Destiny you are literally the ONLY RUclipsr whose vlogs I can watch all the way through. You have the BEST vlogs! At the end of the day just film whatever you enjoy.
Des, we are not going anywhere, take all the time you need and don't stress yourself out about uploading videos. Your vlogs are my favorite btw, it feels like catching up with your bestie everytime.
Silent supporter here ❤ as an anxious girlie who’s also been getting AWFUL sleep lately, just know you’re not alone. We love you and appreciate all you do 🫶 no pressure from us!!
Des, I’ve suffered with crippling anxiety my whole life too, adding in mild depression. I know every single person is different but medication saved my life. It’s scary to make the next step but seeing a caring doctor who knows you and can prescribe you with the right medication could literally change your life. Anyways, I hope you know that you’re so loved ❤️
I recently discovered that so many women are misdiagnosed with anxiety when in some cases they may be on the spectrum or have ADHD (more common). That's not to discredit doctors who actually diagnose correctly, but it's quite common with misdiagnoses among women. In some cases the presence of ADHD or Autism should be considered in individuals who suffer from severe anxiety/depression. Having said that, I'm happy you found something that works for you. Sending you light ✨
@@girlwiththemagicpenyes, this!! I know that I have ADHD and doctors just don’t believe me and refuse to listen when I try to tell them. It’s unfortunate there’s such a stigma around it.
Love your vlogs Destiny! Also give yourself a pat on the back for ‘ pushing through’ because pushing through mental illness is literally one of the hardest things, and you’re doing it! So well done x
I felt convicted to say this to you when I listened to you talk about being in a bad mental space. I know you’re a Christian like me and I’m old I’m 35 🤣 so just try this and see if it works 💕in the morning before you work out, do a devotional, read one passage in your Bible. Then work out. Listen to worship music. Say your prayers out loud. It will bring you comfort and joy I promise. Love you destiny 💕
THIS !! des i never comment, but honestly im praying for you! there is such a call on your life and you are such a light. God can free you from and walk you through the hardest and darkest of times. lean on Him ! we love you ❤️🩹
Destiny I love your vulnerability about mental health, you truly do make me and so many others feel so seen and understood. Don’t ever forget to put yourself and your needs first, the Lord is always at your side even when you can’t feel it. All lights turned off can be turned on-WE LOVE YOU💗
I also suffer with bad anxiety and depression and poor sleep a lot, it sucks but books are my comfort and your videos are such a light in the dark, never feel bad for taking time to look after yourself!
your vlogs are my favorite!!! also, as someone who’s struggled with very bad mental health (depression, anxiety, the works), you’re not alone. it’s horrible right now, but it WILL pass. don’t push yourself if you’re not ready. you got this girl!!!
usually a silent watcher but im also a fellow anxious girly & just wanted you to know how much your videos comfort me as someone who heavily relates to a lot of what you feel. literally the only thing getting me thru senior year of college and the immense stress is you & sara’s videos & podcast. it really helps me at least to know im not alone in suffering with anxiety & it does not define us 🫶🫶
Much love Destiny, as a fellow person that can have bouts of crippling anxiety I know how demoralizing it can feel when you stop being able to do stuff you can normally do. These past few weeks you've crossed my mind and every time I just hope you're doing okay. It's amazing that you're still doing your best to get content out while trying to navigate mental health. Sending you lots of positivity and strength ♡
don’t ever feel like we don’t care about your content!! i love whatever you put out whether they’re book videos or vlogs, i love them!! i love you and will be praying for you❤
I LOVE YOUR VLOGS SOOO MUCH!! I literally don’t care if they are about absolutely nothing I just love watching your everyday life gym, cooking, shopping, work, how your feeling idc they are my favourite videos of yours because it makes me feel seen 🤍
I just wanted to say that you are absolutely not alone. I deal with anxiety every day, and your videos have been a source of comfort and inspiration for me. Watching your content helps remind me that I'm not alone in facing high expectations and the pressure to be 'perfect.' It feels like we share a lot of the same traits - striving to do our best, overthinking, dealing with anxiety, and that constant shadow of imposter syndrome. What makes your channel so special isn't just the content itself but you - your genuine personality, your effort, and your journey. Your authenticity and the way you share your love for what you do make a huge impact, and I’m here because I love seeing you being yourself. You never need to explain or apologize for that. Just know that you are enough, and you are so appreciated. You've supported me in ways you'll never know
Destiny my angel, your health is the most important thing above everything else. We love you and support you in whatever you need to do, we will still be here if you need to take a break and we will love you while you're gone and when you come back. If people have anything to say about you taking care of yourself they aren't worth the headspace to think about them (I know this is easier said than done) As for vlogs, they are my personal favourite content (I still absolutely love your other videos too). If you ever feel comfortable in sharing them, I would love to watch them. Love Lil
I'm usually more of a silent watcher but just wanted to say you don't need to make yourself feel bad or guilty! Take your time with uploads and getting out of your book slump, the real ones will always be here to support you. I love the vlogs so much, you and Sara are my favourite youtubers to watch and I'm sure so many people feel the same as me! Treat yourself with kindness ♥️
Des im sending you so much love and peace to keep going day by day. Anxiety and depression can be so scary, i’m really proud of you for slaying despite the struggles 💛
Thank you for being so honest about your feelings! I know I’ve done gratitude journaling for a while, and that’s helped me so much! It helps you see the good in things when you feel like there isn’t anything to be happy about🩷
Destiny I absolutely love your vlogs. I seen this one and specifically saved it for when I had a house cleaning day. Girl you take your time and take brakes if you need them but also know that we do love your vlogs! I will be praying for you and also remember you cant please everyone there will always be someone who isn pleased but you have so many more supporters than you do haters.
