Rabb...
Guess what u can leave them!
This is called a balanced and practical talk. Love it.
This podcast is a gem . Simply love it. Already listened to it 4 times. Jazakallah khair. When ma'am comes , it just goes to another level. May Allah bless you both with long life and health .
JazakAllahu khayrn brothers aap logo ki waja se hamari life m itni changes aa rhi hain aap logo ne deen ko itna beautifully explain kia h
Yes All the youth club members are gem.
@@Sajidedits02 G! They all are precious we need more brothers like them
Yesssss.......mujhe bhi bahutttttt knowledge mili hai
This was an awesome podcast learned alot from auntie please invite her more often.
Assalam u alaikum.
Maam I must say that we as muslimahs need strong and dynamic women like u as our mentor's. And sir I salute ur way of balancing things, accepting many wrong things in men which is really a symbol of courage being a man ur self.
Ali bhai and Dr. Asiya Madni always doing a great job in regards to family counseling and issues.
It's helping out the society in many ways.
May ALLAH PAK bless you both with lots of happiness.
ماشااللہ علی بھائی آپ جب بھی ان محترم خاتون کے ساتھ بات کرتے ہیں تو سمجھ آتی ہے کہ اگر اللہ تعالی عورت کو اچھا ذہن دے دے تو دنیا بھی جنت اور آخرت میں بھی جنت۔ اللہ کرے ہمارے بچے، بچیاں ان محترم خاتون کی باتوں کو سمجھ کر اس کے مطابق عمل کر پائیں، آمین
I think woh sirf kawateen ki hi nai dono taraf se baat samjhana chahti ...mard should have to be
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Aslam o Alaikum Ali bhai am from Paris. last 1 year sy apko follow kia hai Alhmdulillah bht faida hoa hai abi bhi bht si galti gunah ho jata hai Allah pak mjhy Rah e haddaytt py chlny ki tofiq attaa frmaye Ameen ♥️
one of the best conversation on youtube...Alhamdulillah...no words to describe.
behtreen baten kahi aap logon ne..
likin ik baat kahoongi yahan per kch logon ki zindagiyan poori poori isi tug of war mai guzar jaati hai literally poori life..
Apa is amazing.pinning the right point.Muhammad Ali bhai is asking such pertinent question family issues ki rug per haath hai.MashAllah wala...
What a fantastic intelligent nuanced conversation… both speakers were so sensible . Thank you so much
She understood the human psychology so well that deserves commendation...
Ma sha ALLAH bht zaber10. Ehtreen samjhana ma sha ALLAH ALLAH SALAMAT RKHY AAMEEN ALLAHUMMA AAMEEN
یا اللہ رب العزت.... ہمیں اپنی رحمت سے کبھی بھی مایوس نہ ہونے دینا... ہمارا بن جانا اور ہمیں اپنا بنا لینا... آمین یا رب العالمین
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Amazing talk Ustaza Asia May Allah give her more wisdom and enable her to help others .
If anyone is having her contact . Please forward. Im in need
MashaAllah, I learned a lot from this video, JazakaAllah
This issue is really really critical... much needed podcast.. it should be address more.
Mashallah yar ap in aunty ko hamesha bulaya karin plz in ki batain dil main utar jati hain also kindly invite prof doc javed iqbal
Maa Sha Allah such a beneficial session…and really the book of Aid al Qarni named Don’t be Sad is not only the best medicine for people who are suffering from depression but also for everyone who wants a stable and crisp mindset.
Really nice book
I've downloaded it 😊
jazak Allah
worth listening conversation
*ماشاء الله تبارك الله*
Such an amazing and excellent podcast. Great Analysis with tremendous wisdom. Excellent communication skills. May *ALLAH SWT* grant you all tremendous rewards in both worlds.
*آمين يارب العالمين*
It really really help me alot. . . Maam nd sr muhammad Ali. . MashaAllah great talk.
Assalamo alekum ap sabhi plz mere 3 month baby yusuf ke liye dua kare plzzz allah usko sifa ata kare ameen🤲🤲🇮🇳
Allah jald complete shifa de yusuf ko. Aameen ✨
Amin
Ameen...
Beshak ALLAH PAK shifa ata farmya ga sister dua krayn or yakeen rakhy hain ALLAH PAK py...
