Nothing really confusing once you think about it. She is not saying or doing to much around the dude she likes because she doesn’t want to make mistakes or seem silly. With the other guy she is comfortable because she doesn’t care how he sees her.
How to do the opposite of this and get called clingy and desperate and have the men not be interested bc you’re not “chill” enough and you’re just so obvious. Face it, people like what they have to work hard to get. But the other guys, you don’t care what they think (and they know it) so you just let your energy shine and then they chase after you bc “there’s just something about you”, but all it is is you’re not interested and they know it, but they’re ego won’t let them admit it. 😤😤
When she's all smiles all the time it means you're not a challenge and you should normally receive your official friend zone card in two business days.
@@exoticalBecky_Miamisingle for exactly the right reasons! I'm 42 own my own and I am done with women it's to toxic and you women have become incredibly lazy when it comes to actually reciprocating effort and interests, and also so delusional every one of you is a ten and 83% of you are chasing 3% of men expecting that man to settle down....why would he he is 3% choosing from 80% of women playa gonna play!!
This chick in the video is clearly the authority too, as she obviously knows all women, even from different cultures and continents. Silly of anyone to ever think nuance, subtly and distinction are ever possible
Not saying this girl is actually like this. I know it’s a skit. But stay away from woman like this. It’s not playing hard to get etc. If a girl actually likes you or is interested she will show it. And if she isn’t then move on men. If she acts like this then she isn’t looking for a real relationship or marriage. And maybe some of you aren’t either. But if you are then go after a woman that isn’t afraid to show interest or be vulnerable. Because if they’re callous, traumatized from past, or following social media trends. Then they aren’t ready. Look at the heart fellas. I waited 31 years to find the woman of my dreams that I’m with now. And it was well worth the wait. Be blessed and much love!
I’ve been misreading for a long time! Ignoring the right ones and shooting fire to the wrong ones! I surrendered it! I started focusing on working on myself enjoying life drama free!
Oh just you wait! One day you’ll wake up happy as can be about being single, your place in life, how things are going, etc…. And then “she” is gonna pop up out of nowhere, happened to me. Until that day, hold that mindset!
I had this problem for years. As a really shy teenager and young man I was actually a handsome guy but never saw it back then (I even had a modelling agent approach me). Girls were like this all the time totally indifferent but flirting - bloody confusing. Had no idea they were actually interested just thought they were taking the piss. (After getting my messed up head straight with women I am now 57 years old, married with three lovely kids - I still have older women doing this though (and they're usually married - messed up)).
Too true, Also..many women, they blink AT you if they're flirting. Took me this many years to learn this. 2 days before she moved to another city, she asked me how did I not see the signs.? I said what signs. And of what.?
I had a friend who had this girlfriend and I hung out with them all the time, she had a friend who would hang out with us too. I was interested in her and she would act like this towards me. I was like oh, well I guess she’s not even slightly interested in me. So I went for another girl. Then my friends girlfriend got mad at me and was like how could you do that to her??? You know she obviously likes you!! I was like no that’s not obvious at all!! As a matter of fact it seems quite the opposite!
Truth. And the guys interested in a girl end up turned away because she wasn't interested, but to the guys everything she did said she was interested. Maybe if she'd be that way around the guy she likes and be clear to those she does not....
True: my ex had a mad crush on me when she met me with friends & I was met with a raised upper lip & an eye roll. I said, “who is this girl with the smirk?”
So true. The women I find super unattractive, or are completely "obviously" off limits (ie way older, lesbians, etc), I am so open and comfortable around. I sense that there's zero expectations to meet, and oftentimes, cause them to fall for me! Whereas with the girls I'm into, I'm more tense, thinking through what I should say, second guessing my every move... it's hard out here 😂
@@RMichaelHimself Its true, I've seen it. This man turns lesbians into most ferocious seed-mongers. Yet, he has to disappoint them, as he is holding out for his one true love, Karla. They met decades ago in elementary school, but he is still working up the courage to ask her out.
This was actually true for me in middle and high school. Then in college, I flat out told guys that I liked, that I liked them. My husband always says he's grateful that I did, because he never would have made the first move. 😅
FR tho .. I hit a certain age and just got tired of the games. Eventually I just started telling girls that I liked them and even that backfired a lot. Like telling a girl you like them isn't the right way to tell a girl that you like them 🤷🏾🤦🏾
Women need to learn that playing the hard to get will cost you so much more than just being blunt and honest with men. Yes there are those that are dogs, but that is where discipline comes in handy & keeping those legs closed!