DES, i just want to say you are a genuine bright light in my life and i appreciate all you put out for us, i hate to see you struggling :( i love anything and everything you put out especially the weekly vlogs because i love how raw and real you get and i appreciate that so much because all of our lives are that way. we are all here and want to see you get better so take all the time you need to make videos or not make videos, you never ever have to explain yourself to us, we love you all the same❤️
I love your vlogs, it feels cozy and like talking to a friend on FaceTime. We’ll be here to watch anything you post when you feel well enough to post. Take care of yourself 🫶🏻💖
Im sorry you are going through a tough time. Wishing you the best, love your content. You don’t owe anyone any explanation, you got this girl! Do your own research, but when I did my research on trying to understand my mental health - on the topic of why I “re watch” so much when I’m feeling low is because in the midst on feeling so low my brain is finding comfort in knowing exactly what’s next. Somehow when looking into this it helped me realize what I needed to work through to get out of my rut. So I’m only sharing in hopes that it helps 💕
DESTINYYYY i literally LOVELOVE all of your videos!!!! I love your vlogs and your book videos!! You cold sit down and read your grocery list and I’d be sat and watch the whole thing!!!
Destiny you are so loved! I love all of your content, especially your long vlog content, you are my comfort RUclipsr. Sending you lots of love and strength to get through dark times xxxxxx (from the UK)
i LOVE the vlogs ! and they don't need to be book related for me to enjoy watching them. Love you Des, you're my comfort watch and my first pick after a stressful day. I'm a very anxious person as well and I relate to you in so many ways. We see you trying and we appreciate you so much for that. Take care of yourself and do what you love above all. 🩷
I love vlogs! They’re my favorite videos to watch from you the book ones are fun too but it’s also so fun to see you upload whatever you feel confident in🩵
As an anxious girly you are not alone!!! These feelings are so real and valid. I’ve been watching you forever and I have to say that vlogs are my favorite videos of yours to watch. Please put you first!!
Love you so much destiny! It is okay to allow yourself to rest and give yourself not only space but grace! You are experiencing a transition in your life, it is okay! I appreciate how much you share with us and love everything you share!!!! Please allow your mind and heart to rest.🤍💘
Personally, your vlog style content is my FAVVVORITE content of yours! (Along with your streams, they make my day). Whenever you feel ready, you have a LOT of support here!!! I have been a silent (ish) supporter for years and think you’re my favorite RUclipsr HANDS down
I looked at the title of this video and thought ooh yaya another fall diaries! And then i reread it and it was a day in the life and I got so happy cause I know its been hard for you to post these! I really hope you continue to feel better and are able to have happiness and satisfaction with your life! ❤
heyy des, kinda of silent supporter over here but i need to say this, you are literally my comfort person and i love your long videos so so much and sometimes they're the only thing that can make me feel a little bit better, just felt like you need to hear this, i love you so much and we see you trying 🩷
des i love love your vlogs so much! don’t get me wrong i still watch the reading videos but your everyday vlogs are my fav!! it’s ok everyone has their ups and downs don’t forget that! hope you start to feel better
You is one of the most open people on here and is one of the biggest reasons I watch. Take all the time you need for your mental health because you deserve the time for it. I will happily watch anything of yours. You could upload your grocery list and that would be awesome too. The vlogs are such good videos of yours because it makes me feel like my days aren't that bad either. I may have started here for the books but I stayed for the Destiny that speaks nothing but realness.
