Cinnamon rolls take hours to make. You have to let them rise twice, an hour each time. And she made two pans, one for a coworker's family that experienced a tragedy. I'd be friggin pissed off because I dedicated hours to make something special for someone I cared about and the inconsiderate teenager who's been stealing from me ate my hard work after I told her "no." Shoot, I'd change the locks too if my husband wasn't doing much about it.
I know right?! The wife made the cinnamon rolls from scratch! And he had the nerve to say he'll "replace" them from store-bought cinnamon rolls. Bruh, homemade cinnamon rolls and store-bought cinnamon rolls are completely different. All store bought cinnamon rolls I've had tastes too sweet or too dry.
As someone who has made cinammon rols from scratch recently, yes, all of this. Screw the sister. Have her and all her cunty little friends make them from scratch to replace what was taken.
The woman in the first story has some growing up to do. A 14-year-old called you a "bigger woman"- not fat- and clearly showed regret afterwards. She's acting even worse than the daughter's friend.
My take is that she probably has insecurities about her body, but she is indeed being petty, she could tell the girl in the moment that she should be careful when making a comment on people's appearances.
Mom- *Thinks her child has autism just because she's an introvert* Also mom- *banishes one of her child's friends for acknowledging something she can actually change*
I would guess it’s not much about what her daughter’s friend said but more about her concern of what this friend will think she can do if the girl things she can shame her. Even though that wasn’t how it was meant to be taken, that’s probably how it’s viewed.
Oh I believe in that update, OP let his wife choose his sister's punishment and he tagged along to see what she planned. Turns out the cinnamon rolls were for her coworker's family as their, I think, youngest daughter was going through cancer. The sister realizes how bad her actions truly were but I don't remember anything else on that update.
Yeah no, perfume bottles are first of all very expensive, relatively large and, you spray it and then you set it back on the counter/ vanity (wherever u keep them) she’s absolutely stealing the stuff or one of her friends are!
The first story; The mom's definitely the asshole. She herself made a whole paragraph on how her own daughter struggles with socializing, yet couldn't grapple how this was probably another 14 year old that's struggling a little bit to communicate? And the fact she got so insulted over it that she's really so petty to let it stay until months after? She's actually beefing with a 14 year old??? That's just sad. Edit: I'm really glad I wasn't the only one who thought that the friend was probably also just as socially awkward as that kid. The second story; The husband's _definitely_ the asshole. I know she's your sister but you'll just casually disregard the thought that she could've been stealing, or at least her friends could've been stealing, because you just 'don't see her doing that?' Yeah you've grown up with her, but you're not with her all the time, aren't you? And he mentioned that his sister could still actually be in school while he has to go to work, so their relationship would likely diminish enough to have room for skeletons to be hid in the closet. And I would've been so god damned upset if they ate the second batch of cinnamon rolls that I made from _scratch._ The fact she made it from scratch is proof that she was genuinely invested in it, and that it was meaningful to her. So for them to just disregard her wishes and for the husband to have the audacity to propose having to buy store bought ones (seems like an exaggeration, even I think this, but in the moment this would've been my honest feelings) would've made me so upset. Edit 2: Okay, I'm glad that the husband does seem to take in the criticisms and can finally say no to the sister. Some character development there. Really shows you how powerful cinnamon rolls are.
I think there should have been a clear line of communication on the 2nd story, the husband shoulda contacted his sister and told her that many of their personal things started to go missing since she and her friends started to visit, he can tell her that if it keeps happening that he will stop her friends from visiting at the very least I wouldn't blame my sister but I don't know her friends.
In the 2nd story, the wife made the second set of cinnamon rolls to give to a co-worker experiencing a tragedy. Those cinnamon rolls were meant to be given to someone to make their day better. That was why the wife said no to the husband's sister. But his sister and her friends ate it anyway. That shows that they had no respect for the wife and took the allowance to crash at their place as granted. The husband suggesting that they should buy store brought ones is disheartening to say the least. What I like about the 2nd story is unlike most of the AITA OPs, this OP actually realized his mistake and made it up to his wife.
He did describe his sister as sweet at the beginning so I'm not really surprised his bias ("she would never do that!") made him blind toward all the issues lol.
If I recall this correctly, the cinnamon rolls were for a dying child. I remember seeing this post on RSlash's channel some time ago. Though, I gotta say, this dude's wife has patience. If I would have been in her situation, I would have gone ballistic on the sister and the husband. This guy has no backbone whatsoever.
They cut the video before getting to the part where op reveals that the cinnamon rolls were for his wife's co-worker's child who was in the final stages of cancer, and op's sister also stole his wife's grandmother's ring.
In the second story, the Mom was for sure in the right. The husband tried to avoid the conflict by replacing the missing items, but the problem was that it would happen repeatedly. And then they asked if they could have the second pan of cinnamon rolls, and she said no but disrespectfully ate the second pan.
Exactly. I just think the husband's ridiculous and I would never put up with that. I hope the 17 yr old sister realizes one day that she could have completely ruined her big brothers marriage.
