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Yeah,they all think that were happy because were able to make them happy.thats all they think of us.But they never once though,of how much pain were going through.I tend to just bottle up my feelings so that later I can forget about them,I prefer that.Just wish someone would think about us and how were feeling
Mhm... true 😔🔫 I hate how I’m always there when they need and they say they will do same but when I need thmw they go away and know days so much ppl ghosted me... and I lost lots of ppl this year and most ppl walked out of my life but I think it’s better for them... 😁🔫😔
Facts😔🥺 like i want the way i treat other people to treat me like ( you okay , you need a hug, call me if you need anything im here for you ) thats what i want but no i give that to everyone else and nobody helps me when im down🥺😔😔 and i pick other people up and nobody picks me up they leave me 😔😔 the words i want to hear is (im here for you) 🥺🥺🥺
this is it you aren’t really scared of dying but you don’t wanna die the only thing you wish you were able to do is to disappear without any physical or emotional pain for you and for anybody who knows you but it’s just impossible
I know what you mean, sometimes I just want to disappear or just restart with a new life, but I’m too scared to do anything because I don’t want to let down the people that care
you can do this bro i believe in you, you will eventually be happy, i know that you are sad now, but things will change for the better, i promise, for now try to stay positive
When my little brother, aged 10 asked me ‘why do you cut yourself when your always laughing and smiling infont of us?’ Shattered my heart this happened a few days ago
Yeah mine was my niece, she asked why i have scars on my thighs, I could only say that it happened when i was a kid, i couldn’t even make a story about it haha she caught me off guard :)) hope she believed it.
@@simone.-.800 hey maybe no one close to you has said anything and i know we dont know each other...i just want to ask how you are? I hope i dont come off as wierd i just want to help the best i know and thats by listening, also you dont have to reply. I just hope you have a good day :)
@@Kitty-po5vn so ive had stitches many times in my face because i do skate and im scared to like purposely harm myself but ive still attempted but i some stuff has happened but its the fact that my dad says he doesnt want me and may siblings to see him turn into his dad which was abusive to him and his mom and i think thats why he doesnt have the best relationship with us but he hates when i hug him like he says ewww and all this other stuff but when i dont he gets into this whole attitude.......its just a whole bunch of bull crap that my parents do that makes me think whether or not they actually see what theyre doing as a "parent" i do love my mom parents theyre not abusive but they just need to listen and they keep saying well i didnt want to have to tell you this but we have cameras in the house i know its a lie because he would know my twin sister is bi and has known since 4th and that your son has two phones has had well over 10 girlfriends and etc.but now that thought is in my head and its kind of traumatizing.....i cnt say everything cuz i cant put it into words but this is the main stuff
@@simone.-.800 Thank you for telling me this, i understand you a little more now! If there's one thing its that i hope things get better for you with your family. And please dont ever self harm i understand the thoughts of doing it mostly because its happened to me as well, instead of self harming though anytime the thought of it came into mind i would get up and do something to my mind off it. And i just want to let you know your so strong for even being here and i know that even when one feels hopeless there is always gonna be a way out. My parents too were abused as children causing them to be abusive towards me and my siblings ive always wanted to better our relationship but i just cant fix it 100% and i guess really no family is perfect because we all have our imperfections. I just hope that things in life will get better, and that hopefully your family becomes closer instead of drifting apart! And i also hoope you have a good day today with no too hard struggles
Anyone just have to make a fake smile in front of your family and act like your fine but your really not I just feel like I don’t belong here I don’t wanna die I just don’t wanna live why is life so hard why can’t I just have a happy life with out any unhappy moments
Hey. Hey, you. Yes, you. You're the one reading this, aren't you? Well, let me tell you something. You need to know. DON'T SCROLL, please.. I know, I know I'm a stranger here on the internet. But, I guarantee you, you need to hear this. Are you in a dark place? You aren't alone. We all were there, y'know. Feeling Suicidal? Please don't. I think you matter. Even if I don't know you, I still think you matter. You are the best stranger I've met. So, do something for me real quick. It's quick, I promise. Drink some water. WAIT! DON'T WIPE THE WATER OFF YOUR LIPS YET! Look, see how they shine? See how they twinkle and glimmer? it's like you. Even in the tiniest bit of light, you shine. If you want to take your life, think about something. Out of the 7 billion+ people on this earth.. Someone out there, they think you're perfect. They love you, so much. Imagine how much you'd hurt them if you left.. even if it seems unlikely, I can assure you. Someone out there, they love you. So keep fighting. You'll win, no matter how hard it is. "Fight the storm to see the rainbow". Remember that, okay? Good, I love you. Stay safe, handsome/beautiful :)
I’m the ”happy” kid in my class. In reality i have scars on my wrist, they hurt, i have friends they Don’t know. I dont wan’t to act happy, i wan’t to be happy
I get the feeling. I am the therapist/mother of my extremely small friend group and I have depression/anxiety/panic disorder. I kept it in for years until I broke down in front of my pediatrician when she asked me “how have you been?” I went to therapy for a while and was given meds. I’m doing better now but I feel like I’ve hit a flat line after all of the progress I made. You aren’t alone. You never will be. If you want to talk, I’m here for you!
Every time you look in the mirror that shattered in your mind. Every time you look at the cute little text messages. Every time you look at the family photos. Where are you? Help me. I want out of this dark world. Please... Give a little light and I’ll give you mine.
Hi don’t worry your perfect the way you are your perfect in so many ways don’t worry there are so many people that care about you they show it or don’t if 5hey don’t do not worry keep the bad people out of your life and get more positive people don’t waste your time on toxic friends,
Hi. I dont know you but I want to help you because i think you deserve it so. I dont fell great too, but i do something for help me, ans maybe it could help you. I just imagine how i sound like to see me later. Not my bigest dream or whatever. Just a little goal. For example i just imagine myself in a coffeshop, reading something or just drinking and talking with a person next to me. Or i imagine myself buying a little plant, and his name would be Octave, and then i would have a reason gor being on earth. I would take care of Octave, or learning more about this stranger in the coffee. I just think about little thing that would give me some hapiness, even if it's nearly nothing, this is important. I hope a helped you, i hope you the best. ( sorry for my bad english i'm french)
Do you ever wish you could just Actually mean it when you say "I'm fine"? Don't you get tired of faking and trying? Do you ever wish you could just Disappear?.......me too
I just got diagnosed with clinical depression and I’m scared to have to depend on something to make me “normal”. I’m scared to live but I’m also scared to die.
You’ll get through the hard times, you will bloom in to a beautiful flower, try to believe in yourself, I believe in you, you are worthy, keep fighting,
@@maggiebland3375 revovery is hard, I know this because I am battling aswell and started therapie in the end of September. But please remember that no matter how hard the road will get, it shall be worth it. ♡
U came into my life U found me happy U left me sad. So strange how I'm still thinking bout u. It's all about you. It was always about you. Now look at me there's no words that can explain the way I feel. Now I'm fcvkng with everyone thinking I might find sam1 thinking I'll be luvd thinking I'll be appreciated. Ohh lord have mercy on me Mercy on me I was lost and u saved me u were my everything my ride or die my life line. Now I be here all alone regretting why I luvd sam1 more than myself. And the worst part is when the nyt comes it's the hardest time of the day. The silence reminds me of u. The thoughts start following. Can someone tell me what's this feeling I'm feeling. I fell so dead inside so dead so lonely. We always tend to ignore the ones that luv us and luv the one's that don't care about us. Why is this world like this. I just wish for those years when I was a kid Worry free Suicidal free Just miss the olden days The best days Family's don't visit each other no more. Friends be fake. Luv be a trap
Love and life is hard. Don’t be a fighter! Being a lover may make you more vulnerable, but it makes you happier. And in the end, I have to think it’s worth it.
Just let it all out it will make you feel so much better don’t keep it in be happy its not healthy to be happy all the time we are humans we have emotions don’t worry no one should judge you for crying it’s all going to be okay
@@craftypotato4539 yes and no..some people can cry for a reason while others don't, usually that no reason of crying is just getting out stress, even when you don't realize it.
I can relate to you cause nobody seems to notice that everything is just an act. Still you shouldn't get mad at them cause people wouldn't just ask if you're ok if they couldn't see that sth was/is going on. All they do is ask if they're ok yet most of the time it's obvious that they're not yet they won't do anything about it but ask if they're ok. (I apologize if i took this the wrong way)
❗PLS READ❗ If you have Instagram, you could tell me your nickname, so you could talk to me. If you don't want to talk, just tell me. If you don't want to, we won't keep in touch. Just tell me abt your feelings. I'm just a regular girl, so I don't think I could help you that much. I'm supporting things, that need to be normalized (LGBTQ+, Religion etc.) Just tell me, I will listen to you, maybe I could help you. You don't have to be embarrassed abt anything. I'll just listen, nothing more if you don't want to.
Since we all don't have friends or anyone rlly caring if we're OK...let's ask each other.......Hey, I'm Evani and I wanted to know how you are feeling today because I actually care abt your feelings.....how am I feeling?...oh! A little better than yesterday because you asked...thank you💛🌻
You know why i love school? *I learned that people only care about you if your popular *Guys only date you if you increase their [popularity or to pass time as a joke *I learned that people are toxic and ANYTHING you can say won't change that *People say it'll get better when it won't , it get's worse *Teachers see you in pain and don't do anything *Counseling is just a talking session *The world is a BAD place with very few good people in it *Nothing stays for too long *And most importantly, never to trust anyone because they'll stab you in the back in the worst way possible Thanks school you ruined/saved my life :>
Honestly why do we deal with it School is torture and you go through 12 years of it like I did just so you can get a piece of paper that said you graduated(survived).
i used school to get away from my family the yelling fighting talking shit on me... but now i cant do that because of covid and all hear is them saying how useless i am and how i never help and how im so lazy i never get my work done.
I suffer from depression at school, and at home, since most things go wrong, everything goes wrong, and I don't understand why, I'm fine and something has to happen to discourage me, nobody knows what I feel, I'm alone in this
Costed me +1 hour and 20 minutes to read all the comments +react to it, and it was worth it, because you are all worth it. It is just sad that we are all f*cked up people telling each other to stay strong and to stay alive while we, ourselves are barely functioning. Stay strong, keep fighting, I believe in you,
I’m glad to see multiple people trying to make people that feel the same way not feel like they’re not the only one. You’re a great person! I hope you have a wonderful life!
who ever needs to read this: you’re going to get thru it. ik it sound impossible right now but u can do it! i did it, i can lay in bed, listen to this kind of music and not fall back into depression. feels really really weird that i can be happy, happy without that empty feeling inside (u know what i’m talking about) please please please believe in yourself! u can.