So, that's why they don't even greet you anymore and keep looking their phone all the time, ha. Because they literally love and care about men. Thank god, I almost lost hope!
Yep, it makes sense. You wouldn’t feel comfortable next to someone you like but unsure if it’s reciprocating the feelings. So defense mechanism up all the way. Eventually she’ll be like part 2 with the guy she liked and part 1 with the guy she doesn’t if they “cross” the line. Life is amazing. Go strong ladies.
Ladies, we men are oblivious and need hints that have big red circles and lit arrows pointing at it. When my wife and I were getting started, we hiked alone together and my thought process was “Man her boyfriend must be really trusting to let her hike alone with a guy she met at the grocery store”
Funny thing, this in true in some cases. Found out the prettiest girl I'd ever known had a deadly crush on me. She was a coworker. I was told once she moved on to another career path, I was surprised beyond words. She acted so whatever and rude around me, it was stupid to me because that was a childhood girl thing. Point is, of you're doing this as an adult, just stupid
I can guarantee you, this is where guys will be completely confused because the guy is going to want to be around the girl that is fun😊 they're going to automatically think that the girl that looks bored and is doing nothing doesn't want anything to do with them
But remember, as a man it’s your job to identify exactly when each of these feelings is at play, never being confused, not being a mind reader won’t be acceptable😂
@@Redacted2898 💀- No, it's just that I'm friendly with pretty much everyone lol T-T so maybe it's hard for others to figure our who I like hehe.. (hopefully)
And thats why they end up with the guy that is everyone elses leftovers. They say nice guys finish last, what actually happens is we dodge all the bullets and end up happily married by the time you start looking.
I was born with a lot of gifts, but I'm a nerd. Meaning, my interests and topics are boring and complicated to most. I usually ignore hints from girls playing hints.
Because of videos like that, I am mortified to think that some men I find repulsive may think I actually find them attractive. It’s not true y’all. This video is a trend
That's why you just go after the girl you like, risk getting shot down, don't give a flying fk if you do, then move on to the next on, rinse and repeat.
“Ew I hate when men hit on me it’s like can’t they see from my face I’m not interested” *proceeds to tell us if a girl looks disinterested in us that they’re into us* You can’t make this stuff up 🤦🏼♂️
I knew it, every woman i ever met is actually interested in me!
😂😂😂
Omg lol❤😅😂
👏👏👏
😂😂😂😂
Omg lol
"Don't try to understand women. Women understand women, and they hate each other "
-Al Bundy
😂😂
"Can you help me with my groceries"
- Ted Bundy
That's a great quote actually
I wish I could take the credit.
Was expecting ted bundy then ngl 💀💀💀
He didn't get any of my signs.
The signs:
LOLLLL
Yup.
The signs: STOP, YIELD, MEN AT WORK, LANE ENDS IN 100 FT, CAUTION ROAD UNSTABLE AHEAD, TOLL BOOTH AHEAD
yup
The sign is silence and glancing away. How? 🤯
If I wanted to play games, I’d use my PS5.
@@H.K.5 With your PS 7, you will not need to talk to a woman IRL. Just pick from a menu... and pull the blinds closed.
Or Xbox series X
How to confuse men even further 101
Nothing really confusing once you think about it. She is not saying or doing to much around the dude she likes because she doesn’t want to make mistakes or seem silly. With the other guy she is comfortable because she doesn’t care how he sees her.
@@SheedLordBear long sentence to say that they are insecure
@@SheedLordBeareither your a woman and understands acting that way, or you've never met a man. This is stupid.
How to do the opposite of this and get called clingy and desperate and have the men not be interested bc you’re not “chill” enough and you’re just so obvious. Face it, people like what they have to work hard to get. But the other guys, you don’t care what they think (and they know it) so you just let your energy shine and then they chase after you bc “there’s just something about you”, but all it is is you’re not interested and they know it, but they’re ego won’t let them admit it. 😤😤
Lol !!
When she's all smiles all the time it means you're not a challenge and you should normally receive your official friend zone card in two business days.
They can save the postage. She is sucking it or walking
🥲😂
Hmm total charming when she's not intrested and boring when she is. Awesome
WOMEN 🧠
Hey... 😂 we know it's dumb af yet still do it. If I can't be myself fuck em and fuck me for Changing
Nervous around crush ... Trusts dorks for no good reason
She does it until she doesn't have too...
