Vinh you are amazing. I have just had my Cambridge physics interview and I used all the tips I could find from you. It went great, I tried to use all my body language and spoke with volume and adopted a curious mindset. No umms, no ahhs, and I asked the interviewers for time to think and collect my thoughts. I felt so confident when I left, thanks to you! ;)
Amazing!! No words to describe your kindness, i have seen many people being good in something but not sharing or helping but it's only u descring the science and the psychology behind the tricks and method, which help one to use it properly. Thanx man being fan of you from India🇮🇳
This feels like it should not be free because damn the amount of information you just provided in such a short time is incredible Vinh! - You are truly inspiring and I aim to learn from you everyday, thank you so much in helping me across my communication journey.
The part about asking people directly if they wanted you to tone-match or not made me laugh as that’s something I might do hahaha! It’s also worth noting, that if you grew up around unstable adults -you might have a great sense of how to de-escalate conflict in this way, but that doesn’t necessarily translate into being a good communicator 😞
Vihn! when you told about your second method "learn to walk away gracefully". Immediately I thought about the verse of the Quran (25:63) "When the Ignorant addresses them they walk away gracefully or peacefully". I was absolutely fascinated and stunned by this. It's so amazing that you were able to pick on that!
I understood. Step one: deaccelerate the argument by matching their energy. If it's work then ok or not then try to be clam during conversation. If nothing works, that's mean you don't know them well Step two: make a statement and leave 🙂 And for stranger don't waste your time or their. 🙃 Well I didn't mean to match the bad energy 😂❤
Thank you, again, Vinh! 🤍 And I truly appreciate what you're giving back to the community...and in your free classes / webinars 😎 Thank you, wish you the best!
Heyo Vinh! I love your deep connection to thought. Here's a thought for you... Have you ever had a conversation without thinking about the fact youre having a conversation?
Love your work, but I'm calling BS on this one, Vinh. If you promised your wife you would be done by a time, your word is your honor, being timely reflects your priority. Planning a realistic cut-off time and honoring your commitment to her is much more important than mirroring. When you have time commitment to a client, do you bail and not show up and then afterward make excuses??? I bet not. Instead of mirroring, check your priorities. My 2 cents... happy wife, happy life. 😉 🙏
Right, but not everyone's perfect sometimes things happen, these are the situations he's talking about. When there's strife. Obviously you should try not to have strife. But we aren't perfect.
@atetraxx that's not what he said, but I agree. Sometimes, things happen... but the rule should be irregardless of your relationships, honor your commitments. He made it sound like a reoccurring theme.
Soo good. But what, if I am this lady wishing her husband would come at dinner table after having promised "five minutes" (haha). Without going to ask again and once again and getting a pissed reaction? hmmmmm
Vinh you are amazing. I have just had my Cambridge physics interview and I used all the tips I could find from you. It went great, I tried to use all my body language and spoke with volume and adopted a curious mindset. No umms, no ahhs, and I asked the interviewers for time to think and collect my thoughts.
I felt so confident when I left, thanks to you! ;)
Let us know when u get the result :)
Amazing!!
No words to describe your kindness, i have seen many people being good in something but not sharing or helping but it's only u descring the science and the psychology behind the tricks and method, which help one to use it properly. Thanx man being fan of you from India🇮🇳
This feels like it should not be free because damn the amount of information you just provided in such a short time is incredible Vinh! - You are truly inspiring and I aim to learn from you everyday, thank you so much in helping me across my communication journey.
NO ONE....Literally NO ONE can teach "how to communicate effectively" better than you, Vinh!!! Love your content. Keep it up!
The part about asking people directly if they wanted you to tone-match or not made me laugh as that’s something I might do hahaha!
It’s also worth noting, that if you grew up around unstable adults -you might have a great sense of how to de-escalate conflict in this way, but that doesn’t necessarily translate into being a good communicator 😞
I can't tell if that was a voice changer or you're just that good
I guess his wife recorded this for him and he just mimicked her talking
Vihn! when you told about your second method "learn to walk away gracefully". Immediately I thought about the verse of the Quran (25:63) "When the Ignorant addresses them they walk away gracefully or peacefully". I was absolutely fascinated and stunned by this. It's so amazing that you were able to pick on that!
Alhamdulilah ❤
I understood.
Step one: deaccelerate the argument by matching their energy.
If it's work then ok or not then try to be clam during conversation.
If nothing works, that's mean you don't know them well
Step two: make a statement and leave 🙂
And for stranger don't waste your time or their. 🙃
Well I didn't mean to match the bad energy 😂❤
Do more on talking/ debate or sharing work ideas without sounding winey, defensive, or bitchy.
Thank you. Your advice is priceless!!!
Heal with your words and transform
Thank you, again, Vinh! 🤍 And I truly appreciate what you're giving back to the community...and in your free classes / webinars 😎 Thank you, wish you the best!
Great video
What if just over the phone like Customer Service rep and a Customer complaining
i luvs yiu mans. yous ares the bestest of the bestest of the speakerers thats why im watches you mans
You're just amazing
Heyo Vinh! I love your deep connection to thought. Here's a thought for you... Have you ever had a conversation without thinking about the fact youre having a conversation?
Thanks fam! 😊
Oh man truly knowledgeable, vin can you help me with one thing I am asking H this for months now how to overcome the problem of lisp
I got an ad for you while opening this video lmao
Sir how to overcome stage fear
Learning and growing ॐ....
Thrusday 12 Decmber 2024 raat ke 10:17
If you prefaced it with... "Honey... I hear you..." And then went about it you'd avoid a lot of hassle
Your partner is very understanding
I am a student sir. So I want to know how to make public communication and how to overcome the stage fear
I'm a high school student. Can your course help me?
Hi
Just don’t copy them when in an argument communication, I found out the hard way.
awesome
I'm 53 seconds late
Love your work, but I'm calling BS on this one, Vinh. If you promised your wife you would be done by a time, your word is your honor, being timely reflects your priority. Planning a realistic cut-off time and honoring your commitment to her is much more important than mirroring. When you have time commitment to a client, do you bail and not show up and then afterward make excuses??? I bet not. Instead of mirroring, check your priorities. My 2 cents... happy wife, happy life. 😉 🙏
Right, but not everyone's perfect sometimes things happen, these are the situations he's talking about. When there's strife. Obviously you should try not to have strife. But we aren't perfect.
@atetraxx that's not what he said, but I agree. Sometimes, things happen... but the rule should be irregardless of your relationships, honor your commitments. He made it sound like a reoccurring theme.
uuu so quick
Bro, you are at work trying to dodge your wife. Tell her the truth. You’re just a good liar bro. 😂😂😂
Soo good. But what, if I am this lady wishing her husband would come at dinner table after having promised "five minutes" (haha). Without going to ask again and once again and getting a pissed reaction? hmmmmm
Who can want taking with me in English
I thought it’s important to listen more and talk less 😊