Shows great pros come with some greater cons being the funny guy,when you're sad at home. I hate the bully at my old school but I know he just receive attention at home. Love y'all
I found this comment on a different video and I think we could all use a read: to everyone who is doing homework, leave the chat, breathe slowly, take a sip of water, and focus to everyone who is trying to sleep, leave the chat, grab a blanket, and get the rest you deserve. to everyone who is feeling sad, grab a snack, get some water, get a blanket, and write down your thoughts. when you're done, lay down, and get some rest, no matter the time. to everyone who is drawing, you got this. you're art is amazing. keep your head up (or down, depends on where your paper is) and remember that you matter. i love you all
and to anybody who is numb to the pain by now and looking for a reason to cry, don’t babe. write it all out, and throw it in the trash. rip that paper darling. i love you and your worth it.
I really don't see the point in staying here. No would really care, they'd get over it eventually. Why do i have to live in pain, but can't end it because id give the pain to someone else? I'm in too much pain to care about others. Ive tired being nice, tried to care, but where did that get me? No where. Fuck life man. Its a waste. I was in the kitchen with my mom a couple days ago, I always try me best to be happy around her so she doenst have to worry. She told me 'It's great to see you happy. I'm glad you're okay' I literally cried the night before she said that. I just can't seem to open up to my family. Friends? Yeah, sure I opneded up and what? I told them I self harm and that I don't want to eat anymore and they said mood, me too. For once could they just listen to me? I listen and help, but what about me? I need someone too. I always make sure they're okay, that they eat and don't harm themselves, but what about me? I feel so alone. Edit: Okay wait hold up- yall are to nice oebdjejd Thank you. Really, thank you. I've been struggling with myself more than usual lately. I've been relapsing alot, and just in a shitty mood. I wanna say thank you for you comments (and likes, I've never had this much bahha) as they really helped me. I hope that all of you that feel the same way I do will eventually find your happiness and someone you can open to. You guys our prescoius and don't let anyone tell ye otherwise. I hope that whatever is happening to you will eventually stop and you'll be okay. I know saying it's gonna be/get better is overused and people don't believe it. But eventually, maybe even in a decade, everything will be okay. Thank you everyone. And I just wanna say this if someone hasn't said this to you. You're beautiful. You're worth it. You're amazing. Don't ever leave. I love you. Thank you, have a good day.
I relate to you ,it's not easy but we can't give up ,we have to prove to our selfs that we are strong and we have the strength to keep going. What we go through won't last forever ,nothing does so we need to cherish the good things in life. We must stay for those we care about ,we must not give in so quickly
I care bro 💯 it's this moments where the sad the suicidal gatta watch and take care of each other coz besides the world no one feels the same way we go through every day. And nothing lasts forever u gatta deal with the rain before you can c the rainbow
You still have stuff to live for you live and regret stuff spend as much time as you can with the people you love find something you love to do and try and make a career out of it doesn’t work? Don’t give up keep trying find people who care about you do stuff you love it’s okay many people go threw the same think some people live and care about you but don’t show it because they are also going threw the same problem get rid of the people in your life that make you feel unhappy tell them about it or just ditch them you don’t need people in your Life that make you sad you will have a few years of deprsssion yeah but you need to push threw that I have improved a bit these last three years so I know you can do it it will all be okay!
Thing is,Your not alone.There is Billions of people that have the exact same situation as you,I am one of them and you are too.so dont feel alone,because sooner or later,it will get better.i promise!
Does anyone else do this .... try to make there friends and family happy and act that they are fine and happy but when they are alone they cry and cry and wish everything was ok when its not.. or is that just me🙃I have lost so SO many people this year friends and family pets I can’t with life anymore ...
Reading all the comments, makes me feel even sadder. Most of them I feel like I can relate to. But just know, that there's someone waiting for you, you just haven't found them yet. :) OR you can just say that you're FINE when you're not (WHICH IS SOMETHING THAT YOU SHOULD NOT DO). Meditate for a while if you need it, maybe even take a brake. Even if you have to forget about that person, do it (possibly forgive and forget). We can get through life together if we all try. Just know that you are an AMAZING HUMAN BEING THAT IS BEAUTIFUL AND AWESOME!
@@soni3608 you are sooo right, a young child shouldn't have to go through anything except by living a happy life and actually having a fun childhood that they can remember :) So much has changed, it's just sad.
Showing your emotions may make you more vulnerable, but it makes you feel better. Go see a therapist! Talk to a friend about it! If you have to, talk to somebody like you about it and make each other feel better.
I feel you your strong I know you are please always try your best to push through it... I know it’s hard but you can overcome that and control it better... I pray for you...
me : just broke up argues w mom every single day struggle to focus on studies passively suicidal & depressed confuse wether I should be skinny or fat confuse if I should try again or give up this video : it's okay I'm here 🖤
I'm not depressed, my life is great, i have supportive friends, but sometimes my heart just can't take all the fear I have of what people might think of me or my fears and phobias so sometimes I want to cry myself to sleep and just sleep forever bc I don't know how to make the fear stop. 🙂
when the feeling of hopelessness hits you hard but you cannot just go die because of the ones who love you so you try so hard to hold on... I hope you don't give up and finally have someone to listen to your problems... I hope you find happiness in the midst of your battle😊
I wish the people in the comments where my friends, they would be there for me...but in reality, my real friends just say they feel the same. But they don’t. I know they don’t... :,)
Why i thinked that i am only one who have it same... my friend said that ,, I know what you feel cause I feel the same" but i really know that they dont feel the same like me they are really happy but I must just pretending that I'm happy....
Does anyone else feel alone in a room full of people? Surely I'm not the only one to feel this pain, how do you accept yourself into a situation instead of distancing yourself with thoughts of depression. How do you live in the moment. My body feels tense all the time because I'm always in a fight or flight mode. I hate my figure and I feel as though I'll never find love. Thanks for coming to my Ted talks.
Everything changes. It just takes time... In the mean time find something to express your feelings.I Express how I feel by playing games and doing sports. You dont have to tell anybody anything, you just have to find something you like or think will help you with your feelings.
this comforts me and calms me down, i've never been more afraid of my home. i'm always locking my door in fear of what might happen when i'm sleeping. i'm so scared.
having anxiety is like having a monster over your shoulder saying things into your ear non stop and when things get bad the voice gets louder and talks faster filling your head with thoughts
She was an amazing person. I ruined it by neglecting her. Now she's happier without me. Today is her birthday and I can't even greet her without looking desperate. I just miss her so much.
its kinda nice seeing everyone comfort each other when were all in the same boat. It gives me a very slight sence of bliss knowing that people can come to these types of vids and vent and everyone will try to comfort the person. We're all strangers here and we care more than people that are actually in our lives.. Anyways i Hope things get better for you guys, breaks my heart even more knowing how hard you guys struggle and no-one notices... im sorry that you have to suffer. And i hope it gets better for you guys. Dont leave just yet, we'll miss you i know i will. I mean you'll never know if life gets better if you dont stick around right? Things are hard, but after the storm theres a rainbow but also alot of rubble. It's not gonna be easy but you'll get to the rainbow, i promise. Now go drink some water, try to eat something, blast some music if there is shouting, and try to get some rest, please. Love you - a stranger online.
And I want real friends I want people to care about me I want my anxiety to stop coming over me I want my anger issues to go away I want my depression to go away I want to end it all I want to die, but I can’t get that
I really wish I had people to hangout with instead of being on my own. I wish I had a girl to share my heart with. Im on the edge of becoming terribly broken please help me.
@Chamille I appreciate your comment friend. One of my many struggles are getting easier to see past and it seems my biggest struggle will begone by early next year and i can begin focusing 100% on myself And i must say just these comments on my comment helps me really, it makes me feel noticed and less alone so i must say thank you:)
So yesterday I was in class and we are aloud to use our phones and I played this song and put on my beat headphones to finish some work and I started crying out of know where and my friend notice she took my headphones and looked at me and gave me the biggest hug ever then put some good ass music for me to listen then left to her seat then got in trouble for not being 6ft apart lol she is the best!!
@Lydia Ostrander I wouldn’t really consider them your friends if they’re not gonna try and cheer you up. I hope you eventually find someone who will be there for you and help you get threw this life. Remember to stay strong, stranger!
But if no one is there to begin with then suicide doesn't pass it to anyone I don't mean to be negative but I just idk nvm forget it ... I'm just I'm ready to say my goodbyes
Little Girl: What’s on your arm? Me: They’re battle scars. Little Girl: You fought in a war? Me: Yeah. A long and hard one. Little Girl: That’s so cool! Can I get one? Me: No. Please do not ever get any. But I’ll tell you what. Whenever you see someone else with battle scars, I want you to hug them, okay? Can you promise me? Little Girl: Yes. I promise. A few days later we went on a short shopping spree. Suddenly the little girl let go of my hand and ran up to another random teenager. Teen: Why are you hugging me? Little Girl: Because... (*points*) you have battle scars just like my babysitter. The teen looked up at me, and I rolled up my sleeves to show her. With tears in her eyes, she said one thing to me... Teen: My war is far from being finished yet, but I’m not done fighting. She bends down at eye level with the little girl Teen: Thanks for giving me the strength to keep fighting. You are forever my war hero This is copied but it's such a good message I had to do it. I'm sorry to anyone that has battle scars I hope this also gives you the strength to keep fighting YOU ARE WORTH IT I promise.
When your best friend discovers your whole arm full of painful battle scars...hehe..heh heh don't worry...I'm being forced to take therapy right now and everybody keeps checking up on me so I'm fine...for now
When they ask me "Are you okay?" I always said "I'm great!" or "I'm good!", but no one really knows what I truly feel. It really hurts when you have to pretend all day, maybe I should just go to an anime where I could dream all day and never come back to the real world :)
To everyone who wants to stop and give up: Hold on. Why? It might feel like you don't have a lot but if you really do decide to let go then you'll really have nothing. You still have to keep going to live out your dreams; as wild as they may be. You still need to find the love of your life and go to sleep cuddling only to wake up with kisses. You still need to go sky diving or snorkeling in the ocean. You need to be a therapist for your friend when they need you and vice versa. You need to live to see your friends getting married. You need to make an embarrassing but emotional speech at their wedding for them. You need to see your children come to life and grow up. You need to stay to see your daughter become someone else's or to see your son find the only woman who can keep him in a tight leash. Suicide doesn't only kill you. If you believe that God makes matches in heaven then when you give up you're essentially leaving your partner without anyone for them to love and hold, because you were the only one for them. If you decide to end it, you're not only ending yourself but also your future kids. We all have dreamt to grow up and have children right. If you kill yourself you're snatching the chance of life from those kids that were to be yours. If I couldn't convince you with this then please lmk and I'll give you my snap. We will sit and chat about anything and everyting. You matter you've just forgotten it for a little while. Let this be your reminder, please. Hold on.