@@exoticalBecky_Miamisingle for exactly the right reasons! I'm 42 own my own and I am done with women it's to toxic and you women have become incredibly lazy when it comes to actually reciprocating effort and interests, and also so delusional every one of you is a ten and 83% of you are chasing 3% of men expecting that man to settle down....why would he he is 3% choosing from 80% of women playa gonna play!!
“wHy cAnT a FiNd a GuY”
It was the dude you just mean mugged and told to get lost. That was the guy. 😂
Gotta risk the arrest and jail time
This chick in the video is clearly the authority too, as she obviously knows all women, even from different cultures and continents. Silly of anyone to ever think nuance, subtly and distinction are ever possible
And then they talk about emotional intelligence 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
No. One becomes tongue-tied, bashful, shy and insecure!
Bro 😂
@@Antarian2015 and bitchy...
Or keep hinting they smart if your interesting.
WHY IS THIS SO TRUE?!
They don't understand why guys don't approach them.
We don't wanna go to jail
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@@adamkime5428Approaching isn't rape. Maybe you should think about that.
No no... The only ones they are saying it about are the 5%ers.... 95% are invisible and don't count as anything.
@@Mmmmkaaaywe don’t want the drama that follows along either the humiliation. I’d rather take the jail time some of y’all are brutal
You are beautiful sunshine may the man of your heart find your soul
god dammit how are we guys supposed to "TAKE A HINT"
the hint:
Maybe they will walk up confidently grab our asses and pull us in for a good snog
Take EVERYTHING as a hint
You sure are a cuty bab
@@SuziR-f9s it's so ridiculous and awful that this actually is the solution from the male perspective.
Now you know the hint
Not saying this girl is actually like this. I know it’s a skit. But stay away from woman like this. It’s not playing hard to get etc. If a girl actually likes you or is interested she will show it. And if she isn’t then move on men. If she acts like this then she isn’t looking for a real relationship or marriage. And maybe some of you aren’t either. But if you are then go after a woman that isn’t afraid to show interest or be vulnerable. Because if they’re callous, traumatized from past, or following social media trends. Then they aren’t ready. Look at the heart fellas. I waited 31 years to find the woman of my dreams that I’m with now. And it was well worth the wait. Be blessed and much love!
G.O.A.T. comment
I’ve been misreading for a long time! Ignoring the right ones and shooting fire to the wrong ones! I surrendered it! I started focusing on working on myself enjoying life drama free!
Oh just you wait! One day you’ll wake up happy as can be about being single, your place in life, how things are going, etc…. And then “she” is gonna pop up out of nowhere, happened to me. Until that day, hold that mindset!
@@bigbishop9081 FACTS!!!
That's it baby 111
Exactly the right people come along on your journey when they are ready.
You did just the right thing. Keep it up 🫶
I had this problem for years. As a really shy teenager and young man I was actually a handsome guy but never saw it back then (I even had a modelling agent approach me). Girls were like this all the time totally indifferent but flirting - bloody confusing. Had no idea they were actually interested just thought they were taking the piss. (After getting my messed up head straight with women I am now 57 years old, married with three lovely kids - I still have older women doing this though (and they're usually married - messed up)).
So this is why all my female classmates are single
What about the male ones then!? 💀
@@Maxhannay8💀💀
“Female” good luck w being a virgin buddy 😂
@@Maxhannay8 dating each other
😂😂You have discovered it
Too true,
Also..many women, they blink AT you if they're flirting.
Took me this many years to learn this.
2 days before she moved to another city, she asked me how did I not see the signs.?
I said what signs. And of what.?
And they wonder why men seem to get the signals mixed up. 😂😂
😂😂
what signals ?
THIS IS SO RELATABLE THO 😂
Forever Confusing💯😄
For real 😂💀
Forever SINGLE..
True. I get the cold shoulder all the time.
I had a friend who had this girlfriend and I hung out with them all the time, she had a friend who would hang out with us too. I was interested in her and she would act like this towards me. I was like oh, well I guess she’s not even slightly interested in me. So I went for another girl. Then my friends girlfriend got mad at me and was like how could you do that to her??? You know she obviously likes you!! I was like no that’s not obvious at all!! As a matter of fact it seems quite the opposite!
