Don't be far away from the woman and her children. Support them, genuinely and be patient with her I mean don't rush you will see everything will go well for you
I support these guy for his genuine approach The respect he shows to the woman in a manner which he approach her is very recommendable and the sincerity speak values to her.
Apart from the bad timing, the guy looks like one who genuinely loves and wants to take care of the lady and her child. Besides bcos their Dad wants the lady to be free to remarry elsewhere without any rancour tells me they're a good family. However it's a no no for me, 3 months after she lost her hubby? What the guy should do is to be useful to her, (not having anything in mind ) always be there for her and her child as much as he can. Help your brothers child and the woman left behind by him whether she agrees or not. It is how useful you are to her that will make her see a reason to remain in the family. Your timing is very wrong. Remove your eye from her. ) although I understand that other guys will be looking out for her too now) Help her bcos she's your late brothers wife. She needs help now not love. Let her mourn her hubby well. Do not speak to her again abt anything marriage until at least a year and half, if possible 2yrs if you can wait. Don't let people swear for you o. (I think the guy genuinely likes her.) May God heal her and give her the strength to forge ahead.
Just keep supporting & showing them genuine love for now. Maybe like after a year & six months, your care & concern will make her willingly accept your love for her. Don't rush her for now...
NOT TRUE. INHERITING BROTHER'S SPOUSE IS AFRICAN TRADITION. IF HE HAD ILL WILL, HE WOULD NOT HAVE ALLOWED HIS ELDER BROTHER TO GO AHEAD AND MARY HER INITIALLY. REMEMBER, THAT KIND OF RESPECT IS AFRICAN TRADITION AS WELL. ZERO COMPETITION FOR A WOMAN BETWEEN BROTHERS, THE FIRST TO BE INTIMATE WITH (OR PROPOSE) HER WINS. HIS HANDS ARE CLEAN & HIS CURRENT MISSION IS LEGIT. KEEP HER IN THE FAMILY IF SHE IS WORTH IT. MAKES PRACTICAL SENSE.
Your generation of AI lacks morality and cultural norms. He's right, but while on social media. It should be a family affair. But she needs time to morn her husband. In some cultures after 1yr. Respect pls.
Young Man, you and your family did well by suggesting this. God made it clear in the bible that The girl will remarry in the from the family if she found love there again. But you should have started taking care of her and children first, which I guess she may even throw her self to you, for you to decide. So start taking good care of her very well and give her time to heal from the death of your brother. Main looking at her she have a good heart no doubt
Big man you have a good point but just relax this is too early. Take it easy she will marry you just maybe after a year. Take it easy with her please. She's still in pain. Everything will be in their rightful places.
I like this guy. He’s so plain and sincere. He just speaking his mind and I don’t think he has hands in his brother death at all he is very genuine person. Just give her time Is Good you have made your intentions clear towards her Watching from London
Guy, leave your brother's widow alone. Go and look for a wife of your own. You can always help your brother's children. Look for your own wife, have your own children, and leave this woman alone to decide what she wants to do to be happy. To you content creator, do not encourage him by asking the lady to think about it. He is suspicious.
HE SHOULD WOO HER GRADUALLY, INHERIT BOTH HER AND HIS BROTHER'S CHILDREN. BETTER TO EXTEND THE EXISTING BOND THAN MARRYING STRANGERS. AS LONG AS SHE AGREES TO STAY IN. PURE AFRICAN TRADITION.
The truth is that ,guy u have a feeling for your brother wife before your brother got married her ,u just say it in mouth that l left it for brothers but u still interested in her... married another person and take your piki Brother to your places
The young man is not doing anything wrong, except that it's too early to propose to her now. He should do his best to take good care of the kids and mother that would convince the woman he is good and caring and she will not say no to him
The guy's intention is clear reasonable, but he should have started by being very close and nice to the lady and naturally nature would present itself.