I was grinding my teeth over the cinnamon rolls, it's not just cinnamon rolls it's one of them doughs that takes literal hours to make. That commenter is a genius
Why is he so involved in his sister’s life though? The mom and the sister asking him to pay for stuff is very strange. It’s almost like he’s raising the sister as his daughter and both his mom and sister are taking advantage of him. If him and his wife are really that involved in the sister’s life it makes her behavior like 10 times worse
I can’t believe the dude in the second one is putting his sister before his wife. When you are married, your wife and your children come before anyone else
There are two types of AITA posts. -Am I the asshole for asking my son to clean his room one time? And: -Am I the asshole for blowing up the entirety of China because someone called me obese?
The first one reminds me of something that happened when I was a kid, basically my friends and I would sometimes try to pick each other up. Typically it was me and one other friend who could be picked up, since we were both pretty small and the other two were both taller (older) and also overweight. At the time, I was slightly taller than the other small friend, as well as a bit stronger, so I could carry her with ease and she could barely lift me at all. But one time, with her catching up in height, when I picked her up it was a little bit more difficult, so I offhand made a comment like "You've gotten a little heavier" I didn't mean fat at all, I meant it as a literal observation because she was TALLER relative to me. But she got upset, and I was so embarrassed when I realized what I accidentally said that I basically broke down sobbing while trying to explain what I meant (I have autism and back then my social anxiety was so severe that any social blunder would make me break down)
1st one: the mom's holding a grudge against a 14yo. If you can't handle this level of "offense", which clearly wasn't the intention, then there's little to say in your defense. Sounds like a classic case of Karen behavior 2nd one: dude, small items are absolutely enough reason to at least check in with you sister and friends. damn, just the trail of mess would be grounds for some serious talk. changing the locks is clearly a breach of trust, and considering wife was at the gym when the cinnamon roll incident happened, that was probably a treat after working out. Maybe she was on a strict diet and that was her one monthly exception (probably compensated with a few extra minutes on the treadmill). Yes, they could get some more on a shop, but she made those, it's the principle that counts
The cinnamon rolls were for a dying child. They didn’t read that part. By no means were they entitled to eat the second tray, considering the wife had already been kind enough to bake them a separate one as well.
Those items were stolen even if the husband asked the sister and she said no. If you live in a house with only your wife, items rarely get lost. If you have a bunch of kids and/or pets, then items will go missing or they are misplaced. Since it sounds like in the story, this couple didn't have kids or pets. Most likely those items were stolen. Maybe it wasn't always the sister stealing things, but her friends could have also stolen things. Obviously, they'll only steal small things because it's less noticeable.
Considering the wife hates mess I doubt she misplaced perfume. Perfume is expensive and you usually place them in a special cabinet. Same with clothing if you do the laundry, you’ll be sure when something goes poof. Sis got no respect at all.
I feel so bad for the daughter like, if the friend didn't bring it up again why do you want to embarrass her by coming back on this She'll never want to go to your house again it's just sad
to the first one, in Italy (and many other countries), being typically "Chubby" is "looking well", so it might be a compliment to the husband and the mother.
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No random person that you can't trust 100% should have physical access to your home. Wife is absolutely justified. I have a friend who had his wife literally murdered in their home two days ago by a couple of people who had a key from a family member that shouldn't have had access.
First story, it was meant as a compliment. Not a good compliment in the wrong circles, but still one. "Your husband's food is SO GOOD, no WONDER you're [fat]" A compliment to your husband's cooking, being so good that of course you'd eat it and end up not exactly "thin". It's a compliment. Just take it.
Thank you!!! That first commenter's question was exactly what was going through my head. This girl is probably also socially awkward and realized too late she said something she shouldn't have and was embarrassed. I'd have to imagine she hasn't been over for months because she was afraid of the mom still being mad at her, which sadly she is. From one mom to another let it go. This is far from the last dumb thing the daughter or her friends are gonna do around you. If you get this butt hurt over a comment it's only gonna get worse from here. I get feeling bad but put into perspective that it was a child that did this not an adult. Her brain is not anywhere near fully developed yet and has a good amount of growing up to do.
If my husband's sister disrespected me in my home like that she would be lucky if she was allowed back into it. My home is my solace. I work very hard to give my husband a well tended, clean well run home. It's not ok to disrespect me in it or it will no longer be so well run.
maybe it's the mother that is the problem with the social awkardness. maybe the child doesn't have the problem. maybe she doesn't have friends because the mother chases them away.
With the second story I think that the person who was stealing the items wasn’t the sister it was the sisters friends. The husband didn’t mention how many friends the sister brought over I’m guessing 3 or 4 and if that’s the case then maybe one of the sisters friends might have stolen some clothes from the wife’s closet. If not all the sisters friends might have been stealing clothes from the wife’s closet and just never told the sister.
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For the first one the mom is in the wrong. If the girl said she was a fat ass or insulted her instead of saying bigger woman I could understand. For the second one the husband is definitely in the wrong. His wife set a boundary and him and his sister keeps breaking it and can't imagine making some delicious cinnamon rolls from scratch, going to the gym and looking forward to coming home to a nice snack just for someone to have eaten them even tho I already had shared an entire tray
Especially when you're talking about your super awkward daughter and her super young friend. Do you not think that the friend is probably awkward too? Be an adult.