Hi guys, I'm back and I decided to make a new snap and also a discord just so that I can talk to whoever would like to talk it out. The snap is: hamna_convo and the discord is: PrivateConvos if u guys would ever like to talk then please add me on one of these two platform and we can talk about anything and everything.
I had my first therapist apt today i did good so my dad took me to hot topic it made me so happy. Ive been realy drained recently, i had a fight with my mom as usual but it got really bad both my older brother and little brother were invovled and my older brother looked at me in my face and said “i spemt my hold life trying to be a father figure to you bcs dad was never there and now i have no friends and no one wants to be around me bcs you cant control yourself. I should havd never tried to help you. I wasted my whole life on trying tk be there for you“ my mom ended up sending me to live with my dad without my little brother wjo has been my best friend since he was born and i miss him so much. Wow i just spilled everything to these comment section ppl,, well i hope yall are doing ok i hope ot gets better. Blessed be ♡︎
I have seen a lot of broken people and see their pain and i just say are you okay?, may i sit with you. even though im a complete stranger i still love to help other peoples pain just a little bit because talking to them about makes my heart shine brighter more than it already was.
Your skin isnt paper dont cut it. your face isnt a mask dont hide it. your body isnt plastic dont break it your life isnt a movie dont end it. I know life is hard but just remember i will always be there for anybody,doesnt matter what u did we are all just humans and make mistakes.Even when ur depressed remember u have alot of things other poeple dont have Like: a familly friends food water love god protecting u god loving u so u see u have alot of things other poeple dont have, please dont be depressed it breaks my heart remember there will always every night and day somebody on the world that thinks about u. LUV ALL OF U!
It’s not worth it! I have an uncle who killed himself and I think about him everyday. Remember, there are people who care about you, even if they didn’t tell you!
Man its so different to feel very depressed but don’t knowing why. My frends are behind me, my family loves me, i dont have a gf but i dont feel like i an single af. There is no reason but i am still sad and depressed
This song hit diff:( For the people who r crying to this or feel worthless just know you are beautiful/handsome and don't give up keep trying. I hope you had a great day/night stay safe. And relax. Do something you love, be yourself, be yourself no matter what anyone says. ilyyyy:)
is it just me or whenever someone asks you if your okay do you just feel like crying so fckin bad because you know that you ain't ok one little bit just me? okay then
Hey, random stranger here! When was the last time you drank some water? Have you eaten anything? Have you been taking your medication? How much have you slept lately? Do you need a hug? Have you told someone about your problems? Don't worry, I'm here for you. You can vent to me. You're valid. You're loved. You're amazing. I'm proud of you. ❤️
You ever lived off pasta and ketchup for every meal, 4 weeks straight. Because you have a shitty job and you are barely able to stay afloat when it comes to rent
@@SFVMTV Hey, I'm sorry your situation isnt as ideal as wanted. I can see you're tired of it, and it's okay to be! I believe that we should look on the brighter side of things (I sound cheesy, I know). You're still here. You're still breathing, yes? I'm glad you're here. Please take whatever measures you need to stay grounded, but remember that suicide and self harm shouldn't be the first things that come to mind. I hope you have a much better day than you did yesterday or today. 🥺❤️💖💖💕💕💕❤️❤️❤️💖💕✨
Everyone says they will be there for you when you're not felling good right now I am crying the shit out of me none of my friends are responding to my texts or my calls :')
everything will be okay brother stay strong dont give up good times will come soon after the rain there is rainbow shit happend but fuck it good luck brother i feel you homie👋🤲💪
Mom “Markell you ok “ Me “I’m ok” in my head so much pain and depression. Someone help me Only 2 people in my life that understand me and they aren’t my parents.
Your perfect no need to change anything about yourself be happy get rid of the bad people even if that’s almost everyone it’s not healthy to be around toxic people so don’t worry if you need to cry just let it all out it’ll get better
@@naomijanssen4346 thank you literally you are the only person who has said anything to me like this❤️ I can’t believe people like you in the comments can be so nice and caring✊
@@nolife4996 we all deserve support and caring people in the world, and honestly the likes and comments make taking the time to read and comment it worth it, next to the fact that you might be able to help someone. And besides you fully deserved it, sending love your way,
hey idk your pronouns but hang in there youve heard a million times you’re stronger than you think i’m sure, but if you really wanna stay strong for someone, the entire comment section is here for u ❤️❤️💔💔
You're not a normal person u are a super hero, super hero for pretending that's everything is fine, for smiling instead of crying in front of all of them, for pretending u are strong in public but not in your room, for helping each and every soul. God won't forget every single good thing u did, every time u cried and died inside these bad days are keys for a wonderful life for u in future, remember life is not always down its up and down tomorrow is better keep fighting my hero for sure you will win Most important thing smile try to forget and forgive 🖤
I'm here because my family crushed my dreams of becoming a film director. They even told me that it wasn't a good idea to become one and they suggested that I study to become a lawyer or doctor or engineer. I wanted to become a film maker because that is what I love. But on the other hand, I don't want to disappoint them.
Just want you to know be what you want to be u got this I believe you will make ur parents happy with what YOU choose to do they just don’t know it yet
Tell me how everyone wants me to be happy and basically be their pushover but they can't even give me a hug and tell me everything will be alright... Please tell me how I need it... Also if you need to talk I'm here I bet I can relate🙃💔
I have never wanted to jump through a screen and hug a person more Remember this You matter Don't be a pushover fight for what you want I would happily give you hug if we met in real life
❗PLS READ❗ If you have Instagram, you could tell me your nickname, so you could talk to me. If you don't want to talk, just tell me. If you don't want to, we won't keep in touch. Just tell me abt your feelings. I'm just a regular girl, so I don't think I could help you that much. I'm supporting things, that need to be normalized (LGBTQ+, Religion etc.) Just tell me, I will listen to you, maybe I could help you. You don't have to be embarrassed abt anything. I'll just listen, nothing more if you don't want to.
Being depressed (at least to me) is like being the only person without an umbrella when it’s pouring. Or, if anyone else back in like elementary school had to walk home because your parents were still at work and everyone else’s parents came and picked them up, and they were always so excited, but you had to walk home alone and watch them smile with their parents.
care for the people you love. Check in with them, listen to them, support them because they might be gone sooner than you think. Nobody every did that for me and I want others to learn how words can effect a person.
The fact that it barely started and I’m already crying. Life is hard but yk we can get through it if we keep on fighting I still have a long way to go but I think we can get through this stage no..I don’t think it I know it just...Stay strong.
Hey things get better i promise u are beautiful ok dont give up i lost my sister she was so beautiful i didnt realize how much she was hurting she put on a fake smile to make every one else happy its her birthday today♥️
Been dealing with depression ever since I was 13. I am now 20, about to be 21. My first word as a baby was no..but truly the word that I ever say perfectly now is that I am fine. I always feel like a bother even tho I will always be there for family and my friend. being alone does not help. And I even feel not even good enough for my bf..but I break in two if I ever thought of him leaving...because I truly love him. I just struggle with sadness and I hate it. I just want to be happy and stay that way but for how things are in my family that's not really gonna be that way for long. Many people may not truly care what I type here on youtube for this comment...but hey I say screw it and will post this here for my closure.