I never said I was nice matter of fact I said quite the opposite 🤣🤣🤣🤣 my fav tiktok
But, wait, you're meant to be a mind reader. Didn't you get the memo? ;)
Both those woman gave full brains
@valerwolf255 funniest, worst, most probable take I've heard. lmao
Yep!!
Ah, woman; the great communicator!
Truth. And the guys interested in a girl end up turned away because she wasn't interested, but to the guys everything she did said she was interested. Maybe if she'd be that way around the guy she likes and be clear to those she does not....
Isent that the truth???? 😅😂😅😂😅
If only their dull brains would realize that.
Small problem, I wanna be friends with the others too😊😊
OMG, that smile melts me
True: my ex had a mad crush on me when she met me with friends & I was met with a raised upper lip & an eye roll. I said, “who is this girl with the smirk?”
If this is what young men have to deal with, im glad im old.
Same for men in many respects. For those women we desire not to pursue, the energy is totally, “I don’t care” style.
So true. The women I find super unattractive, or are completely "obviously" off limits (ie way older, lesbians, etc), I am so open and comfortable around. I sense that there's zero expectations to meet, and oftentimes, cause them to fall for me! Whereas with the girls I'm into, I'm more tense, thinking through what I should say, second guessing my every move... it's hard out here 😂
@@RMichaelHimself Its true, I've seen it. This man turns lesbians into most ferocious seed-mongers. Yet, he has to disappoint them, as he is holding out for his one true love, Karla. They met decades ago in elementary school, but he is still working up the courage to ask her out.
True!
No, more you half-ignore her, faster she will run to you...
They don't want you to know how attractive you are to bring down your SMV
Your humor is top-notch.
my tip to the girls = just try it the other way around and it will work with the guys you are interested in
Strange lots of women talk to me but in over 15 years not one ever came to my home. Oh well. Happy by myself too.
It's that third floor tower with the barred windows. Been meaning to suggest a change...🤪
@@Michael-r8e2l hahahaha that's funny. I live in an old trailer 3 bedroom 2 bath. And only five steps to climb. But that was funny.
Maybe ask them to dinner and get to know them instead of asking them to go home with you.
@@babu357why don’t they ask?
Her eyes are just stunning 😮
This was actually true for me in middle and high school. Then in college, I flat out told guys that I liked, that I liked them. My husband always says he's grateful that I did, because he never would have made the first move. 😅
FR tho .. I hit a certain age and just got tired of the games. Eventually I just started telling girls that I liked them and even that backfired a lot. Like telling a girl you like them isn't the right way to tell a girl that you like them 🤷🏾🤦🏾
As a older man this really sucks especially when men date down women date up men really don’t have time for games
That's 100% why the guy they like never likes them back. Lol
Women need to learn that playing the hard to get will cost you so much more than just being blunt and honest with men.
Yes there are those that are dogs, but that is where discipline comes in handy & keeping those legs closed!
So, that's why they don't even greet you anymore and keep looking their phone all the time, ha. Because they literally love and care about men. Thank god, I almost lost hope!
Here I was thinking women ignored me because I look like a discount Santa Claus. Who knew?? 😅
Treating men like furniture
Why is this so true u no wat imma add this to my school crush fact 😊❤
For me it’s the opposite 😭
Same
I was ’bout to comment that
For normal people it’s the opposite.
Yep, it makes sense.
You wouldn’t feel comfortable next to someone you like but unsure if it’s reciprocating the feelings.
So defense mechanism up all the way. Eventually she’ll be like part 2 with the guy she liked and part 1 with the guy she doesn’t if they “cross” the line.
Life is amazing. Go strong ladies.
Ladies, we men are oblivious and need hints that have big red circles and lit arrows pointing at it. When my wife and I were getting started, we hiked alone together and my thought process was “Man her boyfriend must be really trusting to let her hike alone with a guy she met at the grocery store”
🤡
😂😂😂😂😂
Faking takes myriad forms.
Funny thing, this in true in some cases. Found out the prettiest girl I'd ever known had a deadly crush on me. She was a coworker. I was told once she moved on to another career path, I was surprised beyond words. She acted so whatever and rude around me, it was stupid to me because that was a childhood girl thing. Point is, of you're doing this as an adult, just stupid
I can guarantee you, this is where guys will be completely confused because the guy is going to want to be around the girl that is fun😊 they're going to automatically think that the girl that looks bored and is doing nothing doesn't want anything to do with them
Not confused, we can see right through the fakery and leave them to play with themselves, or let some other Chad dump a load in her.