Lady in your culture it is ok but she needs sometimes to think about it. It is not a bad idea, but she can not go to relationship with you now. From USA
❤ BROTHER PLEASE LET WAIT FOR YOUR BROTHER WIFE TO MOURN HER HUSBAND FOR SIX MONTHS BEFORE YOU CAN ASK HER HAND IN MARRIAGE. YOU ARE TOO FAST TO ASK HER HAND IN MARRIAGE. JUST WAIT LITTLE TIME 1 THINK SHE LOVES YOU WITH ALL ❤️ HEARTS. FROM NOW TRY TO BE BUYING HER SOMETHING THAT WILL BE MAKING HER HAPPY MORE THAN YOUR LATE BROTHER JUST SHOW HER LOVE AND INTERESTED YOU HAVE ON HER. YOU KNOW WOMAN IS VERY EASY TO GET THEIR ❤ HEARTS.
He should do things that will make the lady knows the he cares about her and the child. It s also too early to make such a proposition of marrying her.
She have married your elder brother before he died that feeling is not longer there any more and if you enforce her into your life and family you will live a painful life the only way out is let her go and if she have children with your brother those children is still part of your family the only you and your family will do is to support her for children's care but if you continue to enforce her into your life you will not enjoy her she will be causing you pain let her go pls there is a lot of ladies where you come from and around pls let her go
BUT WHO SAYS SHE BEING FORCED??? THIS IS JUST THE FIRST HEARING. WHO TOLD YOU THAT DEEP DOWN SHE DOES NOT RESPECT THIS BROTHER WHO BOLDLY SAID HE WANTS HER AND THE KIDS. SHE JUST NEEDS SOME TIME TO HEAL WHILE ADJUSTING TO THE IDEA. THAT'S ALL.
I support you bro, is a good idea, but if you want to try her, come with a lady and you will see her reaction, then call her by the side and ask her again, if she will marry you or not
Now you have made your intentions known show sign of responsibility over her and children as traditions demand for the periods of her moaning after six/1yr. You have to win her not as an entitlement. If all things been equal. But should have been a family affairs why on social media?
It's not bad for the guy to marry the young widow. However, they must agree to marry each other. Israel should give her time to mourn the deceased husband, heal and make a decision.
Please my dear lady marry your husband bother he love you will take care you and your son Take your time to heal from your loss and God will confront you
This woman the way you dey talk is painful I swear.. allow the widow to marry this guy he has a good point period,, you need to go out there and see how this kind matter scattered families.. shes very young to remarry if she wants but I will advice her to marry him but he has to meet his father discus it with him then his father will invite the elders into the matter very simple.
Must it be so all the time, this is always a common saying and you are no less different from feeble minds, you've joined the band wagon of people who accuses others without prove. So it is better to your view for an outsider to father his brothers children when he could possibly keep her in the family if she accepts his proposal so that he will take care of her and his brothers children.
let her marry him because if she gets married to another man he may not see the children as his own likewise the other boy gets married to another woman she may not take the children as her own
That young man is evil. May be he has his hand in what happened to his brother. No atom of remorse, no emotion. Listen to him saying “my brother don die, e don die, nothing go bring am back”. Joy, just mourn your husband, and find a good life somewhere else. He already started pushing her and the kids by stopping the support. Evil human being. He looks like a wife beater. His ancestors will judge him. Joy if you sleep with him you will be seeing your late husband. You’re too young to get stuck in same circle. That guy Isreal is bad news. The Lord is your strength my dear. It’s well.
Well its not bad if you love her and wants to marry her and it is good you made your intention known so she could be pondering over it, but pls just give her like 1year to come over her husband's passing. The way I see her if you continue to show her genuine love I think she will come round with your proposal.
👁️🔥👁️👉I think he had a hands in his brother's death, especially when he says that he had a feelings for her before his brother snatched her first before telling her his feelings ❓
I neva see anything bad in this issue regard is too early the guy is in the right step unless the girl want to remain in the family,remember body no be firewood but is her wish to make
Some of you are not reasonable before commenting, what wickedness and heartless attitude these have displayed that you have observed in this video. You be Mumu. The gentleman has done nothing wrong.
Then why did the father-in-law not her time to heal before announcing to her that she can marry if she wants to remarry Good husband is not easy to find my sister and you already know this brother-in-lae as they say the devil u know is better than the angel you don't know. Think about his proposal we'll and then met your father-in-law to reveal his intention towards you. You guys can take it up from there.
There are many women in the world. Why your late brother's wife. Chances are, you might have a hand in your brother's death. Since he has children that's your blood take care of them genuinely. Hod will bless you. But as far as wanting to marry her that's a taboo.