you might FEEL depressed but that's basically your body/mind telling you that there is something about your life you need to change. you feel depressed probably cause you lead a depressing life !! anybody would probably be depressed in your situation; i hear people on the internet say "i am depressed that's why i am lonely '' or.. "i am depressed that's why i am fat" or... "I am depressed that's why i am broke" NO !!!!! IN REALITY It's the otherway around !!!! >you are lonely, that's why you are depressed < >you are fat , that's why you are depressed < >you are broke, that's why you are depressed < The GOOD news is that ,this ''depressed" state is NOT a fatality. Now ,knowing all this , all you need to do is find the root problem and take action into solving it. No need to pop pills! (phamaceutical companies feed off of "depressed" people who believe they need to take a miracle pill/drug to solve all the problems in their lives ) it all comes down to mindset. So for exemple, if you 're fat, go to the gym and lose the weight. it's not gonna be easy ! But in life, nothing that is worthwhile is acquired easily. it always takes effort and discipline and sacrifice. But in the end you'll feel much better about yourself, and much less "depressed", because you finally ACHIEVED something. Happiness is not deserved ,it is EARNED. it is earned through achieving the goals that you've set for yourself. These goals may range from building a family with a loving wife, to losing weight, or landing your dream job, or becoming succesful, or having more friends. but all theses require to take action! Nothing good comes by accident. no one gets what he wants by accident. A lot of our self-esteem is devired from our ACHIEVEMENTS (they could be anything ,little or big) especialy as a MAN!! these days depression is been used as an one -size-fit-all excuse for not achieving anything and/or not doing shit!! "OOH i couldn't study for my exam because i'am depressed" "OOH can't go to the gym because i am depressed" "OOH I can't go out because i am depressed " "OH I can't do this or that , because i am depressed '' THATS BULLSHIT !!!! when you blame everything on depression ,you're essentialy saying that you've given up control overr your own life, and that you're not in controle of your own destiny anymore. And that's the saddest part in my opinion. A lot of this comes down (again) to your mindset . REMEMBER , your mind works for you ! if you constantly tell yourself that you are depressed , you mind will come up with all the reasons why you should be depressed. And there goes the vicious cycle ! I HOPE THIS HELPS YOU BUDDY!!!! HERE ARE SOME OTHER RESOURCES THAT I RECOMMEND FOR YOU : > ruclips.net/video/lsKf9abQvFQ/видео.html > how to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie > the magic of thinking big by David J. Schwartz (chapter 6: You Are What You Think You Are) > ruclips.net/video/qVsa-j7Ig_w/видео.html
every time I listen to depressed songs it makes me think about my ex because she was the one who hurt me last and I don't know what the fuck to do without her and I won't let go of her even though she has already left me and every day I have a mask that I makes you smile alone but on the other side of the mask there is my broken heart a thousand cries a thousand disappointments a thousand pieces on which I do not know where to follow. I have two options, one to find love or to be depressed and not notice it. I don't want to write a poem about love now, for those who read my comment maybe the kids will understand what it means to be left and to be abandoned. )=
you might FEEL depressed but that's basically your body/mind telling you that there is something about your life you need to change. you feel depressed probably cause you lead a depressing life !! anybody would probably be depressed in your situation; i hear people on the internet say "i am depressed that's why i am lonely '' or.. "i am depressed that's why i am fat" or... "I am depressed that's why i am broke" NO !!!!! IN REALITY It's the otherway around !!!! >you are lonely, that's why you are depressed < >you are fat , that's why you are depressed < >you are broke, that's why you are depressed < The GOOD news is that ,this ''depressed" state is NOT a fatality. Now ,knowing all this , all you need to do is find the root problem and take action into solving it. No need to pop pills! (phamaceutical companies feed off of "depressed" people who believe they need to take a miracle pill/drug to solve all the problems in their lives ) it all comes down to mindset. So for exemple, if you 're fat, go to the gym and lose the weight. it's not gonna be easy ! But in life, nothing that is worthwhile is acquired easily. it always takes effort and discipline and sacrifice. But in the end you'll feel much better about yourself, and much less "depressed", because you finally ACHIEVED something. Happiness is not deserved ,it is EARNED. it is earned through achieving the goals that you've set for yourself. These goals may range from building a family with a loving wife, to losing weight, or landing your dream job, or becoming succesful, or having more friends. but all theses require to take action! Nothing good comes by accident. no one gets what he wants by accident. A lot of our self-esteem is devired from our ACHIEVEMENTS (they could be anything ,little or big) especialy as a MAN!! these days depression is been used as an one -size-fit-all excuse for not achieving anything and/or not doing shit!! "OOH i couldn't study for my exam because i'am depressed" "OOH can't go to the gym because i am depressed" "OOH I can't go out because i am depressed " "OH I can't do this or that , because i am depressed '' THATS BULLSHIT !!!! when you blame everything on depression ,you're essentialy saying that you've given up control overr your own life, and that you're not in controle of your own destiny anymore. And that's the saddest part in my opinion. A lot of this comes down (again) to your mindset . REMEMBER , your mind works for you ! if you constantly tell yourself that you are depressed , you mind will come up with all the reasons why you should be depressed. And there goes the vicious cycle ! I HOPE THIS HELPS YOU BUDDY!!!! HERE ARE SOME OTHER RESOURCES THAT I RECOMMEND FOR YOU : > ruclips.net/video/lsKf9abQvFQ/видео.html > how to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie > the magic of thinking big by David J. Schwartz (chapter 6: You Are What You Think You Are) > ruclips.net/video/qVsa-j7Ig_w/видео.html
I’ve been dissociating for a couple days straight now, honestly I thought I was better! I haven’t felt this depressed in a few years but here I am... dissociating, not eating, not sleeping, crying in class, dropping grades, considering self harm even though I’ll be clean for two years next month... it’s been a week and I haven’t eaten... I’m usually asleep by 10 pm but it’s 3 am... I wish I stayed happy, I felt like I had everything together but now it’s all gone
its so hard to keep living but you stay for your friends and soon after you realize they never cared, they didnt want to feel guilty and never realized how much pain you are really in. somedays you sit in your mirror and wonder whats wrong with you, how are people so happy and you realized that they never gotten hurt as much as you. As you sit and cry on call with friends or s/o theyll never know cause you try to hide it.
It's ok that you are hurting cause most of us are there with you. You may not know us but we are here for you and no matter what happens just know you tried your best and we understand that. We know you can do it and you can hang on. You may be in bad times now but know that it will get better and you can do it! If you ever need someone we are here for you!
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I'm tied of pretending I'm fine with my life and some times I feel nothing
@@charlieghkelley7502 you are not alone
@@leonardosoares5508 thank you
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@@samaprincess67 U are not a stupid girl! Don't name yrself names u aren't!!!!
Being depressed is like being colorblind in a world and having everyone say how colorful it is
It’s sad how accurate that is
Hey people! We all arr suffering because good people suffer most.So,lets make a community of us and send "Hey"on this email ( rupindermaan311@gmail.com)
After this we will Make a whatsapp group🌹❤️
Someone finally put it into words...
This is the most accurate description I've ever heard of
Yet all we see r the dark colors even when we try. We try for them..but its not enough for them. Im sorry u cant provide everything u need.
Most of us are the ppl that are always there when other ppl need it and no one's ever there for us
Yeah,they all think that were happy because were able to make them happy.thats all they think of us.But they never once though,of how much pain were going through.I tend to just bottle up my feelings so that later I can forget about them,I prefer that.Just wish someone would think about us and how were feeling
Mhm... true 😔🔫 I hate how I’m always there when they need and they say they will do same but when I need thmw they go away and know days so much ppl ghosted me... and I lost lots of ppl this year and most ppl walked out of my life but I think it’s better for them... 😁🔫😔
I’m just here to cry😃
Facts😔🥺 like i want the way i treat other people to treat me like ( you okay , you need a hug, call me if you need anything im here for you ) thats what i want but no i give that to everyone else and nobody helps me when im down🥺😔😔 and i pick other people up and nobody picks me up they leave me 😔😔 the words i want to hear is (im here for you) 🥺🥺🥺
Yea so i dont help them
it's hard to live but you don't want to die you just wanna sleep forever and never wake up
this is it
you aren’t really scared of dying but you don’t wanna die the only thing you wish you were able to do is to disappear without any physical or emotional pain for you and for anybody who knows you
but it’s just impossible
i relate to this so much
I know what you mean, sometimes I just want to disappear or just restart with a new life, but I’m too scared to do anything because I don’t want to let down the people that care
ur right i dont wanna wake up even tho i cant wake up from the scary breams i have
@@NAPSTABLOOK-wv1sw used to lie on a bed and think how it would be cool not to exist, the reason why i can't sleep normally for years
when ur crying and someone asks “ are you okay?” makes me cry even more..
same here bro🙃
@@moldycheese8440 🥺
Right literally I am cold to everyone I hate everybody
imagine crying
@@ledivtaringmorns8925 Imagine people talking to you while you cry. That's why I keep to myself B')
That moment when you burst into tears in your room and you realise that no one knows how unhappy you are.
you can do this bro i believe in you, you will eventually be happy, i know that you are sad now, but things will change for the better, i promise, for now try to stay positive
Goodnight 🙂 wake me up when this are better 😴✌🏼
not me crying because this comment be hitting different
imagine crying
That moment where you want to burst into tears but it won’t happen anymore.
I'm tired of pretending that am okay ;)) I just want to sleep forever.
i feel you
Same bro
Me: wakes up goes to school goes straight to sleep when I get back and repeat
I cant take the wink serious.
I feel
When my little brother, aged 10 asked me ‘why do you cut yourself when your always laughing and smiling infont of us?’ Shattered my heart this happened a few days ago
I'm happy someone close in your life actually noticed....... Can't say the same for me tho😔
Yeah mine was my niece, she asked why i have scars on my thighs, I could only say that it happened when i was a kid, i couldn’t even make a story about it haha she caught me off guard :)) hope she believed it.
@@simone.-.800 hey maybe no one close to you has said anything and i know we dont know each other...i just want to ask how you are? I hope i dont come off as wierd i just want to help the best i know and thats by listening, also you dont have to reply. I just hope you have a good day :)
@@Kitty-po5vn so ive had stitches many times in my face because i do skate and im scared to like purposely harm myself but ive still attempted but i some stuff has happened but its the fact that my dad says he doesnt want me and may siblings to see him turn into his dad which was abusive to him and his mom and i think thats why he doesnt have the best relationship with us but he hates when i hug him like he says ewww and all this other stuff but when i dont he gets into this whole attitude.......its just a whole bunch of bull crap that my parents do that makes me think whether or not they actually see what theyre doing as a "parent"
i do love my mom parents theyre not abusive but they just need to listen and they keep saying well i didnt want to have to tell you this but we have cameras in the house i know its a lie because he would know my twin sister is bi and has known since 4th and that your son has two phones has had well over 10 girlfriends and etc.but now that thought is in my head and its kind of traumatizing.....i cnt say everything cuz i cant put it into words but this is the main stuff
@@simone.-.800 Thank you for telling me this, i understand you a little more now! If there's one thing its that i hope things get better for you with your family. And please dont ever self harm i understand the thoughts of doing it mostly because its happened to me as well, instead of self harming though anytime the thought of it came into mind i would get up and do something to my mind off it. And i just want to let you know your so strong for even being here and i know that even when one feels hopeless there is always gonna be a way out. My parents too were abused as children causing them to be abusive towards me and my siblings ive always wanted to better our relationship but i just cant fix it 100% and i guess really no family is perfect because we all have our imperfections. I just hope that things in life will get better, and that hopefully your family becomes closer instead of drifting apart! And i also hoope you have a good day today with no too hard struggles
Anyone just have to make a fake smile in front of your family and act like your fine but your really not I just feel like I don’t belong here I don’t wanna die I just don’t wanna live why is life so hard why can’t I just have a happy life with out any unhappy moments
i feel you on that one :(
Emily. Towery yeah it took me a lot of thought of sending that
💯
I feel you 💯
I feel you on that one :(
Hey.
Hey, you.
Yes, you.
You're the one reading this, aren't you?
Well, let me tell you something.
You need to know.
DON'T SCROLL, please..
I know, I know I'm a stranger here on the internet.
But, I guarantee you, you need to hear this.
Are you in a dark place?
You aren't alone.
We all were there, y'know.
Feeling Suicidal?
Please don't.
I think you matter.
Even if I don't know you, I still think you matter.
You are the best stranger I've met.
So, do something for me real quick.
It's quick, I promise.
Drink some water.
WAIT! DON'T WIPE THE WATER OFF YOUR LIPS YET!
Look, see how they shine?
See how they twinkle and glimmer?
it's like you.
Even in the tiniest bit of light, you shine.
If you want to take your life, think about something.
Out of the 7 billion+ people on this earth..
Someone out there, they think you're perfect.
They love you, so much.
Imagine how much you'd hurt them if you left..
even if it seems unlikely, I can assure you.
Someone out there, they love you.
So keep fighting.
You'll win, no matter how hard it is.