5:16 you see the joke the mind you 14 year old girl made was that oh the food is so good that you would want to eat a lot and that’s why your on the bigger side. It obviously didn’t land and in normal situations I think it would deserve an apology. But in situations where as she pointed out her own 14 year old daughter didn’t have many friends let alone any for a while I think you should let it slide. She was the a hole.
First Story: I don't know if this is one of those culture things. Where I live we don't take this seriously unless you're of legal age. I have a lot on my hips myself and have been asked by children "why are you so fat?" Whenever I'm having a bad day, I crack jokes like, "Because I eat little kids who ask too many questions:". At no time did I ever feel attacked or insulted by anything like that. An adult who is so offended by a clumsy compliment from a child that he bans what appears to be his daughter's first friend is not an adult. The husband tried to laugh it away? Was the food awkward? Seems like this woman has severe self esteem issues and this family is well aware of that. Second Story: Omg... I can understand the woman well. It has something to do with respect and trust. People who enter my apartment, my home, my four walls, my sanctuary, my sanctuary, my center of life, have to respect my belongings and follow my rules (as long as they are reasonable). Anyone who can't do that has no business with me. Now, to seem to have no control over it and be at the mercy of such people... it would piss me off and make me uncomfortable in my own apartment. The husband really messed things up here. You can't come and say "yeah, I'll replace that". This isn't about the cinnamon rolls. There is a serious breach of trust here. It's a good thing he showed some sense at least in the end.
Also bringing it back to the Cinnamon Rolls I feel like the 1st and was just for the husband and wife and the sister and her friends just dropped by unannounced and started eating them.
Coming from someone that has made cinnamon rolls from scratch, that sh!t is a pain!!!! Its an almost all day event to make since they have to rise twice. Changing the locks was a bit extreme but the disrespect of eating the cinnamon rolls when they already ate 1 tray and were told no when they asked to eat the second is just evil. Especially seeing the Wife made those for a grieving family. The husband is definitely TA as well as the sister and her friends.
if i had an older brother who had a house with a pool that me and my friends could access i would be very grateful and i wouldn’t be eating their food at all or overstepping my welcome
As a fat woman myself, that's not social and scared of confrontation, I find it funny. If she said it to me, I would have said something like "Yeah lifegoals. Ya jelly? :p".
I have my own story AITA for blocking my toxic online friend after we've been through many bad arguments? This all started about a year ago. We've been friends for about four years. We play Rocket league and Fortnite and we have about the same skill in both games. In this month we've been arguing alot and I felt bad after I got off which wasn't normal since I'm normally chill and don't take things seriously. We we're on Fortnite when I blocked him. We we're playing with his friend and I kept 'playing the game wrong' (overbuilding, 3rd partying, and spraying/spamming) then I left the creative match and they we're saying I was rage quitting and calling me bad. Then I blocked him and left. I got tired of him being disrespectful for a while, it was longer than a month, and I did tell him how I felt but he didn't change or care. After a while (I didn't block/unadd his friend) his friend told me to play with him and he misses you. Since this exact scenario has happened many times, I finaly said no. AITA for blocking my toxic friend after we've been through many bad arguments?
The first one the lady needs to grow up! My friends’ friend is younger than me 14-16 (I’m 18) and I don’t expect them to be openly nice to me they’re a kid rn going through stuff! They’ve matured a bit and became more honest with their feelings which I think is great but I’m not gonna act surprised if they snap or anything and I’m most certainly not going to play the insulting game and be butt hurt about stuff. My point is, if kids are jerks to you and you’re an adult don’t take it personally and BE the adult chances are they just want to be funny and don’t know how to be without roasting someone. 🙄
In the second story i would understand the wife being angry abouthe the clothes and parfumes if her clothes and perfumes that went missing were like rlly expensive. + the cinnamon rolls is just a horrible crime.
What's the age cutoff for her? if a 5-year-old said something like that, would she also demand an apology? GROW TF UP!!! she's a kid that doesn't have a trigger filter for the sensitive mature adult, yet... and you're worry about your child's social skills, if anything suck it up for that.
i've seen the second story read before on another channel and iirc the second pan of cinnamon rolls were for the wife's co-worker whose kid had cancer ....
Ok to the husband in the second story. Your wife didn't go behind your back to change the locks. She told you her concerns multiple times about the house being trashed and things going missing and you did NOTHING. No punishment to the sister and friends. If I were her I would have felt like you didn't care about what I felt and it's HER house too and she deserves to feel respected in her own home. Not saying just automatically accuse the sister and friends of theft but clearly they left the house a mess and didn't care. At that point I'd be telling them not to come back until they learn some manners. You just wanted to play good big brother and you lost. Your wife gave you the new key and said no one else should be home without one of you there. Even if your mom was there to supervise that's not good enough. You broke her trust. You suck. Do better or be prepared to lose your wife.