I really do not see anything this young guy did wrong. He is only respectfully making his intention known. He is willing to give her time to heal and recover. The guy is not wrong at all as long as he is not forcing and pressurizing her.
What the brother is proposing is in the Biblical and ordained by God Himself - Gen. 38:6-11 . The only problem I see here is what was articulated by the hostess, that he should give her more time to mourn her husband. Probably a year. Because really now, who is better able to take care of those children than her husband's brother? One ❤ out of JamRock 🇯🇲!
Don't be far away from the woman and her children. Support them, genuinely and be patient with her I mean don't rush you will see everything will go well for you
Just be nice to her and treat her well she might fall for you
I support these guy for his genuine approach
The respect he shows to the woman in a manner which he approach her is very recommendable and the sincerity speak values to her.
As a matter of fact, being single and good man, he is not wrong, only he would have wanted for a least six to one year.
Yes, the best way is to give her time.
Young man its good you have made your intentions known. Let her be for at least one year then you can revisit the matter.
The idea is not bad at all.....the lady needs at least 6 months to heal. Please, Bro. give her time and continue to show that you care.
I don't know what their tradition entails but the right thing is for him to wait for at least one year.
Apart from the bad timing, the guy looks like one who genuinely loves and wants to take care of the lady and her child. Besides bcos their Dad wants the lady to be free to remarry elsewhere without any rancour tells me they're a good family.
However it's a no no for me, 3 months after she lost her hubby? What the guy should do is to be useful to her, (not having anything in mind ) always be there for her and her child as much as he can. Help your brothers child and the woman left behind by him whether she agrees or not. It is how useful you are to her that will make her see a reason to remain in the family. Your timing is very wrong. Remove your eye from her. ) although I understand that other guys will be looking out for her too now) Help her bcos she's your late brothers wife. She needs help now not love. Let her mourn her hubby well. Do not speak to her again abt anything marriage until at least a year and half, if possible 2yrs if you can wait. Don't let people swear for you o. (I think the guy genuinely likes her.) May God heal her and give her the strength to forge ahead.
Ur father is a good man ur family is nice... I think she should consider giving you a chance if you are a good man
Just keep supporting & showing them genuine love for now. Maybe like after a year & six months, your care & concern will make her willingly accept your love for her.
Don't rush her for now...
Oga i hope you are not involved in her husband death 😢😢
He definitely is
NOT TRUE. INHERITING BROTHER'S SPOUSE IS AFRICAN TRADITION. IF HE HAD ILL WILL, HE WOULD NOT HAVE ALLOWED HIS ELDER BROTHER TO GO AHEAD AND MARY HER INITIALLY. REMEMBER, THAT KIND OF RESPECT IS AFRICAN TRADITION AS WELL. ZERO COMPETITION FOR A WOMAN BETWEEN BROTHERS, THE FIRST TO BE INTIMATE WITH (OR PROPOSE) HER WINS. HIS HANDS ARE CLEAN & HIS CURRENT MISSION IS LEGIT. KEEP HER IN THE FAMILY IF SHE IS WORTH IT. MAKES PRACTICAL SENSE.
I suspect him 110%
Your generation of AI lacks morality and cultural norms.
He's right, but while on social media. It should be a family affair. But she needs time to morn her husband. In some cultures after 1yr. Respect pls.
Young Man, you and your family did well by suggesting this. God made it clear in the bible that The girl will remarry in the from the family if she found love there again. But you should have started taking care of her and children first, which I guess she may even throw her self to you, for you to decide. So start taking good care of her very well and give her time to heal from the death of your brother. Main looking at her she have a good heart no doubt
Big man you have a good point but just relax this is too early. Take it easy she will marry you just maybe after a year. Take it easy with her please. She's still in pain. Everything will be in their rightful places.
I like this guy. He’s so plain and sincere. He just speaking his mind and I don’t think he has hands in his brother death at all he is very genuine person. Just give her time Is Good you have made your intentions clear towards her Watching from London
Cheers
From your own short sightedness
LEGIT, VERY LEGIT. AND NOTHING IS FORCED ON ANYBODY. THAT IS OUR TRADITION.
Guy, leave your brother's widow alone. Go and look for a wife of your own. You can always help your brother's children. Look for your own wife, have your own children, and leave this woman alone to decide what she wants to do to be happy. To you content creator, do not encourage him by asking the lady to think about it. He is suspicious.