Destiny you should really think about getting professional help. It's clear that your anxiety is debilitating you from enjoying life! It’s not bad to ask for help. The only person who can change your situation is yourself but you have to take the steps to do it. As someone who has been taking medication and seeing a therapist for years for diagnosed anxiety and depression, it really is a game changer. It doesn’t work for everyone but you never know until you try. And if you are doing these things, great! But if not then what good does wallowing on social media do? This is coming from a genuine place of concern. We are in your corner and just want to see you thrive! You are so young and have so many beautiful qualities and you deserve to live life at ease.
usually a silent supporter but as an anxious girlie I related so hard to that whole "no one cares" feeling. I absolutely LOVE your vlogs it feels like we're on FaceTime, they're super comforting for me
girl i LOVE your vlogs pls keep uploading them 🫶🏻 also talking about your mental health makes me feel so much less alone i rlly appreciate the transparency 🩷 ily des!
Hiii! Sooo i usually never commend on videos but i have literally been MISSING your weekly vlogs!! I was sooo happy when i saw this video. So please keep posting and making your vlogs! We love them!
take all the time you need girlie! personally i love your vlog content, hauls, and non book related content just as much as the book content, so if you’re in a slump don’t force yourself! your chatty/long vlogs are so comforting to me and i always rewatch them. hope you feel better soon, don’t put pressure on yourself to stick to a specific posting schedule if you need to take breaks for any reason ❤️⭐️
Des, we appreciate you and hope you’re doing good! Always remember to put you and your mental health first, sending you lots of love and peaceful energy ❤️❤️❤️
as someone who once said “oh i like ur vlogs but i want reading/book videos. i love the vlogs and i’m so used to them i miss them when you don’t upload them as often. i love them and these vlogs show so much of your good job.
Destiny as someone who has suffered from Anxiety since I was a young child (I remember my first panic attack in 1st grade). As I got older, I got depression too. I say this as the struggle is real. The struggle is real even if you take medication (which I do), but everyone's mental health journey is personal and their own. I am not here to give you advice, but rather a virtual hug from one anxiety sister to another. Give yourself grace to be in your feels and prioritize what you need for you! Much love.
Love your vlogs, tbh the real people will watch ANYTHING you post 🫶🏼 just do whatever you enjoy at that certain moment, we want you to feel as well as possible!!
your new gym looks sooo nice i’m jealous!! also i’m glad the fall weather is helping you feel a little better :) also i ADORE your vlogs- post whatever you want whenever you want and spend all the time you can taking care of yourself and your mental health
Destiny, I never comment but I wanted to say I LOVE the vlogs. I love all your content but VLOGs are so so fun to watch. You should do what YOU want and what makes YOU happy and I swear everyone else will love it too!
i hope you’re doing okay bestie girl 💖 it’s okay to take a break so that you’re okay, your health and well-being is all that matters at the end of the day. i hope that you find a way out of this, whether it’s support from friends and family, getting there on your own, or with any other help. you’re so loved!!!
Des, I started watching you because of your bookish videos but I've stayed becauseeeeee of your vlogs!! I have like 4 people that I religiously look forward to watching and you're one of them.
I resonated so much with your mental health and book slump “update”. I’ve been feeling the exact same way, worst it’s been in a couple of years. We are all here for you 🤎🫶🏼
This past year for me has been hell with my anxiety. I couldn’t sleep many times. My mind would be constant worrying. It was a really dark and scary time. I understand you when you say how hard it’s been for you. I started therapy and I’ve learned a lot. If you need anything don’t hesitate to reach out. I was too scared to take medication but I didn’t need to because therapy literally helped me so much.
I have mental health issues and I love listening to you and that you’re not afraid to talk about it ❤. I started doing a designated time every morning to sit and read my Bible, even if it takes 2 hours I do it until I feel calm and ready for the day. It’s me time. Thank you for all that you post, I always look for yours in my top five when I get on RUclips. 🥰
Hi Des :) Love your openness about stress and anxiety cuz so many people can relate. Just wanted to say I love your videos and could listen to you all day. You have such a great community behind you, full of loving and understanding people, never forget it ;)
I don't normally comment on your videos, even though I watch them ALL. However, I feel like you need to know how much we all love you. Thank you for being so honest with us about your mental health struggles. I have never had anxiety up until this year but mine has been sky high recently too. I hope you're back to feeling like a little ray of sunshine soon!