Nah fuck that accuse the sister outright cus everything that happened is the disrespect of the sister and the friends, I'd never let them come over ever again
i don't get why people get so offended by things that are just true, for example being fat/skinny, tall/short etc. i have my whole life been tall and skinny, when people call me a "stick" or a "tree" i generally am not offended, at least not to the point of kicking them out of my house and never allowing myself to see that person again, unlike the queen of the first post that should never be offended ever by anyone
as an almost 30-yr old sister to a 13-yr old boy - that friend's intentions were definitely not ill in any way, come on, they are not exactly perfect at conversations at that age. i would understand the reaction if it was a grown ass adult, but a teenager?
I hate it when people put their siblings/friends wants over their partners comfort. My boyfriend doesn’t think he needs to ask if his siblings can come over he just invites them but doesn’t like it if I bring my sister over without telling him and he doesn’t think his sister needs to ask if she can use my pads before just taking them so she doesn’t need to go to the store and doesn’t think he should have to get me drink while getting himself one if I want or need one but has no problem getting his sister a drink and he doesn’t wanna go to the store with me but me food or cook for me but is fine doing all those with and for her just being like ‘she’s little sister’ like yeah well I’m your girlfriend why do I get less respect than her when you expect me to birth your children and not her
It's actually possible that the "bigger woman" comment was a cultural difference so I wish we had more info. There are some cultures where it's completely acceptable to say things that most of the rest of the world understands are actually extremely rude. It's definitely a gray area when a child says something that is definitely rude but is NOT said with ill intent within their own culture. Would it be better if they understood how things they say will be perceived? Of course, but not everybody's parents are looking out for them like that. There are also just people who have very very poorly behaved parents and they don't actually pick up on that until they reach an age where they automatically begin to compare other families they spend time with to their own.
The first one the wife is definitely the asshole. The second one the husband is not the asshole, but just pure and simply wrong. He is showing way too much bias towards his sister, especially early on treating her as one who can do no wrong. When anyone can have their wrongdoings. His sister is clearly not the same person he thought he knew before. Heart in the right place, mind in the wrong place. He wants to make both of them happy and be a mediator between them. When sometimes if someone is wrong, you just gotta call it as it is and accept it.
first story: its like ppl forget the saying "fat an happy" not everything is an insult. If i was in that situation i'd be offended at first but i would still play it off as a joke gone wrong. Especially since in some house holds, being called fat/ bigger is a complement and a sign of good health like u said. She also was complimenting op's husbands cooking but basically saying "its so good that i would become fat since i could eat this delicious food non stop" the fact op is this sensitive despite being a grown ah woman with a child is ridiculous. Does she yell at other kids too if they call her fat? My own siblings have called me fat before but their like 5 and didnt mean it in a bad way lol, my dad just has bomb ah cooking and i eat that ish until my stomach hurts next story: bro i can barely finish 1 cinnamon roll cuz of how sugary it is, how tf did they eat 2 pans ffs
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Cinnamon rolls take hours to make. You have to let them rise twice, an hour each time. And she made two pans, one for a coworker's family that experienced a tragedy. I'd be friggin pissed off because I dedicated hours to make something special for someone I cared about and the inconsiderate teenager who's been stealing from me ate my hard work after I told her "no." Shoot, I'd change the locks too if my husband wasn't doing much about it.
I know right?! The wife made the cinnamon rolls from scratch! And he had the nerve to say he'll "replace" them from store-bought cinnamon rolls. Bruh, homemade cinnamon rolls and store-bought cinnamon rolls are completely different. All store bought cinnamon rolls I've had tastes too sweet or too dry.
As someone who has made cinammon rols from scratch recently, yes, all of this. Screw the sister. Have her and all her cunty little friends make them from scratch to replace what was taken.
The woman in the first story has some growing up to do. A 14-year-old called you a "bigger woman"- not fat- and clearly showed regret afterwards. She's acting even worse than the daughter's friend.
My take is that she probably has insecurities about her body, but she is indeed being petty, she could tell the girl in the moment that she should be careful when making a comment on people's appearances.
I would actually laugh so hard when a kid would say that to me 😂
It is absolutely shameful for that lady to be acting that way towards a 14 yr old in such a normal situation, the kid didn't even insult her
Even if a kid calls you fat you definitely don't blow up on them. Work with kids and they can be honest, just tell them it's not nice.
@@chichichichichichiOwO exactly
Mom- *Thinks her child has autism just because she's an introvert*
Also mom- *banishes one of her child's friends for acknowledging something she can actually change*
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I would guess it’s not much about what her daughter’s friend said but more about her concern of what this friend will think she can do if the girl things she can shame her.
Even though that wasn’t how it was meant to be taken, that’s probably how it’s viewed.
The second story had an update where it turns out the wife was right all along and the sister had been stealing. I don't remember the outcome.
Oh I believe in that update, OP let his wife choose his sister's punishment and he tagged along to see what she planned. Turns out the cinnamon rolls were for her coworker's family as their, I think, youngest daughter was going through cancer. The sister realizes how bad her actions truly were but I don't remember anything else on that update.
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Yeah no, perfume bottles are first of all very expensive, relatively large and, you spray it and then you set it back on the counter/ vanity (wherever u keep them) she’s absolutely stealing the stuff or one of her friends are!
this was what I was thinking! Most decently good perfume bottles can very easily cost over 100 dollars so that's in no way a "small item" to lose.