"Fight the storm to see the rainbow". Remember that, okay?
Good, I love you.
Stay safe, handsome/beautiful :)
thanks
I love you😪❤
Thank you ❤️❤️ you matter to me to😊
I actually needed to hear that
You are a incroyable person , I love you thank u :)
I’m the ”happy” kid in my class. In reality i have scars on my wrist, they hurt, i have friends they Don’t know. I dont wan’t to act happy, i wan’t to be happy
I get the feeling. I am the therapist/mother of my extremely small friend group and I have depression/anxiety/panic disorder. I kept it in for years until I broke down in front of my pediatrician when she asked me “how have you been?” I went to therapy for a while and was given meds. I’m doing better now but I feel like I’ve hit a flat line after all of the progress I made. You aren’t alone. You never will be. If you want to talk, I’m here for you!
Same
Sometimes I just think what is my problem.. Why I don't want to be happy,It's just too much?
Anyone else wonder why we still sometimes try sooo hard for someone but we always get the same results.
I hate it😔
I hear you I’m in the same boat it’s hurts and sucks so bad
i know it sucks
💯
Yeah.. it’s Like Reading A Book all over again.. everytime
True 💔😭
Every time you look in the mirror that shattered in your mind. Every time you look at the cute little text messages. Every time you look at the family photos. Where are you? Help me. I want out of this dark world. Please... Give a little light and I’ll give you mine.
Hey im here to help u i will give u some light so everytime u need im here for u
Hi don’t worry your perfect the way you are your perfect in so many ways don’t worry there are so many people that care about you they show it or don’t if 5hey don’t do not worry keep the bad people out of your life and get more positive people don’t waste your time on toxic friends,
Hi. I dont know you but I want to help you because i think you deserve it so. I dont fell great too, but i do something for help me, ans maybe it could help you. I just imagine how i sound like to see me later. Not my bigest dream or whatever. Just a little goal. For example i just imagine myself in a coffeshop, reading something or just drinking and talking with a person next to me. Or i imagine myself buying a little plant, and his name would be Octave, and then i would have a reason gor being on earth. I would take care of Octave, or learning more about this stranger in the coffee. I just think about little thing that would give me some hapiness, even if it's nearly nothing, this is important.
I hope a helped you, i hope you the best.
( sorry for my bad english i'm french)
tell me why im waiting for someone, that couldn't give a f about me?
I feel you😔
idk but i know u will find the right person one day and she is waiting for you.
i know how you feel i have been depressed for at least 3 months in a row keep your head up and meet new people
@Cassidi Morgan-Wood okay?
I am too
Do you ever wish you could just Actually mean it when you say "I'm fine"?
Don't you get tired of faking and trying?
Do you ever wish you could just Disappear?.......me too
I'm at the point of sadness I no longer cry, I remain silent adn wait for death.
You will probably have a long time of waiting. Depression sucks
Honestly, saem .-. I've gotten too used to being sad that I can't even cry I just feel like I'm gonna cry.
it’s called being numb
you will eventually find happiness you cannot give up yet you need to keep going
same
I just got diagnosed with clinical depression and I’m scared to have to depend on something to make me “normal”. I’m scared to live but I’m also scared to die.
You’ll get through the hard times, you will bloom in to a beautiful flower, try to believe in yourself, I believe in you, you are worthy, keep fighting,
i relate,, i just started therapy and i had a doctors appointment today and i they diagnised me with clinical depression as well..
@@maggiebland3375 revovery is hard, I know this because I am battling aswell and started therapie in the end of September. But please remember that no matter how hard the road will get, it shall be worth it. ♡
@@naomijanssen4346 i love you,, thank you.. ill keep fighting
Bro you'll be Ok I depended on hard drugs to make me normal its hard to feel normal till You find some one that makes you feel ok
U came into my life
U found me happy
U left me sad. So strange how I'm still thinking bout u.
It's all about you.
It was always about you.
Now look at me there's no words that can explain the way I feel.
Now I'm fcvkng with everyone thinking I might find sam1 thinking I'll be luvd thinking I'll be appreciated.
Ohh lord have mercy on me
Mercy on me
I was lost and u saved me u were my everything my ride or die my life line.
Now I be here all alone regretting why I luvd sam1 more than myself.
And the worst part is when the nyt comes it's the hardest time of the day.
The silence reminds me of u.
The thoughts start following.
Can someone tell me what's this feeling I'm feeling. I fell so dead inside so dead so lonely.
We always tend to ignore the ones that luv us and luv the one's that don't care about us. Why is this world like this.
I just wish for those years when I was a kid
Worry free
Suicidal free
Just miss the olden days
The best days
Family's don't visit each other no more.
Friends be fake.
Luv be a trap
Same as I feel .😔
Love and life is hard. Don’t be a fighter! Being a lover may make you more vulnerable, but it makes you happier. And in the end, I have to think it’s worth it.
Bro😥 I felt that
@@PandaWarlord2003 yea das shit fr
I really felt that ;(
When you just want to cry with no reason 😔
Just let it all out it will make you feel so much better don’t keep it in be happy its not healthy to be happy all the time we are humans we have emotions don’t worry no one should judge you for crying it’s all going to be okay
feel empty? it sucks... cry it out okay? don't keep it in,I hope you'll find something/someone that'll make your emptiness away😊❤
everyone cries for a reason
@@craftypotato4539 yes and no..some people can cry for a reason while others don't, usually that no reason of crying is just getting out stress, even when you don't realize it.
* I hugged you *
All these people in the comments saying
friend: you ok
Me: 🖤I’m fine🖤
At least u guys get asked if ur fine
I can relate to you cause nobody seems to notice that everything is just an act.
Still you shouldn't get mad at them cause people wouldn't just ask if you're ok if they couldn't see that sth was/is going on. All they do is ask if they're ok yet most of the time it's obvious that they're not yet they won't do anything about it but ask if they're ok.
(I apologize if i took this the wrong way)
its ok(its not) sooo... how are you (i dont care im trying to be nice)
fr, I just cry every night thinking about the abuse my parents gave me and my siblings
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If you have Instagram, you could tell me your nickname, so you could talk to me. If you don't want to talk, just tell me. If you don't want to, we won't keep in touch. Just tell me abt your feelings. I'm just a regular girl, so I don't think I could help you that much. I'm supporting things, that need to be normalized (LGBTQ+, Religion etc.) Just tell me, I will listen to you, maybe I could help you. You don't have to be embarrassed abt anything. I'll just listen, nothing more if you don't want to.
Since we all don't have friends or anyone rlly caring if we're OK...let's ask each other.......Hey, I'm Evani and I wanted to know how you are feeling today because I actually care abt your feelings.....how am I feeling?...oh! A little better than yesterday because you asked...thank you💛🌻
You know why i love school?
*I learned that people only care about you if your popular
*Guys only date you if you increase their [popularity or to pass time as a joke
*I learned that people are toxic and ANYTHING you can say won't change that
*People say it'll get better when it won't , it get's worse
*Teachers see you in pain and don't do anything
*Counseling is just a talking session
*The world is a BAD place with very few good people in it
*Nothing stays for too long
*And most importantly, never to trust anyone because they'll stab you in the back in the worst way possible
Thanks school you ruined/saved my life :>
Honestly why do we deal with it School is torture and you go through 12 years of it like I did just so you can get a piece of paper that said you graduated(survived).
someone: school is nice
School: fake friends, sleepless nights, heart broken, depressed
thattt is right :(
spierdalaj
i used school to get away from my family the yelling fighting talking shit on me... but now i cant do that because of covid and all hear is them saying how useless i am and how i never help and how im so lazy i never get my work done.
@@lemanuen4986 i hope it gets better real soon :(
I suffer from depression at school, and at home, since most things go wrong, everything goes wrong, and I don't understand why, I'm fine and something has to happen to discourage me, nobody knows what I feel, I'm alone in this
Costed me +1 hour and 20 minutes to read all the comments +react to it, and it was worth it, because you are all worth it. It is just sad that we are all f*cked up people telling each other to stay strong and to stay alive while we, ourselves are barely functioning. Stay strong, keep fighting, I believe in you,
I’m glad to see multiple people trying to make people that feel the same way not feel like they’re not the only one. You’re a great person! I hope you have a wonderful life!
you a good person bro :>
😂 we are weird
@@DubFather420 you could say that yeah, lmao
@@naomijanssen4346 enjoying your day?
When we realise there are soo many of us going through so much and being on the other side of the world still feel connected 😔
who ever needs to read this: you’re going to get thru it. ik it sound impossible right now but u can do it! i did it, i can lay in bed, listen to this kind of music and not fall back into depression. feels really really weird that i can be happy, happy without that empty feeling inside (u know what i’m talking about) please please please believe in yourself! u can.
It's kinda weird to see all the meme pfp's and weird meme names saying the saddest shii
its always the people that are joking and smiling that are the most depressed
Shows great pros come with some greater cons being the funny guy,when you're sad at home. I hate the bully at my old school but I know he just receive attention at home. Love y'all
I found this comment on a different video and I think we could all use a read:
to everyone who is doing homework, leave the chat, breathe slowly, take a sip of water, and focus
to everyone who is trying to sleep, leave the chat, grab a blanket, and get the rest you deserve.
to everyone who is feeling sad, grab a snack, get some water, get a blanket, and write down your thoughts. when you're done, lay down, and get some rest, no matter the time.
to everyone who is drawing, you got this. you're art is amazing. keep your head up (or down, depends on where your paper is) and remember that you matter.
i love you all
thanks u;3
Thanks this is just what i needed too hear💜
I really needed this 😕❤
and to anybody who is numb to the pain by now and looking for a reason to cry, don’t babe. write it all out, and throw it in the trash. rip that paper darling. i love you and your worth it.
thx bro
Classmate: "Hey you ok?"
Me: "Im fine"
Все буде добре , я гарантую❤️! ( translate from Ukrainian )
ppl ask you?
@@harryh7906 ?
@@rik474 hug
Or you say:i‘m JUST tired...
I really don't see the point in staying here. No would really care, they'd get over it eventually. Why do i have to live in pain, but can't end it because id give the pain to someone else? I'm in too much pain to care about others. Ive tired being nice, tried to care, but where did that get me? No where. Fuck life man. Its a waste.
I was in the kitchen with my mom a couple days ago, I always try me best to be happy around her so she doenst have to worry. She told me 'It's great to see you happy. I'm glad you're okay' I literally cried the night before she said that. I just can't seem to open up to my family.