Rewatching shows/movies or rereading books gives people a sense of control in life! It totally makes sense that we tend to rewatch/reread things when we are stressed/in a bad space mentally/have a lot going on in our lives. I literally read play along 4 times over the summer because of this 😂 Give yourself some grace, you are worthy of peace and rest!
hey des i just wanted to let you know i love your vlogs ive been in a really big depressive slump with life, work, and school these last couple months so i totally know how you feel. i was excited to see your vlog today because you motivate me to stay busy and take care of my health. i struggle with executive dysfunction so its hard for me to want to do simple things like eating, drinking water, or going on a walk so i like seeing your vlogs :) i promise you people want to see them i know it may seem like they arent as popular but i think its because broader topics like book videos reach more people in the algorithm idk. ps i cant wait to see more animal crossing i finally picked it up again and have been playing while watching your streams! sorry this was so long lol
Destiny i love your vlogs so much! You bring me so much comfort and im so proud if you. Ive been struggling with a lot of anxiety recently and you have been such a safe space for me when i need to relax. You make me feel so seen and i love you❤❤
Hey hey! So I don’t normally comment, but definitely wanted to thank you for your vulnerability and trust! I feel like I need to also add that what all you’re saying is word for word - burn out. Healing from burnout can feel a lot like being unproductive and encourage feelings of worthlessness. I’m sure you already know that, but just want you to be ok. Your mental health is the most important thing. So, do what you need to do Des! Like so many others have said, we ain’t going nowhere! We love your content, but we love to see our bookish queen thriving even more. Xoxo!
i’ve been feeling really anxious too recently and i have absolutely no idea why. i don’t think it’s been this bad in about eight years. you’re doing so well & i will watch anything you upload❤
i love the book content of course but i watch your videos because of your energy and personally so b the content that it’s most important id just you! i hope you feel better soon🩵
DES, I literally live for your lifestyle vlogs. If you are slumping with books, talk about movies you love! There are so many things besides books you are also passionate about. Your subscribers are here cause we love watching YOU. Post what you want! We love you.
destiny we will always be here for you, put yourself first and do what u gotta do for yourself. love u i hope you get out of this rough time, post what you want and i'll eat it up ❤️
Des… this is YOUR creative outlet. We are here because we love what YOU post, what YOU do. Personally whatever you post I’m watching and I’m sure I’m not the only one. Stop worrying about what we are going to like because this entire channel is about YOU not us. ❤❤
Destiny you are literally the ONLY RUclipsr whose vlogs I can watch all the way through. You have the BEST vlogs! At the end of the day just film whatever you enjoy.
literally this!
Destiny andd Stephanie for me
this!!!
Des, we are not going anywhere, take all the time you need and don't stress yourself out about uploading videos. Your vlogs are my favorite btw, it feels like catching up with your bestie everytime.
Silent supporter here ❤ as an anxious girlie who’s also been getting AWFUL sleep lately, just know you’re not alone. We love you and appreciate all you do 🫶 no pressure from us!!
I was just sitting here thinking “I hope Des post something soon, I miss her” 💖
That was Me last night!!
I feel like that a lot, it’s almost like checking on a friend thing “where is Des… let me see if she posted 😂”
vlogs are literally my favorite video of yours to watch. take all the time you need to better your mental health!!
I agree!!!!❤
YES
Her vlogs are the best! I would literally watch them if they were 2 hours long.
ME TOOO!!!🩷
i see the words “destiny” and “fall” and im sat. (also i missed u des and don’t hesitate to take as long as u need for ur mental health, we love you)
Des, I’ve suffered with crippling anxiety my whole life too, adding in mild depression. I know every single person is different but medication saved my life. It’s scary to make the next step but seeing a caring doctor who knows you and can prescribe you with the right medication could literally change your life. Anyways, I hope you know that you’re so loved ❤️
I recently discovered that so many women are misdiagnosed with anxiety when in some cases they may be on the spectrum or have ADHD (more common). That's not to discredit doctors who actually diagnose correctly, but it's quite common with misdiagnoses among women. In some cases the presence of ADHD or Autism should be considered in individuals who suffer from severe anxiety/depression. Having said that, I'm happy you found something that works for you. Sending you light ✨
@@girlwiththemagicpenyes, this!! I know that I have ADHD and doctors just don’t believe me and refuse to listen when I try to tell them. It’s unfortunate there’s such a stigma around it.
@@SamKapperYes, it's really sad. Even worse when doctors are quick to dismiss patients who express concerns to them. Very heartbreaking.
completely agree. don’t know where my ocd would be without medication today
Medication isn't for everyone ❤ Meds were the worst thing for my spicy brain. Therapy is great tho
Love your vlogs Destiny!