The first story; The mom's definitely the asshole. She herself made a whole paragraph on how her own daughter struggles with socializing, yet couldn't grapple how this was probably another 14 year old that's struggling a little bit to communicate? And the fact she got so insulted over it that she's really so petty to let it stay until months after? She's actually beefing with a 14 year old??? That's just sad.
Edit: I'm really glad I wasn't the only one who thought that the friend was probably also just as socially awkward as that kid.
The second story; The husband's _definitely_ the asshole. I know she's your sister but you'll just casually disregard the thought that she could've been stealing, or at least her friends could've been stealing, because you just 'don't see her doing that?' Yeah you've grown up with her, but you're not with her all the time, aren't you? And he mentioned that his sister could still actually be in school while he has to go to work, so their relationship would likely diminish enough to have room for skeletons to be hid in the closet.
And I would've been so god damned upset if they ate the second batch of cinnamon rolls that I made from _scratch._ The fact she made it from scratch is proof that she was genuinely invested in it, and that it was meaningful to her. So for them to just disregard her wishes and for the husband to have the audacity to propose having to buy store bought ones (seems like an exaggeration, even I think this, but in the moment this would've been my honest feelings) would've made me so upset.
Edit 2: Okay, I'm glad that the husband does seem to take in the criticisms and can finally say no to the sister. Some character development there. Really shows you how powerful cinnamon rolls are.
for the second story the sister was the real asshole while the husband was a gullible asshole
Cinnamon rolls are the most powerful force in the world
I agree with you 100%
I think there should have been a clear line of communication on the 2nd story, the husband shoulda contacted his sister and told her that many of their personal things started to go missing since she and her friends started to visit, he can tell her that if it keeps happening that he will stop her friends from visiting at the very least
I wouldn't blame my sister but I don't know her friends.
In the 2nd story, the wife made the second set of cinnamon rolls to give to a co-worker experiencing a tragedy. Those cinnamon rolls were meant to be given to someone to make their day better. That was why the wife said no to the husband's sister. But his sister and her friends ate it anyway. That shows that they had no respect for the wife and took the allowance to crash at their place as granted. The husband suggesting that they should buy store brought ones is disheartening to say the least.
What I like about the 2nd story is unlike most of the AITA OPs, this OP actually realized his mistake and made it up to his wife.
He did describe his sister as sweet at the beginning so I'm not really surprised his bias ("she would never do that!") made him blind toward all the issues lol.
@skankhunt4215 nah wtf
i mean its his sister and at the end they did punish her
@@ShifuSage not really the brother was a push over, he changed the locks to let her have the party in their house where she again trashed their house.
If I recall this correctly, the cinnamon rolls were for a dying child. I remember seeing this post on RSlash's channel some time ago. Though, I gotta say, this dude's wife has patience. If I would have been in her situation, I would have gone ballistic on the sister and the husband. This guy has no backbone whatsoever.
Moral of the story: Do not underestimate the power of the cinnamon rolls
They cut the video before getting to the part where op reveals that the cinnamon rolls were for his wife's co-worker's child who was in the final stages of cancer, and op's sister also stole his wife's grandmother's ring.
Wow that is 10 times worse
In the second story, the Mom was for sure in the right. The husband tried to avoid the conflict by replacing the missing items, but the problem was that it would happen repeatedly. And then they asked if they could have the second pan of cinnamon rolls, and she said no but disrespectfully ate the second pan.
Exactly. I just think the husband's ridiculous and I would never put up with that. I hope the 17 yr old sister realizes one day that she could have completely ruined her big brothers marriage.
I was grinding my teeth over the cinnamon rolls, it's not just cinnamon rolls it's one of them doughs that takes literal hours to make. That commenter is a genius
She had to prove she's not the "bigger" woman by not letting it go and being petty with a kid.
Your gains are showing my man. Keep up the grind and you'll be swoll in no time
Why is he so involved in his sister’s life though? The mom and the sister asking him to pay for stuff is very strange. It’s almost like he’s raising the sister as his daughter and both his mom and sister are taking advantage of him. If him and his wife are really that involved in the sister’s life it makes her behavior like 10 times worse
Agreed bro
Sounds like the first woman needs to forgive the girl and be the bigger person.
I don't think she wants to be called the "bigger person" 😂
LMFAO
I can’t believe the dude in the second one is putting his sister before his wife. When you are married, your wife and your children come before anyone else
Agreed
It's NOT the cinnamon rolls. It's the fact that the Wife cannot be in her HOME ALONE, EVER!!!
The guy let's his sister run the house.
There are two types of AITA posts.
-Am I the asshole for asking my son to clean his room one time?
And:
-Am I the asshole for blowing up the entirety of China because someone called me obese?
The first one reminds me of something that happened when I was a kid, basically my friends and I would sometimes try to pick each other up. Typically it was me and one other friend who could be picked up, since we were both pretty small and the other two were both taller (older) and also overweight. At the time, I was slightly taller than the other small friend, as well as a bit stronger, so I could carry her with ease and she could barely lift me at all.