Friends? Yeah, sure I opneded up and what? I told them I self harm and that I don't want to eat anymore and they said mood, me too. For once could they just listen to me? I listen and help, but what about me? I need someone too. I always make sure they're okay, that they eat and don't harm themselves, but what about me? I feel so alone.
Edit: Okay wait hold up- yall are to nice oebdjejd
Thank you. Really, thank you. I've been struggling with myself more than usual lately. I've been relapsing alot, and just in a shitty mood. I wanna say thank you for you comments (and likes, I've never had this much bahha) as they really helped me. I hope that all of you that feel the same way I do will eventually find your happiness and someone you can open to. You guys our prescoius and don't let anyone tell ye otherwise. I hope that whatever is happening to you will eventually stop and you'll be okay. I know saying it's gonna be/get better is overused and people don't believe it. But eventually, maybe even in a decade, everything will be okay. Thank you everyone. And I just wanna say this if someone hasn't said this to you. You're beautiful. You're worth it. You're amazing. Don't ever leave. I love you.
Thank you, have a good day.
I relate to you ,it's not easy but we can't give up ,we have to prove to our selfs that we are strong and we have the strength to keep going. What we go through won't last forever ,nothing does so we need to cherish the good things in life. We must stay for those we care about ,we must not give in so quickly
I care bro 💯 it's this moments where the sad the suicidal gatta watch and take care of each other coz besides the world no one feels the same way we go through every day. And nothing lasts forever u gatta deal with the rain before you can c the rainbow
You still have stuff to live for you live and regret stuff spend as much time as you can with the people you love find something you love to do and try and make a career out of it doesn’t work? Don’t give up keep trying find people who care about you do stuff you love it’s okay many people go threw the same think some people live and care about you but don’t show it because they are also going threw the same problem get rid of the people in your life that make you feel unhappy tell them about it or just ditch them you don’t need people in your
Life that make you sad you will have a few years of deprsssion yeah but you need to push threw that I have improved a bit these last three years so I know you can do it it will all be okay!
Wat
Thing is,Your not alone.There is Billions of people that have the exact same situation as you,I am one of them and you are too.so dont feel alone,because sooner or later,it will get better.i promise!
its crazy how strangers in the comments section can be so nice and caring and understandable.... but real life?....
Full of heart destroyers shit
Does anyone else do this .... try to make there friends and family happy and act that they are fine and happy but when they are alone they cry and cry and wish everything was ok when its not.. or is that just me🙃I have lost so SO many people this year friends and family pets I can’t with life anymore ...
Wanna talk about it. Im usually the listener and advice person even though i cant follow it
Reading all the comments, makes me feel even sadder. Most of them I feel like I can relate to. But just know, that there's someone waiting for you, you just haven't found them yet. :) OR you can just say that you're FINE when you're not (WHICH IS SOMETHING THAT YOU SHOULD NOT DO).
Meditate for a while if you need it, maybe even take a brake. Even if you have to forget about that person, do it (possibly forgive and forget). We can get through life together if we all try. Just know that you are an AMAZING HUMAN BEING THAT IS BEAUTIFUL AND AWESOME!
Yeah it pretty morbid that most depressed people these days are so young (I am no exception).
@@soni3608 you are sooo right, a young child shouldn't have to go through anything except by living a happy life and actually having a fun childhood that they can remember :) So much has changed, it's just sad.
@Raemi Gemoets I can't say I know how you feel but, I am truly sorry for you loss :(. STAY STRONG! He's probably so proud of you! :,)
@Raemi Gemoets YW :) Hope you're doing fine.
Sometimes when I feel like crying I just laugh loudly to hide the pain as it prevents me from showing weakness
Same, it is my direct coping mechanism when I am with people, so this, woah, this hits me right in the hard.
Showing your emotions may make you more vulnerable, but it makes you feel better. Go see a therapist! Talk to a friend about it! If you have to, talk to somebody like you about it and make each other feel better.
I have this overwhelming heart break constantly. I don’t know how to fix it but I just feel so destroyed everyday.
Try to talk to someone about it, it doesn’t have to be family, maybe it will ease it, just keep fighting, you are worthy,
I feel you your strong I know you are please always try your best to push through it... I know it’s hard but you can overcome that and control it better... I pray for you...
Same
me :
just broke up
argues w mom every single day
struggle to focus on studies
passively suicidal & depressed
confuse wether I should be skinny or fat
confuse if I should try again or give up
this video : it's okay I'm here 🖤
I understand and relate 100 percent
@@screamingdawg1437 damn that's sucks, hope you get better soon , I believe in you 🖤
@@feafia3936 same 2 u
I'm not depressed, my life is great, i have supportive friends, but sometimes my heart just can't take all the fear I have of what people might think of me or my fears and phobias so sometimes I want to cry myself to sleep and just sleep forever bc I don't know how to make the fear stop. 🙂
That's me... I thought I was the only one. I'm glad I- found someone like me
Just tell the fears to stop not that hard to do
I feel so 2💜
Anybody else tired of liveing but is scared to die 😒
Me😔😔
Me too just keep strong
Pfp says it all
I’m not scared to die, I’m just waiting for my life to get better, everything will be okay, you’ll realize you’re worth it, and amazing in every way
when the feeling of hopelessness hits you hard but you cannot just go die because of the ones who love you so you try so hard to hold on... I hope you don't give up and finally have someone to listen to your problems... I hope you find happiness in the midst of your battle😊
I wish the people in the comments where my friends, they would be there for me...but in reality, my real friends just say they feel the same. But they don’t. I know they don’t... :,)
Stay strong,
Why i thinked that i am only one who have it same... my friend said that ,, I know what you feel cause I feel the same" but i really know that they dont feel the same like me they are really happy but I must just pretending that I'm happy....
Feel that
Don't worry.. my friend :)
@@zandrasalvador5441 ... :):
Does anyone else feel alone in a room full of people? Surely I'm not the only one to feel this pain, how do you accept yourself into a situation instead of distancing yourself with thoughts of depression.
How do you live in the moment.
My body feels tense all the time because I'm always in a fight or flight mode.
I hate my figure and I feel as though I'll never find love.
Thanks for coming to my Ted talks.
You’re not the only one. I always feel like people don’t like me and avoid me. It makes me feel like I’m alone..
Everything changes. It just takes time... In the mean time find something to express your feelings.I Express how I feel by playing games and doing sports. You dont have to tell anybody anything, you just have to find something you like or think will help you with your feelings.
this comforts me and calms me down, i've never been more afraid of my home. i'm always locking my door in fear of what might happen when i'm sleeping. i'm so scared.
having anxiety is like having a monster over your shoulder saying things into your ear non stop and when things get bad the voice gets louder and talks faster filling your head with thoughts
She was an amazing person. I ruined it by neglecting her. Now she's happier without me. Today is her birthday and I can't even greet her without looking desperate. I just miss her so much.
I’m so sorry
I put this on before I go to bed it reminds me how lonely life gets
its really sad that u dont hv any reason why u getting sad,and u even cant cry its so fckn hard
School is the one that gave me depression,anxiety and stress that’s why i am literally listening to this
its kinda nice seeing everyone comfort each other when were all in the same boat. It gives me a very slight sence of bliss knowing that people can come to these types of vids and vent and everyone will try to comfort the person. We're all strangers here and we care more than people that are actually in our lives..
Anyways
i Hope things get better for you guys, breaks my heart even more knowing how hard you guys struggle and no-one notices...
im sorry that you have to suffer.
And i hope it gets better for you guys.
Dont leave just yet, we'll miss you i know i will. I mean you'll never know if life gets better if you dont stick around right?
Things are hard, but after the storm theres a rainbow but also alot of rubble. It's not gonna be easy but you'll get to the rainbow, i promise.
Now go drink some water, try to eat something, blast some music if there is shouting, and try to get some rest, please. Love you
- a stranger online.
I JUST WANT A HUG is that so much to ask for ?!
Viral hug is send, stay strong,
And I want real friends I want people to care about me I want my anxiety to stop coming over me I want my anger issues to go away I want my depression to go away I want to end it all I want to die, but I can’t get that
@@mariahhh8491 stay strong, keep fighting, a viral hug is send to you ♡
And another viral hug from me
I want someone just one person to care is that to much to ask I guess so. people will never give a damn about anyone but themselves.
Hey you..
I dont know who you are but you should know that you wonderful and everything will be fine ily :)
And so are you, you are a wonderful person, stay strong,
Have u ever just lay there in bed not crying but making sure everyone else is ok before u sleep hehe same
Each and every night
Natasha Whitaker yeah everyone’s my first priority.
I stay up all night in RUclips comments trying to make people feel like they matter.
same, I can't sleep knowing they're not okay
“Your not a bad person for trying to kill your sadness”
I wish everyone could see it like that😁😢
I’m slowly becoming comfortable with the pain but I’m getting worse day bye day until I finally reach my deadline 🙂
i'm there if u need, i'll always be, u matter don't commit suicide ok bud?
Same
I really wish I had people to hangout with instead of being on my own. I wish I had a girl to share my heart with. Im on the edge of becoming terribly broken please help me.
hi how are you? 🥺
Hey im here to help u keep strong alright ?
@Chamille I appreciate your comment friend.
One of my many struggles are getting easier to see past and it seems my biggest struggle will begone by early next year and i can begin focusing 100% on myself
And i must say just these comments on my comment helps me really, it makes me feel noticed and less alone so i must say thank you:)
How are you feeling at this moment? :):
@@viktoria1341 im depressed so i guess not too good i feel like such a heavy burden
So yesterday I was in class and we are aloud to use our phones and I played this song and put on my beat headphones to finish some work and I started crying out of know where and my friend notice she took my headphones and looked at me and gave me the biggest hug ever then put some good ass music for me to listen then left to her seat then got in trouble for not being 6ft apart lol she is the best!!
@Lydia Ostrander
I wouldn’t really consider them your friends if they’re not gonna try and cheer you up. I hope you eventually find someone who will be there for you and help you get threw this life. Remember to stay strong, stranger!
i hope it's gud cause i never have a real hug b4
Suicide doesn't end the pain it just pass it to someone else
💔
That’s a good way to think about it.
Their problem now
This is the best way I've heard that someone thinked about suicide.
@@SFVMTV
Is it really worth it to be negative? I understand life makes it really hard to be positive, but it’s a lot better when you’re positive!
But if no one is there to begin with then suicide doesn't pass it to anyone I don't mean to be negative but I just idk nvm forget it ... I'm just I'm ready to say my goodbyes
Little Girl: What’s on your arm?