Also give yourself a pat on the back for ‘ pushing through’ because pushing through mental illness is literally one of the hardest things, and you’re doing it! So well done x
I felt convicted to say this to you when I listened to you talk about being in a bad mental space. I know you’re a Christian like me and I’m old I’m 35 🤣 so just try this and see if it works 💕in the morning before you work out, do a devotional, read one passage in your Bible. Then work out. Listen to worship music. Say your prayers out loud. It will bring you comfort and joy I promise. Love you destiny 💕
Yes, this!! Spiritual warfare is SO real and this world is so hard to navigate. 🤍🤍🤍
The only thing that can calm my anxiety most days is praying out loud and even reciting scripture out loud!🩶
THIS !! des i never comment, but honestly im praying for you! there is such a call on your life and you are such a light. God can free you from and walk you through the hardest and darkest of times. lean on Him ! we love you ❤️🩹
Her yapping is healing 💌
I am not someone who likes to listen to others yap but I could listen to Destiny yap for the rest of my life
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Her voice and words are like honey 🍯
Destiny I love your vulnerability about mental health, you truly do make me and so many others feel so seen and understood. Don’t ever forget to put yourself and your needs first, the Lord is always at your side even when you can’t feel it. All lights turned off can be turned on-WE LOVE YOU💗
I also suffer with bad anxiety and depression and poor sleep a lot, it sucks but books are my comfort and your videos are such a light in the dark, never feel bad for taking time to look after yourself!
your vlogs are my favorite!!! also, as someone who’s struggled with very bad mental health (depression, anxiety, the works), you’re not alone. it’s horrible right now, but it WILL pass. don’t push yourself if you’re not ready. you got this girl!!!
MISSED YOU BESTIE!!
usually a silent watcher but im also a fellow anxious girly & just wanted you to know how much your videos comfort me as someone who heavily relates to a lot of what you feel. literally the only thing getting me thru senior year of college and the immense stress is you & sara’s videos & podcast. it really helps me at least to know im not alone in suffering with anxiety & it does not define us 🫶🫶
Much love Destiny, as a fellow person that can have bouts of crippling anxiety I know how demoralizing it can feel when you stop being able to do stuff you can normally do. These past few weeks you've crossed my mind and every time I just hope you're doing okay. It's amazing that you're still doing your best to get content out while trying to navigate mental health. Sending you lots of positivity and strength ♡
i love your vlogs dest! your personality really shines through- i think more of your supporters enjoy your vlogs than you realize
don’t ever feel like we don’t care about your content!! i love whatever you put out whether they’re book videos or vlogs, i love them!! i love you and will be praying for you❤
I LOVE YOUR VLOGS SOOO MUCH!! I literally don’t care if they are about absolutely nothing I just love watching your everyday life gym, cooking, shopping, work, how your feeling idc they are my favourite videos of yours because it makes me feel seen 🤍
I just wanted to say that you are absolutely not alone. I deal with anxiety every day, and your videos have been a source of comfort and inspiration for me. Watching your content helps remind me that I'm not alone in facing high expectations and the pressure to be 'perfect.' It feels like we share a lot of the same traits - striving to do our best, overthinking, dealing with anxiety, and that constant shadow of imposter syndrome.
What makes your channel so special isn't just the content itself but you - your genuine personality, your effort, and your journey. Your authenticity and the way you share your love for what you do make a huge impact, and I’m here because I love seeing you being yourself. You never need to explain or apologize for that. Just know that you are enough, and you are so appreciated. You've supported me in ways you'll never know
Destiny my angel, your health is the most important thing above everything else. We love you and support you in whatever you need to do, we will still be here if you need to take a break and we will love you while you're gone and when you come back.
If people have anything to say about you taking care of yourself they aren't worth the headspace to think about them (I know this is easier said than done)
As for vlogs, they are my personal favourite content (I still absolutely love your other videos too). If you ever feel comfortable in sharing them, I would love to watch them.
Love Lil
Love the long weekly vlogs from you, Sara, and fern. Please don’t stop! ❤ anxiety is the worst. Wish you better days ahead☀️
Thanks for being so honest and bringing more awareness to mental health and taking breaks for your own peace 💚
I only discovered you this year, but I adore your content. Take all the time you need for yourself, we'll always be here when you feel ready to post❤
I'm usually more of a silent watcher but just wanted to say you don't need to make yourself feel bad or guilty! Take your time with uploads and getting out of your book slump, the real ones will always be here to support you. I love the vlogs so much, you and Sara are my favourite youtubers to watch and I'm sure so many people feel the same as me! Treat yourself with kindness ♥️
Literally JUST sat down praying that when I checked RUclips des had posted 🙏
i love how open you are with us! love you destiny
We love you Destiny!! 😆 especially the fall vlogs
just wanted you to know that your videos are so healing and honestly keep me in touch with my own anxiety ❤ you are so appreciated des xx
Would love to see a read it or unhaul it series from you!