But one time, with her catching up in height, when I picked her up it was a little bit more difficult, so I offhand made a comment like "You've gotten a little heavier"
I didn't mean fat at all, I meant it as a literal observation because she was TALLER relative to me. But she got upset, and I was so embarrassed when I realized what I accidentally said that I basically broke down sobbing while trying to explain what I meant (I have autism and back then my social anxiety was so severe that any social blunder would make me break down)
1st one: the mom's holding a grudge against a 14yo. If you can't handle this level of "offense", which clearly wasn't the intention, then there's little to say in your defense. Sounds like a classic case of Karen behavior
2nd one: dude, small items are absolutely enough reason to at least check in with you sister and friends. damn, just the trail of mess would be grounds for some serious talk. changing the locks is clearly a breach of trust, and considering wife was at the gym when the cinnamon roll incident happened, that was probably a treat after working out. Maybe she was on a strict diet and that was her one monthly exception (probably compensated with a few extra minutes on the treadmill). Yes, they could get some more on a shop, but she made those, it's the principle that counts
The cinnamon rolls were for a dying child. They didn’t read that part. By no means were they entitled to eat the second tray, considering the wife had already been kind enough to bake them a separate one as well.
Those items were stolen even if the husband asked the sister and she said no. If you live in a house with only your wife, items rarely get lost. If you have a bunch of kids and/or pets, then items will go missing or they are misplaced. Since it sounds like in the story, this couple didn't have kids or pets. Most likely those items were stolen. Maybe it wasn't always the sister stealing things, but her friends could have also stolen things. Obviously, they'll only steal small things because it's less noticeable.
Considering the wife hates mess I doubt she misplaced perfume. Perfume is expensive and you usually place them in a special cabinet. Same with clothing if you do the laundry, you’ll be sure when something goes poof. Sis got no respect at all.
I feel so bad for the daughter like, if the friend didn't bring it up again why do you want to embarrass her by coming back on this
She'll never want to go to your house again it's just sad
to the first one, in Italy (and many other countries), being typically "Chubby" is "looking well", so it might be a compliment to the husband and the mother.
3:47 the apology wouldn’t be sincere, she didn’t know what she did wrong therefore she WOULDNT BE SORRY!
ive just realized connor is connor pugs just finished watching one of his vids compared the voices looked in the comments and was like ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooohhhhh
No random person that you can't trust 100% should have physical access to your home. Wife is absolutely justified.
I have a friend who had his wife literally murdered in their home two days ago by a couple of people who had a key from a family member that shouldn't have had access.
First story, it was meant as a compliment. Not a good compliment in the wrong circles, but still one. "Your husband's food is SO GOOD, no WONDER you're [fat]"
A compliment to your husband's cooking, being so good that of course you'd eat it and end up not exactly "thin". It's a compliment. Just take it.
The thumbnail is pure beauty at its finest
I agree
how so?
i question your tastes
Thank you!!! That first commenter's question was exactly what was going through my head. This girl is probably also socially awkward and realized too late she said something she shouldn't have and was embarrassed. I'd have to imagine she hasn't been over for months because she was afraid of the mom still being mad at her, which sadly she is.
From one mom to another let it go. This is far from the last dumb thing the daughter or her friends are gonna do around you. If you get this butt hurt over a comment it's only gonna get worse from here. I get feeling bad but put into perspective that it was a child that did this not an adult. Her brain is not anywhere near fully developed yet and has a good amount of growing up to do.
If my husband's sister disrespected me in my home like that she would be lucky if she was allowed back into it. My home is my solace. I work very hard to give my husband a well tended, clean well run home. It's not ok to disrespect me in it or it will no longer be so well run.
maybe it's the mother that is the problem with the social awkardness. maybe the child doesn't have the problem. maybe she doesn't have friends because the mother chases them away.
With the second story I think that the person who was stealing the items wasn’t the sister it was the sisters friends. The husband didn’t mention how many friends the sister brought over I’m guessing 3 or 4 and if that’s the case then maybe one of the sisters friends might have stolen some clothes from the wife’s closet. If not all the sisters friends might have been stealing clothes from the wife’s closet and just never told the sister.
it didn't have to be the sister, any of her friends could have taken things. the wife is justified.
You are honestly so entertaining i just checked your subs and was genuinely so surprised that you didn't have more than a mil, u honestly deserve much more
He has another Chanel called Pegasus it has over a mil
For the first one the mom is in the wrong. If the girl said she was a fat ass or insulted her instead of saying bigger woman I could understand.
For the second one the husband is definitely in the wrong. His wife set a boundary and him and his sister keeps breaking it and can't imagine making some delicious cinnamon rolls from scratch, going to the gym and looking forward to coming home to a nice snack just for someone to have eaten them even tho I already had shared an entire tray
Especially when you're talking about your super awkward daughter and her super young friend. Do you not think that the friend is probably awkward too? Be an adult.
5:16 you see the joke the mind you 14 year old girl made was that oh the food is so good that you would want to eat a lot and that’s why your on the bigger side. It obviously didn’t land and in normal situations I think it would deserve an apology. But in situations where as she pointed out her own 14 year old daughter didn’t have many friends let alone any for a while I think you should let it slide. She was the a hole.