Me: They’re battle scars.
Little Girl: You fought in a war?
Me: Yeah. A long and hard one.
Little Girl: That’s so cool! Can I get one?
Me: No. Please do not ever get any. But I’ll tell you what. Whenever you see someone else with battle scars, I want you to hug them, okay? Can you promise me?
Little Girl: Yes. I promise.
A few days later we went on a short shopping spree. Suddenly the little girl let go of my hand and ran up to another random teenager.
Teen: Why are you hugging me?
Little Girl: Because... (*points*) you have battle scars just like my babysitter.
The teen looked up at me, and I rolled up my sleeves to show her.
With tears in her eyes, she said one thing to me...
Teen: My war is far from being finished yet, but I’m not done fighting.
She bends down at eye level with the little girl
Teen: Thanks for giving me the strength to keep fighting. You are forever my war hero
This is copied but it's such a good message I had to do it.
I'm sorry to anyone that has battle scars I hope this also gives you the strength to keep fighting YOU ARE WORTH IT I promise.
This is so good
Nice dude
I have one on my leg and my finger
When your best friend discovers your whole arm full of painful battle scars...hehe..heh heh don't worry...I'm being forced to take therapy right now and everybody keeps checking up on me so I'm fine...for now
This gives me some hope
When they ask me "Are you okay?" I always said "I'm great!" or "I'm good!", but no one really knows what I truly feel. It really hurts when you have to pretend all day, maybe I should just go to an anime where I could dream all day and never come back to the real world :)
Hey man you help me out
To everyone who wants to stop and give up:
Hold on.
Why?
It might feel like you don't have a lot but if you really do decide to let go then you'll really have nothing. You still have to keep going to live out your dreams; as wild as they may be. You still need to find the love of your life and go to sleep cuddling only to wake up with kisses. You still need to go sky diving or snorkeling in the ocean. You need to be a therapist for your friend when they need you and vice versa. You need to live to see your friends getting married. You need to make an embarrassing but emotional speech at their wedding for them. You need to see your children come to life and grow up. You need to stay to see your daughter become someone else's or to see your son find the only woman who can keep him in a tight leash.
Suicide doesn't only kill you. If you believe that God makes matches in heaven then when you give up you're essentially leaving your partner without anyone for them to love and hold, because you were the only one for them. If you decide to end it, you're not only ending yourself but also your future kids. We all have dreamt to grow up and have children right. If you kill yourself you're snatching the chance of life from those kids that were to be yours.
If I couldn't convince you with this then please lmk and I'll give you my snap. We will sit and chat about anything and everyting.
You matter you've just forgotten it for a little while. Let this be your reminder, please.
Hold on.
Thank You
this made me cry thank you it really did help but i dont have snap i have strict parents...
@@ghostshroom6958 it not matters, hold on and know you are not alone, we are there for you so don’t give up , never ! Glad you ;-)
Hi guys, I'm back and I decided to make a new snap and also a discord just so that I can talk to whoever would like to talk it out.
The snap is: hamna_convo
and the discord is: PrivateConvos
if u guys would ever like to talk then please add me on one of these two platform and we can talk about anything and everything.
Appreciate it, god bless you 🙏🏽 If you eve need to talk then doubt on hitting me up
I'm so done with college bruh. I don't even like this career not a single bit. I'm so done with everything. I'm tired too😪
I feel you. You will get through it. Stay strong love🖤
I had my first therapist apt today i did good so my dad took me to hot topic it made me so happy. Ive been realy drained recently, i had a fight with my mom as usual but it got really bad both my older brother and little brother were invovled and my older brother looked at me in my face and said “i spemt my hold life trying to be a father figure to you bcs dad was never there and now i have no friends and no one wants to be around me bcs you cant control yourself. I should havd never tried to help you. I wasted my whole life on trying tk be there for you“ my mom ended up sending me to live with my dad without my little brother wjo has been my best friend since he was born and i miss him so much. Wow i just spilled everything to these comment section ppl,, well i hope yall are doing ok i hope ot gets better. Blessed be ♡︎
I wish there would be a hot topic here in germany :D
I have seen a lot of broken people and see their pain and i just say are you okay?, may i sit with you. even though im a complete stranger i still love to help other peoples pain just a little bit because talking to them about makes my heart shine brighter more than it already was.
You do kind.
Do you mind if I vent.
Your skin isnt paper dont cut it.
your face isnt a mask dont hide it.
your body isnt plastic dont break it
your life isnt a movie dont end it.
I know life is hard but just remember i will always be there for anybody,doesnt matter what u did we are all just humans and make mistakes.Even when ur depressed remember u have alot of things other poeple dont have
Like:
a familly
friends
food
water
love
god protecting u
god loving u
so u see u have alot of things other poeple dont have, please dont be depressed it breaks my heart
remember there will always every night and day somebody on the world that thinks about u.
LUV ALL OF U!
This slaps❤️
Thank you ❤️❤️
@@naomijanssen4346 dont thank the things its free ❤ God bless you and your family and goodluck!
@@jasonforever1455 Like they wayy u live brother ! Keep up what you doing coz one day u will be at the top ! I promise you that!
@@sprayplaystv7611 God bless you, you are an amazing and wonderful person,
I wanna go asleep and never wake up .
It’s not worth it! I have an uncle who killed himself and I think about him everyday. Remember, there are people who care about you, even if they didn’t tell you!
Same.
same i want to die
Same dude
@@italianfatman it is, all you do in life is work
Man its so different to feel very depressed but don’t knowing why. My frends are behind me, my family loves me, i dont have a gf but i dont feel like i an single af. There is no reason but i am still sad and depressed
I feel the same, keep fighting man
Depression doesn’t care who you are. They will always put you down even if you are a lot fortunate than most.
this is exactly how i feel
same with this stupid boy
This song hit diff:(
For the people who r crying to this or feel worthless just know you are beautiful/handsome and don't give up keep trying. I hope you had a great day/night stay safe. And relax. Do something you love, be yourself, be yourself no matter what anyone says. ilyyyy:)
is it just me or whenever someone asks you if your okay do you just feel like crying so fckin bad because you know that you ain't ok one little bit
just me? okay then
Wanna talk about it
I've read ALL the comments and I....im sry we've all been thru it and it just..........I can't explain it but you know
I know many of you need to hear this rn.
IM PROUD OF YOU.
I LOVE YOU.
YOUR DOING SO GREAT.
YOUR WORTH SO GOD DAMN MUCH.
Why would you care?
@@ennokravchenko7307 why wouldn’t I?
Thank you. I needed this.
Hey, random stranger here!
When was the last time you drank some water? Have you eaten anything? Have you been taking your medication? How much have you slept lately?
Do you need a hug?
Have you told someone about your problems? Don't worry, I'm here for you. You can vent to me.
You're valid.
You're loved.
You're amazing.
I'm proud of you. ❤️
You ever lived off pasta and ketchup for every meal, 4 weeks straight. Because you have a shitty job and you are barely able to stay afloat when it comes to rent
A nice little reminder of rock bottom adulthood
@@SFVMTV Hey, I'm sorry your situation isnt as ideal as wanted. I can see you're tired of it, and it's okay to be! I believe that we should look on the brighter side of things (I sound cheesy, I know). You're still here. You're still breathing, yes? I'm glad you're here. Please take whatever measures you need to stay grounded, but remember that suicide and self harm shouldn't be the first things that come to mind. I hope you have a much better day than you did yesterday or today. 🥺❤️💖💖💕💕💕❤️❤️❤️💖💕✨
It's like my heart is beating and I'm alive but I feel like I'm already dead. At this point, I'm not living, I'm existing. I'm numb
Everyone says they will be there for you when you're not felling good right now I am crying the shit out of me none of my friends are responding to my texts or my calls :')
everything will be okay brother stay strong dont give up good times will come soon after the rain there is rainbow shit happend but fuck it good luck brother i feel you homie👋🤲💪
it's like you're in a very crowded place but you feel like you're all alone and that the world is against you:)
Mom “Markell you ok “
Me “I’m ok” in my head so much pain and depression.
Someone help me
Only 2 people in my life that understand me and they aren’t my parents.
eveything will be so fine dear, you doing great. keep it up, keep your head up. stay positive
Your perfect no need to change anything about yourself be happy get rid of the bad people even if that’s almost everyone it’s not healthy to be around toxic people so don’t worry if you need to cry just let it all out it’ll get better
At least you got people that understand.. I can’t speak to no one.. they all think I’m pretending and they get angry when I’m sad..
Look on the bright side, you have people that understand! Try to think positively. It makes you feel better!
Everyone thinks I’m ok. Im not.
Please don’t give up on life, let the pain make you grow in the most beautiful person you can be, inside and outside. Keep fighting,
@@naomijanssen4346 thank you literally you are the only person who has said anything to me like this❤️ I can’t believe people like you in the comments can be so nice and caring✊
@@nolife4996 we all deserve support and caring people in the world, and honestly the likes and comments make taking the time to read and comment it worth it, next to the fact that you might be able to help someone. And besides you fully deserved it, sending love your way,
@@naomijanssen4346 your the best❤️
hey idk your pronouns but hang in there youve heard a million times you’re stronger than you think i’m sure, but if you really wanna stay strong for someone, the entire comment section is here for u ❤️❤️💔💔
"The mirror is my best friend because when I cry it doesn't laugh"... - Charlie Chaplin
ruclips.net/video/asqIPnHt93M/видео.html
very sad song, 🧡💔
You're not a normal person u are a super hero, super hero for pretending that's everything is fine, for smiling instead of crying in front of all of them, for pretending u are strong in public but not in your room, for helping each and every soul. God won't forget every single good thing u did, every time u cried and died inside these bad days are keys for a wonderful life for u in future, remember life is not always down its up and down tomorrow is better keep fighting my hero for sure you will win
Most important thing smile try to forget and forgive 🖤
“Hey” “Hey” “Stay with me forever?” “Hell yeah!”
*It was a beautiful lie, I’ll admit. Guess forever is just temporarily, right?*
ruclips.net/video/asqIPnHt93M/видео.html
very sad song, 🧡💔
It's songs like these that help me cope with my depression
I'm so used to pretend being fine that it sometimes feel like I can't cry anymore.