Des im sending you so much love and peace to keep going day by day. Anxiety and depression can be so scary, i’m really proud of you for slaying despite the struggles 💛
Thank you for being so honest about your feelings! I know I’ve done gratitude journaling for a while, and that’s helped me so much! It helps you see the good in things when you feel like there isn’t anything to be happy about🩷
I am soo excited for another vlog. Literally always the best part of the week. Its always like a face time. Love it❤
Destiny I absolutely love your vlogs. I seen this one and specifically saved it for when I had a house cleaning day. Girl you take your time and take brakes if you need them but also know that we do love your vlogs! I will be praying for you and also remember you cant please everyone there will always be someone who isn pleased but you have so many more supporters than you do haters.
DES, i just want to say you are a genuine bright light in my life and i appreciate all you put out for us, i hate to see you struggling :( i love anything and everything you put out especially the weekly vlogs because i love how raw and real you get and i appreciate that so much because all of our lives are that way. we are all here and want to see you get better so take all the time you need to make videos or not make videos, you never ever have to explain yourself to us, we love you all the same❤️
I love your vlogs, it feels cozy and like talking to a friend on FaceTime. We’ll be here to watch anything you post when you feel well enough to post. Take care of yourself 🫶🏻💖
Hey Destiny, hope you put yourself first. Move slow and do what you want + makes you happy, we’ll always be here for you!
Im sorry you are going through a tough time. Wishing you the best, love your content. You don’t owe anyone any explanation, you got this girl!
Do your own research, but when I did my research on trying to understand my mental health - on the topic of why I “re watch” so much when I’m feeling low is because in the midst on feeling so low my brain is finding comfort in knowing exactly what’s next. Somehow when looking into this it helped me realize what I needed to work through to get out of my rut. So I’m only sharing in hopes that it helps 💕
DESTINYYYY i literally LOVELOVE all of your videos!!!! I love your vlogs and your book videos!! You cold sit down and read your grocery list and I’d be sat and watch the whole thing!!!
Destiny you are so loved! I love all of your content, especially your long vlog content, you are my comfort RUclipsr. Sending you lots of love and strength to get through dark times xxxxxx (from the UK)
YAY! I love fall des!🍂🍁 So cozy and fun! So excited to watch my fav youtuber. ❤
This vlog is so comforting!! Love you Des💓
i LOVE the vlogs ! and they don't need to be book related for me to enjoy watching them. Love you Des, you're my comfort watch and my first pick after a stressful day. I'm a very anxious person as well and I relate to you in so many ways. We see you trying and we appreciate you so much for that. Take care of yourself and do what you love above all. 🩷
I love vlogs! They’re my favorite videos to watch from you the book ones are fun too but it’s also so fun to see you upload whatever you feel confident in🩵
As an anxious girly you are not alone!!! These feelings are so real and valid. I’ve been watching you forever and I have to say that vlogs are my favorite videos of yours to watch. Please put you first!!
Love you so much destiny! It is okay to allow yourself to rest and give yourself not only space but grace! You are experiencing a transition in your life, it is okay! I appreciate how much you share with us and love everything you share!!!! Please allow your mind and heart to rest.🤍💘
Personally, your vlog style content is my FAVVVORITE content of yours! (Along with your streams, they make my day). Whenever you feel ready, you have a LOT of support here!!! I have been a silent (ish) supporter for years and think you’re my favorite RUclipsr HANDS down
I looked at the title of this video and thought ooh yaya another fall diaries! And then i reread it and it was a day in the life and I got so happy cause I know its been hard for you to post these! I really hope you continue to feel better and are able to have happiness and satisfaction with your life! ❤
Yours are one of the few people whos vlogs I actually enjoy
heyy des, kinda of silent supporter over here but i need to say this, you are literally my comfort person and i love your long videos so so much and sometimes they're the only thing that can make me feel a little bit better, just felt like you need to hear this, i love you so much and we see you trying 🩷
des i love love your vlogs so much! don’t get me wrong i still watch the reading videos but your everyday vlogs are my fav!! it’s ok everyone has their ups and downs don’t forget that! hope you start to feel better
You is one of the most open people on here and is one of the biggest reasons I watch. Take all the time you need for your mental health because you deserve the time for it. I will happily watch anything of yours. You could upload your grocery list and that would be awesome too. The vlogs are such good videos of yours because it makes me feel like my days aren't that bad either. I may have started here for the books but I stayed for the Destiny that speaks nothing but realness.