Damn Connor’s only 39? He’s looks good
It’s weird that she couldn’t be the bigger person 😂🤣😅
The perfect duo doesn't exi-
Don't call me fat, your a elephant.
This was AMAZING! Please keep the series coming :D!
For the first story.. That Mom really needs to grow up and be the “bigger person” 👈😎👈
you should’ve continued the updates as he explains more about the cinnamon rolls were for and working to fix this
In that first story, that mom, ironically, wasn't really being the bigger person in the scenario.
First Story:
I don't know if this is one of those culture things.
Where I live we don't take this seriously unless you're of legal age.
I have a lot on my hips myself and have been asked by children "why are you so fat?" Whenever I'm having a bad day, I crack jokes like, "Because I eat little kids who ask too many questions:". At no time did I ever feel attacked or insulted by anything like that.
An adult who is so offended by a clumsy compliment from a child that he bans what appears to be his daughter's first friend is not an adult.
The husband tried to laugh it away? Was the food awkward?
Seems like this woman has severe self esteem issues and this family is well aware of that.
Second Story:
Omg...
I can understand the woman well. It has something to do with respect and trust.
People who enter my apartment, my home, my four walls, my sanctuary, my sanctuary, my center of life, have to respect my belongings and follow my rules (as long as they are reasonable). Anyone who can't do that has no business with me.
Now, to seem to have no control over it and be at the mercy of such people... it would piss me off and make me uncomfortable in my own apartment.
The husband really messed things up here.
You can't come and say "yeah, I'll replace that". This isn't about the cinnamon rolls. There is a serious breach of trust here.
It's a good thing he showed some sense at least in the end.
Happy to see Megasus making video with other people. It make video more fun
Also bringing it back to the Cinnamon Rolls I feel like the 1st and was just for the husband and wife and the sister and her friends just dropped by unannounced and started eating them.
Coming from someone that has made cinnamon rolls from scratch, that sh!t is a pain!!!! Its an almost all day event to make since they have to rise twice.
Changing the locks was a bit extreme but the disrespect of eating the cinnamon rolls when they already ate 1 tray and were told no when they asked to eat the second is just evil. Especially seeing the Wife made those for a grieving family. The husband is definitely TA as well as the sister and her friends.
The sister and her bastard friends were also very obviously stealing from his wife.
if i had an older brother who had a house with a pool that me and my friends could access i would be very grateful and i wouldn’t be eating their food at all or overstepping my welcome
Bro I’m in Highschool, you’d be surprised how smart these 13 year olds actually are
As a fat woman myself, that's not social and scared of confrontation, I find it funny. If she said it to me, I would have said something like "Yeah lifegoals. Ya jelly? :p".
1st story.. I guess they didn't respect the Mom's authori-tah
I have my own story
AITA for blocking my toxic online friend after we've been through many bad arguments?
This all started about a year ago. We've been friends for about four years. We play Rocket league and Fortnite and we have about the same skill in both games. In this month we've been arguing alot and I felt bad after I got off which wasn't normal since I'm normally chill and don't take things seriously. We we're on Fortnite when I blocked him. We we're playing with his friend and I kept 'playing the game wrong' (overbuilding, 3rd partying, and spraying/spamming) then I left the creative match and they we're saying I was rage quitting and calling me bad. Then I blocked him and left. I got tired of him being disrespectful for a while, it was longer than a month, and I did tell him how I felt but he didn't change or care.
After a while (I didn't block/unadd his friend) his friend told me to play with him and he misses you. Since this exact scenario has happened many times, I finaly said no.
AITA for blocking my toxic friend after we've been through many bad arguments?
aita is my favorite netflix series
I really enjoy the double commentary
The first one the lady needs to grow up! My friends’ friend is younger than me 14-16 (I’m 18) and I don’t expect them to be openly nice to me they’re a kid rn going through stuff! They’ve matured a bit and became more honest with their feelings which I think is great but I’m not gonna act surprised if they snap or anything and I’m most certainly not going to play the insulting game and be butt hurt about stuff. My point is, if kids are jerks to you and you’re an adult don’t take it personally and BE the adult chances are they just want to be funny and don’t know how to be without roasting someone. 🙄
In the second story i would understand the wife being angry abouthe the clothes and parfumes if her clothes and perfumes that went missing were like rlly expensive. + the cinnamon rolls is just a horrible crime.
What's the age cutoff for her? if a 5-year-old said something like that, would she also demand an apology? GROW TF UP!!! she's a kid that doesn't have a trigger filter for the sensitive mature adult, yet... and you're worry about your child's social skills, if anything suck it up for that.
I don't know why but the cinnamon roll thing pisses me off so much
2:27 stick
No way dio giving an accurate measurement of time
It is not just cinnamon rolls, they are made from scratch makes better
perfume and things like makeup DONT GO MISSING FOR A WOMAN
The mom who had someone call her a "bigger woman" should learn to own it, rather than get upset. Especially if it's true.
i've seen the second story read before on another channel and iirc the second pan of cinnamon rolls were for the wife's co-worker whose kid had cancer ....