💯 true…
I like it when girls or women are like this. It shows genuine emotions 👌🏼❤️
LETS GO THIS IS AWESOME SHE TALKS TO HER BF LIKE THIS I MIGHT HAVE A CHANCE
"WHY AM I SINGLE!" Communication!
"You'd have better luck picking up a turd from its clean end." -Abraham Ford
The problem is some never grow out of this and still call themselves a woman.
What a beautiful girl. Wow ❤❤❤❤.
Seems so. Let’s see her without the $700 in make up on
Serbian blood
The most beautiful women in the world.♥️🇷🇸♥️
It's funny because it's true!
"Need A Moment?
You're NOT You
When You're Hungry!"
😂😂😂😂😂🎉!
Snickers!!😂
Hangry
“I’m not interested so he’s safe” logic
Exactly
Honestly I’m the opposite with the guy I like now😅
My head hurts...
This actually hurts. 😢
But remember, as a man it’s your job to identify exactly when each of these feelings is at play, never being confused, not being a mind reader won’t be acceptable😂
I THANK GOD I NEVER FELL FOR THEM WOMEN'S 9TH GRADE GAMES. 🎉😂🎉
This is why i like mature women who are blunt about that shit. Who wants to solve a puzzle just to figure out if youre interested in them or not
Truly a queen, reigning with grace and dignity.
Lol
I love when 304$ out themselves
So that's why dating is difficult. I get it now! It's mind games got it 😅😅
“She’s likes you”
Me: “She probably thinks I’m weird.”
You look so beautiful, sis❤
I'm the same around everyone.. talkative.
No one's gonna know 👀💀
Maybe you want everyone. I mean why should a girl have to choose... right?
@@Redacted2898 💀-
No, it's just that I'm friendly with pretty much everyone lol T-T so maybe it's hard for others to figure our who I like hehe.. (hopefully)
No one can flirt better than a girl who are not interested in you.
I don't even read the captions on her videos... I just stare.
And this is why they're still single and crying about it.
And they wonder why dudes don’t shoot their shot anymore 😂
And thats why they end up with the guy that is everyone elses leftovers. They say nice guys finish last, what actually happens is we dodge all the bullets and end up happily married by the time you start looking.
Happily married 😂 you mean happily divorced lool
@@Gmhfseyhb no, I meant what I said.
it's the opposite for me😂
girl yes 😂same
I was born with a lot of gifts, but I'm a nerd. Meaning, my interests and topics are boring and complicated to most. I usually ignore hints from girls playing hints.
This is why passport renewals are climbing every day
Women: Read my mind
Also, women: god, why don't men understand what I want
& they wonder why guys aren't approaching anymore.
When i like some boy and I talk to him, I’m around him as I’m with boys I don’t am interested in 😅😅😂😂❤
Asks her out on a date. She gives the 1st reaction.
"Great! What time do you want me to pick you up?"
And yet the guy they don't like falls for her, not the the guy the girl likes!
Please men this is only one kind of person if I someone ignores you it probably means that she's not interested
My mother in law must like me 😂
Same happens with guys!!
No they really just aren't interested
Yep. Confuses the hell out of me.
SO ME 😭🤣
that's the reason why I've been single for 7 years.
I’m the complete opposite… that’s how I pulled my boyfriend lol
That's how it should be. I believe if a girl really likes u, she's not gonna play games like reaction 1.
Bro why is this so true!😂❤
It is so true
Beautiful simplicity ✨️ 💖 💕 ❤️ 😍 ♥️ ✨️
For me this is so true I’m too shy to actually talk to my crush
We expose ourselves with these things😅😅😅
Don't worry you didn't expose shit as it's not obvious at all
Thank you for throwing it in my face even more evidence that my Girl I like doesn’t like me back
That makes me rethink everything…
Because of videos like that, I am mortified to think that some men I find repulsive may think I actually find them attractive. It’s not true y’all. This video is a trend
That's why you just go after the girl you like, risk getting shot down, don't give a flying fk if you do, then move on to the next on, rinse and repeat.
Uncomfortably Relatable.
God is love the closer you get to God in a relationship the more love you have
“Ew I hate when men hit on me it’s like can’t they see from my face I’m not interested”
*proceeds to tell us if a girl looks disinterested in us that they’re into us*
You can’t make this stuff up 🤦🏼♂️
I am totally opposite 😂😂
A smile is the best makeup any girl can wear
This is the first time I saw the guy and I already love him