Destiny you should really think about getting professional help. It's clear that your anxiety is debilitating you from enjoying life! It’s not bad to ask for help. The only person who can change your situation is yourself but you have to take the steps to do it. As someone who has been taking medication and seeing a therapist for years for diagnosed anxiety and depression, it really is a game changer. It doesn’t work for everyone but you never know until you try. And if you are doing these things, great! But if not then what good does wallowing on social media do? This is coming from a genuine place of concern. We are in your corner and just want to see you thrive! You are so young and have so many beautiful qualities and you deserve to live life at ease.
hey des, just wanted to tell you that you are doing amazing and you got this! sending love from Portugal
sooo excited for another vlog! also, that navy blue/purple looks so good on you! I think it makes your eyes pop.
awe Des, as a true supporter i love and enjoy all the content you make! and remember to give yourself grace and be nice to yourself!
usually a silent supporter but as an anxious girlie I related so hard to that whole "no one cares" feeling. I absolutely LOVE your vlogs it feels like we're on FaceTime, they're super comforting for me
girl i LOVE your vlogs pls keep uploading them 🫶🏻 also talking about your mental health makes me feel so much less alone i rlly appreciate the transparency 🩷 ily des!
Hiii! Sooo i usually never commend on videos but i have literally been MISSING your weekly vlogs!! I was sooo happy when i saw this video. So please keep posting and making your vlogs! We love them!
take all the time you need girlie! personally i love your vlog content, hauls, and non book related content just as much as the book content, so if you’re in a slump don’t force yourself! your chatty/long vlogs are so comforting to me and i always rewatch them. hope you feel better soon, don’t put pressure on yourself to stick to a specific posting schedule if you need to take breaks for any reason ❤️⭐️
Des, we appreciate you and hope you’re doing good! Always remember to put you and your mental health first, sending you lots of love and peaceful energy ❤️❤️❤️
as someone who once said “oh i like ur vlogs but i want reading/book videos. i love the vlogs and i’m so used to them i miss them when you don’t upload them as often. i love them and these vlogs show so much of your good job.
i love the vlogs🥰 but most important is that you do what you love and look after yourself, we love everything you post🫶🏻
i love your vlogs so much, its my fav content!!!!! i love watching u talking about random stuff so much, makes me feel less alone
Destiny as someone who has suffered from Anxiety since I was a young child (I remember my first panic attack in 1st grade). As I got older, I got depression too. I say this as the struggle is real. The struggle is real even if you take medication (which I do), but everyone's mental health journey is personal and their own. I am not here to give you advice, but rather a virtual hug from one anxiety sister to another. Give yourself grace to be in your feels and prioritize what you need for you! Much love.
Love your vlogs, tbh the real people will watch ANYTHING you post 🫶🏼 just do whatever you enjoy at that certain moment, we want you to feel as well as possible!!
Des we soooo appreciate you giving us a space to escape to but give yourself that space too!!
your new gym looks sooo nice i’m jealous!! also i’m glad the fall weather is helping you feel a little better :) also i ADORE your vlogs- post whatever you want whenever you want and spend all the time you can taking care of yourself and your mental health
Destiny, I never comment but I wanted to say I LOVE the vlogs. I love all your content but VLOGs are so so fun to watch. You should do what YOU want and what makes YOU happy and I swear everyone else will love it too!
i hope you’re doing okay bestie girl 💖 it’s okay to take a break so that you’re okay, your health and well-being is all that matters at the end of the day. i hope that you find a way out of this, whether it’s support from friends and family, getting there on your own, or with any other help. you’re so loved!!!
Des, I started watching you because of your bookish videos but I've stayed becauseeeeee of your vlogs!! I have like 4 people that I religiously look forward to watching and you're one of them.
I resonated so much with your mental health and book slump “update”. I’ve been feeling the exact same way, worst it’s been in a couple of years. We are all here for you 🤎🫶🏼
This past year for me has been hell with my anxiety. I couldn’t sleep many times. My mind would be constant worrying. It was a really dark and scary time. I understand you when you say how hard it’s been for you. I started therapy and I’ve learned a lot. If you need anything don’t hesitate to reach out. I was too scared to take medication but I didn’t need to because therapy literally helped me so much.