The presentor should marry him.
HE SHOULD WOO HER GRADUALLY, INHERIT BOTH HER AND HIS BROTHER'S CHILDREN. BETTER TO EXTEND THE EXISTING BOND THAN MARRYING STRANGERS. AS LONG AS SHE AGREES TO STAY IN. PURE AFRICAN TRADITION.
Oga u no get sense! 3 months is too early for this nah.calm down abi na you kpai this man
The truth is that ,guy u have a feeling for your brother wife before your brother got married her ,u just say it in mouth that l left it for brothers but u still interested in her... married another person and take your piki Brother to your places
This boy do you love your late brother? Because the way you come to your brother wife to marry her.
The young man is not doing anything wrong, except that it's too early to propose to her now. He should do his best to take good care of the kids and mother that would convince the woman he is good and caring and she will not say no to him
There's no need condemning this man because he's not forcing her, only those who make it compulsory i don't agree with the culture
THE CULTURE IS GREAT, SOLVES MANY PROBLEMS AT THE ROOT. SO LONG AS IT IS CONCENTUAL FOR BOTH PARTNERS AND NOT COMPELLED BY ELDERS.
He can't even wait for her to moan her late husband. Something is wrong. I think he has a hidden agenda.
The guy's intention is clear reasonable, but he should have started by being very close and nice to the lady and naturally nature would present itself.
Give her time. Let her mourn her husband.
Lady in your culture it is ok but she needs sometimes to think about it. It is not a bad idea, but she can not go to relationship with you now. From USA
Make sure you will not frustrat her in future by marrying another woman as your own wife, to make it two
It's like you killed your brother to marry his wife. You said, you love her first before your brother marry her, that's says it all
Are you sure you know what happened to your brother
❤ BROTHER PLEASE LET WAIT FOR YOUR BROTHER WIFE TO MOURN HER HUSBAND FOR SIX MONTHS BEFORE YOU CAN ASK HER HAND IN MARRIAGE. YOU ARE TOO FAST TO ASK HER HAND IN MARRIAGE. JUST WAIT LITTLE TIME 1 THINK SHE LOVES YOU WITH ALL ❤️ HEARTS. FROM NOW TRY TO BE BUYING HER SOMETHING THAT WILL BE MAKING HER HAPPY MORE THAN YOUR LATE BROTHER JUST SHOW HER LOVE AND INTERESTED YOU HAVE ON HER. YOU KNOW WOMAN IS VERY EASY TO GET THEIR ❤ HEARTS.
There's nothing wrong with marrying your dead brother's wife, If she doesn't want to, abeg let go. She go soon understand why you her best choice.
Are you sure that this boy hand no dey for his brother s body ?
This guy killed his brother for that lady
Base on what i have obsessed here, this guy hand is very clean,
LET GOD'S WILL BE DONE.
If it's real, nothing bad but just for the guy to give her sometime to mourn her
He should do things that will make the lady knows the he cares about her and the child. It s also too early to make such a proposition of marrying her.
She have married your elder brother before he died that feeling is not longer there any more and if you enforce her into your life and family you will live a painful life the only way out is let her go and if she have children with your brother those children is still part of your family the only you and your family will do is to support her for children's care but if you continue to enforce her into your life you will not enjoy her she will be causing you pain let her go pls there is a lot of ladies where you come from and around pls let her go
BUT WHO SAYS SHE BEING FORCED??? THIS IS JUST THE FIRST HEARING. WHO TOLD YOU THAT DEEP DOWN SHE DOES NOT RESPECT THIS BROTHER WHO BOLDLY SAID HE WANTS HER AND THE KIDS. SHE JUST NEEDS SOME TIME TO HEAL WHILE ADJUSTING TO THE IDEA. THAT'S ALL.
He could have been responsible for the death of the brother.
If u are christian go to your pastor and inform him to talk to her iam a pastor also
I support you bro, is a good idea, but if you want to try her, come with a lady and you will see her reaction, then call her by the side and ask her again, if she will marry you or not
Good package
This boy try his right
This guy is the person that killed his brother to marry the wife
This guy is not serious.if your father told her she can go out,why didn't you talk to your father about your interest.