Ameen
Mujy aisy leg raha ha k mujhy bahtreen andaz mein samjha rehy hein
JAZAKALLAH
JAZAKILLAH
ALLAH AML K TOUFIQ DY MUJHY OR SUB KO AAMEEN
Mashallah bhot achi malumat
Waa really nice and great session 👏 👍
Allah pak apko sehat tandrusti ata kry ap n is podcast k end p bat smjhai by God ap n meri problem solve kr di
She is amazing ...Ma Sha Allah
I AM CRYING.......YOU HAVE RESOLVED MY IN LAWS PROBLEMS
JAZAKALLAH
Aaplogo ki solution bahut aachi hai Allah un aurat o ki islamko janne ki taufic aada kare
I agree with Ma'ams point on individuality, diverting your mind by keeping yourself busy and knowing that you are not the problem in case of narcissists but I don't agree that you must not distance yourself from narcissists..
If physically its not possible as in most cases then emotionally you have to do it else you will also acquire narcissists behaviour and become toxic.. and no amount of care or love from you will change them unless they themselves want to change it (ofcousre nothing is impossible for ALLAH. But where is the test then if every narcissists get better one day.) It's sort of wired in their brain and they don't see anything wrong in it. You can sympathise with them but you can't be emotionally attached to them else you will be abused emotionally and mentally. Your energy will be sucked up. Their favourite weapon is projecting their shortcomings on you and gaslighting you. Detaching emotionally will not let it happen to you and they will be happy thinking that they have achieved their goal. And always pretending to be agreeing with them also won't work as they are very smart and will see through it and ask you to do more difficult things increasing levels everytime. So, once in a while openly disagree as well to give them the satisfaction that they reached your nerves. It's all a game for them and you have to play that game. But play the game setting your own rules. This will help you protect yourself and your children.
Do your best as much as you can but never keep on sacrificing yourself because in the end you will end up empty shell. Knowing when to put the break in their list of demands and knowing that you are human too will help in long run.
Note:- please don't come after me for this thing. It's your choice whether you want to follow this or not.
Also if anyone claims that the other person is narcissists without inspecting ownself for those trait then most likely you are narcissist yourself. If you think it's impossible for you to be a narcissist then that is a red flag.
Agree with this post 100%
I lived with a narcissist for 20 years. I have given everything to keep the family together. Now in court for a divorce that is imposed on me. Empty shell is best description of what i am right now. I wanted to leave this toxic relationship for years but was forced by parents to stay. Don't know what could i have done differently to not be in this situation. Everyone from both sides of the family stands by me. But no amount of support means anything to what i have lost... 25 years of my life!!
If you see nothing is working pack and leave is what i would tell a narcissist's wife or husband.
@@saimamaqsood3922 May ALLAH heal you. It's very sad how other people don't see the signs and you are left in this mess all alone. May ALLAH ease your life now.
And Yes leaving a narcissist is the best advise.👍
Only awareness among mass population will help victims leave without losing so many years of life.
@@saimamaqsood3922 and best way on journey of healing is to accept that you couldn't have done anything else and fault is not upon you.💓
@@saimamaqsood3922 i too agree 100 % and can feel your pain ..... May Allah heal you, have gone through the same and wasted may whole life, pray for me too dear sisters 🌷
So so true. Agree 100%
Sir I have learnt a big lesson from this podcast that how to deal with toxic People. Mam Asia explained it very well.😊Sir plz do a podcast with mam about Sahabias so that we know more about their life ❤😊
MashaAllah awesome lecture 👏
MashaAllah boht achhi conversation thi ..especially how to deal with toxic people... jazakumullah khair
Masha a Allah Amazing topic 💕
Thank you soo much Mohammad Ali Bhai
Barak Allah
This lady is blessing not only for faimly but also fr society....
Jazakillah Ali Bhai and Aunty... It really helped me out... I think I'll listen it again n again.. Need more podcast like these...
JazakAllah o khairan.. such a amazing and fruitful podcast.. much needed one..
Sir Mohammed Ali is really a very good teacher ma shaa Allah.
Asalam o Alaikum wa rehmatullah!! Alhumdulillahi rub il alamin... Bahtreen topic.. Its seems u r talking to me... Stay blesed.. Allah berket day ameen 💕
Assalamalaykum
Very useful and guide me this lecture..jazakallahu khair
I must practice All these things..
In Shaa Allah
Assalam u alaikum its helping me alot whenever ma'am comes with sir muhammad ali please its a request do more on this topic marriage related and tarbiah of kids for newly weds bride please i need this jazakallah 👍
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Ma Sha Allah! Best ever conversation I have heard on RUclips! May Allah swt give Jaza e khair to the ustaza and to the host!
Fantastic topic. Thank you
mashaallah very nice explanation..
She is a power hub! Literally, what a dynamic woman🤍may rabb preserve her and reward her immensely for her efforts ameen💕
Ameen
can’t explain how much i adore mam Asiya...! ♥️
May Allah guide all of us....Lots of love from india!