I have mental health issues and I love listening to you and that you’re not afraid to talk about it ❤. I started doing a designated time every morning to sit and read my Bible, even if it takes 2 hours I do it until I feel calm and ready for the day. It’s me time. Thank you for all that you post, I always look for yours in my top five when I get on RUclips. 🥰
Hi Des :) Love your openness about stress and anxiety cuz so many people can relate. Just wanted to say I love your videos and could listen to you all day. You have such a great community behind you, full of loving and understanding people, never forget it ;)
I don't normally comment on your videos, even though I watch them ALL. However, I feel like you need to know how much we all love you. Thank you for being so honest with us about your mental health struggles. I have never had anxiety up until this year but mine has been sky high recently too. I hope you're back to feeling like a little ray of sunshine soon!
we have missed you! I literally love everything you post.
im sorry you've been having a rough time w ur mental health! i rlly hope u feel better
Rewatching shows/movies or rereading books gives people a sense of control in life! It totally makes sense that we tend to rewatch/reread things when we are stressed/in a bad space mentally/have a lot going on in our lives. I literally read play along 4 times over the summer because of this 😂 Give yourself some grace, you are worthy of peace and rest!
hey des i just wanted to let you know i love your vlogs ive been in a really big depressive slump with life, work, and school these last couple months so i totally know how you feel. i was excited to see your vlog today because you motivate me to stay busy and take care of my health. i struggle with executive dysfunction so its hard for me to want to do simple things like eating, drinking water, or going on a walk so i like seeing your vlogs :) i promise you people want to see them i know it may seem like they arent as popular but i think its because broader topics like book videos reach more people in the algorithm idk. ps i cant wait to see more animal crossing i finally picked it up again and have been playing while watching your streams! sorry this was so long lol
I love your videos Des! They’re so comforting to me. 💗
So sorry you’re going through this! Therapy is a beautiful thing.
Destiny i love your vlogs so much! You bring me so much comfort and im so proud if you. Ive been struggling with a lot of anxiety recently and you have been such a safe space for me when i need to relax. You make me feel so seen and i love you❤❤
Hey hey! So I don’t normally comment, but definitely wanted to thank you for your vulnerability and trust! I feel like I need to also add that what all you’re saying is word for word - burn out. Healing from burnout can feel a lot like being unproductive and encourage feelings of worthlessness. I’m sure you already know that, but just want you to be ok. Your mental health is the most important thing. So, do what you need to do Des! Like so many others have said, we ain’t going nowhere! We love your content, but we love to see our bookish queen thriving even more. Xoxo!
i’ve been feeling really anxious too recently and i have absolutely no idea why. i don’t think it’s been this bad in about eight years. you’re doing so well & i will watch anything you upload❤
i literally love all your videos so much.
Love your vlogs :) Being a creative and making content takes a lot of time and energy. Be kind to yourself - you're doing a great job! x
i love the book content of course but i watch your videos because of your energy and personally so b the content that it’s most important id just you! i hope you feel better soon🩵
DES, I literally live for your lifestyle vlogs. If you are slumping with books, talk about movies you love! There are so many things besides books you are also passionate about. Your subscribers are here cause we love watching YOU. Post what you want! We love you.
I also have anxiety and depression! Sending you so much love, I love watching all your content 🩷🩷
destiny we will always be here for you, put yourself first and do what u gotta do for yourself. love u i hope you get out of this rough time, post what you want and i'll eat it up ❤️
I will always watch any video you post! Less emphasis on liking your videos more so we like you! 🩷
Whatever you do and how often you can/want is great! What is best for you is best for us!
Des… this is YOUR creative outlet. We are here because we love what YOU post, what YOU do. Personally whatever you post I’m watching and I’m sure I’m not the only one. Stop worrying about what we are going to like because this entire channel is about YOU not us. ❤❤
You are so loved!!!! Don’t let mean people change the way you feel about yourself!!! You are adorable.❤
Destiny I LOVE your vlogs!!!! Your my comfort RUclipsr and I would truly watch any content you make🫶🏼
I’ll watch whatever you post whenever you post but take care of yourself first!! Taking care of yourself is what is most important ❤
i love your vlogs so much 🤍🤍 Des please take care of yourself, don’t rush anything and do things at your own time 🤍
That purplish blue sweatsuit with Des’ eyes & complexion 😍😍😍
Des- you look so stunning, love that you’re embracing your natural beauty 🫶
bestie you make me feel so comfortable, thank u 🥹🩷