It's like drowning while something is pulling u under the water and people are shouting at u to swim up
i'm there if u need, i'll always be
I'm here because my family crushed my dreams of becoming a film director. They even told me that it wasn't a good idea to become one and they suggested that I study to become a lawyer or doctor or engineer. I wanted to become a film maker because that is what I love. But on the other hand, I don't want to disappoint them.
Just want you to know be what you want to be u got this I believe you will make ur parents happy with what YOU choose to do they just don’t know it yet
Tell me how everyone wants me to be happy and basically be their pushover but they can't even give me a hug and tell me everything will be alright...
Please tell me how I need it...
Also if you need to talk I'm here I bet I can relate🙃💔
Do u ever just sleep all the time and still now get enough 😅 me everyday
My day routine: wake up, go to school, eat sleep and repeat
Wanna talk about it? Ur story sounds so relatable to me
I have never wanted to jump through a screen and hug a person more
Remember this
You matter
Don't be a pushover fight for what you want
I would happily give you hug if we met in real life
I have prepared answers to the questions "are you okay" "how are you" "you seem upset whats up?".
I am always fine. Most times im lying.
Wanna talk about it?
@@italianfatman im slowly getting through it but thanks for the offer.
❗PLS READ❗
If you have Instagram, you could tell me your nickname, so you could talk to me. If you don't want to talk, just tell me. If you don't want to, we won't keep in touch. Just tell me abt your feelings. I'm just a regular girl, so I don't think I could help you that much. I'm supporting things, that need to be normalized (LGBTQ+, Religion etc.) Just tell me, I will listen to you, maybe I could help you. You don't have to be embarrassed abt anything. I'll just listen, nothing more if you don't want to.
I miss the happy feeling that floods through my chest, but I'm fine right?
My life is the sadness... but this music is so good !!! They help me! So, thank you for posting this mix !
Being depressed (at least to me) is like being the only person without an umbrella when it’s pouring. Or, if anyone else back in like elementary school had to walk home because your parents were still at work and everyone else’s parents came and picked them up, and they were always so excited, but you had to walk home alone and watch them smile with their parents.
ruclips.net/video/asqIPnHt93M/видео.html
very sad song, 🧡💔
care for the people you love. Check in with them, listen to them, support them because they might be gone sooner than you think. Nobody every did that for me and I want others to learn how words can effect a person.
Hope you are in a better place now,
I tried, but I should've tried harder. Or my friend might still be here with us...
There's always be a pain
U must
Be NUMB 🥀
Stay strong,
The fact that it barely started and I’m already crying. Life is hard but yk we can get through it if we keep on fighting I still have a long way to go but I think we can get through this stage no..I don’t think it I know it just...Stay strong.
Hey things get better i promise u are beautiful ok dont give up i lost my sister she was so beautiful i didnt realize how much she was hurting she put on a fake smile to make every one else happy its her birthday today♥️
Been dealing with depression ever since I was 13. I am now 20, about to be 21. My first word as a baby was no..but truly the word that I ever say perfectly now is that I am fine. I always feel like a bother even tho I will always be there for family and my friend.
being alone does not help. And I even feel not even good enough for my bf..but I break in two if I ever thought of him leaving...because I truly love him. I just struggle with sadness and I hate it. I just want to be happy and stay that way but for how things are in my family that's not really gonna be that way for long. Many people may not truly care what I type here on youtube for this comment...but hey I say screw it and will post this here for my closure.
Sometimes it takes longer than you think until you stop hurting.
Depression is NOT real !
you might FEEL depressed but that's basically your body/mind telling you that there is something about your life you need to change.
you feel depressed probably cause you lead a depressing life !! anybody would probably be depressed in your situation;
i hear people on the internet say "i am depressed that's why i am lonely '' or..
"i am depressed that's why i am fat" or...
"I am depressed that's why i am broke"
NO !!!!! IN REALITY It's the otherway around !!!!
>you are lonely, that's why you are depressed <
>you are fat , that's why you are depressed <
>you are broke, that's why you are depressed <
The GOOD news is that ,this ''depressed" state is NOT a fatality.
Now ,knowing all this , all you need to do is find the root problem and take action into solving it.
No need to pop pills! (phamaceutical companies feed off of "depressed" people who believe they need to take a miracle pill/drug to solve all the problems in their lives ) it all comes down to mindset.
So for exemple, if you 're fat, go to the gym and lose the weight. it's not gonna be easy !
But in life, nothing that is worthwhile is acquired easily.
it always takes effort and discipline and sacrifice.
But in the end you'll feel much better about yourself, and much less "depressed", because you finally ACHIEVED something.
Happiness is not deserved ,it is EARNED.
it is earned through achieving the goals that you've set for yourself.
These goals may range from building a family with a loving wife, to losing weight, or landing your dream job, or becoming succesful, or having more friends. but all theses require to take action!
Nothing good comes by accident. no one gets what he wants by accident.
A lot of our self-esteem is devired from our ACHIEVEMENTS (they could be anything ,little or big) especialy as a MAN!!
these days depression is been used as an one -size-fit-all excuse for not achieving anything and/or not doing shit!!
"OOH i couldn't study for my exam because i'am depressed"
"OOH can't go to the gym because i am depressed"
"OOH I can't go out because i am depressed "
"OH I can't do this or that , because i am depressed ''
THATS BULLSHIT !!!!
when you blame everything on depression ,you're essentialy saying that you've given up control overr your own life, and that you're not in controle of your own destiny anymore.
And that's the saddest part in my opinion.
A lot of this comes down (again) to your mindset .
REMEMBER , your mind works for you !
if you constantly tell yourself that you are depressed , you mind will come up with all the reasons why you should be depressed. And there goes the vicious cycle !
I HOPE THIS HELPS YOU BUDDY!!!!
HERE ARE SOME OTHER RESOURCES THAT I RECOMMEND FOR YOU :
> ruclips.net/video/lsKf9abQvFQ/видео.html
> how to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie
> the magic of thinking big by David J. Schwartz (chapter 6: You Are What You Think You Are)
> ruclips.net/video/qVsa-j7Ig_w/видео.html
every time I listen to depressed songs it makes me think about my ex because she was the one who hurt me last and I don't know what the fuck to do without her and I won't let go of her even though she has already left me and every day I have a mask that I makes you smile alone but on the other side of the mask there is my broken heart a thousand cries a thousand disappointments a thousand pieces on which I do not know where to follow. I have two options, one to find love or to be depressed and not notice it. I don't want to write a poem about love now, for those who read my comment maybe the kids will understand what it means to be left and to be abandoned. )=
I hope your heart heals and that you will fall deeply in love with yourself and somebody who will never give up on you.
Depression is NOT real !
you might FEEL depressed but that's basically your body/mind telling you that there is something about your life you need to change.
you feel depressed probably cause you lead a depressing life !! anybody would probably be depressed in your situation;
i hear people on the internet say "i am depressed that's why i am lonely '' or..
"i am depressed that's why i am fat" or...
"I am depressed that's why i am broke"
NO !!!!! IN REALITY It's the otherway around !!!!
>you are lonely, that's why you are depressed <
>you are fat , that's why you are depressed <
>you are broke, that's why you are depressed <
The GOOD news is that ,this ''depressed" state is NOT a fatality.
Now ,knowing all this , all you need to do is find the root problem and take action into solving it.
No need to pop pills! (phamaceutical companies feed off of "depressed" people who believe they need to take a miracle pill/drug to solve all the problems in their lives ) it all comes down to mindset.
So for exemple, if you 're fat, go to the gym and lose the weight. it's not gonna be easy !
But in life, nothing that is worthwhile is acquired easily.
it always takes effort and discipline and sacrifice.
But in the end you'll feel much better about yourself, and much less "depressed", because you finally ACHIEVED something.
Happiness is not deserved ,it is EARNED.
it is earned through achieving the goals that you've set for yourself.
These goals may range from building a family with a loving wife, to losing weight, or landing your dream job, or becoming succesful, or having more friends. but all theses require to take action!
Nothing good comes by accident. no one gets what he wants by accident.
A lot of our self-esteem is devired from our ACHIEVEMENTS (they could be anything ,little or big) especialy as a MAN!!
these days depression is been used as an one -size-fit-all excuse for not achieving anything and/or not doing shit!!
"OOH i couldn't study for my exam because i'am depressed"
"OOH can't go to the gym because i am depressed"
"OOH I can't go out because i am depressed "
"OH I can't do this or that , because i am depressed ''
THATS BULLSHIT !!!!
when you blame everything on depression ,you're essentialy saying that you've given up control overr your own life, and that you're not in controle of your own destiny anymore.
And that's the saddest part in my opinion.
A lot of this comes down (again) to your mindset .
REMEMBER , your mind works for you !
if you constantly tell yourself that you are depressed , you mind will come up with all the reasons why you should be depressed. And there goes the vicious cycle !
I HOPE THIS HELPS YOU BUDDY!!!!
HERE ARE SOME OTHER RESOURCES THAT I RECOMMEND FOR YOU :
> ruclips.net/video/lsKf9abQvFQ/видео.html
> how to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie
> the magic of thinking big by David J. Schwartz (chapter 6: You Are What You Think You Are)
> ruclips.net/video/qVsa-j7Ig_w/видео.html
Damn, why do I always go back to the toxic people in my life.
All the people i care about, just left me. Even though it hurts and i miss them all af.
I don't want them back in my life
Me too, saw it coming but still hurts...
I’ve been dissociating for a couple days straight now, honestly I thought I was better! I haven’t felt this depressed in a few years but here I am... dissociating, not eating, not sleeping, crying in class, dropping grades, considering self harm even though I’ll be clean for two years next month... it’s been a week and I haven’t eaten... I’m usually asleep by 10 pm but it’s 3 am... I wish I stayed happy, I felt like I had everything together but now it’s all gone
its so hard to keep living but you stay for your friends and soon after you realize they never cared, they didnt want to feel guilty and never realized how much pain you are really in. somedays you sit in your mirror and wonder whats wrong with you, how are people so happy and you realized that they never gotten hurt as much as you. As you sit and cry on call with friends or s/o theyll never know cause you try to hide it.
I always have to be there for someone, but everyone forgets to be there for me when I need them.
dad: are u ok? u look sad
me: yes i'm ok
dad: ok
me in the inside: T-T
I wish I could feel better... :)
One day you will, stay strong till that time comes, life is beautiful,
It's ok that you are hurting cause most of us are there with you. You may not know us but we are here for you and no matter what happens just know you tried your best and we understand that. We know you can do it and you can hang on. You may be in bad times now but know that it will get better and you can do it! If you ever need someone we are here for you!