❤️
🌹
AOA congratulations for touching such a burning issue of our society۔۔۔hats off to Mr Muhammad Ali and really nice to listen to Dr Asia ۔۔her way of speech and elaborating issues is amazing❤۔۔۔Very nice opinion of Mr Muhammad Ali about discussing family rights in Jumma prayer sermons۔۔۔I really appreciate this point of him👍its need of the time actually۔۔۔JazakAllah khair 🌹
اللہ تبارک وتعالیٰ آپ کو ہمیشہ خوش رکھے آمین یا ربّ العالمین ❣️❣️
It's a life changing session for me 😌 from now I start working on it
Jazakallah khair
Mashallah amazing speech 😘
Thank you so much Ali Bhai for such a great podcast again
Jzakalla khair an kaseera
I am Also a woman & i am in love her & i wish i could be like her. ❤️
being toxic is very tough to understand until you are living in it . but some what has been very well described........
Assalamualaikum.mashaaAllah what an intellectual women.wonderful.never ever seen a women speaking like this in my entire life.super intelligent and logical answers.
Super Excellent 👍👍👍
Ya allah you blessed me with a wonderful husband who is most caring hardworking and family oriented man . I cannot thank you enough .
Ma Sha Allah, amazing discussion. You really pin point all the important aspects that we are dealing with our lives, now a days.
So true sir they consider it interference rather than taking it positive
Mashallah ❤mashallah what a beautiful talk 💯subhan Allah 👍🏻❤️
Last 10 minutes discussion is too good plzzzzz guide more about toxic people parents wives husbands children etc jzakllah
Asslam u alaikum Mashallah you both of you helped many people like me. Ase laga ki jaise mere liye hi aya vdo. Kuch hai baten vo sahi me kafi logo ko Asa hi laga hoga. As u said toxic people hote hai and yes har jagh hote ham apne aap par tawajjo dena chahiye best aunty. And unko Tabib mentality se treat kare best Ali bhai. Zazakallah
I wish every girl and boy must listen this episode for making their life easier... And may Allah give reward to both memtors❤
Bhai main n ajj app ke buhat sare vedio dehke mashallah nice sharing
Mashallah very beautiful and logical conversation regarding relation between wife and husband as well as family....
May Allah Bless you and your family.
It was the first time I listened to her.
Have to say, she is far better than any therapist/counsellor in UK!
So much knowledge with a balanced viewpoint.
This is what the noor of Iman is.Goes straight into the heart.
Ever so grateful to you.
OK
Pyari or behad intellectual aunty or brother Allah bless you 🙏♥️
Aap k liye mere pas words nahin
Masha Allah behtreen andaze bayan or on points ko itne pyare tareeqe se samjhana jiski hum sub ko behad zaroorat hy
Allah pak se hr dum aap tamam behtreen personalities k liye duaen hn hamesha rahengi Inshallah Aameen Suma Aamin ya Rabul 🙏
This lecture is a blessing !!
Very informative and lesson taking talk.
I got it... I got the exact way to respect myself at last... Ufff... It took alot of years to find my answer...
30:00..hazrath Nusayba (Ra)
Umm e Ayman and many more,
Apart from those 4 ladies Jo Nabi(saw) zikar kar chukae Hain.
This is very important topic for discuss... Now these types of conflicts highly increasing in all homes
Masha ALLAH ,plz do a session with Sahil Abt waqia Karbala ,it will clearify our vision
I am grateful tou you for beautiful program.lam learing about deen.l do'nt have words to prais of you both.wondel of thanks.
MashaAllah very good thanks for giving the best power energy talking about Islam and 🕋🕋🙏🤲👍👏
جَزَاكَ اللّٰهُ
بہت مسلۓ حل ہو گٸے ہم سب کے
Love this podcast thankyou so much
Jazak Allah khair kaseera
Oooo I am waiting sir
Jazza Allah kahire
Much needed amazing podcast
Kindly come more and more with different topics too, we appreciate the thoughts, Alhamdulillah...
Needed topic jazakallah Khair bhai
Very good talk ... Allah bless u both .Ameen .
Honestly speaking i could not know the name of aunty but she is more intelligent than all men in youth club 😜 love her to bits.
She is mother of mughairah luqman of youth club
MashAllah
Acha Masha Allah
Wow! Amazing lady mashallah 🙂👌
Really great 👍 👌 👏
Please invite her more often , the best podcast ever !
اَللّٰهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ خَيْرَ أُمُوْرِيْ كُلِّهَا وَ أَعُوْذُ بِكَ مِنْ خِزْيِ الدُّنْيَا وَ عَذَابِ الْآخِرَةِ
Loved the Conversation ❤