Now you have made your intentions known show sign of responsibility over her and children as traditions demand for the periods of her moaning after six/1yr. You have to win her not as an entitlement. If all things been equal.
But should have been a family affairs why on social media?
Useless nonsense she does not want. Is the presentor normal.
Did you kill your brother to take over your brother wife. Is there no other girl outside. May God almighty have mercy. Keep quiet you are evil.
Yes he is right
This guy is a suspect
This mediator is crap 😂
No be small ooooo
My broda go look for your own woman
Na tradition
Three months later see her long hair
Why you people always thinking about people saying what they will do for you when you need help where are they
It's not bad for the guy to marry the young widow.
However, they must agree to marry each other. Israel should give her time to mourn the deceased husband, heal and make a decision.
Does it means your people dont mourn their dead up to one year
Please my dear lady marry your husband bother he love you will take care you and your son
Take your time to heal from your loss and God will confront you
Good idea
This woman the way you dey talk is painful I swear.. allow the widow to marry this guy he has a good point period,, you need to go out there and see how this kind matter scattered families.. shes very young to remarry if she wants but I will advice her to marry him but he has to meet his father discus it with him then his father will invite the elders into the matter very simple.
See in big head! So many insane people on our streets and families
He confessed
It's this boy that killed the brother in other to marry his wife from the way the he is sounding.
Young man it appears you know what killed your brother. Why can’t you look for someone else 😢
Must it be so all the time, this is always a common saying and you are no less different from feeble minds, you've joined the band wagon of people who accuses others without prove. So it is better to your view for an outsider to father his brothers children when he could possibly keep her in the family if she accepts his proposal so that he will take care of her and his brothers children.
He sick
let her marry him because if she gets married to another man he may not see the children as his own likewise the other boy gets married to another woman she may not take the children as her own
This, acting is poor
That young man is evil. May be he has his hand in what happened to his brother. No atom of remorse, no emotion. Listen to him saying “my brother don die, e don die, nothing go bring am back”.
Joy, just mourn your husband, and find a good life somewhere else. He already started pushing her and the kids by stopping the support. Evil human being. He looks like a wife beater.
His ancestors will judge him.
Joy if you sleep with him you will be seeing your late husband. You’re too young to get stuck in same circle. That guy Isreal is bad news.
The Lord is your strength my dear. It’s well.
Well its not bad if you love her and wants to marry her and it is good you made your intention known so she could be pondering over it, but pls just give her like 1year to come over her husband's passing. The way I see her if you continue to show her genuine love I think she will come round with your proposal.
👁️🔥👁️👉I think he had a hands in his brother's death, especially when he says that he had a feelings for her before his brother snatched her first before telling her his feelings ❓
I neva see anything bad in this issue regard is too early the guy is in the right step unless the girl want to remain in the family,remember body no be firewood but is her wish to make
This guy killed the brother sorry dr
This man is wicked and heartless
Some of you are not reasonable before commenting, what wickedness and heartless attitude these have displayed that you have observed in this video. You be Mumu.
The gentleman has done nothing wrong.
Then why did the father-in-law not her time to heal before announcing to her that she can marry if she wants to remarry
Good husband is not easy to find my sister and you already know this brother-in-lae as they say the devil u know is better than the angel you don't know. Think about his proposal we'll and then met your father-in-law to reveal his intention towards you.
You guys can take it up from there.
Nonsense guy!. Is marriage by force?. Find a girl outside!.
Check it out to see if this guy didn't kill his brother to get his wife
There are many women in the world. Why your late brother's wife. Chances are, you might have a hand in your brother's death. Since he has children that's your blood take care of them genuinely. Hod will bless you. But as far as wanting to marry her that's a taboo.
Na you killed your brother ooooo
Nonesense madam content creator what foolishness you yourself talking
Bro you kill your brother to come and marry his wife you are wicked and evil
I really do not see anything this young guy did wrong. He is only respectfully making his intention known. He is willing to give her time to heal and recover. The guy is not wrong at all as long as he is not forcing and pressurizing her.
There is nothing wrong there
What the brother is proposing is in the Biblical and ordained by God Himself - Gen. 38:6-11
. The only problem I see here is what was articulated by the hostess, that he should give her more time to mourn her husband. Probably a year. Because really now, who is better able to take care of those children than her husband's brother?
One ❤ out of JamRock 🇯🇲!