Ok to the husband in the second story. Your wife didn't go behind your back to change the locks. She told you her concerns multiple times about the house being trashed and things going missing and you did NOTHING. No punishment to the sister and friends. If I were her I would have felt like you didn't care about what I felt and it's HER house too and she deserves to feel respected in her own home.
Not saying just automatically accuse the sister and friends of theft but clearly they left the house a mess and didn't care. At that point I'd be telling them not to come back until they learn some manners. You just wanted to play good big brother and you lost.
Your wife gave you the new key and said no one else should be home without one of you there. Even if your mom was there to supervise that's not good enough. You broke her trust. You suck. Do better or be prepared to lose your wife.
Nah fuck that accuse the sister outright cus everything that happened is the disrespect of the sister and the friends, I'd never let them come over ever again
Parents shouldn't be in control of who their kids hang out with, the kid should be
I like the collab videos, I hope we can see more in the future
SO you can call your daughter autistic because she's shy, but someone can't call you big because you ARE??
My mother would've found it hilarious if a kid called her big.
i don't get why people get so offended by things that are just true, for example being fat/skinny, tall/short etc. i have my whole life been tall and skinny, when people call me a "stick" or a "tree" i generally am not offended, at least not to the point of kicking them out of my house and never allowing myself to see that person again, unlike the queen of the first post that should never be offended ever by anyone
glad you made some friends :)
as an almost 30-yr old sister to a 13-yr old boy - that friend's intentions were definitely not ill in any way, come on, they are not exactly perfect at conversations at that age. i would understand the reaction if it was a grown ass adult, but a teenager?
I hate it when people put their siblings/friends wants over their partners comfort. My boyfriend doesn’t think he needs to ask if his siblings can come over he just invites them but doesn’t like it if I bring my sister over without telling him and he doesn’t think his sister needs to ask if she can use my pads before just taking them so she doesn’t need to go to the store and doesn’t think he should have to get me drink while getting himself one if I want or need one but has no problem getting his sister a drink and he doesn’t wanna go to the store with me but me food or cook for me but is fine doing all those with and for her just being like ‘she’s little sister’ like yeah well I’m your girlfriend why do I get less respect than her when you expect me to birth your children and not her
It Cinnamon Rolls.
about the cinnamon rolls
they were for a child with cancer
The mom in the first story needs to get over it. It was actually funny 😂
what is wrong with somebody saying "don't call me fat"
It's actually possible that the "bigger woman" comment was a cultural difference so I wish we had more info. There are some cultures where it's completely acceptable to say things that most of the rest of the world understands are actually extremely rude. It's definitely a gray area when a child says something that is definitely rude but is NOT said with ill intent within their own culture. Would it be better if they understood how things they say will be perceived? Of course, but not everybody's parents are looking out for them like that. There are also just people who have very very poorly behaved parents and they don't actually pick up on that until they reach an age where they automatically begin to compare other families they spend time with to their own.
Ironically she couldn’t be the bigger person
May God have mercy on the poor soul stealing my cinnamon rolls
For the 2nd story about the messy sister, her and her friends are such inconsiderate assholes, sometimes violence is the answer
apologize to you is CRAZY lmao
Nah Bro Dw you aren’t a stick, you are a 2 dimensional Stickman.
2 pegasus vids in one day? Say less
Jesus, how do you eat two pans of cinnamon rolls? I could eat a single roll, maybe two if they are small, let alone even a single pan
Its back!!!
Megasus is no longer the A-hole
The first one the wife is definitely the asshole.
The second one the husband is not the asshole, but just pure and simply wrong. He is showing way too much bias towards his sister, especially early on treating her as one who can do no wrong. When anyone can have their wrongdoings. His sister is clearly not the same person he thought he knew before. Heart in the right place, mind in the wrong place. He wants to make both of them happy and be a mediator between them. When sometimes if someone is wrong, you just gotta call it as it is and accept it.
Lmao my older sister when she was younger had a friend who screamed from in front of her school how my mom is fat and my mom laughs talking about it.
I love both of your channels you make so happy on bad days since something trumatic recently happened
Love your channel ❤️
People are getting worse and worse 💀
conners 39 !
Cinnamon rolls is my fev dessert, this story made my blood boil 🙂🙂
Didn't expect Connor! What a nice surprise!
first story: its like ppl forget the saying "fat an happy" not everything is an insult. If i was in that situation i'd be offended at first but i would still play it off as a joke gone wrong. Especially since in some house holds, being called fat/ bigger is a complement and a sign of good health like u said. She also was complimenting op's husbands cooking but basically saying "its so good that i would become fat since i could eat this delicious food non stop" the fact op is this sensitive despite being a grown ah woman with a child is ridiculous. Does she yell at other kids too if they call her fat? My own siblings have called me fat before but their like 5 and didnt mean it in a bad way lol, my dad just has bomb ah cooking and i eat that ish until my stomach hurts
next story: bro i can barely finish 1 cinnamon roll cuz of how sugary it is, how tf did they eat 2 pans ffs